I don’t think the father is brainwashing his child. One thing most people are kissing is the fact that regardless of what he chooses to teach his son, people will still look at him as a black stereotype before a human being. Since both of my parents are immigrants from Africa, they didn’t know how racist America was and told me to trust all people of authority including the police, but I’m still being followed around in stores and stopped by the police. I only wish I knew how to handle it before so that it wouldn’t feel so bad every time it happened.
You look white to me but in a black ran City like Baltimore black cops harass whites all the time why are targeted buy a lot of black not all do this but a lot it happens in Chicago if a white person goes on the Southside Chicago in a all-black neighborhood he will get assaulted but if a black man goes into a all-white neighborhood he does not get assaulted so yes America is racist before America wife had went through this with thousands of years from Black Pharaohs the black Muslims and there are books on this written by black Muslim look up the author al-jahiz the book is superiority of black or white over 15 million Europeans in Jews were made slaves and take it into Egypt for what we know is Africa
3 years later... And guess what has changed? Exactly! NOTHING. All the same folks... This report was a sitcom... ending with cutesy happy ending where everyone threw back their heads and just laughed. Roll credits.
This is 21st Century America,,, Its time to stop going at this as "A people" and start going as "individuals"! When we go at things as "A people" we encourage generalizing! Each and Everyone of us must look at others as "Individuals", and Stop Ostracizing a whole group based on the actions of ONE!
I dont believe in filling my childs head with negative nonsense! I will teach my child that HE is a man and can have what he wants if he gets an education and works hard.... Im sick of parents who fill their kids head up with dispair and then wonder why their kids drop out of school and run the street.
@@lloydbond2305 Right. I'm sure Armaud Arbery got himself killed. (Just to name one incident). And next time don't generalize "black people". How many blacks have you actually talked to or seen to make that statement? "Don't follow directions"? You act like the entirety of the black population does this when in a situation. How would you even know? The 2 people you've seen in a video doesn't make up the 40 million in America.
But do you not understand the difference? He's not telling you that because he worries that your skin color could dictate how you end up being treated. He doesn't need to tell you that because some people may see you as a "thug" or think you to be "suspicious" simply for the skin you were born with. The reasoning for telling you that is very different from the reasoning of black parents.
A bi-racial interviewer. Humans recognize races, and people are aware of differing cultural characteristics. People have preferences based on behavioral trends of ethno-cultural groups. And for everyone, the more upstanding in your image presence (as you can) and character,…. the more respect you'll get by all people, generally speaking,… of course exceptions occur in a variety of ways.
I’m a black teenager (girl) and I also think about being black everyday. When I look in the mirror till I go to bed a night. I live in Europe and the majority of people are white and I hate even going shopping alone because people look at me like I’m going to steal or they look at me weird in public. My friend group has people of races around the world Ukrainian, Spanish ect heck my best friend is Asian. I just feel like they all have a superior complex. I don’t want to be racist but sometimes I wish I was white so life could be a little easier. Ik is this has nothing to do with the video I just needed to vent a little:(
I agree with the Black father. As a Black man myself, I'm a very peaceful man, who works for a living and tries to never intentionally break the law. But, police officers don't know that. All they would see is the color of my skin and that alone would be reason enough for them to pull me over and possibly take my life. Plus, I find it eerily funny how police officers carry guns, tasers, billy clubs, and the ability to call back-up to officers who have even more guns, tasers, and billy clubs at their disposal, yet THEY fear for their lives. But don't take my word for it. Ask other peaceful law-abiding Black men (such as myself) who weren't so lucky like Amadou Diallo (murdered by the police, armed with just his wallet. The police were found not guilty.) or Sean Bell (gunned down by police officers the day before his wedding. The officers involved won the case, by the way.) or Philando Castile (who was LEGALLY armed, obeyed the officer's commands, and was still gunned down by a trigger-happy police officer in front of his girlfriend and child in his own car. The police officer was not only acquitted but was also awarded a $48,500 buyout.). And those are just 3 of multiple examples.
My opinion this tv shows don't really make one group speak the truth. One side is very true and honest and one is just do it for the cameras. Welll be honest
A lot of white women get with black men so they can play the victim and virtue signal. They know what black people go through with the police and society.
Yeah well her story is weird..Why was he in his car at the police station with expired tags? Did he intentionally drive there for some reason? Also, Why did the officers wait to take action until his wife arrived? Tags are a Civil offence anyway..why was he being arrested? trust me, I have 6 felonies, 2 are from Federal charges...I dont bootlick..but I use my head.
I'm Irish/Puerto Rican and if my parents taught me what *most* black parents teach their children about whites.. I'd be Edward Norton in American History X.
Things need to change, not for us, but for future generations! All children, regardless, should be taught respect and how to cope with dangerous situations! Nobody should live in fear of getting hurt because of what they look like, neither should we fear those who are meant to serve and protect! We are all human and we all deserve the same rights, liberties, and justices! Peace and love, everybody!
You can tell some people don't get a true understanding of one another before getting into a relationship. The black man had to be assaulted before his wife truly understood how his experiences formed his way of thinking. That's sad.
Yeah well her story is weird..Why was he in his car at the police station with expired tags? Did he intentionally drive there for some reason? Also, Why did the officers wait to take action until his wife arrived? Tags are a Civil offence anyway..why was he being arrested? trust me, I have 6 felonies, 2 are from Federal charges...I dont bootlick..but I use my head.
Im so glad I come from a sane reasonable black family that didnt brainwash me into thinking the entire world was against me and to be filled with crippling resentment my entire life.
Wow! Facts are not considered brainwash. I guess you are fortunate enough not to have been faced with the reality of discrimination, but I assure you it is very real. Do your research, and use reliable resources. The information is well documented. Research peonage laws, black codes, Jim Crow laws, the Civil Rights Act, CIOINTELPRO, etc....I bet you white people can't name one black person in American history they celebrate, (wholeheartedly, as an American Hero?). Are their any blacks who made significant contributions to this country??? Martin Luther King was just made recently a federal holiday after strong opposition by white conservative politicians. Obama was disrespected on every level by racist whites in the government, who hated that he was the, "Commander In Chief". Remember the senator from South Carolina who stood up in the house of senate, and called him a, " LIAR"? I commend Obama's composure, I would of had security thrown his ass out on his head.
