REAL THERAPIST Reacts To Blue Therapy: Episode 4
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- čas přidán 9. 09. 2024
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My reaction video to the MOST popular Therapy series in the UK Blue Therapy, breaking down the scenes from both couples and helping you all understand what therapy entails.
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The highly anticipated couples therapy show is finally here, featuring a familiar face you may have seen previously on Bkchat LDN. Blue Therapy features 2 couples, CHIOMA & PAUL, DEBORAH & JAMEL. On a quest to mend their relationships with Denise the Therapist.
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I wished you’d addressed the weight argument between Chioma and Paul and not skimmed over it. This was an EXTREMELY problematic part of the session and one which I think needs to be acknowledged more because it touches on a lot of issues around body shaming and objectification of women’s bodies. The way Paul addressed Chioma during this part of the dialogue was both disgusting and intentionally designed to cause hurt and embarrassment. I don’t need to go into the issues women face today with body dismorphia as there is plenty out there for anyone who wants to dive into it and in particular what this looks like for black women in western countries, however I was not at all comfortable watching this part of their dialogue and I think any person watching this needs to be aware that this is a VERY big red flag if they are in a relationship that looks anything like this. If your partner (in this case a man) doesn’t accept your body the way it is now, then consider what will happen later on when you have children.
2:31 - Yes!! That is how I was from ep. 1!
16:24 - 🎯 🎯🎯 He’s not attracted to her like that way anymore. She seeks his affection.
26:08 - O!M!G! 😮
As time goes on I'm having a different view of Paul. Why does he have a problem with intimacy with Chioma? His excuses are getting irritating by the minute. He is either gay or he has a woman on the side or he's struggling with ED. Full stop. He's making a fool of himself.
who knows he may say next session
Maybe he just doesnt want sex, you cant force him
Maybe he just doesnt want sex, you cant force him
HiS cheating full stop
@@sis3683 so if that was woman saying she didn’t want to have sex with her man would you believe she’s cheating?
Hi Sharnade, I myself am training in psychodynamic theory (did a little placement in CBT theory and practicece), it is so hard not to be triggered whilst training with certain personalities, for me it's manipulative behaviours and it still gets my back to this day. Paul whether he is acting or not, his character embodies the toxic male personality that we see on our doorsteps far too often. I do worry that people claiming this as fake are also dismissing what we can learn ourselves from what seems to be an unhealthy relationship. if I am honest the therapist p'd me off a little! There was no holding as you have said, therapeutic boundaries took way too long to be established, there was a lot of ego-stroking towards Paul apart from when he blatantly mocked a session and the therapist directly took offence. I wonder if she herself was at first intimidated by Paul, her countertransference would of been so interesting to observe in supervision! There were no therapeutic interventions in the sessions apart from 'Look into each other eyes and the 'homework' of five things they liked about each other, However, when it came to Chioma I didn't feel that same energy from the therapist, there was a lot of dismissing on her part, when Chioma broke down emotionally and wanted to leave, I felt she was minimising her emotional pain and just telling her, "to calm down" because it made her feel uncomfortable. This happens to a lot of black women when expressing emotion in front of other races.
and yes babyyyy Men's mental health, the struggle for them to find a safe space I too real but there is a difference between them trying to find a safe space and trying to control and consume that space enitrely.
and what's wrong with Wizkid!? I still love Burna, you can love both (this part really entertained me).
Thank for your insght girl been waiting for a therapist to comment, you got yourself a new subbie! x
Your welcome sis so happy you shared your views ❤️
Yeah, working with your ex partner on your current job is definitely a red flag.
Please, you are telling me that Paul doesn't eat anything that isn't calculated while he is out at the cub?
Looool
Hi Sharnade I love your channel and I’m interested in becoming a therapist. Can you do a video explaining how to get into becoming a therapist and different routes into the profession? 🙌🏾🙏🏾
Hey, you can train though IAPT as low intensity (cbt) therapist. You can do a Masters or PgDip in different types of therapies depending on what you to specialise in.
Thank you so much I will work on this for you
Keep pushing 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
thank you, I will appreciate your support
I won't comment my thoughts on this one.
I started then scrubbed it.
I've just watched Ep:5
I'll comment on your reaction to that instead
SMH, Jamal Jamal Jamal
Your welcome to share your views and yes very upset with Jamal I had hope
I'm not going to speak on this episode because i know that next episode is bigger
very big I might even dedicate this talking about Denise because im not very happy with her deleverance throughout sessions
@@therapywithshar yaaayyy I can't wait till the next video
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Question: this tit for tat behavior that you’ve observed in Jamal and Deborah, do you think this is something the therapist should’ve brought to their attention?
1000% she failed me on this one
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