"Men Today Are Weak" - How To Master Power, Money, Influence & Reinvent Yourself | Patrick Bet David

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  • Reclaim Control of Your Life Today: bit.ly/3PIdAH2
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    We're diving into a riveting conversation with Patrick Bet-David about the crisis of masculinity and the pursuit of true power. Are you feeling lost, unqualified, or weak? We're here to change that and challenge your thoughts on masculinity.
    Patrick unravels the misconceptions around power and strength, revealing how they are stepping stones to freedom and control in your life. We dissect the multi-dimensional problem facing men today, from the rise of single mother households to the lack of male role models.
    We unpack three powerful traits of leadership and a man’s role in his son’s life: love, fear, and respect. Patrick also sheds light on how to cultivate, capture, and use aggression effectively. Life is a game, and we're here to help you play to win.
    Power isn't about greed or selfishness; it's about the level of life you want to live, and we’re discussing how to balance selfishness, aggression, and power to become a net positive to society.
    This episode is for the audacious few who are ready to reinvent themselves and master their inner strength. We address the moral obligation of men to be strong, and how to tap into the fire within you, choose your enemies wisely, and let them fuel your focus and commitment.
    Books mentioned in this episode:
    1) Power versus force by David Schwartz
    2) Quiet Strength by Tony Dungy
    Don’t forget to check out Patrick Bet-David’s book, Choose Your Enemies Wisely: www.amazon.com/Choose-Your-En...
    Chapter Markers:
    [00:00] Introduction to Master True Power
    [00:32] Aggression Isn’t The Problem
    [16:21] Be Audaciously Masculine
    [30:42] Earn Your Authority
    [45:42] Overhaul Your Masculine Values
    [1:08:16] Become A Powerful Ten
    [1:26:52] Who Are Your Enemies?
    PBD Quotes:
    “If you have fear, respect, and love, that boy has the highest likelihood of doing something big with his life.”
    “If you want to be the guy of the guys, of other guys, you can’t go by the standard as everybody else does.”
    “There’s a level of alpha, there’s levesl of success you want in life…”
    “Choose your enemies wisely, but its business planning for the audacious few, not the timid majority.”
    “If you’re going to do something big you’re automatically going to have enemies.”
    Follow Patrick Bet-David
    Website: www.patrickbetdavid.com/
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Komentáře • 817

  • @TomBilyeu
    @TomBilyeu  Před 6 měsíci +129

    WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!

    • @divine5353
      @divine5353 Před 6 měsíci +4

      I heard you Tom are looking for Geoffrey Canada... Sometimes the route approach is from a family or friend that knows him. He might be going through some difficulties and went off grid for while. Remember the roots... they will lead you to the fruit. May the light lead the way.

    • @scotchbarrel4429
      @scotchbarrel4429 Před 6 měsíci

      Tom, this guy is an anti elitist, and a wannabe elitist. Hes done well for himself, but just like the orange cult leader, who this strongman is inspired by, hes not the role model we want our men to emulate. Hes definitely the type that chauvinistic men will emulate.

    • @delaslight
      @delaslight Před 6 měsíci +1

      Please invite him more and more and more

    • @TheWisdomOfTheAges_PsyM_Revd
      @TheWisdomOfTheAges_PsyM_Revd Před 5 měsíci

      That's right. A lot of folks think we're fools, someone just tried 31 minutes ago

    • @lilamnbdh967
      @lilamnbdh967 Před 5 měsíci

      It’s so true Tom🙏, they think I’m stupid .

  • @kookoo4mike
    @kookoo4mike Před 6 měsíci +257

    My husband is a “powerful” man; confident, competent, secure, a man of integrity. He’s a strong protector and provider for me and our kids. I feel secure and blessed he is the leader of our house! He is also gentle and kind. A true gentleman. 😊

    • @PeaceIsYeshua
      @PeaceIsYeshua Před 6 měsíci +10

      @@kookoo, he sounds like a gem!! 💎 It sounds like y’all are a team and are “both” blessed! I’m glad he is appreciated.

    • @kameniliev8607
      @kameniliev8607 Před 6 měsíci +17

      ...and he is one lucky guy to have a woman who appreciates him. We need more of these out there...
      Keep on in your journey together!!!

    • @bijosn
      @bijosn Před 6 měsíci

      Tools

    • @solomonwrites
      @solomonwrites Před 5 měsíci +3

      Wow! I will like to do like your husband to my future wife. Please could you outline what he does that make him a leader, protector,etc.
      Blessings to you both.

