Yess!!! This message was so needed. I'm at a point in life now where I'm exhausted. Tired of chasing and waiting on people and their head games. I just can't anymore. I had to let many people go and move on. It's refreshing not having to try so hard anymore!
I love your channel Sarah!!! & you are right, we can’t be out out sweatin’ and lookin’ desperate. LOL. Love you!!!! And thank you I needed to hear this. 🙏🏽
This video was helpful. I've always been the type of person to sort demand mutual respect from people that are in my life whether that be friends or family. But this year I told myslef that Im not going out of my way to try and maintain any relationships with certain individuals who clearly dont care enough. Case In point I had someone approach me and tell me how much they were attracted to me. We had a conversation, we exhanged numbers, hung out etc. and not even a week later I'ved been left on read. No call no text back! Normally I would reach out to just say hey are you okay what's going on but NOPE! Im not doing that anymore. Communication works both ways it's not that hard.
I had a friend at work I become close with. It’s hard for me to make new friends and I was so happy she seemed interested to be my friend. She quit six months after she started and I told her I was worried she was going to forget me. She said she wasn’t going anywhere. Since she quit I’m the one reaching out. I’m the one asking to hang out. I feel like an idiot. So I’ve stopped . I haven’t heard from her in 2 weeks. And I haven’t seen her in well over a month.
I needed this right now, I'm glad videos like this exist cuz we don't learn these stuff in schools... Love how expressive you are!! You have a great personality 🖤❤️
This always happens with me and friendships and although I still like the person, I'm just ending up getting hurt in the process :'( You're right, Sarah, I need to practice self respect.
def done, mamas! i did all the chasing i could do, and now im healing, and finding self love, girl sometimes he would like me, some days he didnt.. very wishy washy... and sadly hes my damn mail delivery guy lol i hurry and go inside when i see him lol.@@SarahLyoness
You're right. I don't like one sided nonsense. There needs to be a balance of energy. You are exotic oh my. You kind of have the Chili TLC look. I won't chase you though take your advice haha. Thanks for great share.
I'm a gamer that's my way of coping with depression and I play with a group of guys and I have a friend I play with but regardless this group rarely invites me to play and they are a clan and they talk about recruiting my cousin yet my cousin told me to kill myself , talks down on me and etc and the whole time everyone vibes and talks and steady ignore me I repeat myself multiple times and I feel like they don't want to listen to me one guy I played with for 6 years lost his dad to sucicide and we bonded cause he motivated me but even with him I don't get no support overall it sucks then in reality I have an on and off again best friend but if I want to hang she says I'm a day late, ghost me and it sucks so what to do to get feelings out cause it shows friends wise I have nobody
Don't hang out with people that bring you down like that. You don't deserve that. Jesus loves you. Start by making Him your best friend and gaining confidence in Him.
When people treat you like they don't care.. believe them they don't.
So true!! We need to stop trying to convince them to care!
Thank you
I had to learn this! Because I was chasing and it made me look needy and never again!!
Yess!!! This message was so needed. I'm at a point in life now where I'm exhausted. Tired of chasing and waiting on people and their head games. I just can't anymore. I had to let many people go and move on. It's refreshing not having to try so hard anymore!
Exactly! 🙌🏾
I’m done with people I’ve chased after love for the longest time and I’m now a mom alone so I think I’m done with people .
Thank you I really needed this I've been given out way to much energy while no one ever cared so thank you
Protect thy Energy at all cost...I rarely chase my liquor
Great advice!
I love your channel Sarah!!! & you are right, we can’t be out out sweatin’ and lookin’ desperate. LOL. Love you!!!! And thank you I needed to hear this. 🙏🏽
yass!! and thank you so much!! 🤗
This video was helpful. I've always been the type of person to sort demand mutual respect from people that are in my life whether that be friends or family. But this year I told myslef that Im not going out of my way to try and maintain any relationships with certain individuals who clearly dont care enough. Case In point I had someone approach me and tell me how much they were attracted to me. We had a conversation, we exhanged numbers, hung out etc. and not even a week later I'ved been left on read. No call no text back! Normally I would reach out to just say hey are you okay what's going on but NOPE! Im not doing that anymore. Communication works both ways it's not that hard.
I had a friend at work I become close with. It’s hard for me to make new friends and I was so happy she seemed interested to be my friend. She quit six months after she started and I told her I was worried she was going to forget me. She said she wasn’t going anywhere. Since she quit I’m the one reaching out. I’m the one asking to hang out. I feel like an idiot. So I’ve stopped . I haven’t heard from her in 2 weeks. And I haven’t seen her in well over a month.
You're not an idiot. I understand. You just really liked her and that's not a bad thing. You did right to fall back. It wasn't for you. It's ok.
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Agreed love this. ✨❤️✨
I needed this right now, I'm glad videos like this exist cuz we don't learn these stuff in schools... Love how expressive you are!! You have a great personality 🖤❤️
Thank you so much! And yes we definitely needed this type of stuff to be taught in schools growing up!
This always happens with me and friendships and although I still like the person, I'm just ending up getting hurt in the process :'(
You're right, Sarah, I need to practice self respect.
So basically chasing implies it is one sided? Nobody should be chasing anyone. It should be reciprocated.
Yes that’s how I think of it! It should definitely be reciprocated!
@@SarahLyoness How can I contact you?
Thank youuuu
This is the truth 100%!
I really really needed this! I chased a man and I did all the reaching out, I had to back up!
Girl I still struggle with taking this advice! I just had to stop myself from chasing another man 😩 I’m done!
def done, mamas! i did all the chasing i could do, and now im healing, and finding self love, girl sometimes he would like me, some days he didnt.. very wishy washy... and sadly hes my damn mail delivery guy lol i hurry and go inside when i see him lol.@@SarahLyoness
Real talk…
Learning it is what it is ...
I knew this msg was for me when I saw we had the same nail polish lol
You're right. I don't like one sided nonsense. There needs to be a balance of energy.
You are exotic oh my. You kind of have the Chili TLC look. I won't chase you though take your advice haha.
Thanks for great share.
Is going back to old friends still chasing people? I really miss them so im trying to reach out to them right now
Move on its gonna be the same thing over again
I'm a gamer that's my way of coping with depression and I play with a group of guys and I have a friend I play with but regardless this group rarely invites me to play and they are a clan and they talk about recruiting my cousin yet my cousin told me to kill myself , talks down on me and etc and the whole time everyone vibes and talks and steady ignore me I repeat myself multiple times and I feel like they don't want to listen to me one guy I played with for 6 years lost his dad to sucicide and we bonded cause he motivated me but even with him I don't get no support overall it sucks then in reality I have an on and off again best friend but if I want to hang she says I'm a day late, ghost me and it sucks so what to do to get feelings out cause it shows friends wise I have nobody
Don't hang out with people that bring you down like that. You don't deserve that. Jesus loves you. Start by making Him your best friend and gaining confidence in Him.