My Break-up story | From Ananthi's personal diary Part 2 | Eng Subs | The Book Show ft. RJ Ananthi
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Breakup is the most stressful and emotional experiences in life. Whatever the reason for the split and whether you wanted it or not the breakup of a relationship can turn your whole world upside down and trigger all sorts of painful and unsettling emotions. When a relationship ends, healing can take time. In this video, RJ Ananthi shares her experience about being in love and being out of love. She shares some of the pages from her personal diary. These tips can help you grieve your loss and start to move on. Do check it out.
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Do u even know how much hope and strength u give me whenever I'm on my lowest Ananthi ? U r truly a life changer for me✨
Ethuvum kadanthu pogum... Yeah I too suffered this phase.. Those days... I m helpless 😣 I didn't even share my thoughts to my closed one.. It took me about 2.5 years to overcome from it.. Used to stalk that one in social media.. Hearing about their new relationship status gives me massive heart break.. But thank God somehow I managed and I emerged from it by myself.. That phase made me realise the importance of self love.. I started taking care of myself.. Changing my habits.. Dieting.. Meeting different peoples... Though I am a introvert.. I forced myself to socialize new people around me.. First I literally started to act that I m happy.. Now I just can't believe the fact that I survived that phase.. Now I am happy even for that person ❤️ thanks for coming in my life ✨ because of u I learnt about myself... Love urself ❤️
Everything will be alright. I can relate with ur feelings .All is well😊
Ananthi, I strongly feel you should write a book and publish it...
பரவாயில்லை ஒரு break 💔 up தர கூடிய வலியை
(20 எலும்பு ஒரே நேரத்தில் உடையும் அளவிற்க்கு) கடந்து வந்த இவ்வளவு வெளிப்படையாக அதை சொன்னதற்கு நன்றி திரு.RJ ஆனந்தி 🙏🏼 அவர்களே
Pathiyam is a word.. but pithukuli is an emotion 😂😂
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Yes, I'm in this phase and felt literally you are telling me. When I'm on my bed, while just scrolling insta / Fb many songs and it's lyrics making my pillows wet in a fraction of seconds . My brain accepted that I should respect her decision and move on, but my heart is still longing for her. Trying my level best to go through this phase . Thanks for the video akka.
Exactly the same thing bro
@@manisha7674 All the best to move on
Wondering how someone can beautifully explain even the saddest phase of one's life!!! Well matured and truly u r an inspiration...Even I had my own diary but can't let myself to read that again But you are bold enough to open up those here without hurting or make feeling guilt of that involved person...Just awesome yarrr ❤️ We will definitely be healed someday ✨
The point about self blaming and questioning ourselves is absolutely right.
The part about reading again was true. Sometimes reading the old pages would make us feel stronger on how we crossed all that phase and be the better person now.
@@johnson2852 I did not understand your comment.
"But it also means nothing to me" - I need a peace like this.
😢😢😢
Music still makes me think of him, but thinking of him no longer makes me sad. Now that I've forgiven myself, the reminders of him only make me smile. - Reminders of him by Collen Hoover
It's going to be okay, you will hate yourself for not being the person he wanted but soon you will be happy that you were the person you wanted to be so don't be ashamed to be yourself, even if you would have changed the way you talk, behave or even changed your appearance he still wouldn't have been there because he wasn't the right person for you but that also doesn't mean we keep looking for love or we are waiting to offer love, just show some of that love towards yourself it will make you the best version of yourself. Someone who will love you how much you deserve, will definitely find you because you deserve it. Be happy and don't forget to give yourself a hug because you have come a long way :)
Ur words are amazing
I completely went through this process and this is real. You will heal oneday!❤
I have gone through the same.. only thing is I haven’t written like you but I can feel each and every word you have written.. love to everyone who is going through this now ❤
Thank you so so much Ananthi ! Keep up your amazing work .
Never change for anyone until it affects anyones life. Anu you are a pure soul never change your attitude and character for others. You are the one who changed many people's minds and get them to reading books and hearing podcast. So you are doing great job. Happy and chill your life and move on from the past battles and relationships problems.
@@johnson2852 iam her fan and wellwisher.
Lots of love Anu ❤✨ So heartwarming.. Expecting more self awareness videos from you 🔥 Keep going
Thank you, girl !!
This is really important for broken hearts.
I can relate so much with whatever you are saying.
Now I have healed after so many years and those things doesn't affect me anymore.
This video will be helpful for those who are going through the same now.
Going through a heartbreak. I was crying and I really smiled seeing ur video at the right time.
Amazing talk!❤️ enjoyed it it to bits! 😊
Big hug and more love to you Ananthi ❤️❤️❤️
thought provoking, it shows how self respect should be kept when we are mocked by our partner.