    • @tierneyrose110
      @tierneyrose110 Před 5 měsíci

      Brag about it! LOL 😅

  • @PeaceIsYeshua
    @PeaceIsYeshua Před 6 měsíci +535

    As a woman, we need our strong, masculine men!!! They are SO valuable!! ❤

    • @henrythegreatamerican8136
      @henrythegreatamerican8136 Před 6 měsíci

      ^^^^^
      Proud soy boy. Please dress me in your favorite bra!

    • @venky193
      @venky193 Před 6 měsíci +7

      Thank you, for valuing this mate ✌🏼

    • @PerfectPetProductions
      @PerfectPetProductions Před 6 měsíci

      True. The problem is women often choose dark pentagon men- narcissists, psychopaths, machiavellianism, sadism and paranoia. Women are choosing these dark hearted men who are terrible long-term husbands and fathers, but they give good sex in the beginning, and you are hooked. They are parasites and are fucking up humanity.

    • @TheJessehart05
      @TheJessehart05 Před 6 měsíci +23

      I value your view. I love to provide for my girlfriend.
      Looks like you have avoided the “men are evil” agenda.

    • @alanfaeldan
      @alanfaeldan Před 6 měsíci +17

      Agreed, but are women willing to give up their feminist views they've fought decades to have now? Women will need to concede to have their masculine men back

  • @oneworldonehome
    @oneworldonehome Před 6 měsíci +111

    _"To be free, you must be strong. To be strong, your mind must be clear. You must see clearly. You must hear the truth. You must be objective about your life and circumstances. You must look upon the world not with grievance or avoidance, but with compassion, patience and determination."_
    The Greater Community, Chapter 4: Entering the Greater Community, by MV Summers.

  • @bastianrivero
    @bastianrivero Před 6 měsíci +33

    When a true leader is not present, bullies show up.

  • @nefidecarvalho5412
    @nefidecarvalho5412 Před 6 měsíci +64

    Tom please continue doing this kind of episodes. This is what impact theory stands for. Stick to the brand. Free is from the matrix and forget the rest

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 Před 5 měsíci +1

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  • @leondonald
    @leondonald Před 5 měsíci +107

    Thank you. Just what I needed to watch. My hubby and I are directors of our farm business and own property, plus small pensions. I am nearly 52, hubby is 55. We have started to save to retire from the farm, and possibly live on rental income, I'd really appreciate you go LIVE and talk about how to earn passive income online and retire comfortably, let’s say $1M.

    • @berkrix4312
      @berkrix4312 Před 5 měsíci +4

      consider financial planning.

    • @DavidRiggs-dc7jk
      @DavidRiggs-dc7jk Před 5 měsíci +3

      It really isn’t about how much you save, it’s about how you manage your money. Whether you work to earn income or invest, it still boils down to income vs expenses, so yeah you may look into financial advisors for a strategy that suits your timing.

    • @theresahv
      @theresahv Před 5 měsíci +3

      I totally agree, I'm 60 and newly retired with about 1.2 million outside retirement funds, no debt, and very small dollars in retirement funds compared to my portfolio balance over the past 3 years till date. tbh, the role of the invt-advisor can only be overlooked, not denied. just have to do your research in finding a reputable one.

    • @EllenAbrex
      @EllenAbrex Před 5 měsíci +4

      That's impressive, my portfolio have been tanking all year, tried learning new strategies to gain in the current market but all of that flew right over head, please would you mind recommending the invt-adviser you're using?

    • @theresahv
      @theresahv Před 5 měsíci +2

      I thoroughly recommend Julie Anne Hoover, an investment advisor who is subject to US SEC regulation. She has assisted me with my portfolio for many years. Look her up online; she's a well-known figure.

  • @albidalfoudri9078
    @albidalfoudri9078 Před 4 měsíci +10

    Normally Tom talks way too much as interviewer, but this time I feel he’s really listening and haven’t talked as much as usual. Respect for both Pat & Tom!

  • @thevossman
    @thevossman Před 3 měsíci +4

    The book Power vs Force is amazing. Note the author is David Hawkins, not David Swartz

  • @vcme
    @vcme Před 5 měsíci +48

    Had a brother in-law just like PBD. He was respected and loved by everyone. Kept the families in order and progressing.

  • @barbaraatkinson2204
    @barbaraatkinson2204 Před 3 měsíci +7

    PBD is spot on about your choosing your enemy’s wisely , my mom told me was stupid and would never be anything, she was my enemy that is what driver me besides being a type A , once I was out of the house at 17 in the 70’s I had the freedom to go on and be successful to prove I was not stupid and worthless ,the curse of my mothers behavior turns into a blessing ❤

  • @collinsnorman473
    @collinsnorman473 Před 4 měsíci +100

    The idea of investing a significant sum of money may be both thrilling and intimidating. There seems to be potential for considerable wealth increase with the correct strategy. How can one take advantage of the present market to grow one's retirement savings over time?

