6 Tips on Maintaining Long Distance Relationships
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- Long distance relationships also known as LDR's is when two people are dating from across a distance. This can be continents apart. Someone you meet online, but happens to be living really far from you. In this video, we want to share some tips on how to maintain a long distance relationship. If you are having doubts about long distance relationship, hope these tips can convince you otherwise!
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Happy Monday everyone! Are you in a long distance relationship?
Yeah, I am. ^^
I am!
Psych2Go i was🤷🏽♂️
How was it? =)
Hopefully soon!! But probably not cuz she's straight...😟
To all LDR couples like us STAY STRONG.....STAY STRONG
SIOMAI [XR] my GF lives on another continent. I went to visit my fam there and met her now we are in a ldr
we can do this!!
SIOMAI [XR] Yes🙌🏽
Thank you
💪🏼i just saw my boyfriend for the first time 3 days ago and he lives about 2 hours away from me
thank you for this. instead of being afraid they're cheating though, i'm afraid that their feelings will vanish eventually since we're not together in person..
If they love you, it wont become like that
Same bro and i kind of see it happening to me already. She doesnt send me messages no more. Makes me sad because I know she probably met someone in her country thats better then me. Its ok though not salty just sad.
BIOHAZARD DREAM try your best to not feel like that; if it’s true love it will work; just focus on you for now
@@estherdurin Yeah ive been trying to keep my head above the water but it tough man. Really have a lot of feeling for this girl.
@@biohazarddream710 u call her once a day? Cause remember, to much constant communication isn't that great like the video discribed. If you have meaningful conversation for at least an hour at minimum. Every other day. I think ur good man. I can relate though. My girl doesn't message me all the time. But I'm ok with it. Cause the times that I do have calls with her. Their meaningful
1) meaningful gift (teddy bear, nightlights, hoodies)
2) know their schedule
3) have trust
4) quality communication (instead of over texting try to have meaningful conversation)
5) make time to see each other
6) embrace the challenges together
My bf and I have done 5 out of the 6, but we’re planning the last one after I graduate high school 😊
Thank you!
On point
What if your girlfriend calls you controlling for wanting to know their schedule
@@Andrewgarrett218 Explain her your reason as to why you want to know her schedule
I’m in a long distance relationship while attending Med school. One of the most important elements of a successful relationship is that you need to be physically and emotionally well yourself rather than relying on your partner for love and attention to heal. You need two whole pieces to make a full piece of love.
I am so thankful for your comment. You're entirely right. I would also say that being emotionally and physically well is crucial not only in love, but generally during lifespan. At the end, we spend most of our lives with ourselves.
That last sentence I was told in therapy 😢. In a LDR too. Mine is tog not really long but we don’t meet often, it sucks😢😢
disagree
Thank you for this... I needed it
I never thought my first relationship would be a long distance relationship but I’m not complaining💕💕
same
Same xD
Same
omfggg same!!
How long?
To all the people in LDR... I wish you all a happy and easy LDR full of joy and great moments
I hope you all manage to be with your soul mate and have a great life together
i ll just start one . wish me luck
aw thnx
Thx...I also hope this will work out...it's going ,,meh" since a year tho
Thank you. Hope you somebody to be with if you don’t have one if you do then I hope you guys the best of luck
nais noko thank you fam 🙏🏽
I’m in a distant relationship as well, it’s not easy I won’t lie, especially with insecurities. But the one thing I can say to make it better for someone reading this, is look at the small details about your partner. Know them very well so that if something happens you don’t always assume the worst.
Yeahh thanks small things matter.
Im currently in a long distance relationship, and anxiety kills my everyday.
Maybe it isnt for you sweetheart think about it 💖
@@sarag.4562 I'm sick of being alwayse depressed and I just want to find someone who I can trust and deeply love...
Ik this too well...Me and my LDR gf wanted to meet already like 5 times. Everytime she said things like ,,Something popped out" or ,,I forgot that...". I didn't go camping with a group of friends so we can meet and I was already on my way to where we planned to meet and suddenly she just texted me that she got grounded for supporting the pride parade. A week later she said that she couldn't come since she was at a hospital...so she lied to me. I have constant anxiety cause I think that maybe I'm not good enough for her
@@Karim-rf5go Depression sucks, I know. But think of it this way: Somewhere in this world, there's someone especially for you. Maybe even in the comments of this video. I hope you get through it soon, and if not, you can talk to me. I'm here :)
migoy I feel you. My girlfriend just left last week and it’s been hard on me.
Me and my boyfriend literally make ourselves cry with laughter for 3 hours, I think that’s pretty quality to me 💕💕
You guys call everyday or occasionally?
Heyy Boo as much as we can, on average 3 times a week
@@fnaf2ventnoise330 damn! That's pretty nice
@@fnaf2ventnoise330 damn I call mine everyday, but I always make her upset so here I am trying to get better for her 😓
@@twolnly lucky, i wish mine would do that quite honestly..
I'm in a long-distance relationship for nearly three years now, and let me tell you something: it's tough at times. People around me are surprised that I only get to meet him a few times in a year. The three things that work for us: insane amounts of communication, effort and patience. I've definitely become a lot more secure, understanding and appreciative over the years. He's changed me for the better, LOL. Never give up on each other no matter what, it's always worth it in the end. ❤️👫
Edit: We got married a little less than two months ago. 💍❤️
Thank you for this
At one point in time I use to feel like am the only one trying hard
Thank you I needed this
@@lindanebgou2594 I feel ya! But, it somehow it all works out in the end. Godspeed! 😇🦋
@@atharvabhosale3529 Awww, may you find your happiness soon! 🥰
@@aadritachatterji thank you I am Indian she’s from Middle East it’s gonna be a year soon I 2 weeks thanks for your support
Being in a LDR is tough, but doable. I'm now 2 years in one. Just the thought of how far we have come is motivation enough to look forward to many more memories. Our love for each other is bigger than the distance that separates us.
