Work Flow: Finding Work You Love at Any Stage | Liz Brown | TEDxBentleyU

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  • Turning a natural talent into a career sounds like a no-brainer. Think again, says Liz Brown. As a partner and commercial litigator in an international law firm, she was “doing what I had been trained to do for 15 years. I was at the top of my game. But I was miserable . . . and that’s no way to live.”
    Liz Brown is a nationally recognized expert on career choice and reinvention, the author of the Amazon best-seller, Life After Law: Finding Work You Love with the JD You Have, and an Assistant Professor of Business Law at Bentley. She has practiced law in San Francisco, London, and Boston, advising senior executives at Fortune 500 companies on legal strategies and managing multi-million dollar cases as a litigation partner from beginning to end.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 135

  • @ryanjeanes5253
    @ryanjeanes5253 Před 4 lety +3

    This talk is worth more than all the gold in the world.

  • @singha6
    @singha6 Před 5 lety +14

    excellent talk- one the best I've heard. 'Career satisfaction comes from doing what comes easily to you for and around people who value that skill'

  • @steffenkroehl8932
    @steffenkroehl8932 Před 4 lety +3

    it took me decades wasting my life in wrong careers. It seems now I am on track to happiness by becoming entrepreneur. thanks for these wise words.

  • @AndrewKraynik
    @AndrewKraynik Před 5 lety +42

    This is one of the best pieces of advice I've ever heard when it comes to careers.
    And I've taken a lot of advice.
    And I never comment on CZcams videos.
    I'm already answering the questions she suggested and finding some really interesting things, such as that I also seem to really like organizing!

  • @hifisumz
    @hifisumz Před 4 lety +28

    “Skills should trump interest” best line in entire lecture

  • @twain772
    @twain772 Před 6 lety +21

    My resume has me doing multiple things for short amounts of times cuz i had been laid due to the economic issues we had. My current employer didn't see someone who they couldn't invest in but they saw someone who is flexible and can do multiple things, which i have proved multiple times at my job.

    • @yehmen29
      @yehmen29 Před 5 lety +1

      Same here. The longest I have stayed in any company is 5 years. One of them nearly went bust and got rid of all the 'oldies'. The other one bullied me into resigning because I had cancer. I was the longest serving employee anyway, apart from those whose parents were big clients or whose husband was a friend of the directors. One of the managers' mantras is 'Everyone can be replaced'. That is why we follow procedures (tick lists) when we work: so that newbies can hit the ground running... Usually, I know most of what I need to know within 2 weeks... especially as I have a lot of experience, acquired in other companies...

    • @kathiemedina724
      @kathiemedina724 Před 5 lety

      Honest RC
      thank you

  • @oceanblu85
    @oceanblu85 Před 4 lety +3

    Most practical career change advice I have received from Ted talks. Thank you!

  • @taylorscott9604
    @taylorscott9604 Před 6 lety +40

    This has been the best ted talk i've ever heard

  • @nieblamulticolor
    @nieblamulticolor Před 5 lety +6

    I really like this ted talk. love that you give real life examples and many of then, something i find missing in other talks. Yours can actually be tried out right away with some self reflection.

  • @keziahcahyavirdayanti1287

    I watched a lot of ted talk on careers. Don’t be fooled by the number of views, because this is easily the best and most applicable of them all.
    Ps: i never commented on a youtube video before. This video is THAT valuable to me. Thank you!

    • @bink865
      @bink865 Před 3 lety

      You are right

    • @addictionfreeworld2919
      @addictionfreeworld2919 Před rokem

      You are right, we baised towards number of views and think that more views means best advice

  • @lauramacini6811
    @lauramacini6811 Před 4 lety +20

    Ok, so how do I do this without the crazy salary to fund it?

