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  • In this episode of "Minutes With" we sat down with a Prison Guard to learn what life is truly like on the inside.
    Neil talks about being the one prisoner who got under his skin, what it's like to be surrounded by murderers every day and the one time he felt truly in danger.
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  • @LADbible
    @LADbible  Před 2 lety +192

    If you want to hear more check out Neil's Channel here: czcams.com/users/RealPorridgePodcast

    • @victoriaroberts822
      @victoriaroberts822 Před 2 lety +4

      nice 14 likes

    • @ClarrybellaBoobies
      @ClarrybellaBoobies Před 2 lety +8

      Please give the interviewer a mic.

    • @darrenbaird989
      @darrenbaird989 Před 2 lety +2

      I like Sam's podcast

    • @utilitarian
      @utilitarian Před 2 lety +3

      Thanks for this contribution. An interesting perspective on prison life. Psychiatrists can be a pain in the arse because "they know best" even though we know how changes affect us!

    • @leemarvinhitchmanciaratell3450
      @leemarvinhitchmanciaratell3450 Před 2 lety

      Sam had an heart attack this weekend - fell ill on Saturday …

  • @RealPorridgePodcast
    @RealPorridgePodcast Před 2 lety +4021

    cheers for the kind comments guys, not good either side of the door right now! wishing everyone all the very best!

    • @pibloackbar5420
      @pibloackbar5420 Před 2 lety +42

      Can't believe they've described you as a 'guard'.

    • @MichaelJones-hp3kl
      @MichaelJones-hp3kl Před 2 lety +11

      @@pibloackbar5420 normally I think they do it for the title trying not to offend the guest in anyway. However I see how it can come off as rude

    • @dannye3325
      @dannye3325 Před 2 lety +28

      Brilliant interview mate

    • @terryeagle6321
      @terryeagle6321 Před 2 lety +30

      @@pibloackbar5420 it was literally his job title?

    • @terryeagle6321
      @terryeagle6321 Před 2 lety +78

      @@MichaelJones-hp3kl rude in what way? Its literally in his fucking job title you helmet 😂

  • @emilykeepsmiling9465
    @emilykeepsmiling9465 Před rokem +271

    I can't believe the trainee guard left him being attacked to quit the job. I understand if she was concerned for her safety and couldn't get involved, but to legit just run away and leave him there without even sounding the alarm!! That's disgusting! This was an amazing interview. He spoke with such dignity and respect about a job that must be incredibly hard to do.

    • @matin2825
      @matin2825 Před rokem +32

      She should get charges for that!

    • @emilykeepsmiling9465
      @emilykeepsmiling9465 Před rokem +16

      @@matin2825 totally agree with you. Like yes, her safety was important, of course. But so was his!!!!!

    • @danmilo328
      @danmilo328 Před rokem +18

      its a job women shouldnt have honestly

    • @skelettonr9831
      @skelettonr9831 Před rokem +7

      Lad, i don't know you and i dont know what you've been trough but i wanna tell you this:
      If you never experienced this situation or a situation like this, just shut your fingers please.

    • @emilykeepsmiling9465
      @emilykeepsmiling9465 Před rokem +1

      @@skelettonr9831 who are you saying that to?

  • @Kev621
    @Kev621 Před 2 lety +2052

    As an ex-guard, one of my stories that sticks with me is, after a couple of weeks working there...I remember having a female guard with me monitoring around 80 inmates. I fight broke out while I was among them (they were in one big dorm, no cells), when the fight started...the warden radio'd me to break it up...soon as I went to get up...an inmate got close to me and stopped me with his body, leaned in and said "don't do it"...the fight was to lure me in so they could harm me. Gave me a reality check on what the fuck am I doing here...this is not a job for me. And no way should a female under 110lbs be assisting me among these individuals.

    • @Kev621
      @Kev621 Před 2 lety +7

      @George Clutton Most importantly, ___________________________, but ________________. Also, _____________. Best knowledge I can give.

    • @Kev621
      @Kev621 Před 2 lety +7

      @George Clutton No he would not, cause he does not represent me... There's much more before he came around. If that's what you were waiting for...I could've saved you the trouble.

    • @georgina-a
      @georgina-a Před 2 lety +371

      @@Kev621 You must have been well respected by that inmate for him to risk himself to give you a heads-up like that. Fair play.

    • @acesn8s89
      @acesn8s89 Před 2 lety +169

      In fairness I’ve met female guards who could kick ass with the best of them.
      But yeah, anyone, male or female, needs to be trained and able to support their coworkers in those types of jobs.

    • @hellothere-dw3sf
      @hellothere-dw3sf Před 2 lety +17

      @C Man i can't tell if you're trolling or if being a bouncer has genuinely just elevated your ego that high
      why's your name c man

  • @itsalexbruh95
    @itsalexbruh95 Před 2 lety +1039

    "The two cleaners sorted them out, as it were"
    In other words, the cleaners gave them a right kicking. Can tell this officer was in general well respected

    • @RealPorridgePodcast
      @RealPorridgePodcast Před 2 lety +109

      Both one punch merchants mate, I'm still in touch with one of them too.

    • @itsalexbruh95
      @itsalexbruh95 Před 2 lety +34

      @@RealPorridgePodcast oh wow, got a reply from you! Love your channel, did a little time myself a few years back and have no end of respect for the "old school" officers such as yourself. You come across as one of the old school to me anyway haha!

    • @RealPorridgePodcast
      @RealPorridgePodcast Před 2 lety +14

      @@itsalexbruh95 I was self employed mate😎😁

    • @tensemurm5924
      @tensemurm5924 Před 2 lety +5

      @Shmavid Shmowie They got battered, basically.

