Why American Tourists Annoy The French
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- Are you heading to France and do not want to annoy the locals? Here we go through some common things that tourists from all over the world do when they come to France that really does annoy the locals. From tips on visiting Paris to the rest of the country to how to make friends with the French these tips will help you have your best French vacation ever.
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I'm sorry to say I have never been to France. That said, I used to work as a TSA officer in the International terminal of an American airport. When a traveler would present me with a French passport I would always say "Bonjour" and "Merci, au revoir".
Sometimes I would be asked if I spoke French and I would say no,. I would then go on to explain that I was a history major in college and was very aware of the contribution France made in helping America gain independence from Britain.
In an instant, you would see the French persons face light up and smile as I mentioned Lafayette, General Rochambeau and Admiral DeGrasse.
To a man, every Frenchman would say "Well, you helped us out in '44", to which I would always reply "Well, that's what friends are for".
The French were very appreciative of an American acknowledging their vital contribution to our country and I learned that a little history goes a long way.
PURE TRUTH 💯 and kinda Brilliant btw to find these ways to acknowledge the long friendship of our countries
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Well then we will definitely like you with such an attitude ❤
Excellent blueprint on how to get along and make friends were ever you go in the world.
Well done!
How nice to hear advice that doesn’t insult the French. « Don’t be a jerk. » Perfect advice for travelers everywhere.
We try and help :)
Frenchman here. About the berets... you might occasionally see a man or a woman wearing one of those as a fashion accessory. You might also see more people wearing them in southwestern France as it's part of the traditional attire. But all in all they largely are something from the past, and very few French people actually wear them nowadays - unlike blue jeans and NYC caps. I'm 66, and the last person I saw really wearing a beret was my grandfather who would be 120 year-old today.
You are refering to the Basques. Correct?
@@LouBasques1423 Yes, the Basques and other Pyrenean people.
I’m American and wear a beret in my basic rotation of caps/hats. One thing not in the rotation is ball caps (even though I’m a born NY Yankee fan)
NY Yankees hats and American or British flags in France. Tons of them in Paris
Yes, good point (my wife is French, btw!). It's the same as assuming that the British wear bowler hats...sure, they used to be common. Now - so rare as to be very noticeable!
We are Americans, recently took a month long trip and while dining at a Brasserie near the gare in Marseille we sat in a booth behind a 3-some from another English speaking country. The waiter was great, we had eaten there the day before and we knew bc we had the flu and he had taken very patient care of us bringing us toddy’s etc despite our broken French. Listening to the booth behind us (we couldn’t help it bc they were super bossy and loud) we heard a 20 min PAINFUL ordeal while these 3 made no effort whatsoever to be polite, to call any item by its french name, or to not alter its contents. Literally after 20 mins I turned to them and said ‘last eve I had this and it was wonderful ~ it has none of the things you’ve listed ardently that you dislike or are ‘allergic’ to. You should DEFINITELY choose this’ The waiter silently brought me an extra toddy with a wink.
I think the absolutely worst thing any of us can do, as a tourist or even if we immigrate, is to forget that there is a reason we have chosen to go to another country. If we fail to be aware of and at least honor or acknowledge their culture, language, dishes & norms then we probably should just stay at home in our comfort zone instead of subjecting the rest of the world to our lack of civility. Just my two cents.
Au lieu de rester à Paris, tirez-vous de cette ville et visitez la France ou les français ne supportent pas les Parisiens qui se comportent comme des "envahisseurs" et ça.
C'est intenable, les étrangers ( allemand et hollandais) qui viennent avec leurs nourriture sont peu considérez !
Pour les ricains évitez Svp lorsque vous êtes plusieurs vos exclamations qui n'intéressent personne.
Manger pour nous français n'est pas comme vous..."bouffer"!
Bons séjours en France 🎉😂
Velomo
No offense, but you were talking about another party being rude, but you were at a restaurant in public when you had the flu? Especially so recently after Covid one might think your impeccable sense of etiquette would have told you to stay in your flat and get something from the grocery.
Having allergies isn't being rude - it's rude of you to put inverted commas around the word. How insensitive.
@@elipotter369 The solution in that case is to prepare yourself beforehand: either learn the phrase in French ("Je suis allergique à ________") or make a card with the phrasing on it, to show to the waiter. Don't go to France and expect your server to know the English name of every ingredient.
@@edmerc92 yes indeed, thanks.
Though I have trouble in Australia and New Zealand, including some of my NZ relatives were very angry at me for having allergies- doubt I'll inflict my presence on them again!
I'm hoping my allergies will improve with improved health -.apparently post covid and other viruses can cause inflammation and aggravate the immune system, so I'm trying to keep stress free as that's an aggravating factor.
I prepare a lot of my own food at home in the meantime, and most baristas are kind and helpful when I explain what kind of hot drink I want, as I'm allergic to caffeine too! I've worked out a simple request & suggested pricing to make it easy for them.
