Medellin S*x Tourists Are Calling Me RACIST, Here's Why...

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  • čas přidán 21. 08. 2023
  • I just had to make this video to explain my side of the story. What do you think?
    If the "shady" side of Medellin is stopping you from coming here, fear no more - change is on the way.
    One big decision by the local government is having widespread effect on decreasing the shady sex tourism side of Medellin, Colombia and in this video we explain why.
    #medellincolombia #medellin #colombia
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Komentáře • 446

  • @tinotendakunaishe7952
    @tinotendakunaishe7952 Před 10 měsíci +24

    Dude ... its not racist to call out sex tourism. I call out old British women for sex tourism in Gambia all the time. And I'm African.
    First of all he should have named that video "The AMERICAN man's guide to Colombia" or whatever. Not all Black men travel for this, so its offensive to me too that we he lumps us all in together.
    Colombia is one of the countries i want to travel to in order to gauge South American interest in tourism to Africa. I'd prefer it if people didn't assume I was there to find women to pay for sex

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +5

      That's a great point mate! I never thought about that before many black men (yourself included) made that exact comment. The video title itself actually makes black men look bad as it assumes all black men travel to pay for sex. It definitely affects respectable travelers like yourself, as when you get to countries like Colombia you get stereotyped. But don't worry mate, once you start speaking and let the locals know you're not like that it'll be fine 👍🏾 PS calling it "American man's guide" is also offensive since most Americans don't travel for that reason either lol maybe just "sex tourist's guide" 😂

    • @randomchatter1450
      @randomchatter1450 Před 10 měsíci +5

      I am African American and i realized that folks who made the Blackman’s guide to Cartagena get paid from CZcams views and numbers. So they thought maybe making a video of something different to get views. At the same time these CZcamsrs are not being mindful of the negative image they portraying of both their racial group and the women.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Exactly! Well said - that's the saddest part.

    • @Fatelvis2
      @Fatelvis2 Před 10 měsíci

      umm how about the single mans guide funny thing is when I was in Cartagena yes there were girls standing around etc but how often was I approached hmm maybe 6 times on my first trip where other places I have been to you are CONSTANTLY approached by prostitutes'

    • @reycondor8083
      @reycondor8083 Před 10 měsíci

      In the northern coast they dance to african soukus , in colombia we call it champeta

  • @solgiv3872
    @solgiv3872 Před 10 měsíci +15

    I have business in Medellin and live a good part of the year. Joel, doing this public service, you should not be overly sensitive... You absolutely have nothing to apologize for! I am an American and walking the streets I see other Americans (most of them are older guys BLACKS AND WHITES) they are loud, drunk usually, disrespectful to the locals (girls included) and I feel disgusted and ashamed by their behavior. My guess, these are people who don't feel privileged in the US and in Medellin they feel like kings vs. locals.
    Remember, we all are guests here and should respect the locals just as we would expect foreigners to behave in our countries!

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Yeah I hate it when people act like that, zero respect. As you said, we are all guests in Colombia and should act like it.

  • @ChineduOpara
    @ChineduOpara Před 10 měsíci +38

    You have NOTHING to apologize for, Joel. I am a black Nigerian man and I support you 1000%. You said nothing wrong

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +3

      Cheers Chinedu, I appreciate the support mate!

    • @eddieonthegotravel
      @eddieonthegotravel Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@AKJoel Chinedu is top shelf and a good local friend.

    • @sheila-we7em
      @sheila-we7em Před 6 měsíci

      I totally agree, you did nothing wrong and did not need to make an apology. Some make far worse videos and they don't apologize for none of them.

  • @TheRealStevenAdams
    @TheRealStevenAdams Před 10 měsíci +5

    I am an African-American who just returned from an awesome week in Medellin. I am seriously considering relocating to Colombia after I retire next year. I saw the video where you made your comments that some deemed offensive and I previously watched the “Black Man’s Guide…” video that you called out. While I did not and do not think you are racist, I observed and felt in real-time that your comments seemed to imply that black men with passports are the reason that Medellin has gone downhill with prostitutes lining the streets of Calle 10 and the clubs at Parque Lleras. I assure you that Medellin has had longstanding economic problems that drive their women to prostitution and those issues long preceded black men visiting. I think that’s the thing to which people are reacting but what do I know.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 9 měsíci

      Yeah I never meant it like that, as evidenced the explanation in this video - it's unfortunately that some people took it that way.

  • @jamestheproexpat
    @jamestheproexpat Před 10 měsíci +25

    I'm African American, travel, live in the DR with my family and speak Spanish. Everytime I got to Colombia it's for business or family vacation. Even though all types of people are sex tourist, we should all be honest. Some of the newer travelers are making it out in the open and have no class to do what they do behind closed doors. It's sad because when I travel as a black man, I get lumped into that unless I'm with my family because of the reputation guys have created for themselves. You're not racist at all man. Keep up the good work

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Thanks for your comment James. Making this video has really brought to light another HUGE issue with sexpat CZcams that I honestly never thought about before. I've seen it echoed many times in the comments of this video but as you put it :
      "It's sad because when I travel as a black man, I get lumped into that unless I'm with my family because of the reputation guys have created for themselves."
      I'm sorry you have to cop that mate, especially when you've got nothing to do with that life.

  • @MariahSincere
    @MariahSincere Před 5 měsíci +2

    I am a black woman in the U.S. from Texas. You have nothing to apologize for. I have been to Cartagena at the walled city. I have seen who goes and picks up prostitutes. And it’s not your fault they are all over the internet promoting sex tourism. Is that all black men? No but It’s enough to where people are noticing and they are being very loud about it. People have eyes to see and observe when something is being done loud and proud. That doesn’t make you a racist.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 5 měsíci

      Thanks for the comment Mariah! As you can see from the other comments on this video, the sad part is that locals start looking at all tourists the same way - because a few bad ones ruin it for the rest of us.

  • @markbroadus8788
    @markbroadus8788 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I’m black and very impressed with your content…keep it coming!!!

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 2 měsíci +1

      Thanks Mark!

    • @markbroadus8788
      @markbroadus8788 Před 2 měsíci

      @@AKJoel plan to be in the area end of April

  • @dwighthayles1226
    @dwighthayles1226 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Joel I'm black and I love Colombia and let me tell you that I share your sentiment. I'm in fact against sex tourism and prostitution en general. I personally believe that it does no good for ANY society and colour has nothing to do with it. It's low level and I really hope that the government bands it, that the ladies can find a way to make money without it and that the men can get their act together and start forming healthier relationships with women where this is not the only way to deal with them.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 5 měsíci

      I'm with you 100%! Thanks for the comment Dwight 👍🏾

  • @kaywan87
    @kaywan87 Před 10 měsíci +9

    You should just focus on your content. Don’t criticize others. You make good informational videos and solid videos.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      I appreciate that, thanks for the feedback!

  • @noneofbusiness7739
    @noneofbusiness7739 Před 10 měsíci +6

    It will blow over. Some passport bro channels are just creating drama for views.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Haha good point, I appreciate the support mate!

  • @jonsheldon69
    @jonsheldon69 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Alll in all its a cultural thing with most indian folks to have some sort of disdain for black people ...the educated ones who are more into popular culture at large would be more likely to be tolerant of black folks who are of good character regardless of skin color/race ..

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +2

      I have no idea about how Indians feel about black people mate - I'm from Australia.

    • @jonsheldon69
      @jonsheldon69 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@AKJoel my apologies no disrespect..

  • @officialkoby
    @officialkoby Před 10 měsíci +5

    I’m not into the sex tourism thing and don’t support it, but I don’t police what guys do either. Also, I think Colombians have to take accountability for their participation in the industry as well, these girls know what they’re doing and they’re making a lot of money doing it, where are their parents and the positive influences from their communities, why is onlyfans and this stuff growing so fast over there, it’s a two way street. I don’t think you’re racist at all though, the context from the full clip helps, context at always clears things up. Good content over all.

