At 60yrs old my then hubby dumped me for a much younger woman and had managed to keep almost everything. So alone and almost broke, I decided to make a plan. I'm an OTR truck driver so I lived in my semi and saved up enough to pay cash for an older 23ft motorhome. I've hung on to my old 2002 car so no car payments. Now I have a home and freedom. I can do what I want when I want, just me and my dog and life is good. Gotta make the best of what ya got. I retire in 6mos and then it's time for adventure, yay! 😀
When a man gets divorced, he reflects on what happened and what his part was in this. When a woman gets divorced she never and I mean NEVER takes any responsibility whatsoever for her part. You Patricia, are a great example of this.
@@HomelessWhiteMaleStartingOvera I take it you're not very happy. I'm sure I wasn't perfect, none of us are, but I was faithful, loyal and hard working. I'm so sorry that someone wounded you so deeply. I sincerely hope your heart heals and your life improves. Best wishes to you.
At 62 just chill and do your best and avoid any distractions or commitments until you’re in love with you. I love the fact that you understand it’s not her it’s both of your responsibility relationships end. The children come first hopefully you don’t have a partner that wants you to pay for everything. The child’s expenses are for both to pay not just dad….❤
@@patriciabandeko3842 Shifting this to make it about me ? Let us see you take responsibility for your part of your failed union. Still waiting here, still waiting...
54, male, Divorced in 2020. Acquired a raw acre of land in 2022. Cleared a portion, laid down clay padding, water, electricity & septic tank projects later. Purchased a motorhome and moved to my acre January of this year. Rent and mortgage free semi off grid.
I use to be in the medical field making a decent living and happy. When I turned 30 years old I was diagnosed with a very rare autoimmune disease and it has no cure. Unfortunately I could no longer work in the medical field or work at all. I became permanently disabled and moved home with my parents for four years to get myself more stable. I couldn't wait to get back on my feet again. I decided to buy an rv and move into an rv park. It was frugal living and saving me money. I was able to get back on my feet and gain my independence but still live on disability. I would never look back. I love living in my RV. I'm going on 8 years now. Life throws you lemons but you just have to make lemonade. Way to go!
I did the same thing at 52. Divorced my wife after 26 years once I woke up to how much of a narcissist she was, and how every time we'd get caught up and were no longer living paycheck to paycheck she would do something to sabotage us. Like, foreclosures on two houses and two bankruptcies during our marriage. After the divorce I bought an RV and dramatically cut my cost of living and increased my happiness.
@@wilE6764 Yeah, it surprised me when I started having money left when the next payday rolled around. It only took me a year to get completely out of debt. I can't believe I was so blind for so long. Now I'm starting to save to buy some land in the White Mountains of Arizona.
Good men marry women who are takers, losers from what I have seen, good women marry men who are takers, losers, lazy. I am happy that you decided to you had enough. We all deserve to be respected, be happy in our lives when it isn’t working we are doing ourselves a favour as well as them to end it move on. I think the only reason my husband got married he was afraid to come home to a dark home at night. I think the very reason there are so many men women living alone single is because of being taken for a ride in more ways than one, they had their fill so much so they are afraid to trust enjoy living on their own. The peace, quiet, no drama is priceless.
13 years with my highly abusive ex and friends under out in married a version of my mom, a narcissist. Never had money issues until I had two incomes and one house … $250 000 dollars of theft later, I gave her everything and the only reason she left the s because I homeschooled during Covid and she was about to have to support her family and that was out of the question. Living my best life now and the she-devil is now understood by my offspring and they cat stand her abuse. They will be with me full time soon.
As we age, we realize that so much of what we once considered as important is actually not. Peace, good health, and happiness to you, Ernest, and thank you for sharing your story. 👍🏾
Friend did the same thing divorced bought an RV found a GF while he was traveling she also was divorced neither want to marry again. He has groups he belongs to meets up different parts of the country. Having those friends all over the country really helps.
Just subscribed. I turn 62 in a month and have appied for my ss to start then. I was widowed when I was 53. Been lost a bit after my husband passed although I was always the breadwinner. Finally waking up to doing me.
Check and see if you can draw on your husbands SS it may be higher than yours now, that way you can wait until later to draw yours which will increase every month you don’t draw it
Just remember, if you take SS early and not your full retirement age, you will get less money per month. I made that mistake and figured I'm losing about $400 a month. I'm 78 now and receive a little over $900 a month. COLA isn't much each year, if any at all.
@@pamplant3610 Well the way I look at it is I could be dead before full retirement age and my estate gets zero. As you get older you see friends / family pass and so I decided to take my ss now and not wait.
Good on you! Like you, I retired on SS at 62yo after a dozen years in trucking. A divorce in 2008 had me downgrading from a 3000 sq ft home to the following: V berth of my dad's sailboat, sleeper of a semi truck, camper shell in my pickup and a converted 6x12 cargo trailer. Now, I have a small paid off home in the Philippines with a wife and I stay with family/friends in the US. Be careful with a new RV in the future. Huge nightmares with the RV industry since 2019. Watch Liz Amazing channel here on YT. She is calling out the companies. Like cars, the new stuff is expen$ive and full of problems.. You're right, there are no guarantees in life, that why I put my faith in Jesus Christ. I believe in His promises, this life here is only temporary.
I was thinking the same thing about new rv's, his 2007 is probably more solid than a new one, I have 2008 TT and it's very solid, you step into a new one and it feels very cheap.
I'm 64 divorced and retired. This is my dream, pray one day I can get a tiny home or an affordable van to live in. I'm willing to give up everything, to live a simpler and affordable life. I've put it in God's hands, so, if it's His will, he will help me accomplish it. Sorry to hear about your divorce, but, I believe everything happens for a reason. God bless you on your new journey. Enjoy! God bless you!
I am a 61 year old female nearing retirement in Texas. I am seriously considering doing what you’re doing. I don’t know all of the in’s and out’s of it right now but I’m going to have to research it. Thank you for the video. May God continue to bless you. You did right by your kids. My ex-husband did not.
