After being wrongfully imprisoned for nine years, I lost touch with my girlfriend.

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  • After being wrongfully imprisoned for nine years, I lost touch with my girlfriend. It’s been over 10 years, Would it be wrong to contact her?
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    0:00 - Story 1
    12:14 - Story 2
    #redditupdate #redditrelationship

Komentáře • 121

  • @dominonine
    @dominonine Před 7 měsíci +159

    Story 1: I just feel like someone needs to tell him "she loves you, you gonk and she's good for you". The way he talks makes it seem like he already knows that on some level but he has yet to externalise it in any way that allows him to consciously understand it. I truly hope they get the happy ending they should have had years ago.

    • @zabo9160
      @zabo9160 Před 7 měsíci +20

      "she loves you, you gonk" is an amazing phrase

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig Před 6 měsíci +4

      We need the innocence of a child approach them at a church saying something that hints they make a cute couple.

    • @OTDinosaurScrubs
      @OTDinosaurScrubs Před 6 měsíci

      @@Maninawigsomething happened to me a few months ago, I was briefly dating a girl and while we were out for coffee a random lady came up to us to tell us how cute and happy we look together and asked to take a picture for us, she left me a week later because she realised she had no actual romantic feelings for me but was just excited to be in a new relationship

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig Před 6 měsíci

      @@OTDinosaurScrubs that really sucks, man.

  • @legiontepes3474
    @legiontepes3474 Před 7 měsíci +227

    I despise cheaters from the bottom of my heart. The father should have never taken her back.

    • @conan2096
      @conan2096 Před 7 měsíci +63

      the idea that she uses it as a weapon against him emotionally even 18 years later is fucking evil.

    • @kanto555
      @kanto555 Před 7 měsíci +10

      Lol I thought you were going to talk about how they cheated a whole section of the parkour su the end of the video

    • @klopeashe
      @klopeashe Před 7 měsíci +5

      ​@kanto555 lol i saw that too. More scandel there then the stroy

    • @klassic9900
      @klassic9900 Před 7 měsíci +12

      Agreed 100% but I feel bad for the kid. He never knew anything of it and basically got a shotgun blast to the face. Even if it was not meant to be that severe he basically got his entire world shattered and I bet that feeling of doubt will never really leave from this point onward and obviously the mom isn't able to deal with the situation in a productive or helpful way which is also a shame for the kid.

    • @carlstevenson709
      @carlstevenson709 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Who hurt yall 😂

  • @sandukan1001
    @sandukan1001 Před 7 měsíci +48

    Bro from story #1, maybe I am completely misunderstanding the relationship you 2 have but if not, then marry that woman. She is a unicorn.

  • @dominonine
    @dominonine Před 7 měsíci +120

    Story 2: "How do you know any of them are yours?" I don't give a shit what heat of the moment bullshit is happening that is something only a penny whore would say, that is a truly despicable thing to say to a man who raised a kid you had with another man you cheated on him with. I'd never advocate for domestic violence and this wouldn't be a justification for that but this would put her on a razor's edge hanging fifty feet above some thin ice with me if not an immediate justification for divorce what a horrible thing to say to a man with an ailing father who has done right by you when you fucked up.

    • @anders8204
      @anders8204 Před 7 měsíci +20

      Women really take it for granted, knowing that the children are theirs.
      Obligatory paternity tests can't come soon enough.

  • @Proxterms
    @Proxterms Před 7 měsíci +43

    21:38: I was so invested in that parkour until i knew he was playing in creative mode
    it was kinda funny because it caught me by suprise 😂

  • @cliffordthefossilizeddog697
    @cliffordthefossilizeddog697 Před 7 měsíci +152

    Story 1: such a nice little story and happy thanksgiving to everyone who reads this comment

    • @jennyaxalco3649
      @jennyaxalco3649 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Happy Thanksgiving 🦃

    • @milkiesLoverboi69
      @milkiesLoverboi69 Před 7 měsíci +4

      We dont celebrate this in EU but I hope you guyus have a nice day!

    • @cliffordthefossilizeddog697
      @cliffordthefossilizeddog697 Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@milkiesLoverboi69 you have a great day too!

    • @m4x927
      @m4x927 Před 7 měsíci

      My family doesn't really celebrate it.