    • @RichBoy-dc2dq
      @RichBoy-dc2dq Před 10 měsíci

      Colombian escorts make double what Colombian doctors make, that's the problem. The Colombian government literally setup redlight district zones to support the sex trade in their country.......that's the problem.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +2

      Yeah Colombians have realised that they mishandled the whole situation, which is why I made the initial video explaining that they're now barricading Parque Lleras and trying to move the sex workers away from the major touristic areas of the city - because it's just a bad look for the city as a whole.
      All that said, I appreciate the support and the fact that you enjoy my content!

    • @blankslate9320
      @blankslate9320 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Great comment. Thanks

  • @delandolewis9621
    @delandolewis9621 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Bro you have to ignore the comments. Your videos are some of the best on youtube.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      I appreciate that mate!! Thank you and I'm glad you're enjoying my content!

  • @jonassilva376
    @jonassilva376 Před 10 měsíci +4

    That's because you spoke the truth and those that do what you said get all butt hurt. If it wasn't true, nobody would have anything to worry about and wouldn't have got offended.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      That's very true!! Well said mate.

    • @sheila-we7em
      @sheila-we7em Před 6 měsíci +1

      They can't handle the truth, simple

  • @joepaul4406
    @joepaul4406 Před 10 měsíci +6

    It does not matter the color. Sex tourists are a blight on the city.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Well said, that's the main issue here!

  • @closetheark
    @closetheark Před 10 měsíci +6

    Strong men don't seek sex tourism. We earn & respect our relationships.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +2

      Wow I LOVE THAT! Incredibly said mate!

  • @revekat2053
    @revekat2053 Před 5 měsíci +1

    It’s nice to see that decent men still exist after watching these passport bros videos. ❤

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 5 měsíci +1

      Thank you :)

  • @kenolaureano6831
    @kenolaureano6831 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Keep spitting truth and producing quality videos. Nothing resembled racism in that video. Just pure truth.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Thanks mate, glad you're enjoying the content!

  • @Sourealnyc
    @Sourealnyc Před 10 měsíci +1

    Fully agree with you, bro...is totally disgusting to see...I am not a local... and even I don't like it...that area is not pleasant to visit at all.

  • @moondogsundown8458
    @moondogsundown8458 Před 10 měsíci +18

    I think the key point is that when you go down the road of public judgement of a group of people that aren't doing anything illegal like you did, you open yourself up to be judged back fairly or unfairly. Some people would say that you being judged a racist is just as valid as you judging that the old man you saw with what you claim to be an underage girl. You kinda reap what you sow in this life.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +7

      Sleeping with underage women is definitely illegal - there's also a huge problem with that in Colombia. Just do a quick Google search and you'll find many articles on it.

    • @eddieonthegotravel
      @eddieonthegotravel Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@AKJoel I’ve even had women in their early 20s trying to work me here and I find THAT creepy. Like what girl in their right mind comes on to a man almost old enough to be their grandfather?

    • @ThePosse89
      @ThePosse89 Před 10 měsíci +4

      @@AKJoelyou missed the point. I really don't think you are ready or open for this conversation.

    • @freedomriding2558
      @freedomriding2558 Před 10 měsíci

      Got it your point is there are a lot of stupid people online with opinions.

  • @just4DaFunOfiT
    @just4DaFunOfiT Před 10 měsíci +3

    I am embarrassed by that. The people of Columbia are so welcoming and non-racist. Thanks for clarification but only but holes would think that you are being racist for stating what was witnessed. I enjoy watching your channel and will continue to do so.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Glad you enjoy my content mate, thanks for the support!

  • @johny9685
    @johny9685 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Hey buddy!
    Don't explain, don't comment - the golden rule of the Royals. You have a great youtube channel - don't argue with fools! Good luck with your great work.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Thanks mate - I appreciate the support and glad you're enjoying the content!

  • @jaydunn1256
    @jaydunn1256 Před 10 měsíci +5

    I want to visit Medellín some day. I opted to Spend my new 6 months in Bogota for the simple fact that people in Medellin believed I wanted to come for sex tourism. I appreciate your videos and content and never took anything you said in the last video as negative.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Cheers Jay, I started making videos to show a different side of Medellin so that people like yourself would see that there's more to this city than what's shown all over CZcams.

  • @jaztec68
    @jaztec68 Před 8 měsíci

    Great Video. I'm glad ou brought this up. I'm Mexican American and I have a girlfriend in Colombia. We plan to get married. I see a lot of Passport Bros. in Cali. I actually get dirty looks from them,because I look White. Little do they know that my kids are half black. Colombia is where I plan to retire. I just arrived back in Texas from visiting the Quindio region. Hopefully you can make a video of Filandia and Salento. It's beautiful there. Please do a video of Bioparque Ukumari in Pereira. I have yet to see one video in English. It's a great place to spend the day.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 8 měsíci +2

      I've been to Finlandia and Salento many times but never made a video there, maybe next time! Thanks for the suggestion!

  • @AndresDCRealtor
    @AndresDCRealtor Před 10 měsíci +1

    Love your channel. I am a black guy and I don't feel that you said anything racist. Live, Love and laugh out loud!!!

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Thanks mate, I appreciate the support and glad you're enjoying the content. Plenty more to come! :)

  • @leyocolombia7158
    @leyocolombia7158 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I thank you for doing this kind of videos, because Colombia is not sex Or drugs only. I know you are not a racist, neither we are, we welcome everyone.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      My pleasure, I'd never do videos like this just to satisfy my own bias - but I've spoken to countless Colombians who are sick of sex tourism and that was a huge reason why I decided to speak up against it. After all we're just guests in Colombia.

  • @alfredodelacruz1864
    @alfredodelacruz1864 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Continue doing your thing those that partake in the sex tourism business come in all colors if thats your thing thats their business. Continue making videos ill continue watching you, you weren't racist mate

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Cheers Alfredo, I appreciate the support!

  • @cool_breeze_actual9643
    @cool_breeze_actual9643 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Honesty hurts sometimes, keep up the solid content

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Cheers mate!

  • @stevensifuentes6684
    @stevensifuentes6684 Před 10 měsíci +6

    No need to apologize keep up the good work!!

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Cheers Steven, I appreciate the support mate!

  • @cgrisby57
    @cgrisby57 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Dude it wasn’t racist! I’m a black and didn’t take it that way. Everyone is trying to say everything is something that it’s not. Keep up the great work Bro!

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 9 měsíci

      Thanks mate! I think they're offended that I called out their shady activities and tried to deflect the blame by claiming racism lol

  • @mrtoldyou5589
    @mrtoldyou5589 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Black American, former military and Federal criminal investigator whose lived and traveled overseas since the early 80's. Now retired and living in Portugal. I'm not offended. I understand the sentiment behind the recently-coined "Passport Bro" mindset/movement/lifestyle. Yet, there is a fair amount of "tricking" mixed in with...or under the guise of....traveling to find a wife or exploring.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Thanks for your comment mate! I agree, however I actually feel sorry for some Passport Bros - because some of them legitimately may not like dating in the US, so they travel to foreign countries to find women there to form a relationship with. However, now they're getting lumped into the same group as guys who have no interest in dating at all, they just travel to countries where they can buy cheap prostitutes.

    • @mrtoldyou5589
      @mrtoldyou5589 Před 10 měsíci

      @@AKJoel I agree with you! By sentiments I meant they have many legitimate reasons to search elsewhere, and by fair amount I didn't mean most. But, yes, the smaller percentage involved in tricking behavior affects the majority who don't.
      BTW...thanks for sharing about the stares and head-turning! Melanated people share those experiences in determining simple curiosity and surprise versus something negative. I actually tend to be less forgiving of stares from citizens of other countries who're visiting the same country I'm visiting.

  • @Gierboo
    @Gierboo Před 10 měsíci +3

    If you don’t have n“haters” your not doing anything. Keep doing what you like to do and talk whatever you want to talk about .