    • @stephmeldrich6765
      @stephmeldrich6765 Před 4 měsíci

      A solid strategy can be a key component of an investor’s portfolio. Well, the bigger the risk, the bigger the reward and such impeccable decisions are better guided by professionals.

    • @martinbelanger9963
      @martinbelanger9963 Před 4 měsíci

      Yes true, I learnt that in 2020, when I lost almost everything. But I switched to using a financial advisor and I've been returning at least $100k every one quarter of the year so I’m sticking to investing via an Adviser.

    • @dubyyax5493
      @dubyyax5493 Před 4 měsíci

      Please who is the consultant that assist you with your investment and if you don't mind, how do I get in touch with them?

    • @martinbelanger9963
      @martinbelanger9963 Před 4 měsíci

      I began with an FA named Emily Lois Parker. Her straightforward approach provides me entire ownership and control over my position, and her fees are really reasonable given my ROI.

    • @wanifeels5991
      @wanifeels5991 Před 4 měsíci

      Thanks for sharing, I just looked her up on the web because this is equally important to me, and I would say she really has an impressive background in investing. I will write her an e-mail shortly.

  • @REASONFORTRUTH
    @REASONFORTRUTH Před 6 měsíci +15

    SPOT ON GENTLEMAN. I come from a Sicilian-Italian home. My father came from Sicily and earned a scholarship in Engineering. My mother is. Sicilian mother who never let one cross a red line. My parents where/are as living as tough and bottom line. This is one of the best wisdom I have head in years and should be broadcast nationally/internationally. Thank you gentleman for having the energy, desire and energy to speak the TRUTH. That is what this is…Steven Garofalo

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 Před 5 měsíci

      ㄒE乂ㄒ𖧹ME±𝟭𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟰𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟴𝟲👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💬💬㊏㊍㊋㊏㊌

  • @codyr2318
    @codyr2318 Před 5 měsíci +26

    Best Impact Theory episode in a very long time. This guy PBD has some powerful ideas to share.

  • @regentlemen
    @regentlemen Před 5 měsíci +20

    PBD is a pillar in this generation. May our King continue insufflating and protecting you, beloved ones and associates, my brother.

  • @1maripaul
    @1maripaul Před 6 měsíci +24

    Just what I needed this morning! But I'm female and I needed to hear this about my own life....I need to take charge and be challenged in life. It applies to all of us!

  • @user-fb8jb5yi6g
    @user-fb8jb5yi6g Před 5 měsíci +6

    Minute 3:05. 100% spot on. My father NEVER cut me ANY slack. It drove me to accomplish the impossible.

  • @sakinahabdul-jaleel
    @sakinahabdul-jaleel Před 6 měsíci +21

    This conversation is FANTASTIC and LONG OVERDUE! PBD is sooo on point! Tom, you always ask the right questions to get to the deeper levels!

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 Před 5 měsíci

      ㄒE乂ㄒ𖧹ME±𝟭𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟰𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟴𝟲👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💬💬㊐㊊㊧㊌㊧

  • @georgesaucedo7929
    @georgesaucedo7929 Před 4 měsíci +2

    The last 2 minutes had me with chills, if you know what’s it like to never be told that I didn’t know how much of an impact that had but really lit a fire in me.

  • @Chris-rv7nr
    @Chris-rv7nr Před 6 měsíci +28

    Haven’t seen this all yet but I know Tom is a good guy and if he is pushing masculinity he’s surely pushing it in a sense that most people would regard as healthy

    • @rodgarant3875
      @rodgarant3875 Před 6 měsíci +9

      What part of masculinity is unhealthy?,

    • @njsmithpro
      @njsmithpro Před 6 měsíci +1

      100%

    • @njsmithpro
      @njsmithpro Před 6 měsíci +1

      100%

    • @srei2447
      @srei2447 Před 6 měsíci +2

      ​@rodgarant3875 Just a handful of examples of when masculinity can be unhealthy aree when it leads to someone suppressing emotions, resorting to aggression for dominance, avoiding seeking help, adhering to rigid gender roles, feeling entitled, being overly competitive, or harboring misogyny or homophobia.

    • @offensivearch
      @offensivearch Před 6 měsíci +3

      @@srei2447 I see most of these more with modern women than modern men. Resorting to aggression for dominance and feeling entitled in particular.

  • @carenzalarue8447
    @carenzalarue8447 Před 6 měsíci +28

    Completely agree with everything being said here.

    • @Flexsweat
      @Flexsweat Před 6 měsíci

      Name 1 takeaway from this video?