    • @eagleeye5943
      @eagleeye5943 Před 2 lety +4

      Karma without delay😂

  • @joshuagarcia3499
    @joshuagarcia3499 Před 2 lety +1971

    Crazy how two prisoners on cleaning duty did more to help than than an actual guard.

    • @hoodlumpriest8955
      @hoodlumpriest8955 Před 2 lety +9

      Must be nonces

    • @mrslinkydragon9910
      @mrslinkydragon9910 Před 2 lety +94

      @@hoodlumpriest8955 nonces wouldnt be allowed to walk a normal prison. Pribably lifers who just want to stay out of things

    • @clintbeast-bud8119
      @clintbeast-bud8119 Před 2 lety +176

      @@hoodlumpriest8955 idk probably just decent humans, probably thought it was out of line to see a screw getting jumped 2 on 1 for nothing.

    • @buchan448
      @buchan448 Před 2 lety +6

      @@clintbeast-bud8119 agreed

    • @hoodlumpriest8955
      @hoodlumpriest8955 Před 2 lety +4

      @@clintbeast-bud8119 decent humans ok that's why they mopping the wing in the ways

  • @camptube7621
    @camptube7621 Před 2 lety +1120

    I did 23 years in this job. I am now suffering from ptsd. Officers are ignored and have no after care. They just sack them as soon as they get ill or fit them up.

    • @radcow
      @radcow Před 2 lety +51

      I can't belive anyone does the job I wouldn't do it for £150000 a year and I'm not even joking and now they pay peanuts also no offence to you but job attracts some very strange people however there are good people who do the job however for me nothing would be worth the amount of stress
      Ps I hope you get the help you need after 23 years of service

    • @camptube7621
      @camptube7621 Před 2 lety +69

      @@radcow thank you my friend. I finally got help after early ending it all. I now help ex servicemen from all services get the help. I joined as a young man who came from nothing and earned me a good wage. However over the years, with government cuts continuing, the places became unsafe and unmanageable. I saw too many prisoners and staff maimed. Suicides of both through the roof. Serious mental health victims just locked behind a door because there is no funding to help them. This is very much a hidden scandal because it is behind a big wall. I admire videos like this as it gets the attention it deserves. He is right on everything he says. We don’t rehabilitate, we just contain. God bless.

    • @mattyy101
      @mattyy101 Před 2 lety +5

      Id you choose to take a job that is taking peoples freedoms away then deal with it.

    • @nevadag606
      @nevadag606 Před 2 lety +22

      mattyy101 prison officers watch over the populations violent offenders, armed robbers, rapists, gang members, murderers. Unfortunately the judicial system is fucked and people who sold a little weed are in jail because the law was stupid, and POC get extra long sentences for things the white men get 6mo for. There are bad officers in there yeah, but from the conditions they work under it makes sense that it brings out the bad in some. Prisons should be rehabilitation centers(except for the aforementioned rapists, murderers),but capitalism makes it so that the prison systems benefit from high recidivism rates.

    • @Smudgedoodle1978
      @Smudgedoodle1978 Před 2 lety +29

      I did 14yrs service, it was shit towards the end, although I was on dogs the last 4yrs, management are incompetent pricks who don’t give a fuck about their staff & the majority of the new staff are just kids with no life experience, don’t have your back & sadly a lot of them will stab you in the back to climb the ladder quicker…….I haven’t regretted leaving, it’s not the same job anymore & it’s getting worse!

  • @DC65DC
    @DC65DC Před 2 lety +2656

    The first 25 seconds is him describing me after a 10 day bender 😂

  • @notme1345
    @notme1345 Před 2 lety +1631

    I was one of the few where jail actually changed me.. it wasn't being in prison that was a walk in the park I can actually see why people go back time and time again. For me it was being around fucking idiots that made me realise I'm not as bad as I thought i was and I actually had a chance in life. That was 10yrs ago now I'm a business and multiple home owner married and have a young daughter 🙏

    • @Froggy77100
      @Froggy77100 Před 2 lety +68

      It's not that easy for so many. Be proud of yourself! 🙏🏽

    • @oligodfrey
      @oligodfrey Před 2 lety +79

      That's exactly what happened to Me, prison is easy, full of wannabe hard men who are scared of a straightener acting like kids. Living in dream worlds. Did my time, come home had a family never looked back

    • @Gallowglass7
      @Gallowglass7 Před 2 lety +26

      Congratz brother, very impressive, hats off!

    • @No-tv3nr
      @No-tv3nr Před 2 lety +25

      Man I feel absolutely everything you say there.been there done it and couldn’t agree more.changed me for the right reasons .absolute respect from me👊🏻

    • @Del-Blanco-Diablo
      @Del-Blanco-Diablo Před 2 lety +29

      Yeah same as me mate, I went away when I was 17 and it changed me for the better I never went back.

  • @oooKsiu
    @oooKsiu Před 2 lety +1901

    One of the most underpaid jobs out there, these guys deserve a lot more for what they do for the society

    • @RealPorridgePodcast
      @RealPorridgePodcast Před 2 lety +18

      Cheers less pay than when I was in the job! Cheers 29000 to 22000.

    • @sodamncutestud2
      @sodamncutestud2 Před 2 lety +16

      I agree. Same with EMT’s

    • @user-ke3jn2ul3n
      @user-ke3jn2ul3n Před 2 lety +11

      ye pretty sad the laziest jobs pay the most

    • @mary-annesade
      @mary-annesade Před 2 lety +6

      @Shmavid Shmowie huh LOL why are you so pressed lmfao and they literally have to guard criminals so how is that nothing to do with society?

