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  • čas přidán 26. 06. 2024
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    thomas frank suggests asking these questions when thinking of jobs
    q1 - Are you building or maintaining?
    q2 - Are you using your current skills or are you learning new ones?
    q3 - How much creative autonomy do you have?
    q4 - Interaction with others
    q5 - Level of authority over other people
    q6 - Do you like being in the spotlight?
    q7 - Work-life balance
    Research ideas.
    1. Write down all your interests.
    2. Research and take action on each interest per week. So one interest for each week.
    3. Journal your feelings every day about that interest.
    4. Then decide to choose one and fully focus on it!
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Komentáře • 51

  • @JayFriedrichs
    @JayFriedrichs  Před rokem +2

    What’s your personality type ??! I’m and ENFJ!

    • @virgiliod.9436
      @virgiliod.9436 Před rokem

      I think I could fit in to most personalities. Do I have multiple Personality disorder?

    • @virgiliod.9436
      @virgiliod.9436 Před rokem

      I think I'm an INFJ just because I have to be.

    • @lajana23
      @lajana23 Před rokem +1

      So you're the protagonist. That's a good one. Which one expresses their anger 🤬? That's the one for me.

    • @JayFriedrichs
      @JayFriedrichs  Před rokem

      @@lajana23 hahah! have you taken the test?

    • @intellectualnerd4544
      @intellectualnerd4544 Před rokem +1

      I am your opposite.INFJ😂😆😆😆😆.That is why I can relate to you and get you

  • @perlacardiel2525
    @perlacardiel2525 Před rokem +6

    Love the realness and hopeful outlook Jay! 🙌🏻I’m currently in the same boat. I graduated w BSN. Got my RN license and all…but was not stable w that career in terms of feeling “connected” to it. I knew beforehand but kept going regardless. I really appreciate you sharing this, gen z does a good job of acting like we got it together. But the other half is good at showcasing they’re lost as hell too. I felt very alone when I was having these feelings but accepted them and am hoping to find something that feels more authentic to me. Definitely here to see your journey as well!

    • @JayFriedrichs
      @JayFriedrichs  Před rokem

      Haha 😂 ya I think a lot of this generation is lost and knows it. Hard to Balance career vs dreams

    • @perlacardiel2525
      @perlacardiel2525 Před rokem +2

      ​@@JayFriedrichs And I love that for our gen! We acknowledge it and are trying to do something about it, then settle. A new path may not even have to be "our dreams" but it can also be more aligned to ourself and or our interest area. Or whatever we want it to be!

  • @TheKsingh1990
    @TheKsingh1990 Před rokem +8

    Hey man, keep pumping out the content, its been nice following you on your journey. Last time I commented, I was doing my prereqs. I'm now in an ASN program doing my first semester with fundamentals, med surg I and clinicals. Thanks for inspiring me.

    • @JayFriedrichs
      @JayFriedrichs  Před rokem +1

      Thats awesome my dooood! Thanks for watching 😁 good luck on your journey hope to see ya around

  • @rachelg2478
    @rachelg2478 Před rokem +2

    This is great! I’m in a similar spot with having so many hobbies but not knowing what my career path should look like. I’m an ENFP

  • @kathy1501
    @kathy1501 Před rokem +2

    Strong work! 👊

    • @JayFriedrichs
      @JayFriedrichs  Před rokem

      Thanks 😁I love the profile pic it’s pretty cool !

  • @nursebalynda8724
    @nursebalynda8724 Před rokem +1

    Love your videos

    • @JayFriedrichs
      @JayFriedrichs  Před rokem

      That actually means a lot (: thanks for watching

  • @juanfernandez1585
    @juanfernandez1585 Před rokem +2

    Dude, your editing is crazy. Good job!
    This came at the perfect time. I’m 23, in my 3rd year in uni and still haven’t majored in anything. It’s been frustrating but like you said, take it one day at a time. My problem is that I’m indecisive and I need to just pick a path and see where it goes. Thanks for the content brother.

    • @JayFriedrichs
      @JayFriedrichs  Před rokem

      Thanks so much man, means more than you know 😊and I feel that, it’s hard to just know what to do with the rest of your life. Good luck to you hope you find something you enjoy.