To those in LDR', it usually gets tough before it gets easy. So hold on tight keep on growing together. Best of luck!!
God bless you two 💖💖💖
How did it work out?
Have you got to met each other already?
I trust my lil babyboy, but it’s so hard not being able to give him endless cuddles and kisses ;(
right? ;(
Facts
Same here :(
Yeaah right!
Jaz x I feel you. I’ve been together with my partner for 13 months almost 14 now. We’ve only seen each other for two days each time. Cuddles are the best though. You learn to appreciate them. 💓😭
I’m in a distance relationship rn and it’s very hard to handle. But we’re both willing to put efforts into it and make it work. Trust and patience is the key💗
So well said!
How do u do it
Me too ......
Same here
@@Psych2go na I have been single for a while
the positivity in the comments
I think the best advice really is to have your own life and to find a partner who's passionate about theirs as well. Me and my partner are busy with our lives that whenever we get to talk we spend so much time because we know we love each other and are not obsessed with spending all day with each other because we prioritize ourselves too. If you treat your partner as a desert for your efforts and not your main course or appetizer, life changes so much. You can be straight forward with them and also not strangle them with expectations because that also ruins relationships. Once you expect someone to act a certain way to your favour and not based on facts it'll just destroy them because you didn't try to understand so you're just in a relationship with you the image in your head.
Thanka man for this realization. Badly need this.
I needed to see this. I didn’t expect to find someone so amazing and being so far away. That was my past relationship’s mistakes and caught myself being more understanding and open minded.
thank you bro, really really needed this
Best advice
I needed this. I think I have high expectations and I’m putting a weight on my LDR bf. Thank you
1. Give them a personal gift to hold on to.
2. Set routines and learn about each others schedules
3. Build trust and try not to jump to conclusions, dont assume the worst
4. It's not about quantity but quality
5. Make time to visit. But know that not all visits will be ideal and that is ok
6. Embrace the challenges together
Thank u
Me and my gf are in a LDR since a year and 3 months now...but
1. She didn't even give me an adress to where I can send her a gift
2. That's easy since we live in the same country, but different parts
3.I try not to, but she lied to me a lot of times
4.I try to talk with her but she always wants to rp.
5. We wanted to meet 5 times already but she always had an excuse not to come. And then on the next week she had another excuse totally different from the original one
6.I try everything to overcome those...but she always needs to go when I try to talk with her about them
Do you guys think that this won't work out?...
Daijiro Bengoshi {quiet, assassin} Well, from what you’re saying, I think that the relationship sounds a little unhealthy. I really do suggest that you should try to talk about it and how you can make it better.
Thx for the tip. Who knows, maybe it will be something
My boyfriend and I of almost 3 years have only been long distance for two weeks and he's coming back this weekend because the transition into college has been especially difficult for him and he's been having some doubts about the relationship because he's so stressed out. He sent me this video and said "I needed this bad. I need to call you tomorrow." here's to hoping he needed number 6 the most, and for a good conversation on the phone.
from someone who has been in a long distance relationship i may give u some tips:
1-Yes u can love someone even if u didn't see him in real life and are apart(not everyone tho)
2-don't be too harsh on them
3-Make time for each other and understand each others routine
4-give him/her love and affection and care
5-Don't let jealousy come between u too
6- Don't blame him/her that they are far away
7- when u meet tell them that u are in love with them.( When he did i felt relieved that my personnality didnt change between phone and real life)
8-Give each other a gift that he/she can wear everyday or look at everyday (jewelery/key chain/a parfume etc)
9-He/she got feelings too and he/she get the same doubt as you from time to time
10-Think about the future..where u both will ne finally together and plan it with each other it will give both of you confort
SENDING ALL MY LOVE TO YOU GUYS AND REAL LOVE ALWAYS WIN
11-TALK AND COMMUNICATE IT'S NOT THAT HARD IF U ARE SUSPICIOUS ABOUT SMTG JUST ASK
I'm in a ldr right now and I honestly did 8 of these I've never blame him for anything, I give him my love and care, we talk a lot and I've always talked to my friends about him and how amazing of a person he is and I've told him so many times that I'm so in love with him and he said the same too and we plan to meet each other someday💞💞💞
Love this! 💕🌸
Seriously, thank you so much. I really needed this
@@asmaanaji8806 how long can the talking go per day?
just communicate and trust each other, been in one since 2 years and still going strong 🤟
Have you met each other in person already?
This video triggered lots of tears. It's hard being apart. It reminded me of how much effort he puts in and the different ways in which he shows me he cares ❤
Indeed 💞💋
I know right 😢❤️🩹
One tip: treat it like a real relationship at all times. Because it is. She's not just the person you have Skype dates with and then get back to your real life. She's a part of your real life. Talking to her, doing things with her (virtual), treat them as if she's there with you. Because emotionally she is, and you should be too. You're friends, family, colleagues, strangers should all know about her like she can walk into the room at anytime.
My long distance relationship is tough, but I'm happy. And so is she. We'll be together again someday.
Best of luck to all of you others going the distance!
Thank you!♡♡ And I hope y'all are in each others arms someday.
I've been in a long-distance relationship for 10 years. And all I have to say is Please Communicate your feelings. it's hard, but make it fun by playing couple quiz games like lovify. It kept our conversations interesting, especially on boring days. Never stop trying. Things will take time, but they'll work out in the end :)
10 years 👀⁉️ It's been just almost 2 years for me and I'm struggling to keep the relationship together.
@@rawmeseesoundsavvvy170 In initial days we too had lot's of issues. Wayyyyy lots, but with time and multiple breaks. Now our conflicts don't last more than 15 mins. It was hard but we have been through lots of tough conversations which we used to avoid initially.