After being widowed I sold everything and lived in a truck camper for two years while I built my own gypsy wagon rv. It is my forever home and built exactly the way I wanted it.
Your channel popped up on my sidebar this afternoon and I decided to view it. Glad I did...you seem like a very nice and honest man. I do not understand why some people are going nuts that you are paying $700.00 monthly to park in an RV Campground. They have not checked out rental prices, particularly in a tourist town like San Antonio. New subscriber here that is looking forward to following your journey. Best of luck!
Thank you I live at the RV park because it's close to my kids and work. I could easily move further out and pay 300 dollars less. But then I would be spending more on driving. So, for me, it's worth the cost. Maybe when I retire, I'll move. Thanks for watching.
You got that right. Health matters. I’ve been dealing with panic attacks since my early 20s even though it’s a mental issue it sure has made life so much harder than it has to be. You’re an inspiration to how life should be lived.
Ernest, this is my first time watching. I appreciate your honesty and candor. I believe if you keep pushing forward and love yourself youll enjoy this time in your life. Im 61, in Texas and have come to love the simple life. Hugs 😊
Just a few comments since your video was inspirational. Congrats to you Sir on your positive attitude, on your service to country, and on recognizing that your time and health have become your most valuable assets. I was shocked to learn you're 60. You could pass for at least 10 years younger. Good luck with your future journeys. And please don't buy a new RV. They are notorious for ruining people's retirement dreams. Buy pre-covid build year and make sure to have a pre-purchase inspection done by independent inspector that you find. Not by a dealer. Best of luck!
Most of us humans today have been divorced and see a bight future. You my friend are on to a new happy life with the great attitude you have. Take care
Well said brother! Thanks for taking the time to make this video. I moved into a brand new 19 foot camper after living in camper before i just realized how much I hated having an apartment. And I couldn’t be happier.
Take it. I've known people who died before age 62 and never got to enjoy their retirement. I started working at age 16 by 18. I was in a union working l retired at age 55, I own my house I'm 65 now, and I enjoying every bit of it and own my rv and am taking my grandkids camping all the time.
1st time viewer new subscriber. Full time RV Nomad since January 13, 2019. 2x divorcee with one broken engagement. I paid 2 ex wives per month at same time. Solo empty nester now. I paid child support for 14 years. I relate to your video. Thanks for your video. Life gets better after divorce. I went from 5drm home. To a 2bdrm apartment to a 45 ft triple axle toy hauler! I love my RV Nomad life!
I am watching and learning. I went through the "D" about 14 years ago. I borrowed to buy a smaller house so my kids could have a place to lay their heads down when they visited me . Before doing the house I lived in a borrowed 5th wheel while doing the court battle on all that goes on during divorce. Now I am thinking of retirement 4 to 5 years and might go back to RV life style. Good Luck with every thing and stay strong.
Good for you being debt free after a divorce. We're retired FT RVers who have stayed 3 winters at a nice little RV park in the RGV (with clean private bathrooms, laundry, etc.) for only $170/mo. + electric (which would run me $80-$100/mo.) We have enough solar now that we don't need hook-ups anymore, so boondock most of the time for free on BLN and Forest Service land. We enjoy traveling the country like nomads, We're visiting our son in NC now and staying a few months at a no hookup site in a convenient RV park for only $100/mo. You live in a very nice RV park, so if it fits your budget, and convenient for work you're doing great. After retirement though, you might want to find something a little cheaper, especially if you still must pay child support.
This video just came up on my feed and decided to watch.Much respect to you for sharing your story,I think it's a nice set up,wish you all the best brother 🙏
I bought 40 acres in a northern national forest at 30 yrs old, all while married, raising to kids, and building a home 30 minutes outside the city limits. When the kids were on there own (I married at 22), we had a pieceful divorce. I had paid everything off by 40 years old (including the 40),so I gave her the big house on the hill, and I kept my wild forest property...and moved to it. I quit my job, and took a low paying seasonal job up north. I hand built the place little at a time by hand....and enjoyed no longer working in winter, or fighting city traffic. At 50 I was basicly semi retired and happy. At 60 I retired on my small pension, and took SSI at 62. Not a lot of money monthly, and driving 30 yr old cars and old pickup. I fish, hunt, canoe, and want for nothing now at 72 yrs old. My kids and grandkids come up on vacations and holidays...can't beat it! My ex married her longtime lover, and they slowly wasted what I left them with...and so it goes. I even set up a family cemetary on my property, so we all have our final resting place. The best oart ... if anyone makes the journy to see me, it means they really wanted to! I was probably ahead of my time in my thinking...but I believe it was because I knew who I was at heart early in my life. I planned WAY ahead, and it paid off! Peace to you all....time for an evening bloody mary and a few cold ones as I watch the wildlife off my screen porch.
$700 is very reasonable for your park. Thanks for this video and giving us a little summary of your life, it's interesting. My husband will receive $1700 a month Social Security in 4 yrs and I'll receive $800 a month at age 62. We have a mortgage but are putting in an offer for a major fixer upper home on 8 acres this coming weekend. It will reduce our housing to $125 per month if they accept the offer. We E-Bike many places so try to stay fit by cycling. I love cycling. I'm looking forward to growing much of our food too, and having hens, ducks and rabbits. I only have a 75K IRA which will double in 10 yrs I hear...so it is for whoever outlives the other. Otherwise we will get by just fine without a healthcare, homeowners or water bill. I earn $25 per hr and the job will last 34 yrs, depending. Max 4 more years. I'll save 1k a month to add to my 9k emergency fund. to most we'll be poor but hopefully be neaby a great Health Food Store and a great church. Can't get better than that
I was in an RV park paying $790.00 a month . I ended up buying 20 acres of bare land and the land payment is the same . I figured why pay a trailer park when I can buy my own land . I put the utilities all in my self .
@@micheleyoungbloodyes and something could happen and you might die before you get to full retirement age. Then you wouldn’t have accomplished anything and all that money that was rightfully yours gets kept by the govt.
Ernest Sir i applaud you for having the positive attitude and I’m sorry that you’ve had to experience that divorce thing that most of us had to do. Keep it up and just keep moving forward doing what makes you happy.