Thats awsome! But blacks use racism as an excuse. But if racism was that bad, why would whites be out performed financially by like 10 other immigrant ethnic minorities? They all make more money and are more successful than whites. I have alot of respect for you.
Why on earth are we still holding ourselves back on thanks to race? When i was a kid growing up, i didnt really see many black or mexican kids, but when i did, i saw them as unique and wanted to be friends with em. Why can't we act in much the same way as adults? Treat everyone as a unique treasure on this earth and be called lucky to be blessed with theor friendship?
I'm from Asia, I went to America last year, I started to know the situation between White and Black, when I went to Black area I always been reminded how dangerous it is, and started to care about how bad situation the Black is suffered.
alex black you can go back to Europe and I'll stay here with my other indigenous people who have actual native ties to the Americas. Unlike you who can probably only go back to your grandparents "migrating" here.
Blacks are dividing this country by playing the victim and also playing the race card. There is racist cops and there is racist people in America but we came along way. No one in there hood or there community is out to get them but there own race. Black on black killing. Blacks killed there own people more then cops do. But wait if one cop shoots a black person CNN will put it on the news but when a black person kills a other black person it wont make it on CNN for the world could see.
I feel like we are going to keep talking about this topic until we are all dead and gone because some people just won't get it and they will stay confused because it is not happening to them. And on a side note I have a you tube channel type in Russell Mills May 22, 2017.
The more the media talks about how different white and black people are, the more different we think each other are. We are not that different, not different at all!
Max Al exactly we are no different.. But we are treated different that's the issue.. I think you need to watch the video again and critically think about the content
BIG DIFFERENCE.... White folk treat their dogs better than Black folk treat their kids...White folk don't have 4 or 5 babies momma...they also don't steal shoes and TV's during a natural Disaster ....white folk sign the birth certificate... Black dudes don't.. that way when they get welfare they can't make black daddy liable and the state can't come after them .....old trick
Blacks aren't ANY diff from white they don't speak another language (unless ur african) then yes BUT WHITES AND BLACKS ARE NO DIFFERNT. I'm hispanic we do have a culture blacks don't have a culture dumbasses
my brother had his hood on at a corner store, the cashier (white man) told him to take of the hoodie because the back of the store you can’t see anyone so he told him to take his hoodie off or he’s calling the police :/
We wouldn't have these problems if everyone stayed witht heir own people. Where ever you you see 2 ethnicities living close to each other, their is violence
We are all the same, same God same belifs, same places to live, same places to eat but one thing is different it's just what we see. Uto Mara Wala yatay muro may chulu yanka. Translate-we love each other at some parts but love never stops.- ballion
my mom never had to teach me this she did however taught me to be respectful to authority, to not look like a thug(which is the type mostly targeted) and to pick my battles with anyone of any race.
There is no type mostly targeted. My husband is a 30 year veteran. He's in no way shape or form giving off "thug" vibes. His appearance still says military and yet he's constantly harassed and stopped for no reason. One particular stop the cops first question, "Why are you here?" It was noon and he was taking me to work.
As a Human being who isnt racist,, I always take the side of right over wrong! I dont care what color mouth the right or wrong comes from.. If a white man is right in a scenerio, hes right,,,, if a black man is wrong in a scenerio, ,hes wrong.....Im not racist, so i dont side with one or go against one just because of their color.
My parents gave me the respect the police talk. Where to put your hands on the wheel when getting pulled over. Open your purse on your lap and not in the passenger seat when looking for your id and insurance. I was raised close to Detroit and police there are extra jumpy. Yes Sir, No Sir and answer straight to the point.
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considering the stop and frisk policy that was (not sure if it still is) going on in the NY area, and knowing that the people the police were stopping and frisking, were blacks and other minorities... I would say that it is very necessary for black people to avoid cops and just because you "have nothing to hide"... this type of policy encourages hatred and innocent people can become victims... they are supposed to have probable cause... there is a reason for the saying "driving while black" or "walking while black"
Black people seem obsessed about being a color. White people see themselves as just regular human beings. It doesn't really cross my mind what color I am or what country my ancestors came from. You hear things like African American, proud woman of color, never forget your roots etc. Why not just be American, a proud woman or proud to be from New York etc There's too much emphasis on the skin color and that in turn separates people. Whites mainly see black people as different because they tell us they are. Also they talk differently too. Funny thing is Asians don't seem to have as many problems even though they are culturally less similar to whites.
Coming from Baltimore, Maryland, police aren’t nice people. Out of the 5 encounters I’ve had, 4 of them were unpleasant and 3, the police tried to provoke me in order to get a rise out of me and eventually an arrest. Depending on where you live dictates how the police treat you.
NO ONE SAID IF YOU OR THE PEOPLE YOU WORK WITH HAVE A RACIAL BIAS. YOU & OTHERS PROBABLY DO, YET THERE ARE NUMBERS & PHYSICAL EVIDENCE THAT BLACKS ARE TARGETED. DON’T BEAT AROUND THE BUSH, SAY YOU WANNA LIVE IN DISBELIEF AND GO! I hate when people do that shit.
Ryan I read the first sentence and didn’t read after that. You’re bugging right now, check yourself into a mental hospital because I don’t argue with Crack heads.....
My only issue is when at 8:50, the guy says white fathers don't have to tell their kids to be careful with police, thats a huge overstatement. I was always taught to be careful when dealing with cops but if you find yourself pulled over, always be honest and tell the truth, and for Pete's sake don't give them anymore reason to escalate things. The police are always walking a fine line and under the constant eye of public scrutiny so do yourself a favor and dont escalate situations. Thats what i was taught, and thats how i live. Black Lives, Blue Lives, Every other life out there matters just as much and we should care about all lives if we wanna make solutions. You'll never get anywhere just by listening to one side.