10 years? How often to you see each other in person?
You also have to consider relationships that started online with the intention to eventually meet at some point in the future.
I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem ❤️❤️❤️
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@@sarahisaac2032 I'm sorry but I am SO CONFUSED!! Are you tryna start some marketing scheme or something?
I'm in the same situation rn
@@Feziboy ignore them. It's just scammers trying to steal your money
Being in an LDR on this pandemic is so frustrating. Me and my boyfriend hadn't meet each other since we started because of the borders not opening for them to get inside our country. It's been a year now and we both had struggles and difficulties that it almost end our relationship but love binds us both and we keep holding on and praying and being hopeful for that one sweet day to finally see each other for the very first time.
I totally get it!! I'm in the US and my guy is in Germany!
Am facing thing too,he is in the U.S.A and am in Ghana. My mum thinks is already a year and have not set my eyes on him before so we should break up but we are strong for each other and focus with prayers things will work out for us
@@tabithathewholistic I know how that feels, for me it's the other way around..i am in Germany and he is in the USA..I wish you the best and that it works out for you two..i can't wait to meet my bf for the very first time..but til i can hold him in my arms, i will hold him in my heart..and hope he likes me in rl too..
currently in the same situation :(( we've been together for 8 months now and i am still hoping and wishing for the day that we will eventually meet irl will come as soon as possible.. it's so stressful to think about the future and it just made both of us insecure, asking questions like how much time do we have to face before meeting in person 😭 but we are working through it and we are hopeful to see each other once the pandemic dies down a bit and when there are very little travel restrictions.. i just don't want to be so old when i finally get to see him..
I hear all of you guys for sure! Apparently as of today we are trending towards "endemic status" and many mandates are being dropped globally, so let's cross our fingers and hope it's legit!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I'm currently in a long distance relationship and we just celebrated our 8th monthsary (virtual sadly) and everyday our relationship just keeps getting stronger. There are times that we argue but that's normal actually. The 3 top things we have to do in order to keep our relationship is by having the U.R.L.
U- understanding
If one doesn't have understanding then the relationship will go crazy and fall.
R- respect
Of course we have this, respect is really important (everybody probably knows why)
L- love
This is the reason why two people stayed together despite of any boundaries you are facing such as distance.
❤️❤️❤️
We're 5 years long distance as of now. He's visiting my country every year.
Kimberly Santos 5 years! Wow that's something. Do you guys plan to keep it that way?
That is so great
What countries you both are in
Is this a relationship?
Kim Santos pls tell me the answer for the Q i have my whole life long! So how often u guys talk to each other. Or do you guys have like a specific time that u guys talk? And u talk every day?
Kim Santos good on ya! I wish you two the best :)
One thing my boyfriend and I do is plan video chat dates and share the same meal but cooked our own unique ways. Then we surprise each other with how creative we got. It's exciting to see the effort we each put into our dishes, which translates into the effort we put into our relationship. It's fantastic! ❤️
This is so cute I’m definitely gonna try this with him
I and my boyfriend try this but it doesn't happened like we plan
Since he's busy with work most times
But we do have game nights
That’s so sweet.. what kind of dates you guys plan? Need some ideas please
@@monicakushwaha475 You can plan together to make the same dish, such as spaghetti or steak or whatever you both know you enjoy. It doesn't have to be prepared the exact same way--you could each add your own personal flare to it, and surprise each other with your creativity and ingenuity. You could even make completely different meals, and impress each other with your particular expertise. It is one way you can learn about the abilities and preferences of the other person, and have fun doing it. 😊
This is harder when there is like a major time difference but thank you for the advice I think this a cute idea that I have never tried.
In a long distance relationship for almost 9 months and he will finally be here next week for good. I don't really believe LDR's could work but we did it. Through effort, patience, staying connected and being open to each other. Some things are really worth the wait
To all the LDR couples out there, stay strong!
Thank you ✨️
How is everything today?? Are you guys still together?? I’m having a rough time in my LDR, & this just gave me some hope…
I think about it like this: I first make sure that I am happy and cheerful in my own life, doing things with friends and family to keep myself in a good mood. Cuz then when I text him, I can maybe spread that happiness to him and cheer him up too💖
Thank you so much for these words
Yea it’s hard for sure, but it’s literally the best thing ever. Not having your partner there physically sucks but the second you hear from them makes a world of difference. Also the building anticipation to see them is indescribable and possibly the greatest feeling of love ever. I love it 🥰
I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem ❤️❤️❤️
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True!!!!💖
When you finally see them it's insane
Key thing is communication. My partner and I have 1 scheduled phonecall a week where we only talk about our feelings and/or concerns that we may be having, decisions that may affect the other, etc etc. Then we have spontaneous phone calls during the week where we just talk about anything from our day at work to the dog next door. We do this because we found that when we didnt, we would be hiding the "heavy feelings" from each other cause we didn't want to ruin our phonecalls by making them sad and have the other person worry. Of course thats sprinkled w morning/hope your having a good day/miss you/thinking bout you etc texts in between
Interesting point!
A very good advice and I liked your idea!
Thank you
Thanks
This is such genius advice, I love that! I really want to try this out with my guy, as the communication aspect and going deep is so important. Yet the lighter type of conversations are important too.
My love and I are 3 years now and we are in a long distance relationship. We both found each other during the first hit of the pandemic and we are "PANDEMIC LOVERS" 🤭. In this long-distance relationship, we will experience lots of difficulties, arguments, fighting, and so on. But just like us (my love and I) choose each other and love each other. We don't know when and where or how we will able to see each other but we leave everything to God. We trust each other, I love him so much, and he made me happy each day.
