Tips for Autism Sleep Deprivation

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  • čas přidán 27. 07. 2024
  • One of the most difficult things raising autistic children is losing sleep on top of all the stresses you have to worry about. Here are some helpful tips and please leave any tips you've discovered to be beneficial in the comments.
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  • @lottevanderzanden5045
    @lottevanderzanden5045 Před rokem +210

    Our autistic son had trouble falling asleep for years and we tried out lots of stuff until he managed to explain what the real problem was for him: he didn't know HOW to fall asleep. What you are supposed to do in bed. So we explained it to him: you have to stay still, breath calmly and wait. And it worked! We are still baffled. Sometimes it can be such a little thing that makes the biggest difference. Hope this comment helps someone!

    • @siennaprice1351
      @siennaprice1351 Před rokem +9

      @Michael Philip Oliver i’ve taken magnesium before at night time, and oh my gosh, it really does help! I mix it in juice

    • @DanielKiel
      @DanielKiel Před rokem +2

      @@siennaprice1351 same

    • @beehuynh5843
      @beehuynh5843 Před rokem +1

      @@siennaprice1351 can I get the brand you’re using

    • @siennaprice1351
      @siennaprice1351 Před rokem +2

      @@beehuynh5843 I honestly don’t know what brand I used. All I know is I asked my mom about it, and she thought it would be ok for me to try it. She’s the one who bought it.

    • @beehuynh5843
      @beehuynh5843 Před rokem +1

      @@siennaprice1351 thank you for your reply ❤️

  • @michael8170
    @michael8170 Před rokem +17

    I feel so sad for your son Alister, he was upset about something that bothered him. One thing I can say is you handle their sleep problems very well both you and your wife. My cousin Trey cried during the night 2 times while he stayed the night at my house more than once. I would talk to him until he would fall asleep.😊😊😊

  • @tammylewis6296
    @tammylewis6296 Před rokem +39

    No sleep is really tough your precious kid and you! We make sure lots of movement/calming activities,to help with sensory issues and a good diet. He's come a long way through a lot prayers.God has been so good! Thankful for your channel. God bless you all!

  • @gabby8016
    @gabby8016 Před rokem +18

    my son is 2 years old and experiences sleep deprivation as well. He is on the spectrum too but I remember one day in the summer he would wake up at midnight, (put him to bed at 10pm dont at me lol) be awake till 7am (ugggghhhhh) fall asleep for 3 hours after and when he woke up at 10am he had a huge smile on his face and started clapping his hands when he saw us :'> its rough... but seeing that smile gahhh my heart melted. I tried some of your tips and its sort of working! its just hard to put him on a routine due to our jobs :'> much love to you and your family

  • @billiejofrance2526
    @billiejofrance2526 Před rokem +14

    Oh my goodness bless his heart:( He is so upset about his nose bleeding! 😭😭 Poor guy! 😭

  • @KevinKlineisawesome
    @KevinKlineisawesome Před rokem +10

    I had trouble sleeping throughout most of my toddler years. At 8, I sometimes would get up at midnight. When I had adenoid surgery one week before my 10th birthday, I managed to sleep well from there most nights. Today with a lot going on at home, I put on silicone earplugs and play relaxing music.

  • @M8Hundreds
    @M8Hundreds Před rokem +6

    you are such a caring dad, wish i parents like you

  • @fabigrossi2976
    @fabigrossi2976 Před rokem +7

    Listening to very low, very soft classical music helps many people to fall asleep, even if they are not a fan of this kind of music. Just an orchestra, no human voices singing. It really calmes down, you concentrate/focus on it and finally you fall asleep. Others helps it to listen to human voices reading from a book. Also very low, very calm. You can find a lot on CZcams or wherever you find audio books. Just one single voice, reading a very calm, peaceful story, no adventure or a lot going on in the story. Sometimes you can use the same book over and over again, because you never make it even to the middle of it, before you fall asleep 😅. I'm not autistic, but I've got massive sleeping problems. These two things help me a lot and maybe it's an idea for somebody else?

  • @Scooby-Snacks
    @Scooby-Snacks Před rokem +4

    This is one of MANY reasons so many of us on the spectrum turn to drugs and alcohol, sadly.. I personally find marijuana edible calms the mind and helps with sleep... Side effect: less depression, and overall better sense of well-being.... Shrooms and microdosing are VERY HELPFUL with ASD sensory and social issues better than anything tried for other symptoms. Mother nature has already given us the meds we need.... Hope this info is helpful to the community.

  • @WyattRyeSway
    @WyattRyeSway Před rokem +22

    I am on the spectrum and my doctor prescribed a medication to help. I have found pink nose (the sound of rain, storms, the ocean etc) helps very much. Also, I use a tempurpedic sleep mask.
    Melatonin didn’t help me at all. Moon milk, helped a little. That’s almond milk and tart cherry juice warmed up.
    I also have a pretty consistent routine. I know, medication, shower, pajamas, bathroom, teeth, hot drink, dark room, iPhone is out of the room, pink noise turned on and weighted blanket signals me to kind of calm down and start to sleep.
    My bed is just a twin but it has a feather mattress cover and 2 feather beds (making it very soft) and so it’s very comfy.