    • @SS_SUKUNA
      @SS_SUKUNA Před 7 měsíci

      @@m4x927either way, happy thanksgiving. 🖤

  • @nereus2929
    @nereus2929 Před 7 měsíci +44

    Need more of these actual happy stories, it's nice finally cheering for once. I also bet that they were from Belarus and she moved to France 💀

    • @Icannotfindmybrain
      @Icannotfindmybrain Před 6 měsíci +3

      I thought they were either from Belarus or Russia

    • @noinfo1018
      @noinfo1018 Před 4 měsíci

      Most likely Russia, imprisoned around 2014 due to protests about crimea, then moved to either France, Germany, or a Benelux state

    • @SR-lm1jx
      @SR-lm1jx Před 3 měsíci

      I also suspect they’re from either Belarus or Russia

  • @TeknoKID19
    @TeknoKID19 Před 7 měsíci +64

    Yeah for story 2 I'm not sure being mad at the dad accomplishes anything ngl (But I sorta understand.) Cuz to be fair why did she bring up the infidelity at all? Like even if it was a compliment that's not something you should be makin light of. Idk bc none of what she did ir how she handles the situation sits right with me at least.

    • @theboss7930
      @theboss7930 Před 7 měsíci +19

      Right? Even if 18 years have passed, it's a wound that leaves a big scar, she tried to stretch open the wound again

  • @pokcmvmxckm2715
    @pokcmvmxckm2715 Před 7 měsíci +14

    The missed jump and subsequent creative mode flyover at 21:39 is more aggravating to me then any story I have heard so far lmfao

  • @vzzx8102
    @vzzx8102 Před 7 měsíci +12

    man i really hope story 1 will have a happy ending one day

  • @eternal6179
    @eternal6179 Před 7 měsíci +37

    Story 1 went as well as you could hope for all things considered

  • @juanhaines7295
    @juanhaines7295 Před 7 měsíci +45

    I heard this one before. Glad op reconnected with her.

  • @droganovic6879
    @droganovic6879 Před 7 měsíci +29

    Story 1
    I'm gonna need an update on this one.
    It's a beautiful story, really gives you some hope.
    And Lord knows the world could use a little bit of hope right about now 😕

  • @travarturner6547
    @travarturner6547 Před 7 měsíci +24

    I don't know about Story2 why did the father take her Back and I have a feeling the other two might not be his☠️

  • @Trebinhas
    @Trebinhas Před 7 měsíci +3

    The first story is so wholesome and dreamy 😭

  • @arcadius3257
    @arcadius3257 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Story 1 : That's good people right there, both of them.

  • @bengunderson712
    @bengunderson712 Před 7 měsíci +21

    Story 1 - a lovely story. Happy Thanksgiving

  • @alwaysright3943
    @alwaysright3943 Před 7 měsíci +24

    I saw the second story on reddit a while back. Literally everyone was having a go at the dad for refusing to pay for another man’s kid to go to college, no one was blaming the mom for cheating and not having the spine to come clean with her son in 18 years. That’s when I realized what a sorry cesspit of a website reddit is.

    • @shadesteel9247
      @shadesteel9247 Před 7 měsíci +12

      I would agree with you, and i partially do, but i do think its more on the father. He's the one who took the wife back and then threatened his relationship with his son in the worst way possible. By all means, he is that kid's dad, just not biologically, and he KNEW it the entire time. If he had just found out then i would understand better.

    • @alwaysright3943
      @alwaysright3943 Před 7 měsíci +7

      @@shadesteel9247 He's not his dad. Blood is not water.

    • @shadesteel9247
      @shadesteel9247 Před 7 měsíci +9

      @@alwaysright3943 yeah he is, just not biologically. He's the same as a stepfather, which is also a dad. He chose himself to raise the child despite the cheating so it is on him, she shouldn't have cheated, but he's the one who accepted it and loved the child regardless. Keep everyone in this story accountable. Also its the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb, so your quote would be used in a different situation, because the father is still married to his cheating wife.

    • @alwaysright3943
      @alwaysright3943 Před 7 měsíci +5

      @@shadesteel9247 He made a "covenant" to raise another man's seed using his time and money. Doesn't sound like such a good deal to me, and nobody's entitled to having their college paid by their parents anyway, biological or not. He supported you for 18 years, now you're on your own.

