6-year-old battles tears to master table tennis in China
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A six-year-old girl in eastern China’s Shandong province has inspired many with her determination to master table tennis. She has become an online star after the training school shared clips of her sessions online. After training for a year, she won in her age group at her first official competition.
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When sports were invented, the idea was to have fun. We need to remember that.
That was before money came onto the scene and winning at all cost became a theme.
@@tunjiodu1541 factss
Yes,but if you want to be the top of a professional competition, play for fun totally not enough.
@@peacelover2008 true, and i bet the commenter country above hasnt even earned medals in olympic
Then people created "Professional Sports" and adding "Professional" to anything is to forget fun and just be merciless in doing doing it.
6 yo girl: *want to be a pro*
Me when I was 6: HeLlO i WaNt To Be A pRiNcEsS bEcAuSe Im PrEtTy So I wIlL bE a PrInCeSs
Lolll
💀💀
It not "i want to be a pro" but "i have to be a pro because mh parents told me too"
@@syamil3338 Racists joke
😂😂😂
“If you can’t keep your composure step aside” said an adult to a 6 year old. Poor girl
They don't raise weak children like the Americans. They understand that nature, reality, and life will tell you the same thing; that if you can't keep your composure, step aside.
it's training. it's better to train her mentally at a young age as well.
I felt bad and I am asian too
I feel bad if my coach don't train me hard
I've noticed Japanese people do this to their kids too.. their kids cry and they laugh at them.
She is such a champion.
Feeling like to hug her tightly 🥺
This little angel gonna bring loads of gold
At this age, I was eating sand.
lol this deserve more likes
Underrated comment
I was eating grass.
I was eating ants.
I was eating... food
If this was an anime she'd be the prodigy who has been playing since childhood who lost to the main character with a month's worth of training.
Ahahaha trueee
So trueeee
Then they become best friends
Then she and the main character will become rival and friends
You got it now if you really want to wait for 3 years okay? :V im 10
😢so adorable and competitive, in that very moment her mindset improved to a higher level, she will become great athlete ..
I don’t like the way the coach talked to her, but I think she will look back and be proud of what she achieved as a small child. Some kids do get happiness from competition. I experienced a lot of frustration and emotional outbursts learning to play the violin, but I also gained a lot of self esteem when I would win competitions over my peers or get into advanced orchestras. There is pain in the short term but long term confidence and pride.
Nobody cares how many medals do you have in Olympics 😂
@@rahulphougat1758 You’re not wrong. Not everyone will care about your achievements, but there _are_ those that will acknowledge how far you’ve come, especially yourself. As long as you know you’ve achieved smth thats all that matters, not everyone has to know what you’ve done.
@@rahulphougat1758 its a cool thing to have and a testament to you being the best version of yourself at least in that field
@@rahulphougat1758 Actually, "I don't care how many medals you have in Olympics."
Speak for yourself please, some of us care.
@@rahulphougat1758 yes however it is up to oneself on how they instill value on their achievements
See? That's why you should never said anything like "he's really blessed with all the talent, he's a genius. Why wasn't I gifted with such talents?"
Talent only makes up for the headstart, only about 5% of the whole journey. The rest is filled with hardwork. It's a road filled with blood, sweat, and *tears.*
That's why we appreciate and should take Chinese hard work as example.
Preach 💪
Not exactly, many fields of work such as engineering, computing, dentistry, and surgery require genetic factors to be favourable. A n above average IQ, EQ, and motor skills are needed for such jobs, the first two highly depending on one's genetic makeup.
hooray for growth mindsets over fixed mindsets right?
Unless you're genetically built like Lebron James
6 years old she: Master table tennis
6 years old me: Pour drink on the cap and drink it as if it was a shot 😂
I-😂😂😂😂
6 year old me: presses nails against the itchy bump to make the letter X
6 year old you is 12 year old me 👀
Lol 😁
yooo i still do that as a 15 year old LOL
What a beautiful and gifted girl. I feel awful seeing her cry. She is already a champion in my eyes.