    • @Tony-hs8sc
      @Tony-hs8sc Před 5 měsíci

      It’s amazing and I don’t know why I am still surprised but I just always glance at our other media - the bottom feeders like nbc MSNBC cnn New York Times Washington post time magazine 95% of our social media companies. Etc - and in the last 3 years 99.9% of the coverage is almost alllll the same exact stories and same talking points almost word for word !!! Like this week it’s 90% trump trump trump insanity and criminal , jail and fascism Nazi screaming repeated talking points from the “experts” even though those experts have been wrong and humiliated on every single thing they said for last 5-8 years .,, doesn’t matter ! They know their audience is not smart enough or willing to notice reality cause their audience is mostly white , wealthy rich suburban, totally disconnected elite liberals who think cause one black family lives in the next block in a house worth 4 million dollars and they have a blm sign in their yard .,,, that THEY are the hero’s of America and as long as they don’t have to see or know any black or brown people that are being destroyed and crushed by the last 3 years !!!- So that by seeing trans outrage fake outrage trump trump and evil republicans insanity every day is gonna help the current failing Biden administration and maybe no one will notice ?
      In the mean time - this podcast is more genuine and meaningful and productive than 1 year of our entire media blow Jobs who are bought and paid for

  • @MM-overtime
    @MM-overtime Před 2 měsíci +1

    We need more podcasts like this around the world! Good job to both of you. Very informative, truthful, and entertaining!

  • @NightOwl-uw7yq
    @NightOwl-uw7yq Před 5 měsíci +5

    I love the way Patrick took control of the environment!

  • @KendalFlair
    @KendalFlair Před 5 měsíci +86

    Thank you so much for this video. I learnt a lot from it. I feel for you to attain all these, you’ll need to develop your mind. It’s not an easy process especially with the phases that we experience in our daily activities which could be overwhelming sometimes.

    • @SantanJose
      @SantanJose Před 5 měsíci

      Exactly. I’ve been in a bad phase in life before and tbh, it wasn’t easy because you’ll feel like you’re going through the same cycle every day. I had to try out positive things, to lean towards overcoming that bad phase.

    • @KendalFlair
      @KendalFlair Před 5 měsíci

      Opening doors for positive things has been a great way to get through some of these bad phases.

    • @KendalFlair
      @KendalFlair Před 5 měsíci

      What I mean is trying to lean towards the positive side of things by learning a skill, trying out new ideas, networking with positive people, opening up. If you overcome a phase mentally and strengthen your mind, you’ll excel physically.

    • @TylerScot-
      @TylerScot- Před 5 měsíci

      You’re right. A short story. There was a time in my life when I was going through a bad phase and it affected me mentally and I couldn’t be complacent in that phase. I had to try out new things. I started playing chess, learning about the financial market, watching positive documentaries and it was really helpful. Anyone reading this, you can try out positive things and it would help you network with positive people.

    • @AndrewGrantt
      @AndrewGrantt Před 5 měsíci

      You’re right. Positive things welcome room for positive people. What helped you in the learning curve of the financial market?

  • @NanaBARS
    @NanaBARS Před 5 měsíci +3

    Absolutely love PBD! Thank God for strong men like you two and my husband as well!!🙏🏾💕

  • @explorationecho2366
    @explorationecho2366 Před 5 měsíci +14

    I watch both of you often. This talk was the most relevant and profound for me personally in a while. This talk addressed every part of my life past, present & future. Thanks to you both and the team who helped put it together.

    • @Tony-hs8sc
      @Tony-hs8sc Před 5 měsíci +1

      I read Patrick’s books and been following his content for years now but I never heard of the podcast and wow ! What a great conversation and so well rounded and important conversation.
      These are the leaders we need today Just honest and genuine smart strong people .
      And I absolutely loved that you shouted out their team cause as a viewer a lot of people think these things happen out of nowhere but they have employees and a team that is a huge part of the process and these guys value their teams and it’s great to see viewers like you and I noticing that and appreciating those people too !
      Have a great Christmas and holidays

    • @Tony-hs8sc
      @Tony-hs8sc Před 5 měsíci

      What great conversation and podcast. I’ve only watched and read Patrick’s books but now I love this guy and subscribed and look forward to listening to more from him !
      These are common sense smart and strong guys that we really need right now

  • @danielboateng2475
    @danielboateng2475 Před 5 měsíci +2

    So true. I haven’t heard selfish explained and broken down like this before

  • @lilamnbdh967
    @lilamnbdh967 Před 6 měsíci +8

    Thank you so much Tom🙏❤️

  • @sbalan007
    @sbalan007 Před 3 měsíci

    Best Ever thing I've heard on You Tube till date
    This is a conversation that each man MUST hear!
    I felt like my Father and Brother are teaching me Life!