    • @FreedomForever116
      @FreedomForever116 Před rokem +2

      I'm getting sleepy just reading this & I have insomnia, I love pink noise, rain fall & my weighted blanket every night after my 5 mg melatonin. The moon milk sounds interesting.

    • @WyattRyeSway
      @WyattRyeSway Před rokem +1

      @@FreedomForever116 …..my mom puts a bit of honey in it sometimes. Sometimes vanilla but it’s nice just plain.

  • @Worm_On_A_Stick
    @Worm_On_A_Stick Před rokem +4

    I’ve been dealing with this for my entire life this really helped

  • @elizabethkusce2718
    @elizabethkusce2718 Před rokem +7

    Awwww apocalypse so sweet. Yes my son too has issues going to bed at a normal time like midnight lol. I give my son chamomile tea it really helps.

  • @michaelfinklea9295
    @michaelfinklea9295 Před rokem +30

    I actually have a lot of trouble sleeping as a person with autism. I've gotten used to melatonin and that had a reverse effect. But then I started listening to stories before bed and that help me drift off to sleep. And they are scary stories( you can blame my mom for that, she and I love horror) and usually they keep you up at night but they actually helped me sleep. And I've had a better sleep schedule ever since.

    • @turtleanton6539
      @turtleanton6539 Před rokem +1

      Same ! I list3n to audiobooks or creepypastas and I even write some stpri3s

    • @lifebeginswithaseed
      @lifebeginswithaseed Před rokem +1

      Whoa!

    • @3SeasonsUSA
      @3SeasonsUSA Před 11 měsíci +1

      THE best Dracula reader: FULL playlist ~ czcams.com/play/PLe4Qm8CPlS2TIUHFhNAA6i8S1LBX8YHzT.html

    • @erikaarreguin7650
      @erikaarreguin7650 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Read the Bible 😮

  • @SunshineCami2024
    @SunshineCami2024 Před rokem +3

    I really struggle with sleep from autism, adhd and my anxiety. I’ve had issues for years. I found things that work for me but it still a struggle to fall and even stay asleep. I had night terrors growing up and even sleep paralysis. Sleep was never a « friend » of mine, even though I always needed it.
    For me comfort items, weighted blankets, a fan and even having a tv with aquarium sounds help me so much in sleeping. I’m married now to an autistic husband (he has no issues with sleep and is in bed before 9pm every night) and even though I still struggle with sleep, I have found that I can now self sooth myself to sleep and when I do wake up from nightmares or whatever I have a safe haven to remind me that I’m OK.

  • @windwhisprz
    @windwhisprz Před rokem +3

    I really enjoy Autism dad's funny skits and hope we continue to see more in future videos! Thanks for making me laugh.

  • @NikoAdventures55
    @NikoAdventures55 Před rokem +23

    Things that work for me is having a fan on as well as a weighted blanket with like 3 other blankets over me. It helps if my room is cold. Idk if that’s just me though

    • @VAisForGrowers
      @VAisForGrowers Před rokem +1

      I'm not autistic well I'm not sure I've never been tested so I can't say for sure but around highschool I started sleeping with a fan blowing right on me and I'm 38 now and ii can't sleep if the fan isn't blowing on me. I'll get so hot and start to sweat, even in the dead of winter I've got my fan blowing right on me with a light blanket

    • @visionvixxen
      @visionvixxen Před 11 měsíci

      Eating a lot before sleeping, using the restroom is a real problem.
      Weighted blanket, heavy pillow over my head, blocking out light, zero noise and or a fan, the more blankets and colder the room, the better.
      Huge bed, no one snoring next to me and cell phone ready with audiobooks in case I wake up and need to be occupied so I can get back to sleep.

  • @hollyaubry3988
    @hollyaubry3988 Před rokem +6

    I just want to say that your family’s CZcams channel has been a godsend and lifesaver. As a parent of a three year old boy with autism, I am forever grateful. Thank you for what you do.

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 Před rokem

      I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now as his speech and social skill has improved

  • @NikoAdventures55
    @NikoAdventures55 Před rokem +7

    Im in the same medication as Ian and it does make me drowsy but it seems to help.

  • @DesertDog
    @DesertDog Před rokem +38

    I struggle with this a lot 😢 I'm glad that I'm not alone! My dad sings the Dutch lullaby wynken, blnyken, and nod.
    I have night terrors a lot. How is Ian doing with braces? I have them too and I'm autistic 😊
    My dad is thinking an autism service dog for me to help with a lot of things.

    • @nynkeandreae7008
      @nynkeandreae7008 Před rokem +2

      I recently learned I had night terrors when I was young. I'm curious about the lullaby, cause those are not Dutch words (I'm Dutch), nor can I figure out what words you mean (if you're just writing phoneticly, not knowing the spelling). A weighted blanket really helps me with sleeping problems. I also put on a sleep story. It's sometimes hard to find a balance with the story, cause it needs to be engaging enough that my mind doesn't wonder to much, but not so engaging that it keeps me up. I hope this helps and please let me know about the lullaby, I'm very curious!