Here's an interesting question about the "black people are shot at a 2.5x rate by police" argument. How much more likely is a cop to be shot buy a black guy than white? And its funny when Officer Rasheed talks about parents telling their kids "he's gonna get you", the dude right across from him, who just moments ago was talking about telling his kid "say away walk away, NO interaction with police" (basically training his kids that they have to be afraid) has a surprised look on his face and says "wow". Bro, YOU are that parent Rasheed is talking about.
the police officer saying 'you should tell your kids to not be afraid, just walk by a police officer if he's on your way and say 'hi!'........ hmmm... nope. not a good idea. i was once is spain, travelling in spain, i saw a police officer and wanted to ask for directions... he looked at me, looked at my bag and ask :'you have pot in your bag?', not friendly looking...he then check on my passport... i kinda was shocked. and since then, i don't ask police officers for help anymore. and i'm a female... white (even though i was more red that day)
European here that do not understand the complexity of the situation but, from my point of view, the dad on the debate may be causin his son a lot of problems. I mean if you are a police officer and you see a teenager (doesn't matter the colour of his skin) that when he sees you he just turns around and go to another direction. The first thing you think as a police officer is that he is trying to hide something or escape for fear of being recognised, and you may start following him.
Here is the problem. We have a double standard that sets a precedent that it is ok to judge white people and put them in a generalized box. They say all white people dont care and white people are this. Cops are bad, but if you put the shoe on the other foot it’s racist. Some chick says white people don’ care about blacks. Some people white don’t would be accurate, but if I said black people don’t care about whites, suddenly that is justified when I know for sure that on both sides there is compassion. I saw a post on Facebook reading, “what are white people scared of?”, posted by a Latina. On the other foot. If had read what are black people scared of, it would be racist af! Keep pushing white people in a corner, you can’t act surprised when they push back. Why do white people seem to have more privilege than other nationalities? Because they are the majority in the country. The larger group tends to hold authority. That’s what it is. Plus white people are not one nationality. From the same northern hemisphere, just like Mexicans and South Americans. Two groups that historically been rivals with the same complexion
@@soulsearch1234 Not me. So there MUST be other ppl who do the same. I've been to america four times, hooked up with three American girls. Point I'm trying to make is that alot of the people I met and spent time with in U.S.A. are not racist and would stand up to injustice. I'm not disagreeing with what your saying but just keep what I said in mind, and I'm sorry u feel that way.
Hawk 1: Do you think Owl is a predator? Hawk 2: Of course not. He's never bothered me Hawk: Exactly...I dont know what Mr. Mouse was going on about I saw that in a cartoon and it's race relations in America. We try to tell you but u can't see so I stop telling. And it takes having to see your black husband beat up to BELIEVE him and u lay next to him every night
Wow! Great parallel, guess what? Some buffoon won't understand the analogy. It's rhetorical, especially if you have actually experience racial disparity.
In my opinion both blacks and whites can be racist. Blacks make fun of whites all the time and whites can sometimes look upon a black person differently. Racism is within all our racial groups. Color does NOT matter. Anyone can be racist.
Dan R Making fun of someone is not racism, thats a prejudice. When we kidnap you, change your language make you build our country and set up a judicial system to justify your enslavement, then call us racist all you, but the word your looking for is prejudice.
As a negro male living in Atlanta I fail to understand this. For me race is a matter of love and not of skin color and culture. It is about being showing the world that Jesus is the way and not race. It’s deep shit I am saying, but try sit down and think about this. Peace to all races even hoes.
In all honesty no I would not say just look at or speak to a cop. Often times coming from us, it leads to, "I don't like the way you're looking at me it's suspicious." Also considered suspicious if we don't look. Most cops aren't going to verbalize wanting to un a live a certain segment of society that does not mean they don't think it or act on it in their interactions with poc.
I'm a black male from Memphis TN, and I'm well educated,I've since lived and traveled across this entire country I've lived amongst all whites in Tulsa,mostly Hispanics in Albuquerque,majority Native American in Sanders AZ,all and majority African American in Memphis TN,I must say as a dark male,I have had the same encounters with all races,if you give respect,you get respect,but now I'm beginning to think that if this is being done by the black,race and civil rights are being violated as in recent news,then all we are asking is that justice is served in the courts,so far that hasn't happened.
A lot of the racial conflicts are instigated and perpetuated by the real people with power behind the government who are pulling the puppet strings. Racial conflicts serve their "divide and conquer" agenda very well. The news media is owned by the same overlords so the just add fuel to the flames. You can't believe what they portray or describe as 100% truthful.
It's not just blacks being harassed by police. I've been harassed many times and I'm white. I've had the conversation with my kids about dealing with police.
It is not coincidental that in our country such different experiences are normal. That shows, how our population lives. Separate and unequal. It is by design. It is because of the way our history and racist society functions. Racism and white supremacy are normalized. Notice, white people, do not even have to think about race. White people find it curious when asked. Do you ever think about race. White persons do not even notice, such question is unusual. Race for white persons is not something they even have to consider. Racism is so normalized, that the monstrous behavior of a whole society is acceptable. White persons are so out of touch with the constant suffering and oppression of black persons, primarily. Other persons of color also suffer in America.
Black lives matter too. But when you respond to ‘ALL LIVES MATTER’ with black lives matter surely you can see how that may be misconstrued as stating superiority and therefore a largely counterintuitive thing to say. I know when people say black lives matter they’re unlikely to be trying to imply that they matter more than that of any other race but I can see how someone else could interpret it that way.
First encounters are important black people are faster to accept a black persons opinion before a white or a Asian or a Latin it is also vise versa it is because you see color before you see anything else think of it as a extended family people will always choose there race it is not racism it is just human nature
im from UK and i know how bad america is for racist scared cops the world knows and its makes U.S look very bad and i would never go there not if you paid me U.S got a ton of issues its really many years behind Europe and a lot of other countries in a lot of way statistically its shit. But that was a good conversation needs to happen more.
@not sure Look, I don't have time to explain systemic racism to you. If you don't see I'm sorry, all I can tell you is to look it up. Have a great day.
Biracial Only mentioned once? Seems they’re several Blacks that are biracial on that panel. Can we get this simple fact straight here in America. Please..
Throughout American history biracial has been considered black until recently. The police force was originally formed to serve as slave catchers. When the cops pull biracial black people over if they look like a light skinned black person they will be treated Black...
Has anyone notice that on the internet blacks wanna make fun of white people and white people almost never... and even in real life, it feels like blacks are over powering whites atleast in my area, i live in Florida and when i try to play sports, its much harder.... never in my life have i really seen something eye to eye happened. I know what happens outside and we all see it on the internet, but at the end of the day, I'll rather be black, not to say the n word or to seem gangster, but to play sports without being assumed of something...
