ELONS WIFE!!!!! "WE EITHER FIX THIS OR IM DIVORCING YOU"
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Elon Musks first wife describes their relationship
The purpose of this video is NOT TO DISPARAGE ELON. I LOVE ELON DEEPLY. The purpose of this video is to highlight to people that money and intelligence quite literally does not ensure a good intimate relationship. Few of us will be able to achieve what Elon has achieved. To sacrifice ones intimate relationship, the most important relationship you will have in your life, for the HOPE! of money and success is wrong. And not a decision you should take lightly. Nothing should take precedence over loving your partner. Whatever time you have left over should be spent on changing the world.
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As the saying goes....
A Woman's Loyality is judged when the man has nothing
And
The Man's Loyality is judged when he has everything
#quote
Yup
Hmm, that makes sense.
Wow, that is soooo true (IMO)
Well said
I'll keep my hard working blue collar husband over this any day. He loves me and still makes wildflower bouquets for me when he takes our dog for a walk. No amount of money can compare to that.
Thank you for watching. Sounds like you have a special man
Better than a control freak
You lucky not every gets love from their significant other
Even
Elon is saving the world tho..
What an awesome lady to tell her side of the story with dignity. Wow, twins, then triplets.
I admire this 1st wife for keeping her life together and keeping sight of who she is.
I think those kids might be artificially created. I'm not positive but she did mention IVF treatments. If you notice many so many celebrity Mothers have twins these days....Julia Roberts, Jennifer Lopez, Angelina Jolie, Mariah Carey, I could go on and on. None of those babies came into the world the natural way. I know 3 couples who have lost young children. One from Church, one from work and another from my childrens school. None of their marriges survived it.
Quite a tidy lady I'm thinking
First she gave birth to one son
Then birthed two sons
And finally gave birth to three sons
Sad their first son died though😞
Elon is a very gifted person and most likely very passionate and involved in his work. I think he should have married someone who would have understood this and that his all-consuming work would sometimes take him away from his family. This often happens with people like Elon. It is difficult.
I hope she finds happiness after divorce. I wish her well. It must be very difficult to be a wife of a genius and billionaire.
Couldn't help but puke a bit upon mention of the name Eve Ensler.
Hearing her story, I have the utmost respect for this woman.
you don't give a respect she had here that man lose the respect not her he used her to his life style that's it he is not a man he is a cruel beast doesn't have concern
Always 2 sides I listened to his lengthy response as well.
Elon is too smart [ass]. He is also very rich, and they have 5 children, WTF fight over money, he should give her, her due. I have lost respect for Elon; he is a misogynist and all-around bed them until he's bored. F him.
"If you were my employee, I would fire you." That is your exit sign.
fair. thank you for watching
Heartbreaking sentence :(
@@RelationshipAdvocates " I am the alpha in this relationship." While you are dancing at your reception? What would have even prompted a remark like that on the day of one's wedding? At least you got 5 beautiful children and hopefully a little financial security in the deal. Thank you for sharing. Love from Texas.
Alpha man maintaining his frame. That's what turns ladies on 😍
@@wshyangify yep
This first wife loved him before he was rich. She loved the person he was before the money. He is such a fool to have given her up. His second wife will get millions when he divorces her. Sad that he didn’t share his wealth with the one woman who loves him for him. I don’t care if he is a genius , he is a fool. A fool with his money.
100
His mother was a model.
Hes already left the 2nd wife has he not? Hes with a musician named Grimes now. They named their baby a series of vowels. I think its name is "X Ae eA-x16". No joke.
@@Janellabelle Oh, I didn’t realize the woman who had this last child (that they names some crazy letters and numbers) was his third attempt. Hahaha. What a mess he is. He’s rich. I guess he’s happy with his money. Why should he care why a woman hangs around him. He has so much money he could give each of them several million dollars (except his first wife, he screwed her over) and it wouldn’t effect him at all.
She already did years ago
I’m so sorry that you had to grieve the death of your son alone. You are an inspiration to all who have suffered this loss and that of your marriage. I wish you the best. Stay strong.
I wish you peace 💚💚💚🙏🙏🙏
She is a bad wife, not submissive enough, hence divorce
It’s a man’s world ladies get over it
@@rg1924 gross
Sorry to hear about such a loss; I've been through; not easy at all
Stay strong
I find myself attracted to men who are smart on paper, over time I've noticed something most of them have in common is lacking an equal emotional intelligence. A friend advised me that knowing when to walk away was also being smart. That conversation is present with me every time I run into men like this, no matter how attracted I feel towards him.
It takes a man of exceptional intellect, dedication and effort accomplish what Musk has accomplished, these are the men that have pushed humanity forward, that have propelled us from living like apes.
There are people who understand this and are willing to sacrifice and support such men to see them through to achieve the impossible.
And there are others that are self-centered and only concerned about their happiness, their fulfillment, and prioritize their needs.
I suspect many women can emphasize with her perspective of this story.
I realize it is but one half the story... and a jaded one at that.
Anyone can empathize. Elon most definitely has helped push us forward but he’s not god and needs to be held responsible just like anyone else
@@crazycoolclips
Elon only cares about himself. He's hurt so many people, not just his wife. He doesn't care about people at all. He also hasn't done much of anything to push humanity forward, he just has "plans" to. He's even lied about his success and claimed other people's work as his own. Regardless, great men don't need to be assholes. There have been greater men throughout history that treated their loved ones just fine.
Emotional intelligence is an oxymoron. Emotion isnt intelligence, its emotion, what animals have and intelligence is what animals dont have. This woman wanted someone birn into money and she got it.
@@crazycoolclips musk is a con man. Do the research.
I've just learned I'm richer then Elon ....
I love my wife I wouldn't trade anything in the world for her
Thats true happiness
🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️❤️
Bless you!! You most indeedly are richer!!!
Never take a side in one side story
Dude he loves his new wife a lot too. He just does not love his ex wife
“He’s not a man who takes, ‘No’ for an answer.” Every time I hear someone say this about a man, I get chills. It’s not a flattering statement, but feels like a dire warning.
You can be a man who takes "No" for an answer because you're certain about what you want in life. That exudes confidence. And to be fucking honest: you need a level of ego to be confident. Therefore, one should pay close attention to their self, observe it at all times and care for any wrong steps as it is really easy to confuse confidence with turning yourself into a narcissist. They're not the same, but they're similar. Humbleness should be part of your life when needed.
To be fair, she came to this conclusion when he showed up with ice cream after she agreed to go on a date with him. She didn't say no, she said yes, then decided to reject him after the fact in the most inhumane way possible. That should have been his red flag to avoid her at all costs. But if you dig even a little, you'd realize this entire video is based in half truth as well as complete fabrication, so it's a moot point actually.
Read "Think and Grow Rich" and you might change your mind. It is a warning, in sorts, to get out the way. It is determination.
Of course, in many relationships "no" should mean no, though.
he is a real man. you want a man you bend with your feminist horse shit. more and more men should be like that
that's because your imagination is infected
She is a role model. Strong, intelligent, resilient, self aware, and complete. Deep inside, she knows her true worth which no money can buy.
She’s attempting to gain sympathy after her “easy street” plan FAILED. Instead of empowering women, she wants us to see her as a victim so she doesn’t have to admit she was in it for the money. You’re just as disgusting as she is for calling this pig a “role model”.
An attractive woman who gives life to the man she loves.
