The Gift of Your Absence! 🎁🚶‍♂️

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    00:00 THE GIFT OF YOUR ABSENCE
    02:52 RESET INTERACTION
    06:14 PLAY ON IMAGINATION
    08:29 MYSTERY
    10:33 GIVE THEM THE GIFT OF YOUR ABSENCE!

Komentáře • 132

  • @SCGSHOW
    @SCGSHOW  Před 2 lety +5

    Who have YOU gifted your absence to in your life? 🎁🚶‍♂ Share your story below! ⬇

  • @jimphiripes802
    @jimphiripes802 Před rokem +295

    At the first sign of disrespect or drama, walk away without failure.

  • @corinaluanavlad2417
    @corinaluanavlad2417 Před 11 měsíci +75

    They must learn my value or earn my absence. It's simple.

    • @vickigonya9432
      @vickigonya9432 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Ooohhhhhh I like that!!!! May pit it on my back SUV window ❤

  • @kentaroo.7759
    @kentaroo.7759 Před rokem +62

    I got rid of several people in my life, never heard from them again. I enjoy the peace and quiet.

  • @mikyl-fo8rh
    @mikyl-fo8rh Před 10 měsíci +47

    Ghosting is closure 😌
    When there's nothing left to say,
    or when things are better left unsaid - ghost!

  • @karishort1891
    @karishort1891 Před rokem +101

    Every single word of this is spot on. I ghosted so many people at once, now all their heads are spinning and not mine LOL

  • @Heavenlysky89
    @Heavenlysky89 Před měsícem +8

    I walked away from a dismissive avoidant so it will take time for him to value my absence, if ever, but idc because I'm never returning.

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  Před měsícem

      Never go back

    • @touchme1604
      @touchme1604 Před 8 dny

      You're a woman you must be playing games with him so that's his win after all

  • @iamthestorm1004
    @iamthestorm1004 Před rokem +109

    I’ve gone no contact and blocked my left ex for 17 months now
    She took me for granted and did not value what I had to offer her
    Fine with me
    Love the silence !
    “Crickets” 😅

    • @seriously999
      @seriously999 Před rokem +9

      Same exact thing I’m going thru..it’s only been 3 days now..she hs been treating me worthless and speaking awfully to me like I don’t matter , I’m always the one trying to reach out and begging but u have decided to end it

    • @iamthestorm1004
      @iamthestorm1004 Před rokem +10

      @@seriously999 Sorry to hear you’re dealing with this
      Walk away
      Stay away
      an ex is an ex for a reason
      Work on yourself
      Re connect with family friends long forgotten hobbies
      You’ll be fine brother
      Better out there for you !!

    • @seriously999
      @seriously999 Před rokem +4

      I now believe there’s hope for joy and happiness..ur comment really inspired me to keep moving on ..damn 17 months is legit ..hope I’ll make it like u did

    • @iamthestorm1004
      @iamthestorm1004 Před rokem +3

      @@seriously999 you’ll be ok
      One day at a time
      Trust the process
      You’ve got this
      You are the prize !
      Don’t go back and reopened that door
      Gods got a plan for your life and has the right woman waiting for you behind another door !

    • @cabrondemente1
      @cabrondemente1 Před rokem

      ​@@seriously999 How are you feeling two months later?

  • @truth8027
    @truth8027 Před 2 lety +88

    We do have options when dealing with inconsistent individuals, thank God ..

    • @yahyaelmi8435
      @yahyaelmi8435 Před 9 měsíci

      That’s why you have to master the art of detachment

  • @kentaroo.7759
    @kentaroo.7759 Před rokem +26

    My gift of absence is a permanent gift. I'm not gonna miss them and vice-versa I'm sure.

  • @nestorcolt
    @nestorcolt Před rokem +13

    We must reach that Nirvana, hope you all can get there!

  • @davzrobaichjukes
    @davzrobaichjukes Před 2 lety +14

    So truthful thank you for this

  • @truth8027
    @truth8027 Před 2 lety +19

    We do have options when dealing with inconsistent individuals .. Thank God

  • @theveryplumdarcey
    @theveryplumdarcey Před rokem +4

    Such a lovely video 📹 😍

  • @garygriest1293
    @garygriest1293 Před rokem +10

    best idea I ever heard wish I had these videos years ago great job.

  • @bella3096
    @bella3096 Před rokem +7

    This is so helpful. ❤😊

  • @stevenkrupka3670
    @stevenkrupka3670 Před rokem +6

    Healthy , informative video, thanks dude!

  • @Jesusisking235
    @Jesusisking235 Před 29 dny

    For years I had no idea that I was allowed to walk away from unhealthy relationships (especially toxic draining family members). Now I am at a point where 1 ounce of disrespect I move on... no time for toxic people anymore.

  • @akula9713
    @akula9713 Před 12 dny +2

    A friend borrowed £60, then I found they had been bad mouthing me to my girlfriend, trying to split us up. After confronting them about it. I never saw him or the £60 ever again. Best £60 spent!