    • @robertdore9592
      @robertdore9592 Před 2 lety +7

      They should have armed forces personnel as prison officers.

  • @russman_8887
    @russman_8887 Před 2 lety +27

    I spent 3 years on the job. Initially working with 15-18yr olds. Very violent. Moved on to work with adults. My final shift ironically was Boxing day 2017. I got assaulted quite badly. Badly enough to chuck my keys in and walk out with no idea what the future may hold having turned my back on my job. I drove home traumatised and drove the wrong way around a roundabout purely by accident, but rather from processing the trauma that had just occurred. Leaving was the best thing I ever did. I didnt realise the severity of the impact the job was having on my overall health until I left. A huge weight was lifted knowing I'd never have to enter those gates again. Kudos to the brave Officers still serving with their hands tied behind their back following out the visions of reform that come from those above not having the faintest clue.

  • @Sameoldfitup
    @Sameoldfitup Před 2 lety +289

    “Has it ever struck you that life is all memory, except for the one present moment that goes by you so quick you hardly catch it going?”― Tennessee Williams.

  • @andyb.1643
    @andyb.1643 Před rokem +82

    I was an officer in a prison in the US for a number of years, and spent most of that time in the Disciplinary Segregation and Mental Health pods there. This gentleman tells it like it is- listening to him immediately brought back to me the feelings he attempts to describe. Imagine being in charge of a body of men who can’t be trusted for a second for years at a stretch. Not all of them want to see you hurt or killed, but none of them can lift a finger to help you when things go south. Or dealing on a face to face basis with people who have done unspeakable things to innocent and helpless victims, knowing they would gladly do it again if given the opportunity, even to you. The stress is unbelievable, and creeps up on you incrementally until you are nearly as messed up as those you have to deal with. This is why so many Correctional Officers are divorced, alcoholic, unstable people. The thing is, after a few years, the only people you can relate to are your fellow officers. The public has no idea what we go through on their behalf, and don’t care.

    • @tr7b410
      @tr7b410 Před rokem

      I watched a op-ed about a drug dealer who was busted in India & to get a lighter- easier sentence faked a mental illness.She was chucked into a mental institution & within 1 year was actually mentally ill.
      Point is,the psychic energy of the people around you does influence you at the subconscious level.

    • @alisas3585
      @alisas3585 Před rokem +4

      Andy B,
      There are some who care. God bless you sir, and thank you so much for what you do….I honestly had no idea what it’s like to do this kind of job before i saw this video and read the comments. It levels me. Praying for you, truly ❤️🙏🏻

    • @CharmSchool_Reject
      @CharmSchool_Reject Před rokem +1

      More reason to change how we house and treat prisoners

  • @bhimbonggames3206
    @bhimbonggames3206 Před 2 lety +288

    Prison guards, police officers, paramedics and firefighters are exposed to high rates of traumatic events and many develop PTSD. Thank you to them alm for their service. They deserve all the respect in the world.

    • @athelstan927
      @athelstan927 Před 2 lety +2

      Possibly prison guards.. the rest are as protected .. and have a great job.. with very little threat relative to other jobs..

    • @leecountffl9826
      @leecountffl9826 Před 2 lety +6

      You forgot us Soldiers, thank you.

    • @hj8837
      @hj8837 Před 2 lety +2

      Prison officer here - Thank you 👍🏻

    • @leecountffl9826
      @leecountffl9826 Před rokem +1

      @@athelstan927 I'm a Soldier trust me being shot the shit out of ain't much fun.

    • @johnsmith-ik8il
      @johnsmith-ik8il Před rokem +3

      Some of them expose people to all sorts of abuse themselves. Quite a lot infact.

  • @johnporter8896
    @johnporter8896 Před 2 lety +32

    I had a horrible time as a prison officer. It’s been 14 years and even after years of counselling I still have nightmares about the things I saw. The British prison system is broken as it can’t even look after it’s staff.

  • @xXXTigiGitiXxx
    @xXXTigiGitiXxx Před 2 lety +84

    What a lovely fellow officer walking out of the situation without even pressing the alarm 🤦🏼‍♀️ Got to be a joy working with people like her.

    • @mjef3695
      @mjef3695 Před 2 lety +2

      She could have been in shock.

  • @Alanhock75
    @Alanhock75 Před 2 lety +192

    Cleaners helped me out on numerous occasions, they were worth their weight in gold

    • @RealPorridgePodcast
      @RealPorridgePodcast Před 2 lety +10

      indeed alan!

    • @DarkWandererAU
      @DarkWandererAU Před 2 lety +3

      So the cleaners are just prisoners who are on the path to rehabilitation basically? That's why they step in and help out....?