    • @VAisForGrowers
      @VAisForGrowers Před rokem +2

      The service dog will change your life. If you have the option to get one then I would jump on that opportunity and get a service dog asap. It will change alot of things for the better

    • @Dancestar1981
      @Dancestar1981 Před 3 měsíci

      @@VAisForGrowersespecially if you can sleep with your service dog in bed it will help you to relax

  • @Enki1013
    @Enki1013 Před rokem +10

    Melatonin backfired big time so I only resort to it occasionally. It would help my daughter crash fast, at first, but she would wake up in the middle of the night and not go back to sleep, accompanied by bad mood problems and regression back to bed wetting again with straight melatonin. I am using and observing her using gummies with mostly L-Theanine and/or L-GABA now. They can be used during day as well, since they are supposed to reduce brain excitability and anxiety (ie stress reducers). I tried playing sleepy music for her at bedtime on CZcams too, and luckily she caught on to that and found some she likes. She is a teenager now but she loves the ones with baby lullabies; she loves seeing the images of sleeping babies and the lullaby music. I also just have to let her eat like Ms Pacman and fill that tummy up, get the bath or shower, and hope for the best. She is better, but still up sometimes until 5 am, but usually not with meltdowns and crying, usually sitting up on her bed giggling at goofy stuff she finds on CZcams.

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 Před rokem

      I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now as his speech and social skill has improved

    • @MariaESmith
      @MariaESmith Před 4 měsíci +1

      Thank you for this comment. This is my situation right now with my daughter. Glad I'm not alone

  • @mevelyngeorge9137
    @mevelyngeorge9137 Před rokem +4

    I'm going through the same issue with my grandson now. Thanks for sharing-- it really helps me.

  • @morkiz8661
    @morkiz8661 Před rokem +6

    Your videos are extremely important for people on the spectrum and I bet you have helped so many people with asd and parents and caretakers for people with asd with these informational videos you guys are amazing!

  • @FromDifferentAngleMe
    @FromDifferentAngleMe Před rokem +1

    You are great parents, if not the greatest, god help u and all plp with autism children 😴❤️

  • @pawstoys1386
    @pawstoys1386 Před rokem +11

    For me accommodations (like a weighted blanket or dark lighting) can keep me calm, but they can’t make me sleep, my body has to do that on its own. So insomnia is like this battle between like calming down and comfortable, and then my body registering I actually want to sleep. I mean MOONLIGHT can ruin my whole night.
    And mattresses are definitely important, because an uncomfortable mattress ironically doesn’t have to be the thickest or most expensive, it’s whichever one actually works.

    • @visionvixxen
      @visionvixxen Před 11 měsíci

      Totally get you. The worst is laying there for two hours and still being awake.
      I’ve finally just started playing podcasts or books on my phone and at least my MIND has something to do and actually falls asleep faster.

  • @winterdream5710
    @winterdream5710 Před rokem +4

    My grandson used to have night terrors a lot - thank God he grew out of them! Mostly. What he uses now to go to sleep is my cell phone set to "trucks for toddlers" on CZcams. He also likes the "tree". When he's sick, I play a healing frequency for him (sister too) to gently put him to sleep. There's a 528hz golden "tree of life" that plays super smooth sounds. He even asks to listen to it when he's not going to sleep! His sister is another story. She's younger and will stay up forever unless you sit in the room with her. She'll lay down and fall asleep easily then. I'm going to get weighted blankets for both of them and see how those work.

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 Před rokem

      I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now as his speech and social skill has improved

  • @NikoAdventures55
    @NikoAdventures55 Před rokem +5

    Yay another video!!!!!

  • @Momof5kidz
    @Momof5kidz Před rokem +4

    My kids sure have been having a difficult time sleeping and transitioning into a different school due to us moving into a new school district, and so it's makes me have problems with sleeping 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙

  • @kaib1712
    @kaib1712 Před rokem +5

    Something i do to get me to bed is i normally read before i go to bed but sometimes that does not work i am a very light sleeper i also have autism but normally reading really helps me.

  • @gulligmp
    @gulligmp Před rokem +3

    I'm so glad I found your channel! It helps me so much to hear others share their experiences, I don't feel so alone in this situation.
    My son, who will soon be three, has recently been diagnosed with autism level 3.
    He has trouble waking up after only 1-3 hours of sleep and it's been so tough since I'm a single parent.
    We have now started testing liquid melatonin and it works quite well so far.
    Thank you for sharing!
    God bless you!
    Love from Sweden ❤❤❤

  • @Natasreficul6666
    @Natasreficul6666 Před rokem +2

    Thank you for posting videos like these: They are very informative and helpful to other Autism-parents! I appreciate that you share such personal items about your family; It helps us all to better understand and learn from what you have!

  • @ambertorres7662
    @ambertorres7662 Před rokem +5

    Baby leaf tea helps with sleep 🙏✨🤍✨
    My son is 8 years old and severely autistic and nonverbal.
    Sending you love and light. Praying for you all! 🕊️

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 Před rokem

      I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now as his speech and social skill has improved

    • @user-ib3jn1vo9d
      @user-ib3jn1vo9d Před 6 měsíci

      ❤❤❤

  • @benrobson3442
    @benrobson3442 Před rokem +2

    I always use cool down music and even calm sounds of the beach and nature. They help me sleep.

