Three Types of Marriages - Cohabitation, Contractor, or Covenant

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  • Three Types of Marriages - Cohabitation, Contractor, or Covenant
    Chapters:
    00:00 Intro
    00:49 Cohabitation stage.
    14:56 Contract stage.
    31:29 Covenant stage.
    Sermon Notes:
    1. Cohabitation stage - I don’t love you enough to be loyal to you.
    From the beginning being naked was reserved for a man and his wife.
    Cohabitation is a sin of fornication.
    Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. 1 Corinthians 7vs2
    Living together doesn’t constitute marriage.
    If you are cohabitating:
    A. Continue to shake up but Scripture and statistics are not in your favor.
    B. Find separate living quarters and stop having sex until you’re married.
    C. Get married quickly and have a formal wedding later.
    2. Contract stage - I love you if you love me.
    “But if you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them. Luke 6vs32
    Contract type of marriage:
    - Protecting my rights
    - Limiting my responsibilities
    - Safeguarding my interests
    Covenant type of marriage:
    - Laying down my rights
    - Increasing my responsibilities
    - Safeguarding the interests of your mate
    His disciples said to Him, “If such is the case of the man with his wife, it is better not to marry.” Matthew 19vs10
    3. Covenant stage - I love you as Christ loved me.
    The marriage covenant is different from a marriage contract:
    1. Contract involves promises; covenant involves oaths.
    2. A contract involves part of your life; a covenant involves your whole life.
    3. A contract has an expiration; a covenant is for life.
    4. The contract is written in ink, and the covenant is written in blood.
    5. Contracts are enforced by courts; covenants are enforced by character.
    6. In the contract you sign your name; in the covenant, you bind your heart.
    The marriage covenant demands the death of two wills to birth one.
    Who forsakes the companion of her youth, and forgets the covenant of her God. Proverbs 2vs17
    Marriage is not just a covenant with your spouse, it’s the covenant with God.
    Though one may be overpowered by another, two can withstand him. And a threefold cord is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4vs12
    Covenant marriage means we are glued to each other through a joint commitment to God first.
    In contractual marriage, my actions are reactions to yours; in covenantal marriage, my actions are in response to Christ.
    Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, Ephesians 5vs25
    And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you. Ephesians 4vs32
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Komentáře • 449

  • @rexsgoose
    @rexsgoose Před 7 měsíci +29

    This was so wonderful.. our marriage has crumbled because it was not Christ Centered . My husband left 5 weeks ago and by Gods Grace he has drawn me closer to Jesus than I have ever been. Brothers and sisters in Christ, please put Christ at the center of your marriage. I thought I’d be with my husband another 30 years. I don’t have any control. I’m praying 🙏 for Gods will. Thank you Vlad for this amazing message.

    • @alexagraham2111
      @alexagraham2111 Před 5 měsíci

      Similar situation with my husband and I we got together and spent 17 years together both unsaved. He was verbally and emotionally abusive for many years. I got saved May 2023, he said that turned him off. In July he cheated on me, in October he moved in with the woman he cheated with. In November he lost his job, and his new woman started treating him badly, then started hitting him and yelling for him to get out. Then she called the police and said he assaulted her and her 12 year old daughter! Now my husband is in jail with no bail waiting for trial. We have a 2 year old daughter together as well. I've been getting closer and closet to God during this time, and I know He'll either save my husband, or he'll send me a godly husband and godly father for my daughter. Everything is in God's hands. He knows what's best for us. ❤

    • @normagonzalez37
      @normagonzalez37 Před 4 měsíci +4

      I pray for your marriage. Same thing happened to me. Husband has been gone for 4 months and just told me he isn't returning. So heartbroken 💔 but leaving it in God's hands.

  • @angelamacrae5436
    @angelamacrae5436 Před 3 měsíci +4

    I learned that you honor God by honoring your spouse. I've been married a long time and am now just beginning to grasp this idea. Glory to God

  • @jos.celine
    @jos.celine Před rokem +76

    This brought me to tears. I am single, but just the thought of loving someone as God loves me blows me away 💗 God has shown me how much he loves me and I believe it’s more than I even know to acknowledge. I’ve been in abusive relationships and when you said, your relationship is only as good as your relationship with God, everything sank in. When I was far from God, no relationship in my life was healthy. Now, I have restored my relationship with family and made friends in Christ. I know God has a man in my future that will reflect the relationship we have together now ❤️ this teaching was beautiful

  • @user-mx2qw5ik7q
    @user-mx2qw5ik7q Před 8 měsíci +10

    I have filed for divorce but I still pray for my husband and our marriage. We have been talking in the last couple of days and we both agreed that marriage is a covenant between ourselves and God. God has provided us as individuals man and woman with biblical instruction on how to be as a husband and wife. That by following these instructions we honor God and simultaneously honor our spouse. We have decided to start fresh again with this as our foundation.