@@geoattoronto; Yes, indeed.
Elon is basically following the path of his father. His dad was basically missing in action, always involved with whatever he was interested in and ignored the family. People repeat what's most familiar to them and they will keep repeating the behavior unless they make a conscious decision to change their behavior. Sacrificing your family is easily accomplished if you're fixated on your own interests, it's a decision made everyday by many people. Balance is the key to a good life. In the end, all you really have in this world is your family, nurture it.
There is no time to both devote to a demanding business and your family. Creative people and workaholics like Elon should never have families in the first place. This guy works almost 15 hours a day… no time for anything else.. this applies also to artists, they are living in a universe of themselves, no one can enter that world. Basically, that is why the simple folks who follow a routine, boring life, are the happiest ones👍
@@lucius574 I agree. Elon should not have wives or children, sounds harsh but realistically he does not have the time to keep a wife and children happy, therefore he should be selfless and not have them, focus on his work and not neglect a family he only has a small percentage of his time for. Elon just wants to increase the birth rate (possibly rightly so) We shall see how close a relationship he manages to develope with his children in the time.
@@jojocool555 I agree with you and Lucious,, The one thing that we are not discussing is success has a cost.. If you get on a train to success dont expect to see the sights.. we are not sure Elon wanted children.. Who knows how she got pregnant. the first time. Not sure if he was thinking she needs something to do at home .. just a guess. but the second one he might have wanted another child to heal with the pain of a loss,. Most entrepreneurs are not thinking family. unless they have a wife. just saying..
Elons father took his boys wo hie projects and taught them everything about material world...Elons hatred for his father may have something to do with the young cousin that old Musk allegedly seduced and had a child with... but who knows. Elon is a genius problem solver but does not know history and treats people as robots, including his young new son whom he gave weird name as if he were a robot and whom he takes as a prop to get more admiration...
@@lucius574 Narcissists are highly driven and usually successful but are hell to be with and love. And everyday folks are not necessarily the happiest or divorce wouldn’t be so high. Many married women and partnered women in long term relationships suffer abuse and cheating which leads to divorce.
I can't imagine the sadness of losing a child, rich or poor doesn't change the fact that life can be terrifyingly hard.
Absolutely. U can’t buy ur mental state or use money to make it through grief. Pain is the best equalizer for a nation.
It's painful. And then there are people who are emotionally unavailable. Rich or poor doesn't matter. Heart matters.
@Philip Madden So what, some rich people can't have kids. Some people have no kids because they never met the right person, or had other obstacles in life. Money clearly is not something negative, but it doesn't solve everything, anyone who thinks so never had a real problem. All the worst ones are those that cannot be solved with money.
Imagine treating the mother of your 5 children as a leech and untrustworthy, it shows your character.
He did not want to give her anything.
@@annhans3535 She doesnt deserve anything... i mean wtf ? its not her money, its hes. Sadly law enables poorer person to steal money from the rich one.
@@KuopioKallavesi She was with him before he had all of the money and was the mother of his kids. Of course she is entitled to a percent of his wealth, hence why the law is the way it is in every 1st world country. Albeit at times it can favour women too much.
Life is meaningless, who are we to judge someone, none of us are sages. Human character is grey and different maybe that's what makes us, us.
@@LongJohnnn if the mother leaves the home she loses the rights, i think the problem is a lot more complex than this video says. Don't be naive
I also loved my ex-husband’s wife. She was really a good friend. In a way I was comforted that they seemed happily married. Later found out she had compromised so much she actually ended up despising him. She passed away, too young and alone in hospital. He was too tired to sit out the last hours of her life . He needed his sleep. I was away in another continent. I had contempt for him but kept my feelings to myself for the sake of the children. Give me intellect any time to brilliance which masks the incompetence of the absence of emotional intelligence. I’m South African and find Musk repulsive.
I’m American and find him repulsive! 😂
I liked Musk until this video. He sounds uncompromising and life with him horribly lonely. He hides all this
in public showing himself as the person everybody bullied.
What is the difference between intellect and brilliance?
What is your point? Obviously like in many cases brilliance does not perceive intellect but don’t understand the point of your question!
Thank you for your reply. However it’s absolute nonsense what you said. Being abusive is an emotional trait, you either have it or not.
Abuse is not a choice it’s depravity. Actually your comment is useless. Why bother?
This young lady is much stronger mentally than elon can only dream of being. So much respect for her.
"Although she had dark hair when she and Elon first met, she's now blonder than I've ever been".
What a good finish and a sisterly way to warn other women.
Dye your hair blonde and live a billion dollar lifestyle.
Or don't dye your hair blonde and don't live a billion dollar lifestyle.
Pick one. It's not that complicated is it?
She also tattooed herself inspired by aliens and Elon, now they're "partially separated". I didn't know those term exists 😆
@@A.I.- That's right. If Elon Musk were a plumber or auto mechanic, he wouldn't be dating young beauties.
He doesn't have to be a hunky studhorse to pull with that kind of dough on tap. If he prefers blondes, so be it.
@@A.I.- Sounds like a great attitude that will totally get you the woman of your dreams.
Or not.
@@devilsoffspring5519 You've never seen a plumber with a hot wife? They make quite a bit of money relatively speaking.
This is what 50 shades of grey realistic "happily ever after " would've been.
In Elon’s case 50 Shades of Blonde…🤭
So true!
Their age gaps don’t seem that much. She said he was one grade above her in college. He couldn’t be that old
...if not worse.
True!!
I cried as she spoke about her son Nevada's death. That kind of pain is raw and unimaginable, and she went through that process alone.
Elon tried to invent a machine to save his son, there's more to the story. Elon consulted with top doctors worldwide to save his son. No one had a solution.
When he said "I am the alpha" he meant the same thing my husband meant by "we will never argue." I thought he was being unrealistic, and he was, but later I realized he meant that I will never be allowed to disagree with him. 8 years later I can list the traits of a malignant narcissist.
There’s 2 sides of this story. Now let’s hear Elon’s before judging.
yeah, you should have married a beta male.
@The Real Paul McCartney Revealed true. women are good at hiding signs.
Narcs are highly driven and usually successful impossible to be and live with.
@@apachedr34 she shulda been smarter and never signed those papers- bamboozled by the smartest man on EARTH - it was the Fairytale that lost the battle for her.
When your husband things you grieving your son’s death is “manipulative”, it’s time for him to become an ex husband, regardless of the money. I’d never have another child with a man who did that. Heartbreaking
Elon is a good guy czcams.com/video/yGQVR6Fojko/video.html
Cold hearted
Creep. 😒
Absolutely
@Arthur De Souza that’s sad and painful to shun mourning and memory of the life they made together. a piece of them two. baby boy mattered. hopefully, he’ll come to FEELING that one day. 🥀 that being said, i still would never co-create with him again. Edit: Just had the thought that Master of the Universe can’t fathom that something or someone that came from him could be vulnerable or faulty in any way. Has to realize he’s only human after all.
I was married to a Narcissistic woman and your story resonates with me. I became a dead shell of myself. I realized I could never meet her expectations, even if I hung the moon. 4 years later, I counting my blessings. Thanks for sharing your story.
Aspergers and narcissistic personality can come across quite summer. I thought my ex too have had aspergers , but no he was just irregular NPD.
Just like that you start to feel confused and ill .
So now you know that's what you're dealing with.
Never again...