  • @515aleon
    @515aleon Před rokem +3

    I'm on older guy on the spectrum---a life coach helped me with this for the first time. I keep a checklist of things to do before bed and cross things off as I do them, I get off electronics at least a half hour (or more) before bed. I turn down the light (a PT recommended smart lights which changes the spectrum of light). I eat somthing light (yogurt, cottage cheese, a little peanut butter on some crackers, etc). I play with something that requires no electronics (i have some sensory toys for this, tumi blocks, etc). I use a weighted toy (was scared of the blanket because I have a cat that goes under my blanket). I do all this every night, I know my routine now and can tell myself when it's off. I take CBD, (a product with CBD/CBN is esp useful which helps me a lot more than melatonin, btw.

  • @Dinorideshorses
    @Dinorideshorses Před rokem +1

    My name is chloe, and i am in grade 5 term 2. Its the start of the term and went back on Tuesday i went to school on Tuesday but didn’t for the rest of the week, i wasn’t sick i was healthy and ok. I just hated school + i have autism and ADHD which makes it worst to go to school, So id need to be homeschooled. I have to still go to school for the rest of the term until term 3 then ill be homeschooled, school is a stressful place for everyone. I wanted to share my story to help others experience what it is like. So i like watching your vids to help me get more information on autism and how to control myself a bit more.

  • @windwhisprz
    @windwhisprz Před rokem +4

    I found that putting ear plugs in has drastically improved the quality of my sleep. I hope this suggestion helps. 💤💤💤

  • @josettejoy6003
    @josettejoy6003 Před rokem +33

    You said that some people on the Autism Spectrum describe their need to release sensory output as 'ants on their bodies' and I can definitely relate! I get that sensation a lot.
    It's very rare, but I can also have a hard time sleeping. Sometimes it's because my pajama shirt or blanket keeps touching my neck (my neck is very sensitive) and that might affect me for a month, but other times I can't sleep because of my Anxiety.

    • @PopFan25
      @PopFan25 Před rokem

      Me too

    • @Worm_On_A_Stick
      @Worm_On_A_Stick Před rokem +1

      My feet and hands are extremely sensitive to the point where I can’t move my feet on carpet or have any friction on my hands and feet

    • @PopFan25
      @PopFan25 Před rokem

      @@Worm_On_A_Stick I have trouble sleeping alot too. And I Sometimes stay up all night, to the morning time

    • @3SeasonsUSA
      @3SeasonsUSA Před 11 měsíci

      @@PopFan25 can you sleep listening to audio books?

  • @LindsayZ424
    @LindsayZ424 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Brittany singing that hymn was super relaxing!!! I can definitely see how that would help. I’m very religious myself so I love that.

    • @user-ek6cq2rl1p
      @user-ek6cq2rl1p Před 21 dnem

      She's such a good singer. I can agree why they want to hear hymns from their mum

  • @foxy3961
    @foxy3961 Před rokem +2

    She has a beautiful singing voice and I love the videos

  • @crypto897
    @crypto897 Před rokem +3

    Thank you so very much for sharing.

  • @lindaconley1960
    @lindaconley1960 Před rokem +12

    My young son with melatonin, I started out with 1/4 recommended dose for him. It gave him such horrific, scary, and vivid dreams. So we had to stop it.

    • @Dancestar1981
      @Dancestar1981 Před 3 měsíci

      Lots of people react badly to melatonin it’s just he luck of the draw I’ve heard ashwagandha sleep herbs are better but have never tried them because they’ve be. Too expensive

  • @leaharaee
    @leaharaee Před měsícem

    Did you notice that your kiddos on the spectrum had sleep problems from a very young age?! My almost 3 yr old son has not been diagnosed on the autism spectrum as of now but he definitely has some stuff going on not sure if it’s a sensory disorder or autism/adhd etc but definitely has things. We are currently waiting for a evaluation (1 yr wait list) so it’s been rough not knowing exactly how to help my little boy which is soooo hard. I’m currently trying to get him a private OT & private speech pathologist because where we live the early intervention program has had a huge increase of need in services that the wait list for anymore help than we are receiving is so long. I do not want to see him continue to get behind sooo far that he’s nearly impossible to catch him up. Thank you for all the videos you & your family make for all of us. ❤❤

  • @SpaceTism
    @SpaceTism Před rokem +2

    I am most probably on the spectrum, undergoing a diagnosis as a minor in the UK so life is slightly different! I've been watching your channel for awhile and I've realised that I'm not on my own, ever. I usually do suffer with sleep deprivation but since I live on a busy road all I can hear are the cars which calms me down.