I’ve been to France multiple times never came across people who were rude…most were friendly..I’m not sure what people expect it’s not an amusement park…in fact my first trip to Paris many years ago my wife and I were standing outside a train station trying to figure out the system with our book..an older gentleman stopped and explained it all to us…later he explained he had worked for American Airlines for many years and now retired..he wished us a great stay..I’ve never forgotten that gentleman..being from NYC ..I always love helping out some confused tourists as a tribute to him..
I have found NYC people so extremely friendly, fun, and very helpful!!
People are nicer outside the city
"I’ve been to France multiple times never came across people who were rude…most were friendly.." True...to an extent. To say that whole of France are friendly, is ABSURD. I've been to France 4 times in my life. One thing they do MOST times, is to change the menu in English and double charge once they spot the American.
The last bit about helping others because that man helped you is so cute. You’re paying it on. ❤ that
@@luigivincenz3843you sir are rude…see you prove your own point. Thank you. 😂
My father was an intelligence officer in WWII. He had great respect for the French as fighters. The army collapsing was mostly due to failed leadership. It did not mean that individual French troops were not courageous and skilled warriors. Also, the French people bravely resisted during the occupation.
The WWII jokes about France are as old as the dying boomers who say them. They're honestly not even funny anymore.
Ignoramus: Ha, French people can't fight!
Jean Reno: (puts down newspaper, lights a cigarette, and stares disapprovingly)
@@knucklehoagies Hated boomer here...I, nor anyone I know my age would do this. "Dying boomers"? Grow up.
@@steveburke7675 Crude Internet humor is lost on your generation. For some reason the immediate reaction is "well I don't do that." As if your anecdotal evidence means anything.
My point was, its an old joke that lacks any originality or wit. It's may have been funny in the post-war era but in 2024 it just sounds corny and dated.
I did not intend any disrespect towards you personally. I love older folks and respect many of them in all honesty. Sorry for the misunderstanding.
"Also, the French people bravely resisted during the occupation." absolutely not, that was actually an extreme minority of people (coming from a French person).
Boils down to good manners and common courtesy. You are visiting a different country so be respectful of their language, customs, and culture. 😊
Yes doesnt need being a brain surgeon hehe
French guy here.
Always keep in mind that Paris, is a very busy city. People won't sometimes have no interaction with you simply cause they're in a hurry.
I am living in Rouen, Normandy. The memory of WW2 is rather vivid here, and American tourists are most of the time the most welcome guests. We know some of you speak rather loudly, but hey, not a big deal, we also know how to talk loud...
Remember, a "bonjour" and a smile are the most efficient keys for opening the hearts.
😅Yes, Parisians in a hurry! I got a shock when I visited Paris for the first time and at 6:30 pm as we were getting off the RER to go to the Metro link, everyone was literally RUNNING towards us to catch some train home. It was like something out of a movie where people are running for their lives from danger. I'll never forget that. 😅
100% agree! We visited Paris in the spring and by learning basic French (thank you for your basic French phrases btw) it got us soooo far! There were a couple times we were brought to the front of the line , given free champagne and even were helped out with directions in the street.
Make sure you learn in French “do you speak English” or “sorry I do not speak French” , always speak French first and then go into English or whatever language. Also google translate is your friend! Definitely use it. We were blown away with how kind the Parisians were and I think because we spoke French first it made our experience so much better. You a visitor in the country, respect the language and the people will take care of you.
So glad we could help a bit 😀
Make sure you learn "i'm not from England'.
We are planning a trip for in 2025 and I’ve started taking French lessons (just to get the basics). It’s very hard for me and I’m worried about how silly I sound with my Texas accent, but at least no one can accuse me of not trying! 😂
@@grouloulle I think they would know by our American accents. I’m from the south so there would be no confusing me with an English person. 😂
@@penelopepitstop762 Votre sympathique accent texan aura du succès.
I’ve found that learning “hello” and “thank you” in the language of the country you visit goes a long way!
One of the more recent bits of military history that most Americans don't know is that the whole "miracle at Dunkirk" was possible in large part to the French army performing a large-scale fighting retreat without which it's likely the history of WWII would have been very different. Also, the French soldiers weren't cowards, they were simply stuck operating under a command structure designed to fight a totally different war. (A problem that *every* military had to varying degrees, including ours.)
This!
It's also worth remembering that it was only 22 years since they'd finishing fighting (and defeating) a devastating German invasion that left large parts of Northern France in ruins.
The French Resistance were absolute heros during WWII resisting and sabotaging the Germans. Most who were caught were shot by the Germans. There is NOTHING cowardly about the French
I can't believe that Americans can be so cruel about this. I would never joke about another country's experiences during a war.
That's cute. Meanwhile the Soviet Union entered Berlin facing heavy German resistance.
