What is an Unfit Parent? Unfit Parents and Custody
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- čas přidán 26. 06. 2024
- Is your co-parent an unfit parent? How do you know and how can you prove it?
In this video, we explain how the court, attorneys, and guardian ad litem determine if a parent is unfit to have child custody.
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▬ Contents of this video ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬
0:00 - Child Custody vs. Child Placement
0:55 - How Can You Show That a Parent is Unfit?
3:29 - Beware of Showing a Lack of Communication
4:32 - Show a Consistent History
5:41 - How Attorneys Prove an Unfit Parent
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You are really giving us alot of information to strengthen our cases and it's highly appreciated.
My ex boyfriend deams me as an unfit mother. The father does not communicate with me at all he threatens to strip me of all my parential rights. I do not have any of that. Plus, I am in treatment for my Mental health. Thank you for your video 📹 ❤ found it very informative 👍 and educational thank you.
Failing to register you vehicle is grounds to lose custody?
This was so amazingly helpful. Thank you, and I'm looking forward to working with you guys!
Extremely helpful. Thanks for going into elaborate detail 😊
Thank you for this video
The communication point is something I didn’t know was that important. An ex threatening me, falsely accusing me and simply verbally harassing me on talking parents would be good to show in court?
A private attorney (not the district attorney acting on behalf of the people) can compel you to submit all that private information ? And no crime is even alleged..
I know some unfit mothers. They get away with it
Mine is a Narcissistic idiot and doesn’t get any help
Great video
My spouse does not communicate with me on a mature level. Always throws the past at me. Never lets me see our talk to our children by video or by phone (only if I do not call or make her upset in any way) as she is in another state. She took the kids and fled. No abuse of any kind from me. I also have a child from my first marriage that I'm the sole custodial parent. My spouse Is emotionally immature, uncooperative, doesn't want me to have my time with our children whatsoever and I don't know what I can really do. She never sends pics or anything and if I make her mad in any way she keeps me from the children and from talking with her. Blocking my phone number and social media. She gives me bare seconds to 1 minute every so often with the kids. She will make up every excuse in the book why they're unable to talk with me by phone or video. It's been like this for 14 months. I've filed for divorce already and I need help proving I'm a better parent for the children and will 100% cooperate with the mother and law should I have custodial conservativeship. I love our children very much as a father but she lacks emotional, verbal, nurturing care and other forms of being a mother. I'm practically alienated from our children.
I hope you won from being able to proof the parental alienation
@@TamikaWoodard1029 well I won by getting through to my ex wife what’s right and wrong. What’s mature and immature. Many days of arguing and getting my point across. Today I get talk to our kids daily, we respect each other more than we had over a year ago. We co-parent well and agree on things. Yes we have disagreements but we talk as adults. We do not argue. We have learned to get along, support our decisions, and go forward. Who knows where it will all lead. Right now I’m content with where things are. I hope that men can do what I have done to become better leaders of their children and ex wife or ex girlfriend. A man can always have the lead even if he doesn’t have his children. Just need a different perspective and approach.
So if I have had seven years of help with depression and anxiety, improved over depression to where it was no longer a diagnosis, and improved over anxiety to where anxiety was not as much of an issue, to where the therapist was moving away from it and onto other things ... but if I lacked the last year out of eight because I felt comfortable not having therapy because I had achieved what I had got there to do, does that make me yet unfit as a parent?
My ex husband is using your law firm. I reached out first 2 months before yet you guys accepted him after I already spoke to and try to hire you which is a conflict of interest. How about that because it was told to me by another lawyer that it was wrong.
It’s a conflict if there has already been an intake and information exchanged’ since no money was put on retainer ,any info they gave you was general in nature,‘and they are not bound to anything you make public,‘if they run into a true conflict, then they are to withdraw .
Each persons case is different on a case by case basis.
True.
So just a quick question as to what you mean by social media? I have had my daughter for 2-3 days of the week every week and the only social media I have is work related so it contains very few pictures of her, will that affect me negatively?
Hello Cody, thank you for your question. The rule our attorneys talk about is don't put anything out on the Internet you wouldn't want a judge to see.
What about child photos mentioning on it have a court case say next month. Or talking bad about other parent with people commenting verbal abuse on the posts pictures that child is on social that was posted also about the other parent too. What can be done with this and if that parent had a protection order to not harrass or abuse etc yet the parent is posting all above on social media
Married but dad overseas for 3 years and alienated daughter - trying now to get 50/50 thought relationship is not established. Lack of communication and concern for childs wells being is my concern - will court think to give full custody? They did not start reaching out till the first divorce proceedings were filed.