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Cheers Joel! Appreciate the support mate 👍🏾

  • @jamiegorman2781
    @jamiegorman2781 Před 10 měsíci +4

    I met Andy last weekend- great guy- shared some good Tequila with him. Taller than I would assume- keep up the good work. You guys put up great content.

    • @MedellinBuzz
      @MedellinBuzz Před 10 měsíci

      Yessir, thanks for the tequila my friend!

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      haha yeah he's a big guy huh?!

  • @playerwithapassport
    @playerwithapassport Před 10 měsíci +2

    Great video my brother. Needs to be said💯

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Cheers mate, I appreciate it!

    • @playerwithapassport
      @playerwithapassport Před 10 měsíci +1

      @AKJoel I've met many men of india culture in Colombia. I find that they ask us about our travel experience to "check" the temperature of the culture in the given country. Because our skin in similar in color. I'm never offended when they ask me how I'm treated

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Anyone who travels understands that the way other countries treat black people is the same as they'd treat anyone with dark skin. Only in the US does "black" just refer to African Americans.

  • @Hustle-Man-ForLife
    @Hustle-Man-ForLife Před 10 měsíci +1

    Keep doing what you're doing on the channel, I have never thought that you were a racist in any way and I am black. Yes, there are many very beautiful women in Colombia, but not every dude is into the whole S*x tourist stuff, when I found your channel it was refreshing to get more information about Colombia that wasn't related to the whole S*x tourism world like many other YT channels. I don't judge anybody for doing what they want to do on their vacations or trips, but I personally enjoy getting more information about a country that I want to visit, like where to stay, how to conduct yourself around the locals, which areas are safe to visit...etc. Basically, keep doing what you are doing (thumbs up from me).

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      I started making Colombia content exactly for the reason you stated here: "when I found your channel it was refreshing to get more information about Colombia that wasn't related to the whole S*x tourism world like many other YT channels."
      I'm glad I can provide that for you and thanks for the support! I appreciate it!

  • @FosterBurch
    @FosterBurch Před 10 měsíci +1

    There’s ways to talk about it without putting yourself above them; using words like creeps weirdos etc.
    Use Where’s Wes as an example. He did the exact same thing. He criticized a lot of people in the same way you did and preached how him getting married was the right thing to do and what should be done. Well, he got divorced and his wife’s family put death threats against him, he’s going through legal battles, he had to take down a chunk of his CZcams channel and ultimately he got chased out of Colombia after “doing the right thing.” I don’t wish that on anyone but it’s a cautionary tale.
    Life with David has a way to talk about these things without having a Savior Complex. Your tone comes off more like Where’s Wes.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Well that's how I feel about the kind of people that act like fools in public and ruin the city for those of us respectful tourists who come for things other than prostitution and drugs. I'm not sure why I should lie about it or sit on the fence about the issue?

    • @good2go619
      @good2go619 Před 10 měsíci

      Where's Wes comes off as judgmental while being a hypocrite because he told a story in one of his videos about engaging in P4P during his birthday. I like Life with David's approach of being objective and non judgmental.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      If there was just 1 way to do things there would just be 1 creator to cover each topic lol what makes it awesome is that we all bring our unique opinions and take to the same topics - giving viewers different things they can relate to and connect with!

    • @good2go619
      @good2go619 Před 10 měsíci

      @@AKJoel "If there was just 1 way to do things there would just be 1 creator to cover each topic" And if that were the case then there shouldn't be that so many videos promoting sexual tourism on CZcams. But here we are. I just to think its better to be less judgmental and confrontational. It keeps the dialogue open and maybe some of them "weirdos" would be more receptive to your opinions. Life with David makes it clear on his position, but he doesn't call them any names. He just recommends that they use one of the many establishments located around the city.

  • @Jose.Q_
    @Jose.Q_ Před 10 měsíci +3

    From all the vids I seen you definitely not a racist , so keep doin what you do man
    There are a bunch of vids of guys that just go to these countries just to have sex with a Colombian woman , Thai women and women from the Philippines same with China and Japan , Russia , Sweden , Brazil and some other countries .......you can tell just by how they act around a women and especially the questions that they ask that he's just there for 1 thing and basically showing other men that they can do the same , most of the guys are treating those places as a go to place to hook up , it's no wonder why the men from those countries are pissed that guys "tourist" are using the women for sex especially impregnating them then leave to never see the women again
    Granted I know that it takes 2 , so both sides are making the women look bad and the men that go to these countries are making most men get a bad rep before they even get a chance to go to these places

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Thanks Jose, I appreciate the support!

  • @Robert-nd4mo
    @Robert-nd4mo Před 10 měsíci +9

    Your chill and got nothin but love for people! Keep doing you brudda! Just sensitive people. And I agree, it’s a shame that men come from around the world to take advantage of women in poverty stricken nations. Colombia has so much more to offer. It’s a country with a story and amazing people.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Cheers Rob, I appreciate the support! I hope that more people like yourself continue to come to Colombia because as you said "Colombia has so much more to offer. It’s a country with a story and amazing people."
      As I said in my last video I can really see the demographic changing though, as the % of respectful people coming to the country is indeed increasing and hopefully will outnumber the sex tourists soon!

  • @twoheadedrooster9659
    @twoheadedrooster9659 Před 10 měsíci +3

    I doubt anyone calling you racist can even spell racist. Personally you strike me as a quality human being and someone I would like to know..✌️

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Thanks mate, I appreciate the support!!

  • @sbrown9020
    @sbrown9020 Před 10 měsíci

    Im a black man too. This is crazy to me. 😂😂😂 and you said i thought he wouod yalk about racism... unfortunately this is a subject... unfortunately colombia and they need to continue to clean this up.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Yeah it's good that the local government has realized that it's destroying the city and finally taking measures to combat it - hopefully they can clean it up and at least send it to an area away from all the normal people lol

  • @SpideySensei72
    @SpideySensei72 Před 10 měsíci +6

    But the whole "Passport Bros" movement was a big thing on YT for a while, in fact that's how I initially learned about Colombia and traveling there. Thankfully, the algorithm seems to have course corrected because I don't see that content as much anymore.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +2

      Just to differentiate - I don't think all passport bros are the same as sex tourists. Although I'm sure some of them fall into both categories lol

  • @1stClazzKingz
    @1stClazzKingz Před 10 měsíci +3

    Love your videos bro. I don't feel that you're racist, but I had a feeling you was gonna get some push back from mentioning FlyBoy. Just keep doing your thing 💯💯

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Thanks mate I appreciate it! 🙏🏾 It was honestly such a throwaway comment I didn't know it was gonna rile people up 😂

    • @tmack2506
      @tmack2506 Před 10 měsíci +4

      @@AKJoel, I posted a comment. I am a black man and I do not think you are racist but I urge you to take the feedback seriously. I know that you are a good man and I want you to succeed but I do not think it should be taken lightheartedly. A typical white person from the USA would not mention such a thing because they know the reaction. It was offensive even though I know that you did not mean it in a racist manner. Just like it is best to understand Colombian culture, you should accept feedback about Black American culture if you value us as an audience.

  • @Streetstories_
    @Streetstories_ Před 10 měsíci +3

    FlyBoy makes great content. No need to put him down. Medellín is Medellín. Its not Utah .

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +2

      He makes content that attracts the wrong crowd to Colombia (I mean sex tourists, not black people.) His videos would be great if he just left the prostitution guide part out. There's a reason so many people watched his video which is heavy on prostitutes and nobody watches his recent content...

    • @harrydatrannychaserloc9245
      @harrydatrannychaserloc9245 Před 10 měsíci

      @@AKJoel facts

    • @harrydatrannychaserloc9245
      @harrydatrannychaserloc9245 Před 10 měsíci

      @@AKJoel indeed they are culture vultures profiting of poverty and sex tourism

  • @ttaylor2948
    @ttaylor2948 Před 10 měsíci +2

    While racism still exists in all parts of the world, and that includes the US, what you said is 0% racist. In fact your argument could be seen as the exact opposite. The reality is Medellin is not what it was 10 years ago, it is full of guys who are literally there for sex tourism. Hopefully the government does something more about it, but I doubt it. Keep up the good work.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Yeah I'm happy they're at least taking some initiative to clean up the city! Let's hope it works!
      Also, I appreciate the support thanks mate!