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  Před 12 dny

      @@akula9713 Their loss!!

  • @punisher007ish
    @punisher007ish Před rokem +35

    Very interesting and well explained. I'm red pilled and have been looking into these things for a while but this has made me really understand this concept and why it works and made me realise I'm an empath and this used to happen with me (I had to walk away from everyone on my life cos they were all toxic I was surrounded by trash). I'm working on resetting myself. Thanks man

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  Před rokem +2

      Glad it was helpful!

    • @laylahalgharib3150
      @laylahalgharib3150 Před 6 měsíci

      Research Human Design. It will assist you with your purpose!

  • @legendaryeddyb228
    @legendaryeddyb228 Před 7 měsíci +6

    Great Video. I had a sarcastic woman who pretends to be happy for me which I already knew was a lie after I tried to tell her some good news after experiencing some bad luck & then after this encounter I was completely drained. There was absolutely no reciprocity on her part & definitely a lack of effort on her part & then 2 days later when I see her from the corner of my eye as I was speaking to someone else & then after seeing me as I was talking to this someone else, she had the nerve to turn her body & her torso away from me in giving me her back. Extremely rude & disrespectful. Why would I want to talk to somebody like that. At this point I was done with her as I'm about to get rid of her & without warning in which ended up happening. Then a little over a month later as we were walking & coming from opposite directions, she sees me & tries to get my attention by saying HEY & as we got closer, I created distance by completely walking right past her ignoring her acting as if she doesn't exist & completely walking away.

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  Před 7 měsíci +2

      👏🏻👏🏻

  • @gw6496
    @gw6496 Před rokem +3

    On point👌🏾👍🏽👍🏽

  • @monigiselle2140
    @monigiselle2140 Před měsícem

    Great video. Thank you. I'LL USE THIS STRATEGY TO TRICK MY BRAIN AND FORGET.

  • @therealone8628
    @therealone8628 Před 2 lety +2

    Nice 👍

  • @donaldcummings6439
    @donaldcummings6439 Před rokem +5

    Another fabulous common sense video presentation. Thank you!

  • @owenbutcher1954
    @owenbutcher1954 Před 9 měsíci +2

    WELL PRESENTED ✊🏻

  • @mediniphukan5959
    @mediniphukan5959 Před rokem +1

    Amazing 👏

  • @estebanvalenzuela9899
    @estebanvalenzuela9899 Před rokem +9

    This video is awesome is the one thing I've been looking for, it really helped me thank you.!!

  • @debkayemba3507
    @debkayemba3507 Před rokem

    Wow 👌 nice video

  • @leratoseretsi5603
    @leratoseretsi5603 Před rokem

    Amazing

  • @LAbidjanaiseBlogMode225
    @LAbidjanaiseBlogMode225 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Thank you ❤❤❤

  • @keith2o9
    @keith2o9 Před 10 měsíci +3

    You just told the story of my life.

  • @Cimaazimi11
    @Cimaazimi11 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thank you 🙏🏽 💛🧡💛

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  Před 11 měsíci

      You are so welcome

  • @tammyfitzgerald5336
    @tammyfitzgerald5336 Před rokem +2

    Freedom 🎉❤🎉🙏🏽💯🙏🏽💯🙏🏽💯

  • @frederickruhl5606
    @frederickruhl5606 Před rokem +23

    I walk away from them and I am glad to never talk to them and they don't know what to do about it .I choose to be with those who respect me when they stop respectful to me I am gone with out a single word from me. RUHL2

  • @insaneboy1234
    @insaneboy1234 Před rokem +3

    Your videos are fantastic. Btw, your voice sounds like Wheatley from Portal 2 game 😀

  • @jcymngo
    @jcymngo Před 13 dny

    I want them to leave me alone!!!

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  Před 13 dny

      Do so by walking away!

  • @therealone8628
    @therealone8628 Před 2 lety +3

    I'm dealing with 8:58

  • @akula9713
    @akula9713 Před 12 dny

    If they want to be with you they will try to be with you. No need for mind games. Lovers are like buses, there will be another one along shortly.

  • @catylynch7909
    @catylynch7909 Před rokem +2

    AKA ... Who needs them???

  • @sj-md9mo
    @sj-md9mo Před rokem +1

    ✨💛

  • @Weazy44Tuclanta
    @Weazy44Tuclanta Před rokem +6

    what do u do when a girl gives u signals she wants you to make a move but when you reach out she dont respond

    • @hp2546
      @hp2546 Před rokem +3

      That girl would be lying to herself. What she is interested in was playing hard to get. She wanted to test you to see how you respond. She wanted an ego boost so that way when you reach out, she can reject. This situation is where your absence will make her attractive to you because if you don't take her test, she wonders why you did not fall for her trap.