Your older RV is built much better than any piece of junk built today. Very nice unit. Keep it and make any repairs you may need. Don't buy anything new or built after 2018
@@lmErnest 😊😊 I love to travel...that is where I am finding my happiness. I am currently building out my minivan and documenting on my youtube channel.
Ernest, thanks for sharing how you manage in this situation. You are a calm voice of reason. It makes me happy to hear a man that speaks with logic and calm like my grandfather and Uncle did. Best of luck😊
Set yourself up pretty well Ernest, made smart decisions for your future. I'm 53 trying to stay ahead of things but it's life man, one thing i'm definitely working on making healthy choices. Thanks for Sharing!
Looking for a travel trailer now. Lived in them before and I enjoyed it. I don't need a lot of space and it's so much cheaper than trying to rent an apartment. ❤
You can start getting ssi at 62 but you are limited to earning just over 14 a year but it will continue to increase you ssi. After 65 there is no limit on earnings and it continues to increase SSI. I did it. Retired Paramedic/ firefighter, registered Nurse, Lived aboard a sailboat and used it to travel up and down the west coast working. Sold it 6 yrs back and bought 20 remote acres now. I feel like I’m the luckiest man on earth. Be nice to meet a nice woman to enjoy this with me though !!
I am new to your channel. I appreciate your honesty about your situation and it's very good! I like where you live and it is so wonderful to not be burdened with debt. I am younger than you but had to leave my 6 fig salary because I was diagnosed with Leukemia. My whole life went a direction I was not planning on. I've been lucky to have gotten into a 55+ community (where there's a waiting list!). I live in an expensive town in MA, but anywhere in New England is expensive nowadays. Since you will early retire (i.e. b/f 65), you'll be able to enjoy your HEALTH and start a whole new chapter in life.....find a relationship again and since you have no mortgage, you can go anywhere you want. I like your attitude. Thanks for sharing your story. I edited this to come back and say that you could grow your YT channel. Talk about retirement, the pros/cons. A lot of the cons are that some people don't know what to do with themselves. 🙃 You could be an asset to people who are thinking about the idea and are not sure of what to do.
Rightsizing makes a lot of sense to me. If it was just me, I would live in a smaller home or cabin or RV. I don't like having too much stuff, it just clutters my mind having to think about it all and take care of it.
After working for about 30 years, I retired and got killed in a divorce. She took 200K in lieu of alimony, enough money to pay her new home for three years, and, then, took 25 percent of my pension I had earned working in the California Department of Corrections. All of this was in 2007. I had to learn to live on less, and discovered, that everything I own actually owns me. I now live in an RV park, in a trailer, and have a small pickup. Everything is paid for. I have a much less stressful part time job and feel freer than I ever have. I have become a minimalist and live by the motto "less is more." She never worked which was always a bone of contention with me. She was a Pro-Choice Feminist Christian woman, who, in the end, ended up with the best of both worlds--at my expense. (Here in California Family Court Judges have a tremendous amount of discretion.) Anyway, enough of me. Keep up the good fight sir. Thanks for letting me share. Roy, So Cal.
Thank you for posting this it was a recommended video but I love seeing people talk about alternative living and thriving in any condition but also thriving in the rv world. I dreamed of living in an rv when I had a mansion just like you were saying lol and I love the lifestyle. My wife was an avid camper growing up and was down and we love this lifestyle. I try to get younger people to join in to save money and be able to buy land and build wealth. Just like you said we can live in a big home but we love the rv life lol we also love not having debt if we don’t want any. Love it brother and preach.
Thank you for sharing your journey so far in a RV . I’ve been thinking about a Tiny Home and looking into getting my social security soon. I’ve got to do more research on RV vs Tiny Home. 😊
Bro, if you have your health , you have a good start to rebuild your life. I can’t imagine having to go through what you have gone through. However, sounds like you are on an excellent rebound for your life. I enjoyed your video. You have a good attitude which is an encouragement for others that may have started over. Gosh, your home is fantastic, it’s perfect. Actually, I’m sure you are an inspiration for many people. Gosh, you even have a pool. I live in California, San Francisco Bay Area. This type of living is really needed where I live. However, land value is so expensive, it’s difficult for developers to set up something like this.
Thank you this it was a very interesting and honest video. You seem to being doing just fine and after divorce it's important to take time for yourself and live in peace.🙏
Twenty one years ago, at age 55, my dad became infuriated with his job. Tired of the endless cycle of consumerism and taxes, he made a 1 year plan. He bought a nice Class C, used. Set up a rear mount for his paid off KLR 650 motorcyle, and tow bar for his old Jeep TJ. After prepping for a year, he sold his house. Banked the equity and moved to a RV park in a Florida forest. He was a master mechanic and handyman. He performed cash side jobs to supplement his savings and eventually his pension and Social Security. Spent his massive amounts of free time riding his fat tire bicycle and fishing in the lakes around his RV. He just passed away in that RV a few months ago. For ten of those years, he was on the same exact lot overlooking a lake. He never had a shred of stress. Unfortunately, heart failure got him. He is proof to me that it is possible to check out from the rat race and have more time to yourself instead of being a wage earner until you die.
I love your outlook on life . Your home on wheels is fantastic I love it. I have never seen your videos before came across my feed. I will subscribe. You’re a fantastic person. 🤙 Thank you for serving our country 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
Advice...don't buy any big ticket items like a new RV or truck. Payments will eat heavily into your "freedom/travel/fun" money. Live the minimalism life (within reason) and learn to be happy and appreciative of what you already have. Instead, save your money for life's necessities, and for fun weekend trips and vacations with your kids and friends.