Helpful, authentic, friendly, never condescending. This is why you are so successful!
thank you :)
Pretty much applies as general rule for travelling: Try to learn a few words of the local language. Try to be polite and greet people. Try to keep your voice down and reapect those around you because even though YOU are on a vacation and having fun, there are other people there too who would also like to enjoy being there without you disturbing them. Being polite means keeping your voice down…in trains, cafes, PARKS, restaurants etc. I go to a park nearby on my days off to get away from the stress and enjoy the fresh air and the peace and quiet. So do other locals. In Durooe, when you go to a park, you talk with aquiet voice to not disturb others to let everyone relax and enjoy the park. Then you het the tourists who run around and keep yelling and screaming and laughing loudly and you just wanna go: READ THE ROOM, people!!! 🙄😡 When travelling, observe what most people do and you’ll know how to behave. But as a general rule in Europe: Try to keep the volume down, try to be polite and greet people and learn a few words in the local language, try to have manners (table manners and being respectful), and please don’t go into the city wearing a tank top and shorts with your boobs and butt out and with flip flops. Or worse, in your pyjamas. Shorts and a tank top are fine, but keep it CLASSY. And know that it could be that you won’t be allowed into some churches or restaurants if you aren’t dressed properly. And yes that’s for everyone, not just the Americans and that applies to pretty much all of Europe, not just France. Europe is big on manners and trying to keep things classy.
I never even realized making fun of the French about WWII was a thing until this week when I heard another travel vlogger talk about it. I can't believe that Americans could be so insensitive. I've always thought that the French people suffered so much loss during WWII and making fun of a whole generation of people in another culture for that is just disgusting. There aren't enough bad words to describe how embarrassing this is for me as an American.
Could come from your education in the US ,50 states ,50 different versions of history
I can't speak for other states, but California Public High Schools hardly teach any World War II history. It's discouraging and embarassing for me as an American.@@francocanuck
Just a Bonjour makes a huge difference when you walk into a place or get into a taxi, just like 'Hola' in Spain. The locals acknowledge that you are trying and respecting their culture. France is not like Italy - do NOT talk loudly, laugh loudly or be overly friendly. The French are quite reserved people but friendly nonetheless. On my last visit to Paris, the taxi drivers and waiters in cafes were very very nice actually.
To be more exact, it depends of the location & generation
The millenials and gen z in big cities would 1000 times prefer you speak english. Then speak french with your bad grammar, wrong pronunciation, bad accent, weird vocabulary that gives headache and confuse them 😂
they usualy know english, they want you to get to the point quicker,
and are too much worried and self absorbed about their personal life problems to care that you the foreigner makes effort to say some french words 😆
Gen x and boomer from small cities. They are little more patriotic and old school civilised manners. And they will appreciate it you try to say some words in french
The mentality differ depending on those factors
And finaly if you gonna speak english. Speak a clear slow english. Using simple vocabulary 😆 Dont come out there speaking to local europeans as if youre speaking to your homie in Chicago using slangs, complex sentences & speaking fast 😂
Unless you walk into an eatery in the evening. I walked in, said Bonjour, and was quickly given a Bonsoir. I hit myself in the head and repeated her Bonsoir, and we had a wonderful laugh. Yes, just one word can get you into good graces.
This! A rule of thumb for every tourist should be: what's the proportion of clients around here whose first language is English? If it's the minority, just use a few words in the local language. I also got much better service in Spanish speaking countries by knowing how to say hi, thank you, and simple words to order at restaurants. Did you know that in Japan, in certain restaurants, if you do not speak Japanese, they won't even let you have a table. Just learn a few words, guys, it's not complicated ☺
@@ShadowSolaris Yes about Japan but that's not really because you can't speak Japanese, it's because the restaurant doesn't feel like they could accomodate you well because they don't speak English.
Wonderful! I think similar to Italy saying hello like "Bonjour" goes a long way. If you can, check out our new footage in central Italy.
I thought everyone annoyed the French.
I thought exactly the same when I saw this video. Even the French annoy the French!
Prejudice.
Not true
Lighten up! It’s a joke. This soft society is really getting out of hand.
That’s ok Europeans think all Americans carry guns and live in super violent places. I was so shocked at how kind and friendly everyone was.
Dang. I could not imagine doing any of this. I noticed people were saying “Bonjour” every time I went into a store in Lyon. It immediately made me realize that was the norm so I responded in kind. I liked the French.
Thats cool you caught on. Hope you had fun in Lyon!
@@woltersworld Had a blast. 💥
@@nathansnead7371 Try at least learning some French basic words.
Like Bonjour, Au Revoir, Merci beaucoup, s’il vous plaît.
It’s more easier than you think
@@christophermichaelclarence6003 That’s the plan. I live in a part of Portugal where many of the people speak French. 👍🏾
My visit to Paris and the interaction with the locals was wonderful. I had heard all the negative comments of how they hate Americans, they are upset if we don't speak French, but get even more angry if we try and don't speak it perfectly. Then I got there and found none of that to be true. I found them to be very friendly, excellent service in restaurants and generally very accomodating. It then dawned on me that maybe many Americans are jerks and they are treated as they deserve. Of course I was just in awe and couldn't believe I was in Paris. I would love to go back.