Irony how some people think this is forced manipulation when it comes to China
Yet every athlete who accomplish great heights always start at a young age be it America, Europe or any other part of the world
From what I can see she is an extremely determined kid
It's just the narrative manipulating your mindset folks
No, here in France it is not the case, for instance Teddy Rinner started judo quite late and he is olympic and word champion. We have plenty of exemple like that
Meanwhile in merica kids are suing teachers for being offensive.
Now i know, it is depending on parent's education ._.
Her coach is rude
@@jju4820 Coach may be 'rude' ... but nowhere can you find this kind of Determination in other Cultures; not Filipino, not even from Hong Kong People, and especially in Western Cultures. It is this that brings Chinese together, as in a Family as in a Society and as in a Civilization. In other words, she will know what she wants and from who to get it from because in China there are 8 million graduates every year .... This excludes those from Vocational Institutes and Polytechnics .. etc. Otherwise "when the wind blow, he or she gets blown away also".
@@esp4yu not nowhere its just most has no determination but some has
Let’s hope she doesnt support CCP
Meanwhile indian parents- 'YoU cAn bE Whatever yOu Want IF ItS Doctor or Engineer'
😂😂🤣🤣 lol , thats so true ...
Those were my choices back in the day
L lol it’s the same with Latino parents too. They are like u have to be this soooo u can take care of me when I get old.
Wow soo many options 😲
Asian mom: You have to play the piano very well and practice for 3 hours a day.
In the future the kid: I will become a...
Mom: Doctor
Kid: What were the practices for?
Her childhood is more precious than any trophy, cup, game or medal.
You can try to have both
Not really.
spoken like a true loser
I was sad to see her cry at first but the result made me so happy. Hardwork and dedication is the key to success.
I know Olympic is a great achievement but cherishing ur childhood is something that no medal on Earth can replace or substitute that way of life.
@nebula I can see her more crying anyway u v not got my point
@Harshid P maybe for ur society but not in myn . There is no any stereotype in any field in myn only objectives
@Harshid P may b in hindu culture
@@kulmodi5434 There are 24 hours in a day she has time for other fun things too. I would love if my parents had put me in something as a kid it's easier to master things as a kid and I probably would of had something to put on my resume.
@@kulmodi5434 lol talk about stereotypes, I bet you believe that blacks asians and mexicans mistreat their children, how brilliant 👏 clap that up for young KUL MODI whos a 5 yr old on their moms iPad👌🏾😭
Shes training so hard so shes crying of course. A kid is still a kid
She should be out in the yard playing with other kids and enjoying her childhood.
she is a proof of Human Potential.
@@thinktank6974 who's to say, this isn't what makes her as equally as happy as a kid playing in the back yard?
@Mana Wata probably not.
Her parents put her up to that
@Mana Wata i did watch it
She is a true inspiration for all youngsters . Appreciation to her parents also for their tireless support n encouragement
Her parents were giving her the support she needed. She's so cute. I hope she stays happy with whatever she does.
As long as this is something she genuinely wants to do and not being forced on her. I'm completely with it. Dry those eyes young champ
I totally agree. Kids have to be kids, and they cannot lose the beauty of being a child. This can have many catastrophous consequences I'm the future.
As an asian i'd like to kinda explain our culture a little bit.
I'd say its mix of forcing her and her genuinely wanting to do that.
As a young child you are still naive and you are easy to manipulate or influenced by ppl around you or by the environment, where you grow up.
The way her parents raised her and also the ppl and culture around her kinda forced her to grow up faster and aim high in life and work hard for it. They understand early on that life is hard and everything have to be achieved on your own. I genuinely believe that she is not literally forced to do that, but she feels a kind of responsibility to meet her parents expectations. You could say that she is being passively forced if that makes any sense to you.
However, whether it is forced upon her or not, i can guarantee that ppl like her, who had no childhood but in return achieved sth in life, will never regret or feel any remorse towards their parents. They look back on their hardships in their past with pride and heads held high. They are also thankful that their parents gave them so much attention and understand later on that everything their parents invested in them was for their own future. They will realise that every tear they shed wasn't wasted, every tear had their purpose and it paid off.