The reason many get shot by Police is because they resist Police and are smart asses. When they resist it is a threat to the police officers. Alton Sterling was a known criminal in Baton Rouge. He did not just sell DVDs. He had a long criminal record and was a convicted felon who was not supposed to have a firearm. The Police were called as a result of Alton Sterling pointing his gun at other black people in the parking lot where he was conducting his "business". The police knew he was armed before they arrived because that is precisely why they were called. When the police arrived Alton Sterling resisted arrest and was tased twice but pulled out the wires and was still resisting. The police then wrestled Sterling to the ground where he was still resisting. His gun was in his pocket and Sterling was reaching for it. (You can be shot through a cotton pair of pants). Then and only then did one of the police pull their weapon and fire on Alton Sterling. Had Alton Sterling not resisted arrest (several times) and not acted in a threatening manner toward the police he would have simply been arrested and gone to jail. I live in Baton Rouge which is a sprawling metro area of around 850,000 people. The area Alton Sterling was in is a high crime area and Police deal with crimes of all types in that area daily with nobody getting killed. The police are not out looking to kill blacks which is the false narrative from the news media. These are facts.
But regardless of my race I think the segregation between both black and white is too far of a gap and it needs to be put together I do a lot of skateboarding and I love it not just because I like to do it but if anyone in this comment section skates too they will understand there is no difference between black and white when skaters are together they are all the same just skaters and that’s wholesome to me
@@Jordan_Dossou Well of course you are. The American privilege is the biggest privilege in the world even if people don't acknowledge it. There is a reason why people are risking their lives every day to come to live in USA, it isn't for Starbucks.
Mystic ToMato I don’t agree. Only the people in South America go to America - the rest of the world come to Europe because it’s better - more free stuff - healthcare/ education and housing
@@88Erank Well with that I can agree. In America you have a lot of opportunities which come at the price of you having to be brainwashed by their demonic politics. In Europe you usually won't have those problems while having the same opportunities in some countries. But considering how many immigrants have come to USA these few years from all sides of the world USA really is one of the most desired countries.
White fathers tell their sons to watch out for blacks. And Asian fathers tell their sons to stay away from blacks. LOL? Even Jesse Jackson says he feels safer being followed by whites than blacks. LOL
I don’t think the father is brainwashing his child. One thing most people are kissing is the fact that regardless of what he chooses to teach his son, people will still look at him as a black stereotype before a human being. Since both of my parents are immigrants from Africa, they didn’t know how racist America was and told me to trust all people of authority including the police, but I’m still being followed around in stores and stopped by the police. I only wish I knew how to handle it before so that it wouldn’t feel so bad every time it happened.
You look white to me but in a black ran City like Baltimore black cops harass whites all the time why are targeted buy a lot of black not all do this but a lot it happens in Chicago if a white person goes on the Southside Chicago in a all-black neighborhood he will get assaulted but if a black man goes into a all-white neighborhood he does not get assaulted so yes America is racist before America wife had went through this with thousands of years from Black Pharaohs the black Muslims and there are books on this written by black Muslim look up the author al-jahiz the book is superiority of black or white over 15 million Europeans in Jews were made slaves and take it into Egypt for what we know is Africa
@@biglee3780 he's probably adopted
@@jamesscott1725 then go back to Europe
@@biglee3780 Get out of here. None of that is happening.
i relate to this
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Im with you,,,,, I dont want to play anymore..... Sick of the games between insecure individuals.
3 years later... And guess what has changed? Exactly! NOTHING. All the same folks... This report was a sitcom... ending with cutesy happy ending where everyone threw back their heads and just laughed. Roll credits.
This comment has aged well
This is 21st Century America,,, Its time to stop going at this as "A people" and start going as "individuals"! When we go at things as "A people" we encourage generalizing! Each and Everyone of us must look at others as "Individuals", and Stop Ostracizing a whole group based on the actions of ONE!
Every family needs to have these conversations with their children!
That's called "how to obey the law"
@@azulaeatingmochime2353 Black people don't follow directions and they tried to escape and get killed
I dont believe in filling my childs head with negative nonsense! I will teach my child that HE is a man and can have what he wants if he gets an education and works hard.... Im sick of parents who fill their kids head up with dispair and then wonder why their kids drop out of school and run the street.
@@lloydbond2305 Right. I'm sure Armaud Arbery got himself killed. (Just to name one incident). And next time don't generalize "black people". How many blacks have you actually talked to or seen to make that statement? "Don't follow directions"? You act like the entirety of the black population does this when in a situation. How would you even know? The 2 people you've seen in a video doesn't make up the 40 million in America.
@@zeusincoming282 "Filling my childs head with negative nonsense"? You would if not explaining to them was going to get them harmed or worse killed.
Awkward af with some cops up in there.
My father was a cop and he told me to be careful with the police to and I am a white person he told me what to do and what not to do
I would love it if you would expand on that: what did he tell you to do/not to do? any cop insights?
But do you not understand the difference? He's not telling you that because he worries that your skin color could dictate how you end up being treated. He doesn't need to tell you that because some people may see you as a "thug" or think you to be "suspicious" simply for the skin you were born with. The reasoning for telling you that is very different from the reasoning of black parents.
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A bi-racial interviewer. Humans recognize races, and people are aware of differing cultural characteristics. People have preferences based on behavioral trends of ethno-cultural groups. And for everyone, the more upstanding in your image presence (as you can) and character,…. the more respect you'll get by all people, generally speaking,… of course exceptions occur in a variety of ways.
that sounds about right
Many people don't think that is reality. Some people are stuck in the 50's and have a victim mentality.