This is so important, thank you for posting it! I think a lot of tourists really overlook the importance of learning local etiquette when they visit somewhere, thinking they won't be interacting much with locals so they don't need to really pay attention, and that their own culture's etiquette is "just common sense". Even if you're in a tight tour group, you're going to interact with a local, and spending 15 minutes ahead of time considering their etiquette, and how it may differ from yours, will go a long way.
People claim Parisians are rude, but from what I understand is they have a very engrained standard of etiquette- and phrases like “hello, I can see you are very busy…” are used almost default, regardless of whether the person looks busy at all.
Just a tip for customer service situations:
American mindset: "I'm the customer. You need my money therefore be nice to me."
French mindset: "I'm the worker. You need my service therefore be nice to me."
I've actually heard American tourists say things like "I'm not happy with this service. I'll never come here again." to which the French worker responds "Okay then leave. Nobody is forcing you to be here. It's okay."
lol
I’m French and I can guarantee you, NOBODY aver says “Sacrebleu” nor “voulez-vous coucher avec moi”. EVER.
I only heard those words from Foreigners
This applies to most countries. Learn the culture and a few words. It goes a long way.
My wife and I have been traveling to France since the 1980's -- never had a bad experience and had plenty of great times! For example, back about 2000, we stayed at a small hotel on the edge of Nimes... it was the off-season and very few people were about. We found that the owner and his wife enjoyed just chatting by the fireplace after dinner. On our departure day, the owner gave us a bottle of wine. What nice people! And on our first road trip in 1988, we stayed at a chateau (Ouchamps Relais des Landes). I had trouble narrowing things down to find the right local road south of Blois. Found a phone and phoned the chateau; we were closer than we thought and found the place driving on a small dirt road through a cornfield (the corn was ready for harvest). We had a wonderful dinner (sat down at 9:42 p.m.) by the fireplace in the dining room. My roasted rabbit and mushroom sauce was to die for. Next morning, they brought breakfast up to our room. Heavenly! We extended our stay for a third night. I could go on and on....
Oh... I took a flight in France last week (Strasbourg - Marseille) and when an old lady sat next to me she said Bonjour... I didn't understand why, now I do... I little late, lol.
We have been to France (Paris) twice and haven't really experienced any problems. I do speak a little French and we are Canadian, so I know that helped. People need to remember that they are in France, or whatever country they are visiting, and are not back home. It is important to respect the country you are visiting and its people when you are there.
You are very nice to us French ! Honestly the only two things I find annoying is when people come to you speaking their own language as if we were supposed to understand it! It’s a very colonialist attitude, each time I travel I make sure to learn few words of the country I am visiting, it’s a minimum and I think people like it. Being loud is another annoying thing, kind of like not noticing there is people around you… but some French are loud too, not necessarily a foreign thing. Honestly you don’t have to eat things you don’t like, I think people will understand, many French don’t eat snails or frog legs, poor little things😢. It’s great to see you apparently enjoying your time in France ! 😊
Bravo Wolters, everything you say is based on common sense. The French in general find Americans very friendly and cheerful. I regret never having had the opportunity to go to the USA but every time I meet visitors from this country I don't fail to ask them where they come from, their impressions, it is always a pleasant experience to exchange with people from elsewhere. Here you go, thank you again for this excellent video. Et bienvenue en France à nos amis américains.😀🥰
My first trip abroad was just a few years ago to Paris. I was so nervous because I had heard all the stereo-typing of how rude the French are and how much they hated Americans. I had also heard how dirty and icky Paris was. I was so pleasantly surprised to find out how wrong all that was. I forgot to greet the worker at the snack counter at the Eiffel Tower. He wouldn’t serve me until I did. Then he started speaking English and I found out he was really from Nee York and not French at all. One evening my sister and I decided we were tired and wanted to go back to the apartment earlier than the rest of our group. We stopped at a restaurant and asked for a table. Again, I was tired and didn’t attempt a greeting in French. The waiter seemed quite annoyed with us. He took our order and started to walk away when I realized I hadn’t ordered a coke. I asked for one and then said, “por favor” realizing I was stupid, I then said, “per favore”. I finally got a “si vous plait” out. He started laughing. I apologized for getting flustered and after that he was the nicest guy ever. I had such a great time. The people were very friendly and the city was actually clean and beautiful. We went on a side trip to Normandy and the people their were extremely kind and welcoming. I’d love to go back.
I heard Paris is looking like the middle east nowadays
😅
The French people are lovely people, especially outside of Paris. Paris, like New York or London or any big city will have it's measure of rude people. Ignore those that are rude and just enjoy the wonderful food, scenery, and people.
@@chuckh4077 Is that meant to be racist Chuck?
@@chuckh4077 As French (don’t look like one). I can highly confirm that is true. It’s looking now middle east
@@narabdela nope, meant to be facts.
I LOVE that you said to say Hello to shopkeepers when in France! As an American who loves France and has been there several times, things like this are a subtlety that I learned while there. Merci beaucoup!
I always had to refuse the cheese plates, but did so with a "Je suis intolerant au lactose."