  • @tclass99
    @tclass99 Před 10 měsíci +5

    I’m about the same colour as you (maybe a bit lighter due to lack of a tan lol) since parents are of mixed Caribbean descent. I didn’t see anything wrong with anything that you said. Certainly nothing that could be construed as racism.
    I will make one comment though. Over the past 5-10 years I’ve noticed more and more “people of colour” posting videos about what it’s like to travel as a black/darker person… as if they’re LOOKING for racism from Caucasian people. I don’t get the obsession with it. And it saddens me to think that someone could cross a country off their list because of the perceptions of an entirely different person with a different attitude and upbringing. I’ve been traveling for over 20 years and been to almost 40 countries… from mostly black to mostly white… and never experienced any racism of any kind (to my knowledge). There are good people and bad people where ever you go. That will never change. While it’s true that some people will stare if your look is “outside of the norm” that doesn’t mean that they don’t like you… they’re just curious. At that point YOU have the power to show them what you’re all about and leave them with a good memory… just like they have the power as a local to leave you with a good (or bad) impression of their country.
    Don’t be afraid to get out of your comfort zone. Best way to learn and grow.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Love your last sentence - 100% true!

  • @chuckjp5727
    @chuckjp5727 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Hey Joel,
    No need to apologize. I have been watching you for quite a while I have never picked up any racism from any of your videos. The Blackmans guide to Columbia is terrible...I saw that video as well and those guys do not represent the BEST of AA men! Please keep up the great videos !!

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Thanks mate, I've met a lot of African American men living in Medellin and a couple are even my clients and good friends - they definitely don't associate with the type of thing shown in the "Blackman's guide" so you're absolutely right that it doesn't represent the best of AA men!
      I'm glad you enjoy the vids and I appreciate the support mate!

    • @sheila-we7em
      @sheila-we7em Před 6 měsíci

      When AA men decide to make truckloads of videos exactly like this, people will believe they are exactly like this. They talk about women like pieces of meat, while they themselves are no oil painting, plus fellow AA do not call them out on it.

  • @travisho76
    @travisho76 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I wouldn't worry about it. It was the title of the CZcams video. That is an easy and overplayed card. I honestly think a CZcamsr needs to do a video of who is hanging out in Parque Lleras. Then go to the rooftop bars and film who is throwing money at girls to dance on tables and harassing people who are not their color until they leave. Just because they don't like the truth, doesn't make it wrong.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Yeah if it was Australian Man's guide or Chinese Man's guide I would've said the same thing lol I just referenced the first video I watched.

  • @tonyelpadrinow.7948
    @tonyelpadrinow.7948 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Why apologize when it's your observation of what's going on in Medellín. With the exception of a few CZcams content that talks about Colombia and it's culture, the majority are talking about sex and how to get a Colombia baddie.
    I say it once and say it again exporting American culture and behavior is a bad look.
    Let's be honest when they see us and hear us speak the obvious pops in Colombians mind (oh they're here to trick) especially when it's a group of guys.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      That's true Tony - that's a major reason I started my channel - as except for 2 or 3 channels everyone else was talking about prostitutes and doing "walking tours" which actually just pointed the camera at the tits and ass of unwilling women (some underage.) It was such a toxic market which didn't reflect Medellin or Colombia at all, so I wanted to change the perception of the country. And yes, exactly as you said the guys that come here only to pay for sex ruin it for the rest of us and give us a bad name amongst Colombians.

    • @tonyelpadrinow.7948
      @tonyelpadrinow.7948 Před 10 měsíci

      @@AKJoel yes I know everytime I'm in the airport I see a gang of dudes together and I try to strike up a conversation to see how were their experience in Colombia and what other cities they visit besides Cartagena and Medellín. I know Buenaventura is dangerous now but I'm in Pereira a lot.

  • @kennymings728
    @kennymings728 Před 10 měsíci

    AK has nothing but great content. I had the pleasure of meeting him when I was spending time in Colombia. The idea of him being racist or disrespectful in any way is laughable!
    Keep making great content brother. You have nothing to apologize for!

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Cheers Kenny! Let's hoop again when you're back in town. I appreciate the support!

  • @brucetaylor7871
    @brucetaylor7871 Před 10 měsíci +9

    Do YOUR THANG and don't worry about others. CZcams has enough room for everybody, if they don't like what you do, they can move on.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +2

      Thanks Bruce, yeh you're right. I'm in fact very happy for all the sex tourist types to not watch my content lol

    • @eddieonthegotravel
      @eddieonthegotravel Před 10 měsíci

      Sadly, these days “just move on” seems to be an alien concept to a lot of people.

  • @devinp923
    @devinp923 Před 10 měsíci

    bro your good, I've seen both Videos ( yours and the Blk Guide ) people are haters, just looking for something complain about. Question for you, please don't take the word I about to use as bad. Are You Coolie ?

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      I don't even know what that means - what's a coolie? lol

  • @elonmusk9869
    @elonmusk9869 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Love the content, don’t pay attention to haters

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Cheers mate, appreciate the support!! 👍🏾

  • @ashl9835
    @ashl9835 Před 10 měsíci +7

    There are many channels I've seen with white bros and some black bros discussing prices of hoes. I don't really care as long as they're not doing anything illegal. Honestly this is just a case of mind your own business. That dude makes one type of content and you make one type of content. Sex tourism has been going on for 100s of years and its never going away. The fact is some latin American countries and southeast Asian countries make a lot of money from it. I'm not into sex tourism however i don't care what another man does with money or bippy. Men are gonna be men regardless. The men of Colombia spend more money on sex then any tourist because they're the majority in the country. Ive spoken to many of them and the first thing they tell me is lets get some hoes smh. There's no moral high ground here. Just my opinion. And i don't think youre a racist.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      White, black, brown - whatever they are - I'm against the fact that they openly discuss how to get prostitutes and promote sexual tourism. You should speak to some Medellin locals and see how they feel about it - it's destroying their city. They even did branding around it which you'll see in various establishments around the city.
      facebook.com/people/No-al-turista-sexual/100068743724856/?paipv=0&eav=AfbOUwtw6CjonynMnQ_JX9Hh8dQpw3SOgr_SmGssBkq7KKPa6c9xKlEcfEfPwCvOe0M&_rdr

    • @ashl9835
      @ashl9835 Před 10 měsíci

      @AKJoel isn't that on the women though, if they stopped fellas would not be doing it. No one is gonna like it bro but the reality of is that it's not going any where. Majority of their customer are Colombian men. Some are in high positions and some are just average men. Nothing is going to change just cause a minority of people are complaining. And I'm pretty sure most of the complainers are women. It's not mostly the men complaining. They live in a patriarchal society. That's what the men there want. That's the dark truth. I'll land my plane there.

    • @ExoticGTRX
      @ExoticGTRX Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@ashl9835 "mind your own business" there's souls at risk here bud, and God isn't happy with all the sex tourism going on

  • @mawkishdave
    @mawkishdave Před 10 měsíci

    I like what the city is trying to do. I believe prostitution needs to be legal as this way you can have more control over it. On the same note, it shouldn't be out on the main roads and in family areas.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Yes - definitely a great move by the city. They need to push the sex tourism into it's own controlled area way from where everyone else is.