If you are in a long-distance relationship, Trust and believe in your partner. No matter what or no matter how it takes. Love your partner with all your heart and I know that waiting is worth it. ❤️
I’ve been in a LDR for about a year and some months. My first time meeting him my heart nearly skipped a beat because I knew and felt like I had met my best friend/true love. I honestly don’t have a problem with it me and my partner actually have came to an conclusion it is and will help us grow. We definitely try to see one another when we can which is helpful but when we separate we miss one another like crazy. I’ve had negative people in my ear about things but I know him and he knows me. What I’m basically saying is love on your person and continue to stand strong ❤️
When my boyfriend last visited, he gave me a necklace. I wear it every day and even sleep in it, and when I stress, I fiddle with it and it calms me down because I feel physically closer to him. I have him my most valuable stuffed animal, a purple stuffed leopard that has a pouch of lavender for stress relief. It was a gift from my grandparents when I went through a major surgery last summer. It comforted me, and now it comforts him! I even sprayed it with my perfume for an extra touch which he loved. I miss him so so much, but I find comfort in knowing that I’ll see him again soon. Actually, I see him at the end of December, and I’m super excited!
Am happy for you and your boyfriend. Am about to enter into LDR and I think it will be the most beautiful thing that will happen to us
@zumzy u No.
for my last birthday that was a few months into our relationship she gave me an old ring of her, ive worm it everyday since 😍
i hope i see my guy soon 🥺
I'm in a long distance relationship and he lives all the way in new Jersey I'm a Brit so there is a 5 hr difference which kills us both.
He got me a really beautiful necklace but it snapped and that broke me.
Ever since it snapped I have been feeling so sad and anxious and alone.
I still feel it there but when I go to play with it it's not.
6 Tips on Maintaining LDRs:
1. Give them a personal gift to hold onto.
2. Set routines & learn about each other's schedules.
3. Build trust & try not to jump to conclusions.
4. It's not about the quantity (how often you talk), it's about quality (quality communication).
5. Make time to see each other, but know that every visit may not be ideal, & that's okay.
6. Embrace the challenges together.
@@Meijibby hello! 🙂 No need to be shy because it's your partner. You have to learn how to be comfortable or to not be shy with each other. Otherwise, what's the point of being together, right?
Trusfrated lol seriously
One important thing is not to allow the opposite sex comes close to you. There is nothing like “just a friend” simply keep yourself busy and try as much a possible to keep away the opposite sex
Ugh I made the 3 one mistake few times 🥲
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My first healthy relationship has been the long distance one I am in now! It has been hard but so worth it! We are almost one and half years and growing strong!!
These are some great tips and I was doing this even before finding this video. Honestly me and my BF got even more bonded and closer together with long distance then what we would've if we dated regularly. Bcs we have an honest relationship and I can always tell him if something is bothering me or if I'd like him to put in more effort and he actually listens. So when we do meet and see each other in person it won't be awkward cus we've talked for so long now and basically know everything about each other. The only thing that's really hard is sometimes I feel lonely and really wanna be in his arms but he's far away but I know we will be together for good one day. It is our destiny.
It make me feel inside and the last thing sometimes we really want each other but..... But I hope we all meet our better half soon.. ❣️
Y’all. The military is brutal on relationships. To all my military couples, you got this!! Remember why you fell for each other and remember your goals!
My boyfriend who’s a marine is getting out in four weeks and I’m so full of hope that it’s gonna be easier for us from now on even tho he’s gonna be even further away than now
ok boomer
@@clarimar108 stfu zoomer
@@user-pr6gn2un8z damn, I’ve never seen a more boomer reply in my life
@@clarimar108 whatever you say so
I have been in a relationship twice and both LDR, while the previous one was a lot of effort and taxing and emotionally draining, my current one is so much more incredible in every way. Cut to the chase, it is all about the person you are with, be with someone who makes efforts for you, respects you. I have never been happier as of now. ❤️ Love to every LDR couple
Anyone else crying? My tears are from happiness because I really think this can work.
Mhmm
I'm dating a girl for 1.5 years and I'm going away for a while to work... My flight is in 4 hours and I can't sleep. I feel absolutely horrible. I'll miss you babe
This feeling is certainly crushing
Although you may be upset about your girlfriend, just know that you'll see her soon. In no time, you'll be able to hold her in your arms and the time spent apart will be worth it. Stay strong! 👍
you are in each others hearts and beings.. and in there.. there is no distance and no time
UPDATE ?
@@Mandaazoee After 6 months I returned home to continue some unfinished studies.
During our time apart we kept in constant contact and worked around the 4 hour time difference between us. We talked and watched lots of movies together in our free time.
It actually helped us grow closer as a couple but personally I don't know if I could keep that up for years on end. I truly respect those who do long distance for several years.
It's not easy at first,I have been away for 1 and half years now from my boyfriend but the love is growing stronger everyday, 6 months remaining to go back home.
so who's here after the coronavirus quarantine started? 😢
Yup. I miss my SO.
yup
@@tseries6622 yes
mhm
Sucks soooo much
I failed twice in LDR. Even still, there were good memories, and they were good partners who taught me many great things in life. If anyone who is in one I wish them the best, either to have things work out, or learn from them.
I am in one it's a challenge even tho it's kinda on and off i am still holding on
@@Kim88581 good luck 🙏
i'm currently in long distance relationship for about a year, first we were hectic and often jumped to conclusions but now we're stable. we call every single day for 4+ hours. I know it's a little bit too much and may backfire but it just suits us well. When we get bored of the same lifestyle we calmly tell each other that we're starting to get bored and take phone call breaks for a day or two, it works!
And my advice is let your partner know that you're not cheating by telling them first about your day or schedule before your partner asks about it. Asking each and everytime is tiring for your partner and makes them think that they're being annoying and starts hiding their insecurities, this breaks down the calm relationship and stirs fights. Cheers!
PS: my GF is not the same nationality as me :) If you need advice on this point ask me about it.