I have a 2004 Class C. 29 ft. I had it professionally washed in Fl, and the guy used pool chlorine. Ugh! It took the clear coat & a lot of paint off of the entire lower half of the RV. I decided to paint it. It was a job (4 days), but it was worth it. I washed the RV top to bottom, sanded the areas, taped it out, papered the area & spray painted it. I just did it last week, so I still have to spray on the clear coat. It looks 100% better. The total cost was around $400. I'm 61. If I can do it, anyone can
He must have not been a professional I was a professional detailer for few years never heard anyone using pool chlorine on paint. The car detail industry is well supported by local companies we even got our RO filtered water from them for mobile detailing. The most we would ever use is dawn dish soap and a soft scrub brush if it had road tar or if the paint needed work polishing compound. I hope no one ever let that guy use a rotary buffer probably burned the paint off cars. We always had a few old cars we would test a new employee on watch them see if they knew what they were doing.
I’m turning 60 this July. Divorced last year. Paying rent and living with family. I’m with checking out Eastern Europe and SE Asia for a retirement target date of Feb 2028. God bless everyone who’s simply finding a peaceful path. ✝️
Kudos to YOU Ernest :)- I applaud YOU for your courage to be WHO you are as a person to think outside of the "box". It is $AD that you worked SO HARD to end up in your situation but YOU are a very $trong individual!!!! Kudos :)-
Kudos for keeping a good attitude. I follow Kevin also and he decided at 12 years old that how he wanted to do his older years and it worked out. You have things worked out well and should pat yourself on the back , We are not promised not one second of tomorrows. Regardless of how much you have or bust your butt. All we can do is treat people how you want to be treated. Cutting grass and maintenance eats away at your time, You are in a fabulous position to be in going into your retirement. Happiness does not have a price tag. Peace is a gift . Enjoy whatever comes your way.
New subscriber! Looking forward to hearing all about your retirement adventures. I'm not there yet but looking forward to the day. I downsized a few years ago and became completely debt free. I guess you can say I created my own retirement plan. It feels good to have no financial worries, so I know exactly how you feel. I often think about buying an RV... maybe I will one day before I turn 62 😃!
I guess one of the hardest things to deal with is being away from your kids no matter how old they are but you have to do what works for you.I am 62 and ready to venture out some and enjoy less a stressful life.
Great content 👍🏽 I chuckled, 🤭 at your “might want to spend time with the children 😅 I can relate with all of them. I love your 5th wheel! I didn’t know they had toy hauling space inside 😮 I golf ⛳️ so if the stars align for me, I want something very similar. Thanks for sharing!
I think you're doing well. I moved into a tiny home community 3 years ago and only wish i had i it many years ago. I lived in my parents' motor home while they were sick. I knew i would love it.
I lived in a 30 foot fifth wheel for about three years in central Florida. From the ages of 29-32! Found a nice quiet park that would accept someone in my age range. Met some really awesome old folks as well as a fairly young but retired Green Beret. He got cancer and died young, right next to me in fact. RIP Robert St. John.
Well done. I subscribe to your lifestyle. Your home looks very comfortable. No stress. Come & Go as you please. Lovely uncomplicated life. Peace on you, and thank you for your Service.
14:45 Don't know if you noticed, but you have some delimitation on the back wall. I'd recommend resealing the ladder and the roof 'cause it's often caused by water leaks, but also really hot sun light.
Wow. I hope that you find the happiness in your situation. Subscribed. I live in San Antonio TX too. I'm messing up and almost into a divorce, so I'm getting my act together because I have a good wife, nice modest home and two great kids 😢. I'm the one causing trouble. And yes, renting an apartment would be out of the question for me personally! If I were to mess up all the way 😢
At 60yrs old my then hubby dumped me for a much younger woman and had managed to keep almost everything. So alone and almost broke, I decided to make a plan. I'm an OTR truck driver so I lived in my semi and saved up enough to pay cash for an older 23ft motorhome. I've hung on to my old 2002 car so no car payments. Now I have a home and freedom. I can do what I want when I want, just me and my dog and life is good. Gotta make the best of what ya got. I retire in 6mos and then it's time for adventure, yay! 😀
When a man gets divorced, he reflects on what happened and what his part was in this.
When a woman gets divorced she never and I mean NEVER takes any responsibility whatsoever for her part.
You Patricia, are a great example of this.
@@HomelessWhiteMaleStartingOvera I take it you're not very happy. I'm sure I wasn't perfect, none of us are, but I was faithful, loyal and hard working. I'm so sorry that someone wounded you so deeply. I sincerely hope your heart heals and your life improves. Best wishes to you.
At 62 just chill and do your best and avoid any distractions or commitments until you’re in love with you. I love the fact that you understand it’s not her it’s both of your responsibility relationships end. The children come first hopefully you don’t have a partner that wants you to pay for everything. The child’s expenses are for both to pay not just dad….❤
@@patriciabandeko3842 Shifting this to make it about me ? Let us see you take responsibility for your part of your failed union. Still waiting here, still waiting...
@@jeffcole1914 You are what is referred to as the 'white knight', always coming to the rescue of the hoes. Pathetic.
54, male, Divorced in 2020. Acquired a raw acre of land in 2022. Cleared a portion, laid down clay padding, water, electricity & septic tank projects later. Purchased a motorhome and moved to my acre January of this year. Rent and mortgage free semi off grid.
I use to be in the medical field making a decent living and happy. When I turned 30 years old I was diagnosed with a very rare autoimmune disease and it has no cure. Unfortunately I could no longer work in the medical field or work at all. I became permanently disabled and moved home with my parents for four years to get myself more stable. I couldn't wait to get back on my feet again. I decided to buy an rv and move into an rv park. It was frugal living and saving me money. I was able to get back on my feet and gain my independence but still live on disability. I would never look back. I love living in my RV. I'm going on 8 years now. Life throws you lemons but you just have to make lemonade. Way to go!
What part of the medical field?
Paramedic/firefighter
I did the same thing at 52. Divorced my wife after 26 years once I woke up to how much of a narcissist she was, and how every time we'd get caught up and were no longer living paycheck to paycheck she would do something to sabotage us. Like, foreclosures on two houses and two bankruptcies during our marriage. After the divorce I bought an RV and dramatically cut my cost of living and increased my happiness.
So your x wife made all the decisions and you, poor helpless thing, were just made to go along with it. I think you call that a loser.