    • @shadesteel9247
      @shadesteel9247 Před 7 měsíci +5

      @@alwaysright3943 it might not sound like a good deal, but its the deal he made whether you want to admit it or not, he knew the truth and raised the kid regardless, no one forced him to, and at that point 18 years later its too late to go back on that because its just punishing the kid for his mother's actions at that point. The father accepted the cheating and from that point anything that happens as an after affect of that is on him for staying in the relationship. Also its normal for the 18 year old to expect the same treatment his siblings got, regardless of the age.

  • @thousandyardgavri2785
    @thousandyardgavri2785 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Im loving the wholesome stories insterted between these nasty stories...😂😂

  • @sensei-sama1410
    @sensei-sama1410 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Story 2
    The woman risked a marriage of 2 kids for a person she met in a bar ?

  • @Vic-pg4rg
    @Vic-pg4rg Před 7 měsíci +26

    I was first confused about the video as the title said something else than the first story. So I just skipped to Story 2.
    Story 2: I feel so sorry for OP as none of that was his fault. He didn't ask to be born just like none of us did. His mom and bio dad are responsible for the situation that happened. They both belonged to the streets and deserve everything bad. The legal dad should've stayed divorced with the mom especially when he's still resentful about his wife's affair when he got really mad at her for what she said and that he doesn't want to pay for OP's college to which I don't blame him but again, he should have stayed divorced. Plus she gotten pregnant by her AP, that's a huge twist on the knife of the backstab/cheating. Plus she only crawled back to her husband when her AP throw her out and want nothing to do with her and their son. I don't know why the legal dad even gave her a second chance at all. I sure as hell wouldn't if I was in his situation.

    • @lesnoyelf228
      @lesnoyelf228 Před 5 měsíci

      Because spineless doormat, obviously.
      She literally said "why you think all of them are yours?" And he lets it slide lol

  • @cornbread12987
    @cornbread12987 Před měsícem

    "Go to her you fool"
    -a schultzy movie line

  • @captainlevi7188
    @captainlevi7188 Před 7 měsíci +22

    My gut tells me that op from story 1 is eastern european...

  • @freeloguy3387
    @freeloguy3387 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Wtf we went from the most heartwarming story to another Reddit TTS tragedy XD

  • @DipreG
    @DipreG Před 28 dny

    Story 1 brightened my morning

  • @AECH_CH
    @AECH_CH Před 7 měsíci +8

    I would never pay for a child that's not mine... It's not about the child, it's about protecting my mental sanity and family legacy - I want blood related heirs, not bastards. While it's fucked up for the kid, there's no moral or legal obligation for the dad to bathe out the cheating of the mom.
    I'd still play a major role in the life of the kid and befriend it, maybe even be a father figure. But in no way in hell am I going to dedicate significant financial resources or inheritance towards a child that's not mine.
    Call me the AH, but I'm quite firm on this. It's not the childs fault but it's also not the fault of the cheated on dad - so the only one to blame here is the mother - anything after that is a reaction that sparked from her cheating.

    • @coolgamer2135
      @coolgamer2135 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Yeah and most of the times their jackasses too.

    • @jgrAnimations23
      @jgrAnimations23 Před 7 měsíci +1

      "life of the kid and befriend it"
      You just called the child "it"

    • @AECH_CH
      @AECH_CH Před 7 měsíci +2

      @@jgrAnimations23 I don't think that's anything special, as I refered to the general kid, not a specific gender...
      Also English isn't my first language. Out of all the debate I expected here, this isn't the one to have imho.

  • @onlyDoti
    @onlyDoti Před měsícem

    Story 2: Op should get in contact with Sperm donor for purely medical reasons. It’s probably in his best interest to know if he is genetically predisposed to anything worrisome.

  • @Katray...
    @Katray... Před 7 měsíci +4

    Hey man, PLEASE tell me you've got more background sounds bc if you keep using the same ones without changing them then its gone get repetitive and imma simply stop watching just bc of that one reason which is sad; like just ask the comment section what sad sounds you can put in your vids and that can be a easy fix!

  • @PisauraMirabilis
    @PisauraMirabilis Před 7 měsíci +6

    Seems like the couple was from Belarus

    • @jeffreyharris3440
      @jeffreyharris3440 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Thanks, I was wondering. I hope the chicken farmer goes away.

    • @giftapfel
      @giftapfel Před 7 měsíci

      I was thinking Russia, and that the girl had moved to France. Are there any clues I missed that tell you it's Belarus?