  • @hninoowai1431
    @hninoowai1431 Před rokem +1

    they became who they are so they just found their core careers,
    your
    identity being who you are just matters most.
    once you become who you to the fullest, you will find what your career automatically

  • @DoubleRainbows-fp6ih
    @DoubleRainbows-fp6ih Před 6 lety +6

    Liz Brown...Wonderful. thank you so so much.
    I especially love the transformation of the woman doing chocolate tours!! I now Know 💥why I have been so miserable Thanks to You.
    You are a motivator and change agent X 🏀🏅

    • @rsaug
      @rsaug Před 6 lety +1

      Judith Mendelsohn I second that!

    • @user-lg9yf8kp6c
      @user-lg9yf8kp6c Před 6 lety

      Judith Mendelsohn
      あ、はは!
      はははら

  • @deefee701
    @deefee701 Před 6 lety +3

    Thank you Liz. You have made so much sense!

  • @PG942
    @PG942 Před 6 lety +14

    Fantastic. Thank you.

  • @bowlsomeamritam2612
    @bowlsomeamritam2612 Před 5 lety +1

    High value insight Liz. Thanks for digging deep and sharing the Jewel with us.

  • @2DclanSnipingTeam
    @2DclanSnipingTeam Před 5 lety +55

    I'm seeing a common thread here. Have the resources and capitol that a lawyers salary provides, then go do what you love. Old news here. Statistically, 90% of all entrepreneurs in the U.S. are already from upper income families.

    • @jamesp2708
      @jamesp2708 Před 5 lety +6

      I was thinking the same. 6 months of a lawer salary is like 2yrs worth to a lot of people

    • @supernatitube
      @supernatitube Před 4 lety +5

      It looks like to do what you love you have to create your own business. But to do that you need resources (money, time). Or study a Master Degree (like the last story), which is a huge investment.

    • @lauramacini6811
      @lauramacini6811 Před 4 lety +2

      Agreed. You’ve got to be rich to have options

    • @gavrielcana
      @gavrielcana Před 3 lety +5

      You are WRONG. The less you have, the less you have to loose. Therefore you can risk and suceed applying rich mind. You are wrong...all the big big ones started with nothing...Musk...ZUckenburg..etc...nothing to loose....work hard...create

    • @TenTenJ
      @TenTenJ Před 2 lety +1

      @@gavrielcana I think it’s 50-50. At least half the people, if not more, don’t have the insight or special blend of IQ and passion these examples have.

  • @tatsianastrigelskiy377
    @tatsianastrigelskiy377 Před 5 lety +2

    Thank you so much for this speech!

  • @JasonJarred
    @JasonJarred Před 5 lety +87

    I don’t think this is the only (it even main) reason people are changing jobs so often (chasing happiness.
    There is a *lot* of exploitation and mistreatment going on, people are trying to find workplaces that actually respect a work/life balance and don’t promote an explicit or implicit bullying culture. Imho.

    • @ILikeCHEEZ9
      @ILikeCHEEZ9 Před 4 lety +7

      Yea I was just talking about how the job economy has evolved in a way such that you have to change jobs to stay on top because of the exploitation. Once someone is satisfied with you in a role they won't advance you, give you raises, or anything to show your hard work and longevity working there. A lot of people take advantage of that in all types of business including non-profit work which is stereotypically anti business(it's the most two faced business there is) so you have to go somewhere else and raise the bar for the next person and the next person because staying in one place stagnates you and at the end of the day we have to make ends meet somehow.

    • @jasonjarred5198
      @jasonjarred5198 Před 4 lety +8

      ILikeCHEEZ9 completely agree with that! Also matches my personal experience - there’s no reward for loyalty whatsoever, and I’m so sick of having to change jobs because of the exploitation which they act as if it’s completely acceptable, but when you (friendly and assertively) confront them on it... well... they really don’t like that do they!!

    • @dianneschoenberg4681
      @dianneschoenberg4681 Před 4 lety +1

      Jason Jarred Spot On! 💯

    • @cathyarnett520
      @cathyarnett520 Před 4 lety +2

      This is so true- I just gave a thumbs up on a Ted talk that asks “ Do nice guys finish last?”.. all about being civil and respecting others ... you’re very correct!