That's what I did yesterday asked my bfs schedule so I'd know when I can chat with him and call him. Got him an birthday present yesterday and he was so extra cute about it I loved it. Such an handsome sweet Argentinian man. Freaking love him so much. Haven't felt like this in years.
@@MangoPop OMG your bf was born on 13th august? if so what a coincidence my GF was also born on 13th August!
@@EverLastingLov Leo gang 😂
So guys my boo is 3yrs older than me and yes we're in LDR, I really love her so much and surely I wanna marry her one day♥️ i just need blessings from everyone. 😇♥️
So sweet
KingAmorProductions Imvu awh ship
@@StarMadeSwervo I'm 12 and my boyfriend is 15, online relationship :)
I wish all of us good luck!! I'm also in a LDR. We all know we want to marry our partner one day.
Lots of love from India Bhai❣️
Honestly, going long distance made our relationship way stronger and healthier than it was before. Now we’re getting married in a little over a month ❤️
So ive been dating an exchange student for about 7 months and she has to go back to Mexico (i live in the USA) in 2 days i feel crushed because the covid virus made the return unexpected I really love this girl and you give me hope that mabey we could end up together forever.
little_pappa junior I’m so sorry to hear that! Just remember the harder the goodbye, the better your reunion will be!
Thank you for that. I’m so scared for this transition and that made me happy to hear.
Chloe Nepinsky it’s honestly really hard but look as it as an opportunity to get better for each other
congrats
One thing I do with my partner is ALWAYS say good morning and good night. If we haven't talked the whole day, it gives us a chance to do so, and it also serves as reassurance to each other.
You sound like such a keeper❤
I am in a long distance relationship for over 9months now, I do happen to be 13 and in my first relationship. We are lucky enough to be in the same time zones and we get to see each other every month, of course it’s difficult at times but it really lets you get to know the person you’re with and how they act in a relationship:>
aww that's lovely. me and my boyfriend are almost at 5 months of dating! even though he only lives 3 hours away, we aren't able to visit each other. Cherish those times you get to visit your partner.
I am in a LDR and gotta say that this is very important. Especially about the balance between quantity and quality of talks. This is sometimes hard to accept, when you want to be in thouch with that person all the time and have nothing to talk about, but it's worth the effort.
Agatha what does LDR mean?
NoCopyright Mix
It stands for Long Distance Relationship
I feel you sometimes I felt like we were saying the same things everyday “how was your day?” Blabla and I was afraid that he was bored about it too, long distance relationships are hard but if you truly love them I guess it’s worth it.
Maude Jourdain you're right
I agree u with this, most of the time you wanted to talk so much with things but ended up thinking your partner not interested at all too.
Me and my current girlfriend honestly can't stop talking to each other lol. Like we thought the same about getting burnt out but even when we have nothing to say on a call it's just nice having someone there. Plus we watch tons of videos and work on stuff together sharing hobbies etc.
Call me Toast Yeah exactly me and my BF is the same... Some days we won't have the most interesting conversations, but I also just like having him there, it kinda feels like when I'm at home and we're sitting in the living room doing each our thing... And watching series together is so fun, we're anime fans so a lot of stuff to see😁😁
I gotta say, I appreciate this comment thread. It's the same with my boyfriend. We're artists and sometimes we even work on our art deadlines on call, silently encouraging each other, going through the work together. That's only one example. I think it's soooo important to be able to feel comfortable in each other's silent company. It kinda gives a sense that you're naturally in sync. It's comforting.
Great addition! Definitely, being able to share normal quiet time is also important to developing a sense of trust and normality.
That's really cool that that works for you guys! me and my boyfriend tried calling whilst working and doing other stuff but it just ended up with neither activity being done as well as if we had separated time to work and THEN time to talk
Same. We even play games over Skype like memory. It seems cheesy but it makes things even more fun 🌸
In a long distant relationship and it’s six months today... it’s about the love and company... it’s difficult but fun☺️☺️🖤
I totally agree to those tips. I have a very fresh long distance relationship (germany / USA) for 9 months now. With this relationship i noticed many things i didn't realise about me. You have reflect yourself constantly and its hard to not overthink all the time especially to avoiding toxic behaving patterns. Even when it's hard we make the best out of it. And YES: I never felt so close to someone. FOR ALL OF YOU: good luck and enjoy life and love wherever it falls. "happiness is a choice!"
my girlfriend is in Minnesota and i’m in California but we broke ass college students somehow manage to see each other every few months. seeing everyone else’s replies on here really makes me feel like i have it easy. LDR is truly a beautiful thing bc it makes you appreciate every moment you have together.
ayee i’m in mn and my gf is in florida
I am in a long distance relationship we have been talking a year,he stays in england,and u stay in the United states,we met on Facebook.
I’m in Mississippi and my girlfriend is in Texas, we both work but somehow have managed to see each other every 3 months so far and have made it a promise to keep doing that. The promise of seeing each other every 3 months helps a lot
Im gonna see her again next 1 year and 8 months😐 but damn we have a strong bond😍
Ah, if only it was that nice. I moved to New York just recently and she lives in chile, so like, a 10 hour plane flight. I plan on going back for at most a month in the summer to visit, but idk how I'm going to do it. I really dont believe it will work out
I'm not even in a relationship, but I just really enjoy watching psyche2go videos. I don't know why 😅.
Thanks haha! We're really flattered and proud :')
typical like me
Same
lol same 😂😂
STAY STRONG, IT WILL BE BEAUTIFUL ❤️
-2022
LDR with her is one of the best thing ever happened to me 🥰
I just started long distance and I’m quite nervous and a little down about it- I just can’t imagine not having him by my side every day at school. Thank you for this. 💞
I have a boyfriend in Oklahoma.
I live in Texas.