  • @colindeer9657
    @colindeer9657 Před měsícem

    Many thanks for sharing this information

  • @DanielKiel
    @DanielKiel Před rokem +12

    I have Autism and I lose a lot of sleep but I don’t cry and I don’t keep my parents and my siblings up at night take melatonin it helps me to fall asleep but it takes a while for it to kick in

    • @DearDivorcee
      @DearDivorcee Před 2 měsíci

      Omg as a kid I used to sneak by the window and read books under street light peeking through window

  • @corinabeetarot6835
    @corinabeetarot6835 Před rokem +1

    Wow this was so informative for a new mama like me
    Thank you 🙏🏽 ❤

  • @NicoleS0913
    @NicoleS0913 Před rokem

    Hi!!! Just wanted to tell you that You’re such Amazing parents!!! ❤❤❤

  • @AndersmitLizenz
    @AndersmitLizenz Před 11 měsíci +1

    I am autistic and my son is not diagnosed yet but most likely on the spectrum aswell. For us it is very i mportant to share the bed with him, he is four. He cant accept touch if he is awake, its just senory overwhelming for him. As he was 2 years old, i started cuddling him when he was asleep an it changed a lot. It took three nights till he came cuddling for one moment at daytime. He is more balanced and our relationship is better. The human body needs touch, no matter if autistic or not. Its very important for our physical and mental helth and for the bond between child and parent in both directions and if this is the only possible way to give my child that touch i accept his elbow in my ribs at night

  • @carlimacdonald3269
    @carlimacdonald3269 Před rokem +2

    I have Autism and I’m 31. As a child I got bloody noses all the time especially in elementary school at Recess and nobody would play with me and now as an adult they all of a sudden just stopped. But now as an adult I can’t sleep at night but I do sleep during the day and working overnight shifts are perfect for me. I do get nightmares every night and after losing my best friend AnnaBelle (my dog) because of my autism my only friends are dogs and cats and rats because humans are just so mean to me. A couple offered to pay me 1 million dollars for my service dog the same dog who recently passed away at 15 years old. She has a bad heart murmur. She went to heaven now my life is bad again. I have abusive parents and I can’t go into a orphanage because I’m 31 but in Texas it’s legal to adopt an adult but only if they are special needs. I googled it because of my abusive and alcoholic parents hitting me and kicking me in my stomach all the time and making me not wanted to go out in public because of all the broken bones and broken ribs and bruises. They never ever hit my younger sister at all. I’m an actress and a model now and have a boyfriend and my parents don’t like him because they won’t let me ever be happy. Also I can’t go to sleep at night unless I have at least two dogs with me and have to watch Friends in order to sleep. Watching Orphan right before bed yeah not my best idea. I keep shaking so bad at night but watching Friends don’t have a problem. It’s is normal for an autistic adult to fall asleep on the floor or on a dog bed because the dogs hog the bed. One of my dogs actually kicked me so hard he pushed me off the bed.

  • @lucas_A_Conway
    @lucas_A_Conway Před rokem

    I just honestly need this
    More than anything

  • @BenKlassen1
    @BenKlassen1 Před rokem +2

    With our limited knowledge of how the brain functions we may not understand for a long time, if ever, how neurodevelopmental disorders affect those portions of the brain that are necessary for efficient, regular sleep.
    Sleeping disorders does seem to be very common with people with autism.

  • @lil_tay_von
    @lil_tay_von Před rokem +2

    Love this video 😊

  • @toyriedawson3215
    @toyriedawson3215 Před 6 měsíci

    Very helpful thank you!

  • @patkibble6920
    @patkibble6920 Před rokem +1

    Get a Cool Mist Humidifier for the bedrooms it helps with nosebleeds. Just keep them clean. God bless!

  • @LifeWithNatisiaPlus6SportsBoys

    Thanks for your information ❤

  • @75lovechild48
    @75lovechild48 Před 11 měsíci

    Melatonin worked for my grandson combined with a set bedtime routine. After a while, we eased up on the melatonin. We sampled various white noises and found that brown noise with an ambient piano lulled him to sleep. Yay!

  • @themaniac5864
    @themaniac5864 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Our Boy works REALLY WELL with routines, its hard to force them, but once he gets on to them he Will follow them. He is bipolar when comes to socializing and the ONLY and most eficient way we found to make him speak more and interact its with a tablet just to watch CZcams pre aproved/selected by us vids (mostly to avoid Brasílian since its close to portuguese and we dont want confusion on the learn curve, puting that aside, he normally knows je arrives home, takes the shoes off, tiddy (his way) the bed, hangs the jacket things like that, whe. Its close to sleep we put him on his selected pijama and he knows, while i shower, he sees the last bit of TV. BUT he need medication to sleep, otherwise he stays all night ON and gets grumpy ofcs. Also he as stricted sleeping hours... He sleeps exactly 8h.... So the early he get to bed the early he wakes up...

  • @ariajane8695
    @ariajane8695 Před rokem +2

    I used to get night terrors, I don't as much as I used to. 😥
    As for the bloody noses, maybe try to put Vaseline in nose (if he'll let you). Where I live, it's a pretty dry climate as well.

  • @Dogsbroooooo
    @Dogsbroooooo Před rokem

    I know what the kids feel like I have autism and I can't sleep at night I recamend calming music I love your videos thank you.