Wow...sounds like we married the same woman..divorced mine in December after 18 years..same thing though always stealing from me ..had enough
@@wilE6764 Yeah, it surprised me when I started having money left when the next payday rolled around. It only took me a year to get completely out of debt. I can't believe I was so blind for so long. Now I'm starting to save to buy some land in the White Mountains of Arizona.
Good men marry women who are takers, losers from what I have seen, good women marry men who are takers, losers, lazy. I am happy that you decided to you had enough. We all deserve to be respected, be happy in our lives when it isn’t working we are doing ourselves a favour as well as them to end it move on. I think the only reason my husband got married he was afraid to come home to a dark home at night. I think the very reason there are so many men women living alone single is because of being taken for a ride in more ways than one, they had their fill so much so they are afraid to trust enjoy living on their own. The peace, quiet, no drama is priceless.
13 years with my highly abusive ex and friends under out in married a version of my mom, a narcissist.
Never had money issues until I had two incomes and one house … $250 000 dollars of theft later, I gave her everything and the only reason she left the s because I homeschooled during Covid and she was about to have to support her family and that was out of the question.
Living my best life now and the she-devil is now understood by my offspring and they cat stand her abuse. They will be with me full time soon.
Thanks everyone for all the support. This video is my most popular video. ❤
Arnest all kidding aside good luck on your journey and thank you for your service to our country ❤
I think perhaps the reason being there are so many out there who can relate to you. We have found what we had lost ourself we are happy on our own.
As we age, we realize that so much of what we once considered as important is actually not. Peace, good health, and happiness to you, Ernest, and thank you for sharing your story. 👍🏾
Thanks for sharing your story.
Almost 7 yrs for me, camper van no rent no mortgage no utilities 100 % off grid.
Friend did the same thing divorced bought an RV found a GF while he was traveling she also was divorced neither want to marry again. He has groups he belongs to meets up different parts of the country. Having those friends all over the country really helps.
Ernest you look amazing man for 62 i swear you look like your in your 40's easy. Thanks for sharing this info its very interesting and also helpful.
40's I'm thinking he looks much younger than that maybe 39
Me too, he's looks great
I was amazed by that too--some of us (not me) age extremely well.
One person may see a shack but to others it is a castle. I hope someday to get an RV and make it our Castle.
Just subscribed. I turn 62 in a month and have appied for my ss to start then. I was widowed when I was 53. Been lost a bit after my husband passed although I was always the breadwinner. Finally waking up to doing me.
Just was aproved for SS.
Check and see if you can draw on your husbands SS it may be higher than yours now, that way you can wait until later to draw yours which will increase every month you don’t draw it
Yes, check on widow benefits .
Just remember, if you take SS early and not your full retirement age, you will get less money per month. I made that mistake and figured I'm losing about $400 a month. I'm 78 now and receive a little over $900 a month. COLA isn't much each year, if any at all.
@@pamplant3610 Well the way I look at it is I could be dead before full retirement age and my estate gets zero. As you get older you see friends / family pass and so I decided to take my ss now and not wait.
Good on you! Like you, I retired on SS at 62yo after a dozen years in trucking. A divorce in 2008 had me downgrading from a 3000 sq ft home to the following: V berth of my dad's sailboat, sleeper of a semi truck, camper shell in my pickup and a converted 6x12 cargo trailer. Now, I have a small paid off home in the Philippines with a wife and I stay with family/friends in the US.
Be careful with a new RV in the future. Huge nightmares with the RV industry since 2019. Watch Liz Amazing channel here on YT. She is calling out the companies. Like cars, the new stuff is expen$ive and full of problems..
You're right, there are no guarantees in life, that why I put my faith in Jesus Christ. I believe in His promises, this life here is only temporary.
Thank you for your comment
New follower here! Going to
O be 62 in July. Hoping to do something different too.
I was thinking the same thing about new rv's, his 2007 is probably more solid than a new one, I have 2008 TT and it's very solid, you step into a new one and it feels very cheap.
@@lmErnestgood looking unit for sure its amazing how hot this trend is now congrats of finding peace God Bless.
I retired at 60. Consulted part time for awhile. The freedom from job stress is unbelievable! You'll see!
I'm 64 divorced and retired. This is my dream, pray one day I can get a tiny home or an affordable van to live in. I'm willing to give up everything, to live a simpler and affordable life. I've put it in God's hands, so, if it's His will, he will help me accomplish it. Sorry to hear about your divorce, but, I believe everything happens for a reason. God bless you on your new journey. Enjoy! God bless you!
I am a 61 year old female nearing retirement in Texas. I am seriously considering doing what you’re doing. I don’t know all of the in’s and out’s of it right now but I’m going to have to research it. Thank you for the video. May God continue to bless you. You did right by your kids. My ex-husband did not.
Check out Thailand you can live good off social security that’s my plan
After being widowed I sold everything and lived in a truck camper for two years while I built my own gypsy wagon rv. It is my forever home and built exactly the way I wanted it.
That is SOOOO NEAT.....
That’s so cool!! I love the gypsy style ones!!
Your channel popped up on my sidebar this afternoon and I decided to view it. Glad I did...you seem like a very nice and honest man. I do not understand why some people are going nuts that you are paying $700.00 monthly to park in an RV Campground. They have not checked out rental prices, particularly in a tourist town like San Antonio.
New subscriber here that is looking forward to following your journey. Best of luck!
Thank you I live at the RV park because it's close to my kids and work. I could easily move further out and pay 300 dollars less. But then I would be spending more on driving. So, for me, it's worth the cost. Maybe when I retire, I'll move. Thanks for watching.
You got that right. Health matters. I’ve been dealing with panic attacks since my early 20s even though it’s a mental issue it sure has made life so much harder than it has to be. You’re an inspiration to how life should be lived.
Ernest, this is my first time watching. I appreciate your honesty and candor. I believe if you keep pushing forward and love yourself youll enjoy this time in your life. Im 61, in Texas and have come to love the simple life. Hugs 😊
Hi ernest, I'm glad you take care of your kids, love your home, your a good guy, you'll be ok😊
Thank you for sharing your story. Hang in there! Keep up the faith! May God bless you and strengthen you everyday.