As i told you its also of their own free will. It is exactly because their parents give their all to their children (time, money, everything) that makes them wanting to meet their expectations and hopes (hope is more accurate). They mature very early and feel thankful for their parents and as such they don't want to waste their efforts. Most asians aren't rich and have to give up a lot for their children: new fancy clothes, shoes, traveling, hobbies, money, time etc. The children on the other hand aren't dumb as some might think. They realise very early without telling them that sth is wrong. Why are my parents never buying any fancy clothes? Why aren't they traveling? Why are my parents never going out or eating delecious food in restaurants from time to time? They count 1 and 1 together and realise that they just can't because of them and that drives them on to meet their expectations.
we all know she is forced
@@serafall7326Thanks for sharing that. ☺
Think she'd just wants to go play outside.....otherwise she will be smiling....too much push
After a decade. I'll see another video referencing this video with title.
"Remember the 6 year old crying. This is her now"
@sweet pie not yett 😂
Yupp. Lol
Or you never hear of her cause she's in recovery...🙁
Yep
@@nicolelee269 why what happened to her?
I've taught Chinese children and the pressure they receive from such a young age causes such stress and sadness from extra curricular activities.
I speak Mandarin and understand Chinese culture having worked in the Chinese community for 20 years.
Often I would ask my students do you like the extra classes you do and enjoy the subject and want to do it, 75% would say 'no' .
Social pressure to achieve for both adults and children causes so much distress. One Chinese adult friend said to me that they hate having to belong to this rat race but that they had to do it because they is what is expected and needed to get on in life. The fear of loosing face is a big thing.
Equally, Chinese people are so generous and kind. I've had countless experiences at the tables of Chinese families where great generosity and friendship has been shown, not just because I'm a westerner but just because they wanted to. I've had so many open conversations about all sorts of wonderful topics with great humanity, honesty and compassion.
Maybe this little girl loves ping pong, I don't know but the question I'd ask her with no judgement is 'Is this truly what you want to do?'
Much love to all of my wonderful Chinese friends 💜
You would ask a 6 year old about what they want to do. No wonder the west is losing 😂😂😂
Smiling after crying is a feeling that can't be expressed
Bless her heart, what a little gem. Her winning smile was like a rainbow after rain.
6 years old and she playing so amazing... im 25 Y.O. still cant play table tennis 😂
i thought this was how all kids train in china for sports, train till they cry and win based off fear for the Chinese government. so they dont take their parents to prison.
very nice simile
Love your comments,that was beautiful for you to say that.
paul w
Suicide happens
When nobody cares/support you. But the situation is different with this.girl
much better than kids begging their parent for some Fortnite skins
@@lilyheartfilia7744 lol Brainwashed? So.... working hard = Brainwashed?
@@lilyheartfilia7744 Ok..... but I dnt see playing computer games.... begging for in-game items better than doing sports, gaining 3 million followers , being healthy and learning discipline.
Sry for the Grammar.
LILY anne maybe you need to go back to school again if you think getting addicted to video game is ok while doing sports is being brainwashed.
@@lilyheartfilia7744 she wants to play table tennis, she wants to be a pro athelete. She has determination, and that is way better than playing video games.
Yehh
That 's why so many succesfull also talented sportman and sportwomen from there, they all working so hard since child to reach it ,awesome young girl
Many does not grasp how extremely almost impossibly hard to climb to the top in the world of table tennis.
Upwards of 2000 - 5000 kids compete for ONE spot on the national team in training camps across China. In order to get into those camps you need to be at least among the top players in local clubs across 23 provinces in China. There are at least hundreds of those local clubs in each provinces.
After being the top players in a club, you get a chance at one of those training camps. You need to compete with thousands of others for a chance at the national team. Let’s say you got that chance, there is no guarantee that you can ever represent China as you would need to consistently be in the top to play for China. Even when you are in the top, whom presumably are all from China, you need to be the best of the best of the best to even think about competing in the olympics or world championships.
If you are 1 in a million in China, there are exactly 1400 people just like you.
Don’t cry your hard work will give you the finest result. Be blessed, dear cheerful child. ❤
She is just 6 years old, all she needed was a hug and to be told its going to be okay. This was so difficult to watch
Success ain’t easy.