    • @Alanhock75
      @Alanhock75 Před 2 lety +15

      @@DarkWandererAU not really rehabilitation but trusted guys, usually with a bit of clout on the wing, not easily intimidated.I suppose we use them as they do us

    • @DarkWandererAU
      @DarkWandererAU Před 2 lety +2

      @@Alanhock75 Give a long to get a long kind of situation

    • @Alanhock75
      @Alanhock75 Před 2 lety +9

      @@DarkWandererAU the cleaners got perks,they usually weren’t locked up over the dinner and tea hour, they had free roam of the wing which probably suited them.If they were giving the food out they got the better picks amid extra,so there was a lot in it for them.I know that some would watch your back and come to your aid if it looked a bit dodgy for you.I was usually on first name terms so you generally had a good relationship with them.My wife worked in the same jail ,if inmates were giving her any grief, I’d use the cleaners to have a word, it was much more effective than me getting involved

  • @Alicia-nb9rp
    @Alicia-nb9rp Před rokem +12

    My dad did this job for maybe under a year, he worked with younger boys. He told me so many stories and I wondered how he coped with such abuse. He was stabbed in the hand with a shank and took some time off. My dad his huge strong man and you’d think they can handle it but my dad never went back, he realised it wasn’t worth being stabbed, beaten up and strangled especially as a family man

  • @scrimdog1
    @scrimdog1 Před 2 lety +137

    Being an ex con myself, that last sentence he uttered rings very true. Great interview and much respect to this guy.

    • @lewissmith3896
      @lewissmith3896 Před 2 lety +3

      Good to hear you have changed.

    • @scumbaag
      @scumbaag Před rokem +1

      This guy is for sure a good one. Hard to find in there. Take it easy bro.

  • @j0nnyism
    @j0nnyism Před 2 lety +515

    When they hurt children then they deserve capital punishment.

    • @justandy333
      @justandy333 Před 2 lety +55

      Take the children aspect out of the equation for a second, and lets focus on the capital punishment bit. Im firmly against capital punishment in any way shape or form, simply because our justice system isn't perfect and innocent people DO slip through the cracks. Once you've had them executed, that's it. A dead person can't defend themselves.
      If you can make our justice system 100% bullet proof in convicting the correct person, then I might consider coming back to the discussion.

    • @jdoc198467
      @jdoc198467 Před 2 lety +28

      If a member of the public doesn't have a right to take a life, the law shouldn't either. I'd rather let them rot for life, full life not a 25 year "life" sentence.

    • @jesse9496
      @jesse9496 Před 2 lety +12

      @Bryan G was that the Syrian refugee who murder Melissa in burnaby? The 9 year Old?
      When DNA can without a shadow of a doubt confirm guilt. Death by starvation, then get whacked by all the family and friends of the deceased sound fare to me.

    • @JosephRawsthorne31
      @JosephRawsthorne31 Před 2 lety +1

      @@justandy333 well said, I would also add that two wrongs doesn’t make a right.

    • @bartman9400
      @bartman9400 Před 2 lety +10

      I hate the way the criminals still have human rights in a very same way that the people they kill or harm have or had the exact same rights but didn’t give a F about them. But hey got look after the criminals hey. Politicians are you listening ahhh F the politicians.

  • @tara34952
    @tara34952 Před 2 lety +365

    What a brave, brave man. Thankyou for your service in doing this extremely tough job that most people could not or would not do. It must really take guts, commitment and courage to do that kind of job.

    • @RealPorridgePodcast
      @RealPorridgePodcast Před 2 lety +12

      Very kind, not sure about brave, but it is and can be a tough gig! Cheers

    • @sosacooper6098
      @sosacooper6098 Před 2 lety +2

      He didn’t do it for u and this is not his video

    • @modestrocker1
      @modestrocker1 Před rokem

      should watch videos about all the people in his position abusing their power - hes one of the good ones which there are few of

  • @meg2231
    @meg2231 Před 2 lety +31

    he seems like a very intelligent and honest man. he really has what i would say is the perfect temperament for a highly skilled prison guard. somebody who can hold their own if needed but at the same time thoughtful and kind

  • @608Ralphy
    @608Ralphy Před 2 lety +47

    As someone who's been behind bars this man is a good guy. The last part is so true. Locking people up and throwing away the key is not the answer for victimless crimes.

  • @edone1231
    @edone1231 Před 2 lety +283

    I think keeping "them" (hard core killers/pedophiles) locked up is more important than rehabilitating them.

    • @nevadag606
      @nevadag606 Před 2 lety +65

      Those are the worst of the worst crimes, people who steal, vandalize, sell drugs, should be rehabilitated not sentenced to extreme sentences in places, that as we hear time and time again from inmates and officers, are horrifying and damaging to mental health and social functioning.

    • @Botix330
      @Botix330 Před 2 lety +20

      nah, electric chair immediatly

    • @nevadag606
      @nevadag606 Před 2 lety +32

      But you’re right, pedophiles, rapists and murderers can just be executed, if they’re deemed guilty 100%. Which is why we need to fix our judicial system so that the rate of incorrect sentencings is 0. People who blatantly choose to rip away someone’s right to their own body or kill, don’t need to be fed with tax payer dollars.

    • @Botix330
      @Botix330 Před 2 lety +10

      @@nevadag606 of course only if its 100% proven, get rid of the scum

    • @aMokeyMokey
      @aMokeyMokey Před 2 lety +2

      @@Botix330 How fucking stupid is this view when you can donate their bodies to inhumane science or set them up with a dead mans switch in the army. Offing them is lazy and unproductive.

  • @welshed
    @welshed Před 2 lety +113

    Seems like a top bloke. I hope he is able to find real peace and closure one day.

  • @Tobbe_S
    @Tobbe_S Před 2 lety +148

    He seems like such a nice guy.

    • @RealPorridgePodcast
      @RealPorridgePodcast Před 2 lety +11

      thank you very kind!

    • @yorambo2857
      @yorambo2857 Před 2 lety +1

      @@RealPorridgePodcast your a legend for doing this kind of stuff, i wouldnt dare step into a prison because im a wimp aha

  • @606uzi
    @606uzi Před 2 lety +141

    Complete Respect for this Guy.
    It's a tough job to be in and my bet is that the pay doesn't match the risks involved with the job.