Just realized this not too long ago , I don’t even know the person I used to be , seems like another life before my relationship … I haven’t worked in two yrs , I’m on medication cause I’m the one that’s depressed and crazy , I’m the problem for everything but yet all I do is lay in the bed and cook and clean and pick up after him and things like he will miss the trash can and not care cause he will call me to get him a drink but he does it by saying he can’t hear me and asks if I wana go out to eat , I always know it’s a set up … I’ve been secretly working to save money and I’m almost to the point where I can leave . I haven’t told my family yet , I play like I’m so depressed and only wana be home for him and I’ve learned to be with him and I was ok with it all til a little while ago I started waking up and seeing the reality , and the meds are working , that will be his biggest mistake is thinking the meds would do him the favor but nope they are making me see clearly ! Never again after this ! I’m glad u made it out and can find yourself and I wonder if this type of person/relationship changes u forever ?
@@honeybee6858 .. you seem ready to get out from under. Get some strength in knowing millions would support you and blast him as u do it
@@honeybee6858 I was there 4 years ago. I packed a few clothes and left, moved to another state, homeless and penny less.The healing was excruciatingly painful. I eventually found myself again and emerged on the other side of all this a new person. I can honestly say now, the pain of leaving and healing was worth it. There’s hope trust me. Stay strong 💪
It only gets better after, lived with one for 4.5 years and sometime i think I will be single till the end of my days. But rather be single than to be in a toxic relationship with a narcissistic guy. He looked perfect and in a way he was. But noone else was perfect for him and therefore he will be always like that. Alone and without love. I am very happy now.
I am so disappointed in Elon now. I want to hear that he's done right by his children and by the mother of his children. She deserves better than this.
It's not money grubbing, it's about justice and respect.
I hope his children learn empathy and care about others feeling, unlike their father.
If he was capable of doing that, no need for divorce. Most women don't get it. YOU ARE NOT THE CENTER OF MEN LIKE THIS. Why fault him, for being himself? He can't help being who he is...same as YOU. I read once what said. His mind flashes ideas , ALL THE TIME. He can't turn that off.
How were you not disappointed in him before?
She met him when he did not have his money and he was supportive.
I totally agree 💯
The best thing about this woman is she trashed no one but realises herself and highlighted the characters of her husband that made her couldnt cope. what a character
Very refreshing to hear about someone who "had it all", but just wanted love, partnership and deep, meaningful interactions.
Why is it 'refreshing'?
This is known as “the Real Deal”
Lmao no woman wants that , when they get it they end up cheating because he was a boring nice guy she could push over 🙄
No. She wanted to be equal to him. She will never be. He wanted a wife. Not competition. She had said it herself. Her ex boyfriend’s said she was too competitive. #MGTOW
@@ajmickel2035
This is sadly so very true
Grimes and Elon just broke up. I hope these women have found peace and the children will be alright.
these people are already loaded..THESE KIDS CAN RETIRE RIGHT NOW never have to do anything for the rest of their lives...
@@xpez9694 They have different struggles, financial aspect is covered but it's not everything. I saw an interview where the kids say their relationship with their father is not the same now. They also have to deal with his fame and frequent absence
Grimes is difficult.
@@postmodern9208 difficult?
@@tutziepop No father around with no mother figure around makes for a broken home.
A broken home equals emotionally/mentally broken kids no matter how rich they are.
His wife is a phenomenal writer… She’s a great American writer… If she’s not already♥️
This woman is very brave ,and what she is still going through with the financial issues is heart breaking . But I hear in her voice she is 100 xs stronger for what she has been through. Thank you , you have helped me.
"At least she wasn't blonde, I find that refreshing"
LMAOO
lmao that was funny and hurtful since my ex husband cheated on me with a blonde
@@olivewarrior5634 F it. You’re going to be better off without him. Go rock who you are and not let the dude bring you down. Peace and healing to you.
But grimes is blonde lol stupid
You aren't stupid I meant he is
@@42TE thank you!! already progressing 10times more in life the past few months than i ever have in that 5 year relationship lol thought he was my best friend too, turned out he was slowing me down and made me feel like im doing everything wrong, kept me on the loop whenever i wanted to end it, also cheated on several blondes, from our first pregnancy up till the end xD dunno why i typed A blonde lol
Just happy he's not gonna be the next elon musk
I think the most important part of this by far is when she says "he was a driven, competitive man at work, and I found out that didn't change once he got home". The person you marry is the same you see when he's with his friends, employees, workers etc. And he may act different to you now, but that could change anytime. Choosing a generally loving and kind person as a partner is far better than choosing a loving and kind person to you only.
A loving and kind person that cannot get things done is an incredibly contemptible person.
gold digger. only got with him after the wealth and power. sad how no girls poijt that out.
EXACTLY!!!
Don’t judge a book by its cover.
They could be an extremely charming sociopath or someone with social anxiety who’s unable to open up in front of working colleagues or whatever. It’s not just black and white..
@@xtraterrestriiial-love I totally agree with you. Nothing is simply black and white. My husband is competitive when it comes to certain things and he is a very competent person with moderate success in what he’s doing but he is also so loving, kind and super patient with me, treating me like the only person in the world that he loves as he is to me. Although he and I both will never be mega rich, that is ok for us since we’re not hugely ambitious. Humans are never that simple or one dimensional, we’re all layered with multiple sides, just need to be careful what you’re looking for.
Wow! It gives me courage that every bad relationship and divorce makes you stronger and leads you to find who you are instead of crippled you as victim. Thank you for sharing.
OMG I justread you simple short perfect explanation.. Mine was two long but the same end result.. thank you for your comment.
Only applies to women. Men lose EVERYTHING in divorce. Many kill themselves
"Either we fix our marriage today or we divorce tomorrow" Elon filed for divorced the next day.. That was fast
Well we are all imperfect in the eyes of the simulation.
She's just salty.. she knows he's got a lot of worth and she screwed up
@@privateprivate1865 "Worth." Right. The Huns had a lot of worth, too. Genghis had a hell of a pocket book.
@@powderstone8187 i didn't know that.
Nope. He did exactly as he said. That was logic.
You can’t put a price tag on escaping a narcissist. Life is so precious and we often confuse wealth with happiness and freedom.
why is he narcissist the guy has been a very hardw0rking and mission driven man. if he was your ideal husband there would be no tesla or spacex. We cant have it all elon musk prioritized his dreams and ambitions thus resulting to his failed marriages but imagine if the woman he marry is as passionate and enthusiastic as him.
Elon Musk isn't a narcissist. I don't think any narcissist in history has ever achieved the success Elon has.
They're usually pretty useless people who only survive on the backs of others.
Elon has Asperger's. Not nearly the same thing.
Best leaving the psychoanalysis to those who are qualified.
Also, you seem to have a problem undertstanding this woman. Maybe you should listen again... she didn't escape him. He divorced her.
@@antonystringfellow5152 many narcissists and psychopaths are extremely successful and very wealthy. Elon is absolutely a narcissist if he resorted to sledging and focusing on flaws and faults of the other in an argument. An emotionally intelligent person with empathy does not do that to someone they love -- if they see their partner with 'faults and flaws' then they would first understand that those faults and flaws must exist within themselves first and their partner is mirroring back, and second they would suggest therapy to work on addressing those faults and flaws if they were so detrimental. A person that resorts to highlighting the faults and flaws in another in an argument rather than on the topic at hand, is someone that is avoiding responsibility of their own part they have played to reach that point.
