Joe Wells - I Am Autistic - Full Show

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  • čas přidán 25. 10. 2023
  • This show was recorded by Welsh comedy mavericks Go Faster Stripe.
    Support them by joining their GFS Club! All the money raised goes towards filming more specials like this AND it gets you stacks of benefits.
    More info here - gofasterstripe.com/club
    Special thanks to Robert White for creating one of the greatest cover versions in all of music history.
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Komentáře • 105

  • @AshRBanks
    @AshRBanks Před 6 měsíci +45

    My favourite Autism euphemism is "person living with Asperger." It gives me the chance to ask whether they are roommates or "roommates", who pays the rent, whether they share chores, and so on.

    • @isaackitone
      @isaackitone Před 4 měsíci

      What about "person surviving with Asperger"?

    • @Heatherwashere
      @Heatherwashere Před 3 měsíci +4

      ​@isaackitone Are they in the woods or on a desert island? And is the island just deserted, or is there an actual desert there?

    • @isaackitone
      @isaackitone Před 3 měsíci +2

      @@Heatherwashere You've broken my brain.

    • @laurencewinch-furness9450
      @laurencewinch-furness9450 Před 2 měsíci +9

      "Living with Asperger" rather than "Asperger's" implies you're living with doctor Hans Asperger himself, which considering his...political associations, might not be much fun!

    • @milkywayranchsc
      @milkywayranchsc Před 2 měsíci

      They better lock their door and sleep with one eye open if Asperger is their roommate. That creep sent kids to nazi death camps.

  • @dmgroberts5471
    @dmgroberts5471 Před 6 měsíci +26

    I absolutely love that you don't feel you have to look at, or even face, the audience.

    • @joewellscomic
      @joewellscomic  Před 6 měsíci +24

      receiving the diagnosis/finding out about the informal childhood diagnosis (it's a complicated story) really helped me be a better stand up because I didn't feel I had to model being a stand up on other comedians. I'm not completely where I want to be but I've been doing comedy for a long time and it's only post diagnosis that I feel like I've been going in the direction of authentically finding my voice.

  • @moonmarigold454
    @moonmarigold454 Před 6 měsíci +59

    Thank you so much for making this show. I am an autistic girl who has recently been discovering that I should, in fact, be myself everywhere-and not just the masked “self” the adults in my life told me to be. You exactly voice all the truths I have been realizing about being autistic that I just want others to know and believe. I am so glad to know that there is someone else who feels the same way about being yourself as an autistic person. Once again, thank you so much for making and recording this show, Joe. You have inspired me, and thanks to you, I feel more strongly than ever about two things. Firstly, that cross-country skiing is ridiculous, and, second and more importantly, that autistic people like me should genuinely be themselves.
    Thank you.

    • @marnierose7816
      @marnierose7816 Před 4 měsíci +3

      As a 45 yr old Autistic women, please don’t mask if you can help it as it can fry your nervous system over time🫶

    • @HC20047
      @HC20047 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Then again, most of my relationships (that I appreciate deeply and I love my friends) were originally founded on various persona that I made up to mask my autism and imitate what I believed would make me acceptable and pleasant. After decades of masking all of the time, how do you distinguish between the "masked" you and your "true" self? So many traits, from micro-gestures to social doctrine (yes, autistic indeed), that were originally painful mimes are now intrinsic parts of who I am. "Masking chemo therapy" to root out the fakes would basically reboot me back to childhood. "Start new game" or "carry on faking", that is the question.

  • @coda3223
    @coda3223 Před 5 měsíci +19

    Me: *finishes watching this video*
    Me: Hey dear? You wanna watch some stand up with me?
    *Immediately restarts this video on a shared household device so my partner can watch too*
    0_0 I think I might be one of the four.

    • @joewellscomic
      @joewellscomic  Před 5 měsíci +8

      😂 Thank you! I'm on tour around the UK next year if you're based over here. More than happy for people to buy tickets for multiple dates.

    • @coda3223
      @coda3223 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@joewellscomic Unfortunately, I live in the US. 😅
      I did buy your special when it was sold online though and I try to share your work with everyone I know (and many strangers online). Plus feeding the algo with rewatches and comments to do my part.
      I really appreciate your work.

  • @TheAutisticEducator
    @TheAutisticEducator Před 6 měsíci +42

    Nice one Joe! We Autistics are the funniest!

    • @JCSAXON
      @JCSAXON Před 6 měsíci +6

      I just had a lengthy discussion with a close friend on this topic and we are in complete agreement

    • @avoiceinthedark2028
      @avoiceinthedark2028 Před 5 měsíci +4

      Yep!