  • @toursbydee
    @toursbydee Před 10 měsíci +1

    Joel this is Dajanna, and bro, you never had to explain yourself, let alone for passport sexuals. Keep up the great work! They're just mad because you're exposing their predatory ways.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Hey Dee! Yeah I know I never had to make this but I didn't want people calling me racist without me having a chance to explain. You're right by the way, they just tried to claim "racism" to deflect from the fact that they're sex tourists lol

    • @sheila-we7em
      @sheila-we7em Před 6 měsíci

      True and no doubt the will take zero accountability like they always do

  • @charleslenchner2654
    @charleslenchner2654 Před 10 měsíci

    a video called 'the intersection of racism and sex tourism in Medellin's expat community' would be fascinating.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Is that gonna be produced and directed by you Charles? Can't wait to see that premiere lol

  • @user-lq8gn5jt6v
    @user-lq8gn5jt6v Před 8 měsíci +1

    You got nothing but love brother. Thanks for speaking the truth 👏🏽

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 8 měsíci +1

      I appreciate that, thanks mate!

  • @Fatelvis2
    @Fatelvis2 Před 10 měsíci

    2:29 how would they have responded to 'hey buddy you want to keep it down there are ladies present'

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Well it takes a special type of guy to have the guts to stand up to a large group of rowdy guys - especially when he's just with 2 women and a baby.

    • @Fatelvis2
      @Fatelvis2 Před 10 měsíci

      @@AKJoel yea it might not have ended well i guess i am giving them to much credit to think they would say my bad

  • @TheTravelMoneyGuy
    @TheTravelMoneyGuy Před 10 měsíci +2

    CZcams culture in Colombia is ☣️.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      haha I'm trying my best to show a different Medellin experience and clean it up but as you know, it's bloody hard work!!

    • @JohnPhan-fl1mo
      @JohnPhan-fl1mo Před 10 měsíci

      Hi Kyle!!! Bom Gia!!!

  • @rgtunderworldrgt7773
    @rgtunderworldrgt7773 Před 10 měsíci +9

    Your 1st example was the Blackman's guide to Colombia, literally using him, and that, as the poster boy , culture for the topic.
    2) The nightlife, pay for play culture thet exists there dud NOT originate Nor start with Foreign men
    You didn't talk about the fact that
    Other people from alll over the World
    Do vids with that content
    There aren't any vloggers thet did vids on what its like as a black traveler in various countries? Yes there are.
    Yet you mentioned None of them.
    Ace live, Life w Sly, etc

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +3

      Andrew directly mentions that lots of Colombians engage in prostitution too, he said it's been going on for years.
      The video I referenced was literally just the first one I watched, if you can't understand I don't know what else to say to you mate...

    • @rgtunderworldrgt7773
      @rgtunderworldrgt7773 Před 10 měsíci +5

      @@AKJoel
      I understand that. I saw it
      Like I said. You were all too happy to stop there, and you did your video and held that content creator up as the standard,
      As if that is all that you would see as the source of black, brown people's guide to...
      Name the country...when he is clearly just one of many creators..one of many different takes on content of black experiences in various countries.
      You knowingly stuck there and held him up, as if that's the extent of what the brown, black travel experience is like.
      You know better than that, you are aware that's Not the only angle black experience
      Vloggers take. Yet you omitted that from the context of your video.
      You could have said .." Now there are other black people who do these videos that aren't pay for play oriented".
      You Chose Not to.
      I, don't see how You don't understand that. Mate. Check..Mate

    • @alfredodelacruz1864
      @alfredodelacruz1864 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@rgtunderworldrgt7773watch what you want bro we know there's others he just used one for an example we know about Ace live and others pushing positive videos on Colombia stop being so sensitive move on mate

    • @patrickclark9156
      @patrickclark9156 Před 10 měsíci

      I've watched Ace Live and he's a good guy. He is aware of when people are behaving prejudicial towards him as happened at a night club in Argentina .

  • @randomchatter1450
    @randomchatter1450 Před 10 měsíci

    Probably this just a big topic. because people are made to believe in marriage. Because people are brainwashed washed by the adult films, music videos, T.V commercial of hot women, moves industry, machoisms. People go to fulfill an idea of what they have been made to believe. So people go to actually find love or have a girlfriend experience. So go to add to their sleeping count. This I am referring to the specific part of going to their to meet women. So i think the generalization probably bother some people because maybe everyone doesn’t go there for the same reasons. That was one video you watched of what was already out their and that specific video out of all the videos on CZcams was meant for a specific audience and is a video different for a CZcams who wants to gain numbers for his specific audience. there is enough stoics and people who want to learn about culture that make videos that are of all races. I personally follow a stoic philosophy and I understand that the video of Blackman’s Guide to Cartagena is basically for a specific a topic or something that already existed before whoever made the of Blackmans guide to Cartagena. That person has no role in creating or stopping something that has already been there. I think it was for a specific group of blackman not all of blackman. The message is probably if you are going to participate in what is already out here in Cartagena then here is what to look for. I misunderstanding happen alot and this part of life. Some people may have misunderstood your message and i glad that you made this second video to state what your intentions were when you made the video. Great video and thank so much for bringing up topics not talked much about on CZcams

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      No worries, glad you found it insightful 👍🏾

  • @MrUnicornX
    @MrUnicornX Před 10 měsíci +4

    You have nothing to apologize brother. Subscriber and my wife and I love your videos… oh am I’m a black man.
    Anyone saying this has never watched your videos, screw them.
    Keep doing what you’re doing and my wife and I can’t wait to join your masterclass later this year!!!

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Thanks mate, I appreciate your support and excited to help you and your wife move to Medellin to experience this amazing city!

  • @jaybanerjee55
    @jaybanerjee55 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Let’s be clear, there’s always a scum factor and unfortunately probably a big wave to Medellin. You did nothing wrong and you provide a ton of value for the decent people who are considering a move across many considerations for a foreigner. You’re channel is legit and IMO has a high degree of credibility and factual. Keep doing what you’re doing Akash, don’t stoop down to the trash. I’m thinking of coming down in January and am relying on your information. You’re not racist, people just angry.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Thanks mate I appreciate your comment - glad you're enjoying my content and I love the fact that so many decent people (like yourself) enjoy and watch my channel.

  • @ericloney67
    @ericloney67 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I myself don’t partake in that activity, but many people do and it can be dangerous. So, he made that video to help that segment of people that partake in that activity be safe and enjoy themselves nor become a victim of a scam or worse. I don’t think you’re racist neither. You’re videos are informative and helpful.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 9 měsíci

      The problem with the video is that it shows Colombia as one big brothel and attracts guys who just come to get prostitutes. Glad you enjoy the videos and thanks for the comment!

  • @Matthew-gz4oh
    @Matthew-gz4oh Před 10 měsíci

    As a Southern white man I have fought this my whole life when I fought against racism my whole life and raised 4 non racist kids. People look at me and make a judgement as they are lazy and use stereotypes. It's extremely hurtful how easily some people throw the term around like they are telling you to try a new hair color. Words matter like my parents taught me, and once its out of your mouth you can't just take it back. America has become largely judgemental, click bait, and lazy!

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +2

      Thanks for the comment mate! I believe it also devalues the word when it's thrown around in circumstances where it very clearly doesn't apply.

  • @AKJoel
    @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +10

    My main reason for making this video was to show that I didn't mean any offense to black people - the only reason I referenced the video "black man's guide to Colombia" is that it was the first one that popped up in the search history when I searched "being black in Colombia."
    I often search this when travelling to a new country I'm unfamiliar with, as how the locals treat black people is often how they'll treat me, because if you haven't noticed I have the same color skin as many black Americans.
    Also if you noticed I also put 3 thumbnails of sex tourism videos before I even mentioned "black man's guide to Colombia" and one of them even showed a guy who's not black.
    All that said, I still stand by my fact that I don't support sex tourism - which is the same sentiment shared by most locals AND the Colombian government.
    You can read more about that in this article, where the ex Vice Minister of Tourism says that sex tourists "‘are not welcome in Colombia. There is nothing that we dislike more than that type of tourism":
    "Medellin's Sex Tourism is a Cancer"
    blogs.eltiempo.com/wrong-way-corrigan/2021/02/23/medellins-sex-tourism-is-a-cancer-tourism-vice-minister/

    • @Mrgwuapo223
      @Mrgwuapo223 Před 10 měsíci +1

      As a black man that lives in America. You do not look like a black American

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +3

      Yes I know that but you're from a very ethnically diverse place, which is why you can make that distinction. To someone in a foreign country who's never left their country and doesn't see many colored people - we're all black. I speak from experience of visiting 40+ countries around the world.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +2

      Thanks mate! I appreciate the support! Good news on the passport too!