    • @9000ck
      @9000ck Před 4 lety +6

      I agree, people don't leave jobs to 'find happiness' but to relieve suffering.

  • @christina_cl
    @christina_cl Před rokem

    Thank you for the great presentation Liz. The examples are very helpful and I feel like I have a better idea now of what kind of career I should pursue.

  • @demondton96
    @demondton96 Před 4 lety +1

    5:47 I genuinely perked up my head at work and had a ureka moment from that

  • @Hoserfishing
    @Hoserfishing Před 5 lety +3

    The most sincere, persuasive and yet concise presentation on TEDx. Thank you!

  • @shaylajames6925
    @shaylajames6925 Před 2 lety

    This was so motivational..While driving to work to a job I don't love. I was able to gain a little bit of hope to go and strive towards a career around something that I love doing.

  • @Hsjksll5173
    @Hsjksll5173 Před rokem

    Since i am a fesh graduate your speech makes me understand a lots of things about how can i fine a job and what i really what depends on what i really good at now my thoughts kind of organized so i would like to thank you for your great speech and sharing these amazing thoughts with us

  • @nathanma4273
    @nathanma4273 Před 4 lety +2

    A sense of flow. Damn thats right on the spot.

  • @barryalan4069
    @barryalan4069 Před 5 lety +2

    That was "a thought-provoking lecture"

  • @deepanshuahuja9394
    @deepanshuahuja9394 Před 6 lety +3

    Thank you so much

  • @gwent4life878
    @gwent4life878 Před 4 lety +10

    Also helps having all that money from being a lawyer to back your new business and career change.

    • @jov__ana
      @jov__ana Před 4 lety

      also how does get to do a masters in psychotherapy after law school. He coulnd't get in. Something doesn't add up :?

  • @rasag8
    @rasag8 Před 5 lety +2

    OMG, love this!! Thank you :)))

  • @chriss4365
    @chriss4365 Před 4 lety +6

    Yes go to college then get told by employer you need practical experience which colleges dont teach.

  • @achatwithgoitse
    @achatwithgoitse Před 5 lety +1

    Thanks Liz! Hope I find what im looking for.

  • @NinjaTea0161
    @NinjaTea0161 Před 3 lety

    Thank you for this TED talk

  • @ellahngoirionchwari6881

    I am having my Eureka moment. What an insight

  • @SunilSharma-ue6zk
    @SunilSharma-ue6zk Před 5 lety +1

    Well done
    Thanks!!😊

  • @TheArtemis07
    @TheArtemis07 Před 4 lety +3

    I’m an English professor, and I’m really stressed and miserable. The pressure to produce scholarship at a research university is intense. I’m not mercenary/competitive enough. I love teaching, I love being creative, I love event planning, and I love writing creative nonfiction. I’m thinking of either going into nonprofit work or starting my own business. I have two business ideas that I’ve been exploring. One of them is an employee-owned bakery. I think about these alternatives all the time. I’m so anxious and depressed that I don’t know how much longer I can do what I’m doing now.

    • @seanmatthewking
      @seanmatthewking Před 4 lety +2

      You should plan-out your next career move ASAP. Why not teach at a non-research university? Or go after one of your business ideas if you're in a position to do so.

    • @TheArtemis07
      @TheArtemis07 Před 4 lety

      Sean Matthew King Thank you for the encouragement. I’m exploring options right now, and the thought of moving into a position in which I can contribute more to society is helping me get out of my dark depression and severe anxiety. I hope you do work that you love!

    • @seanmatthewking
      @seanmatthewking Před 4 lety +1

      @@TheArtemis07 Who knows what I'll love to do? I'm starting in commercial real estate on Monday, actually. I don't know if I'll love, but it's definitely gonna be an adventure (and a major grind). Good luck to you, Diana.