    • @RealPorridgePodcast
      @RealPorridgePodcast Před 2 lety +7

      very kind mate cheers!

    • @mrsb3650
      @mrsb3650 Před 2 lety +7

      They've changed the pay structure in recent years, obviously to the detriment of new officers going in. I think the starting salary is around 21 grand to about 24. Who on earth would put themselves in harm's way every single day for the same money you can get in an office?
      It takes a special kind of person to get up every day and go into their 'office' not knowing what they're going to face. Physical violence against officers happens every day, and when they're physically fit they have to go back to work and face those cons again. The toll on their mental health is enormous. Several members of my family are serving or retired. I don't know how they do it.

    • @wendyladybug355laurie4
      @wendyladybug355laurie4 Před 2 lety +1

      @@mrsb3650 MANY PRAYERSNLUV, My Husband Did This For Awhile While Waiting TO Get Hired On As A FireFighter.Many PRAYERSNLUV To ALL Who Do This Job.May God Bless ALL WWG1WGA PRAYERSNLUV 👼👼✝️✝️

    • @kieranarcher3601
      @kieranarcher3601 Před 2 lety +1

      @@mrsb3650 wow is that the pay , that’s shocking I double that with no risk to my health or safety, that’s tuff 😏

    • @fredflintstoner596
      @fredflintstoner596 Před 2 lety

      @@mrsb3650 PEOPLE WHO WERE BULLIED AT SCHOOL

  • @derbyct864
    @derbyct864 Před 2 lety +22

    Great interview. Guy isnt arrogant cocky or telling the story like its a action movie to impress. He humbly tells his experience. I appreciate that and find it an honest straightforward interview

  • @magicdaisies5242
    @magicdaisies5242 Před 2 lety +47

    This is what I love about CZcams, we get real stories from real people. I know a guy who works as an officer and has been stabbed by an inmate! So scary the risks these people go through everyday.

  • @Bawbag0110
    @Bawbag0110 Před 2 lety +10

    My dad was a prison officer in a notorious Category A prison..he said it takes so determination not to let what some people have done effect how you do your job..He once had a prisoner who had killed his wife and drowned their baby in a bucket of water..when he asked why he said "Because I wanted to"

  • @LilFoxyCosplay
    @LilFoxyCosplay Před 2 lety +8

    My late grandad was a prison officer he was so scary people would avoid him but I only knew him as the nicest person ever
    It was fascinating hearing stories of the inside and was enough to keep me on the straight and narrow!

  • @jengrace26
    @jengrace26 Před 2 lety +31

    I've read his book, this is the first time seeing a face to face interview with him. Its really eye opening what goes on in these prisons. He gives further details on the stories mentioned and its a really good read. Good guy, horrible experiences but he's still got such compassion and care.

  • @swingingingerplums
    @swingingingerplums Před rokem +7

    god bless you mate I've been behind the door UK and the decent staff are unsung heroes

  • @underratedunity1528
    @underratedunity1528 Před 2 lety +295

    That story about the pensioner is the most disgusting thing I've ever heard

    • @RealPorridgePodcast
      @RealPorridgePodcast Před 2 lety +20

      Evil!

    • @vicentetrigo9476
      @vicentetrigo9476 Před 2 lety +17

      I was like "oh not so bad, he killed an old man and robbed him...oh, nope, he had sex w the corpse, imma vomit now" (not so bad -- means - nothing out of the ordinary for a derranged psycopath, I'm not saying killing is not so bad)

    • @underratedunity1528
      @underratedunity1528 Před 2 lety +25

      @@vicentetrigo9476 but the worst was that he kept coming back to the scene even up to weeks later to continue doing it! It's literally the worst thing I've ever heard of in my life

    • @cavanbond6359
      @cavanbond6359 Před 2 lety +5

      @@underratedunity1528 there’s worse out there real scum

    • @originalunoriginal4055
      @originalunoriginal4055 Před 2 lety +3

      @@RealPorridgePodcast hope your employer's contribute towards some PTSD treatment costs after your experience in the job! Because, for sure being exposed to such gruesome experience, will string along with you! It's not something you can simply pick up and leave behind on your way out of the workplace! And for sure doesn't have an expiration date or somewhat to your relief; only starts popping up in your head from the time you clock in at work until you clock out!

  • @adambuss654
    @adambuss654 Před 2 lety +38

    Need more people and more support for PO's like this guy!

  • @metroplexchl
    @metroplexchl Před 2 lety +3

    I know it is hard to hear. But you're a hero. Not the celebrity or athlete type of hero. A true hero that sacrifices a lifetime for our culture.
    Thank you. Seriously.

  • @Exceler376
    @Exceler376 Před 2 lety +63

    That's a very moving and intense testimony from the Prison Guard. I have only respect for him as he put himself at risk physically and psychologically to help prisoners. Thank you sir!

  • @jamesmcmurrough3811
    @jamesmcmurrough3811 Před 2 lety +23

    Watched this bloke on countless podcasts, doesn't fail to entertain

  • @globally123
    @globally123 Před 2 lety +4

    Thanks for sharing, and giving us all an insight to the service. I wish you the very best of mental health mate.

  • @wonkysfishingtales
    @wonkysfishingtales Před 2 lety +67

    I remember the first day walking on the unit. Lots of gang members etc….. I actually got on quite well with all the prisoners because I treated them as human beings and tried to help them as some will be released into society where my children are and I wanted them to be decent members of society. My biggest problem was other officers, I couldn’t tolerate the constant back stabbing just to climb the ladder so I went back into private security, it was a great shame as I loved the job.