  • @donnasmith6978
    @donnasmith6978 Před rokem +20

    It really takes maturity for Covenant marriage.

    • @speakrighttogod
      @speakrighttogod Před rokem +6

      It will force you to grow after God shows you your flesh mess! Only God!

    • @donnasmith6978
      @donnasmith6978 Před rokem

      @@speakrighttogod Yes, you either grow in Christ's image, or that of the world.

  • @shaylynnriley3861
    @shaylynnriley3861 Před rokem +16

    When you start loving Christ first you begin to take every gripe you have about your spouse to the Lord and say “hmmm you deal with it”😂😂. I straight snitch on my husband to Jesus all the time. I find myself loving my husband unconditionally more than ever once I started to LOVE JESUS first🥰🥰

    • @kingdoe6736
      @kingdoe6736 Před 11 měsíci +1

      😂😂😂 I know your husband will be surprised when y’all both get to heaven.. He will be like girl u was snitching on me the whole time😂😂to JESUS

  • @Ukraineslavaa
    @Ukraineslavaa Před rokem +9

    I will continue to stay single until God sends me a covenant marriage...I dont believe in following culture nor settling for Cohabitational relationships ❤

  • @Myown185
    @Myown185 Před rokem +145

    Marriage should be more than a piece of paper. Marriage should be a sacred covenant. Amen.

    • @melaniemartin730
      @melaniemartin730 Před rokem +4

      What were the scriptures about marriage, a sacred covenant?🌹💐🌹💐🌹💐

    • @DivineDissident
      @DivineDissident Před rokem +2

      @@melaniemartin730 Its not really in the bible. It sounds nice but a covenant is really just an agreement between two parties, while a contract is legal document. A covenant can be broken in the same way a legal agreement can. I dont think it matters what you call it. God permitted certificates of divorce in certain situations which legally allowed women to remarry.

    • @cecemeyers6028
      @cecemeyers6028 Před rokem +1

      Who says marriage IS just a piece of paper?
      No one ever says that about their home mortgage or car lease.

    • @ataramoon8135
      @ataramoon8135 Před rokem

      But yet it is….

    • @lorettayorkman7294
      @lorettayorkman7294 Před 11 měsíci

      ​@@melaniemartin7300:07 you are you 🎉doing good morning 🎉on weand blessings

  • @speakrighttogod
    @speakrighttogod Před rokem +4

    An extremely SELFISH spouse does not get that it's not ALL ABOUT THEM, and they are not looking to give. I am amazed that a person can be kind, gentle, and encouraging, but OH...SO...SELFISH. It manifests in many other ways. Truly, truly, love HAS TO BE A CHOICE! Marriage is about DYING to self to live unto CHRIST. Ephesians 5 is God's instructions for marriage, however, people need to be taught, IN ADVANCE of marriage, specific practical applications, by couples who have "been there and done that."
    "I'm going to change my spouse because I'm NOT going to change my character;" true SELFISHNESS at its finest!

  • @Psalmtwentyseven
    @Psalmtwentyseven Před rokem +75

    Please pray for my marriage. My husband is a truck driver and he is driving across the country most of the week. So I spend way too much time alone. And I honestly believe God has a lot better job for my husband that won't tale him out of town so much.
    Thank you SO SO much!
    I really really appreciate your prayers!

    • @tanieldillman476
      @tanieldillman476 Před rokem +5

      I’ll pray right now sister!

    • @TheAwakenedMom
      @TheAwakenedMom Před rokem +5

      Praying sis ❤

    • @annabanzon313
      @annabanzon313 Před rokem +5

      Prayers for you n your hubby in Jesus name I agree amen.

    • @jannellebritto938
      @jannellebritto938 Před rokem +4

      Same here . He’s away for maximum 10 days but two one week is to much for me

    • @Psalmtwentyseven
      @Psalmtwentyseven Před rokem +2

      @@jannellebritto938 I'm so sorry 😞
      And I am praying for you and your husband!