    • @TheArtemis07
      @TheArtemis07 Před 4 lety

      Sean Matthew King Thanks, Sean! Best wishes to you in your new endeavor. I used to do commercial real estate appraisal (position was called valuation analyst). I found it an exciting field. I hope you will enjoy it!

    • @Happiness379
      @Happiness379 Před 8 měsíci

      @@seanmatthewkingi hope your doing great in your new venture? 🙂

  • @subsubsubsub5413
    @subsubsubsub5413 Před 2 lety +1

    This woman doesnt account for toxic work environments and toxic work cultures.

  • @battlelust3890
    @battlelust3890 Před 3 lety

    I really really loved this

  • @bink865
    @bink865 Před 3 lety

    This is extremely helpful.

  • @samantharose4952
    @samantharose4952 Před 4 lety

    Wonderful talk and the best career advice I've ever heard. Thank you - now all I have to do is figure out what I like being good at!

  • @nerimene4995
    @nerimene4995 Před 6 lety +4

    Powerfull talk :)))

  • @FrauFlamm
    @FrauFlamm Před 6 lety +7

    thank you :)

  • @wardayousufi
    @wardayousufi Před 4 lety

    I love you liz brown
    Thank you sooooo much 😙😙😙

  • @allisonsky7230
    @allisonsky7230 Před 3 lety +2

    Watching this for Mrs.Vallone's Freshman Seminar. How about y'all.

    • @landontrainer
      @landontrainer Před 3 lety

      I'm watching this for my life skills class lol

  • @johnmagdy7116
    @johnmagdy7116 Před 4 lety

    Really great talk

  • @L4zylemon
    @L4zylemon Před 4 lety +7

    what she saying is dont be a lawyer. thank u for coming to my ted talk

  • @sMASHsound
    @sMASHsound Před 5 lety +79

    how to get a job watching youtube videos.

  • @haimanotmitiku3396
    @haimanotmitiku3396 Před 2 lety

    Best talk

  • @codypolar6593
    @codypolar6593 Před 5 lety +2

    Thanks Liz. I should have been a lawyer (based on your advice here).

  • @TenTenJ
    @TenTenJ Před 2 lety

    Chef’s kiss 👌

  • @richaunt0313
    @richaunt0313 Před 4 lety

    Great lecture~~♥♥::;

  • @kevin15776
    @kevin15776 Před 4 lety +5

    I don't do anything that people value.

  • @khactran2748
    @khactran2748 Před 4 lety +1

    Thanks for your video. Can you tell me What is relationship between "Work" and "Life".
    I don't know how to have a fulfilling career.

  • @StephanieTips
    @StephanieTips Před 4 lety +2

    Where did you feel a flow, a sense of time stopping?

  • @christineprasad1547
    @christineprasad1547 Před 6 lety +6

    what if i love something, but havent had the opportunity/time to be able to do it? i.e producing music

    • @jonathans9117
      @jonathans9117 Před 5 lety +1

      Christine Prasad you have to sacrifice something for the good that you desire in your life
      Everyone have the same amount of time

    • @Alyson542
      @Alyson542 Před 4 lety +1

      You could probably produce intro music for youtubers who have a decent amount of followers, if I had a channel, Id be into someone doing that for me!

  • @_chew_
    @_chew_ Před 4 lety +2

    "What you love being good at"
    What if I'm not good at anything and don't like doing anything that anyone would value?

    • @StephanieTips
      @StephanieTips Před 4 lety +1

      It's impossible to have zero talents and zero interests even. Sit down and write down a list of all the things you have ever enjoyed doing (even as a kid) and why. Then maybe cross out those interests you no longer have, but leave them there because probably they tell us a story (e.g. you loved writing but you stopped because you grew up and started lacking imagination. That tells me you might still be creative and need creative endeavours to feel alive, even know maybe not very imaginative endeavours).
      Then if you can't pinpoint what you are good at, ask others. We are oftentimes unable to pinpoint what we are good at exactly because many people have trouble evaluating themselves, especially in regards to interpersonal skills such as being empathetic or having good communication or listening skills. List all soft skills and ask your closest family members and friends to tell you what they think you have or lack

  • @dianedebernardo8419
    @dianedebernardo8419 Před 5 lety +15

    Some people aren't inherently talented at anything. It's not true that we all are good at something. So what about us?