  • @RicTVlive
    @RicTVlive Před rokem +1

    Sir i just subscribed to your channel my son also is diagnosed with autism his 4 years old

  • @_RavishingRaven_
    @_RavishingRaven_ Před rokem +1

    Love these sit down videos, just of pure information. Yeah night terrors are something no one can imagine how awful unless you've actually seen it first hand. I've tried to explain it to my family like this, imagine the sounds and emotions and physical body movement that would be, if a demon came to snatch you up and drag you to h.e.l.l. like omg I remember when my 4 year old first started getting them, under 2 years old, clearly never watched or seen anything to ever make him react that way and I couldn't understand why, I would cry! Doctor told me not to touch him b.c he could think it was part of the dream. I just try to talk him out of it. But sometimes I have to grab him b.c he will kick and throw himself out of his bed. Red dye I am starting to think maybe is an contributor to night terrors. Can't say for sure yet.
    Thanks for all you do. I need to work on a more solid routine.

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 Před rokem

      I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now as his speech and social skill has improved

  • @masternajafi
    @masternajafi Před 8 měsíci

    thanks for your help

  • @newsuperhdgraphic
    @newsuperhdgraphic Před rokem +1

    0:52 “the apocalypse” he said makes sense because he thinks it’s an infection that causes a bloody nose

  • @thomasschoeck9080
    @thomasschoeck9080 Před rokem +2

    Not a sleep-related tip, but my sinuses tend to become dry and I use saline nasal sprays like Ocean, or various store brands (like the Rite Aid, CVS, or Target brand names) with the same ingredients that say something like “compare to Ocean” or “Compare to the ingredients of Ocean” on them. I find that these products are very affordable and work well for me. You might want to ask Alistair’s doctor if a product like that could help to prevent nosebleeds and also help with any sinus congestion that he might have in addition. His doctor may be able to mention when to use these products and when not to use them.

  • @crazyrainbowninja7097
    @crazyrainbowninja7097 Před rokem +2

    When I was little I always slept half of the night with my Mom. Now that I’ve older I use sleeping meds and I have a weighted blanket. But I do have a hard time sleeping mostly because of my seizures

  • @elizabethkusce2718
    @elizabethkusce2718 Před rokem +1

    I love that movie it’s my sons favourite we just watched it three days ago lol.

  • @Orbitwashere
    @Orbitwashere Před rokem +1

    "Like rice, oats are a “good” carbohydrate that can help lead to better sleep. Whole oats are a great source of melatonin, as well as tryptophan. Oats are also high in fiber, B vitamins, and lots of minerals. A bowl of oatmeal is a great way to start your day, and it can be a great way to help you sleep too!"

  • @PSLegend999
    @PSLegend999 Před rokem +1

    autistic adult here. I have severe insomnia and I've cried multiple times because I couldn't sleep no matter what. I had to drag myself to uni classes without 1 min of sleep a lot and it's just absolute torture. it can make it extremely difficult to be even remotely functional.

  • @hqgirl567
    @hqgirl567 Před rokem +4

    honestly i have struggled with sleep my whole life, i now stay up till like 12 or 12:30. i take melitonin and sometimes i listen to ASMR. i also have more energy at night then during the day.

    • @Dancestar1981
      @Dancestar1981 Před 3 měsíci

      Our circadian rhythms are different I recon our ancestors way back in the past were the watch sentries for the community and that that was our job in the societal structure so we did night shift then slept in the daytime until early afternoon because we wouldn’t go to sleep until first light after the graveyard shift

  • @paulmarkwilkinson8778
    @paulmarkwilkinson8778 Před rokem +1

    Brittany has a nice tune to her voice when she was singing to Alistair

  • @sophiathai4056
    @sophiathai4056 Před rokem

    great tips.

  • @rachelbee7921
    @rachelbee7921 Před 5 měsíci

    God bless your sweet family. Both of my boys are autistic as well. The oldest doesn't sleep. I am a zombie mom at this point.

  • @jasminegoins4899
    @jasminegoins4899 Před rokem

    Thank you. Thank you. Last night was one of the worst nights in regards to how long it took my son to get to sleep / finally shut down. It was as of he had a motor that wouldn't stop...My son just turned 3 and was diagnosed earlier this year with ASD.

    • @Dancestar1981
      @Dancestar1981 Před 3 měsíci

      Doesn’t surprise me because the neurodivergent brain just never shuts up I can fall asleep if I have a session of guided yoga and meditation no problems

  • @mrsNetty34
    @mrsNetty34 Před 2 měsíci

    As an adult on the spectrum, definitely routines help like exercise during the day. Reading and sometimes melatonin

    • @mrsNetty34
      @mrsNetty34 Před 2 měsíci

      White noise helps like a fan

  • @xxautismgamerxx3170
    @xxautismgamerxx3170 Před rokem +1

    I use to could not get to sleep when I was younger so I do feel really sorry for poor Alister ❤ I know what Alistair going through can't go to sleep