  • @mistertestsubject
    @mistertestsubject Před 3 měsíci +10

    51:00 got to me, out of nowhere. I started tearing up because I don't think I've ever heard that perspective explained, and I wasn't ready for how much it would make a lot of things in my childhood make sense. Thanks for that, genuinely.
    It was also a very funny comedy show, I'm subscribing

  • @a-ms9760
    @a-ms9760 Před 4 měsíci +8

    Found this very funny, thanks.
    The audience seemed rather cold, but perhaps they were being quiet because they were listening intently.

  • @waynepalumbo8917
    @waynepalumbo8917 Před 5 měsíci +5

    I think the Autistic internal monologue has a large amount of "what the fuck are you talking about?!?!?!" in it lol.

  • @Minyassa
    @Minyassa Před 4 měsíci +4

    Fantastic set, thank you. You spoke directly to some of us and I for one got to watch it on CZcams without buying a ticket so as a poor autistic person I feel especially seen.

  • @tma789
    @tma789 Před 6 měsíci +15

    Wow! This made me laugh so much. I want to talk about this but don't want to give away spoilers. The song is stuck in my head. I relate to this. I wish I could tell stories this well. This is a rollercoaster barrage of witticism. I needed this. I want more. Thank you. This made my day.

  • @bobsblackwell3594
    @bobsblackwell3594 Před 28 dny +1

    I'm the 3rd one of the 4 of our lot, stimmimg the loop button 😂Great show mate.

  • @JW-mg1sk
    @JW-mg1sk Před 17 dny

    Omg your comedy is SO BRILLIANT 🤣😂🤣😂

  • @MammaApa
    @MammaApa Před 6 měsíci +10

    Yay, finally a whole show! Thank you!

    • @joewellscomic
      @joewellscomic  Před 6 měsíci

      I couldn't have made this without Gofasterstripe, do check them out theyve got loads of good comedy stuff for sale

  • @pjcornwall
    @pjcornwall Před 6 měsíci

    Absolutely awesome, thank you so much 😀

  • @loricat5606
    @loricat5606 Před 6 měsíci +2

    So happy to see a full show!

  • @Willow0.o
    @Willow0.o Před 25 dny

    Oh, I LOVE this!! Thank you for existing

  • @sianchild
    @sianchild Před 6 měsíci +2

    I was so excited to see that the full show was available! Such a funny guy.

  • @discodiscordia
    @discodiscordia Před 6 měsíci +8

    Oh how cool, the whole show! 😍 Thank you so much!!

    • @joewellscomic
      @joewellscomic  Před 6 měsíci +2

      You're welcome although it's really GoFasterStripe to thank, they filmed it for free. Do check out their club in the video description.

  • @sideaves
    @sideaves Před 6 měsíci

    This is great, man! Such a good show!

  • @aurelia997
    @aurelia997 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Absolutely brilliant 👏

  • @waynepalumbo8917
    @waynepalumbo8917 Před 5 měsíci +2

    This was hilarious, I haven't laughed this hard in a long time. I relate so much to this. Thank you!

  • @jonstarbuck
    @jonstarbuck Před 6 měsíci +1

    Brilliant!

  • @Phoebebeebee
    @Phoebebeebee Před 6 měsíci +3

    bloody brilliant, obvs

  • @gsouth45deg
    @gsouth45deg Před 6 měsíci +4

    Love this! Have sent it to my neurodiverse friends. I loved the wit but also the gentleness in the way you share it. Look forward to watching more of your stuff and going down a Robert White rabbit hole, fab song! Thank you :D

  • @BobbiElmanND
    @BobbiElmanND Před 6 měsíci +2

    Fabulous set Joe ❤

  • @nadyashulya
    @nadyashulya Před 6 měsíci +1

    I listen to stand up comedy all the time and you are an amazing find for me! Clever, deep, a bit different so as any good stand up comedian. I want to hear more from you! Thank you!

  • @a.mueller
    @a.mueller Před 19 dny

    This was incredibly good.

  • @shoman3927
    @shoman3927 Před 2 měsíci +3

    You should be a spokesperson for autistic people, feels like you are speaking from my brain.

    • @joewellscomic
      @joewellscomic  Před 2 měsíci

      haha! The power would go to my head but thank you!

  • @Mannycabby
    @Mannycabby Před 6 měsíci +2

    Top notch

  • @jackedelsa6710
    @jackedelsa6710 Před 6 měsíci +3

    You deserved more laughs this was gold 😂

  • @samdownie
    @samdownie Před 6 měsíci

    Joe what a fab show 🙂 a marvellous joy to behold.

  • @northern_soul
    @northern_soul Před 2 měsíci

    Wonderful ❤

  • @Talismantra
    @Talismantra Před 6 měsíci +3

    absolute legend, thank you for making this available here :-)

    • @joewellscomic
      @joewellscomic  Před 6 měsíci +1

      couldnt have done it without GFS, please do check out their club, the links in the video description.