    • @pl8998
      @pl8998 Před 2 lety +1

      No

    • @Noise_floorxx
      @Noise_floorxx Před 2 lety +4

      I worked at a prison as well and think about the inmates often, despite only working there a few months. The prison was max security so they were sex offenders and murderers but they were not nearly as difficult to deal with as the staff. Geeeeze it was bad.

  • @truey3565
    @truey3565 Před 2 lety +26

    "i looked on the computer to see what hes in for"
    "somebody found out what hes in for" 😄

  • @undercoverrimmer183
    @undercoverrimmer183 Před 2 lety +18

    I worked in a prison doing the air conditioning and we walked through the general population! And I couldn’t even begin to imagine being a guard there!

    • @johnniethepom2905
      @johnniethepom2905 Před 2 lety +1

      I'd have thought with a name like that , you might have wanted to stay overnight . I'm sure some of the lads could have accommodated you !

  • @highroadtohell
    @highroadtohell Před 2 lety +8

    This series is great - keep them coming Lad Bible 👏 So interesting.

  • @angieryan2544
    @angieryan2544 Před rokem +1

    How refreshing is it to hear all sides of the story! Hats off to you mate for sharing such an incredible inspirational story! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @jessicaferrari1763
    @jessicaferrari1763 Před 2 lety

    That was a great interview. Thank you for sharing.

  • @davidknight8172
    @davidknight8172 Před rokem +4

    Respect to this guy.
    I wish him all the best.

  • @Elmwood-ze3cr
    @Elmwood-ze3cr Před 2 lety +3

    Brilliant interview Sam , your a genuine bloke that speaks the truth from the heart , FFS when will the Government wake up and take the advice of someone like yourself and sort the Prison system out, its a revolving door for some lads/lasses that unless they are rehabilitated they will continue to go in and out of Prisons all their lives

  • @akilagun1
    @akilagun1 Před 2 lety +1

    A great insight from a very well spoken and quiet frank Ex Prison Guard.
    An excellent watch for anyone and everyone.

  • @SGTRIP-dh7fz
    @SGTRIP-dh7fz Před 2 lety +10

    Being in a similar line of work I respect the hell out of this man. The type of prisoners he had to deal with on a daily basis takes a special person (prisoners or not) some compassion is needed even when you don't want to give it. The two cleaners could've taken their time in helping him during his assault but didn't
    from the way it sounds...respect goes a long way and is not easy to earn in his line of work. Respect to you sir!

  • @aegeanbo
    @aegeanbo Před 2 lety +17

    Thank you for a great interview. Anyone with a little empathy can tell that most of the prisoners have had a background of traumatic experience. Those attending to them also often end up with PTSD. Society has not found a way to handle this huge issue yet. We call the prisons correctional institutions, but we mostly have failed.
    All we have learned from psychology have not taught us how to handle this huge social/psychological problem.

  • @plutoniumcoreuk
    @plutoniumcoreuk Před rokem +3

    I did two years on a Health Care wing as a Prison Officer of a category A High Risk Prison working with the worst of the worst. Some were mentally I’ll others were dealing with substance abuse. I fully understand we’re this gentleman is coming from, I have seen and dealt with things I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy. I have had inmates come to my assistance on one occasion whilst being assaulted by a lad who was trying to bite me in the neck. I eventually left after one incident involving a 15 year old lad hanging himself, It was just another waste of a young life and the final straw for me.

  • @NewArchipelago
    @NewArchipelago Před 2 lety +1

    These are all so good! Great format, just the right length too.

  • @alexpn_
    @alexpn_ Před 2 lety

    These videos are amazing and fascinating! Superb work LADbible

  • @MasterCleife
    @MasterCleife Před 2 lety +3

    I live a few miles away from where Mark Bridger lived. I'm so sorry to hear that he wasn't the one to take a dumbbell in the face.

  • @ohladin7822
    @ohladin7822 Před 2 lety +6

    Great questions great answers great interview

  • @pablodavies414
    @pablodavies414 Před 2 lety

    The man is a true gentleman and has helped me massively

  • @dellzyog2340
    @dellzyog2340 Před 2 lety

    thank god we got people like this and what a hard job to do you can feel the hard time he's gone though

  • @BuffaloBilly69
    @BuffaloBilly69 Před 2 lety +7

    There he is! The man himself. Keep on smashing it Sam 👊🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿👊🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿👊

  • @rhinostacey7741
    @rhinostacey7741 Před 2 lety +3

    One of the best ones I’ve ever seen

  • @psychshell4644
    @psychshell4644 Před 2 lety +1

    Great insight

  • @davidfalconer9281
    @davidfalconer9281 Před 2 lety

    He sounds like a good calm guy.. I’d bet he was extremely good in his career.. bless him

  • @ElvenSailor_Main
    @ElvenSailor_Main Před 2 lety +6

    ACTUAL moral guards are so underrated. There are some horrible, vile guard out there (many actually) and they're disgusting but for the ones who truly care and want to make a difference, they need to be praised more

  • @tootintel
    @tootintel Před 2 lety +4

    Much respect for this guy

  • @gittinsoutdooradventures5267

    I was once a car thief, drug dealer snd generally not a nice person. I now have a good work ethic and have no intention of going back to prison. This guy is right prison, doesn't offer anything other than meeting new contacts and getting back into crime. I now have a family, own my own home and run my own business. It wasn't until I had a family that I realised things need too change and I'm very proud of the husband and father I've become. That guard who ran off is so typical of a weak person who should not have been there. Big up to the cleaners and I hope they have also changed there lifestyle.