  • @melaniemartin730
    @melaniemartin730 Před rokem +60

    When it comes to cohabitation, living together doesn't constitute marriage...period!🌹🌺🌹🌺🌹🌺

    • @tanieldillman476
      @tanieldillman476 Před rokem +5

      It technically is a marriage, just not a godly or wise one.

    • @YarelySilvas
      @YarelySilvas Před rokem +5

      @@tanieldillman476 True, they become one flesh, imagine someone has messed around with 10 people, they soul tie become one with ten people, have been married united 10 times. It’s not the paper but the act of sex that makes them one flesh.

    • @tanieldillman476
      @tanieldillman476 Před rokem

      @@YarelySilvas exactly

    • @moroccogirl9096
      @moroccogirl9096 Před rokem

      ​​@@YarelySilvas, so when a person has sex for the very first time, they are being joined in "marriage"?

    • @abbasgirl8153
      @abbasgirl8153 Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@moroccogirl9096that is the way God intended it.

  • @user-dr4tz2hq1c
    @user-dr4tz2hq1c Před měsícem +1

    It's as if I am listening to one of church's sermons. So rich and deep in scripture. The fire of God burns in me while I listen to the preaching. But it burns so deeply. May God bless the servants of this church and grow it beyond thought.

  • @hannawatts8368
    @hannawatts8368 Před 10 měsíci +6

    Thank you so much for this sermon. I’m one month into a separation from my husband of 15 years. We have four small children. Christ has never been the center of our marriage. The more my faith increased this last year the more my husband grew distant. The first and most pervasive statement from
    him is I deserve to be happy. I’m doing a lot of praying, reading of my Bible and repentance of my own sins in our marriage. I pray daily for his salvation, reconciliation and an intact family unit. Without a heart posture towards Jesus and our own sin nature, a joy filled marriage seems nearly impossible.

    • @ecb8995
      @ecb8995 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Pray fast and believe God can restore anything and anyone. Fight for your marriage if talking doesn’t work just pray that he comes back and be your husband and the father for your kids he needs to be. Don’t be afraid to ask that in prayer because ultimately thats is what Gods wants as well.

  • @izzy319th
    @izzy319th Před rokem +35

    "Marriage is not about happiness, it's about holiness." Love it, marriage has responsibilities which must be honored and shouldered despite how we feel. Also, the woman at the well. Jesus saying she had five husbands and the one she's living with now is not her husband being evidence that cohabitation is not marriage in God's eyes. That marriage is something more. -- Just discovered your sermons, enjoy them and am learning much. May God continue to bless you, as He is blessing others through you.

    • @originalmix2546
      @originalmix2546 Před rokem +1

      but what is the marriage then, what make marriage a marriage?

    • @jborrego2406
      @jborrego2406 Před 10 měsíci

      Never call out the men with mistress think it may have

  • @kathyjenkins4067
    @kathyjenkins4067 Před rokem +11

    Marriage is not about a big wedding!

  • @joebashour
    @joebashour Před 7 měsíci +5

    I could not sop thinking about God sending us a partner that is not complete to teach us about unconditional love! Thank you for an amazing sermon!

  • @rhemahshalom1417
    @rhemahshalom1417 Před rokem +7

    This teaching is SPOT ON!! I was married in a covenant marriage October 2022...6 months later my husband left me for another option...because he wasn't "in love with me". I'm forsaken... but not alone for Yah is my husband.

    • @kingdoe6736
      @kingdoe6736 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Prayers that God will bring him back to his first love.

    • @Gwenny712
      @Gwenny712 Před 11 měsíci

      I’m so sorry that happened to you! Praying that your husband sees his error and returns to you! ❤

  • @catherinemagero5696
    @catherinemagero5696 Před rokem +11

    Pray for me, I desire a peaceful marriage filled with love, peace and joy 😊

  • @deliarussell2020
    @deliarussell2020 Před 3 měsíci +1

    My last marriage which I thought my ex husband understood covenant marriage and vowed he wouldn’t repeat what he did with his first marriage, apparently didn’t believe or understand covenant marriage. He repeated what he did the first go around and wanted us to no longer be married. It makes my head tilt when someone says they believe In what the Bible says but don’t obey it. I’ve moved on, it was his choice. And Father God has already healed and restored my heart because I made sure I stayed close to HIM. This was a very good teaching and have learned a lot more about what God wants for us who choose to marry.