  • @rgsauger
    @rgsauger Před 6 měsíci +4

    GREAT story about the drill sergeant and Alpha!!! We all need one (or more) of those guys when we are young. Mine was a little Italian name Len. Still thankful for him 35 yrs later

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 Před 5 měsíci

      ㄒE乂ㄒ𖧹ME±𝟭𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟰𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟴𝟲👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💬💬㊍㊊㊋㊏㊐

  • @jlcworld91
    @jlcworld91 Před 4 měsíci +1

    What you said, makes a lot of sense, it does. I'm after the most power and growing my family and making them powerful. The most common phrase I hear " it must be nice". My response "it must suck to have your mindset".
    Great discussion! Thanks.

  • @HopingforPower
    @HopingforPower Před 3 měsíci

    This was definitely one of the most mind blowing videos I've ever watched... Patrick David is quite the gentleman. Thanks for doing this Tom.

  • @daxbunny7
    @daxbunny7 Před 5 měsíci +4

    I absolutely LOVED this interview. Couldnt agree more with it!!

  • @moozzzzz
    @moozzzzz Před 3 měsíci

    What a great discussion. This is the first time I stumble upon your content and it won't be the last. Thank you

  • @briankimathi3060
    @briankimathi3060 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I love his honesty n confessing he hasn't read the book.

  • @OPatron24
    @OPatron24 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Pat is absolutely right, we have weak leadership right now. We need to ask better questions and evaluate our "leaders" under a different lens.

  • @mindtreasure5763
    @mindtreasure5763 Před 6 měsíci +20

    I love this part about choosing an enemy. My view resonates with the fact that you can't be your best until you find some one who you think may take your place if you ever slack. This kind of mindset keeps you on your toes thereby giving you enough reason not to become complacent in your growth

    • @whitefox8291
      @whitefox8291 Před 6 měsíci +1

      You could not have described it any better. Love it

    • @Tony-hs8sc
      @Tony-hs8sc Před 5 měsíci +1

      Read his book and other books. They are great reads and important. I think Patrick is one of the most influential people for men and young boys today. And you just subscribed to this podcast and I look forward to seeing more content cause this interview was really interesting

    • @PeaceIsYeshua
      @PeaceIsYeshua Před 5 měsíci +1

      But that sounds like living in fear, which is a terrible state of mind to be in. :( I’m not a man, but for me, there is so much freedom in trying my best and giving the rest to God. ❤

    • @mindtreasure5763
      @mindtreasure5763 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@PeaceIsYeshua Men are competitive in nature. Most men will do anything to get into competition with other men. If they can do it alone, they tend to form groups. This is why it's very important to have something or someone that keeps reminding you that if you mess up, it will be over.
      The thing is that is how men have been able to create or make the world the way it is. I understand that we have created both the good and the bad.
      Men literally thrive where they can compete.

    • @PeaceIsYeshua
      @PeaceIsYeshua Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@mindtreasure5763
      That is a great point!! Thank you for your input! I’m thankful for these types of men, and we desperately need more of them!

  • @allentempleton2429
    @allentempleton2429 Před 5 měsíci +5

    This was a fantastic interview. I think P.B.D. is brilliant. When I listen to him talk about his principles and values it's easy to understand how he became so successful. At one time men like him were more common. They were the men who returned fron WW2 and built the US Into an economic powerhouse. The absence of leaders like Patrick is the reason for the erosion of today's America as well as the rise and acceptance of psychosis and criminality.

  • @alexeimisalov5975
    @alexeimisalov5975 Před 4 měsíci +1

    My favorite and impactful do far!! Thank you Tom. Thank you Patrick.

  • @loripalumbo5559
    @loripalumbo5559 Před 6 měsíci +2

    This is soooooo good 💯. Thank you Tom. Thank you Patrick. Respect 💪💥💖

  • @BirdDogRealEstate
    @BirdDogRealEstate Před 5 měsíci

    Greatly appreciate this conversation! May it impact and influence all necessary 💪🏽💪🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❇️❇️❇️

  • @rubidoobi111
    @rubidoobi111 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Strong backbone, warm heart.

  • @shayonsmith
    @shayonsmith Před 5 měsíci +1

    I love PBD!! One of the last bastions of manhood remaining. I cant wait to meet him

  • @jaystewart4823
    @jaystewart4823 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Absolute GOLD🔥 Thank you Tom & PBD⚡️

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 Před 5 měsíci

      ㄒE乂ㄒ𖧹ME±𝟭𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟰𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟴𝟲👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💬💬㊊㊍㊌㊐㊧

  • @jojon4272
    @jojon4272 Před měsícem

    The second half of this interview was more than immaculate.