  • @lukeflynn6227
    @lukeflynn6227 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for your service sir!

  • @earth6161
    @earth6161 Před 2 lety +11

    He a good man this fella heard it from many sources and got a great podcast respect to you My friend 👏

  • @mrsimo7144
    @mrsimo7144 Před 2 lety +4

    Legend. Much love to you ❤️

  • @davidforbregd2096
    @davidforbregd2096 Před 2 lety

    Thanks for telling your story!!!

  • @vrccb
    @vrccb Před rokem

    What a wonderful interview. The Guard seems to be a well balanced chap despite everything he has been through.

  • @77moessa
    @77moessa Před 2 lety +81

    Can't believe that female guard just took off and left him.
    Then why did she even apply for it in the first place..?

    • @D-Rizzle653
      @D-Rizzle653 Před 2 lety +7

      Yeah that’s right I thought same thing

    • @brandonharrison7773
      @brandonharrison7773 Před 2 lety +22

      Fight or Flight I suppose. We can’t know what we’ll do till we’re there. She must’ve thought she was tougher than she was.

    • @kennedysan1045
      @kennedysan1045 Před 2 lety +11

      Many women have prisoner romance fantasies.

    • @bankroiii7278
      @bankroiii7278 Před 2 lety +5

      @@kennedysan1045 wtf

    • @kennedysan1045
      @kennedysan1045 Před 2 lety +6

      @@bankroiii7278 check out stories of the number of love letters inmates receive, from complete strangers.... It's quite disturbing

  • @watch_drives_you
    @watch_drives_you Před 2 lety +14

    Beeing a prison guard myself here in germany this is a very interesting video for me.
    The problems seem to be the same no matter what country you're from.
    A senior officer told me years ago that our job is very boring, until it isn't.
    The number of problematic inmates has definitely skyrocketed over the last ten years or so. You have more and more attacks on fellow officers and it starts to show on the overall moral of the staff. It's a very hard thing to leave this problems, the anger and the violence behind you when you head home to your family but everyone has to find a way to do it anyway. Otherwise you don't last long in this job. It seems to work out for me beeing in my 15th year.

    • @Hero101010
      @Hero101010 Před 2 lety +3

      Would you say the spike in violent inmates is related to the increase in immigration from North Africa and the Middle East? Just curious, as it's the case where I'm from.

    • @watch_drives_you
      @watch_drives_you Před 2 lety +3

      @@Hero101010 it's a very unpopular opinion (at least in Germany) but I would definitely say Yes!
      The big wave of refugees that has hit Germany in 2015 definitely plays a big part in the rise of violence.
      I am a K9 Handler and also part of a special unit within the prison that is called when there are situations that are to dangerous for the regular officers. If we have attacks on colleagues or violence between the inmates I would estimate that 90% of the time the inmate responsible for said violence is from some place south of the Mediterranean sea.
      Mostly people from Iraq, Somalia, Syria or Nigeria.
      Don't get me wrong... not all of the inmates from that parts of the world are violent and dangerous, but if we have serious trouble with an inmate it's almost certainly one of them.
      And the quality of resistance and aggression is something that definitely did not exist 10 or 15 years ago.

    • @Hero101010
      @Hero101010 Před 2 lety +4

      @@watch_drives_you It's as I suspected, then. We sadly live in a time where saying the truth or noticing trends is taken as some sort of "-phobia" or "-ism". Thabk you for sharing, and thank you for your service!

    • @samuelj.s3955
      @samuelj.s3955 Před 2 lety +1

      @@watch_drives_you 15 years of service?! Very respect worthy. Are you considered senior management now?

    • @watch_drives_you
      @watch_drives_you Před 2 lety +1

      @@samuelj.s3955 No not really.
      I know that, in the US for example, officers usually don't stay that long. But here in Germany 15 years is nothing special.
      Most colleagues start in their twenties or thirties and stay till retirement at age 62.
      The job is hard... not necessarily on a physical level (although it can be pretty rough some days) but mostly psychologically. But we get paid pretty good and our pension is way above the average in Germany so people usually stay for a long time.

  • @colinnorman9691
    @colinnorman9691 Před 2 lety +1

    What a good man. Just a solid bloke

  • @Shteeve82
    @Shteeve82 Před 2 lety +1

    Great insight, great video. Respect for doing the job. Brave person

  • @raypatterson3808
    @raypatterson3808 Před 2 lety +5

    Real porridge Neil’s podcast is a good watch a honest very humble man

  • @doonewatts7155
    @doonewatts7155 Před 2 lety +5

    Fascinating. Those prisoners were so lucky to have you on their wing. I hope you continue to be well

  • @carolinebaker8548
    @carolinebaker8548 Před 2 lety +2

    These interviews are on point

  • @VAMR-vc7xg
    @VAMR-vc7xg Před 2 lety

    Thanks Patrick. You are right as always.