    • @bradanderson4202
      @bradanderson4202 Před 3 měsíci

      What you did wrong was sleeping with someone else's spouse during a civil marriage it's called adultery. Listen to david pawson on the topic. Read the Bible and understand the context. Matthew 5 32 and 19 9 says saving for fornication that's a single person sex sin. Matthew was written t jews and they knew what that means. Churches including genhunger gets it wrong. Read the Bible do research and you'll find that their is no biblical grounds for divorce. If ypire on a adulterous civil marriage you are living in sin. Repent

  • @kbranch777
    @kbranch777 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Every couple getting married should watch this prior to getting married.

  • @jasongreen2490
    @jasongreen2490 Před rokem +4

    I have been married 3 times before & just recently married for the 4th. Being the husband in a marriage, I have lived & continue to live in this truth that was preached with this sermon. Thanks be to our lord Christ, that I am fully aware now & blessed to have that “covenant marriage” with my new wife. For it not being lead by Christ daily, I would still be lost and broken. Gods word is both of our strength, no matter how difficult it gets. The confidence & trust in each comes from our confidence & trust in God. With this, we can endure all… Amen! Thank you pastor

  • @chrysoberyldegollacion1302

    Amen! Better be cancelled by culture than be cancelled by God. ❤🙏🏼

  • @salilmathew2317
    @salilmathew2317 Před rokem +16

    Amazing message, we must love our spouse like Christ loves us and give our life like He did. Two imperfect people coming together can only be perfect when Christ is the Lord of our hearts.

  • @MichellePasaribu
    @MichellePasaribu Před rokem +20

    Thank you Pastor Vlad. A covenant is Holy and the closer you are to God the closer you can be in your relationship with your spouse. Thanks for reminding us that we don't love based on how the person behave or how they love us. We love just as Christ loved us. Profound message !♡

  • @sengsaechao7642
    @sengsaechao7642 Před rokem +22

    Please Pray for my marriage and relationships. the day we married after that few months later complains start, arguments begin cause my husband have gambling issues etc.. 😢😢

    • @melaniemartin730
      @melaniemartin730 Před rokem +1

      What's going on?🤲🤲🤲

    • @Psalmtwentyseven
      @Psalmtwentyseven Před rokem +1

      Praying for you and your husband, Sister!🙏❤️

    • @ellux777
      @ellux777 Před rokem +7

      Pray but keep your funds seperately. Do not give him any money and do not pay for any debt if he has taken any. Be strict and firm and set your boundries. If possible talk to him and if he wants to get rid of the addiction then you can together set a gambling block on him if its available where you live. It helps. If the gambling is triggered by alcohol, he must get rid of that addiction too or it will not end. Be strong. May the Lord bless you both and keep you from harm. You can message me privately if need to talk.

    • @Sirencourt
      @Sirencourt Před rokem +3

      Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. - 1 Peter 3:1

    • @Aqui..
      @Aqui.. Před rokem +3

      Oh honey, gambling addiction is so devastating. Please set very strong financial boundaries, make sure he doesn't have the main control of your finances.
      Find out what triggers make him gamble, if it's alcohol then make sure that's minimised. If there is support groups please consider contacting one for support.
      Please make sure that you have plenty of self care and take care of yourself. I'm praying for you.💕

  • @khwajap.bryant1984
    @khwajap.bryant1984 Před rokem +13

    This was such a blessing for me as a single man who is ready to court.
    The breakdown of the three marriages was so on point and real.
    The part about you looking in mirror 🪞 is extremely true. We have three options to choose from.
    Praise God for your ministry. Thank you pastor Vlad. Your book single and ready to mingle has been a blessing as well. 🙌🏾

    • @ElaineHodne-mp1qy
      @ElaineHodne-mp1qy Před rokem

      Thank you for mentioning the book! ♥️

    • @aurorakiyohara8180
      @aurorakiyohara8180 Před 3 měsíci

      Choose a woman that’s in proverbs 31. In short court a Christian woman.🙏❤️

  • @RobertoHernandez-ii2rk
    @RobertoHernandez-ii2rk Před rokem +2

    Humility makes a marriage better

  • @ElaineHodne-mp1qy
    @ElaineHodne-mp1qy Před rokem +2

    OMG! “God did not make you a wussy; He made you a warrior!” Thank you! Sadly; that needed to be said! 🥰

  • @sarahrhp7362
    @sarahrhp7362 Před 15 dny +1

    Thank you a much for this sermon. I was asking in prayer last night about it and you have given answers to my questions. Thank Yahweh/Yeshua and thank you Vlad

  • @monicaflores6353
    @monicaflores6353 Před rokem +5

    To submit to one another and to put Christ first in a marriage. To love, not as the world loves, but Godly love for one another. Love is a choice. God bless this ministry and bless you all!