    • @biggiecheese2004
      @biggiecheese2004 Před 7 měsíci

      @@giftapfelBelarus has been a huge problem in recent years with politics. Russia has been that way since Putin. Belarus makes the most sense

    • @giftapfel
      @giftapfel Před 7 měsíci

      @@biggiecheese2004 i see

  • @juanhaines7295
    @juanhaines7295 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Happy Thanksgiving to everyone.

    • @barryallen3555
      @barryallen3555 Před 7 měsíci

      What if we don't celebrate thanksgiving you would be just behaving weird

  • @arthaiser
    @arthaiser Před 4 měsíci

    story2: im sorry for the dad, but i suppose that this is what happens when you dont have a spine

  • @ibukungolo4261
    @ibukungolo4261 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Why dod the sister yell at the dad how dare she

  • @Zellonous
    @Zellonous Před 6 měsíci

    1st OP is the biggest dunce. What the hell did they do to the poor guy? He's thinking so much about not being selfish he ends up being incredibly selfish in a weird way.

  • @lolmanv
    @lolmanv Před měsícem

    the girl in story one is a walking green flag all around

  • @kylealexander7024
    @kylealexander7024 Před 6 měsíci

    Story 2. Dude calls him dad. He is his dad.

  • @ayoubmahjoub-sw4lz
    @ayoubmahjoub-sw4lz Před měsícem

    story one the girl lives in paris

  • @arikhehelol
    @arikhehelol Před 7 měsíci +5

    Balls

    • @AleV69692
      @AleV69692 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Based 🗿

    • @CourierFreakingSix
      @CourierFreakingSix Před 7 měsíci +1

      To me, those balls are perfect
      I can only speak for myself
      I don't want anyone touchin' the balls
      Rubbin' the balls
      To me, those balls are perfect
      Some guys like 'em round and some guys like 'em thin
      Some guys like old balls, new balls, they're all different
      So you gotta feel 'em and you gotta squeeze 'em
      To me, those balls are all perfect
      I choose the balls that I want
      You know, I grip it, I grab it, I feel the lace, I feel the leather
      I wouldn't want anyone touchin' the balls
      Um, I would zip those things up and lock 'em away
      Some days one ball may feel good
      The next day, it may not
      I want to be very familiar with the equipment that I'm using
      This isn't ISIS
      No one's dying, but this is a very important thing
      Because to me, those balls are perfect
      I can only speak for myself
      I don't want anyone touchin' the balls
      Rubbin' the balls
      To me, those balls are perfect
      Some guys like 'em round and some guys like 'em thin
      Some guys like old balls, new balls, they're all different
      So you gotta feel 'em and you gotta squeeze 'em
      To me, those balls are all perfect
      You gotta feel 'em (You gotta feel 'em)
      And you gotta squeeze 'em (You gotta squeeze 'em)
      To me, those balls are all perfect
      You gotta feel 'em (You gotta feel 'em)
      And you gotta squeeze 'em (You gotta squeeze 'em)
      To me, those balls are all perfect
      You know, I grip it, I grab it
      I grab it, I grip it
      To me, those balls are all perfect
      Zip those things up
      Zip those up and lock 'em away
      To me, those balls are all perfect

  • @Manant.
    @Manant. Před 7 měsíci

    Tldr story 1: bro is 33m tall 🗿

  • @Maninawig
    @Maninawig Před 6 měsíci

    Thumbnail?!?!

  • @chemicalbrush7560
    @chemicalbrush7560 Před 7 měsíci

    Are these fake stories

  • @smsff7
    @smsff7 Před 7 měsíci

    Story 1 I hope it works out for OP.
    Story 2: Both parents are TAs Although it does look like it worked out for OP.

  • @yozarahirvi4750
    @yozarahirvi4750 Před 7 měsíci +9

    story 2 Mom is trash for cheating and the "what makes you think any of them are yours" comment during a fight
    Dad is trash for putting the blame on OP and punishing him for his mom's affair ...
    Sister is goat blasting both her parents !
    any adult in this family who knew should have told OP, the way OP learned about it terrible !

  • @thousandyardgavri2785
    @thousandyardgavri2785 Před 7 měsíci

    I hate how somewhere in the world, A woman who lied about her husband being a pedo and brutally tortured to death only gets 7 years.. This guy gets 9

  • @prophetofthemightysquirrel5434
    @prophetofthemightysquirrel5434 Před 7 měsíci +9

    Trusting w*men is like dropping a toddler into a pitbull enclosure and expecting it to not get mauled.