Just a few comments since your video was inspirational. Congrats to you Sir on your positive attitude, on your service to country, and on recognizing that your time and health have become your most valuable assets. I was shocked to learn you're 60. You could pass for at least 10 years younger. Good luck with your future journeys. And please don't buy a new RV. They are notorious for ruining people's retirement dreams. Buy pre-covid build year and make sure to have a pre-purchase inspection done by independent inspector that you find. Not by a dealer. Best of luck!
I’m curious why pre-covid? What’s the difference from one after covid yet not brand new.
You look great for 62! Good job my man.
I enjoyed this video. Job well done. Thank you, Ernest.
Most of us humans today have been divorced and see a bight future. You my friend are on to a new happy life with the great attitude you have. Take care
I can see why it feels like home to you... it's really cozy & comfy looking! Got everything a person needs👍
This is one of the realest videos ive seen.
Bravo for sharing your Life with us.
Well said brother! Thanks for taking the time to make this video. I moved into a brand new 19 foot camper after living in camper before i just realized how much I hated having an apartment. And I couldn’t be happier.
Take it. I've known people who died before age 62 and never got to enjoy their retirement. I started working at age 16 by 18. I was in a union working l retired at age 55, I own my house I'm 65 now, and I enjoying every bit of it and own my rv and am taking my grandkids camping all the time.
1st time viewer new subscriber. Full time RV Nomad since January 13, 2019. 2x divorcee with one broken engagement. I paid 2 ex wives per month at same time. Solo empty nester now. I paid child support for 14 years. I relate to your video. Thanks for your video. Life gets better after divorce. I went from 5drm home. To a 2bdrm apartment to a 45 ft triple axle toy hauler! I love my RV Nomad life!
Will you be trying to get married for a 3rd time or did you learn your lesson?
Nice trailer. Keep your head up. I'm rooting for you. Sounds like retirement is gonna treat you well.
I am watching and learning. I went through the "D" about 14 years ago. I borrowed to buy a smaller house so my kids could have a place to lay their heads down when they visited me . Before doing the house I lived in a borrowed 5th wheel while doing the court battle on all that goes on during divorce. Now I am thinking of retirement 4 to 5 years and might go back to RV life style. Good Luck with every thing and stay strong.
Good for you being debt free after a divorce. We're retired FT RVers who have stayed 3 winters at a nice little RV park in the RGV (with clean private bathrooms, laundry, etc.) for only $170/mo. + electric (which would run me $80-$100/mo.) We have enough solar now that we don't need hook-ups anymore, so boondock most of the time for free on BLN and Forest Service land. We enjoy traveling the country like nomads, We're visiting our son in NC now and staying a few months at a no hookup site in a convenient RV park for only $100/mo. You live in a very nice RV park, so if it fits your budget, and convenient for work you're doing great. After retirement though, you might want to find something a little cheaper, especially if you still must pay child support.
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I like your positive attitude, keep it up!!
This video just came up on my feed and decided to watch.Much respect to you for sharing your story,I think it's a nice set up,wish you all the best brother 🙏
I bought 40 acres in a northern national forest at 30 yrs old, all while married, raising to kids, and building a home 30 minutes outside the city limits. When the kids were on there own (I married at 22), we had a pieceful divorce. I had paid everything off by 40 years old (including the 40),so I gave her the big house on the hill, and I kept my wild forest property...and moved to it. I quit my job, and took a low paying seasonal job up north. I hand built the place little at a time by hand....and enjoyed no longer working in winter, or fighting city traffic. At 50 I was basicly semi retired and happy. At 60 I retired on my small pension, and took SSI at 62. Not a lot of money monthly, and driving 30 yr old cars and old pickup. I fish, hunt, canoe, and want for nothing now at 72 yrs old. My kids and grandkids come up on vacations and holidays...can't beat it! My ex married her longtime lover, and they slowly wasted what I left them with...and so it goes. I even set up a family cemetary on my property, so we all have our final resting place. The best oart ... if anyone makes the journy to see me, it means they really wanted to! I was probably ahead of my time in my thinking...but I believe it was because I knew who I was at heart early in my life. I planned WAY ahead, and it paid off! Peace to you all....time for an evening bloody mary and a few cold ones as I watch the wildlife off my screen porch.
$700 is very reasonable for your park. Thanks for this video and giving us a little summary of your life, it's interesting. My husband will receive $1700 a month Social Security in 4 yrs and I'll receive $800 a month at age 62. We have a mortgage but are putting in an offer for a major fixer upper home on 8 acres this coming weekend. It will reduce our housing to $125 per month if they accept the offer. We E-Bike many places so try to stay fit by cycling. I love cycling. I'm looking forward to growing much of our food too, and having hens, ducks and rabbits. I only have a 75K IRA which will double in 10 yrs I hear...so it is for whoever outlives the other. Otherwise we will get by just fine without a healthcare, homeowners or water bill. I earn $25 per hr and the job will last 34 yrs, depending. Max 4 more years. I'll save 1k a month to add to my 9k emergency fund. to most we'll be poor but hopefully be neaby a great Health Food Store and a great church. Can't get better than that
Sounds like a plan
I was in an RV park paying $790.00 a month . I ended up buying 20 acres of bare land and the land payment is the same . I figured why pay a trailer park when I can buy my own land . I put the utilities all in my self .
You will receive much more social security if you wait for your full retirement age if you can wait.
@@micheleyoungbloodyes and something could happen and you might die before you get to full retirement age. Then you wouldn’t have accomplished anything and all that money that was rightfully yours gets kept by the govt.
Ernest Sir i applaud you for having the positive attitude and I’m sorry that you’ve had to experience that divorce thing that most of us had to do. Keep it up and just keep moving forward doing what makes you happy.
Is a Mansion , I live in a truck smaller than a prison cell, you are in heaven bro,be safe.
Your older RV is built much better than any piece of junk built today. Very nice unit. Keep it and make any repairs you may need. Don't buy anything new or built after 2018
Was just going to say! Yup we bought a 2019 and they're not built as good.