  • @nilsalmgren4492
    @nilsalmgren4492 Před rokem +1

    Only promise from Jesus for Christians is to take up your cross and follow him. Very good picture of marriage and life in general.

  • @Danielsantos-fn8rl
    @Danielsantos-fn8rl Před 8 měsíci +1

    " joy is a choice," dear Vla. You're so damn right! We are all selfish people. We really want to be pleased all the time! God has mercy on us.

  • @lindavo6173
    @lindavo6173 Před rokem +3

    Yes it is a blessing now I want to Covenant marriage not just a marriage by law our circumstances or benefit

  • @jessielim1313
    @jessielim1313 Před rokem +6

    Thank you Pastor Vlad for the sharing. I have been married for 11years to a man of different culture and race. In the first few years of marriage there are lots of arguments leaving for days that we would not speak with each other. Marriage is not of bed of roses, both of us are not perfect. But through God grace and guidance, family and friends support, God has been seeing us through our marriage. We are still working in our marriage by His grace.

  • @adamvaughan1351
    @adamvaughan1351 Před 10 měsíci +7

    I recently got married and when I was still single and had not even met my wife yet, I already prayed to God about her & made my commitment to God that I would choose to love,honour and cherish her,especially when we were in the middle of a relationship difficulty, as I had a realistic understanding that these moments will come about, even & especially with her being the one God chose for me...that I would choose of my own free will yet guided by the Holy Spirit, my wife has all the qualities of character I prayed for which meant she is a God fearing woman who loves God more than me & I prayed for that because it's better for me & for us & I know I must love God & his principles more than I love her & that is better for her because when we both love God & his principles and seek the kingdom first...we will love & honour each other & see each other how God sees each of us...my wife is an awesome woman of God who is loving,respectful, caring and wise,she also has no fear of challenging me if I am not seeing or I'm being stubborn in a carnal way...& I do the same for her...in love...we present our perspectives to each other objectively and with love,supported by words of encouragement and praise...& say things like "we can do better",we can do this " we will grow stronger together ❤️ "
    We honoured God through our courtship and God honoured us & ordained our union.
    So single men and women...know what your asking for when you pray for God to bring you or help you search for your wife or husband...be realistic yet believing in faith about how God is there to guide you both & make your bond stronger & true.
    Embrace the reality & the beauty of the sand paper ministry or as iron sharpens iron.
    What comes from this is "honesty" yet it is honesty that allows it to mature and fulfil your growth & potential for a long future together ❤️
    In Jesus name, Amen 🙏

  • @jarenlio8772
    @jarenlio8772 Před 2 měsíci

    this message makes me really don't want to get married for sure, because my happiness is more important to me than anything else.

  • @carolgiguere
    @carolgiguere Před 11 měsíci +1

    I take home the fact that God designed marriage, so we are not 100% satisfied by our spouse. because he is jealous for us, and he wants to fill that gap with his word to sanctifie us. thank you for your openness it really ministers how we are saved by his good works not our own.

  • @theprincerajkumar
    @theprincerajkumar Před 9 měsíci +2

    I really like the way you put together the difference between contract and convent marriage.
    Personally loved the quote "GOD will purposely give a wife/husband who don’t meet all your conditions to teach you how to love unconditionally". Thank you so much for the spiritual encouragement toward the covenant marriage. 😃🙏

  • @chiderah8615
    @chiderah8615 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Had a dirty fight with my wife some days back and this message is spot on what I needed.

  • @stephaniewatson3537
    @stephaniewatson3537 Před rokem +5

    WOW! WOW! WOW! This was awesome. What spoke to me is that my husband is a mirror for my change, love should not be based on how he make me feel but is an action, and that sex is how the covenant is created but it is not the covenant itself. Thank you for this message. God bless you man of God.

