Why Self Taught Programmers Fail or Quit When Learning How To Code

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  • @starskyhutch6011
    @starskyhutch6011 Před 3 lety +2318

    I'm a self-taught coder who managed to land a job (and then two others afterwards) after about 9 months of intense self-study, The BIGGEST thing that I've found is to ALWAYS have a good attitude and to not get discouraged when you don't know something. Take a break for 20 minutes, walk away, then come back. 90% of the time that will help the answers come or help in your understanding if you get stuck. Also be humble and teachable when you reach out for help. I went from zero coding experience to having automation jobs within a year so if I can do it, anyone can. Stay the course and chip up!

    • @fredi1505
      @fredi1505 Před 3 lety +11

      How much did you know when you landed a job?

    • @starskyhutch6011
      @starskyhutch6011 Před 3 lety +87

      @@fredi1505 I only knew basic JavaScript and HTML and CSS. My first job was automation using Protractor and I had NO CLUE what to expect. I came from the mortgage industry, and this was at a company that made mortgage origination software, so I was hired because no one there knew anything about the loan origination process. It took about 4 months for most everything to "click" and for me to really start being productive and confident.

    • @fredi1505
      @fredi1505 Před 3 lety +9

      @@starskyhutch6011 Do you think knowing HTML, CSS, Javascript, ReactJS, Axios is enough to land a job?

    • @starskyhutch6011
      @starskyhutch6011 Před 3 lety +79

      @@fredi1505 since you know React as well, I think it would be a little easier, The main thing I have found is to be humble and teachable and approachable in interviews...you may not know as much as other developers or have as much experience, but if you don't have the shit-eating, superior attitude that I've personally witnessed from some more experienced devs, they will pick you every time. Good luck man, sounds like you are good to go especially since you've learned React, too.

    • @TavellPryor
      @TavellPryor Před 3 lety +40

      im a 28 year old active duty soldier, who just started learning how to code about a month ago who intends to get a job as a programmer after I retire from the military. (16 years left😅) I often wonder how ill look as a 43 year old software developer, whether id fit in, would it be better if I was freelance for a company in a field working with a bunch of people half my age, . on top of the technically always on call status that im in being in the military, tending to my husband duties etc. but seeing people give their testimony and be in my age bracket and understand how it feels to be unsure of how good you are or could be is really motivating, and keeps me from falling off.

  • @realchrishawkes
    @realchrishawkes Před 3 lety +663

    I've worked with many college grads who quit as well.

    • @remix2die4
      @remix2die4 Před 3 lety +18

      make a video about that !

    • @DorianDevelops
      @DorianDevelops  Před 3 lety +108

      This stuff is hard and it's crazy how many people pick it up and quit. Thanks for stopping by and checking out my video by the way. It's really cool to see a bigger channel in the comments.

    • @MarissaGamble
      @MarissaGamble Před 3 lety +2

      @@DorianDevelops great video and perspective. can I be part of that group?

    • @raymeester7883
      @raymeester7883 Před 3 lety +4

      Wow! The Chris Hawkes is here ! ?

    • @mikereiss4216
      @mikereiss4216 Před 3 lety +6

      It's because they didn'tl ike being bald after ripping all the hair out of their heads.

  • @edinkciku6449
    @edinkciku6449 Před 3 lety +1485

    And now a software developer... Johnny Sins is truly something special. Seriously though, your content is great, keep Up :)

    • @ArSaSixNine
      @ArSaSixNine Před 3 lety +22

      xD idiot! I thought: OH SHIT! So that's why he looks familiar!
      Got me there! I went to check the user name

    • @paypalmymoneydfs
      @paypalmymoneydfs Před 3 lety +107

      Doctor, coder, pornstar, entrepreneur. #Goals

    • @rickmudslopp5484
      @rickmudslopp5484 Před 2 lety +25

      @@paypalmymoneydfs truly an inspiration

    • @vicentefeced5889
      @vicentefeced5889 Před 2 lety +7

      Legend 😂

    • @achiradissanayake3580
      @achiradissanayake3580 Před 2 lety +13

      @Load
      Legends says that every good developer had Googled the name 'Johny Sins' at least once...
      So don't be worried or embarrassed coz Now you are officially qualified to become one...!!

  • @smoove5506
    @smoove5506 Před 2 lety +303

    The best way to learn is reading other people's code and reverse engineering scripts. Modify code to how it suites your needs while you learn. You see your results faster and become way more comfortable with programming concepts and way more confident in your self. Stick to one primary language. Once you master or at least comfortable enough to solve your own problems with that language 97% of the time you will easily be able to learn any other language because it's all the same concepts with different syntax. From then add build smaller projects by yourself and work your way up. Don't go from 0 to 100.

    • @LeifLiddy
      @LeifLiddy Před 2 lety +25

      This ^. Deconstructing other people's code helped me immensely. Can't recommend that enough.

    • @Adventures07
      @Adventures07 Před 2 lety +3

      Thanks for the advice.

    • @akira7436
      @akira7436 Před 2 lety +3

      Where would I be able to find other peoples code and reverse engineering scripts? Are there specific websites for this?

    • @Adventures07
      @Adventures07 Před 2 lety +4

      @@akira7436 Any website. Do you know how to see the code?

    • @akira7436
      @akira7436 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Adventures07 No, I don't think I've gotten that far yet. Is it a simple process to see the codes?

  • @ranjanmaithani6263
    @ranjanmaithani6263 Před 3 lety +170

    When i first started my job for 3 months i was on constant diliema on quitting my job. As i was not confident. But i kept on grinding wondering they will fire me but here i am 3 years as software developer.