    • @drepagaming
      @drepagaming Před 10 měsíci +2

      You may be shocked to hear this, but black americans have many different skin tones. Its insane, right?@@Mrgwuapo223

    • @blankslate9320
      @blankslate9320 Před 10 měsíci

      👍🏾

  • @MySkinsMoney
    @MySkinsMoney Před 10 měsíci +1

    call it what you want , Fly boy was stretching this and race baiting

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      100% agree mate!

  • @Rubenjr005
    @Rubenjr005 Před 10 měsíci +4

    I swear men are way too sensitive now a days. Keep doing what you are doing and ignore the trolls who get butt hurt easily

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      If only these people (sex tourists, not black people) spent more time on improving themselves (get a personality, go to the gym, etc.) than complaining then maybe they wouldn't have to pay women for sex lol

    • @sheila-we7em
      @sheila-we7em Před 6 měsíci

      They talk about women being too emotional, I am seeing this more from men. smh

  • @MrStrocube
    @MrStrocube Před 10 měsíci +1

    For what it’s worth, I don’t think you’re racist at all. You were expressing your opinion and the sentiments of many others, nothing wrong with that.
    Some people get offended when they get called out.
    For me, if dudes wanna whore monger great, enjoy. No judgement. But, I agree with you, that all that business should be kept separate and apart from people who don’t wanna see that when they’re out with friends and family just trying to enjoy a night out for dinner.
    Some people travel to other countries and behave in ways they would never dare behave in their country of origin. I’ve seen these douche bags all over the world, Latin America, SE Asia, etc.
    I have cousins who have a flat a few blocks from Parque Lleras, they won’t go there at night. In fact, most of my extended family are moving out of metro Medellin and out to places like El Retiro. I may be joining them in the not too distant future.
    Cheers

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Damn that's so upsetting that your family are moving away because of what that part of the city has become - as you very well know, before the sexpat craze became a thing - Lleras was much like Provenza, one of the best nightlife areas in the city - then these sex tourists just turned it into the trashiest place in the city.
      By the way thanks for commenting, I appreciate the support!

    • @MrStrocube
      @MrStrocube Před 10 měsíci

      @@AKJoel
      Oops, I guess I made it seem as if they’re running away from the sleaze and depravity, lol! I guess it’s partly that, and also how impacted Medellin has become over the years, but mostly they’re just retiring and relocating to their fincas full time and only making ocasional visits to Medellin proper for family events and whatever.
      Anyway, love the Channel. Keep up the good work.
      Cheers

  • @azzangoeting7691
    @azzangoeting7691 Před 10 měsíci

    Same like drugs tourism I think its good that the mayor is trying to get different tourism into Medellin, I think it will help long term changing the economy its dependence on sex and drugs industries to more common modern mid and high end tourism industries

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Yeah well said - Medellin will never be a major worldwide tourist destination until it gets rid of the drugs and women label.

    • @good2go619
      @good2go619 Před 10 měsíci

      @@AKJoel Why would Medellin be a worldwide tourist destination? What does Medellin have that would make tourists choose it over other popular tourist destinations. Medellin is/can be a digital nomad hub. Not really buying the worldwide tourist destination, especially for the "respectable" individuals that you prefer.

    • @davidwhitton9050
      @davidwhitton9050 Před 10 měsíci

      Friendly people, great weather, modern infrastructure and great location in the mountains. I think it's too late for the sex tourism to totally disappear but they can at least get it under some kind of control, 60 year old guys chasing 14 year old girls come on that's not right.

  • @Aldarondo
    @Aldarondo Před 10 měsíci

    You need to join Razor Raze panel one day and express yourself there.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +2

      I watched a bit of his last panel, it was absolute disarray and everyone was just arguing with each other - I want no part of that lol

  • @muchit3629
    @muchit3629 Před 10 měsíci

    @AK Joel, I am laughing and at the same time you are talking of some serious stuff. First off, you dont come across as racist but you should remember the country where your folks come from has some serious racial issues. They have had the caste system for ages even though may be there is progress being made now regarding equality. So without knowing you, people may judge what you say through lenses connected to India and not Australia per see even though Australia has its own history too.
    I have worked with Indians in corporate as well as government and lived around them and its safe to say majority do not like mixing with other races. Why that is so I have never cared to know. By the way I went to high school in Africa with some Indians and two of my good friends were twin Indian boys, last Vikram and Vijay Singh.
    I have a friend who works in technology from Pune and is in the US pretty often and one day I will visit since I have met his wife and kids on video chat. Now coming to these videos, trust me, its a very tiny percentage of black men who engage in that lifestyle. I have been to Colombia 3 times and never once i though of paying for sex, just not my thing. Instead i explored the country and was with my girl friend.
    The last thing i found kind of funny is how you said you look at how blacks are viewed or treated in a country prior to visiting. Why do you not search for how Indians are treated . Whats your thought process, like if blacks are not treated well then you dont go, I dont get it. Thats pretty interesting because even myself as a black African who has been all over Africa, Europe including Eastern Europe like Poland etc, China, Korea, Hong Kong etc I have never researched how blacks are treated. I simply travel armed with my good will and to this date have never experienced any racism but also sure I would confront it if it happened.
    Well, do not worry about people that dont know you being quick to label you as racist, there are some folks who always go for the jugular instead of interrogating facts and having a conversation. If i thought you were racist i would certainly not watch your content. Also i hate all this goruping of people, lets all be just individuals, there is good and bad in every group.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Thanks for the comment but I have nothing to do with nor do I care about India lol so none of their racism relates to me. Talk to me about Australia and I'll happily discuss

    • @muchit3629
      @muchit3629 Před 10 měsíci

      @@AKJoel Understood, I know you dont sound Indian with your accent but before you open your mouth it is pretty clear where your heritage is from. Some people will always attach that to you whether you like it or not. Thats just how the real world is. Is it fair, probably not, but guess what I am a black African man and i dont get to protest or shout out that I am not black American so whatever someone thinks of black men in the US, they may think that of me and there is little i can do about it. Hell, my Serbian girlfriend born and bred in Sydney used to tell me that she was always reminded of her Serbian roots by Anglo Aussies even though she is second generation and knows nothing about Serbia.

  • @xpaulhayes
    @xpaulhayes Před 10 měsíci +1

    In my view, your mistake was in editing out the part as to how you had found that video, searching for content on traveling as a person of color in Colombia. When you deleted that part of your video, you should have deleted the reference to race, which no longer had any place in the video which was focused on sex tourism. Insensitive comments dealing with race can appropriately be called racist, even when not intended as such, particularly if they reinforce the racist perspectives that persist in our society. Hopefully you agree with this point, although it was not expressed at all clearly in this defensive video.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +2

      Despite your explanation I still dont see how it could be miscontrued as racism. There's a plethora of comments in here from the black community saying I have nothing to apologize for. 🤷 But regardless, thanks for your comment!

  • @Flex60369
    @Flex60369 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I didn't take offense to your video. Plus aren't you an Aboriginal Austrailian yourself? If anyone knows what racism would be it would be you. But Prostitution is a part of the culture in Colombian from the Narco days. Nobody is "to blame" for it per say. It just is.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +2

      I have Indian descent and I've experienced my fair share of racism living in Australia. True - prostitution was never the issue with the first video, I was just saying it's bad when it's out in the open and destroys the vibe of the city for those people seeking a more wholesome, cultural experience - not to mention the locals, who hate it.