  • @ruthcustodio4528
    @ruthcustodio4528 Před rokem +7

    This was a great sermon. I wished my ex spouse would have seen it the same way. I pray the Lord brings me a covenant spouse.

  • @angelwaldron3101
    @angelwaldron3101 Před 11 měsíci +2

    “Love doesn’t live for its own happiness.”💯

  • @Pumzile
    @Pumzile Před rokem +2

    The bottom line in solving any problems is drawing closer to God and resist the devil. It is impossible to sense God's present and fight at the same time.
    Let God fill you with His Love until it spills over , than confront your wife. 😊

  • @andrearobinson5392
    @andrearobinson5392 Před rokem +7

    Vlad, I’ve listened to 3 of your marriage sermons in the last 24 hours and I’m blown away at how God us speaking to me through them. I feel like Gods used this and your 5 reasons/Biblical Men sermon in particular to save my current relationship. Bless you, and thank you Jesus ❤

  • @Archangel.5
    @Archangel.5 Před 11 měsíci +2

    You don’t need a paper to make a promise and take an oath in front of the two separate families, if marriage is more than a piece of paper than why do we push the paper so much?

  • @maryramsumair6601
    @maryramsumair6601 Před 2 měsíci

    What a massage every single person should hear this before they commit to marriage ❤❤❤❤it

  • @julietim9279
    @julietim9279 Před měsícem

    Amen and thank you for preaching the truth so that the Holy Spirit can work in us as the temple of God the Father thanks to the blood of Jesus Christ 🙏❤️🙏

  • @radamesmedina5423
    @radamesmedina5423 Před 5 měsíci +1

    This message was excellent! I really like that you said we almost always marry a person that is not perfect for us. That it’s to challenge us and it helps for our character and etc to be revealed.

  • @lynette4412
    @lynette4412 Před rokem +3

    Greetings in Jesus. Great topic and treatment.
    I really need to stick a pin.
    I do not agree with Christ followers marrying at Court. Marriage is an institution of God. With Biblical references in mind, matrimony was such a celebration that the occasion lasted for several days, I understand! It should not be treated as a secular agreement done within the space of the same ppl who give marriage rights to ppl of similar biological genitalia. Neither should we be so carried away by the ceremony itself that we end up indebted for years to celebrate...Marriage and Matrimony are sacred and should be treated with intentionality to give God the primary Glory as authentic marriage is a reflection of Christ and His Body / Ecclesia. 🙏🌹🙌

  • @clwhite1828
    @clwhite1828 Před rokem +4

    This sermon is a Wake up call for female in flesh and spiritual. Almighty God I am your in Jesus Christ name 🙏.

  • @joycehawie6865
    @joycehawie6865 Před 11 měsíci +1

    My goodness. This is so deep and I'm convicted of my view of marriage. Marriage should not be entered into lightly because it is a daily sacrifice and giving. Thank you. I've been blessed. I needed this as a single person who is planning to get married one day. ❤

  • @Matthew-307
    @Matthew-307 Před rokem +4

    Great message! Side note; i like when he gets excited and his voice gets higher, he sounds like Gru from Despicable Me 😂

  • @barbieanndalby7544
    @barbieanndalby7544 Před 9 měsíci

    I pray that God will touch my husband heart and cancel all the evil works over his heart and mind.Praying for the restoration of our marriage to glorify God

  • @theduallanguagechannel
    @theduallanguagechannel Před 11 měsíci +2

    Thanks for putting my philosophy towards marriage and speaking into reality. People think I’m crazy but I’m in a covenant marriage with a man who doesn’t know Christ. I’m in it for the long haul but I am believing for his salvation.

  • @JamieSatchell-ev2rq
    @JamieSatchell-ev2rq Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you so much. I have found your sermons on marriage and the roles that we each have in marriage and relationships convicting and eye opening. I am divorced sadly, but believe that God has a beautiful plan for me. I want to make sure that I do everything that I can for God to someday have a Godly marriage to a Godly man that he has chosen for me. You are a beautiful Real blessing!! Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @sadieflint1994
    @sadieflint1994 Před rokem +1

    involves spiritual, emotional, and physical closeness. In the Old Testament, we are taught, “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh” (Genesis 2:24). Married couples are meant to be unified in every possible way.