    • @tsetsoangelov6455
      @tsetsoangelov6455 Před 3 lety +1

      gg wp :)

    • @CodingAfterThirty
      @CodingAfterThirty Před 3 lety +11

      Had the same experience. Was really stressful. Basically I would show up to work thinking today is the day. The day I will get fired.
      But eventually things to slowly start make sense unroll they don’t anymore.
      And the process repeats.

    • @ranjanmaithani6263
      @ranjanmaithani6263 Před 3 lety

      @Rohit S it will go away eventually and you will laugh while thinking about it.

    • @ranjanmaithani6263
      @ranjanmaithani6263 Před 3 lety

      @Rohit S keep grinding. Hard work pays off

    • @ranjanmaithani6263
      @ranjanmaithani6263 Před 3 lety

      @Rohit S one question just out of curiosity. Are you dec-jan born?

  • @FrocketGaming
    @FrocketGaming Před 3 lety +163

    One thing I learned that really helped me was this: Imposter syndrome is just ego, you're spending time thinking that other people are thinking about you and whether you belong or not but in reality... most people are too busy thinking about themselves, not about you. When I learned to get past my ego, my imposter syndrome went away and I stopped torturing myself.

    • @baw5xc333
      @baw5xc333 Před 3 lety +9

      Eh. Not necessarily true. If you don’t know your shit, people in your office *will* badmouth you behind your back, and in the worst case scenario, you could be let go.
      I understand imposter syndrome is something almost everyone suffers from, but some of those suffer from it because they are, in fact, “imposters”.

    • @FrocketGaming
      @FrocketGaming Před 3 lety +6

      @@baw5xc333 yes there is always this as a potential but everything basically has another side that could be dwelled upon. I find it more useful to come to terms with it in some way and move forward.

    • @razingcanez717
      @razingcanez717 Před 3 lety +2

      That's a healthy thought process!
      Thanks!

    • @eealliance5997
      @eealliance5997 Před 4 měsíci

      I disagree with this. Imposter syndrome has nothing to do with thinking that people think about you.

    • @FrocketGaming
      @FrocketGaming Před 4 měsíci

      @@eealliance5997 Why don't you elaborate on what you think it is then?

  • @hm-zg3ee
    @hm-zg3ee Před 3 lety +44

    "The process is hard when you don't know the process" I felt it bro

    • @StartupAnalytics
      @StartupAnalytics Před měsícem

      It gets easier when you know exactly what needs to be done! Though in the long run, the job requires a lot of figuring out how to go about doing things

  • @JFizzzzzzzz
    @JFizzzzzzzz Před 3 lety +229

    Dude, you just said everything I'm going through! I haven't even touched my code in 3 months and it makes me feel even worse. Even tried to find Facebook friends that code and nobody. It makes it 100% harder doing it alone but you're right. I have to just push through eventhough I feel like a headless chicken. I really appreciate the video!

    • @DorianDevelops
      @DorianDevelops  Před 3 lety +54

      Try to check out some code related discord servers. People are chatting on mine all the time and there's others out there where people help each other and collaborate all the time. Good luck!

    • @2genes585
      @2genes585 Před 2 lety +4

      so, how is it going?

    • @chrislife1101
      @chrislife1101 Před 2 lety +8

      How's ur coding journey man, wanna link on discord? I haven't touched coding in 2 months either...watching these videos for motivation

    • @bossmane4102
      @bossmane4102 Před 2 lety +1

      how do we do this?

    • @Cathiina
      @Cathiina Před rokem

      Hey, I am conpletely new to coding, shall we exchange discord IDs, the coder? :)

  • @DaUloi
    @DaUloi Před 3 lety +515

    25 years entirely self-taught. Will be retiring to Thailand shortly at the age of 50. OA visa in process. My only regret is having worked for companies so often making them money and not more for myself.

    • @amateruss
      @amateruss Před 3 lety +26

      Start your own small business when you retire my guy. Starting it small and scaling it up is much more fun than having it already big and stable.

    • @DaUloi
      @DaUloi Před 3 lety +22

      @@amateruss started day trading. Can't work in Thailand, it's illegal. But nothing illegal about having short term investments.

    • @amateruss
      @amateruss Před 3 lety +5

      @@DaUloi Nice. Have you tried trading crypto as well?

    • @DaUloi
      @DaUloi Před 3 lety +14

      @@amateruss made $500 on BTC this week. Then again it's easy to do that in the current market, I have no illusion about my skill. I mostly trade it on the weekends when I'm bored.

    • @DaUloi
      @DaUloi Před 3 lety +6

      Might also play around with machine learning and make myself a trading bot. I don't know a ton about it, but I'm ready to learn.

  • @PorthoGamesBR
    @PorthoGamesBR Před 2 lety +63

    Just a tip for all young devs: It is hard to study the things they ask for a job, because most of this things you wont use on your own projects since they are meant to a corporate level system. So, to study them, find some freelancer jobs and create the software asked on the job without applying (or maybe apply if you feel confident).

  • @lennyedwards62
    @lennyedwards62 Před 3 lety +81

    20+ years in and the self doubt never stops - keep learning

    • @dogonwall6680
      @dogonwall6680 Před 2 lety

      As a senior can i ask you a question?

    • @lennyedwards62
      @lennyedwards62 Před 2 lety

      @@dogonwall6680 sure

    • @dogonwall6680
      @dogonwall6680 Před 2 lety

      @@lennyedwards62 i have studied until high school i dont have degree even i haven't visited the university or college if i learn how to code do you think i can get a job give me your honest opinion in optimistic way plz that would help me a lot

    • @lennyedwards62
      @lennyedwards62 Před 2 lety +18

      @@dogonwall6680 hi, two points.
      1) the validation of a stranger on the internet should mean nothing to you.
      2) the only thing stopping you from being a programmer is you. Be one, build stuff, build rubbish stuff, build stuff till it starts being good stuff. Learn every day. Build stuff that solves your own problems because you'll be solving other people's problems too. Build stuff you care about and are interested in, not just ecom clones on udemy or some crazy stuff. Keep building, don't be afraid to fail, try to finish projects. Make sure you make it fun.