U never understand Asian Parent
Who knows if she's being hugged and comforted by her family? Her father seems supportive of her choices and it appears that it's her decision to learn the sports. Her coach may seem harsh but training is tough regardless of age, especially if she decides to become a professional player. Also, why are we seem to be too focused on her crying when there's a lot of moments in the video where she seems genuinely happy to be doing what she does?
oh shut up. yall are gone soft and weak from all the participation trophies and seems like you've forgotten what it takes to be a winner. specially in a third world country!
@@kenjimiao967 I don't want to understand something that is wrong
At age of 6 I was playing tennis with my chickens . Living in the farm was not that easy.
I am currently living in farm
The ball are not their eggs right????
@@Livetoeat171 pretty sure he was making a joke. Playing tennis with chickens is physically impossible.
@@Livetoeat171 Everyone have their own lives to face. Or would you like me to bring up how farm life is a cakewalk compared to tribal life in my country?
Playing around with chickens? Easy. Playing around with tigers? Not easy.
At my age of 6 I was still having my daily nap
She is brilliant ## That much of dedication at 6yrs of age is appreciable ##
She is so brave and has a big heart! A true champion!
6 yo girl: wants to be pro
6 yo me: playing rock paper scissor with my reflection on the mirror
It's all fun game till your reflection wins 😂😎
@@lcvlybean7603 bro imagine xD
Whattt😂
Did you win?
Can't even win a single match
My heart goes out to her. She shows strength in her inner spirit, perseverance and resilience. May she achieve her ambitions and dreams. Bless you.
@paul w So what?Still better than those western kids playing with their cellphone all day long.She is living a real life.
paul w I think she actually wants to play tennis though. And why did you say “Asian parents” like that?
Когда она плачет, ее нужно поддержать, обнять, сказать, что она будет лучшей, если будет упорно тренироваться. Поддержка очень важна для детей, не забывайте об этом.
She is really worth for this, such a hard working kid.
6 yo girl: is a table tennis champion
Me when I was 6: Dad , what's the spelling of TV??
😂lol
it‘s T V
TeeVee
😂😂😂
I-
I thought she cried because she felt discouraged when she couldn’t do some moves or something but it was actually because of the coach scolding her. I know it’s called tough love but I just don’t appreciate this type of it.
Edit: Thank you for all the comments, I’m actually Chinese myself, and sometimes it can be pretty tough, so I just hope this little girl gets more love
I thought she was crying because the coach is telling her "if you ever want to see your family again you will bring home gold medal!!!"
No one is looking for your appreciation
Well for example people who beat their kids all the time and say ‘oh it’s tough love and they want appreciation
Chinese people for you.
Neither do I
Childhood should be full of fun, love and happiness.
Lots of love and blessings from this uncle, my angel!! Live long - Live big!!
Her parents should definitely think about her emotional well being.
Please define emotional well being and how she lacks it.
@@DreadNawght have better self esteem to express her own likes and dislikes. Say no to things that makes her feel terrible and exhausting. Manage her behaviour by expressing her emotions in a better way using words.
Asian parents are strict
@@Earlysunshyn. thanks for describing the "me me me" culture. Works so well in the western world doesn't it?
@@rliy001
The west kinda have this thing against child exploitation.
Just looking at her cry is telling me that she is going to learn a valuable lesson: the first step to success is failure, and how she already learnt to deal with it and keep going like a true athlete: “see, adjust, and adapt.”
@@petepowaaa so negatif
@@petepowaaa Come rain first then you will enjoy a long lasting rainbow. Still better than kids spending hours on their finger exercise while laying on the couch.
@@petepowaaa
She enjoys playing this sport. At least you can't do anything to stop her. She followed her dreams and is already being successful.
You hear from me first, this kid will be the youngest gold medal winner in olympic table tennis.
Why no one talk about she's crying instead of tear of joy
In America, they would report that as child abuse
Depending on if the girl want to play or if it's just the parents forcing their will.
Right and pageant moms are not
There is a term called human rights. This is absolutely child abuse. Her childhood is being stolen from her. What would a 6 year old know about career?
@RadKat and how can you be so sure?
She takes 5 to 6 lessons a week. Its mentioned in the video.