Amen to that! Life is not fair...you just have to grab happiness where you can get it❤❤❤
Exactly
@@lmErnest 😊😊 I love to travel...that is where I am finding my happiness. I am currently building out my minivan and documenting on my youtube channel.
That's great 👍
Wow! Your RV is beautiful. Thanks for sharing!
Good video. Nice park. Love seeing the alternative living options
Ernest, thanks for sharing how you manage in this situation. You are a calm voice of reason. It makes me happy to hear a man that speaks with logic and calm like my grandfather and Uncle did. Best of luck😊
Thank you for sharing and your honesty, god bless.
Welcome ❤️
You got all need..Good for you.
Keep it up
Congrats to you! Love your video and life is short and be happy. Love the RV life 😊
You are doing fine. Continue being happy. Lived in San Antonio around medical center and taught with Northside ISD. Keep on what you enjoy. 😊
Set yourself up pretty well Ernest, made smart decisions for your future. I'm 53 trying to stay ahead of things but it's life man, one thing i'm definitely working on making healthy choices. Thanks for Sharing!
i live in San Antonio, My Dad had a Rv and lived in a Rv park and he also would take trips. You do what You feel Best For You. Its a Nice Rv 😊
Looking for a travel trailer now. Lived in them before and I enjoyed it. I don't need a lot of space and it's so much cheaper than trying to rent an apartment. ❤
First time viewer just subscribed, keep it up Ernest
u have it all figured out-thanks for sharing-rig is great as is
You can start getting ssi at 62 but you are limited to earning just over 14 a year but it will continue to increase you ssi. After 65 there is no limit on earnings and it continues to increase SSI. I did it.
Retired Paramedic/ firefighter, registered Nurse,
Lived aboard a sailboat and used it to travel up and down the west coast working. Sold it 6 yrs back and bought 20 remote acres now. I feel like I’m the luckiest man on earth. Be nice to meet a nice woman to enjoy this with me though !!
Thank you for your service, I was in the army as a medic, thank you for sharing your story
Thank you for posting, 61 years young. This is my dream
Really nice and cozy. I really want to do that.... I also have to say that I would not have guessed that you are 62 years old. You look amazing.
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First time listener... subscribed👍
I am new to your channel. I appreciate your honesty about your situation and it's very good! I like where you live and it is so wonderful to not be burdened with debt. I am younger than you but had to leave my 6 fig salary because I was diagnosed with Leukemia. My whole life went a direction I was not planning on. I've been lucky to have gotten into a 55+ community (where there's a waiting list!). I live in an expensive town in MA, but anywhere in New England is expensive nowadays.
Since you will early retire (i.e. b/f 65), you'll be able to enjoy your HEALTH and start a whole new chapter in life.....find a relationship again and since you have no mortgage, you can go anywhere you want. I like your attitude. Thanks for sharing your story.
I edited this to come back and say that you could grow your YT channel. Talk about retirement, the pros/cons. A lot of the cons are that some people don't know what to do with themselves. 🙃 You could be an asset to people who are thinking about the idea and are not sure of what to do.
Rightsizing makes a lot of sense to me. If it was just me, I would live in a smaller home or cabin or RV. I don't like having too much stuff, it just clutters my mind having to think about it all and take care of it.
After working for about 30 years, I retired and got killed in a divorce. She took 200K in lieu of alimony, enough money to pay her new home for three years, and, then, took 25 percent of my pension I had earned working in the California Department of Corrections. All of this was in 2007. I had to learn to live on less, and discovered, that everything I own actually owns me. I now live in an RV park, in a trailer, and have a small pickup. Everything is paid for. I have a much less stressful part time job and feel freer than I ever have. I have become a minimalist and live by the motto "less is more." She never worked which was always a bone of contention with me. She was a Pro-Choice Feminist Christian woman, who, in the end, ended up with the best of both worlds--at my expense. (Here in California Family Court Judges have a tremendous amount of discretion.) Anyway, enough of me. Keep up the good fight sir. Thanks for letting me share. Roy, So Cal.
Thank you for posting this it was a recommended video but I love seeing people talk about alternative living and thriving in any condition but also thriving in the rv world. I dreamed of living in an rv when I had a mansion just like you were saying lol and I love the lifestyle. My wife was an avid camper growing up and was down and we love this lifestyle. I try to get younger people to join in to save money and be able to buy land and build wealth. Just like you said we can live in a big home but we love the rv life lol we also love not having debt if we don’t want any. Love it brother and preach.
Thank you for sharing your journey so far in a RV . I’ve been thinking about a Tiny Home and looking into getting my social security soon. I’ve got to do more research on RV vs Tiny Home. 😊
I so appreciate the honesty. Good video and God bless
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Just came across your video. I enjoyed it .
Wow!!
What a NICE PARK! 👍🏻❤️❤️
Bro, if you have your health , you have a good start to rebuild your life. I can’t imagine having to go through what you have gone through. However, sounds like you are on an excellent rebound for your life. I enjoyed your video. You have a good attitude which is an encouragement for others that may have started over. Gosh, your home is fantastic, it’s perfect. Actually, I’m sure you are an inspiration for many people. Gosh, you even have a pool. I live in California, San Francisco Bay Area. This type of living is really needed where I live. However, land value is so expensive, it’s difficult for developers to set up something like this.
Really enjoyed your video I know you will make the right decision that will make you very happy
Thanks Sister
Thank you this it was a very interesting and honest video. You seem to being doing just fine and after divorce it's important to take time for yourself and live in peace.🙏
Twenty one years ago, at age 55, my dad became infuriated with his job. Tired of the endless cycle of consumerism and taxes, he made a 1 year plan. He bought a nice Class C, used. Set up a rear mount for his paid off KLR 650 motorcyle, and tow bar for his old Jeep TJ. After prepping for a year, he sold his house. Banked the equity and moved to a RV park in a Florida forest. He was a master mechanic and handyman. He performed cash side jobs to supplement his savings and eventually his pension and Social Security. Spent his massive amounts of free time riding his fat tire bicycle and fishing in the lakes around his RV. He just passed away in that RV a few months ago. For ten of those years, he was on the same exact lot overlooking a lake. He never had a shred of stress. Unfortunately, heart failure got him. He is proof to me that it is possible to check out from the rat race and have more time to yourself instead of being a wage earner until you die.