    • @dogonwall6680
      @dogonwall6680 Před 2 lety +1

      Thqu very much for your advice

  • @pinkdiscomosh2766
    @pinkdiscomosh2766 Před 2 lety +55

    Have been a self-taught dev since June of 2016. I hit my first plateau last year (2021). Just landed a stable job at a big company and got comfortable and just wasn’t making an upward trajectory anymore. In December 2021, my wife and I adopted a baby girl and my drive to keep pushing just rushed right back. I’m no longer just keeping my wife and I afloat, but I have this girls future to prepare for and I have zero room to slack. No doubt I’ll hit another plateau someday. I hear that it’s a cycle type thing, but I’m thankful that the fire is back and I’m making big strides just in the last two months. Keep at it ya’ll and find the reasons why you want to keep going. I found mine. I hope you find yours.

  • @0x007A
    @0x007A Před 3 lety +148

    There is a difference between the activity of programming and the job role as a software developer or web developer. I think one of the hurdles today's beginners face is the desire to learn everything at the outset; this is not possible due to a myriad of reasons. A slow and steady pace starting with the basics and building on the foundation over time will be less frustrating and more rewarding whether your goal is to use these skills and knowledge as a hobby or a career. If you are not having fun and you cannot see yourself programming as a hobby, maybe a career as a software developer or full stack web developer is not for you. Stop watching tutorial videos on CZcams and start building your own projects, small projects that you can complete in a weekend at first, then in a week, and eventually in a month or beyond. Remember you can create applications not just websites or smartphone apps, and some of those applications can run at the command prompt without any GUI interface.

    • @stevewankou209
      @stevewankou209 Před 3 lety +3

      such a great comment. you make my day as a computer beginner

    • @mrheylow7892
      @mrheylow7892 Před 3 lety

      Do you believe someone can become a self taught pro in programming by reading books and watching CZcams daily for two years? Beginning with how computers and programming languages were invented all the way up to the current computer technology of today.
      Can someone self teach themself to work with the best companies in the industry or self teach themselves to start a company that competes with the best companies in the industry? Without ever paying for any type of boot camps or universities?

    • @lemonscenic6207
      @lemonscenic6207 Před 2 lety +1

      @@mrheylow7892 Hi there! I’m starting college soon but I wanted to let you know that you can! For me I need to have an actual problem set up and don’t like to only read and videos help! But I learned from youtube videos, lectures(online: CS50 harvard lecture is free) and my favorite is freecodebootcamp!! I’m learning HTML currently! I definitely recommend that website for learning to code!

    • @frog6054
      @frog6054 Před 2 lety +2

      But if I stopped watching tutorial videos then I don't know how to do anything lol

    • @0x007A
      @0x007A Před 2 lety +2

      @@frog6054 it is a delicate balance only superseded by reading. Sadly, our attention spans have decreased significantly since CZcams arrived so reading seems like torture to some people. Somewhere there is a happy middle ground.

  • @vipnirala
    @vipnirala Před 3 lety +42

    Man, your facial expressions tells that everything you said in this video, all came out from your heart.

  • @kmoov90
    @kmoov90 Před 3 lety +58

    I've met way more college grads who quit compared to those who self-taught themselves so.....

  • @kamertonaudiophileplayer847
    @kamertonaudiophileplayer847 Před 3 lety +158

    I'm also a self-taught software engineer. I agree, it is hard, but doable.

  • @rudya.hernandez7238
    @rudya.hernandez7238 Před 3 lety +54

    Associates in CS, self-taught web dev, BS in software dev recently and still doubt! Shake it off, always learning, keep pushing through obstacles, surround yourself with better devs, and trust the process. Keep the faith! Great advice.

    • @jimminent2
      @jimminent2 Před měsícem

      Thanks for your comment, man! I needed to read this!

  • @BLA1Z
    @BLA1Z Před 3 lety +13

    I am a 12 yr old self taught proggrammer and I never give up.

  • @AlessandroBottoni
    @AlessandroBottoni Před 3 lety +153

    "Regular", "professional" and "successful" programmers usually work in a team with other programmers, and usually work only on a small part of a large codebase. These two elements can easily explain why "professional" programmers "succeed" while "self-taught" often fail. More in detail: when you grab your first job with a technical diploma or a university degree, you are usually asked to join an already working team and some "senior" programmer will take care of you. From that moment on, you just cannot give up. It is a totally different experience than trying to do something by yourself like many self-taught programmers are forced to do just to demonstrate they are able to do so.

    • @v8powa466
      @v8powa466 Před 2 lety +8

      But then there's the self taught who never had help and didn't give up. Now I build a corporations Android app

    • @danieltkach2330
      @danieltkach2330 Před 2 lety +3

      Spot on @Alessandro.

    • @unpatitoRU
      @unpatitoRU Před 2 lety +1

      @@v8powa466 that 'never give up' attitude is what we should look for too

    • @v8powa466
      @v8powa466 Před 2 lety +9

      @@unpatitoRU Executives and HR personnel in corporations are mostly incompetent and were handed their jobs, so most likely you would have no idea of how to look for that.
      Executives are chosen based on if they will push the propaganda given to all corporations ( all corporations spewed the same propaganda garbage this last couple years). And HR personnel are picked if they are liberal enough and act out in social justice type of mindsets which destroy free thinkers. The Trans and "woman first" attitude destroys any type of productive team.
      How many teams of women do you see building roads, schools, power lines or building anything of that matter?