Well this ain't America, its Asia, plus it's just hard work doing and putting in extra efforts, which you might not understand if you think this is child abuse. They are not physically abusing the kid nor are they saying mean stuff, and that is called discipline. At the end she was happy with what she has accomplished.
She’s so cute , hope she actually enjoys it and is not being forced to do it for her parents
well the crying shows it is forced... not to learn but to master. at a very young age adults are already deciding what the child should be. biggest mistake is if the child changes when she grows
@@JungKook-ij6dj I don't know about you... Can you recall when is the last time you cried as a kid for tried to do something or to achieved something, but couldn't? Crying doesn't mean being forced.... And, to not nurture a genius like her, and waste her talent.... That's abuse for me...
@@nurmusfirah5807 why cry? why not do it again to master...
@nin lat racist much?
Kim Jong Skillz No asian parents usually force their childs to achieve stuff for them. I’m also asian.
Kobe would love watching this kid work soo hard.❤️
happiness of winning overshadows the tears during struggles
She’s tougher then most of us! She’s a true champion already!
i thought this was how all kids train in china for sports, train till they cry and win based off fear for the Chinese government. so they dont take their parents to prison 😛
@@EternalResonance oh, really? I live in China and I have't trained ever, are my parents in prison now?
I have many friends who decided to be professional athletes, they trained very hard and they got into top universities. Nobody is pushing them, they are pushing themselves to be better.
@@WBPE I agree with u , don't listen to that guy, he's just referencing to stereotypical reasonings, hope u have a wonderful future🥰
@@cspersky it's destroying that girls childhood, she is doing it for her country and not for herself. We should not see her cry if she is doing it for herself because it is funm.
@@captainjohnmichaelkarlstei8182 my gosh..... Why is your world so small? Get out of the basement, and see people..
_Two cultures:_
*Discipline now, happiness later*
or
*Happiness now, discipline later*
*BOTH* are *OKAY* . Note: Results *VARY.*
My parents: Discipline now, happiness later
Me: TvT
My parents go both ways. They aren't Asian, but nor are they White (you get what I mean :^) they chill but when it comes to the world the stiffen me up.
I'm not Asian so I may be wrong, but don't Asians have this mindset for life in general? Or is it just during their childhood/adolescence?
@@annax9375 Which mindset are you asking about?
@@bluebee29 Being overachievers in general.
Just wow ..how much dedication she has at this age .. it's amazing ♥️♥️ just lov
I did tt for few yrs and believe me it's very tough to keep you hand in one particular position, posture....and doing same moments for hours......I would too cry becoz my shoulder pain...hats off to the girl doing it at such a young age....hats off to her dedication🙌🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏💜💜
I’m not from Asia, and it amazes that children have to go through this, the pressure of society to be the best, and this girl is 6 years old, at her age I was playing on my neighborhood with my friends clumsying around
What do you expect, it's state properganda 🤣
They are aiming for her to be a professional player. Parents in America that have those dreams for their kids are doing the same thing. Look at young figure skaters, gymnasts, tennis players, golfers, etc. in this country. Parents are reaming them out
@@DP-eo5xd I don't believe they have any aim for her to be professional.
@@HC-kn2sq did you even watch the video?
@@Bessskar i wouldn’t put a laughing emoji. Children suffering under state propaganda is anything but funny. We’re talking real human lives ruined here.
Can I hug her? Seeing her crying is just devastating
ohayyo it’s like studying
nah you cant theres a coronavirus outbreak i bet shes still safe going to their place is a dangerous trip lol
ohayyo right!😢
no , fbi is watching 🐸
@The Slap 😆u were supposed to say , " go away lolicon " 😆😆🐸
Respect their family also that they know what to do with her and the child is great she will definitely succeeded in future
Darling never give up. You are very strong 💪. This hard training will make you a star. Respect my dearest!
That is one strong kid. Respect! She has some real brains. She cried and kept going cuz she knew she was in charge not her feelings. That kid is truly 1 in a billion.
Lol
@@pitohoshohe2230 she was in charge n not her feelings ... 👏👏👏👏
This comment is dope and i needed this comment
LOL
Yess
So there must her and maybe 6 more in the world??