  • @monikajessophb8575
    @monikajessophb8575 Před rokem +3

    I can’t describe how thankful I am for you, and for this lesson. A particular subject was mentioned and I was suddenly overwhelmed with the reminder of a transgression I had committed in the past. I felt an intense urge to pray for forgiveness. I had one of the most rewarding interactions with God. And I feel so much lighter. God spoke to me today, and I felt his forgiveness and love. I thank him for this inspiration he sent through you.

  • @veroguz84
    @veroguz84 Před 4 měsíci

    What stood out to me, so much. Especially when you spoke of how our spouses are what will show us our true selves as far as our flaws and the things we need to work on.

  • @angelaybarra6839
    @angelaybarra6839 Před 2 dny

    Thank you for this understanding, but I am going through this with my husband. He needs a lot of help and so do I to stay strong with him.

  • @EKuehn85
    @EKuehn85 Před rokem +5

    Great sermon , so real , don't let the sun go down in disagreement ! Lots of adjustments when married , aka still single , only 61 , there is always hope and divine guidance and prayer❤ Thank You pastor Slav!

  • @grcarie
    @grcarie Před rokem +1

    The thing about the hymen is wrong, but everything else spot on.

  • @tinagonzalez_williams_lenz6281

    The Bible doesn't say honor him based on how he's acting, but to honor him as you would honor Christ😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @monthc
    @monthc Před rokem +1

    Last year I came out of 13 years of doubt, and the main question on my mind was "how can I be a better husband?" These messages from Vlad on marriage have been such a huge blessing in my continuing education.

  • @olivedaquize4713
    @olivedaquize4713 Před 3 měsíci

    Hallelujah ! IN JESUS NAME 🙏 !

  • @bcvahsfam
    @bcvahsfam Před 9 měsíci +1

    I have listened to a lot of talks on marriage and read a lot of books. I think I got the most out of this message than all the others. I had recently prayed asking the Lord what I could do-- what am I doing wrong, etc... and this is was the answer I received. I sort of knew this before, but this message made it very clear. It has given me a paradigm shift-- a new way of seeing things, which is what I think I needed. I really wish I would have known this before getting married or at least early in our marriage. We have been married for a long time. Both are committed to staying married, but suffering in the process, not really resolving the issues. Thank you Pastor Vlad for your teaching, but also for being so transparent and saying hard things that others are afraid to do. We need the truth. You also made me laugh too, which was nice. God bless you and your lovely wife.

  • @leabartolome4155
    @leabartolome4155 Před rokem +4

    Hoping that Pastor Joel Osteen will preach this preaching to his congregation and not just the feeling good sermons. Praying this in Jesus’s name.

    • @shelleyd5256
      @shelleyd5256 Před rokem +2

      Wow I 100% agree with you as Joel has an audience of 3 million and I do follow him. This right here is real preaching, it's given raw and it's truth. Different ministers have different anointings or agendas. Our culture cannot handle this realness as they aren't ready for THE ONLY TRUTH which exposes our flaws. I'd love nothing more than for everyone everywhere to receive this and put into practice Gods beauty for our real lives...the world is still drinking milk however remain in faith that at the appointed time they can and will eat these solids.

    • @christinekoenig5669
      @christinekoenig5669 Před 10 měsíci

      @leabartolome4155
      BEWARE Osteen is a False Teacher called out by a great many!!

  • @user-up5bq2yr7r
    @user-up5bq2yr7r Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you, I was brought to you and your service by a woman who I believe God meant me to meet. After being divorced for over 16 years I thought that I would live my life alone, so did she and she has been divorced for 3 1/2 years. You have touched my heart and I love that every thing you preach is biblically based. Thank you again.

  • @user-jk5rw4ix2k
    @user-jk5rw4ix2k Před 4 měsíci

    Married will success if God is in the center ❤❤❤

  • @barbieanndalby7544
    @barbieanndalby7544 Před 9 měsíci

    Pray for the restoration of my marriage. Me and my husband are struggling now. I believed we will surpass all the struggles and our marriage will be restored in Jesus name Amen..