In a healthy relationship there is no need to argue about anything, rather than arguing, healthy people will seek to resolve issues before they become pain points that cause arguments.
Dealing with a person with Asperger's is a tough call, and it's not up to their partner to absorb their shortcomings. Rather, the person with Asperger's requires the suitable therapy so that they learn how to respond in suitable, mature and healthy ways.
Whichever way a person gets away from a narcissist, whether the narc instigates the divorce or not, it's still an ESCAPE.
*other hints that he is a narcissist is the pre-nuptial agreements, expecting his wife to go blonder, etc -- he cared more about his financial position rather than equality and her welfare in and after the relationship.
You clearly like to attack women and defend a narcissist, so chances are that you are also a narcissist or an abuser of some description.
Who's the Narcissistic here? The domineering (re: hot) husband who is successful in all that he does, who just wants a wife that's at least willing to dye her hair a certain color? Or the demanding, unaccomplished, lazy and bored (her words) wife and self-proclaimed feminist who insists on equality, despite going out of her way to avoid doing the things that will make her man appreciative of her, and absolutely NOT appreciating a damn thing he's doing for her?
“I see myself in you”.
An early signal that he had already fallen in love with someone else - himself.
You should love yourself first.
you cant start a relationship if you dont atleast love yourself. then its just one sided you need help all the time. its why depressed people find it hard to want a relationship yet feel lonely at the same time.
@LD71 SC That’s not true you cannot fallin love or have sex with your person unless you guys are personality similar. That’s why when dating you see if you have similar interest duh 🤝
that was dramatic as fuck ..
yes love yourself and not your inadequacies I agree
Justine, YOU ARE A SURVIVOR from all that you describe in this clip. Good for you for having shared custody of your boys, that's important. Good for you for FINDING YOURSELF! Good for you for FEELING GROUNDED again. You are a beautiful person, and honey NOBODY can that away from you, YOU saved yourself. Keep a good friendship with Elon, it will do wonders for everyone, especially YOU.
Remarkable lady! Elon is a wonder but in the real basics of life, he’s not quite in par with his exceptional intelligence.
Wow! She fell for him because he made her feel that she didn’t have to dumb herself down because she was a woman. That she could respected as an equal
And as soon as she marries him, he berates her into being submissive by telling her that he’s alpha in the relationship and everything must go his way… and started to dumb her down and treat her like a trophy wife!
If that’s not a manipulative ego driven person I don’t know what is. He likes the challenge of changing something into the opposite of who they aspire to be. Never be vulnerable with this man.
Typical of a narcissistic "hunter" who doe not take NO for an answer...just as his father... whom Elon considers EVIL...
@@vlastamolak1156 🎯
I beleive the man should be the dominant one in the relationship, but that doesn't mean getting your own way all the time.
@@noremac0575 Nonsense! Good relationship is between partners and does not involve domination or games... Elon clearly has problems with women, judging by his relationships after divorcing his first wife who gave him 5 sons who are now teenagers. The latest women Grimes sounds very weird...on and off again...
Perhaps Elons's father (whom Elons hates) is eight that Ellon needs to grow up. Elon Musk claims that he is looking for a good woman just as his mom... Perhaps he is mamma's boy looking for love in all the wrong places 😃🙃😇
@@noremac0575 that’s fine, but that not what he says before he married her is my point! She agreed to marry a man that saw her as intelligent, dynamic, and equal.
The “if you were my employee, I would fire you” part prolly hit hard
He’s so detached despite having kids with her
The fact that it didn't end there astounded and saddened me
I would imagine he said it the way you would answer the question, "Do you think it's going to rain today?"
My dad said to me that one, when I was little
@@Allison_Hart best answer!
She was rich in heart ❤️ something you can’t buy.
Wanna bet #invest #ai
You dont even know her. Maybe living with her day after day was annoying as F and he couldnt stand her anymore. She sounds a little dramatic and i think I understand how he felt after listening to her for just 20 minutes.
@@NEbluefire She sounds so attention seeking so who's the narcissist. She was an adult capable of making her own decisions of where to be and how to live her life. So if she was a victim, she was a willing one.
So sorry to hear all this, Justine. I've had marriages like this in my past lives. That's why I chose to be single in this one as my early relationships were headed in this direction too. They too were mainly about taking, not giving. Have also had a few men around who wouldn't open up about their feelings or talk. I always recall you saying somewhere that you lost yourself in this marriage. It's commendable of you to have formed a friendship with Elon's 2nd wife. She obviously wasn't the perfect match and that marriage ended a lot sooner. Good luck to him finding his ideal woman. There aren't many of those around these days and even his money won't buy one. I wish you all the happiness and love you and your kids deserve. 😍🥰😍♥
He wont find an ideal wife, because he himself is not ideal. Nice to see another Mira!
It's a torture being married to someone who doesn't consider you worthy to be loved unless you are perfect in his eyes...
My mom said this “no matter how successful you are outside, if you fail at home, you failed”. This is how I see Mr Musk.
Your mum was wise...
So Jeff Besos, Bill gates all failed.
50% or more of people have a failed marriage. I failed and felt terrible but there are new ventures you can succeed in. Failing once does not make you a failure, failing 10 times does not make you a failure. Giving up on trying to improve makes you a failure
Too much of anything equates to compulsion. In this case, being successful is a compulsion. In its course somethings have to give.
In this case it was his wife
@@lukebaker3633 There's an old saying...Failure Breeds Success.
I will always say this... no one gets as rich as Elon Musk or Jeff Bezos, by being a nice person... NO ONE.
But where does that belief come from? Sounds like a belief based speculation
@@04dram04 or maybe it’s based off of the exploitation of faulty labor laws
Or maybe what about exploration of human and natural resources in hence called third world countries?
Usually they are involved with corruption through the government. Most of the richest people in history used the government to create monopolies.
Elon is basically funded by the US gov. Bezos hands over amazon data for very profitable cloud contracts and subsidised post. Amazons profit from sales is very small.
Haha that's true
OMG - I'm crying!!!!!!!!! What a beautiful but sad story- God bless the children and I hope for happiness for both parties involved! Sometimes love isn't enough 'glue' to hold the marriage!
She is amazing and and deserves someone better who can understand her perspective on life and relationships.She is literally me.
She sure does cling to that name tho
I feel so much empathy for Justine. To be with someone prior to success and help to build them up and have 6 babies with him all while he is becoming excessively rich, only to leave you nearly penniless is heartless. I'm so sorry. Justine is brilliant though, very intelligent and well spoken.
I agree. Elon should have been better
A far cry from penniless.
@@organikpnw $16M..she blew him off until she met him again in Silicon Valley and then she fell in love..wonder why not before?🤔...🙄
@@coletanner5193 o9
BS when she left him also the worst time of his life. Justine knew her choice, dont victimize her
I did marry this guy. And yes he made millions. But I walked away with nothing because I could not stomach the constant put downs, control and the inability to be myself.
I’m there. And I’m scared to do it.
You kept your dignity
@@emiemi6276 ⚘
@@emiemi6276 pray and ask God. He will help you! He helped me! I’m free now!
Same. I was engaged for years to a wealthy man. I left. Stuffing my identity wasn’t worth it.
A very classy lady, intelligent and down to earth. Nice combination! 👏👏👏
Elon Musk is on the spectrum. If you look at the relationship with this in mind, it makes a lot of sense. He's not a villain.