  • @cr4zysh4dez
    @cr4zysh4dez Před 6 měsíci +1

    Yay!!!!! Can’t wait to watch this right now. I am making taquitos. Autism swag

  • @earthaforester3141
    @earthaforester3141 Před 27 dny

    Love this. Love the representation. Hilarious and relatable.

  • @justcallmejen2
    @justcallmejen2 Před 6 měsíci

    Absolutely hilarious! 😂 xx

  • @miss.antidote
    @miss.antidote Před 6 měsíci +2

    Good set, my friend!

  • @classicalellie
    @classicalellie Před 3 měsíci +2

    went to see you back in december 2021 with my also autistic best friend (in a hugely overstimulating comedy club). I know allistics watch your shows but they feel like they were written 'for' us autistics. nice to have something specifically for us.

  • @marcusmegastar
    @marcusmegastar Před 6 měsíci +1

    Super, well done Joe!

  • @LlyfrAnnoddach
    @LlyfrAnnoddach Před 6 měsíci

    wow i love this. i got to see you once at a multiple-comedian show, and this is the first time im seeing a full show of yours. i absolutely loved it, thank you for this. im also autistic and i like comedy to sort of relate to the world. your comments about how people think autistic people dont understand humour were great (and funny!)

  • @dirtykeyz
    @dirtykeyz Před 6 měsíci

    The nosebleed section loved your eye contact

  • @HeatherLandex
    @HeatherLandex Před 13 dny

    Clever, funny, brilliant

    • @HeatherLandex
      @HeatherLandex Před 13 dny

      Agree re:awareness months. Same for allergy awareness. It's just when the charities can promo their merch. Autism acceptance month - but then are the other 11 months - non-acceptance months? Autism pride is a thing, isn't it? But it's still LGBT

  • @roses2ndborn
    @roses2ndborn Před 6 měsíci

    Throughly enjoyed his style😂

  • @jamesclark6487
    @jamesclark6487 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I was several decades out of high school until I leaned to ask back, "I'm good, how are you?"... Used to just say "good" then ignore them.
    I might be on the spectrum...

  • @bingbong3080
    @bingbong3080 Před měsícem

    fire show thank you supreme leader joe

  • @archienness
    @archienness Před 6 měsíci

    Think differently! 👍

  • @Spinnyoza
    @Spinnyoza Před 6 měsíci +2

    So funny!

  • @radicalpasta7040
    @radicalpasta7040 Před 6 měsíci

    Hilarious. I love your jokes

  • @DeAthWaGer
    @DeAthWaGer Před 6 měsíci +3

    As a drummer that has taught an autistic student Cannibal Corpse blast beats, I highly approve.

    • @joewellscomic
      @joewellscomic  Před 6 měsíci +4

      I love that I've never heard the term "blast beats" before and yet I know exactly what you are referring to

  • @TomHoran-pf3jc
    @TomHoran-pf3jc Před 2 měsíci

    100% be yourself 😊

  • @wizardsuth
    @wizardsuth Před 6 měsíci +3

    What's wrong with "Goodbye kids and grownups!"? What was he supposed to say?

  • @Iris_Studios
    @Iris_Studios Před 6 měsíci

    Great show, thanks for sharing, I just followed you on the socials.
    Quick question: Did go faster stripe get you to do the sound of a cow that turns into a dog at the beginning or did they record that?

    • @joewellscomic
      @joewellscomic  Před 6 měsíci +1

      I wish I could do impressions that well

  • @blanska
    @blanska Před 5 měsíci +2

    this might be the first comedy show that legitimately made me cry. it made me laugh too, but every comedy show does that, that's nothing special :P :D

  • @JohnnyJiuJitsu
    @JohnnyJiuJitsu Před 6 měsíci

    I'm not autistic but still enjoyed it.

  • @jcenergy2493
    @jcenergy2493 Před 6 měsíci

    OMG I'm 51, and I think I'm autistic LMAO.... I never knew, just thought it was OCD and ADHD LMFAO
    Ps, effin hilarious!!😂😂😂🎉🎉

  • @AtypicalPaul
    @AtypicalPaul Před 6 měsíci

    Funny shit

  • @kofiagyeman
    @kofiagyeman Před 6 měsíci +1

    Wondering if this was recommended to me because I’m actually undiagnosed.
    Also does autistic boil down to watched a lot of tv s as a child and is currently not a dick?

  • @storskegg
    @storskegg Před 6 měsíci

    I love Cannibal Corpse! 😀

    • @joewellscomic
      @joewellscomic  Před 6 měsíci +3

      They made the second best song called I Cum Blood ever

    • @jamesclark6487
      @jamesclark6487 Před 6 měsíci

      In her xxx I stuck my xxxx killing as I xxx
      One of the greatest lyrics ever written, Chris Barnes was Cannibal Corpse. That was on The Bleeding, can't remember which track.