As a French, I was moved by your words and your kindness. It is thanks to good people like you that friendship bretween countries is possible.
Colmar is such a little gem ! Always makes me happy to know you guys spent some time in France
Colmar or Strasbourg is an enchanting and charming little town/village that looks straight from Fairytale book. A looking Medieval/Middle age place (the houses structure looks more from 16th century)
It’s located right across the Franco German border. And speaking of territory, it used to be to the German throughout wars (Franco Prussian War 1871, WW1 and WW2)
What’s amazing about it it had never been shelled
Heading nack soon to film more french winter time videos
@@woltersworld That blue jersey with italian flag in your video that’s not really "français" 😆
I prefer Colmar over Strasbourg since it’s small and cozy ❤
The Bonjour thing is real... If you don't give them back a "Bonjour!" they'll just keep saying it to you increasing the volume & intensity until you respond.. I've seen it several times. 😅
That’s really and true and Cool fact : the Story of Beauty and the Beast actually takes place in Colmar
Sorry for traumatizing you with this 😅 But for us it's so important. I can't really explain why. Plus the thing is most French people don't really know that this politeness rule doesn't necessarily exist in all countries.
@@Leopold_van_Aubel I recently visited Japan with my fiance who is French. I've been living in France with him for 4 years and it felt really weird for both of us to walk into shops and NOT say bonjour/konnichiwa. In fact, it felt really rude but if we'd greeted the staff - it would've felt pretty weird for the Japanese people :D
I think it's awesome, la petite politesse, elle est profonde@@Leopold_van_Aubel
Now if we could get people to follow those rules in the U.S. 🙂
🙏🙏🙏
French person here, dont worry American tourists watching this video, you guys are far from the worst foreign tourists we have here, not even top ten worst in my opinion.
Thanks. People love to unfairly target us but my experience traveling has been the same. The worst tourists here in the US are the Chinese.
I wonder if he has a video that discusses what annoys d Americans when visiting france or dealing with French people😂.... this will equal d playing field
French person here. All of that is good advice. Let me emphasize the Bonjour rule and the not-speaking-loudly rule, that are the two rules most likely to be broken by some Americans. But generally speaking, don't worry too much. American tourists are appeciated for their big smiles and their golden retriever attitude and they're definitely not seen as bad tourists to have around.
I understand the "Bonjour" etiquette but what's wrong with speaking loudly? As an American, my mindset is usually "mind your own business. It's not like I'm speaking to you. And if you wanna join our conversation, we welcome it as long as you're friendly but don't tell us what to do"
@@knucklehoagies The first reason is very Kantian in its approach. It can be summed up as "if everyone around here spoke as loudly as you, nobody could hear anything and it would give me a headache". The second reason is that it bothers those around you. Your voice is a disagreeable intrusion into their own privacy. It's a bit like a bad smell. You say "mind your own business" and it's funny because a French person would probably answer "Well, mind YOUR own business. Nobody needs to hear your whole life". I hope that explanation is satisfactory. Thanks for sharing your opinion.
@@knucklehoagies Speaking loudly is very arrogant, whether it is in France or USA. You are imposing ourself on everyone else.
@@vmestates3266 what's loud to others might not be loud to you.
@@knucklehoagies True, and vice versa.
Americans often have a sense entitlement and think everything is weird or different or awful because it’s not the same as we have here. Why visit other countries if you’re not open to experiencing other cultures, norms, food, language, etc. How would you like if visitors were condescending about their experiences, people, language, food, etc? As the host stated, Paris is not all of France and is a diverse nation. We’d all be happier if we learned practicing acceptance, kindness and respect for one another. Merci.
I thought all French people were rude and snobby. Until I met a group of people visiting the USA from France. They were so friendly and warm. I now want to go to France.
I went to Paris in 1993 and before I went, I did all the right things - I did my research, I learned a bit of basic French, traveled in the off season, and followed all the tips and tricks. I nearly got away scot free with no issues except for the morning I walked into a wine and cheese shop, and when the elderly hard of hearing man who ran the shop started yelling and waving for me to go, I knew he hadn't heard my very clear French greeting. Also wasn't hearing any apology or explanation. So I chalk that up to him, not me! 🤣🤣 It's so funny that all the basics haven't changed and are indeed, universal. Happy New Year from a long time viewer!
I could write a book about the bad behavior I've seen. I have family in Savoie, and I often stop in Paris en route. I've visited France many times. The one example that comes to mind is the loud American guy in the restaurant, drunk, bellowing about how he was going to take the whole family to "VER SALES" the next day and it was going to cost him his "left ball." Bragging about being a rich American is ugly.
Don’t play your media (music or videos) out loud in public, especially at a restaurant or on transportation. True in any city, but especially in France.
I'm French and usually I don't like videos. I didn't expect such a pertinent analysis. I'm very impressed by the ability of Wolters to get what annoys and the reason why. Bravo!