    • @Weazy44Tuclanta
      @Weazy44Tuclanta Před rokem +2

      @@hp2546 i havent contacted her in a while but ill probaly run into her eventually we both go to the same college i aint gonna be no asshole or nothing to her im just not gonna give her my full undivided attention

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  Před rokem +3

      You did your bit. Thanks for Watching 👏

    • @Weazy44Tuclanta
      @Weazy44Tuclanta Před rokem +2

      @@SCGSHOW no problem love these kinds of vids i have aspbergers so i cant pick up on social cues like the norm

    • @Rajab25161
      @Rajab25161 Před 9 měsíci

      Just back up and act neutral

  • @EricSmith-gn7nd
    @EricSmith-gn7nd Před 6 měsíci

    One text and I’m out. If they want u they will let u know. I don’t even ask them out anymore

  • @redditcard9288
    @redditcard9288 Před 11 měsíci +2

    she said she lost feelings for me and offered friendship. I begged and pleaded for 2 weeks and she got irritated and at last i told her we cannot be friends and its better if we stop talking (basically told her that I'm not gonna reach out) and she asked me not to break snap streaks. it's been 3 weeks now and she seems very normal about it, what're my chances?
    Also i asked her to reach out if she change her mind.

    • @steelesharpensteele6252
      @steelesharpensteele6252 Před 11 měsíci +2

      Hit the gym focus on ya$$$ never break no contact n move on bro shes nobody but your HIM
      remember that

    • @tymills22
      @tymills22 Před 11 měsíci +2

      Break that snap streak. She lost feels but wants the daily attention boost? Nah son

    • @hardstyle8184
      @hardstyle8184 Před 11 měsíci

      Take the risk… don’t break no contact

    • @topshotta8856
      @topshotta8856 Před 9 měsíci

      Keep it P brother 🚶🏾‍♂️💨

    • @rikkaushik467
      @rikkaushik467 Před 7 měsíci

      You made a mistake by giving her statement of you are available for her she will put her at ease, as she might think you would be keep waiting .

  • @Wolfhammered
    @Wolfhammered Před 9 měsíci +1

    Can a break up do this same thing?

  • @CITYBEACHTV
    @CITYBEACHTV Před rokem +2

    It’s absenCe

  • @dmfdaz9339
    @dmfdaz9339 Před 2 měsíci

    I didn't. I hung around, hoping she would change she was OK for a couple of weeks, then would show her true colours well, now, she has to deal with no reaction to her constant baiting.

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  Před 2 měsíci +1

      👏🏻👍🏻

  • @kendalette726
    @kendalette726 Před rokem +9

    What if they moved on with someine they actually like more?

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  Před rokem +27

      Good riddance to them

    • @iamthestorm1004
      @iamthestorm1004 Před rokem +20

      K-11
      If your ex moved on with someone else
      Be thankful God closed the door on that former relationship
      Take the time to grieve the loss
      Work on yourself
      Don’t rush into another relationship
      Trust the process
      Trust God !!

    • @karishort1891
      @karishort1891 Před rokem +11

      Poo on them! Better is on the way to you. Do yourself a favor and move on happily -- even if you have to fake it a while, eventually you will feel so much better ❤️❤️❤️

    • @brujatSA
      @brujatSA Před rokem +7

      Would you want a life with a person who wants better? Instead of being with a person you'll feel enough with?

    • @francoismarc3
      @francoismarc3 Před rokem

      @@karishort1891 This is the most real advice ever.

  • @FaintAura
    @FaintAura Před 11 měsíci

    What do you do when it's a coworker you want to pull away from?

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  Před 11 měsíci +1

      Speak to your boss

    • @joleaneshmoleane8358
      @joleaneshmoleane8358 Před 10 měsíci +3

      Quit your job if your boss won’t handle it. People should always be able to quit their job without fear. If someone has worked somewhere for a year or more, and they can’t quit their job bc they can’t go without pay for at least 2 months, then they’re living beyond their means. Having too many bills to pay makes you a slave to whoever you’re working for.

  • @bubblegumwrap7813
    @bubblegumwrap7813 Před rokem +10

    Why should you go back...lol

  • @Deeznutz864
    @Deeznutz864 Před 7 měsíci +1

    The lengths people go through for attention 😂

  • @igordrm
    @igordrm Před 4 měsíci

    All theses videos about absence is about reacting to others, and feed your own ego by imagining others confused about your absence. Then, what seems independence is a subconscious clinging to someone else. So wrong. If from someone's point of view you have driven yourself away, it must be because you heard the call to meet yourself and you need to focus.

  • @stevemiller8895
    @stevemiller8895 Před 6 měsíci

    Who are you trying to fool everybody is toxic name one person that you know who isn't toxic to some degree. You should reconsider your bulshit. Besides most empaths are very socially unreliable. Those will be the people that you would deem as toxic

    • @SCGSHOW
      @SCGSHOW  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Thanks for watching mate