    • @jamesclark6487
      @jamesclark6487 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Haha, that cardigan vest guy's piano crimson jack off rendition was very good.

  • @avoiceinthedark2028
    @avoiceinthedark2028 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Chris rock has nonverbal learning disorder which is on the spectrum, that’s what I have too

    • @joewellscomic
      @joewellscomic  Před 5 měsíci +2

      I've read about this, I'd love to get Chris Rock on our podcast.

    • @avoiceinthedark2028
      @avoiceinthedark2028 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@joewellscomic yes that would be awesome! It’s why when will smith walked up to him to hit him that he didn’t even know what was coming cause we don’t read body language at all we only get the 7 percent of language that is verbal

    • @avoiceinthedark2028
      @avoiceinthedark2028 Před 5 měsíci

      He didn’t even know will was mad

  • @HC20047
    @HC20047 Před 4 měsíci +1

    "Loosen up" is the worst. Luckily, I live in northern Europe, where shyness and introvert behavior is sort of ok (although not always understood) most of the time. Having a an inspired person violently and self-righteously pulling you onto a dance floor and, with threat of public ridicule, forcing you to dance in the name of self-expression, love, spiritual freedom and all things extrovert is my idea of hell. More hips, mf, more hips or you suck!

  • @micheals1992
    @micheals1992 Před dnem

    The finacial arguement for neuro-diversity. Money is just an idea, real wealth comes from people.
    I remember seeing a conspiracy video about "viral warfare" around the time of covid and it said something along the lines of "a virus kills the people but leaves the wealth intact". If you actually think about that all you would have is a load of empty buildings and resources decaying. If you take their money it would have the same effect as printing more money, it would devalue your currency.
    I'd love to know if our species will ever loose its obsession with money, at the end of the day its a man made idea and puts up barriers to actually helping people. We have been enslaved by our obsession to safeguard the economy which we worship as if it was a god. For me this is what the Infinity ♾️ stands for, theres a limited number of one and an infinity of the other 🍁

  • @paulrobinson6562
    @paulrobinson6562 Před 6 měsíci

    You went to padnell? I feel sorry for you

    • @joewellscomic
      @joewellscomic  Před 6 měsíci

      I then went on to Oaklands. Padnell was a paradise by comparison.

  • @giannidcenzo
    @giannidcenzo Před 6 měsíci

    ha

  • @erinhigh2110
    @erinhigh2110 Před 6 měsíci

    Can someone explain the joke please😭

    • @joewellscomic
      @joewellscomic  Před 6 měsíci +1

      In order for the analogy to have been a fair one she would have had to not just shake hands with the patients.

  • @deffonotluke
    @deffonotluke Před 6 měsíci

    Seems I'm one of the 40% who can't see where that joke is going. Can anyone explain it to me please?

    • @joewellscomic
      @joewellscomic  Před 6 měsíci +3

      In order for the analogy with Covid to have been a fair one she would have had to not just shake hands with the patients.

  • @xlilften3056
    @xlilften3056 Před 6 měsíci

    why is this guy wearing a cup

  • @menosproblemos6993
    @menosproblemos6993 Před 5 měsíci

    Well we're all people with brains, so calling autistic people 'people with autism' isn't that far off = D

  • @doreenplischke2169
    @doreenplischke2169 Před 2 měsíci

    Don’t like jokes of spouses. I have ASD and do NOT find that funny at all.:(🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @RealityCheck6T9
    @RealityCheck6T9 Před 2 měsíci +1

    You're funny and I like some of your observations. When you spoke about how autism is like being an airport hotel, I thought you were going to say people only stick around for very short periods.
    I do just find your show annoying politically. You may be genuinely liberal but it surely also helps that this society won't tolerate anything else. These days it's hard to distinguish genuine liberals/leftists from the average person who just espouses such views because they don't want to get cancelled. This is why American comedy is generally better because they have genuine political discourse where both liberal and conservative views can be expressed and there is a tension there which means comedy can be risky. In 21st century UK comedy there's nothing but soul-crushing conformity to liberal views, and silly hyperbole about the Daily Mail being literally Hitler.
    By the way if you do find yourself speaking for autistic people please don't say "we don't believe in gender". You definitely don't speak for me. Or if that is true it's that I don't believe in gender but in biological sex.
    I'm also not looking for "allies" ugh.

  • @ThatAutisticBlackMan
    @ThatAutisticBlackMan Před měsícem

    Watched this with my hubby tonight. Laughed harder than I expected and it gave me practice with accents and repeating certain words you said.