    • @PetyrC90
      @PetyrC90 Před 2 lety +5

      What a lot of BS you said there.
      Every programmer was alone and self taught before Landing the first job. You talk like if the guy is learning how to code in the first job
      Everyone is self taught in this community

  • @MrKrusten
    @MrKrusten Před 3 lety +5

    This was such a helpful video. Hearing your own self doubts and fears be spoken out by someone else who went through the entire process is such a reliefe for some reason. Thank you

  • @AIRRAZOR44
    @AIRRAZOR44 Před 3 lety +28

    I'd argue that every softwear engineer/dev is self taught. It's really up to you to discipline, study, practice, make many mistakes and learn from them. University, bootcam, courses can only take you so far. They're just stepping stones as the learning, refining never ends until you retire.

    • @sallylauper8222
      @sallylauper8222 Před 2 lety +8

      Coders never retire- they just run out of memory.

  • @agdevoq
    @agdevoq Před 2 lety +36

    Self-taught programmer since I was a kid. I regret having wasted so much time at university. I was ready to work by age 16 (advanced c++, low level 3d programming). 38 years old as I write, quite successful career.

    • @agdevoq
      @agdevoq Před 2 lety +6

      I'm of a different opinion.
      I only found 4 university courses (out of 39) which actually taught me something useful that I didn't already know. And they were easy to self-study for me at that point.
      Part of my job now involves recruiting, and I find much more valuable "x years spent in big company xyz" on a resume, rather than the same amount of years spent at university. After you land your first job, your degree becomes pretty much irrelevant.
      As for the networking, professional networking is much more powerful than university networking.
      Please, ABSOLUTELY GO to university if you think you still have much to learn. But if you're already up on your feet, then don't waste time and money on it.

    • @OTB2002
      @OTB2002 Před 2 lety

      @Doppelganger D you can do all that within university uno

  • @ChristianFure
    @ChristianFure Před 3 lety +219

    if you start coding be prepared to be humbled quickly😂

    • @ArSaSixNine
      @ArSaSixNine Před 3 lety +11

      NO SHIT
      It's hard!

    • @rudya.hernandez7238
      @rudya.hernandez7238 Před 3 lety +8

      Humbled every day

    • @jakerhodes2105
      @jakerhodes2105 Před 3 lety +4

      God I’m 13 and wanted learn early for college. Nope, nope, nope

    • @kyle6754
      @kyle6754 Před 3 lety +2

      I literally taught myself using courses on Udemy. After that I was just looking things up on mdn cause once you have a good foundation, you can implement news things quickly

    • @blackpsalmmusic9180
      @blackpsalmmusic9180 Před 3 lety +13

      Dude as a 24 year old I’ve circled back on every single thing I did as a 13 year old and go “if only I never put this down”
      Just do it. At 13 you can afford to do something you end up not liking after a few years. I learned to fix cars and I’m getting into development now rather than using my trade because I realized it’s not my work passion, just a useful skill that makes me unique.

  • @blissboxx
    @blissboxx Před 3 lety +9

    Key takeaways: trust yourself, persevere and connect with others. I really needed this video today, thank you!

  • @vangmvp07
    @vangmvp07 Před 3 lety +72

    I just started coding 3 weeks ago and it’s no joke, following tutorial is easy but as soon as I try to code on my own, I don’t have clue how haha....but I won’t give up, thanks inspiring me to keep going

    • @Poleeze1
      @Poleeze1 Před 3 lety +3

      Same here. Just a few weeks ago. Couldn’t get into the bootcamp because they were at max capacity. I did their 5 day coding challenge succesfully. So I started watching a few youtube crash programs on html and css. I decided last week to build the ‘Thank you’ page of the bootcamp company themselves lol. So every part of the page I want to build, I would youtube how to do it. It’s been 2days and almost done with it now. Yes, I have experienced frustrating moments like the logo not showing with my href link. Eventually sorted it. Now I’m blocked again at the header/nav. So I’m just doing the other parts and will come back to it. Plan on building 10 pages on html and css alone before moving unto java script

    • @fal8202
      @fal8202 Před 3 lety +3

      @@Poleeze1 your method is a good example for the self-taughts ; just roll up them sleeves and keep persisting on the keyboard (with Google as your helper).

    • @LuisMedina-yq5fd
      @LuisMedina-yq5fd Před 3 lety +1

      Think up anything no matter how weird. Make a list of what you want it to be able to do and start coding using only your knowledge & stackoverflow/Google. Try leetcode & project Euler problems.

    • @Poleeze1
      @Poleeze1 Před 3 lety

      Is anyone here on stackoverflow? I’m trying to ask a question but it keeps highlighting it as issues with question in the body (regarding the codes). I have tried to resolve the issues but no way.

    • @incognito7350
      @incognito7350 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Poleeze1 What's the issue? Resolved I suppose as it's 11 months already.

  • @K_James95
    @K_James95 Před 3 lety +103

    I had reached a point where I felt depressed, everything seemed hard to grasp, furthermore I recently applied for internship in two organizations and damn I was rejected, It really tore me apart, but after watching this video and comments below, I really felt motivated and the urge to keep the fire burning just came back. Thanks everyone.

  • @beardyben7848
    @beardyben7848 Před rokem +1

    Self taught is such a difficult journey. Thanks for being real about it, sharing both the big challenges and the ways you have handled them. Your encouragement is really appreciated.

  • @luqmandevops
    @luqmandevops Před 3 lety +1

    Thanks for the advice and I know it's from your deepest heart.
    I've been a self taught dev and faced all the scenario you went through. Just dont give up, you'll get there eventually.