*_ROAD TRIP_*
graphic organizer :0!! i have a girlfriend in north carolina
i live in o k l a h o m a
*_ALSO ROAD TRIP_*
ven i have a boyfriend in North Carolina and I live in California.
*H E L L A R O A D T R I P*
Isabelle Gonzales I have a girlfriend in Arizona and I live in Louisiana
*MIGHTY ROAD TRIP*
I'm in georgia, my baby lives in alabama, and she is gonna be gone all summer, and can't FaceTime or call at night anymore. I know I'm gonna miss my best friend, but we've got our own activities, like playing chess online, and friendo! Its 78 days till she's home, but she does a show in Atlanta, in 61 days, so I'll see her soon!
I live in Texas , my boyfriend lives in Korea. 😭
Never thought I would meet someone so far away- and won’t lie it could be as long as 3 years till we meet but- it’s been a bit over 6 months and man I love her so much. It’s so hard being so far from people who mean so much to you :(
That’s literally me with my man😭💕
Yeah it's true, I can say LDR makes relationships even more stronger.. We can experience each other everytime during chatting, in dreams everywhere and hope of meeting makes it more special
Whats the update
lmao I'm in the same situation, we've made a bucket list for when we meet :)), can't wait for the day I won't need a phone to tell him gm and gn :")
that's me with my girl
I think, effort is something that I’ve always wanted to do when it comes to Relationships. And I guess through this LDR, I am doing that. It’s challenging but worthwhile.
Stay stong mmaght your not alone 👐😁
Been doing it for 5years in a 15 years relationship and I must say its the hardest thing I have ever done in my life ,I must say communication is the most important thing in long distance relationship .and remind yourself of happy times.
I cant express how true "EFFORT" is... Im going 7 years strong! LDR DO WORK!
But ldr till how long? I'm in an ldr and idk if he's planning to ever shift cities or anything :( so I'm not sure if all this effort is going to lead to anything :(
I was and now married to my long distance relationship 😃 It can be daunting especially if your not from the same country.
The most important thing is you need to decide what are the most important values for you and your partner, ie job over health care.
Noelle Watts congrats for making it that far
Congrats! I have to wait another year for my man to come to Canada :) it would be 3 years of long distance.
Noelle Watts congratulations ^^
Noelle Watts 👍could give advice, i am now in a LDR relationships we are acquainted for more than a year, including our six months as a couple, it's very hard for me sometimes that she we are miles apart and couldn't even see her even video calling but our texting is constant every day, I've drawn everything encluding my soul because I love her, how will I know if she is true to me, we both a child and we accepted it, she is a military assign at war but on our conversation she promised me to leave her work soon she finish her contract with the Untied Nation.. What do I do,
He is in Tanzania and I’m in Canada. His values when we talk is family and his health but his actions speak differently. He is constantly working. No time for church or family and me . He says he loves me very much . I’m becoming lonely after 11 months and 3 tries of getting him a visa .
He needs to prove to the government he has money for the travel, that he has a reason to go back to his home country ( his job or child or ill parents)
He should have a clean criminal record,
My guy was refused visa because he had never been outside his country his bank statements were not showing enough savings despite that I wrote that I will pay for his flight and accommodation.
1- personal gift memorable
2-learn about each other routine
Know about his schedules
3-build trust not get conclusions soon
4-focus on quality not quantity
5-make time to see each other
5.1- do fun activities
6- embrace the challenges together
7-
I've been in a LDR like 2 weeks ago I believe, and I've had these problems also, like the jealousy and the jumping to conclusions while I'm at school, stressing, worrying about how will relationship last. Thankfully, I thought of if there's was a way and I found this video. From now on I'll do the opposite and keep me and my boyfriend's balance perfectly.
I have been in the relationship for 4 years and we haven't still met 😅...but he is coming after 1 month and I am so excited to see him for the first time 😍
keshika thapa how was it?
How was it? 😍😍
keshika thapa same 🥺 we are in a long distance relationship and we haven't met since 2 years but now we are fighting a lot and i don't know what to fo ? 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
All the best
He is from where??
I’m in LDR for 9 years. It’s so hard bc I miss him a lot!
That's so long. Consider of getting married?
aua, 9 years, how do you survive, whats keeping you guys apart for so long?
Do u see them sometimes ?
9 years?!? Man i couldnt do it imma be honest
I dont think 9 years is good tbh tho you and or the other person see each other?
ayooo regular reassurance is kinda helpful, and motivates the other to hold on and know that their loved ones aren't getting bored or loosing interest of any sort.
Thanks for this video! My first relationship is a long distance one, so watching this helped me identify mistakes I was making! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
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I am in a long distance relationship for nearly 3 years now. We live in different countries and can't visit each other so easily. Last time I could visit him was 2 years ago. But I trust him and we are looking forward to be together some day in the future :)
風蘭 (Fulan) which countries are you living ? I admire you, I've been in a LDR for about 15 months and I am getting tired, how do you do it ? :(
hey lizzie don't ever give up on him by saying you're tried
Best wishes 😊👍
I met a man that's is so wonderful but we were talking it was true love fist we chat we spoken abut how we feel then he send video dirtiest video do u think we must go on with the relish ship I told him how I feel he said it OK he said he sorry I said I for give him because o love him that he's my world my life but he send a gain video so I not shore what must I do I am from East London he s over sea
I wish you two the best.
I am currently in a long distance relationship and it is been over 8 months. I am studying at university in U.K. and my boyfriend is still in Lithuania studying. It is very hard to stay strong and go through my day knowing that he is very far away. I am trying to think positive and tell myself that it is going to be only a few years but is hard. We see each other rarely but for two weeks or more and still, it is not enough because up till now I saw him only two times. We love each other very much and we talk every day, we play games and watch movies or shows together at the same time while talking on Skype. We exchange pictures from time to time and most of them are silly ones :D To everyone that is going through long distance relationship, I can say that communication and honesty is a key as well as trusting one another and doing things together. Sometimes it may feel that the distance is not even there.
