Your right about people sugar coating it. People may think you are being negative when you say that but once the holiday feeling is gone, and you realise there isnât really that much to do there on a day to day basis you struggle to keep your Western mind satisfied and busy with interesting things to do. In other words it can get a bit boring. đ
@@ezyfinda for me the Philippines will make a perfect six months per year vacation mode part of my retirement but after looking very closely and experiencing a hell of a lot there I am honest enough with myself to accept full-time living there would not suit me. That may change in the future, but thatâs how I feel now but 20 years to make a final decision. The jury is out. Things like the healthcare concern me to be honest.
Most foreigners. Most. Not all. But most come to the Philippines for the cheap cost of living. Iâm from the states and it is cheaper. But. Itâs different. Very very different. I live here now and if I canât handle it. Iâll leave. Just like Iâd tell a phillipino to leave the states if he couldnât handle it.
Your holding out for reconciliation when most men would have left by now that says a lot about your determination but guys 1 year of no speaking is not healthy and John, you must feel deflated after building your dream home. A home is meant to be a sanctuary for all who live in it. Praying for you all that you find love and peace for the blessings of finding one another and building a home that most Filipinas will never experience. Life is for living. Donât let the devil in. God bless you both.
There is the danger of slowly going crazy being so enmeshed in the chaos. It might be an idea to get away for a while so you can look at the spider's web in a different light.
This can happen to old men who think these young ladies love themđź I say hit it and quit itđ no shame in that game. My wife never worked she stayed at home to raise our children. Never had big money but was happy to raise our children together. Nowadays the world is up side downđź
sorry ,bud...america is a great nation with problems like every other country but full of wonderful, high-integrity and hard-working young adults ... speak NOT of what you know nothing
Your right about people sugar coating it. People may think you are being negative when you say that but once the holiday feeling is gone, and you realise there isnât really that much to do there on a day to day basis you struggle to keep your Western mind satisfied and busy with interesting things to do. In other words it can get a bit boring. đ
Well those that find themselves in that position, clearly didn't think out the planning
@@ezyfinda for me the Philippines will make a perfect six months per year vacation mode part of my retirement but after looking very closely and experiencing a hell of a lot there I am honest enough with myself to accept full-time living there would not suit me. That may change in the future, but thatâs how I feel now but 20 years to make a final decision. The jury is out.
Things like the healthcare concern me to be honest.
@Philippines-Anthony-Sandra an important issue that some just dismiss but it can't be overlooked for sure đ€đ€â„ïž
Most foreigners. Most. Not all. But most come to the Philippines for the cheap cost of living. Iâm from the states and it is cheaper. But. Itâs different. Very very different. I live here now and if I canât handle it. Iâll leave. Just like Iâd tell a phillipino to leave the states if he couldnât handle it.
Your holding out for reconciliation when most men would have left by now that says a lot about your determination but guys 1 year of no speaking is not healthy and John, you must feel deflated after building your dream home. A home is meant to be a sanctuary for all who live in it. Praying for you all that you find love and peace for the blessings of finding one another and building a home that most Filipinas will never experience.
Life is for living. Donât let the devil in.
God bless you both.
We'll find out ways it's just perseverance and determination, and yes still working each day on the house new shop area is almost completedđ€â„ïž
There is the danger of slowly going crazy being so enmeshed in the chaos. It might be an idea to get away for a while so you can look at the spider's web in a different light.
Have thought of that but for Filipina many perceive that as abandonment regardless
She has got what she wants from you đźnow you are surplus to requirements she wants you gone đźto move in her newer model đź
That's of course a possible scenario, do you think that's how you would reason it if it were your shoes maybe đ€
I honestly don't know how I would feel đ but it's mental torture and childish behaviour,you don't deserve to be treat this way đȘ
@erichawley378 that's ok just thought I'd turn it around and see your answerđ€đ€â„ïž
This can happen to old men who think these young ladies love themđź I say hit it and quit itđ no shame in that game. My wife never worked she stayed at home to raise our children. Never had big money but was happy to raise our children together. Nowadays the world is up side downđź
sorry ,bud...america is a great nation with problems like every other country but full of wonderful, high-integrity and hard-working young adults ... speak NOT of what you know nothing
Sounds more like the blind trying to.lead the blind more likeđ€Ł