"We will support her"
One sentence from loved ones is a blessing.
"We will brainwash her"
More like shes being forced to learn rather her wanting to learn
@Rev0ke Agree to disagree. I prefer thinking the worse of people, because that is how people are more likely to be. As you said yourself there is zero proof to either of our opinions.
@Rev0ke because she's literally in tears...playing table tennis.
@Rev0ke it doesn't matter...its not healthy for a sport to make you that upset.
Feels like crying seeing this baby🥺
Tears is part of our lives and learning to overcome it with greater determination is the ticket to success.
I wanna give her a hug every time she cries ):
But no pain no gain tho, and her parents gave her the option if the wants to continue so it’s not like she was forced to do this.
Same... :((
Shame here ,because she is soo cute but tears didn't stop her
@Kopal Gupta yeah but when she grows older she will know more and stop playing when she wants to. Like I didn’t say she has to make the decision now at this age, but she always has the choice.
Talent level : Asian
Tears & Sweat level: Also Asian
Difficulty of training: Also Asian
She's Asian.
@@ryancrucena755 ya
@@ryancrucena755 I think that's the point
Obligation levels: asian
Then I am not an Asian even though I am an Asian.
who are here in 2022....this child is awesome..... she is my inspiration 🥰🥰🥰
Such dedication at a tender age
Hope she still gets to enjoy her childhood
Don't worry she Chinese its normall
Believe it or not, being an athlete is fun for her age, cause most of kids these days are contented with gadgets on their hands. And 5-6 sessions per week is forgiving. Usually it is 21 sessions (4hrs each) per week.
@@jhon.e4437 ok boomer
@@lordcommander1758 just because it's China doesn't mean it has to be normal. A kid is a kid. No matter what race or nationality he or she is. Please stop with the stereotypes.
@@ninectstay_ broo you cant hide the truth that this happens a lot I China it became normal . And chinese people are hard workers what can you do. That's life
See you at the Olympics podium with a gold medal kid.
Lots of love and hugs to this little daughter from...Ceylon 🇱🇰 !
❤❤❤
Mala ljepotica plače!!!Mora da je trener strog.Ahhhh vjerovatno ćeš mu za koju godinu biti zahvalna jer ćeš zahvaljujući njemu biti vrhunska sportistkinja!!!Izdrži mali anđele!!!❤
Please let children enjoy their childhood. There is enough to test us when we grow older. Parents these days want their children to achieve what they couldn't and it has become a competition among parents also to prove "our child is better than urs" kinda stuff
Agreed 👍
Trying our hardest to be better than others is a genetic pre-disposition that all of us have inherited.
If there was no competition in life, we'd all still be single celled organisms.
@@myaccountishacked6417 🤦🏻♀️
@@myaccountishacked6417 not BLM.
CHUP BADHWE
Woowww a true champ persistence, patience and determination is really the key to success🤗👍☝️👏👏👏
Literally me when my Asian mother took me to these classes as a kid. After some months, with how much I would cry during the sessions, she realised I don’t have it in me to be professionally passionate about the same thing as she and my dad are.
The reason behind the success of Chinese,
Dedication on different level
Respect.
Aur indians ko saalo ne tik tok pe lga diya🤣🤣🤣🤣
oppression on every level
@@rajneeshjaswal8688 wut
Dedication?!!!!
*obligation*
@@wombito5098 dedication to committment of personal choice and obligation that comes with it.
Terrible when you see him tell her to turn away if showing emotions. Having a tearful child like that, seriously there's lack of empathy. These kids can't even get a chance at being a kid.
It’s so normalized too which is part of the reason why the suicide rate there is so high in China and Japan
@@lotus3072 i dont think u did your research about suicide rate by countries
They are kids. They are being kids.
What’s a kid for you?
Clumsy, messy and undisciplined?
@Monique denton kids should be given opportunities to succeed at life, before any other thing.
@@dr.bendover-md Kids should be given the chance to be kids before they worry about working 24/7 on a dead end job. Teens and above in general deserve career opportunities in life, kids deserve an opportunity of a fun, safe life. Everyone should get their opportunity AT a life.