  • @johnphan3244
    @johnphan3244 Před 10 měsíci +3

    If you know AK he’s def. Not that type of person. Racist? He’s far from that. I actually respect his content and I’m in the same volunteer group as this guys and he’s consistently participating throughout the city engaging and supporting the underprivileged. @ak thank you for having depth and sus stance in your art and not this bottle feeder bullshit trash all over CZcams.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Cheers John! I got into CZcams to show a different side of Colombia than what you see plastered all over CZcams - and for someone like you who's followed me from the start - you know that.

  • @seuconrado3365
    @seuconrado3365 Před 10 měsíci

    I experienced racism in Rome Italy.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Racism sadly exists everywhere, sorry you had to cop that!

  • @eddieonthegotravel
    @eddieonthegotravel Před 10 měsíci

    Omg how stupid. People get uncomfortable when a mirror is held up in their face, do they.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Exactly, it seems that only the sex tourists are riled up.

    • @eddieonthegotravel
      @eddieonthegotravel Před 10 měsíci

      @@AKJoel suddenly I am reminded about when I was doing research before my trip to Panamá early last year. I came upon a video of some smarmy looking old white guy, always looking sweaty with a glass of scotch in hand. His subject matter was sex tourism and sounded similar to what you described. I couldn’t help thinking to myself, what is this scumbag doing on CZcams? I have to wonder if his channel was taken down because I haven’t seen him since.

  • @jimbo6413
    @jimbo6413 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Dude, it's just the guys (white, black, yellow, purple, etc.) who roam down there looking for sex. And as I said before, a bunch of them were probably influenced by and bought into the webcam fantasy that Colombia is an adult Disneyland on steroids. Only solution at this point is implementing the Amsterdam model (meaning recognized red-light districts), but even that might be impractical given the heavy duty Catholicism that's part and parcel of Colombia in general. Anyway, met my girlfriend down there five years ago when I was assigned to the embassy in Bogota and I still get down there at least three times each year to see her - and yup, I'm 20 years older than she is, so yeah, every time we go out we occasionally get those disapproving glances from some folks who presume, you guessed it, that I'm a transient sexpat hanging out with my selected honeypot for the night. At this point we just shrug our shoulders and deal with it.

    • @harrydatrannychaserloc9245
      @harrydatrannychaserloc9245 Před 10 měsíci

      Lmao u keep writing these essay type length responses and act like u are Rico suave but u just a western union papi who is being cheated on by a Colombian women who is sponsored by several gringos such as yourself. Go cry and tell yourself she would never lie to you as you are not around her most of the year. No Colombian takes any gringo seriously

    • @jimbo6413
      @jimbo6413 Před 10 měsíci

      ​​​@@harrydatrannychaserloc9245"Sponsored?" Naaah, sorry to bust your bubble pipsqueak, but she has an office gig that pays extremely well for Colombia (actually would be competitive with U.S. salaries in certain parts of the country - and given your incel oriented personality, I'd say chances are she earns significantly more than you), so she has no need for handouts or sugar daddies. And I'm certainly the furthest thing from a sugar daddy. Either way, you don't know me, you don't know her and you don't know our situation, so given your overall level of ignorance it's probably best that you simply STFU and move on.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Yeah the Amsterdam model would solve a lot of these issues.

    • @jimbo6413
      @jimbo6413 Před 10 měsíci

      @@AKJoel Exactly. Amsterdam doesn't try to hide it or keep it under wraps - it's part of the entire vibe of the city, but still kept in a very specific zone. I can't see that happening in Colombia, at least not yet. Still a lot of heavy Catholic influence at work and there would be some hard pushback.

  • @themarketingplace
    @themarketingplace Před 10 měsíci +2

    Maybe they called you racist because you are from Australia and they just relate Australia to racism
    It was a English no sense joke

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      hahahaha bloody Aussies!! 🦘

  • @davidcruise4978
    @davidcruise4978 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I saw the video and I have watched other channels (life with David, where's wes) where they called out these trashy people who promote sex tourism on CZcams. You are definitely not prejudice for defending your city from this trash. There is a movement in America that promotes Colombia as a paradise for the Macho Male! I think that you are great and honest!

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      The plastering of Medellin all over social media as some sort of "come and live out all your sexual desires paradise" needs to stop. Anyone who has respectable local friends knows how this is ruining the city for them and their image.

  • @playboydonnie7181
    @playboydonnie7181 Před 10 měsíci

    I have a question and would like opinions. So I understand what a sexpat is. But what about men who are successful with women in the states and go on vacation and while on said vacation, famoose women and sleeping with them for free. So not a pay for play type deal. Would that still be looked down upon? Like for me, you can put me anywhere on this earth and I’m going to meet some chicks. That wouldn’t make me a sexpat or “passport bro” That’s my opinion and am curious to hear what others think genuinely

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Yeah I wouldn't be worried about that - if you travel and date women normally without paying - you won't have people looking down on you.

  • @tomkempf8460
    @tomkempf8460 Před 10 měsíci +1

    There's always gonna be haters bro, don't pay them no mind.
    I just spent 10 days in Medellin and stayed in Poblado, where could I get linked up with finding a decent apartment in poblado?
    Thanks, and don't pay mind to the haters

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Cheers mare appreciate it!
      We made this vid about how to rent through the local channels.
      Hopefully it helps, otherwise leave a comment there and I'll give you some more options 👍🏾
      czcams.com/video/dJMn-noZ9CE/video.html

  • @Steeldh19
    @Steeldh19 Před 10 měsíci

    You can always just address flyboy directly instead of beating around the bush 😂

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +2

      Bro I think you believe I targeted him, like I even knew who he was. I literally never heard about him until yesterday when everyone started blowing up my comments lol the only reference I made was that I saw a video called "black man's guide to Colombia" - it wasn't anything personal, I could have picked anyone but that was just the first (and last) sex tourist video I ever watched more than 20 seconds of.

  • @EricF647
    @EricF647 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Please don’t alienate the 99.9% of current & future male clients of the Medellin Masterclass, whom are all seeking female companionships & relationships in the multifaceted dating matrix of Medellin. I would not mention sex tourism at all, and you should delete the video because your paying clients are not families with children; personal opinion only. Also, in a country with an epidemic of single moms and a minimum wage of $250 a month, legal sex workers are able to make life changing money to help support their multi-generational households, and to remit money back to their struggling families In Venezuela. Other than that, I love your content, and greatly appreciate the knowledge, insight, and expertise you have brought CZcams space. The information is invaluable and it represents the hopes and dreams of many future travelers to Colombia, Thank You.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      I'm glad you enjoy my videos mate and I'm happy I can provide value, but I do have to say that all our current Masterclass members are respectable entrepreneurs and none participate in sex tourism. Actually, we turn away people if that's their motivation, as we're trying to build a community of people who travel to experience local culture and give back to the community - sexmongers dont fit that bill so I'm not worried about losing those "customers."

    • @harrydatrannychaserloc9245
      @harrydatrannychaserloc9245 Před 10 měsíci

      There are level of poverty higher in Asia, please focus on helping them, ppl in Medellin aren't missing any meals no offense.

  • @LP-bt4jk
    @LP-bt4jk Před 9 měsíci

    Damn Joe !!! I didn’t even know, I thought you was black yourself 🤣

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 9 měsíci +1

      haha crazy talk hey!! I was just as surprised mate

  • @kazuoguru
    @kazuoguru Před 10 měsíci

    Person of color is a correct term, but I'm sure your looked at different in any country when compared to someone considered to be of "African American/black" descent.
    With that being said, leaving this country to engage in underage sex tourism is a crime and whomever partakes in this act should be tried for their crimes.
    There are countless of videos on YT speaking of prostitution in the US and where you can engaged with "sex workers" it's not just a problem in the US and Colombia it's a world wide issue that doesn't involve ethnicity.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Yeah I was always surprised that CZcams allowed those types of videos.