Please explain what you mean by "he's on the spectrum." It's a myth that autistics lack empathy. What this woman is describing fits the narcissist bill perfectly. Please review and revise your misconceptions.
It’s not that people with Autism lack empathy but rather that it is hard for them to pick up on social queues and read in between the lines. You have to be explicit in your thoughts at times and if they are telling you how they feel it might come off as harsh because of how explicit and raw that feeling is.
one of the things i like about elon's ex is she played piano while saying this.
Lol
That Piano & Her Soft Voice Makes You Sleepy so Nobody Will be Able to Stay Alert Till The End.
😂
lmfao im dead
😂😂😂
My husband is a very simple person with simple goals and simple tastes. He is very loving and caring. My dad was the same.
This is the best way to be
@@RelationshipAdvocates Absolutely. : )
Lucky...actually blessed!☺️
What is the simple life?
Lucky!🌹
This man is visionary, he can never fully commit to someone, she would always play second fiddle to his goals. His journey is less traveled. One must appreciate that kind of man like other great men of the past were not meant for marriage. Their life is bigger than them. Their accomplishments and legacy reigns supreme.
She definitely did tell her story with utmost dignity, and poise; I hope she gets to win her rightful share of the wealth he acquired during their marriage; I wonder what his 5 sons will think of him when they become adults and learn how he treated their mother; Success should never be at the expense of one’s family; he is not as successful as I thought before hearing her side of the story.
You are a great woman. Brave yo tell it all. Money may be useful but when it destroys people it is nothing more than a curse. I hope you have moved on and your building a beautiful life.
All you virtue signalingers are unreal. HE HAS A DIFFERENT MIND SET.
His own father was very brutal and treat him badly and he said he would treat his own children better, he is a busy guy and ppl demand his time, but he does make time for his family now, but this is tragic to hear, his first wife was a rare gem that was priceless.
Elon and Justine divorced many years ago, and the five sons ARE adults now.
An 'alpha' does not tell another they are an 'alpha.' They just live as one. Anything else is a wish or a performance.
That's what people with Aspergers do. They say outrages things that other people find insulting. They can come across ass sinkholes, but it's just somthing they cant help. I'm suprised to learn he actually let the ice cream melt down his arm
@@blackmatterlives9865 not true universally. I am high functioning, but seriously autistic, and I learned to not do this while still young. This isn't a thing for most, especially an "upper class boy".
Based on this testimony, I'd say that he is seriously narcissistic. It's unfortunate.
@@timothyblazer1749 ez there sir white knight, we don't know his side of the story
@@timothyblazer1749 Allow me to reword my statement: That's how MANY people with AMS behave. Even with treatment. In some cases it's not treatable.
I must agree even tho I’ve always been an Elon fan. This makes u think tho.
Abusers often change their behavior toward you when they think they "have you." When you move in together and you can't afford to live on your own, when you get married and can't afford to get a divorce, when you have a child together and want nothing more than to give your kids a whole family. They know they can treat you progressively worse and you will just try harder.
You are on point! I see that clearly
This is so true. It's like a switch flips
Yes. There is truth in your comment.
That's how it's is.
WOW
@@tessafox1329 I agree with the first comment above because abusive people (women or men) acting exactly like this. She/he want to cut you first from your family and background etc. But it doesn't mean that Elon Musk is a narcissistic. For God's sake. Yes Elon Musk is very smart men and he is futuristic. He know exactly what he want and he get it. People are different and it's good. Me personally belive that Elon look for exactly strong and independent women like his mother. His Mom is very intelligent, never let to break her wings. Her life wasn't easy but she make the best and great of it. I think that Elon Musk women are very privileged. But it's only my opinion.
GUYS marriage is hard enough to keep together. 68% of marriages end in divorce..
I admit that she handled the whole video with class.. Theres many ways things end. And we are only hearing her side of the story.......
I am now so impressed by what he missed in this beautiful womans emotions and mind that I am literally going to go look up every thing she's ever written. Her ability to write and exspress her feelings without name calling or mud slinging is beyond beautiful. I'm actually almost speechless. My interest in Elon has always led me to one conclusion and it's this that his own childhood pain was so great that he has become a mixture of his father and his mother. His world only exists on Mars as a evolutionary being with no words no feelings just an existence that doesn't involve any memory of anything bad. It's not about changing the conditions of earth or the human condition. However Justine is a different story and just may be the the factor that gives her 5 sons the reality of love and nurture on this planet to take both worlds and the technology and the vision and change the course of the human Spirit.
He just gave a gift to Ukraine so that they can get Internet as a generous, life saving gesture. I don't think he can be that bad. And I do think that he cares about the environment. Investing in the unknown/outer space has the potential of helping life on earth. I'd rather have a visionary exploring the unknown than the government alone.
Well said!
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interesting point about why Elon is trying to escape to Mars!
I think that you've gone a little too far into another's analysts. Better and possible, to simply ask Elon for his truth about the Mars thing as he is honest and knows the truth. Or, there are more current video's where he explains himself and vision of travel to Mars and his goals. There is also a current video where he talks opently about the divorce and the settlements. He wants and has talked on it.
You can have your billionaire husbands, who worship material things more than life itself. I've been down that road where men think by handing you their credit card you should kiss their feet. When I finally did marry, I made sure it was just a regular guy who liked regular things. We were married 40 years before he passed away, but I wouldn't trade one of those 40 years. We had an apt in NYC and a sleeping bag when we started out, so what, we laughed for years about it. We ice skated in Central Park, walked hand in hand with our Sabrett Hot Dog off the street cart, and laughed the night away. We traveled and collected seashells and we snorkeled together ,and enjoyed our life. Maybe we didn't have a bunch of material things, but so what, we had love and commitment and mostly lots of laugh and love. These ''elites" have nothing but a bunch of ''stuff" as I call it, but there's always this sadness in their eyes. Years ago I hung out with the Wall Street crowd, money people that drank themselves into a stupor constantly. The people I looked up to as successful in life, I no longer looked up to, it was more like pity than anything else.
Super comment👍
Truth!
Sounds like what you had with the man you married was priceless. Some people never find love. You found a special love. God bless.
yeah i agree with you, but i also aknowledge that not everbody wants the life you want, Elon obviously is very impactfull in this world and his ideas are pushing us forward,he is a driven person , that is one of the rare oppurtunities where someone has the means, luck the stamina, focus and determination to achieve these things, and he is pushing the pedal to the max, such a relationship like yours couldn't work in his life.
such progress in the world, be it technological, scientific, medical or whaever comes from individual that sacrificed certain things you had, so i'm gratefull for such people as it always needs to be balance.
Great Post.
Thank You for sharing
Men like Elon usually are very emotionally absent partners. They can be very intellectually attractive, but then you find yourself longing for a connection you will never find. Thank god she left him.
Edit: I was not talking about Autism or Asperger’s or any of those conditions. I was just talking about emotionally absent men and women that don’t prioritize their partners. This conversation got so twisted in a complete different direction.
He's like Robin William's character from the movie Flubber.
To be honest, I have two sons on the autism spectrum and Asperger's syndrome can be especially hard to recognize, especially if a person is able to excel in an area. I am not saying Elon has Asperger's. I just mean people who are highly intelligent but seem to not "get it" in relationships MAY be on that spectrum. My relationships with my sons are at times strained and I even UNDERSTAND where they're at! I greatly admire Elon and I appreciate his ex's explanation that she doesn't have a bunch of ill will toward him and still loves him. Just rather sad, I am sure!