I’m a black teenager (girl) and I also think about being black everyday. When I look in the mirror till I go to bed a night. I live in Europe and the majority of people are white and I hate even going shopping alone because people look at me like I’m going to steal or they look at me weird in public. My friend group has people of races around the world Ukrainian, Spanish ect heck my best friend is Asian. I just feel like they all have a superior complex. I don’t want to be racist but sometimes I wish I was white so life could be a little easier. Ik is this has nothing to do with the video I just needed to vent a little:(
How doy believe a black African that never saw a white person in his community, would see a white person going in a majority black community?
her 13 year old is 6 feet tall???
how much milk did that kid drink?? 😂
I'm 14 and are 5 foot 8 so I'm not that far off
Good freif man
One or both parents must be tall. My son is 6ft 15 year old and his father is 6 ft 3... I'm....only 5ft 2 🤣😭
《PattiRose》 im 13 and 6 foot
《PattiRose》 I’m 12 and 6’4 so I can believe it
this dad is smart to teach his kid right about dealing with a situation
I agree with the Black father. As a Black man myself, I'm a very peaceful man, who works for a living and tries to never intentionally break the law. But, police officers don't know that. All they would see is the color of my skin and that alone would be reason enough for them to pull me over and possibly take my life. Plus, I find it eerily funny how police officers carry guns, tasers, billy clubs, and the ability to call back-up to officers who have even more guns, tasers, and billy clubs at their disposal, yet THEY fear for their lives. But don't take my word for it. Ask other peaceful law-abiding Black men (such as myself) who weren't so lucky like Amadou Diallo (murdered by the police, armed with just his wallet. The police were found not guilty.) or Sean Bell (gunned down by police officers the day before his wedding. The officers involved won the case, by the way.) or Philando Castile (who was LEGALLY armed, obeyed the officer's commands, and was still gunned down by a trigger-happy police officer in front of his girlfriend and child in his own car. The police officer was not only acquitted but was also awarded a $48,500 buyout.). And those are just 3 of multiple examples.
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My opinion this tv shows don't really make one group speak the truth. One side is very true and honest and one is just do it for the cameras. Welll be honest
Elijah Thomas all bullshit in my opinion
his wife learned today...
Wow only after she saw this that she really saw that cops use to much force on unarmed black men so sad
nicolas myrtil right ! I was married to a black woman. I never noticed shit except her always being cheater Haha.
A lot of white women get with black men so they can play the victim and virtue signal. They know what black people go through with the police and society.
Yeah well her story is weird..Why was he in his car at the police station with expired tags? Did he intentionally drive there for some reason? Also, Why did the officers wait to take action until his wife arrived? Tags are a Civil offence anyway..why was he being arrested? trust me, I have 6 felonies, 2 are from Federal charges...I dont bootlick..but I use my head.
I'm Irish/Puerto Rican and if my parents taught me what *most* black parents teach their children about whites.. I'd be Edward Norton in American History X.
8:45 Actually, all fathers need to explain to their children how to act when dealing with police. It would be foolish and irresponsible not to.
*I DIDN'T KNOW ADIN ANOLSOLE WAS 12 GOING ON 30!*
Things need to change, not for us, but for future generations! All children, regardless, should be taught respect and how to cope with dangerous situations! Nobody should live in fear of getting hurt because of what they look like, neither should we fear those who are meant to serve and protect! We are all human and we all deserve the same rights, liberties, and justices! Peace and love, everybody!
Here here!!
You can tell some people don't get a true understanding of one another before getting into a relationship. The black man had to be assaulted before his wife truly understood how his experiences formed his way of thinking. That's sad.
Yeah well her story is weird..Why was he in his car at the police station with expired tags? Did he intentionally drive there for some reason? Also, Why did the officers wait to take action until his wife arrived? Tags are a Civil offence anyway..why was he being arrested? trust me, I have 6 felonies, 2 are from Federal charges...I dont bootlick..but I use my head.
Good things can come out of Adverisity.............Sometimes we have to fail to Succeed!
@@danaott8782 yeah, seems something missing - not just being black.
6:56 THAT FUCKEN PART
Im so glad I come from a sane reasonable black family that didnt brainwash me into thinking the entire world was against me and to be filled with crippling resentment my entire life.
i know right, he is projecting all of his bullshit oppression to his son
If you think that breeds resentment, you're extremely sheltered.
Good luck with that! I hope you never have to bury a child because a kkkop thought your child's cell phone was a gun!
Wow! Facts are not considered brainwash. I guess you are fortunate enough not to have been faced with the reality of discrimination, but I assure you it is very real. Do your research, and use reliable resources. The information is well documented. Research peonage laws, black codes, Jim Crow laws, the Civil Rights Act, CIOINTELPRO, etc....I bet you white people can't name one black person in American history they celebrate, (wholeheartedly, as an American Hero?). Are their any blacks who made significant contributions to this country??? Martin Luther King was just made recently a federal holiday after strong opposition by white conservative politicians. Obama was disrespected on every level by racist whites in the government, who hated that he was the, "Commander In Chief". Remember the senator from South Carolina who stood up in the house of senate, and called him a, " LIAR"? I commend Obama's composure, I would of had security thrown his ass out on his head.
Thats awsome! But blacks use racism as an excuse. But if racism was that bad, why would whites be out performed financially by like 10 other immigrant ethnic minorities? They all make more money and are more successful than whites. I have alot of respect for you.
Why on earth are we still holding ourselves back on thanks to race? When i was a kid growing up, i didnt really see many black or mexican kids, but when i did, i saw them as unique and wanted to be friends with em. Why can't we act in much the same way as adults? Treat everyone as a unique treasure on this earth and be called lucky to be blessed with theor friendship?
The media continues to perpetuate this "institutional racsim" myth. And it is a myth.
I'm from Asia, I went to America last year, I started to know the situation between White and Black, when I went to Black area I always been reminded how dangerous it is, and started to care about how bad situation the Black is suffered.
洪微雅 open up a store in America and you will see who robs you the most......Hint: they won't be white.
They can go back home to Africa. and you can go back to china but white countries are being invaded by leaches.
Mark Smith
Can't you give me another hint, please? This one's difficult? Maybe if I pretended I was Asian...
alex black you can go back to Europe and I'll stay here with my other indigenous people who have actual native ties to the Americas. Unlike you who can probably only go back to your grandparents "migrating" here.
Blacks are dividing this country by playing the victim and also playing the race card. There is racist cops and there is racist people in America but we came along way. No one in there hood or there community is out to get them but there own race. Black on black killing. Blacks killed there own people more then cops do. But wait if one cop shoots a black person CNN will put it on the news but when a black person kills a other black person it wont make it on CNN for the world could see.
8:21 “Now 12 going on 30” 🧐😳
NC Styles 😳
Yeah do u not get it?
Low key Blunt do you get it???