Mam, really thank you for posting such a vigilant. It was really helpful to overcome our mental trauma and confusion.. Keep posting such self awareness, introspective videos, mam love you, 💛
RJ your words 100 percent true. Thank you Aananthi for the beautiful content 👍👍👍
I needed this right now! Thank you so much
Could relate to it all. Love makes you go crazy,head over heels and hopeless sometimes. It's alright to get your heart broken by your favorite person. It's alright. Things aren't meant to be forever. You'll eventually find peace, love and be yourself again. Trust the process of recovery. People will stay if they're meant to be. Make peace with it. All ❤
Excellent presentation of positive energy
I have shared these two video series to all of my loved ones in life and yeah thats a beautiful thing that you shared your story with us.Thank yu so much annu
I can relate to ur feelings so much! 😅
Im so happy for u ❤️🩹
Thanks a ton for sharing all this.
U have no idea how much u have influenced me 🌻
Thanks for all ur videos.
Luv u so much 🤍
Thanks for this amazing Video❤️
This video seems healing❤️
Praying for them to be better.. a true shortcut ma'am ❤️❤️
Very thoughtful idea and u r socially responsible also.. nailed t
Thanks Ananthi!
I’ve been through this phase of life and emerged out of it after many emotional cycles and repeated mistakes that went on for about 4 years. I recently realized and understood that God will keep putting you through the same tough situation over and over again until you actually learn your lesson.
After learning my lessons, I finally found my Mr. Right and now we love, respect & support each other, and we’re also happily married.
I agree with Ananthi’s POV, that we need to allow ourselves to feel all the negative emotions so that we can eventually understand ourselves better and then embrace the right person walking into your life. And the right person will walk into your life when you least expect it!
overcoming betrayal is not much easier ☹️But this too shall pass. Beautifully explained,mam👌🏼🔥
Much needed✨
Close to heart person in life..,
indirectly healing many hurts and taking care of people ...
God bless you sisssyyyy
Beautifully explained😘
I am blushing with pain now thanks a lot akka 🌸💜
I'm going through it
Hoping to accept and give closure to myself
Thank you for sharing diary,it will helpful me to realise mental trauma and illness
and this line - Somewhere he is becoming insignificant in my life!💫
Good content, will help so many who are going through it . but wat caught my mind is U look well groomed and this makeover looks great.. i have always felt like something missing in ur looks but now u look perfect..
This is very nice..Hope it will help me a lot…Thanks for the valuable video Ananthi…
Really your doing wonderful 😊 work...
Exactly how you written and how you felt .....i did this when I'm in break up.....now I'm really happy....
I completely went through this process and I strongly believe time heals everything.. thank you dear Ananthi , in fact I got an answer from your video to move on completely from this..
This video is one of my daily prayers.I watch this video every night in repeat mode.thank you
What you spoke is also relateable to the friends that we outgrow. We might have felt like this person is my soul-sister / soul-brother. That we can understand what the other person is going through without needing any words. We just know the the right set of words that would give them comfort. It's as if no one else in the world listens to you like they do. No one else can give them the level of soothing as we do. But life experiences that each of us go through can shape us into a whole different person that we don't recognise each other anymore. And rather than forcing the friendship to work just because we have been best friends for 10 years, it's better to walk one's own path and be at a respectful distance.
Semma da RJ anadhi. Appreciate you for your braveness to read this diary and explained us clearly.
Exact thing happened to me, the words u said were similar to my life.. Even i thought the same and i am currently writing a diary in my life after my love break up.. There's a beautiful life after the break up.. I living that new life now.. Thank you so much ❤️
It's hard to let go when you felt someone the home!. How to let go when it's etched in your heart?! Tore apart? Moving on sounds good. Living with the scar is the reality here. It's been a year already. I even wrote unsent letters to vent out. Nothing helped. Please say how to get over it?
@Karthikeyan I can understand how it feels like you will never get through this, but the reality is we can never find someone like that person, but sure, we can be happy that we aren't with someone who doesn't want us in their life. Something that helped me was keeping myself as busy as possible, and whenever something triggered me to think about them, I would remind myself that I was happy with them, but somewhere they felt that their life will be better without us so since I love them I have respect their choice but how convince myself when I imagined a future with them it's hard. My life started becoming better when I looked at myself and said I am done hurting myself it's okay to be sad but I know I deserve to be happy so I will tell you that I change over night but with time it will change.
Tips:
1. Stop listening to sad songs instead whenever they come to your mind, play happy songs, and dance to them in your room, so you will definitely feel better .
2. Unfollow them on everything because we all already have a lot reminding us about them, so this is going to ruin our day.
3. Write down your thoughts after you wake, just like write every thought, you will be surprised by how much you write. I personally did this because dreams always reminded them.
4. Spend with other like family or friends because when we are alone we will only think about them but with people we can limit ourselves from thinking about them.
5. Stop going to places, buying things that they liked.For example: he had a favorite hero, and I stopped watching his movies because every time I saw that hero, I could only see him there on the screen.