Thank you. I'm basically in the same scenario for about 5 months now and will be for at least 2 years. I try to keep positive and stay focused knowing that the struggle is only temporary and it will be worth it when we get back to each other. I wish you all the best of luck!
Skaistė Pėstininkaitė I've been in one for two years and I've never met him irl. We plan to see each other next year and then spend two or three more years apart while he does the PhD and i my masters. But I don't care, we spend every day together and we love each other so much we'd wait for the other as long as it's necessary.
You've seen him twice in just a few months.. consider yourself lucky :) your distance could have been way bigger
Thank you for your reply. I know that I am lucky to see him but next year will be way harder and I will try to survive but we might not see each other for a whole year. We both are going to have a hard year and some of my decisions will be very important and I still do not know what I am going to do. Also, I am afraid that I might lose him over my emotions and constant sadness. I am trying to not show him but he always notices if I am sad. But the thing is that I am only like this when we are apart when we are together I am always happy and smiling. So I just hope I am not going to lose him over my emotions and stupidity..
Thank you, and sorry for long reply. I wish you all the best too!
Skaistė Pėstininkaitė g
I’m in a LDR the first year was the hardest one but it’s getting easier after .Just open communication,trust and honesty is the main key for LDR.❤
I was in a long term relationship for a year. It ended. When we moved in together 🥰 honestly learning to live together, and me moving in with him and away from all I knew, has been harder than long distance for me. Long distance was easy for us, we met gaming and games every day. Even if not on the same game. Our immense communication skills really made it a breeze. Never went to bed upset with each other. We also understand each other's need for some space and alone time sometimes, and we will just ask if the other needs that if we aren't sure. If we aren't sure about our own feelings or what to say we will take the time to think about them before we answer. Communication really is the key to a healthy relationship. No one can read minds. You both should also be in tune with your own emotions and not let them drive disagreements. I can proudly say we have never fought. Disagreed yes but never fought. No raised voices in our house. (Save for at video games 😂)
He was the one who helped me restoring back my ex 3 days ago without delay 🌹🌹
Whatsaap him"**
Yes
Daily conversation or phone calls along with sharing about the day we had really makes relationships stronger and healthier 😊
Been there, done that. Didnt work out too well..
my boyfriend and i talk daily and it feels good because it feels like we’re there together and talking about our day makes us feel closer! Almost like there’s no distance at all :)
Still hard not being there physically though, but I definitely agree
I've been in a really long distance relationship for over 4 years now and we are finally moving together in less than 2 months! My tip would be keep making plans together for when you'll be seeing each other, taking into consideration which date works the best for both of you. Life happens, specially when you have a job or you study, it's OK if you can't see each other in 4 months, just set a date to hold on to. And one more thing, think about when the distance will be over, decide where will you live, think when you roughly want it to happen. Going with the flow doesn't really work in this kind of relationships!
U living together? And how did that work out by moving to other countrys
fromtheinsidex man you just gave me hope
It must feel amazing to finally move in with her! I've been in a long distance relationship for over 2 and a half year and we were together before she left but finally seeing her again in my only dream! Hope everything is going amazing
i m also in a long distance relationship..😊
Yesterday my girlfriend went back to her country. We have been together for 1 and a half years. We love each other very much and willing to do whatever to make our relationships works ♥️ 🌍 ✈️
this is really helpful. me and my boyfriend had to go through LDR because I'm continuing my studies far from him. I can feel it that we already grow distance but I really love him and our relationship so here I am trying to make sure I lose the guy that I love. I know it can be so hard going through LDR but trust me if you give a lot of efforts and never give up to maintain the relationship, it's going to be worth it in the end
I was about to study, but this video caught my attention. My princess, she lives 12,795 km away from me. We have been dating since 4/16/2020 I didn't expect my first relationship would be a long-distance I give her to her every day of every second, I'm planning to meet her within 3 years I hope she can wait for me. My birthday is coming up so I made a video for her to show her how much I love her can't wait to see her reactions. I will try to hold on to my partner no matter what happens
💪💗💖
I'm happy for you. Good luck
I’ll be waiting for the video brother good will have blessed you
@@jcoolguy1548 Thank you so much
@@japan6111 I already had the video posted but it's in private, if you're interested I will give you the link.
Ringo Nguyen let me see that
I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for a year and we're doing great! it makes our relationship stronger, the hard part is that you have to explain to your family and friends about the relationship ^^;
Twist pop mhm and it’s especially hard when they don’t agree with it and tell you that it’s not gonna work out
@@ludem. right!
Omegamw I'm waiting for that moment....
I’m in a 4 yr relationship n we’ve been long distance for the past year or so. Truly the best thing we could have done for ourselves. We each had our own issues to work on. The way we communicate is better than ever. I also had a very unhealthy attachment to him that led to ugly jealous episodes.. I don’t get like that anymore.. i was resistant at first but it saved us I think
I am in a LDR right now, and it's all about communication. If you talk to each other and trust each other, everything is possible.
I ruined the best relationship I ever had (LDR) because we communicated too much. The tip on texting longer, more quality filled messages rather than short ones every minute is spot on.
I'm currently in a long distance relationship, and my bf plan on visiting in July after 11 months. The journey so far has been tough, exciting, and, well a bit challenging.
Nothing good comes easy, and so its worth waiting for. And to those who are in a LDR please don't give up, hold on to your feelings and you won't regret it for as long as you are both trying. Xxx
Thank you for giving me hope :)
are you guys still together,
0:25 It all boils to one word effort
0:35 Give them a personal gift
0:55 Schedule
1:35 Trust
2:10 Quality communication
2:50 Make time to see each other
3:30 Embrace the challeges together
3:50 Long distance is temporary
4:05 Common misconception: In order for things to work I need to sacrifice my needs and desires for my partner/don't forget the bigger picture, why you've stayed with your partner for this long
I only saw them in person a few times before i ever realized i loved them. I’ve sent them a few art peices and things i’ve made for them and i hope they cherish them as much as i cherish the letters i have, and the small stuffed animal i have from them as a gift.