What would be wrong with getting ahold of you ex and let him know that disappearing for extended periods of time with out contact is not going to work. Firm but
I've Talked about those things you mentioned, it didn't mean anything in my custody case.? I didn't hear you mention anything about a polygraph...
Thank you for pointing that out. Keep in mind, there are a lot of situations specific to your case. We are addressing the main points that affect most cases.
Great info! Thank you
Unfitness means being CRIMINALLY CONVICTED of a felony OR being CLINICALLY DIAGNOSED insane.
Was that a C PAC record? How do you obtain records of the ex when they have had their uncle attorney seal or expunge them?
My ex has two lewdness charges, dui marijuana charges, seatbelt/child restraint charges but he has been able to hide them.
Hello Shyann, thank you for your question. We recommend that you discuss this with your attorney directly.
@@sterlinglawyers I found it on my own, but thank you for your suggestion.
So everyone who is “not prudent” should lose custody of their children?
If that were the case, there would be very few parents still with custody.
@@scottmatznick3140 the state laws are absurd by design
So my traffic violations implies I'm a bad parent? 😂🤣🤣🤣...I'm sure bad cooking and farting excessively does as well then
My former attorney never answered this: Can a person be unfit if a relative that used to live with them was a sex offender?
Hy Laydee, every situation is unique and complex, so I would be unable to provide a direct answer to a specific situation without a thorough discussion of the details. If this is a WI or Illinois matter that someone is seeking an attorneys assistance for, Please reach out to us @ (262) 346-9238.
It’s unreal my ex husband is a lying, cheating, alcoholic
Ok, here's one issue I've done a lot of research into, as it almost lost me custody.
I used to have a really bad drug problem. All day, every day. When I got divorced, I quit. It was hard. To prove it, I've had to take drug tests. I've taken urine tests and hair.
Problem with the latter is that the testing methods use quite a few assumptions:
1) hair grows the same length in August that it does in January.
That's just illogical
2) body hair grows at the same rate as head hair.
It does not.
I ran into issues as a bald man, because when I was ordered to take hair tests, the hair came from my face and body, which grows far slower than head hair.
However, I learned that the specific spot and rate of growth for said area isn't even taken into consideration.
Thus, since body hair grows at about 50% the rate that head hair does, drugs stay in my hair twice as long, if they're using the same metric to gauge it.
That's incredibly unscientific, and caused me to have to pay thousands of dollars to prove that I'm clean. I have been for a year, and I'm still afraid that the next one will not show that.
Your super duper accurate tests are only accurate to a very specific set of variables, and anything outside of that should be dismissed as inaccurate.
I would rather take 2x daily urine screens than go up against doctors and judges who don't even bother to learn the limitations of the techniques they employ.
What if it has been resolved by you and your therapist that you no longer need their assistance or to see them for services. Ok. people move on. You cannot say that with all the local resources here at our disposal. What excuse do you have. As a result of using a resource. Let me adjust myself.
F
I guess they can take the kids for any reason.
There is a better way. Parental custody of children is actually a very simple matter to solve given the true desire of “What is best for the child”.
We need to separate and discard marriage from family law as they no longer seem to be connected and "Marriage makes people treat each other as articles of property and no longer as free human beings. Einstein".
We can develop protocols that confer (over time) equal parental rights and responsibilities,…..once parentage is proven.
Children’s natural maturation process has 3 essential stages of need.
A.The unconditional love of the mother from birth until about 7 years of age. The mother to have “thefinalsay” and to receive child allowance.
B.The conditional love of the father, who takes his children out into the world, gives security and teaches social boundaries from 7 until about 13 years of age. The father to have “thefinalsay” and to receive child allowance.
C.The friendship and respect of peers from 13 until 18 years of age. The child to have “thefinalsay”.
If these 3 stages are not gone through in order, maturation is unlikely to be satisfactorily achieved and mental resilience reduced. This has now become generational.
Such a regime of equal parenting rights (over time) would bind parents into a co-operative relationship, because (over time) each will hold the power of “thefinalsay” sequentially when they are best favoured to use it.
Such family protocols would be the default position, (allowing love, courtesy and humour to prevail) but could in exceptional cases be varied by the court.
Buckminster Fuller said:-
“You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete”.
To alleviate suffering is worthy. To prevent it is divine, but thankless.
You’re full of it. The mother can’t even speak English so no, communication is irrelevant.
Thank you for this video