    • @discipleofjesus719
      @discipleofjesus719 Před rokem

      Good luck! Don’t stress if you don’t have it all figured it out yet. Wishing you the best in this friend. God has a plan for you

  • @cjmuri
    @cjmuri Před rokem +1

    This is helpful

  • @EstebanMejia-dp1zq
    @EstebanMejia-dp1zq Před rokem +3

    Good afternoon Jay,
    I've been watching you for a while now, you've inspired me in many ways and have truly changed my life; I can't thank you enough. I am applying to medical school soon, I want to venture out and pursue my passions after I obtain my degree. I am using this degree as a side-step to get to my true goals. This video gave out a lot of valuable content like visualization and how humans are NOT supposed to be sitting around all day. Keep grinding brother, I'll be watching!

    • @JayFriedrichs
      @JayFriedrichs  Před rokem +1

      They truly aren’t meant to stare at screens and sit inside all day 😁 thanks for watching and all your kind words

  • @jenniehoze
    @jenniehoze Před rokem +3

    Hey!! My dream is to become registered nurse, often people would tell me nursing is stressful and headaches, but I don’t seem to pay attention on those I know it’ll be hard but it’s apart of my passion and dream I really wanna become nurse, I wanna help people and saving life that’s all about my motivation of nursing. What do you think think of it ?? I know I’ll be hard but I think I’ll be worth it as long as it’s passion . What’s your opinion on this ???

    • @JayFriedrichs
      @JayFriedrichs  Před rokem

      I love that! I will say to try and shadow a nurse for a day or explore more into the career maybe try to talk too some nurses in your area. I wanted to help people and make people better too but in application nursing is a little different. But I like that you have an understanding that it will be hard and continue to use your reasoning to get ya through the tough moments. Nursing is good because there is a lot of lateral movement a lot of different nurse roles you can try. So just explore all the types of nursing

  • @MattWillsGreatGuy
    @MattWillsGreatGuy Před rokem +1

    💪

  • @hanabanana513
    @hanabanana513 Před rokem +1

    Gym is life bro ♊️

  • @victoriadelgado367
    @victoriadelgado367 Před rokem +1

    Yuhhhh me rn at 21 💯

    • @JayFriedrichs
      @JayFriedrichs  Před rokem +1

      Hahah ayyy We all going through it

    • @hollyellison2655
      @hollyellison2655 Před rokem +1

      Me rn at 20, i feel you

    • @discipleofjesus719
      @discipleofjesus719 Před rokem

      Best of luck to you! Don’t over stress and don’t forget to take it easy! “Cast all your anxiety Him because He cares for you”
      1 Peter 5:7

  • @intellectualnerd4544
    @intellectualnerd4544 Před rokem +1

    The struggle is real.

    • @discipleofjesus719
      @discipleofjesus719 Před rokem

      You can get through it! Never give up 💪 wishing the best for you and God’s got you
      “So don’t worry, because I am with you. Don’t be afraid, because I am your God. I will make you strong and will help you; I will support you with my right hand that saves you.”
      ‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭41‬:‭10‬ ‭

  • @bouabdellaouibasma4173
    @bouabdellaouibasma4173 Před rokem +1

    ISFP-T 😅

  • @suns1457
    @suns1457 Před rokem +1

    Nursing sucks. You are not alone man. Wish it was different

    • @JayFriedrichs
      @JayFriedrichs  Před rokem

      Ya pros and cons for sure!

    • @discipleofjesus719
      @discipleofjesus719 Před rokem +2

      You’re not alone in this either. You can definitely overcome whatever you’re going through. God bless and sending you prayers!

  • @jango_5882
    @jango_5882 Před rokem +1

    Did u take the critical thinking portion when u took the hesi?

    • @JayFriedrichs
      @JayFriedrichs  Před rokem

      The hesi as in nursing entrance exam ? I didn’t take that cuz I was pre-accepted into my program I think to be pre accepted it was like gpa score and high school gpa and then freshman year of college grades too.

  • @Jbones810
    @Jbones810 Před rokem +1

    You play a good game Mr

  • @virgiliod.9436
    @virgiliod.9436 Před rokem

    I don't believe in Horoscopes too because I have two signs and who knows who the real expert in Horoscope is.

  • @anthonypersonal4994
    @anthonypersonal4994 Před rokem +2

    Give your life Jesus christ and he'll help you like he helped me. I was just like you before with the same emotions and lack of not knowing but once i started to read the bible it all made senses and my questions were answered. Just be carful with the people you surround yourself with and the fake Christians. btw read the gospel of John and god bless!

    • @JayFriedrichs
      @JayFriedrichs  Před rokem +2

      Hey man! Thanks for your comment. I actually Went to christian elementary school and college! Glad your faith helped your journey.

  • @michaelangelo3305
    @michaelangelo3305 Před rokem

    i thought u quit nursing