Or a narcissist lol
What a loser he is. May have money but he seems quite a loser.
@@aquarius5719 sounds like projection 🤣
Being married to Aspergers is unbelievably tough. It feels one sided and there is an overwhelming lack of empathy & support when it does not suit their own needs. Being ambitious doesn't make them feel alpha enough. And a child with them ties you to them forever. Mine would not do couple's therapy because he didn't want to waste the time or money on something not guaranteed.
Autistic people can feel empathy too…
It’s the narcissist in him that can’t feel empathy.
Autistic people can feel empathy too. Don’t make assumptions about the community please.
Stop making assumptions about people on the spectrum. Just because their autistic doesn’t mean they lack empathy.
Empathy is the ability to feel what another person is feeling. Like sadness or anger.
And autism is a developmental disorder that impairs the ability to communicate and interact.
It’s not that we lack empathy. We just have issues expressing it as well as our feelings.
Do your research please…
I feel so badly for Justine. Elon's children deserve the best he can give them, and so does the mother of his children, if he wants them to respect him when they grow up.
Only the house that's still in litigation?!
She is very positive, with none of her statements demeaning Elon. She is just telling her personal experience from her point of view as the wife of a millionaire. She is a classic example of relationship where you changed yourself to suit your partner's visualization of "ideal", and it never works. You might pull the act for a while but in the end, you will end up exhausted.
Thank you for watching
She received millions for that! LOL
I wish I had an ex- like her
She is positive, its sad when these things happen; I have a global business, however I still end her a little letter and a Bounty chocolate bar in the conventional post every month or throw her on the back of the motorbike and rush off into the wind; her being Vietnamese cheap village girl fears went away many years ago and she still smiles so not everyone is the same :)
She is manipulative and constantly painting Elon in bad light (Constant slight of hand), she does it very nicely and smartly, so average person simply swallows the whole thing without thinking. This is an example of subtle but toxic culture that exists. She relies on heavily on this toxic attitudes towards men.
Think what she is doing! PUBLIC attempt to shame, character assasination, etc- And you people dont even pay attention to it. " Its just her experience" wtf i wrong with u people.
“If you were my employee. I would fire you” “ I’m your wife” 😬. Emotionally unavailable man with childhood trauma🤔. #Narcissists or he’s just like his father 🤔. Amen to healthy husbands/dads/men 🙏🏽♥️🌹🇬🇲
Smh, amen for sure.. 😔🙏🏾
If it were me, I would have a comeback every time. Employer/ employee is an imbalanced power dynamic with one having to usually obey orders.
Husband/ wife is an equal partnership. He should get off his high horse.
Childhood trauma...? What childhood trauma...? NOOOO! This is Genetics! Genetically malevolent!
@@saggiteightyfour8367 husband and wife depending on the relationship might be a “submissive vs dominant” Elon was pretty sure what he wanted and it was a submissive wife, doesn’t mean she’s less equal.
Amen to whatever, but you pass by hundreds of such good men everyday and all of these people are invisible to you.
Because you only have eyes for Chad 😍
I have immense respect for this woman. I have some understanding about this type of relationship.
Note that both Elon and his wife both had independent attorneys during the post nup negotiations, and there was an independent mediator. She does not mention that she had independent legal representation during the mediation, nor that it was her sense that the post nup was fair- at the time. But today Elon's wealth is much larger, thus the legal suits. I'm not saying who is right or who is wrong, but simply presenting more info. to ponder.
Don't present your info, show us a reference.
Unfortunately, the type of person that can accomplish what Elon has, probably doesn't make for the best husband
She gave birth to 5 of his sons. She deserves better than this.
True
Okay well considering she was part of his life since the beginning he should have known better than to pursue her at the level that he did. To hook up and move on maybe but to pursue her to marry her then he fucked up.
@@Lissieraebaby He has Asperger's Syndrome, like so many males. Thinking about feelings and how one's actions affects other feelings is the weakest skill of this type of brain.
@@sallyho146 theyre also her sons. Youre making it sound like its a gift from her to him.
Those poor kids. Imagine Elon Musk being your dad; a chief Engineer at Space X, trying to colonize Mars, and then simultaneously the guy that left your mom and makes her deal with his assistant in matters regarding you. 😒
seems like a man who knows what he wants
What happens when you go for a chad
on the other hand you will have lot of siblings ;)
@@per2 😂 At the rate he’s separating from women every 3-5 years? For sure. Lol
how can they respect him when they grow up????a
"my husband's going to kill me." These thoughts are so heartbreaking 😢. I have watched this dynamic play out in so many older generations and indeed it plays out less in younger generations but divorces are ever increasing. I know one thing is certain, any couple that requires a prenup or postnup for the relationship to move forward means that at least one party is aware that the values between the pair is not shared and the exchange is not grounded in mutual commitment. Relationships that start centered have also fallen apart but irregardless it's a tragedy that so many of us never learn and embrace that true love is a sacrificial giving that does not expect in return. Most of us never evolve to that level and there's a reason there are more priests than saints. But when it does happen all heaven rejoices!! Boy howdy.
Beautifully written, and I hope very healing...God Bless you and your children, all 6 of them. I can't imagine enduring the loss of your baby and treated so coldly by your husband at the time, the father. You have won my dear. You have won your life back. The Amber's, they get the money? Mind boggling...
“I am the alpha in this relationship” during your first wedding dance - how romantic.
Huge red flag
Knowing her he was probably joking and she took it seriously
@@seanbaker2577 Yes I’m sure he was joking. Elon is no alpha male. Just wait until the current wife or girlfriend gets kicked to the curb saying the same thing. Then what will you say? Stop making excuses for his bad behavior. A lot of CEOs are psychopaths so I’m sure he is too.
@@seanbaker2577 dude called a guy that rescued kids from a cave a pedo..he's wack
Ewww!
As a husband, Elon has failed miserably and is not respectable. Money can get him women and houses but not a wife and a home.
and who told you he wants a wife.
Man..that gave me chills. So very fucking true.
@@austinjohn8713 well, I would imagine the woman he married and had five children with.
I don't think he cares in the slightest
Grimes is too young to realize he will leave her someday and move on..!
Imagine you are in accident, and you worry that your husband will kill you. instead of him worrying about you, he will get mad at you. My god what a horrible husband he is. It's like my aunt and my dad, I can't tell them anything because they will blame me for it. I got robbed and held by knife on my throat and my aunt, instead of worrying bout me she even blamed me for it and called me stupid. During the time there were many kidnappers of rich people, she never worries bout me, instead she worries that she'd be obligated to pay for me if i get kidnap. I can't even tell them I'm sick it's going to be my fault again. Some people cannot feel compassion anymore, no remorse, no humanity. For them life is just about power, money, success and control. Love and compassion is no longer existing in them. I'm alone now and poor but I am happy and peaceful I can sneeze louder, i can cough, I can yawn freely, I can just be a normal person. I don't need to worry about making mistakes and I don't need to always look decent, I don't need to force myself to smile when I'm upset, and I don't need to control my tears. I have peace of mind being an imperfect flawed person.
Elon Musk is a very unique interesting person. His ex wife told her story which is written with expertise. They are both great people but have different wants and needs so it's better to go their separate ways than to be stuck in a dead end marriage. I wish you both the best in life. I am sorry for your loss of your son and happy that you have five more. Enjoy your life because it's too short.