Great story 👏
Im 57. Broke. Rent a room. Main job is ending. Company moving out of state. Cant afford apartments now.
I love your outlook on life . Your home on wheels is fantastic I love it. I have never seen your videos before came across my feed. I will subscribe. You’re a fantastic person. 🤙 Thank you for serving our country 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
Man, I LOVE your attitude!! Well done!!
Thank you
@@lmErnest You are so welcome! God Bless you! 🙏
Advice...don't buy any big ticket items like a new RV or truck. Payments will eat heavily into your "freedom/travel/fun" money. Live the minimalism life (within reason) and learn to be happy and appreciative of what you already have. Instead, save your money for life's necessities, and for fun weekend trips and vacations with your kids and friends.
I will thanks
Great advice ❤
If the the money you have isnt at work..put it to work. Yields/Dividends..cash is trash..
Live your best life, now. Tomorrow is never promised.
I seen your video and I see the sadness in your eyes and your voice and just pray to God and everything will be ok . Wish you the best
I have a 2004 Class C. 29 ft. I had it professionally washed in Fl, and the guy used pool chlorine. Ugh! It took the clear coat & a lot of paint off of the entire lower half of the RV. I decided to paint it. It was a job (4 days), but it was worth it. I washed the RV top to bottom, sanded the areas, taped it out, papered the area & spray painted it. I just did it last week, so I still have to spray on the clear coat. It looks 100% better. The total cost was around $400. I'm 61. If I can do it, anyone can
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Good job Glamper!
He must have not been a professional I was a professional detailer for few years never heard anyone using pool chlorine on paint. The car detail industry is well supported by local companies we even got our RO filtered water from them for mobile detailing. The most we would ever use is dawn dish soap and a soft scrub brush if it had road tar or if the paint needed work polishing compound. I hope no one ever let that guy use a rotary buffer probably burned the paint off cars. We always had a few old cars we would test a new employee on watch them see if they knew what they were doing.
Great video. I'm going through the same thing. Massachusetts is outrageously expensive and the family court system is incredibly corrupt.
Just subscribed a good honest guy.
Great video thanks for sharing n God Bless you.
Blessings 🙏 shoutout from Pleasanton Tx
Good luck on your adventures.. I hope you have fun.. I subscribed so I can follow along..
Moving abroad could be the decision ever for so many.
Its the new american dream....
I'm currently in the Philippines checking things out. If you can deal with the humidity, it's a pretty good deal.
@@JakeTheSnake500
In Europe it’s not that humid…and probably a better option.
I’m turning 60 this July. Divorced last year. Paying rent and living with family. I’m with checking out Eastern Europe and SE Asia for a retirement target date of Feb 2028. God bless everyone who’s simply finding a peaceful path. ✝️
That is something that’s not attainable for most people.
Kudos to YOU Ernest :)- I applaud YOU for your courage to be WHO you are as a person to think outside of the "box". It is $AD that you worked SO HARD to end up in your situation but YOU are a very $trong individual!!!! Kudos :)-
Kudos for keeping a good attitude. I follow Kevin also and he decided at 12 years old that how he wanted to do his older years and it worked out. You have things worked out well and should pat yourself on the back , We are not promised not one second of tomorrows. Regardless of how much you have or bust your butt. All we can do is treat people how you want to be treated. Cutting grass and maintenance eats away at your time, You are in a fabulous position to be in going into your retirement. Happiness does not have a price tag. Peace is a gift . Enjoy whatever comes your way.
Well said thank you 😊
New subscriber! Looking forward to hearing all about your retirement adventures. I'm not there yet but looking forward to the day. I downsized a few years ago and became completely debt free. I guess you can say I created my own retirement plan. It feels good to have no financial worries, so I know exactly how you feel. I often think about buying an RV... maybe I will one day before I turn 62 😃!
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I guess one of the hardest things to deal with is being away from your kids no matter how old they are but you have to do what works for you.I am 62 and ready to venture out some and enjoy less a stressful life.
Its called freedom. Sending love and light 🫶✌️
Very informative video! I think this lifestyle is fantastic for anyone.
That's wonderful you can ENJOY the second half of your journey❤😊
Second half lol sure
Great content 👍🏽 I chuckled, 🤭 at your “might want to spend time with the children 😅 I can relate with all of them. I love your 5th wheel! I didn’t know they had toy hauling space inside 😮 I golf ⛳️ so if the stars align for me, I want something very similar. Thanks for sharing!
Ernesto bendiciones cuídate! You got this. A friend from CA
2:43 love that framed picture in the background. beautiful classic.
Yes, my parents before they were married. I had wonderful parents.
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Good for you. Nice place. Nice big shade trees
I think you're doing well. I moved into a tiny home community 3 years ago and only wish i had i it many years ago. I lived in my parents' motor home while they were sick. I knew i would love it.
I lived in a 30 foot fifth wheel for about three years in central Florida. From the ages of 29-32! Found a nice quiet park that would accept someone in my age range. Met some really awesome old folks as well as a fairly young but retired Green Beret. He got cancer and died young, right next to me in fact. RIP Robert St. John.
Well done. I subscribe to your lifestyle. Your home looks very comfortable. No stress. Come & Go as you please. Lovely uncomplicated life. Peace on you, and thank you for your Service.
I did a no build cargo trailer. I enjoy workcamping . It's perfect . Thanks for sharing your story
Thank you
14:45 Don't know if you noticed, but you have some delimitation on the back wall. I'd recommend resealing the ladder and the roof 'cause it's often caused by water leaks, but also really hot sun light.
Smart living 👌 you're doing great, keep up the positive 😊
Wow. I hope that you find the happiness in your situation. Subscribed. I live in San Antonio TX too. I'm messing up and almost into a divorce, so I'm getting my act together because I have a good wife, nice modest home and two great kids 😢. I'm the one causing trouble. And yes, renting an apartment would be out of the question for me personally! If I were to mess up all the way 😢