  • @gavingreenhorn
    @gavingreenhorn Před 3 lety +6

    What you said about the honeymoon phase and plateaux and that you're usually alone with and desperately lack any feedback to what you're doing - that is all so true and relatable. It's great to know that it's alright to experience this and doesn't mean that you're doing something wrong and/or incapable of getting self-taught. Thank you!

  • @annecapongcol3759
    @annecapongcol3759 Před 2 lety +7

    Thank you so much for this! What you said are all true and I have experienced all of it which is why I jumped from learning one skill to another for the past few years. My friends are even proud of me for building a few websites in WordPress but I still doubt myself. It's also very lonely because I'm a stay-at-home mom and I have no mentor or guidance or encouragement from anyone other than CZcams videos and podcasts. I'm now going back to what I wanted to do years ago which is to learn web development and I just got to stick to it this time until I make it. I'm in my early 40's, a mom of 2 girls, with household responsibilities and a small business with my husband. I'm doing my best to find time to learn how to code. I'm so glad to have found your channel. I've already watched some of your videos. Thank you and keep creating awesome videos! God bless!

  • @plant_sen
    @plant_sen Před 3 lety +1

    I’m just starting on my journey and I’m glad I stumbled upon your videos. Thank you for giving your honest two cents. It really means a lot! I’ll keep your words in mind if I ever get discouraged.

  • @tina360
    @tina360 Před 3 lety +9

    Omg, I can so relate to this video, and I am glad CZcams recommend me to your video

  • @Itz_me_JB
    @Itz_me_JB Před 3 lety +7

    Thanks for this I'm definitely a late bloomer as they say. Dropped out of high school, never had a plan in life but I started coding and its definitely something I can see myself doing but it is definitely overwhelming and I'm always doubting myself. I'm just glad to hear there's many other self taught programmers out there to help me stay motivated.

  • @madam497
    @madam497 Před 3 lety +18

    Truth. I failed ~2 months in. My focus was all over the place. That was over a year ago. Its been 2 1/2 months since I started learning again. I canceled my ice fishing season this year to focus on me.

    • @manasmahanand732
      @manasmahanand732 Před 3 lety +3

      You can do it! I am self taught, I was able to learn it all by myself. You can do it too!
      This is what I kept in mind whenever I got through difficult parts: "ofcourse it's hard, why would teaching a piece of plastic with a bit of metal in it be easy?". It is hard, but it is possible to make it happen.

  • @sebco8898
    @sebco8898 Před 2 lety

    Thanks man. Im really thankfull for catching up with this video. Im literally in the lonely road stage and your advice is giving me hope.

  • @guscostarock
    @guscostarock Před 3 lety

    Man, seriously, this video was the boost I needed, thanks a lot for sharing this. For more people like you in this world!!

  • @prooxy1234
    @prooxy1234 Před 2 lety +10

    This past year I finally had a moment with my partner where I was able to get them to see "the struggle" because the outsiders looking in don't really get it. I've taught her enough of development and she's taught her self enough to where she was able to follow into my madness on that special day, when she was mad at me for being negative and stressed(which is often) I just finished creating some logic for my Game, logic that I have rewrote many times over months.. but it was a great example to her about how those few months lead up to "The Mountain".
    At first you are just floating in a boat, no idea where to begin but you know you want land.. and then you see it.. so you start heading toward, excited and full of hope. You land on the beach looking up and down the coast which looks limitless and then peer into the dark dense jungle in front of you, all you see is that tree line, and you know you have to go in there, don't know what to expect or anything.. but you go..
    Now in the jungle you feel the burn, every time you begin to feel like you are on the right path you realize you are just more lost, you see millions of different things, ways, styles, good and bad, and you can only ever see 10 feet in front of you.. till.. you hit that tree line.
    You fall to the ground feeling so relived! Catch your breath even look back with some triumph and bravado.. which quickly fades.. cause now you are aware. In front of you isnt a tree line, its the entirety of a mountain you know just a bit more what it takes so you can see all its majesty and hardship and the worst part is.. you know you have absolutely no idea what is gonna be on the other side of that peak..
    I still remember her face when I finished breaking down those three months and showing her what I had from 3 long hard months and the realization in her eyes that just screams "man you got a long way to go"
    Sorry for the ramble. You talking in the middle made me think of my Mountain analogy thought id share..

  • @nandansingh6117
    @nandansingh6117 Před 3 lety +14

    I this is the is the same problem with every discipline. There is a point where our fields of choice demands a lot of time and attention. Since most people choose a field as a means to an end, they choose another when they find it difficult.

  • @cooleymike1
    @cooleymike1 Před rokem +1

    Every so often i come back to this one video, and re-watch and re-watch and remind myself that doubt is normal and keep going - Thanks Dorian, this is an awesome video with a great overall message

  • @fatinafiqah.y938
    @fatinafiqah.y938 Před 3 lety +2

    This is exactly what I need right now. I just finished taking some crash course in data science field last months and when I started to write my own projects after, I feel so lost and demotivated. Little did I know I just need to keep going and trust the process. Thank you so much Dorian for the spirit!

  • @santhoshramesh2004
    @santhoshramesh2004 Před 3 lety +18

    I'm currently undergoing such a difficult phase,but this video helps me alot.

    • @joelgallegos7740
      @joelgallegos7740 Před 3 lety +3

      Me too! But dont give up brother, you got this! Dont listen to anyone or that little negative voice in your head either! Practice Practice Practice!

    • @santhoshramesh2004
      @santhoshramesh2004 Před 3 lety +1

      @@joelgallegos7740 definitely brother ❤️ thanks for the support ❤️

  • @chunky_sister
    @chunky_sister Před 3 lety +12

    You managed to capture every thought I’ve had about being an imposter. Every one. Thanks for this - I appreciate this video more than you know!