Yes. Let it be a lesson to others to know what they're getting into before jumping.
He is not a great person. At all. Treating a mother grieving the death of her baby that way is unforgivable. What a cruel, heartless piece of shit.
Elon is super competitive and married to his work. It's clear that a person who works 90+ hours, sleeps in his factory, and makes millions in his early twnties, doesn't believe his family life is top priority above all others.
unfortunately we need some people to change the world
@@generovinsky Nah we don't need genius people changing the world. The majority of real changes happened over the course of decades or centuries and entail such complex societal and cultural structures that no man or woman alone could be the only agent of that. We strive and succeed as a species because we collaborate, not because we rely on genius individuals to carry on technological and scientific advancements
@@giusepino50 no car company was taking serious making electric cars, no private capital would have ever thought about creating a rocket company to go to mars, and not even NASA was looking into going there so your statement was proven wrong long ago. All this crazy things like electric cars, autopilot, rehusable rockets, hyperloop, etc...would not exist in our current reality if it wasn't because of Elon
@@toke182 My statement was proven wrong by what exactly? Do we even live in the same world? Electric cars are nowhere near the standard for automotive transportation in any country in the world. Teslas work fine but they are still rich people toys: very far from being a revolutionary product (and competition is rapidly catching up). Oh, and Musk never got to Mars either so what are we talking about exactly?
Anyways, my argument was that no man alone can revolutionise anything nowadays, and thinking that Musk came up with his ideas with no inspiration and no help from anybody is just utterly naive.
One last thing, autopilot and electric cars existed way long before Musk started making Teslas, and hyperloop, again, doesn't even exist, just like Tesla roadsters, Cybertrucks, Neuralink and Tesla Bots so far
@@giusepino50 You need a catalyst, an idol to start a movement. Just like Greta Thunberg did with the environment. People have talked about environment problems for decades and nothing has been done. It is just like Jesus, people believe in God and the divine because they need an idol to look up to. Change does not come from a group of people. Most major changes that ever happened in history was because of one or two persons actions.
He's married to someone for 10 years, shares 5 children but doesn't want to give her anything when he one the richest person in the world, how can someone be so sadistic.
He gives her 20k every months on top of paying all the expenses related to his kids. But I guess she really wants half his stuff and a jet of her own.
Yeah, this nasty scorned ex would have stopped at nothing if it weren't for the prenup. Though I feel sad that she's getting 20k per month, she deserves nothing, she needs to go to work,,,preferably in a nightclub.
@@makut4154 He has 5 kids with her though, so those 20ks are to make sure that his children can have a great standard of living when they are with her. If they hadn't have children it would be a whole different story.
@@TJ-xq7xf 20k is just for the ex-wife. Elon gives money for the kids seperately.
From what I'm reading she got $2mil cash upfront and $80,000 per month in alimony. That was pre-tesla boom way back in 2008. She hardly had to struggle financially, not to say that divorce didn't take an emotional toll. You marry a narcissist who becomes the richest person on the planet with the ambition to colonize Mars, and you dont think you gonna have to sacrifice something in other areas of his life? Really.
Well he's just like I thought! Privileged, narcissistic, self centered. He's so smart but has no emotions and I would hate being married to him and constantly put down. Good for you that he divorced you! Your are way better off!!!!
The entire problem I feel is where in the bond of marriage one grows dependent on the other. That's just how you become devoid of yourself. Marriage was between equals, if that equation is changed it will never be the same.
Yes, you have to have your own life. One depending on the other to to "make them happy" is destructive. He was a good provider, and got nothing for that.
Moral of the story, always love yourself more than anybody else!
No no. Comon. The moral is to give more effort to your relationship
yes ALWAYS LOVE YOURSELF MORE
@@germanher7528 and wise men don't marry, they pay a woman to have their children.
Absolutely
That's how you become a narcissistic person. It seems to me that Elon loved himself quite well. So from what you understood you want to be more like him in a relationship. Good luck with that
I am so glad you found happiness. I have never been the wife of a rich man, but I have been the wife of a narcissist and understand completely.
Any man/woman who achieves anything, President, CEO, gurus, World leaders the list is long. The majority of these great achievements, takes a special personality.
Yes he is most definitely a Narc ...I was married to one ...say no more
@@AngelFace-fu2uv Yes'. I understand too Angel Face ..!
Sadly there are many of us who have lost who we are to a narcissist. We know something is not quite right, but while trying not to drown under a barrage of criticism and blame, we are steadily pulled into the event horizon of someone who must try to maintain control over everything and everyone in their lives.
Her calm recital clearly shows what a beautiful person she is and why Musk would have been attracted to her. The grace she conveys, especially in choosing to be friends with his new wife, shows that even with all of that money he ultimately could not and did not win at least this challenge.
@@laurieann6688 beautifully said ...Amen 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
The one thing that she said that I find extremely alarming was when she got in the car accident and the first thought that popped in her head was "my husband is going to kill me." I mean WHAT? What was she so afraid of? Why wasn't her first thought "oh my husband is going to be so worried." That is very troubling to me.
I think he is a decent honest human. I wish him all the luck in the World.
so you don't care about her story?
@@polpol1005 no
@@swisscatva9175 then I feel sorry for you
Honesty is something through character and moral value you earn! Worship no MAN. I think Elon is a bit lost because of his past experiences when he was abused anc mentally tormented as a child 😔
As a man listening to this, I won't lie, I teared up a little. I can be driven in my job and it's easy to forget what you have right in front of you, a beautiful life partner.
Day trading?
Don’t be tricked by a pretty face.. all legit reports on Elon is that he is the real deal, he’s not known as a jerk or greedy like Steve Jobs or Jeff bezos , think of the burden he carries as he try’s his best to improve the world, he does not want to be the king he is selfless, Justine musk (insisted on keeping his last name) is absolutely jealous of her ex husband … THIS WHOLE VIDEO IS JUSTINE THROWING A TANTRUM
@@OO_sunflower_OO Yes, as in, I dont hold positions overnight. And you?
@@MJ-wi1tc sure as if the guy marrying barely legal women right after divorcing her doesn't speak volumes already. Grow up.
@@MJ-wi1tc You dont even know him personally just "legit reports" and hear says... What burden ? that imaginary burden his cult fans claims he carries? you fanboys are crazy lol
If he has to tell her he is alpha he is not.
@Ras Forbes why would he even bother in the first place if he sees his life so big, why bring another human as an extra, that's demeaning
I disagree he is. That's why it doesn't work. No one wants an alpha in a relationship. People want partnership or a yong and yang. Not control.
He'll find out in hell who's the alpha and the omega the beginning an the end...
@@user-th7us1fl9x nobody want a alpha in long terma relationship..They just want his genes...😂😂
He does if she doesn’t understand her place. Where he made the mistake is not knowing this wouldn’t work with an alpha modern woman.
Philosophy is definitely not Elon's thing but listening to her story, although they had more money and resources it's exactly what happened to Joseph and me. Elon is a caveman! I appreciate this story and thank Justine for her intelligent explanation of their marriage. So sorry for the loss of their first child that must have been heart wrenching.
The Legions are many!
Your maturity over the entire situation is so sublime. Keep up the great work!
Every woman in her 20's should watch this.
Totally agree
Yes!!