  • @S-u-r-e-n
    @S-u-r-e-n Před 5 měsíci

    Love fear respect. Thank you Pat. Thank you Tom!

  • @aminblm
    @aminblm Před 5 měsíci +3

    I'm always amazed at how you let your guests shine, Tom! ✨🎧 #MasterOfTalk #ListenAndLearn

  • @TheOddOddish
    @TheOddOddish Před 6 měsíci +3

    The last part about the Im Proud of You segment was incredibly powerful! The age range Patrick said was on point to! Thanks for recording this!

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 Před 5 měsíci

      ㄒE乂ㄒ𖧹ME±𝟭𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟰𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟴𝟲👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💬💬㊐㊊㊧㊌㊧

  • @basicforge
    @basicforge Před 5 měsíci +2

    This is a great interview. I think we are all a collage of different strengths and weaknesses. We should not demonize people who are not like us. We need each other. Do we need strong men? Yes. Do we need strong women? Yes. Do we need all kinds of people? YES!

  • @pepimorel
    @pepimorel Před 3 měsíci

    Wow, this is one of the best interviews I've seen. Period.

  • @bastianrivero
    @bastianrivero Před 6 měsíci +6

    I see pat, i click, simple

  • @evanjames3011
    @evanjames3011 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Great interview. Can't believe how quickly I breezed through this.

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 Před 5 měsíci

      ㄒE乂ㄒ𖧹ME±𝟭𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟰𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟴𝟲👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💬💬㊍㊊㊋㊏㊐

  • @mikeepp70
    @mikeepp70 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Actually Power vs Force was written by Dr David Hawkins. And it's interesting that he brings this up because I was thinking about that book while I was reading choose your enemies wisely..

  • @eliudhernandez4684
    @eliudhernandez4684 Před 3 měsíci

    Great interview, I been following Mr. Pat for years, solid and consistent man. Great advice.

  • @virginiaholzer7358
    @virginiaholzer7358 Před měsícem

    This is very powerful conversation❤ thank you❤

  • @Wordsbywaters
    @Wordsbywaters Před 2 měsíci

    Your physics analogy to life resonates with me so well Tom. Powerful concept. The book “Life 3.0” solidified this for me.

  • @TheSalesMatrix
    @TheSalesMatrix Před 5 měsíci

    This was a great conversation. Thanks guys!

  • @yesidamaya1121
    @yesidamaya1121 Před měsícem

    This has been the best podcast I have ever seen .

  • @Realestagentday
    @Realestagentday Před 6 měsíci +11

    It’s crazy my whole life I’ve been told that I am selfish but as I look around I realize that these people who said that to me are nowhere near where I want to be. An in reality I wasn’t “selfish” in a bad way, I just liked to be by myself and have what I worked for to myself.

    • @PeaceIsYeshua
      @PeaceIsYeshua Před 6 měsíci +2

      We have to give people a place of high importance, and be willing to sacrifice for others, but it also has to be balanced, and we also have to realize that some are jealous and don’t want to see others succeed. Good for you for rising above all that!! Keep it up! 😊🎉

    • @offensivearch
      @offensivearch Před 6 měsíci +2

      I've never had a selfless person call me selfish. It is usually selfish and co-dependent (nice guy, covert selfish) types that call other people selfish.

    • @PeaceIsYeshua
      @PeaceIsYeshua Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@offensivearch
      That’s interesting! I find it’s usually the more selfless who recognize selfishness in others (just like people who are very kind and polite tend to really notice people who aren’t), but it can also just be from people as described above.

  • @biniyammarkos3852
    @biniyammarkos3852 Před 4 měsíci

    I'm always blown by how this man (tom bileyu) expresses his ideas❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @YoungKingRKE
    @YoungKingRKE Před 6 měsíci +1

    Good stuff right here. Let every man you be informed that this is out

  • @RoosterRaw
    @RoosterRaw Před 6 měsíci +4

    Excellent video! Thoroughly enjoyed it. Some great gems of wisdom here. Thanks both!

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 Před 5 měsíci

      ㄒE乂ㄒ𖧹ME±𝟭𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟰𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟴𝟲👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💬💬㊏㊍㊋㊏㊌

  • @kellyfarmer246
    @kellyfarmer246 Před 2 měsíci

    Fantastic interview. Thank you both.

  • @BayonleArashi
    @BayonleArashi Před 6 dny

    PBD is the man. Incredibly smart guy. Love it

  • @davidkuria6463
    @davidkuria6463 Před 6 měsíci +15

    FAITH is the main source of strength for any Man. It's important to pray, read the Book 📖 and align to high values.