  • @SimplyDezigned
    @SimplyDezigned Před 2 měsíci

    Such a blessing. Not married but great preparation

  • @AshleyNudratJaved
    @AshleyNudratJaved Před rokem +3

    Much blessed to absorb the Christian Marriage concept more✨🌟

  • @jeffm8206
    @jeffm8206 Před 7 měsíci

    Thank-you, very good sermon, so helpful.
    1."We always marry the wrong person...you become soulmates by living through those years."
    2."Here is to help you discover who you're really like" (bad and good parts)
    3."in covenant, you bind your heart. Marriage is a covenant where death of 2 wills, birth one."
    Thank-you

  • @ivasoca
    @ivasoca Před rokem +1

    I'm very thankful to God for everything that He is teaching me through your words, that I know for sure that are His words by the Holy Spirit.
    Since day 1, I've been trying to figure out what God wants me to do with my marriage, and it's been like a roller coster. But God all the time is telling me you are the problem, not him. My parents had a contract marriage for 50 years, and one day, they came apart. That was terrible for me because they were my best example of a marriage even when they were not Christians. So now I can understand after 19 years of marriage that even though we got married with God blessing, I'm running a contract marriage. Your words let me know what I need to change on me so we can become a convenant marriage.
    God bless you.

  • @25kward
    @25kward Před rokem

    So so good!!

  • @jodydewittdewitt9044
    @jodydewittdewitt9044 Před 2 měsíci

    This is spot on

  • @Musikisbellatastic
    @Musikisbellatastic Před 26 dny

    So powerful!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @bobiah2578
    @bobiah2578 Před rokem +1

    Thank you pastor🙏

  • @kndrxxy4e
    @kndrxxy4e Před rokem +2

    Great message

  • @jhoggswife
    @jhoggswife Před 10 měsíci

    Excellent message!

  • @gracetshimoa
    @gracetshimoa Před rokem +4

    Such a blessing 🙌🏾

  • @sharonshin3
    @sharonshin3 Před rokem

    Thank you for this message

  • @cynthiatevar8449
    @cynthiatevar8449 Před 10 měsíci

    Wow!!! Being listening to many of His preachings about marriage and now I'm feeling sorry for My Husband!!! ❤... What hit me the most was.... Marriage is not about Happiness but About Holiness!!!!🤔❤️🤔❤️

  • @Snax773
    @Snax773 Před měsícem

    Thank you for this message. I needed to hear this because I need to live as a covenant husband with my wife

  • @anonciatahyppolite1677
    @anonciatahyppolite1677 Před rokem +1

    Your sermon confirmed what I said to a couple where the. Man needs a renewal of the mind. And I had to pray against that spirit of cohabitation. I shared that with him these spirits assignment are to could our mind. From be Christ mind

  • @bernardofernandezgarcia
    @bernardofernandezgarcia Před rokem +1

    Amen! Such a great teaching brother!

  • @Black_Kakari
    @Black_Kakari Před 11 měsíci

    Great preaching ❤

  • @Apinder-wv3el
    @Apinder-wv3el Před rokem

    True this guy with great info

  • @stephencole5533
    @stephencole5533 Před 5 měsíci

    This was mind blowing message. Thanks so much for you deep understanding of what Christians and covenant marriage should be . May the lord give you more grace to help hurting marriages that lack this basic truth. Thanks

  • @user-wb9bc7zv2w
    @user-wb9bc7zv2w Před 7 měsíci

    I wish this message to get to the whole world

  • @mhenderson3407
    @mhenderson3407 Před rokem +1

    Powerful sermon! Excellent! Thanks!

  • @mvsorola
    @mvsorola Před rokem

    This talk.. so amazing! And TRUE!

  • @colinrunganaikulu649
    @colinrunganaikulu649 Před rokem +1

    This really gave me an understanding of truly loving as Christ loves the church

  • @sylvia_child_of_God
    @sylvia_child_of_God Před rokem +5

    Wow, this message is on fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @lilcowgirlsluvr
    @lilcowgirlsluvr Před 9 měsíci

    Wonderful sermon.

  • @christophersmith9611
    @christophersmith9611 Před rokem

    This was absolutely great!!!!! Wow!!!!

  • @joshualedbetter2073
    @joshualedbetter2073 Před 8 měsíci

    I truly appreciate your teaching on marriage. I’m in the middle of paying that my x wife since ten years ago and I come back to our marriage. God is working on this I believe.

  • @traiphineosmond9859
    @traiphineosmond9859 Před rokem +1

    Thank you greatly for sharing.

  • @facetoface-withGod
    @facetoface-withGod Před rokem +1

    This was an absolutely brilliant sermon!

  • @karlalehnhoff6069
    @karlalehnhoff6069 Před 11 měsíci

    Amazing lesson🙌

  • @debsbrown8128
    @debsbrown8128 Před 11 měsíci

    That was heavy and truthful.