😂😂😂 Yeah stop thinking you're all entitled to marry billionaires
@@Englishsea24 it’s not about being an entitled billionaire... it’s about warning young women on men who like to get you pregnant and then treat you like trash. Young women can do better.
@@Englishsea24 what are you even talking about.
I am absolutely heartbroken that this narration is paired with pics of Elon, Elon, Elon. This should have been paired with picture of Justine, at different times of her life, sometimes with Musk. Sometimes with brown hair. Sometimes reading a book.
I was thinking the same thing. I was waiting for something other than Elon but it didn't come. What a pity. No problem with Elon, but clearly there should have been a little of Elon and more of her in her life with him then apart from him.
@@kelvinlewis3947 what did she do? Leave him in 2008 during the financial crisis and then when Elon risked his money trying to save SpaceX which failed three rocket launches, and Tesla, which did not receive a bailout with no celebrity or privileged elites invested or loaned money to Elon. She was already seeing someone. What did she do?
It is that way because it's not about her. The creator wants attention
@@superheaton I'm interested in what you say. That it's a matter of record that she was romantically linked with someone else while they were married? Sources, please? Just curious
That is part of the deal when your Married to a Narcissist. It is never about you.
“Sometimes people have to crash into each other, to know that they exist!”
Is it just me or did someone else also notice this: A few days ago I was reading an article about how Einstein’s genius affected his family and something very similar happened. Einstein’s wife said the exact same thing Musks wife is saying, Einstein’s wife said that he treated her like an employee he can’t fire, and how he gave her an ultimatum or divorce the exact same thing as Elon and Justine. You can read all about it on,one but I just thought it’s something very interesting to point out.
It's not his 'genius' that got in the way, it was narcissistic male beliefs that a woman is not a human being but a thing to provide them with support. Everything revolves around them and the patriarchal society validates that while women get consumed, drained, exploited for these men.
@@laclochard yea exactly but that still doesn’t take away from the things they’ve done for us but idk why the two statements were like extremely if not exactly the same
@@laclochard lol
@@Ilovephysics2 Elon is not doing anything. Einsten ok. We could have been better off without his discoveries and instead women being able to live fulfilled and freedom lives on their own.
Yes Einstein first wife , I like her....intelligent and nice too
Leaving 5 children for another woman? Lost my respect that "man".
She filed for divorce
@@JstJaybeingJay he filed for divorced 15:15-15:30 when she said that
Yeah mine too he left her for this ug'y weird freak singing damn she gave him 6 kids hiw can you leave your wife and 6 kids damn you how don't care how much money you have but you don't leave your family because you are in érection for another
What do you expect. Rich people and celebrities divorce all the time. Because those people have options. The problem here is he should assure her future as she is the mum of his kids and be the alpha male he says he is through taking care of everyone.
then enable legal polygamy. He would have never left her then :)
When I heard Elon call his wife’s grief over the death of their son as “emotionally manipulative,” I thought this is what a psychopath says.
He's now said he's is on the Autism spectrum, it's actually common for NT's married to ASD's to experience gaslighting, emotional neglect & constantly dealing with behaviour that is frustrating & self-focused.
@@lynettepettitt655 I think he used that to be relatable, I do believe he’s a narcissist and a connected to sinister things
@@kuriouskitty3084 hard to know without a diagnosis...
@@kuriouskitty3084 it's a common mistake to perceive Aspergers men as Narcissistic.
@@lynettepettitt655 but not all aspies gaslight and emotionally abuse the other. You can be both autistic & have ASPD. Judging by his own father’s domestic violence, that’s also a possibility since personality is easily passed down.
I feel for you, money should never be more important then love and family, specially when we loose somebody so special. But maybe is just the romantic in me. I’m impressed with the calm demeanor she narrated her life with Elon, maybe it was the sadness.
So many of Elon's characteristics reminds me of my ex. Including convincing me to go blonde, which lasted for 30 min before I went and dyed it back. It looked awful!)
Minus the Billions of dollars, although my ex acts like he's rolling in the money, All the while he's in debt and always bailing out his own horrible financial decisions but blames everyone else.
I got out after 14 years. I'm soooo glad you got out, too! ♥️💕🙏🏻
Thank you for sharing....I pray this helps so many people! I believe it will!
My ex always hated when I cried and said exactly what Elon said, “emotionally manipulative” so I stopped crying around him and was scared to and when I did it was the same thing. I’m glad I left that lonely life
So am I. More power to you.
He was abusive.
Maybe he's narcissistic
I had a very lonely life just like that, so glad I left it, as well.
It's what we call a narcissist. Those are the worst people walking on earth.
"He didn't understand why I grieved openly [for the baby], which he regarded as emotionally manipulative."
Yiiiiiiiiiikes
I think different people deal with things in different ways, celebrity just brings it into the limelight
For real. Not only is it heartless, I can't even figure out how something like that could be manipulative even if it somehow were an act (I don't think it is at all, I'm just saying). I was expecting something like "emotionally weak". I would've disagreed 100% with that too, but at least I could've understood it.
Someone deleting comments?
I also lost a son but to the world I was strong because I took it so calmly and even went to work after his funeral. That did not mean that I did not miss or love him so very dearly. I kept it all in my heart and remember the good times we had together. I chose to forget the moment he died. I know that after life I shall surely see him again in heaven. I am trying to live a godly life to be able to qualify for heaven at last. However, life goes on and I must face the realities of everyday living. I never lost my mind over it. And there was no shoulder to cry on. So I took it with a lion heart. It still hurts up till today but the hope of meeting him in heaven gives me joy! So it is alright to grieve but not so much. Men feel vulnerable in the face of grieve and tears.
Psychopath
I was married to a medical student in Beverly hills … who with the love and support of me became a Beverly Hills award winning doctor ! And omg … same abuse ! My story is my husband got charged with human cruelty and after that had a mental breakdown and is now working on being a better human being ! 🙏🏽
You are a real strong woman!!! Thank you for this interview. May God give you the desires of your heart and may all your passion in life be yours.
She spent years of her life pouring into his career instead of developing herself, and when she asked for something, his answer was focused on himself again. It’s sad.
That's what happens when a lady is married to a carrier gentleman
@@kevinjax8995 no. My sil married a carreerguy (my brother), but she can have hers.
Dont worry, he’ll divorce her too for an upgraded model. If she would have thought for a second she wouldn’t have gotten involved with any married man. It NEVER works out.
He already did. He’s with Grimes now.
@@salutemyshortsnow poor grimes. She is probably wise not to marry him. He probably likes the chase more then anything. At least he branched out of his comfort zone for her. She did have to dye her hair blonde tho.
@@be.A.b She didn’t have to, she decided to.
How do you know? Been involved with many married men have you?
@@seanbaker2577 umm I doubt it’s “feminist” women who target married men. It’s usually women who have emotional baggage, baseline vindictive nature, or in the case of Elon.. make special moral allowances for a high value man.
Based on the story of their divorce, Elon knew about the divorce system far better than the average person! He actually saved most of his assets from this method too
Thank you for posting this. I felt validated that I dawn upon the same conclusion -that is- when two admiring individuals who could have help each other thrive in a union instead found one of the half's wanting to "guaranteed" only the other's (THEIR) way of thinking/lifestyle/choices, ultimately, there will be NO HEALTHLY OUTCOME. The initial love will always be but over time the TRUTH will come out that love cannot overcome behavior that yields incompatible union.