    • @ozarkcyn1
      @ozarkcyn1 Před 6 měsíci +1

      You might want to learn from Billy Carson as well as Tom and this man he's interviewing. You may be in for the shock of your life. BOTH Billy and Tom have HIGH values. MILLIONS of men are net positive to society. They don't pray or read one book to gain their wisdom BUT all of them believe in a HIGHER POWER greater than them.

    • @mindtreasure5763
      @mindtreasure5763 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Pray and read the Book? I believe you are talking about a Holy Book.
      Well said my friend. I am sure that we have a lot of people who do this in Africa, but the faith to really change things around our society seems to be weak.
      Growth is an essential part of strength to any man. The moment you understand the path in which you are expected to go in life, growing through your walk along that path is a direct source of strength.
      Faith will always be there. I can assure you.

    • @PeaceIsYeshua
      @PeaceIsYeshua Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@David, amen!!

  • @lahi9.094
    @lahi9.094 Před 6 měsíci +7

    Patrick showcased deep insight, mainly through his adept use of complex statistics, like the striking opening stat. However, his discussion on interest rates, specifically the mention of a +8% rate, initially left me perplexed. He might be conflating this with bank lending rates. His hypothetical scenario involving Chairman Powell's actions in reducing rates from 8% to 6% further added to the confusion. Then his abrupt shift in focus to worker strikes left some of the discussion hanging, creating a sense of an incomplete narrative, and this is only one of three examples throughout this sitdown. While not intending to diminish his overall contribution, Patrick should heed his advice and explore the current Fed Fund Rate more closely to ensure clarity and coherence in his analysis. Again, my comment is not to troll because I thoroughly enjoyed his message for men. He's a man I will consider following. Choose your enemies wisely! #Soldier For Life

    • @henrytep8884
      @henrytep8884 Před 6 měsíci

      Is funny how you can see the b.s. clearly and still respect the rizz instead of the obvious facts. The only thing important today is narrative, believing it, and adhering to it instead of actually getting rid of self deception and looking for truth and clarity.

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 Před 5 měsíci

      ㄒE乂ㄒ𖧹ME±𝟭𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟰𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟴𝟲👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💬💬㊏㊍㊋㊏㊌

  • @ianbett3853
    @ianbett3853 Před 6 měsíci +4

    I LOVE YOU BOTH. THANK YOU BROTHERS! 🥰🥰

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 Před 5 měsíci

      ㄒE乂ㄒ𖧹ME±𝟭𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟰𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟴𝟲👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💬💬㊊㊍㊌㊐㊧

  • @MATGO
    @MATGO Před 4 měsíci

    Such a great interview with such meaning!! Salute guys...

  • @JHunkinator
    @JHunkinator Před 5 měsíci +1

    Love Love Love this episode!

  • @Ben-qm9zq
    @Ben-qm9zq Před 3 měsíci

    Selfish/selfless content was powerful 👏

  • @albertocantu1408
    @albertocantu1408 Před 5 měsíci

    I really like the way PDB explains things, in a very detailed and articulated way, for what I understand the 70% selfish and 30% selfless, makes total sense, since that Selfish portion is needed to get things done, to take a company from point A to point B (mission and vision of a company), and the selfless portion stands for the companys values and principles that are the foundation of the company's culture...

  • @DrugFoods
    @DrugFoods Před 6 měsíci +2

    Meek defined as showing patience and humility, which are strengths.

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 Před 5 měsíci

      ㄒE乂ㄒ𖧹ME±𝟭𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟰𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟴𝟲👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💬💬㊍㊊㊋㊏㊐

  • @WalkWithGraceThisEra
    @WalkWithGraceThisEra Před 6 měsíci +1

    Great guest, greater discussion. TOMMY JUST DON’T MISS YA’LL!
    Js

  • @Wisdom2Abundance
    @Wisdom2Abundance Před 5 měsíci +1

    Truly an inspiration. Thank you

  • @user-zo6oc2dk7j
    @user-zo6oc2dk7j Před 2 měsíci

    This is fantastic!!!!!!

  • @paramshah6376
    @paramshah6376 Před 5 měsíci +1

    “The minute you give up freedom for equality, you’ll have neither.” I don’t know who the quote is from. But it’s true.

  • @alexhickman
    @alexhickman Před 5 měsíci +1

    The guy that PBD is talking about with the levels of consciousness at 7.18 is Dr David Hawkins. Epic work.