  • @Stella_Blue1972
    @Stella_Blue1972 Před rokem

    I'm on the spectrum as are my 2 kids. My teenager manages her own sleep problems without my help but the 7 year old gets me up every night at least once, usually 2-3 times. Additionally I'm going through menopause and have my own sleep problems, which is awful because I need at least 8 hours sleep a night and am not getting it. Melatonin gives me nightmares but sometimes benadryl helps. I am a light sleeper and often find myself awake because I'm expecting my son to come get me to help him back to bed. Today I am barely functioning and I just want to cry. I go to bed exhausted but can't sleep unless I'm medicated, but then I'm groggy the next morning. The struggle is real. Thank you for the video, I will try some of your tips. God bless you and all my spectrum family

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 Před rokem

      I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now as his speech and social skill has improved

  • @DogLover1718
    @DogLover1718 Před rokem +1

    I’m not religious, but Brittany is a great singer

  • @factsmyths6287
    @factsmyths6287 Před rokem

    Soft and love music helps me alot..
    🇵🇭🇵🇭

  • @VKOutdoors
    @VKOutdoors Před rokem

    Thanks for the advice. My son too is having trouble sleeping and not able to wake up to go to school so he is always late for school. 😢😢

  • @LeahDiamante
    @LeahDiamante Před 10 měsíci

    Amua palangga ingun ana pod dugay matolog sayo mumata. Usab usab ang attitude and mga habit niya. Tas-an nalang jud ang pasinsiya usahay mabunalan jud labina katolgon na kaayo ka dayon siya kay saba man.

  • @silvermist7103
    @silvermist7103 Před rokem

    My son is now 20 and he still has problems falling asleep, most times when this happens is when thing change in his day to day routine, I try to keep things the same but things happen and it just throws him off then we work anywhere from a day or two to a week before he is back to a more normal sleeping schedule. I have to agree that it still effects me also because I then don't sleep myself because of listening for him because he will run up and down our stairs keeping my mom awake and then I have to get him back to his room and explain to him that he can't run around because other people have to sleep.

  • @irmagutierrez10
    @irmagutierrez10 Před rokem

    I have a 30 year old son with Autism. He has trouble sleeping through the night. I do find that a bedtime routine helps a little which gives him the cues for bedtime.
    When he was in the hospital back in 2020 I downloaded a meditation music album 30 songs that I played for him while sleeping in hospital to help drown out noise in hospital room.
    When we brought him home he would turn on the meditation music on when he heads to bed.
    I did have to delete a few songs on the album that I noticed he would wake up and skip through a song he didn’t care for, also I noticed some songs that were making a sound that would wake him and me up like high pitch flute that was annoying lol.
    We have him do gym Monday thru Friday and incorporate swimming sessions throughout the Year even in winter months in California.
    CBD for nighttime has worked, but I don’t give it to him every night just when I feel he needs help sleeping. Baths are good too. Add Magnesium crystals (Epsom salt) in bath water.
    *Please be aware that if on lithium I do not recommend Bath salt.
    My son bloated up when he was on lithium, but he is no longer on medication.😅
    Thanks for your information.

  • @aviglozman
    @aviglozman Před rokem +4

    Does your son have a humidifier in his room? That would help a lot with the bloody noses!

    • @AutismFamilyChannel
      @AutismFamilyChannel  Před rokem +4

      We have one but he and his brother knock it over and spill it a lot. We may try again when they are more trustworthy with it 😉👍

    • @nynkeandreae7008
      @nynkeandreae7008 Před rokem

      ​@@AutismFamilyChannel can't you put it on a high place? Like on top of a wardrobe or bookshelf?

  • @blackqweenmars
    @blackqweenmars Před 6 měsíci

    I’m an autistic individual, and this showed up on my recommended today when last night, despite only drinking one protein shake with the caffeine content of coffee I was not able to sleep until almost 6 AM. Sleep deprivation is a real problem for people with autism and well People just tell us to sleep more they don’t realize how hard it is to actually sleep. I’m currently functioning on less than two hours of sleep. However, somehow after drinking five Baja blasts(each one has 86mg of caffeine, which means that I drank a total of 430mg of caffeine, which is more than an energy drink I somehow fell asleep before that

    • @Dancestar1981
      @Dancestar1981 Před 3 měsíci

      Because caffeine has the opposite effect on us it works like ADHD stimulant meds by making our brain respond normally

  • @factsmyths6287
    @factsmyths6287 Před rokem

    Soft music helps me alot with my kid..

  • @muklukPL
    @muklukPL Před rokem +2

    For me and my son melatonin works. He gets 1 mg 5 night a week.In 30 minutes He falls asleep. I will wake up sometimes in middle of the night after melatonin and I can not fall asleep. I noticed that magnesium supplement help me fall asleep and sleep whole night but I need use it for 2 week for effect on kik in. Thx for this video.

  • @jodibrazel3919
    @jodibrazel3919 Před rokem

    I am on the spectrum and have always had trouble sleeping I'm 33 now. I have meds to help but some nights they don't work and I'm up till 12am most nights. I just watch CZcams and eventually I'll fall asleep

  • @mattcofer1522
    @mattcofer1522 Před rokem +1

    Hey you might wanna see if Allister has a deviated septum in his nose. That can cause nosebleeds. I had nose bleeds a lot when I was a kid and struggled a lot with a stuffy nose and turns out I had a deviated septum I’m getting surgery to fix it in a few weeks. Also for sleep I’d recommend some herbal sleep blends stuff with Valerian root. I’d stay away from prescription sedatives those can be really addictive I got hooked on ambien for awhile it was hard to get off.