Look at that focus ! She is amazing 🌹
All my respect for the talent, but the little girl's face shows everything but happiness! Killing your childhood for achievement, sad.
When a 6 year old is more focused on her career than you
True
That's hurt. 😭😭😭😭
Well she is only six and at that age there is no way you know what your career is gonna be. It’s just the typical Asian parents making their kids join as many clubs or do as many sports rn.
when a 6 year old is more skilled than you
Crying is necessary, but after crying, get up carry on and finish it, the joy come after is better than anything
Unless you're one of the kids she beat for that trophy.
sometimes crying is unnecessary or maybe mostly all of the times, the best thing is just chill, be happy but don't be too excited, be sad but don't cry, i call that necessary
Well said young
In the west now everyone gets a medal.
Young C indeed
This beautiful babygirl should be laughing with her friends,playing and just being a little girl!! Angers me to see the way they work her,badger her,make her cry! Ping pong isn't the whole world!!
Ping pong is life
we all actually need a kind of determination in our lives to achieve something
when she was crying , i feel like i should hug her at that moment .
Yaa at least her teacher do that more encouraging i think
same 😭
Same to😄
Sorry no hugging - they train them to act like machines in China . Children are a commodity and not seen as humans
This is sad. I hope they treat her appropriately. Children and childhood is a delicate blessing.
It is not sad. Her parents are helping her to find her inner potentials. To make discipline part of her life. As hard as she practice she also will have a great childhood live. It is just not shown in this video. This is more focus on her determination at such a young age. Please know this is not something to be sad as it is how most asians raise their kid.
This is asian culture, this is how my parents teach me when i was a kid. Bcs of them, i wont be here standing where i am now
Culture of China，People don't live for themselves，
for your country, family, and finally for myself
Its simply called Kiasum :>
@@KS-wp7iz It is sad. Chances are she probably doesnt even want to be a table tennis player. Its also a terribly under paid sports. You are not going to make a lot of money with Table Tennis and chances of you being a top 10 player is close to nil. Its horrible enough she was tortured to this day. Its even worse when you know the future is bleak.
Master is king.without master nothing is possible in world.always respect guru n honour till ur last days
I won't be surprised if she bags gold medals in Olympic games in the future! All the best dear bravo cutie angel!
*She is physically 6 years,*
*But mentally she is more older.*
Too bad you arent
KiDD ViDD How mental do you have to be to just say that do a random person? Learn some respect.
@@Mike-lq4qu learn proper grammar
@@BOOGiNS It's not the matter,
The matter is what is he trying to say......
More bigger got me 😭
Is it her dedication that pushes her further? Or is it the pressure of adults and inhumane competition needs? She's being pushed more than a professional adult who dedicates 100% of their lives yo the sport. Why does a child need to cry like this to go forward?
China propaganda
Why not?
Exactly i was thinking the same
Becoz at the age of 6 no child would willingly push ownself for doing such hardwork....i think thats her parents and coaches who force her to do so
Un doubtely she is a future star but she should get her own space for achieving dreams
@@linatapotdar9509 As an Asian living with strict parents, when your parents knows what you want to do. They will work harder for money and help you achieve it. You really think that they would cancel the lessons, after paying for it? I don’t think you know how much lessons cost for a coach like this. This coach may be rough but, no pain no gain.
@@sukahh4300 it's a child. If it's *your* child, it should be more important than the money you paid for tennis lessons. A child wanting to try out tennis should not dictate her entire life's career and push hee through all of this so soon just because you value a bit of money more than your child.
it's hards to see the crying of a child. i wish to she will get bright future ahead🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Gritty and motivated child, respect. ❤
I think sports should be enjoyed more than anything else. And a child’s emotion should be treated delicately.
If she can handle this, she can handle anything in her life.
The only thing they should yell at about her excellence and not winning.
Goal should be excellence not winning, if coach knows this, beating with a stick wd only make her strong.
Yessssss
@@AnuragYadav-nf6ut but dude she's so young. Don't you think this kind of treatment will have effects on her mental health in future, even though if she becomes a star player? And when will it stop?
@@larsonseq9269 please not compare western value with asian value. Asian parents teach their kids pierce and really strict. Spank and yelling is common.