Earlier this year we went to France as part of our tour around Europe on the motorbike from the UK and we found a great little random restaurant at our first stop in Dunkerque. They spoke very little English but made use feel extremely welcome because we went in with an open mind and tried our best to speak as much French as possible (which is not much). Turned out to be a great night as they kept coming over with free drinks and talking to us the best they could despite neither of us speaking each others languages very well.
Around Normandy and Britanny used to be an English territory back in the Middle Age (Hundred Years War). People there speak English quite well. Quite a few British migrants moved there since Brexit agreement.
Glad you had a wainderful time there, mate
@@christophermichaelclarence6003my family live in a village in Brittany, overall people don't speak a lot of English there. That said, there's a big age gap, young people are often quite good at English (my cousins speak English very well) and older people not so much (my grandparents really don't speak much English)
So, basically, have manners and you'll be just fine.
That bonjour tip when you enter a shop, cafe etc is a really good tip. Maybe its because they had a revolution and people see each other as equals they expect / demand to be treated with respect. I think maybe thats why because some shopkeepers as grumpy because the keepers see the tourists as rude.
I find it ironic that Americans would call French losers/quitters considering Americas retreat from Vietnam.
Excuse me but the French also retreated from Vietnam and IndoChina after surrendering at Dien Bien Phu. Please brush up on your history before commenting.
From Wiki FYI
"The garrison was overrun in May after a two-month siege, and most of the French forces surrendered. A few men escaped to Laos. Of the 11,000 French troops captured, only 3,300 survived imprisonment. The French government in Paris resigned. The new Prime Minister, the left-of-centre Pierre Mendès France, supported French withdrawal from Indochina"
@@craigroaring say what you want Beanie. By do open a history book
@@rivierarocket You just proved my point.
The french were railroaded by Germany. You can't spin that kind of loserdom
@@diegoflores9237 America was railroaded by Vietnam, a 3rd world country. Lets talk about losers.
I have been learning french for six years, and am traveling in summer 2024 with my class. We are going to paris, Lyon, Nice, and flying out of monaco. Im really exited, and this trip was just on my mind so funny coincidence you would post this!
My 1st trip to France I realized how friendly the French are (always were told they were rude). We Americans need to remember we are a visitor we should never expect a country to conform to us. Just go with the flow and enjoy the culture you choose to visit.
Hi from France (Bordeaux city), it is good to read, we french people have often a rude reputation but it depends on the persons and behaviour of tourists too !
I enjoy to go to the US and always have been well welcomed, in several differents states, we are way different in many things but this is the point to travel and discover other people :) bless you
politeness is an important part of the culture and everyday language, in France. Also, being loud is akin to invasion of privacy, other people’s quiet space.
All spot on. I lived in Paris for a year studying French. So many times, after greeting shopkeepers in French and, when asked, telling them I was American and revealing I could actually speak the language, they were positively effusive. Wanted me to stay and talk, offered me coffee, etc. The smallest gesture of greeting is all that is required. There's a reason "dickhead" is an American expression.
Really ?
Went to Paris once with my parents had French onion soup 🍜 it was sooooooooo good 👍 I highly recommend trying it oh my gosh
Happy New Year Mark and your family.
And all others
Thanks Arno! You too!
Loudness is the main one i think. Talk to people near you. The people 20 yards away dont need to hear you.
I used to live in Southwest Germany not that far from the French border so I've been to France more times than I can count. The first thing I learned (epically living in Germany where I was trying to practice my German) is that if you start speaking in their language they will atomically reply to you back in English but like you said they appreciate you at least trying. I also have to say that as someone who is from Chicago when I went to Paris other than the language it felt the same just the Eiffel Tower instead of the Sears Tower (and yes I still call it that because I will NEVER call it by any other name). I had always heard how rude the French could be but it's just like anywhere else in the world, you tend to get back what you put out.
Merci beaucoup pour tes détours en Alsace , j’éspère que tes séjours sont toujours agréables 👍
In a former life I worked for a large French owned multi-national corporation in their US offices and I learned one thing:
There are Parisians and their are people from France and they are not the same.
The real French wear burets and twirl their mustache
@@chuckh4077 Berets
very true
I was in Paris with 3 friends. I was the only one who had been before so I had schooled them on complaining because although we didn’t speak a lot of French, many French speak English. The other was on being loud. On our last night in Paris we were in a small Italian restaurant (was fabulous). The 4 of us along with everyone else were enjoying our dinner. That is until 4 more American young ladies came in and were so fricking loud, everyone in the restaurant turned and looked at them. I hated this was happening so I went over to the young women and introduced myself by saying in a low voice, “hi, I could hear you were from America. Where are you from”? Thinking they would mirror how I was speaking. Nope they just got louder🤣🤣🤣
You’re such a respectful traveler. It’s good advice for anywhere really, just being courteous and polite. If you’re visiting a country, one would think you’re there because you like it, and why do such things? I used to live in a very touristy city and tourists (perhaps “local tourists”) just literally brushing in front of me, while looking out at a view, not even acknowledging (leave alone apologizing) as if I was invisible, blocking and starting to do a photo shoot! One thing that i’ve realized is speaking their language (even if you think and know you’re speaking it so terribly) just enthralls the locals! I think it’s just an opportunity to improve upon any language really (tips, language immersion and such!) Honestly, I’ve had the best experience with the French anywhere (while traveling and encountering French tourists in other countries, and no, I don’t look French 😆) They’re nice, passionate people. I don’t know much Italian but I once just recited all my favorite Italian wines and the regions (and there’s a LOT of them 😂) and made an expatriate Italian very happy… in a context though.