  • @constanroussel4042
    @constanroussel4042 Před 2 lety

    Thank you a lot man, I needed this !

  • @Anne-cv4ms
    @Anne-cv4ms Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much!!! You just boosted me to keep going!

  • @drawbettingtips1062
    @drawbettingtips1062 Před 3 lety +12

    I really appreciate this video for what it is...very honest and real.I agree perfectly with you...thanks for this helpful info

  • @irinamicov
    @irinamicov Před 2 lety +4

    Your videos are so relatable, I can’t even believe it! I started to learn Python for data analysis about 7 months ago, went through a series of courses and now as my honeymoon phase is over I feel completely lost. Even though I’m in a different field, your videos just keep popping up and I’m so grateful for it. This one in particular, says everything that I needed to hear. I might even start using it as part of my daily motivational routine. :)

    • @oaabk
      @oaabk Před rokem

      so after one year, how are things with you?

  • @deqnski890able
    @deqnski890able Před 3 lety

    Brilliantly honest... thank you. We need more videos like this, showing the real face of programming and what kind of work it is so people really know into what they jump in.
    I remember watching videos "One working day of a developer" and all looks nice and easy just typing on the keyboard and magic happens but if you really want to build/invent it is like building any other thing - requires a lot of thinking, trying, failing and keep trying until success and then repeat for the next line, because each word of your code is like a single brick in your building.
    Knowing into what you jump in will keep you motivated through the procces because you took an informed decision and choice.
    Thanks again!

  • @MehStang
    @MehStang Před 3 lety

    You hit so many nails on the heads with this video. Being alone and not having people to talk to has been the hardest for me. Started using discord for the language I’m trying to learn. Got in touch with awesome people and things are back on track.

  • @miguellazaro9265
    @miguellazaro9265 Před 3 lety +23

    I feel this. I've been studying programming almost 2 years now. it really is challenging and I cant emphasize on your point that this is a very lonely road. It is even more lonely that you are the only programmer in a group and people cannot understand the technicality of your program. Having to explain to them something that you are also learning. Thanks for this video. It kinda gave me confidence that I am not in this alone.

  • @gabrielfono844
    @gabrielfono844 Před 3 lety +3

    true
    thanks
    we are waiting for your support this night with codingphase announcement

  • @zezeandjr4110
    @zezeandjr4110 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for the brutal honesty, so genuine and speaks so deeply to what some of us experience, keep it up man, God bless.

  • @mhipcreaw
    @mhipcreaw Před 3 lety

    Thanks for the video man.
    It doesn’t only apply in coding but also life in general 👏🏼

  • @0x007A
    @0x007A Před 3 lety +3

    When I started to learn computer programming there was no publicly-accessible Internet but there were some books and magazines devoted to hobbyist programmers. Putting the knowledge from the books and magazines into practical use meant taking a project-based focus. As I ran into a roadblock it was an opportunity to develop my problem-solving skills which is a skill which has served me well all these years later. Perseverance is essential.

  • @VinsonTuscano
    @VinsonTuscano Před 3 lety +3

    THANKS FOR PROVIDING US THIS INFORMATION

  • @myrusEW
    @myrusEW Před 2 lety +1

    I just want to say thank you for making this video. I'm only about halfway through, but each time you say something, I relate to it completely and it's all in the correct order. It gives me hope that since I had all the same struggles, and there's still about 7 minutes of footage left, that I must be approaching my goals, even if I can't see it.

  • @marsellewalker739
    @marsellewalker739 Před 10 měsíci

    You are awesome bro, i love how you put it down. The truth you speak is for everyone but not everyone can handle the truth about their selfs. Thank you for the truth, it helps a great deal. Love your vibes

  • @salymakhmedov2196
    @salymakhmedov2196 Před 3 lety +10

    At it for almost 2 years now. Started applying for jobs this February and then the pandemic hit. I had a hard time with recruiters, when they would hear that I had no real projects their tone of voice would change. So I started freelancing, I'm on my second project now, once I do another project I will start applying again. Just got to keep going.

  • @thanos9704
    @thanos9704 Před 3 lety +22

    Yes, I will never give up

  • @Classsed
    @Classsed Před 3 lety +2

    Self doubt is a big one, no matter how good you are it can always get you. Great video! keep it up mate 👍

  • @gonsalomon
    @gonsalomon Před 2 lety

    Thanks for splitting your vid in terms you're speaking about! It really helps us to navigate it

  • @icproductions648
    @icproductions648 Před 3 lety +6

    i really relate to the point you make where you say programming is a very lonely process. all of my mates in my computer science class at secondary school have 0 passion for programming so i can never really talk about projects ive made to irl friends or talk about the struggles. im hoping it gets better at university though.

    • @mazepool2748
      @mazepool2748 Před 3 lety +1

      I feel you man. I have a lot of CS major friends but none have passion for it.

    • @icproductions648
      @icproductions648 Před 3 lety

      @@mazepool2748 yh. It sucks even more because i always hear about groups of friends coming together to complete and win hackathons. I cant do that tho since idk anyone else irl who has an interest in programming🙁

  • @CodingAfterThirty
    @CodingAfterThirty Před 3 lety +44

    I am still in the trenches working through, suffering the grind. That’s exactly what it is, don’t let the hype tell you otherwise.
    I started studying early on, but kept giving up. It was not until I turned 35 that I finally started to take coding more seriously.
    It took me 4 years to get my job. I was finally hired at 39.
    Not saying that this is how long it would take you.
    But it requires huge effort on your part to become successful.
    Basically embrace the struggle.
    Not to many channels tell the real side of learning to code.
    Great video.