    • @Tbets
      @Tbets Před 5 lety +3

      I don't believe talent exists, but obsession on something will make you feel talented on that particular area

    • @nieblamulticolor
      @nieblamulticolor Před 5 lety +8

      from what i understood, is first find what you like to do when you're bored, other than watch tv and videos on yt and other places, for example: maybe when you are really bored you like to prepare yourself some food that needs some preparation, or like to go outside to breathe fresh air near a tree (i had a teacher that went outside and put his head on a tree to calm himself when he wanted to kill us and that happened alot lol). From those minimal things you can start to test yourself if you like to cook by trying to cook something that makes your mouth water or go to the countryside to see if you really enjoy the outdoors. Then when you find the things that are like a breather from the mundane for you, then find what you enjoy doing with others or for others related with those things you like. And then, like she said, you can start thinking how you can turn that into a job.
      Another example of something minimal af to find what you like or how you like to do things is, maybe you play games, what are your strategies to play? Maybe you are very detailed to plan action or you like to take your time to know the surroundings and later execute or you just go right in which might mean you like when things are fast.
      I hope it helps somehow.

    • @BiancaAguglia
      @BiancaAguglia Před 5 lety +1

      Maybe we all are not good at something but we all COULD be good at something. 😊
      What do you like doing in your spare time? Be very specific. For example, instead of saying "I like reading", say "I like reading magazines about cooking". Even better if you can be more specific, like cooking meals from different countries, cooking kid friendly meals, etc. Or instead of saying "I like watching TV", say "I like watching romantic movies with happily ever afters". You get the idea.
      Once you figure out what you enjoy learning about, figure out ways of making a living out of them. Start a blog or CZcams channel showing recipes and meals. Or a blog / CZcams channel with movie reviews, recommendations, and trivia.
      The possibilities are endless. Best wishes finding out what you'd enjoy getting good at. 😊

    • @StephanieTips
      @StephanieTips Před 4 lety

      ask your closest friends and family member what you are good at. There must be something you are better at more than others

  • @laurendilaurentis6467
    @laurendilaurentis6467 Před 3 lety +5

    "Companies won't want to hire a candidate that look like they've been job hopping."
    Solution: Don't put all those jobs on your resume then? lol

  • @pokerprincess3013
    @pokerprincess3013 Před 5 lety

    A lot of transaction lawyers are miserable. When I think of lawyering I think of Perry Mason, Matlock, and Angela Lansbury- trial lawyering.

  • @andreawisner7358
    @andreawisner7358 Před 5 lety +4

    Lol, she's me. But I don't think that I want to be a professor. I like teaching one-on-one though.

    • @seanmatthewking
      @seanmatthewking Před 4 lety

      Guidance counselor, life coach, personal trainer of any variety, tutor, etc. Even accountants, tax professionals, and lawyers spend a lot of one-on-one time educating people. So many jobs have this dynamic.

  • @1877Pegasus
    @1877Pegasus Před 4 lety +13

    Nice talk but these kinds of advice always come from someone who first made a lot of money and then have the luxury of choosing something they like. What about when you don't earn enough to go through a very modest type of life expenses?

    • @jessicacallou5344
      @jessicacallou5344 Před 3 lety +3

      In the end of the day, you still have to go for it. She also came from a family with low income. She spent some years making money, by that time maybe she didn’t know she was building the stares to a change in career. It’s not just that it took effort, it took time and steps. I think it’s a good question to ask: if I have to go into a tradicional career and make money so I could get into a point in wich I could explore my options, is that worth it? Most don’t make the money, and, among those who do, few have the guts to promote change after that.