Cuz I dont
I feel like we are going to keep talking about this topic until we are all dead and gone because some people just won't get it and they will stay confused because it is not happening to them. And on a side note I have a you tube channel type in Russell Mills May 22, 2017.
My parents said "he is going to get you"all the time when I was a kid. I knew it was a joke.
The more the media talks about how different white and black people are, the more different we think each other are. We are not that different, not different at all!
Max Al exactly we are no different.. But we are treated different that's the issue.. I think you need to watch the video again and critically think about the content
BIG DIFFERENCE.... White folk treat their dogs better than Black folk treat their kids...White folk don't have 4 or 5 babies momma...they also don't steal shoes and TV's during a natural Disaster ....white folk sign the birth certificate... Black dudes don't.. that way when they get welfare they can't make black daddy liable and the state can't come after them .....old trick
@@kurtiss2388 prouve le
Blacks aren't ANY diff from white they don't speak another language (unless ur african) then yes BUT WHITES AND BLACKS ARE NO DIFFERNT. I'm hispanic we do have a culture blacks don't have a culture dumbasses
@Edwin morgan I like that.
Where's reverend Peterson when we need him
my brother had his hood on at a corner store, the cashier (white man) told him to take of the hoodie because the back of the store you can’t see anyone so he told him to take his hoodie off or he’s calling the police :/
Thanks dear for sharing your beautiful thoughts. Great conversation. Education, educate. Black lives do matter.
If someone pulls a gun on you what are you gonna do just stand their
There. Not their. Their is ownership wrong there, bud.
@Apostate of Doom it's not "ment"......it's "meant"
@Apostate of Doom too* not do.
@Apostate of Doom wtf are you saying. Fix youre grammar.
We wouldn't have these problems if everyone stayed witht heir own people. Where ever you you see 2 ethnicities living close to each other, their is violence
We are all the same, same God same belifs, same places to live, same places to eat but one thing is different it's just what we see. Uto Mara Wala yatay muro may chulu yanka. Translate-we love each other at some parts but love never stops.- ballion
my mom never had to teach me this she did however taught me to be respectful to authority, to not look like a thug(which is the type mostly targeted) and to pick my battles with anyone of any race.
There is no type mostly targeted. My husband is a 30 year veteran. He's in no way shape or form giving off "thug" vibes. His appearance still says military and yet he's constantly harassed and stopped for no reason.
One particular stop the cops first question, "Why are you here?"
It was noon and he was taking me to work.
No way I could marry a woman who's telling me I'm being paranoid about racism
As a Hispanic/Latino I will always take the side of black person when it comes to black race vs white race.
As a Human being who isnt racist,, I always take the side of right over wrong! I dont care what color mouth the right or wrong comes from.. If a white man is right in a scenerio, hes right,,,, if a black man is wrong in a scenerio, ,hes wrong.....Im not racist, so i dont side with one or go against one just because of their color.
Zeus Incoming2 Right but if it’s a protest, 99% of the time whites messed up.
that's racist
Fair enough
As a white guy when its black race vs Hispanic race I take the side of the black person as well.
How are things in Africa? How are things in Scandinavia? Culture matters. And apparently race matters as to what kind of culture develops.
You can tell both of these dads are great dads to their kids.
Yes, you really can 😊
My parents gave me the respect the police talk. Where to put your hands on the wheel when getting pulled over. Open your purse on your lap and not in the passenger seat when looking for your id and insurance. I was raised close to Detroit and police there are extra jumpy. Yes Sir, No Sir and answer straight to the point.
who else read the title as " *race converion* "
Conversion? Yeah, I did 😂
*It's always right to prepare minority children!!!*
Keep up the victimization it will serve you well
I'm sorry y'all but I have to say....Solomon is a beautiful chocolate man
expose all of it it's the world there faceing they should know as much as possible. great father
*they're (contraction of "THEY aRE")
their: for possession
*there: for all other uses
*facing
When adding -ing to a verb that ends with -e, drop the -e first. For example, dance -> dancing.
considering the stop and frisk policy that was (not sure if it still is) going on in the NY area, and knowing that the people the police were stopping and frisking, were blacks and other minorities... I would say that it is very necessary for black people to avoid cops
and just because you "have nothing to hide"... this type of policy encourages hatred and innocent people can become victims... they are supposed to have probable cause... there is a reason for the saying "driving while black" or "walking while black"
1:29 "I can't breath"
How can a person speak if they can't breathe?
Eurotrash4367 he’s typing duh
@@Eurotrash4367 the guy died so yes he couldn't breathe....
Reagan Butrum no words
*breathe (verb)
breath = noun (and pronounced differently)
Love that Bowie shirt :)
Black people seem obsessed about being a color.
White people see themselves as just regular human beings. It doesn't really cross my mind what color I am or what country my ancestors came from.
You hear things like African American, proud woman of color, never forget your roots etc.
Why not just be American, a proud woman or proud to be from New York etc
There's too much emphasis on the skin color and that in turn separates people.
Whites mainly see black people as different because they tell us they are. Also they talk differently too.
Funny thing is Asians don't seem to have as many problems even though they are culturally less similar to whites.
Coming from Baltimore, Maryland, police aren’t nice people. Out of the 5 encounters I’ve had, 4 of them were unpleasant and 3, the police tried to provoke me in order to get a rise out of me and eventually an arrest. Depending on where you live dictates how the police treat you.
Mikey TK fuck the Police
NO ONE SAID IF YOU OR THE PEOPLE YOU WORK WITH HAVE A RACIAL BIAS. YOU & OTHERS PROBABLY DO, YET THERE ARE NUMBERS & PHYSICAL EVIDENCE THAT BLACKS ARE TARGETED. DON’T BEAT AROUND THE BUSH, SAY YOU WANNA LIVE IN DISBELIEF AND GO! I hate when people do that shit.
Ryan I read the first sentence and didn’t read after that. You’re bugging right now, check yourself into a mental hospital because I don’t argue with Crack heads.....
great talk
My only issue is when at 8:50, the guy says white fathers don't have to tell their kids to be careful with police, thats a huge overstatement. I was always taught to be careful when dealing with cops but if you find yourself pulled over, always be honest and tell the truth, and for Pete's sake don't give them anymore reason to escalate things. The police are always walking a fine line and under the constant eye of public scrutiny so do yourself a favor and dont escalate situations. Thats what i was taught, and thats how i live. Black Lives, Blue Lives, Every other life out there matters just as much and we should care about all lives if we wanna make solutions. You'll never get anywhere just by listening to one side.