  • @darrenmcnulty429
    @darrenmcnulty429 Před 10 dny +1

    The podcast I was waiting for

  • @MaisMikeKaribyan
    @MaisMikeKaribyan Před 5 měsíci

    Powerful video thank you both

  • @mamadoucoulibaly4254
    @mamadoucoulibaly4254 Před 5 měsíci

    Big shout out for mentioning
    Geoffrey Canda 🥳🥳 the work he’s done in Harlem is amazing and incredible

  • @SorcererKingAinzOoalGown
    @SorcererKingAinzOoalGown Před 4 měsíci

    So many golden nuggets in this one

  • @jamesshelley8111
    @jamesshelley8111 Před 3 měsíci

    Excellent session

  • @manoftmrrw
    @manoftmrrw Před 3 měsíci

    Man this was great!!!

  • @katesmckay
    @katesmckay Před 4 měsíci +4

    Thank you Tom for being a truth-teller and living courageous in all you do.
    I am a high performance coach and woman. I coach men to ignite them into their warriorship. I am deeply committed to help men claim their fierceness. I lost my son to suicide and brother to murder-they were both only 22. My why? We have no time to waste, I am a soldier to help men in this numbed out world speak their fire and claim their purpose to protect and serve. Honored to do what I do, in a world that fosters weakness.

  • @Enocks0nL.C
    @Enocks0nL.C Před 6 měsíci +1

    Whenever i listen to him or i watch his video, (PBD, Patrick Bet David) i feel like he is telling me in my mind to learn and act more, read more to be accurate when talking, he is in some way a guy that pish me without him knowing that he is pushing to grow 😊❤ Much Love and respect to you Sir. Patrick B.D.i'll do the best could possibly do to meet this requirement you put in my mind.
    (Hope i meet you someday to thank you personally)

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 Před 5 měsíci

      ㄒE乂ㄒ𖧹ME±𝟭𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟰𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟴𝟲👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💬💬㊌㊌㊌㊌

    • @Enocks0nL.C
      @Enocks0nL.C Před 5 měsíci

      @@Tom_Bilye3 and you are ?

  • @PapaCriss
    @PapaCriss Před 2 měsíci +1

    When my wife got sick I quit my carrier in IT to become her full-time caregiver. For the past 5 years I've dedicated nearly every moment not used directly in her care to living in the world of medical research. All of these people say to me "you're such a good husband bla, bla, bla." My reaction to all that noise is simply "I'm doing what I promised to do when we got married!" Doing it doesn't make me a saint or any of the other platitudes they try and push on me, I'm just a man of my word. If a mans word is not his bond then, especially to his wife, then he is not a man!

  • @justintime477
    @justintime477 Před 5 měsíci

    Enjoy so much thx

  • @tomschmidt2595
    @tomschmidt2595 Před 4 měsíci

    Cogent and smart
    I'm passing it around to young men I know could use a positive nudge

  • @russdrake9657
    @russdrake9657 Před 5 měsíci +1

    One of the most thought producing conversations yet. @patrickbetdavid is a good guy.

  • @321ghi
    @321ghi Před 5 měsíci

    Very deep and powerful episode 🙌🏻

  • @mattvanert1249
    @mattvanert1249 Před 5 měsíci

    Great combo for a convo

  • @bicho4748
    @bicho4748 Před 4 měsíci

    as an entrepenuer (I hate that word) this hits home. thanks for the content, it is actually helping me.

  • @user-vz7mr3fm1h
    @user-vz7mr3fm1h Před 2 měsíci

    Great episode💪🏻🔥🔥🔥🔥💯

  • @emilybarrett
    @emilybarrett Před 2 měsíci

    Patrick Bet David for President!

  • @ruaningyholic
    @ruaningyholic Před 5 měsíci

    This was a great episode!

  • @3isaiah61
    @3isaiah61 Před 3 měsíci

    Im a strong believer in mentorship. I know without having the right mentor I honestly would have made alot of compromises, terrifying decisions & been dead.

  • @InnerWorkWithEvan
    @InnerWorkWithEvan Před 6 měsíci +3

    FYI the book mentioned "Power vs. Force" is by David Hawkins if you're looking for it- not David Schwartz (who is also an author.)

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 Před 5 měsíci

      ㄒE乂ㄒ𖧹ME±𝟭𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟰𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟴𝟲👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💬💬㊏㊍㊋㊏㊌

  • @Droviderion
    @Droviderion Před 4 měsíci

    24:24 is the best pitch ever 👏👏👏

  • @joscreemers4360
    @joscreemers4360 Před 4 měsíci

    Great show. Two great men who are born leaders. Our politicians could learn a lot from you both

  • @narona
    @narona Před měsícem

    I always believed that one of the strong reasons behind this is the fabric of our governing system / lack of protection, looking out for public’s best interest and care.