  • @anilsaxena419
    @anilsaxena419 Před 5 lety +5

    Totally disagree with her impression of what short job tenures mean.

    • @codypolar6593
      @codypolar6593 Před 5 lety +2

      Are you a business owner? She was spot on. That's how we look at people who have an inordinate number of jobs, with little tenure at each.

  • @nitishsonu67
    @nitishsonu67 Před 5 lety +1

    How to get a job binge watching TV and web series?

  • @RIMJANESSOHMALOOG
    @RIMJANESSOHMALOOG Před 4 lety +3

    Moral : dont go to law school

  • @nagendrarao3147
    @nagendrarao3147 Před 4 lety

    👍👍👍

  • @ouishi9447
    @ouishi9447 Před 4 lety +3

    I do like editing images and making doge memes 🤔

  • @cryptopirate8880
    @cryptopirate8880 Před 5 lety +6

    Well its easy for her to find different careers when she has a law degree she can spend 3 months at various places to find the right job cause with a law degree i bet she can get into many different industries and try new stuff out .

    • @codypolar6593
      @codypolar6593 Před 5 lety +2

      You missed the point. You are focused on her. You should be focused on the advice and on what you are good at and what you to do.

    • @nieblamulticolor
      @nieblamulticolor Před 5 lety

      maybe you missed the part where her friend left her job as a lawyer cause she hated it to become a cosmetics saleswoman which wasn't her ideal either but i'm guessing didn't hate as much to then realized what she liked and went and did that . So at the end the diploma didn't play a part in her dream job at all.
      And that her other friend had to get another degree to be able to actually do what he liked.

    • @2DclanSnipingTeam
      @2DclanSnipingTeam Před 5 lety +2

      @@nieblamulticolor ,
      It's not about dreams. It's about means.

  • @henryanona1640
    @henryanona1640 Před 3 lety

    The overwhelming majority (79%) of millionaires in the U.S. did not receive any inheritance at all from their parents or other family members. (Ramsey Solutions study of millionaires)

  • @cherylaf8330
    @cherylaf8330 Před 5 lety

    That is so wrong to blame all "baby boomers!" There are baby boomers that find what they love to do and don't care so much about the money!!

  • @roqaiahibrahim8884
    @roqaiahibrahim8884 Před 4 lety +1

    It's so sad that a lot of people are miserable at useful and important jobs that actually serve the society and would rather become entertainers/life coaches/open chocolate business or something less important

  • @ValeriaVincentSancisi
    @ValeriaVincentSancisi Před 5 lety +1

    you are wrong about baby boomers

  • @danf4447
    @danf4447 Před rokem

    goal : dont go to law school

  • @ccyungin
    @ccyungin Před 6 lety +4

    Tell me this Liz. How can you like being good at flying of you never flew? I dont agree with your logic.

    • @Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52
      @Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52 Před 6 lety +6

      Passive agressive much? Unfortunately this video went over your head. I was going to provide you an easier way to understand what she is saying, but I think you are better off staying close minded and miserable.

    • @xxMpEGxx
      @xxMpEGxx Před 5 lety +3

      She actually talked about the exact opposite of what you are saying. She says that you should focus on something you already like doing passively. So in this case you already are flying and you like to do it, now you gotta find a company who pays you for that.

    • @codypolar6593
      @codypolar6593 Před 5 lety +1

      @@Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52 Microphone drop!

  • @kaydenojeda7152
    @kaydenojeda7152 Před rokem

    I’m being forced to watch this. ☹🙄😡

  • @User-fi9zf
    @User-fi9zf Před 5 lety +3

    Liz, you probably are not living in this planet earth ...

  • @mattmobbs2205
    @mattmobbs2205 Před 5 lety +1

    Get to the point please

  • @cSsm65
    @cSsm65 Před 6 lety +1

    Quit repeating yourself, repeating yourself, and "I", "I", "I",......is annoying.