And talking so loudly that one can be heard long before you’re even seen… sigh… not respecting locals, signs and places 😔 we’ve all seen them!
A couple of people have mentioned in one of the French travelers groups on facebook that their kids are studying abroad in Paris and I directed them to your videos 😊
I had the opportunity to visit Paris a couple times and it was wonderful, the people were very welcoming and tolerant of my nursery French. I managed to check in to my room in French and attempted to order dinner but the waiter could tell I was out of my element and kindly switched to English.
Oh man, when were you filming this? My wife and I were there in mid-October (you're almost looking at our Airbnb). We said, "Wouldn't it be funny to see Mark filming?" Thanks for all the great tips and enjoyable videos! They were very helpful.
-For being picky, actually it's fine, French people are very picky as well with food. It's more rare since food is delicious, but if something is not good with your food definitely you can be demanding.
-For being loud, it's not only in France. 😅 All over the world Americans are known to be loud in general.
Well, it's ok to be picky in a regular joint, they will adapt to your requests. But if you go to a fancier place (something "gastronomic"), then please don't.
Yep agree. I’m a picky eater- always have been. Just don’t have an expansive taste palette. It is hat it is. Have gone to France twice and I never had any issue asking for something / it’s all about being polite.
I don't like food.
Regarding the French being cowards and eager to surrender:
- This is not funny and downright offensive and disrespectful.
- WW2 defeat was due to indecisive leadership, afraid to impose suffering on par with what was experienced during WW1. Britain’s leadership under Chamberlain was no better (“keep calm and carry on” was to prepare the British population for an inevitable German invasion, not a show of determination to fight). The US was AWOL until 1941.
- Among the Allies, the French suffered the most during WW1 and were traumatized. This shaped decisions made during the 20’s and 30’s.
- Britain did not suffer the same fate because the French stopped the Germans from annihilating their expeditionary corps (Dunkirk), Churchill leadership, and for being an island.
- France has been a nation for a 1000 years, winning more battles than they lost. When the US will have existed for that long, let’s do the tally. 5:16
- Finally, the French intervention was decisive during the American Revolution allowing the US to exist as a nation. When the US decided to fight the British alone in 1812, they got the White House burnt down to the ground. So, nothing to brag about.
If it’s too long to explain to an offensive knucklehead, just ask about 1812.
And, yes, don’t be a jerk. There are more things that unite us than there are that divide us.
As a French speaker from Canada, these are golden advices! At the end if you think about it, it's all about respect
Reason number 1 in annoying the French is, just like Wolter;
Wear a hoodie with the colours of an Italian sports team.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I can’t wait to visit 🇫🇷 !!
People calling the French losers: There were MULTIPLE points in the American Revolution when France saved our butts.
Also, the French are the people who has not only fought the most wars in the history, but also won the most wars!
Yes thanks! And those who use this “old” French surrending monkey meme should be aware that it’s propaganda created in 2003 when G Bush and his laquais the UK were not so happy that France refused to attack Iraq as the US made up mass destruction weapons reports in order to invade Iraq again . This insult and the Patriot fries renaming is the pure result of idiocracy, ignorance and Anglo-Saxon imperialism, and that’s why people should think twice before using this slur. Would you qualify German people as Nazis when you visit them? And yes, France did indeed win the most battles in history. Finally, I would say that you should always respect someone who can speak your native language, even with a strong accent, that means he/she can speak one more language than you. Thank you Wolters for your great and positive videos!
Very helpful...thank you!
Excellent clip!
Another great video, Mark! 🇫🇷 ❤
Glad you enjoyed it!
Hey Mark, awesome video
Great episode!!
My wife and my children are American, so, I've no americanophobia. BUT the problem with American turists is they speak to you in English without asking you, as everybody should speak English. When I go to a foreing country, I learn a few words of the language. "Bonjour, parlez-vouy anglais ?" would be polite, or at least "hello, do you speak English ?" , it is the minimum, even if we are sure (hotels, museums etc.) the reply will be yes. Other problem, Americans consider that if they pay, they can have everything (buy something or a service if it's closed, a priority in the line etc ). No, it doesn't work like this in France (not only in France, in whole Europe).
Good advice! Thanks.
Great video! New subscriber here! Happy New Year!
What a wonderfully thoughtful video. Thank you! Common courtesy should still be common even here in the States. I’ve traveled the world with work (Flight Attendant) and on my own and it’s always easier to get attract bees with honey than vinegar;)
Honestly, I think pretty much all of this advice works anywhere you travel.