6. If you have common friends limit spending time with them and I sure they will understand you need your time.
7. Workout because it makes you feel happy, and it's helps channeling your pain.
That's all but in the end it's your choice to believe your life will be better without them because you can make someone feel special about them then can't you make yourself feel special?
It was helped me a lot, Thanks to sharing your experience with us.
S, I had this phase in my life,. I took 2 yrs to heal from my past, but now I felt the same as anandhi akka said ,,,, I must tell everyone , healing will definitely happen , bright days will reach soon for everyone
Thanks for sharing your story😊
Good content.. waiting for that healed moment..
I can understand your feelings anathi....Before a year I have been in all those phases of feelings. Keep growing
You r truely a life changer For me Akka❤️💫✨... Thanks a lot akka💙...
Very bold and mind relaxing sharing tq for this video
Thank you so much for make me understanding about life. I'm in situation where I'm loosing hope in my love💔🥺
How soothing her words are❤
Nice. . .ethyum kadanthu pogum. . .thanks the video
I am in the same stage but I learn how recovery from pain from this video akka
Thanks for this video
I gothrough all this.still now i am on the healing path.even i dont have any friend to share this all.i am the only one to wipe my tears in this travel.after watching this video i understand many people gothrough this kind of problems
Thank you for your video
Now I'm go through this brake up sister
Thank you sister
It's very helpful for me
Ananthi i really wish to meet you ❤️ you don't know how much your words mean to so many of us. Keep rocking 💙
Love your narration dear...
You have only you until you die . The rest of them in our life are a bonus❤️
Similar things have happened to me in recent times , move on aga try panitu irrukan but your video reminded everything again. In the process I learnt one thing “ “Accept that the world is unfair.“ “
Much needed❤love u😘
Thank you ☺️ for this video akka
Good effort mam thank you so much
I was able to connect with you on many points, the red flags, the hints were there all along but we choose to ignore them and push them under the carpet. I was well aware that my relationship mostly will end someday but as said I was blind or just been paithiyam enough to not accept it..AND it did end. Like many of us, I too struggled alot when trying to move on and I was in friends with that person on/off, well I guess for me that was the best decision I took, cause as time went the affection drained that's when I was able to see n understand way I was been treated all along and his true feelings towards me which inturn was nothing but a deep core of hatred. Now, after the fog was lifted I was able to move away without much regret and without self hatred.
One suggestion (which I personally followed) I would like to give all those who go thru this difficult phase is that DO NOT self harm yourself physically, cause one day you WILL be able to move on and those scars will keep reminding them or you might regret doing such harm just for the sake of someone who left us...
And don't forget time is the best medicine, as time goes you will heal
I could relate so very well 😢
Thank you sis ❤️
Thank you dear Ananthi. This video was a hude icebreaker from my breakup sickness. I have gone through these situations very worse as u explained. Again Thank u dear ☺️
Great respect for you...♥️☺️💯
I overcame a relationship few months back…everything u said I’ve felt it too…one thing helped me is Selflove…working on Urself and doing things that make u happy
Thanq so much ananthi for such a wonderful videos❤. Yes, the line which you are sharing I also gone through in my life. Unconditional love which I had on him made me mad. And I had stop realizing my dads love. My dad is no more. It's hurts a lot😢. No word is there to express my grieve.
Thank you sooooo much sister ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️💐
This video changed my thoughts ❤
வணக்கம் ! Good Jops R.J. Ananthi doeing Excellent.
Yes, "எ(இ)துவும் கடந்து போகும்" எதுவும் நிலை இல்லை சகோதரி.
Thankyou dear❤
9:50 ❤❤ I so needed to hear this
2yrs gone still I am trying the way to come out from breakup hope your words may give some strengthen 🙌
"எதை நீங்கள் தேடுகிறீற்களோ அது உங்களை தேடுகிறது"...
Definitely you will get a good and gentleman as your life partner mam..........ungala apdiye accept pannikravara kandipa unga kanngalukku therivaar.....mam....my prayers 🙏 for you
Thanks 💙
Thank you so much akka ❤️
Have the courage to accept and forgive, so mind is everything.. Don't push it, just climb it
very helpful
This is applicable for a friendship as well, It just reminded me of those days with my best friend.
Exactly fr
You are an amazing women ❤...making every girl more stronger.
Time heals everything ❤
I want to overcome my breakup
Your story gave me confidence to stand back up
Thank you akka🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
thank you so much akka
I'm in a grieving moment, I can't pass through it, it is killing me more day by day, trying to rebuild myself, and waiting for her hopelessly that she might realise one day and comeback to me
God bless u akka🙏
I don't know but still I'm moving on from my relationship through my writings .. thank u sis hope good wind blows
Wow 😍 superb 👏😍
You spoke well on Pongal pattimandram..Keep rocking always🍁♨️♨️