    • @nomooon
      @nomooon Před 2 lety +1

      Yours is truly inspirational. Most self taught programmers who got jobs are young, because of the ageism in tech industry, many self taught programmers who are older have a harder time to get a job.

    • @oceejekwam6829
      @oceejekwam6829 Před 2 lety

      I appreciate your message, thank you. I have tried multiple times before, self- doubt, being scammed a couple of times led to a loss of faith in the process.
      I recently re-started this goal. Now I know what to expect, I have lowered my expectations and I am happy to continue.
      Thanks again for sharing.

  • @thalifeofkarter2914
    @thalifeofkarter2914 Před 3 lety +1

    Always some good inspirational videos. I’m starting the journey of coding in a couple weeks. Right now I’m in the process of moving, so I’ve got a couple books an building a curriculum for myself. Not tryna do you much an overwhelming myself, but I want to build a strong foundation thanks for the knowledge and tips with your channel I really appreciate it

  • @ahmedsurchi3693
    @ahmedsurchi3693 Před 2 lety

    Wow Thank you very much, you give me hope because i felt i don't learning anything, but you make my feel better now.

  • @georgejetson9801
    @georgejetson9801 Před 3 lety +30

    Dev isn't for everyone, and that's Ok. I've seen many many people come and go over my 40 years in this. It's like weight loss, people want to know how someone lost 100 lbs, but what they really want to hear is something that is quick and low effort. Same when people ask me how I got to where I am. 99% just want to know how they can make 7 figures by next week. People who last as long as I have, are the ones with the patents, the ones who have worked on everyday things that everyone uses daily, without a thought. What we created is a legacy that has made people's lives easier. There are no shortcuts for that.

    • @AmazingStoryDewd
      @AmazingStoryDewd Před 3 lety +4

      That's pretty much human nature. Nobody wants to do hard work. They want it easy. Yet becoming the best let alone compitent at something is never easy.

    • @ng4logic
      @ng4logic Před 3 lety +4

      Thats what people dont realize. In this career you really need to be passionate about it. There is no other way of doing programming job. And I really mean it. If you are not passionate, just leave now.

  • @MrRop-yp3wt
    @MrRop-yp3wt Před 3 lety +16

    Graduate or self taught, anyone can still quit

    • @imqqmi
      @imqqmi Před 3 lety +1

      Even devs on the job may still quit, junior, medior or senior, I've seen it happen. You just have to have a hunger for learning, keen eye for out of the box problem solving and being doggedly tenacious.

  • @adamtucker127
    @adamtucker127 Před 2 lety

    I definitely needed to hear this since it’s what I felt when I first started learning about coding, but sadly I gave up on it too quickly after running into a problem I couldn’t solve. This helps me get back to what I started years ago and I’m more determined than ever to continue the path of coding. Thanks a bunch man.

  • @moonman8055
    @moonman8055 Před 3 lety +3

    I'm new to coding and it kicks me in the brain everyday. But that's why I love it.

  • @johnlea3597
    @johnlea3597 Před 3 lety +4

    Thanks for being a light in the darkness.

  • @matheuscalonga8860
    @matheuscalonga8860 Před 3 lety +1

    i've been studying for the past month and maaan, i'm feeling all of this. your words give me hope, thank you.

  • @spiritedwisent
    @spiritedwisent Před 2 lety

    You're a hero, I needed this

  • @fernandodelatorre2425
    @fernandodelatorre2425 Před 3 lety +5

    Great video and very helpful information. Congratulations on all your success and acquired knowledge!!
    Just wanted to share that I have been studying CSS, HTML and most recently finished Python basics. I have created some projects(through tutorials) and they came out pretty good.
    Was hoping to see if you have any tips for me as far as getting my foot in the door for a Junior SW Developer job or which path you would take if you were in my shoes. I am passionate about coding and really enjoy the outcome of writing and creating through coding.
    Thank you and continued success!

  • @noirsupernova
    @noirsupernova Před 2 lety +3

    Sr. SE here with CS degree + 14 years of exp.
    One of the harsh realities of being in the IT industry is the pressure of learning a technology that you don't know but is required to use in your project. Especially if it's a big tech like AWS.
    In my 14 years, I've learned how to consume information quickly. I read official documentations and watch Pluralsight videos (PS is my go-to online learning because the content is targeted to professionals).
    You gotta have that GRIT to endure in this industry. It's not all roses and rainbows.

  • @anselmenounagnon4560
    @anselmenounagnon4560 Před 3 lety +1

    Just thank you for the video, it is really encouraging to me as I'm going through all this right now...

  • @daveychaz
    @daveychaz Před 3 lety

    Dude - excellent video! This might be the best video I've ever seen on this process and the reality of learning difficult skills. Same as learning anything complex - it hurts for a long time! Great topic and lots of respect for your honesty.

  • @dialman1111
    @dialman1111 Před 2 lety +3

    I do more scripting rather than 'programming' (as in software dev) in my career, but I can relate to the feelings of self-doubt and complexity that you mention. Problem-solving skills are essential, and so are tenacity and perseverance.

  • @rossthemusicandguitarteacher

    I never give up. Full fledged software engineer now, and continue to teach music.

  • @hawkdykes9054
    @hawkdykes9054 Před 3 lety

    Stepping up the production value, love to see it Dorian.

  • @ShmeegleSon
    @ShmeegleSon Před 3 lety

    Thank you for the video! Appreciate the honesty. Going through the self taught procedure right now.
    Also subbed

  • @michaelfae
    @michaelfae Před 2 lety +19

    This should be "why self taught ANYTHING", as it's something other fields can relate with. As a 3D artist who was literally on the verge of quitting, this video has helped outline several of the areas I should fix to get my career back on track.
    Thank you so much! I don't know how programming of all fields came into my feed but one thing is sure...
    I'm not quitting anymore.