I miss them so much and i hope to see them soon to give them love 💖
Bro literally every couple has a LDRS now in 2020
I love seeing these couples who claim to be in a LDR because of the quarantine- I'm already in a long distance relationship (nothing happened at all to my relationship lol) so it's really funny to see all these people and just go "this your first time?"
callme booboo nah.. it’s not long distance
bro my boyfriend is 4k miles away. y’all being an hour away ain’t long distance. pick a struggle.
@@swaggyghoulies2690 mine is 3hrs away
👁👄👁 Me with a partner who lives in England and me in America.
18 months, I'm in high school and her parents are strict. Her parents don't wanna take the risk, but imma boutta break into her house and sneak her out at this point, she said she's down 😂
Nice lol. Good luck
Update bro !!
Lol
@@auri6957 she was cheating on me 😑
@@boxmeme8010 this girl just really broke my heart yesterday she was my first ever girlfriend, I did so fucking much for her and she did a break up prank on me, I did one to her to get her back she ended it....
Always avoided LDRs because I couldn't imagine staying away from my SO. But then I met the most amazing human being online. Even if he is in a different country, I want to try to make it work ❤️ It's hard but hopefully we become so great while apart that being together will be breeze when it finally happens
Update, he ghosted me
Im in a long distance relationship and she’s without a doubt the love of my life. Relationships I’ve had in the past just don’t compare to the feelings of love that we have for one another. She may doubt when i tell her that she’s the most beautiful thing ive ever seen but i swear its true. The emotions i feel just from seeing her face are unlike anything I’ve ever felt about anyone. I find her to be perfect and i would fight for us to be together no matter what the distance is or who’s between us.. i choose her out of the entire world and distance is nothing when you feel this way about someone. I love you Debbie!
I am currently having a relationship with a girl from Germany and I live in Belgium. She is so lovely and worth every effort to see her. For us it's the little things that matter while still respecting eachother. We don't stalk eachother but we have meaningful, fun and lovely conversations. We even meet up in the middle and we even try to teach eachother our culture and language which is always fun. Sometimes it gets hard but we realize the thing that makes it hard is not being with eachother. We love eachother and we keep fighting for this to work and things are going steady as it is now.
This video truly made me smile and I sent it to my girlfriend 😁
Woah! Thats so cool man! How is it going now? :)
Watching this vid and reading the comment section cheers me up, I think I'll be able to handle LDR better than before
Thanks guys
Edit: And stay strong guys to those who have LDR other than me
I met mine by gaming too lmao
@@calpicobaby139 lol same
yES! this video is too accurate! my boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 years now, and we've only met literally twice in person for a week each! talking it out and communicating is the key guys! it always is to every relationship.
You so strong
Your so lucky you even get to meet him
Im currently on a long distance relationship, we're both soon off for college and where going to different school, and honestly this is my first time having LDR, so thank you for this amazing vid on the 6 tips for LDR.
Are you guys still together?
I adore my girlfriend. The quarantine has thrown us into a long distance relationship. But we’ll be together soon, sweetheart! I love you!
this is so pure. as a man in a ldr, what do you usually talk about with your partner?
I'm in a long distance relationship. We are celebrating our eighth month this December. I'm gonna meet him next year. Super excited!❤️
I'm the same with you! But I'm not sure when we can meet because of the pandemic
@@user-pc7hf6ri5l Let us hope for the best next year. Good luck!❤️
I just got this recommended when my best friend is about to go out of state for college. This really helped make me feel a little bit more prepared.
I'm in a long distance relationship,he's from France and I'm from India, we talk to each other every evening, like video calls and stuff and talk about how our
day went.. it's a magical world when two people talk ❤..and nothing can break us apart 🥰
"Take a step back and think about why you held on for so long in the first place." 🙏
If you love each other, distance is not the reason for you to break up. Me and my boyfriend, are in a long distance, I mean not that really far, but during this pandemic, we can't see each other.. So we just chat everyday, and I can tell ya I really miss him like hell. Chats or calls are not enough for us. But even how much we missed each other, we can't do anything about it.
And I told him that if how long this will lasts, there's nothing gonna change how I truly love him, even we're apart, I will stay consistent no matter what.
Long distance in a relationship is a challenge. This will truly show how powerful your love is. Even the both of you are from the different world apart, if you love that person, he/she will stay in your heart forever.
I’m currently in a long distance relationship with a person that’s in another state and he have told me he would be very occupied in training and studying. Sometimes we don’t talk much and other times he wouldn’t respond to some of the messages I send him. I know he’s very occupied because he said he was going to be, but now he doesn’t even say “good morning” or “goodnight” and I do feel kind of sad because of that ‘cause I feel that in just bothering him :(
I’ll try to give him more space now because maybe he feels forced to respond to some of my messages, but also he sometimes doesn’t send me any. The next time we’ll talk by phone, I’ll tell him how I feel and ask him how he feels so we can both try to come up with a solution to make our relationship work. Tanks a lot! This video has help me a lot with my insecurities about my LDR
I'm in Long distance relationship and anxiety is killing me every single day... :(
Don't worry it's okay!Keep strong!I understand!
I feel the pain :(
アンキーNightcore Feels stay strong, it'll be fine
I hope you have been able to work through the anxiety of your LDR 🌺🌞🌻✨
I know the feeling...!! but knowing Gods plan for you in relationship is the only thing to hold unto ...am currently on it....before and after marriage!! And will love to share my expirence soon!!!