Here's an interesting question about the "black people are shot at a 2.5x rate by police" argument. How much more likely is a cop to be shot buy a black guy than white?
And its funny when Officer Rasheed talks about parents telling their kids "he's gonna get you", the dude right across from him, who just moments ago was talking about telling his kid "say away walk away, NO interaction with police" (basically training his kids that they have to be afraid) has a surprised look on his face and says "wow". Bro, YOU are that parent Rasheed is talking about.
Parents who have kids should read this book by Dr.Suess "THE SNEETCHES"...It will change your life..God bless♡
the police officer saying 'you should tell your kids to not be afraid, just walk by a police officer if he's on your way and say 'hi!'........
hmmm... nope. not a good idea.
i was once is spain, travelling in spain, i saw a police officer and wanted to ask for directions... he looked at me, looked at my bag and ask :'you have pot in your bag?', not friendly looking...he then check on my passport... i kinda was shocked. and since then, i don't ask police officers for help anymore.
and i'm a female... white (even though i was more red that day)
If it were not for this one cop that said, hey just let them go repeatedly, and we can't arrest them. There's is no telling what would had happened.
pfft tags, or registration automatically renewed with insurance here in Canada and no mandatory inspections too.
European here that do not understand the complexity of the situation but, from my point of view, the dad on the debate may be causin his son a lot of problems.
I mean if you are a police officer and you see a teenager (doesn't matter the colour of his skin) that when he sees you he just turns around and go to another direction. The first thing you think as a police officer is that he is trying to hide something or escape for fear of being recognised, and you may start following him.
Here is the problem. We have a double standard that sets a precedent that it is ok to judge white people and put them in a generalized box.
They say all white people dont care and white people are this. Cops are bad, but if you put the shoe on the other foot it’s racist. Some chick says white people don’ care about blacks. Some people white don’t would be accurate, but if I said black people don’t care about whites, suddenly that is justified when I know for sure that on both sides there is compassion. I saw a post on Facebook reading, “what are white people scared of?”, posted by a Latina. On the other foot. If had read what are black people scared of, it would be racist af!
Keep pushing white people in a corner, you can’t act surprised when they push back. Why do white people seem to have more privilege than other nationalities? Because they are the majority in the country. The larger group tends to hold authority. That’s what it is. Plus white people are not one nationality. From the same northern hemisphere, just like Mexicans and South Americans. Two groups that historically been rivals with the same complexion
Agree with your comment but I don’t understand the Mexican and south american example, mind explaining?
Should be the exact same conversation...watch your back around black people
1:26 It says *i cant breathe* but Thai was 5 years ago before gorge Floyd, TF
Why was the Black guy sitting in his car at the police station?
The killings aren't due to racial enmity. It's simply a matter of unjust behavior, recalcitrance, given valid suspicious circumstances.
that 11 year old black kid already has a receding hairline lol
This is literally reinforcing the boundaries that are causing these problems in America
Remember most Americans are not racist trust me.
@@JK-vy8vh Even if that was true, most Americans who can do something about injustice let it happen with no interruption. Racist by inaction.
@@soulsearch1234 Not me. So there MUST be other ppl who do the same. I've been to america four times, hooked up with three American girls. Point I'm trying to make is that alot of the people I met and spent time with in U.S.A. are not racist and would stand up to injustice. I'm not disagreeing with what your saying but just keep what I said in mind, and I'm sorry u feel that way.
400 yrs later nothing has changed... never will
Hawk 1: Do you think Owl is a predator?
Hawk 2: Of course not. He's never bothered me
Hawk: Exactly...I dont know what Mr. Mouse was going on about
I saw that in a cartoon and it's race relations in America. We try to tell you but u can't see so I stop telling.
And it takes having to see your black husband beat up to BELIEVE him and u lay next to him every night
Wow! Great parallel, guess what? Some buffoon won't understand the analogy. It's rhetorical, especially if you have actually experience racial disparity.
JTsky100 shut the fuck up moolie
In my opinion both blacks and whites can be racist. Blacks make fun of whites all the time and whites can sometimes look upon a black person differently. Racism is within all our racial groups. Color does NOT matter. Anyone can be racist.
No there's racist black people to say other wise makes you a fool
Dan R
Making fun of someone is not racism, thats a prejudice. When we kidnap you, change your language make you build our country and set up a judicial system to justify your enslavement, then call us racist all you, but the word your looking for is prejudice.
I'm sorry to hear about tha_ thank you
It may be better for your kids, but it want be earned!!
As a negro male living in Atlanta I fail to understand this. For me race is a matter of love and not of skin color and culture. It is about being showing the world that Jesus is the way and not race. It’s deep shit I am saying, but try sit down and think about this. Peace to all races even hoes.
In all honesty no I would not say just look at or speak to a cop. Often times coming from us, it leads to, "I don't like the way you're looking at me it's suspicious."
Also considered suspicious if we don't look.
Most cops aren't going to verbalize wanting to un a live a certain segment of society that does not mean they don't think it or act on it in their interactions with poc.
I'm a black male from Memphis TN, and I'm well educated,I've since lived and traveled across this entire country I've lived amongst all whites in Tulsa,mostly Hispanics in Albuquerque,majority Native American in Sanders AZ,all and majority African American in Memphis TN,I must say as a dark male,I have had the same encounters with all races,if you give respect,you get respect,but now I'm beginning to think that if this is being done by the black,race and civil rights are being violated as in recent news,then all we are asking is that justice is served in the courts,so far that hasn't happened.
A lot of the racial conflicts are instigated and perpetuated by the real people with power behind the government who are pulling the puppet strings. Racial conflicts serve their "divide and conquer" agenda very well. The news media is owned by the same overlords so the just add fuel to the flames. You can't believe what they portray or describe as 100% truthful.
@@jamesscott1725 if one man commits a crime is his whole community at fault as well
@@expressyt9847 Yes if the community embraces lawlessness like the blacks do.
James Scott white Neanderthal
It aint ya color, its ya culture.
Why is Joey lying??? A Baltimore police officer confirmed on live tv that they are trained to target black men.