  • @sweetgirl-jp4hn
    @sweetgirl-jp4hn Před rokem

    178 likes👍👍👍👍
    I forgot give u question but you already answer my question, lol... ❤❤❤ oh I think this question is when are you do ur house tour video? Just ask I know you busy family.. ❤❤😮😮😊😊

  • @nathanboo7649
    @nathanboo7649 Před 3 měsíci

    I'm autistic and struggle massively with sleep. One thing I do every night is put on youtube videos that I've watched many times before, so I'm not paying attention to it, I turn my phone screen down so I don't watch it, I'm just listening to the talking. A lot of Stardew Valley youtubers have very calm videos that work well for relaxing and winding down, and because I've seen them before, they're predictable, and I'm not paying attention to them, they're just background noise.

    • @aitnez
      @aitnez Před 2 měsíci +1

      oh, thanks for sharing. I'll try to do the same as you

  • @lenkafoltynova7982
    @lenkafoltynova7982 Před rokem

    I had to learn my son how to fall asleep. Sometimes it took like two hours. But the key is to be strict, having clear rules and insist on them. He was around two and a half when we got rid of a dummy and real struggles begun. So we settled these rules: lay down, don't talk or sing (not a single sound), do not play with hands and legs and close your eyes. We kept fondle his hand and each time he broke any of the rules we stopped. That was a clear sign to him that he did something he shouldn't. Once he realized what was wrong, we continued. Sometimes, at the beginning, I even needed to hold him tight until he stopped digging or trying to sit down, or even manually keep his eyes closed. It was a fight but now he knows how to calm down by himself. Never shout at them, always explain why they need to do what you want. I did all of this kind of intuitively. I expected from the beginning that I need to learn that child EVERYTHING. What a surprise with my younger daughter - she knows a lot of that by herself. Since she was born I put her down in a bed and in a minute she falls asleep by herself. The older one still needs some assistance, especially at night (he suffers from night fears 3-4 times a week). He shares a room with his dad, he fears to sleep alone. I sleep with the younger one. Magnesium helps me (I am also on a spectrum) to fall asleep again and again while being woken up 10 times in 3 hours.

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 Před rokem

      I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now as his speech and social skill has improved

  • @Townie7177
    @Townie7177 Před rokem

    There's a bed for kids called the cubby bed. It's made for kids that have things like autism. It zips so they won't escape or fall out. Has a tempature cage and I think some have cameras. Insurance usually pays for them. Like they're like $8000

  • @mitchellucy-qw1ru
    @mitchellucy-qw1ru Před rokem +1

    A good brest feed works as well

  • @drewplayz4127
    @drewplayz4127 Před rokem +1

    When it comes to Alistair's bloody noses, try using Vaseline or maybe a humidifier.

  • @india7366
    @india7366 Před rokem +2

    Im autistic and need to take melatonin every night because I can’t stop my brain from running in circles when I try and sleep!

  • @au9parsec
    @au9parsec Před rokem +1

    Proud Heart Cat--->🧡 😺 🧡

  • @electro_sykes
    @electro_sykes Před 7 měsíci

    Try Melatonin or Catapress. I need both to get to sleep, plus an eye mask as I find it extremely difficult to get to sleep naturally, even if very tired. Once I am asleep, its hard to wake me up though. I have Autism and ADHD.

  • @LeahDiamante
    @LeahDiamante Před 10 měsíci

    Pasalamat nalang pod ko nga naa diay mga ytchannel bahin ingun ani nga mga bata kay kami magbase rajud mi sa mga ingun ani ug unsaon nga masabtan pajud ni amung Palangga kay wala mi ikapatherapy intawun ani niya. Amuang Palangga tapad jud ni namu bahala na saba siya usahay kay kuyawan ko basin makagawas unya sa balay maayong tolog-tolog namu nya amung Palangga diay nakagawas na sa balay sus! Unsaon nalang

  • @zoescott4887
    @zoescott4887 Před rokem +1

    My nephew used to have night tears it was so scary seeing him looking at you and being terrified I just wanted to help him but you just have to wait until he has woken up. It is one of the worst things that can happen to youg people

  • @thomasschoeck9080
    @thomasschoeck9080 Před rokem +1

    I also have dark circles under my eyes and people have pointed this out to me since I was in college over twenty years ago. It could be due to a lack of sleep because I have never slept all that well. My mother (who is almost certainly not on the spectrum, but has also never slept well also has these). Maybe the circles under the eyes are genetic, but then again who knows?

  • @pimpedoutstereos9747
    @pimpedoutstereos9747 Před rokem +1

    My son has a lot of issues with sleeping. He has to take 6mg of melatonin each night just to get him to sleep but it won’t keep him asleep. I’ve had many sleepless nights coz of his sleep issues which can make the day a challenge