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5.23.24-Passive-Aggressiveness: Internal Frustration Revealed Externally!

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  • čas přidán 22. 05. 2024
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Komentáře • 12

  • @maryfranciscajones3312
    @maryfranciscajones3312 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Your message really helped me understand others. I feel better equipped to handle those types of situations.. 😊 Thank You so much, you always have such a gingerly way to navigate sensitive topics.
    Blessing to my Sweet Sister ❤

    • @OhToBeWHOLE
      @OhToBeWHOLE  Před 2 měsíci +1

      So happy you found this topic to be helpful, Ms. Mary! Thank you for tuning in and sharing your comments. Blessings to you, and thank you for watching.

  • @bereciapitts1913
    @bereciapitts1913 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I was all of what you shared. Thank you for this topic. When I finally believed who I am in Christ and trust God with my heart, my language changed-my words changed. Wisdom became my ask before speaking and discernment helped me to know what to say, when to say it and to whom to say it to. I am not saying any of this as though I’ve arrived or that I don't slip up in my communication but everyday can be progression if I choose wisely. Continue to do a work in me God. Thanks Camille🙏🏽

    • @OhToBeWHOLE
      @OhToBeWHOLE  Před 2 měsíci

      I love to hear you talk about your growth journey, Berecia. It’s so awesome! I too, stay vigilant not fall back into those behaviors. Thanks for watching.

  • @deborahcasey2459
    @deborahcasey2459 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I always thought that passive aggressive meant those who get there point across but silently and more like a snake. They can throw you under bus, stab you in the back very quietly and passively. Yet they did their attack and obtained their revenge like a snake. Just my thoughts. Love you ❤❤ My spirits recognize quickly and I move on.😊

    • @OhToBeWHOLE
      @OhToBeWHOLE  Před 2 měsíci

      P-A people can be that way, but they can be on spectrum, Debbie. I’ve never been a snake or back-stabber, but I’ve definitely withheld how I truly felt abt something for acceptance, and later lash out because I no longer wanted to experience the outcomes of that thing I originally agreed with. Thankfully, I’m pretty far removed from that behavior, but I definitely used to be that way! I too, can pick up on P-A people, so I’m mindful of how I interact with them. Thanks for watching.

  • @sherriecooke4681
    @sherriecooke4681 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I believe people who are passive aggressive have a combination of poor communication skills, plagued with fear, and are dealing with some type of trauma. Being around them is uncomfortable. You have to deal with these people with a long handle spoon, tread lightly.

    • @OhToBeWHOLE
      @OhToBeWHOLE  Před 2 měsíci

      You pretty much nailed it, Sherrie! They are definitely make you feel you have to walk on egg shells, which is uncomfortable. Thanks for watching.

  • @CeeHIMove
    @CeeHIMove Před 2 měsíci +1

    Passive aggressiveness is not a good quality. Ivthink many people are modeling the behaviors of their childhood homes. I'm so glad that Jesus and therapy can teach them skills to properly manage and express their true feelings in any given situation. Great topic. Congratulations on your speaking engagement!!!

    • @OhToBeWHOLE
      @OhToBeWHOLE  Před 2 měsíci +1

      Childhood trauma bleeds into adulthood for most people, Cynthia. Jesus coupled with therapy is a great combo. Thank you for watching.

  • @kiatate1442
    @kiatate1442 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I'm experiencing this from a friend right now. I decided to reach out to her about it and she avoided me then denied that there was something going on. I have found this very frustrating. What do you recommend i do, sis? Help your whollyrollers out here in these streets who are trying to show the love of Christ! Lol

    • @OhToBeWHOLE
      @OhToBeWHOLE  Před 2 měsíci

      Oh wow! To be honest Kia, you did your part by reaching and attempting to address what you were experiencing. If she deflected, that’s on her, not on you. Hopefully she’ll see the error of her ways and make the needed changes in her life. Again, that’s on her, not you. Thanks for watching.