  • @100Jim
    @100Jim Před 3 lety +4

    Google and stack overflow is your friend.

  • @jjchang3983
    @jjchang3983 Před 3 lety

    This is giving me a head's up on what to expect along the journey, thank you! 👊

  • @wilfred5656
    @wilfred5656 Před 3 lety

    I just subscribed to your channel. You're a great guy. I'm also going through a lonely quiet path but I'm strong because I'm never gonna quit.

  • @Zubbee
    @Zubbee Před 2 lety +6

    I want to start by saying: thank you so much for this video. It was refreshing hearing you say it's hard... I thought everyone else was wading through it all like sliding on ice.
    I've already experienced the honeymoon phase (you were spot on). I finished an 11hr video on HTML & CSS and (for the life of me) I couldn't write a code for my home page menu. I was saddened by it. Had to copy code from some site and used bootstrap for my first project (designed a birthday website for my wife). I started out wanting to become a backend guy (cause I like data) but been hearing that I should learn the front end first.
    I was feeling inferior being one who is learning programming not as early as I could have and not having a degree education but the things you've said have also helped. After my first project (the birthday site) I've kinda plateaued, wondering if I can go on (it's so hard) but I have to. I have someone guiding me though but so it's helping. There's a lot to say but thank you for this video. God bless

  • @TinyMaths
    @TinyMaths Před rokem +3

    Been on the coding learning curve for just about 7 months now. Tried last year for a couple of months and gave up when I got to JavaScript. But I was made redundant back in April this year and while I was looking for other work I decided to start again by going back to Js and building simple apps while re-freshing HTML and CSS. To be honest I said to myself that I would start attending meetups here in London UK after 3 months of learning, but I'm terrified to take the first jump, and I've no idea why. I keep putting the date back.
    Just this morning I found myself saying that I'll start meetups in January, but I think I'm delaying just as an excuse to not face the fear.

    • @Ticoo0
      @Ticoo0 Před rokem

      Hey bro, Really nice to hear that i'm not the only one that's terrified of that first step. How have things been going for you now? Hope you managed to find a job :)

  • @sierrachoco5271
    @sierrachoco5271 Před 3 lety

    You sir, are not only a programmer but a mentor and inspiration to other's with your "down to earth" demeanour. Thank you so much for taking the time to encourage people. Your the greatest!!!

  • @xfoundlinks
    @xfoundlinks Před rokem

    Thanks for the encouragement to keep going on dude

  • @avibrarbrar
    @avibrarbrar Před 3 lety +28

    WhiteHatJr:
    He is fetching data from the cloud. Now he has to wait for the sun to dry his data before he can use it.

    • @amoghganjikunta4299
      @amoghganjikunta4299 Před 3 lety +1

      LMAO

    • @codeforest9027
      @codeforest9027 Před 3 lety +1

      But that's ok because he will become Bill Gates by launching a spaceship, just like Wolf Gupta at 9 years old. Or was it 13?

    • @josephgaviota
      @josephgaviota Před 3 lety +2

      Which explains why Oracle purchased Sun Microsystems.

    • @avibrarbrar
      @avibrarbrar Před 2 lety

      @@josephgaviota 🤣🤣

  • @frostsmaker8966
    @frostsmaker8966 Před 3 lety +4

    None of that is the problem I had faced. The problem I had faced is that I have to lose the people I love. I have to sacrifice my feeling and completely alone. It is like a scientist who has to choose between a family or knowledge because the family didn't support him and just become a hindrance. Do you want to spend a lot of your time with your family or your coding? It is a big decision, and you are in a situation in which you cannot choose both.

  • @lauty142
    @lauty142 Před 2 lety

    Man this is the words that I needed.
    Thanks

  • @marcofalcone304
    @marcofalcone304 Před 3 lety

    Thanks Dorian, I needed that.

  • @punkisinthedetails1470
    @punkisinthedetails1470 Před 3 lety +8

    I'm so convinced by the thumbnail I have already given up. jk great video.

  • @arctan2
    @arctan2 Před 3 lety +5

    passion is everything

    • @gregorywpower
      @gregorywpower Před 3 lety +1

      But having a plan/schedule/routine is what saves you when the passion dries up for a big.

    • @arctan2
      @arctan2 Před 3 lety

      @@gregorywpower ie self-discipline

  • @whittymusic
    @whittymusic Před 3 lety

    thank you, i needed this!!

  • @DraxTheDestroyer
    @DraxTheDestroyer Před 3 lety +1

    I really appreciate this video, exactly what I needed to fuel my motivation on becoming a web dev, I hope you and your family live a life you dream of because you may have just helped me start building the roots of my own dream life.

  • @lukefromtexas
    @lukefromtexas Před 3 lety +5

    For me it was realizing being on a computer all day is the last thing I want to do with my life.

  • @gdta1738
    @gdta1738 Před 3 lety +20

    The word learn to code is probally making alot of people fail you should learn to make things with code and get better at making things with code . Code is a tool not the end goal.

    • @fal8202
      @fal8202 Před 3 lety

      Excellent point ! having a clear objective as to what you intend to do with this tool is a great motivator.

    • @amateruss
      @amateruss Před 3 lety

      I'm a CS grad and I'm stuck with "theoretical" coding and can't move forward into enterprise coding. I'm not sure if I am suited for this.

  • @DanielStangar
    @DanielStangar Před 3 lety

    Thank you for doing this video, Dorian

  • @angelikialbanis9809
    @angelikialbanis9809 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for this!

  • @axea4554
    @axea4554 Před 3 lety +3

    I am that guy, and holy shit it was long and hard, and I still doing this and will keep doing