Asian Culture is totally different. Our kind of teaching is not the same as the european or american
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Why you put all Asians in one bag??? There are Japanese and Bangladeshis, Chinese and Filipinos etc. They are all different. Some have problem even to begin.......
@@lukei6255 don't forget israeli, but eh, maybe just let western people keep saying the term 'asian' when they mean east asian? it's funny. www.reddit.com/r/bigbangtheory/comments/22y5y8/how_come_there_are_no_mathematicians_or_asian/
guys chill, it's just a joke. Plus, he refers to Asians as a difficulty level because in Western countries, Asians tend to work the hardest and produce the best results.
@@wade1391 thats not true again. You confuse working hard with efficiency. Not all Asians are the same. Some work hard and long hours, othera.... Not so much. Anyone who chose a new country to migrate and settle there usually works hard to stand on their feet.
So inspiring to watch how Cheng Meng grew to become world champion!!! 🎉🎉❤❤
She will be alright,,, hugs and love 💕
She is crying for what she is about to do to her opponents.
Udit Dhiman oof
After many years WW2.After the bullying. Chinese learned Crying is useless to save your family your children. Must be strong and work hard. This is a gift the world give us. Crying can not stop war.
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My children's mental health is more important than a having a gold medalist child.
Well said.
your children will be losers
@@Wtahc says the loser him/her self
@@pallavchettri8658 are you real
@@Wtahc realer than u
Brave heart. I need to learn from her the true meaning of resilience. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Alot of people are missing the point. This is not a girl being forced, she is being pushed with care. People are so soft these days smh. She is learning that it takes hardship to earn something worthwhile with her parents guiding her.
6 year old her: playing table tennis like a pro
13 year old me: lying in bed like a lazy couch potato
I wonder how will my future turn out
You're still young you can choose do do anything you want.
@@jamjam0409 i wanna be a idol... But the fact that my mom reject that and want me to be a psychologist.... Even though im still 12 y.o
@@alisamounira3080 It's a bit hursh to make your children follow a carrer he doesn't have an interest in from 12 yo. But you have to be aware that your dream has a low chance of becoming true. It doesn't mean you can't be an idol but it's more risky then becoming a psichologist. I think that the best approach will be to explain to your parents calm your opinion or at least say that you'll try to figure what else you like and you'll continue to study until you know for sure if you can become an idol. At the same time you should try for an audition or ask for opinions about your voice.
As long as they see that you are realistic and persistent with what you say I think they will accept your choice.
@@jamjam0409 oh.... Thanks for the speech.... Even though i think its impossible I'll just try...
*Am a tough guy...but watching my daughter cry through a practise is where my toughness ends. Am pulling her out the practise immediately*
And teaching her to give up when the going gets tough in the process.
Your daughter will never be a champion if she doesn't learn to handle adversity.
@Hopper33 better to learn early.
@@WaywardVector only if my cousin didn’t commit suicide at the age of 13 because of coach was like this coach to him since the age of 5 then I would agree (I am not lying and I really miss him).
Ah... Uhm.... I think i typed too much. I wish i have better grammar. Sorry im still learning.
Ive been through this before when I was 7. My coaches would actually shout at me and yell at me if I dont do it right. It isnt as bad as hers but if she still continues after that then that is true dedication. She is gonna be the best player if she continues after such a harsh training
You are the champion my dear Little sister...❤️
I know how it feels! I started study Ballet when I was 5, and I was kind of a slow learner and I cried in after almost every class that time. But I never ever thought of giving it up, cause I love what I was doing though it was so harsh. That was not a child abuse, my parents didnt ask me or force me to continue, they comforted me, gave me encouragement, but it was always my decision to continue.
This is not child abuse！You wanna master some skill？You wanna expert in something？You’ve got to go through all those struggles and overcome yourselves thousands of times. Olympics medal winners from all over the world go through the same harsh training from a very young age. They are all the same. Someone has to pay the price for reaching the Top of the whole world.
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Your Lucky to have such supportive parents..
Where are you from?
@@stn7172 China😆
@@olivyif8457 that's says it all you are justifying your country attrocities 😂 which medal you won may I know 🤔