  • @Twads1867
    @Twads1867 Před 2 lety +6

    Love this guy! Love listening to his tales. My Dad is from the same part of Sheff

  • @SuperYrch
    @SuperYrch Před 2 lety +8

    20 or so years ago, a friend and I were able to get a tour of San Quentin. Keeping a long story short, we ended up in the entry way to the main yard. The entry way was this concrete walkway about 75 feet wide with a wall on three sides, the open side led out into the actual yard. We only walked a few feet in with our guard escort, who was telling us about the yard. On either side of us were small bleachers with some prisoners sitting in them in various groups. Most of the prisoner's were much further away in the yard.
    As we stood there with the guard talking, some of the prisoners started "cat" calling us, saying things like, "hey are you my lawyer?" or "you look nice, come over here." It wasn't too bad at first and our guard did not seem concerned. Initially my head was on a swivel and I was looking at everybody and everything, but as the comments started to come with more frequency and after I made eye contact with a few of the prisoners, I suddenly found myself looking at my feet. I thought to myself, "I wonder what my buddy is doing?" and so I slowly looked up and saw that he too was looking at his feet. I would have laughed, but at that point the guard said, "Okay they are starting to get rowdy, lets leave." I was very happy to get out of there.
    After it was over and we were driving away from the prison, I asked my friend if he had been scared when we were in the yard and he said, "hell yeah I was scared." At that point we both had a good laugh.

    • @Phbalancedshorty
      @Phbalancedshorty Před rokem

      Why were you shown prisoners in a federal prison like it was a zoo?

  • @cancelledmoomin
    @cancelledmoomin Před rokem

    this man has a fantastic way with words

  • @dr.spectre9697
    @dr.spectre9697 Před rokem +1

    PLEASE interview this guy more!!!

  • @MyelinProductions
    @MyelinProductions Před 2 lety +3

    GOD Bless you and thank you for your service. Very sick tragic sad situations for sure. Stay Safe & well. Peace & Health

  • @becksarmour9922
    @becksarmour9922 Před 2 lety +12

    Brilliant this guy, has a great channel with great guests and genuinely cares about ppl... Lovely Man.. Top bloke... ❤️💯🙏🙏

  • @grainnefullbrook3070
    @grainnefullbrook3070 Před rokem

    Much Respect to you 💯🙏

  • @-CLUMSYDIYer-
    @-CLUMSYDIYer- Před 2 lety +2

    Massive respect to you big man!

  • @ShoegazingHammer74
    @ShoegazingHammer74 Před 2 lety +5

    Wish this lad all the best, and thankyou for doing a job that 99% of us would shy away from. Hope he can resolve the mental health issues as best as he can and move on and transpose his clearly fundamental human decency elsewhere.

  • @markberry3494
    @markberry3494 Před 2 lety +10

    Definitely made me change my mind of becoming a prison officer! Couldn't do it ! Fairplay to this man one in a million !

  • @andylewis2076
    @andylewis2076 Před 2 lety

    What a great watch this was, not sure why it was on my recommendations list but I'm glad it was, you sir, have a new sub,

  • @janisgay5507
    @janisgay5507 Před 2 lety

    What an intelligent and compassionate Inman.

  • @jamesmcclean9344
    @jamesmcclean9344 Před 2 lety +7

    This guy has seen it all and love hearing hes storys 👌💪👍

  • @robertrichards6764
    @robertrichards6764 Před 2 lety +94

    It may seem a small thing to those that don't do the job, but they are and I was a prison officer. Guards work in shopping centres, guard does not come close to the training and abilities of the officers.

  • @trianglehouse.bymasoncarpe3398

    Really interesting video, thanks for being so frank.

  • @jimferriter8813
    @jimferriter8813 Před 2 lety +1

    Awesome interview

  • @mankydave67
    @mankydave67 Před 2 lety +3

    Brilliant interview, lovely guy. Impossible job. Not something I could ever imagine doing. Wouldn’t touch it with a barge poll.

  • @DigitalDaffodil
    @DigitalDaffodil Před rokem +4

    That’s insane that after “robbed him” he said “killed him” and that isn’t where the story ends

  • @BOSHDUB
    @BOSHDUB Před 2 lety

    First time watching . Brilliant portrayal of prison life and well presented. New follower 👍👍👍

  • @KierLake
    @KierLake Před 2 lety

    I love these videos always interesting people with mad experiences to tell

  • @savagetabby4931
    @savagetabby4931 Před 2 lety +3

    ...god...hearing this reminds me of being a ward of the state from late 90's to almost mid 00's
    As i've gotten older, just learning how we were damn near trained to be nothing but criminals. It was the staff that cared that saved alot of us.

  • @chrisdenyer6362
    @chrisdenyer6362 Před 2 lety +7

    You are an amazing person . I started at Belmarsh as a officer 4 years ago and I totally agree with your comments on your first day, I felt like I needed to be looking behind me at all times and its very intimidating, most inmates have muscles bigger than mike tyson and want to get in your head. I take my hat off to you for your work, I left after 3 months as felt my stress levels were too high in the houseblocks.

    • @mendezparis8265
      @mendezparis8265 Před 2 lety

      Having muscle don’t mean their can fight looks at Bruce Lee Never show you weakness

    • @chrisdenyer6362
      @chrisdenyer6362 Před 2 lety +1

      @@mendezparis8265 true its the little one in the corner with the shank we have to worry about tbf

    • @mendezparis8265
      @mendezparis8265 Před 2 lety

      @@chrisdenyer6362 real talks 💯

    • @chrisdenyer6362
      @chrisdenyer6362 Před 2 lety +2

      @@mendezparis8265 but still I felt in danger at all times not that nice tbf

    • @mendezparis8265
      @mendezparis8265 Před 2 lety +1

      @@chrisdenyer6362 same I’m a black guy 6’6 tall and always more in danger around other black gangsta wannabe rather than the police I can be in danger if I go to the wrong postcode

  • @RealUKUndergroundHipHop
    @RealUKUndergroundHipHop Před 2 lety +1

    Nice one for keeping it 100 mate! I came across you via the James English Xmas podcast with Marvin. 👍