Thanks Walter I was on the fence on weather or not to do my Pepe Le Pew accent in France
BTW, his name is Mark Wolters
Did you know for the French, the character Pepe Le Pew was Italian? Funny eh?
Thank you for this! Visiting France in April for the first time.
That was really a great explanation ! Thank you. No mystery about it. Completely comprehensible to even the most clueless tourist. They , as a rule , just don't know any better. ( most of them ...)
I don’t visit establishments that have smokers loitering outside..
Better not go to France then.
@@MrKeithblairI never saw smokers loitering outside an establishment. I was in Paris for 10 days in 2008; I don't remember seeing anyone smoking on the street. I hate smoke, so I would notice.
@@MrKeithblairin Britain its common to see smokers puffing away in doorways of pubs and hotels..if you ask them nicely they’ll stand aside and you can enter the establishment..(hold your breath as you walk the gauntlet )
Its normal for advice to recognize they are way classier in everything :)
Just standard etiquette for travelling anywhere, really. If you don't like the local food/culture, don't go there. I'm from the UK, and it always makes me cringe when I go to places and see English pubs/fish & chip shops, etc. If I'm holidaying in France, I definitely want to try the local cuisine. When in Spain, a paella is definitely on the "to do" list.
I have made friends in France everytime I visited that country.
Helpful video
For me when I think of the French, I think of the bravery of the French resistance . I think it’s sad that the perception is the English don’t like the French. ( I’m 😅English).
i'm Scottish. Generally speaking the French like the Scots a lot.
@@WDH59510indeed!
All what you say is correct, thats actually every where in europe. Greetings is the key, thats makes you many doors open. Food is very good, you can try everything. Eat only local and when you wanna drinking coffee go in a local coffee shop.
I spent some time over a few days with some French tourists,here in the US. They were not shy anout criticizing how loud Anericans wer 8:01 e. I was amused as I do speak softly,as do my relatives. I understood their reactions but I am used to it and I do agree.
Also, they were shocked, SHOCKED, to find Orangina refrigerated. I had never boughr it before and loved it cold. Most if them put it in their backpacks or held onto it to warm it on a hot summer day. Same with bottled water.
C'est la vie.
Nobody in France says " c est la vie "
Colmar looks great, heading there in the summer, wish I'd scheduled more time there now.
How can we expect people to behave properly overseas when they can't even behave here in the US.
I love French history and culture and especially the architecture. Adore it. I went to France once and did not enjoy myself. The Alsace region. The people were respectful towards me but I am big puffy looking American. I stood out wherever I went and did everything I could NOT to bring attention to myself. I was so nervous and worried about making a social faux pas that I couldn't feel a moments joy and excitement about being in France. I scuttled quietly back over to Germany and spent the rest of my vacation there. I am just relating my experience and not casting aspersions on France or the French.
It's sad that you felt this way. You shouldn't. Americans are generally appreciated tourists. I would like you to come back to France and enjoy yourself and have a great time.
It's soooo damn easy... "C'est vous plait," "bonjour" and "merci" (and bonus: "puis-je avoir") go so, so far in France. That's even if you just have a layover at CDG. Also, as many Americans are liberal in their use of "I want," "gimme" and "I'll have" at home without any incorporation of basic manners, many of us don't have much in the way of manners to begin with (and I don't want to read platitudes from any of my fellow Southerners about manners; I promise you that as Southerners, we're friendlier but no more polite than most other Americans). Even so, it's still not an excuse to not brush up on the customs for manners in other societies before travel. To be fair, I've seen Brits, Aussies, Germans, etc. act impolitely, too, but there's a higher level of entitlement found in Americans' flubs, it seems.
maybe because of the "Client is king" mindset ?
Well said!!
As an American tourist I was confused with being a local in Paris. Even at a restaurant someone came up to me and I was confused because my French was bad. Then after a I pause the person spoke English asking about my food and I realized she was also from the US. Same with taking the Paris metro and other areas. In my first travels to Europe I made some good friends and memories. If you’re from the states and you show general curiosity, appreciation and just ask questions you will be fine.
I hate loud people in restaurants no good.
You're making me hungry! I wish I could work/teach ESL in France, both my Great Great Grandmas immigrated from Norther France in the 1870 war. Nobody told me I can't do that. I feel French, doing everything but smoke.
Very good advice. I'm British but a lot of what you say applies to us too (and the bit about drunken tourists probably more so!). I always try to speak what French I can and to treat everybody and everything with respect and have always thoroughly enjoyed my experiences in France.
When I visited Paris long ago, I made an effort to try out my limited French and found people were very nice. I was nervous about attempting it but it was very worth it. I traveled with a large group of students most of whom had never been abroad. We had some awkward moments in stores because my companions were not familiar with how customers are expected to behave. I am originally from Europe so it was easier for me.
One thing I found tough in Europe on a more recent trip is that, having stopped eating meat long ago and transitioning to vegan, finding places to eat was difficult. There are apps to help one find places but when one has limited time, it can be difficult. I did find places with options I could have, which was always so delightful.