@Proud2be White holy shit dude what. the police shouldn't be targeting ANYONE wtf is wrong with you
“They are trained to target blacks” absolute bullshit, if that was true, black cops wouldn’t put up with that! Your speaking out your arse
They’re most definitely trained to target black ppl 😭
I AM PRETTY SURE THAT I HAVE SEEN THE WHITE BOY
John Meister he maybe was just describing his gender and race
Cops are on edge because everyone in thrr US. Carries a gun and isnt afraid to use it
Then why do they shoot unarmed black.men but shake the hands of openly armed white men with assault rifles?
It's not just blacks being harassed by police. I've been harassed many times and I'm white. I've had the conversation with my kids about dealing with police.
It is not coincidental that in our country such different experiences are normal. That shows, how our population lives. Separate and unequal. It is by design. It is because of the way our history and racist society functions. Racism and white supremacy are normalized. Notice, white people, do not even have to think about race. White people find it curious when asked. Do you ever think about race. White persons do not even notice, such question is unusual. Race for white persons is not something they even have to consider. Racism is so normalized, that the monstrous behavior of a whole society is acceptable. White persons are so out of touch with the constant suffering and oppression of black persons, primarily. Other persons of color also suffer in America.
I look white but I identify as black
Black lives matter too.
But when you respond to ‘ALL LIVES MATTER’ with black lives matter surely you can see how that may be misconstrued as stating superiority and therefore a largely counterintuitive thing to say. I know when people say black lives matter they’re unlikely to be trying to imply that they matter more than that of any other race but I can see how someone else could interpret it that way.
I'm glad they showed the black father since it's a negative stereotype that it's no black male fathers in their sons lives
First encounters are important black people are faster to accept a black persons opinion before a white or a Asian or a Latin it is also vise versa it is because you see color before you see anything else think of it as a extended family people will always choose there race it is not racism it is just human nature
The states have to be divided,then no more problem and drama
you do have that its called black neighborhood and how is that working for you?
Lets not forget not all cops are the same.
im from UK and i know how bad america is for racist scared cops the world knows and its makes U.S look very bad and i would never go there not if you paid me U.S got a ton of issues its really many years behind Europe and a lot of other countries in a lot of way statistically its shit. But that was a good conversation needs to happen more.
Media identity politics is so tiring.
My parents had two talks with me.
The sex talk and the race talk.
@not sure How is discussing race a form of brainwashing?
@not sure Sure Jan.
@not sure Look, I don't have time to explain systemic racism to you. If you don't see I'm sorry, all I can tell you is to look it up. Have a great day.
@not sure No I really don't have the time.
Biracial
Only mentioned once?
Seems they’re several Blacks that are biracial on that panel.
Can we get this simple fact straight here in America.
Please..
Throughout American history biracial has been considered black until recently. The police force was originally formed to serve as slave catchers. When the cops pull biracial black people over if they look like a light skinned black person they will be treated Black...
0:56 THIS RIGHT HERE SAYS IT ALL.
Great way to purport Victimization.
A lot of rap videos show groups with ak47s etc talking about killing anyone should that not be talked about why black people get bad press!
white father: "we are more organized, we use grids on the table 3:19 , they dont 2:49"
Has anyone notice that on the internet blacks wanna make fun of white people and white people almost never... and even in real life, it feels like blacks are over powering whites atleast in my area, i live in Florida and when i try to play sports, its much harder.... never in my life have i really seen something eye to eye happened. I know what happens outside and we all see it on the internet, but at the end of the day, I'll rather be black, not to say the n word or to seem gangster, but to play sports without being assumed of something...
The reason many get shot by Police is because they resist Police and are smart asses. When they resist it is a threat to the police officers.
Alton Sterling was a known criminal in Baton Rouge. He did not just sell DVDs.
He had a long criminal record and was a convicted felon who was not supposed to have a firearm.
The Police were called as a result of Alton Sterling pointing his gun at other black people in the parking lot where he was conducting his "business". The police knew he was armed before they arrived because that is precisely why they were called.
When the police arrived Alton Sterling resisted arrest and was tased twice but pulled out the wires and was still resisting. The police then wrestled Sterling to the ground where he was still resisting. His gun was in his pocket and Sterling was reaching for it.
(You can be shot through a cotton pair of pants). Then and only then did one of the police pull their weapon and fire on Alton Sterling.
Had Alton Sterling not resisted arrest (several times) and not acted in a threatening manner toward the police he would have simply been arrested and gone to jail.
I live in Baton Rouge which is a sprawling metro area of around 850,000 people. The area Alton Sterling was in is a high crime area and Police deal with crimes of all types in that area daily with nobody getting killed. The police are not out looking to kill blacks which is the false narrative from the news media. These are facts.
Youre a complete and utter DUMB ASS smh!!
Then vs now I think about being white pretty much everyday
But regardless of my race I think the segregation between both black and white is too far of a gap and it needs to be put together I do a lot of skateboarding and I love it not just because I like to do it but if anyone in this comment section skates too they will understand there is no difference between black and white when skaters are together they are all the same just skaters and that’s wholesome to me
I wish we were all blind.😒
I wish we just treated people like we want to be treated- and do it as we are.
Or we could thoroughly study the problem even if it makes us uncomfortable
Most white guys I've ever spoken to see themselves primarily as their nationality. As do I. Race is what racists care about.
Think about your statement
What is the point of this "journalism"
Racism isnt just black and white. What about brown? Asians?
What a sad country
Wholeheartedly agreed.
@@Jordan_Dossou Well of course you are. The American privilege is the biggest privilege in the world even if people don't acknowledge it. There is a reason why people are risking their lives every day to come to live in USA, it isn't for Starbucks.
Mystic ToMato I don’t agree. Only the people in South America go to America - the rest of the world come to Europe because it’s better - more free stuff - healthcare/ education and housing
@@88Erank Well with that I can agree. In America you have a lot of opportunities which come at the price of you having to be brainwashed by their demonic politics. In Europe you usually won't have those problems while having the same opportunities in some countries. But considering how many immigrants have come to USA these few years from all sides of the world USA really is one of the most desired countries.
White fathers tell their sons to watch out for blacks. And Asian fathers tell their sons to stay away from blacks. LOL? Even Jesse Jackson says he feels safer being followed by whites than blacks. LOL
I love black all people is same