  • @olsmade
    @olsmade Před 10 měsíci +2

    I don't think you are racist but I think you can be more nuanced in how you pass judgment on the channel on things you feel strongly about and can sometimes alienate a certain group of people watching. I am not a P4P person and I really do not like Medellin at all (I have spent 4 months in Cali this year and I absolutely love it) and did not think of racism at all when I watched the video but there have been instances where you were very black and white about certain things that could have rubbed people the wrong way (not related to race). I think your co-host does a better job at being more nuanced around sensitive issues but we all have stuff that we need to work on. Love your content btw.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Thanks for your feedback, great advice! The truth of it is that every channel has a selected audience that they make content for and I don't make content for sex tourists. In fact most of my following hate the fact that there's so many sex tourists in Medellin. So I'm happy with the way I share my opinions and if people don't agree, we can discuss it or they can just not watch.

  • @tburton2877
    @tburton2877 Před 10 měsíci

    Imagine black men’s guide to sex tourism , I’m actually embarrassed. I’m living in cali and I’m glad these passport bros don’t really come here

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Yeah I hope for your sake the sex tourism wave doesn't spread over there too lol

  • @adrianmobley6805
    @adrianmobley6805 Před 10 měsíci +2

    What do you have against Smurfs, bro? LOL.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      haha woahhhh relax, I don't wanna make another video to explain this too 😂😂

  • @jonsheldon69
    @jonsheldon69 Před 10 měsíci

    Which youtuber are you talking about?

    • @jonsheldon69
      @jonsheldon69 Před 10 měsíci

      I must say if your referring to theflyboyway black man guide to Colombia..then it must be something else.. because he gives good info on everything and has a disclaimer and states when he will talk about the kinds of women in Colombia base on his experience....am a be 💯 transparent am not for or against "pros" they call it the world's oldest profession for a reason .. in those countries its tied into the socio-economics of the country..you want real change get at the politicians and the government to distribute the wealth amongst the people and have outreach programs etc...root causes to everything...let's not be naive..

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      It's a stupid argument that "he gives good info." Even if his video was 90% about Colombian food (which it's obviously not) and 10% about how to find prostitutes and how to negotiate the price that would be too much. You think Colombians like their country being portrayed on social media as some sort of international free for all brothel?

    • @jonsheldon69
      @jonsheldon69 Před 10 měsíci

      @@AKJoel dude at first you make it seem like that's all the man was talking about from the jump he has a disclaimer for people like u.....truly not sure if you are a knit picking hater...but anywho like I said it's a socio-economic problem.. when it comes to "pros" the world's oldest profession ... Them politicians gonna talk there talk when it's convenient but they know money rules everything...if you really care bring that energy to the people who could and should make a difference instead of knit picking at folks travel experiences... For everyone check out dude for yourself you be the judge flyboyway black man guide to Colombia

  • @c6ft2006
    @c6ft2006 Před 10 měsíci

    Whoever is complaining does not have great listening skills. Brush those haters off your shoulder

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Thank you! I literally never made this a race thing lol

    • @c6ft2006
      @c6ft2006 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@AKJoel You're welcome! We're the same complexion. How the hell can you be racist? Keep up the great work! I'm considering vacationing there.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Exactly!! Lol 😂 it makes absolutely no sense

  • @christopherjohnson2375
    @christopherjohnson2375 Před 10 měsíci

    I don’t think you’ve ever said anything even slightly racist. Classist yes… 🤣

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Hahahaha if travelling to a country for the sole purpose of banging prostitutes is a class related trait, then yes I'll accept that label. But racist no lol

  • @WheresWes
    @WheresWes Před 10 měsíci +3

    Prepare the comments bro hahaha. I made a video like this a while before too and it got a BUNCH of crazy comments.
    Great video tho.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Haha thanks bro and someone had to do it. Too many guys just making these type of trash vids and attracting the wrong crowd to Colombia (to be clear I mean sexpats not black people.) I'm not worried about some hate comments from sexpats for sharing an opinion on something I believe in. 😂

  • @Markus_YouTube
    @Markus_YouTube Před 7 měsíci +1

    As a Black man from the United States, I came across that same disgusting video. What makes it worse is that the content creator has a name that is very similar to mine. I came across that video after doing some searches online to see if there was some sort of Racism towards Black people prior to visiting Colombia. I specifically looked for racism towards Black men since my own country is notoriously threatened by us, which leads to police brutality and other forms of firearm violence towards us. Additionally, the Black American culture is depicted very similar to Colombian's in regards to gang violence, drugs, guns, danger, and uncontrollable sex. Ironically, the only reason I know about Pablo Escobar is because of 90's Rap music. The rapper Nas from New York City literally used to call himself Escobar.
    So before I went to Colombia, I came across the "Black Man's Guide to Colombia" video thinking he was going to talk about the aforementioned issues and how we don't have to deal with that in Colombia. After watching the video, I couldn't have been more furious with that guy. I made it a point to never watch his content again, until I randomly came across a video of him going to Tijuana. The entire video was of him trying to get a camera in a brothel. He was complaining about the cartel members confiscating his camera, following him around, and overall giving him a hard time.
    Simply put, if there was a way I could get people like him off the internet, I would do that in a heartbeat. It's because of him that I felt like I had to make an assertive effort to prove to Paisa that I wasn't there for sex tourism.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 7 měsíci

      Great comment! That's probably the worst part of all of this - those trashy travelers ruin the experience for the good ones like you.

  • @Whosurdaddy71
    @Whosurdaddy71 Před 10 měsíci

    Minorities can’t be racist in the US 😂

  • @rege.ruckus2811
    @rege.ruckus2811 Před 10 měsíci

    I don’t think you’re racist but when you said that you searched black man travels I wondered why?

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      I hope I explained that in this video, is it more clear now? Whenever I search for if a country is racist I just search "being black in ..." - because how they treat black people is how they'll also treat me, although I'm obviously not "black American."

  • @dealerofgame
    @dealerofgame Před 10 měsíci

    i dont think there's anything wrong with it. I would rather have people pay for it than be complete weirdos or rape someone.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Well when you put it that way.... lol

  • @celteldealer
    @celteldealer Před 9 měsíci

    they have spoiled Cartagena

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 9 měsíci

      Yeah I hate Cartegena for that exact reason. Worst place in Colombia.

  • @tmack2506
    @tmack2506 Před 10 měsíci +3

    I am a Black man. I have no problem with your channel and I like it but it is wrong to use Black people as an example when most of the sex tourists are overwhelmingly white. I know that you only mentioned an example and did not specifically say that it was Black people but it does touch a nerve. Black people are constantly attacked in the USA and we do not like being used as the example of negative activities. I am not accusing you of racism but of cultural ignorance. I am an expat in Medellin and I can see why you got negative feedback. Next time use white people as an example and not people who have been oppressed.
    I do not like sex tourism either, just for the record. I came to Medellin and opened a business and I hire local people.

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      Hey TMack, yeh thats completely understandable. Whilst usually I would never make a follow up video to respond to hate comments - that's the reason I wanted to make this one clear and completely explain why I said what I said. By the way, props to you mate, seems like you've got a great life here! 👏

    • @kurrwa
      @kurrwa Před 10 měsíci

      you are such an ignorant man, white people have been oppressed the same as black people. What's wrong with your black culture you think you are a holy cow 😂

  • @micalcre8ts
    @micalcre8ts Před 10 měsíci +3

    nah brother keep making these informative videos......people are trying to push their issues their own insecurities and how they related sex to being racist ??....you're speaking facts I did something we as darker men have had problems visiting countries with our skin color so we did click on these videos and get a rude awakening ....far from racist you're just being specific telling the story

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci +2

      Exactly, some of us actually would like to know how being darker will affect us in certain countries! Thanks mate, I appreciate the support!

    • @micalcre8ts
      @micalcre8ts Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@AKJoel all good ill be down soon next week or the following your vids have helped thanks

    • @AKJoel
      @AKJoel  Před 10 měsíci

      No worries, glad to help! @@micalcre8ts