THIS SHOULD'VE NEVER HAPPENED *Disrespected by a Male Lifeguard!!

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  • THIS SHOULD'VE NEVER HAPPENED *I got busted by the lifeguard!!
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Komentáře • 136

  • @Kitt_Katt__Kitt
    @Kitt_Katt__Kitt Před 3 lety +44

    That’s so odd. People in Florida water parks will wear absolutely anything. And everyone just minds their business. Lol it’s a swimsuit.

    • @SunkissedMama
      @SunkissedMama  Před 3 lety +9

      Same here tho!! Like at our local waterpark girls are in thongs, no one would dare to approach them. Thats just not a thing, let woman live!!

    • @charlirose4924
      @charlirose4924 Před 2 lety

      @@SunkissedMama ya he is probs just jealous of u:)

  • @darrenmeiissayoumumdonn-wa1933

    Darren Yes 💓👶Sun-kissed

  • @iamanda211
    @iamanda211 Před 3 lety +17

    not just a mom but any woman! that was so inappropriate of him to ask you to cover up when they have a specific policy about bottoms and yours was FINE

    • @SunkissedMama
      @SunkissedMama  Před 3 lety +3

      Exactly what I'm saying!! It was so embarrassing...

    • @jadeswrapsandbraids
      @jadeswrapsandbraids Před 2 lety +2

      Hers was definitely not fine. It may not of been a G string or thong but it was pretty close to being a song. It still showed her butt cheeks which was inappropriate for that particular place. The lifeguard was doing his job. Being rude about it, was not OK. He could've gone about it a different way. But that bikini bottom was not at all in compliance With what their rules and regulations were

  • @lauraco743
    @lauraco743 Před 3 lety +20

    They did not body shamed you, your bikini was too revealing and they have to follow the rules, I don't get why people get everything as an offense nowadays

    • @SunkissedMama
      @SunkissedMama  Před 3 lety +1

      I called and spoke to a manager and they 100% we're not allowed to do what they did. Also what am I suppose to wear then? My bikini was fine. It was totally body shaming, it goes both ways.

    • @maddiemaki8988
      @maddiemaki8988 Před 2 lety

      @@ericam5095 the rules are no thongs and g strings and she was wearing a normal bathing suit and there were other people wearing the same style that didn’t get called out.

  • @sueshe5953
    @sueshe5953 Před 3 lety +15

    I love that Karen is unisex now😂

  • @ericabaysinger1963
    @ericabaysinger1963 Před 2 lety +5

    It is kinda hanging out tho lol

  • @kathleenschoultz
    @kathleenschoultz Před 2 lety +5

    I say that’s a bit too much on the bottom

  • @meganball8394
    @meganball8394 Před 2 lety +25

    I get that it's the style now, but your cheeks are definitely out girl. I'd say you're actually the Karen calling a manager to report him for doing his job. Poor guy has to hate having to tell people when they're not following the rules. Just because you're comfortable with it around your kids doesn't mean you can break the rules. He never shamed you, just did his job.

    • @headFIRSTfearLISS
      @headFIRSTfearLISS Před 2 lety +7

      I thought the same. She’s the Karen. Her whole ass is out and she acts like it’s so offensive for her.. but I would be offended if my kids had to stare at her butt all day.

  • @lindsaynicole8967
    @lindsaynicole8967 Před 3 lety +6

    Little Temiah going down the slide by himself ❤️ he's so stinking cute

  • @shaunalee7826
    @shaunalee7826 Před 3 lety +2

    The new intro is so wholesome ☀️

  • @Pocketfullofpennies
    @Pocketfullofpennies Před 2 lety +40

    I am not mom shamming but I can understand why the life guards would say something about your swim bottoms. Even though they are not a thong or g string, they are cheeky. I’ve definitely been to family parks where guest were ask to cover up. Everyone’s definition of family friendly is different.

    • @jadeswrapsandbraids
      @jadeswrapsandbraids Před 2 lety +13

      I agree with you 100%. I'm not mom shaming either. However at a family friendly park, I think women and men need to be very aware of what they are wearing around children. Just because it's something that you would wear around your child, doesn't mean that everyone else would want their children to see what you're showing. Though it did cover more than a thong and a G string, it was definitely not full coverage of the bottom. And yes the lifeguard was in the right letting her know that that was inappropriate. Of course being rude about it is one thing, being nice about it would've been less offensive

  • @marilynkozlow8400
    @marilynkozlow8400 Před 3 lety +22

    You weren’t “attacked” have a little class when around children. Life is unfair honey.

    • @sueshe5953
      @sueshe5953 Před 3 lety +2

      Honey is intentionally condensing, honey.

    • @marilynkozlow8400
      @marilynkozlow8400 Před 3 lety +3

      @@sueshe5953 condensing? Ok 👍

    • @natashe4103
      @natashe4103 Před 3 lety

      @@ericam5095 goodbye already I’m sick of seeing your name. You’re attacking severely in each video, check yourself honey

  • @elizabethgasca9983
    @elizabethgasca9983 Před 3 lety +3

    Omg mases happy face🥺 made the whole vlog and my whole Friday! Lol

  • @caracopeland3528
    @caracopeland3528 Před 2 lety +17

    I can totally see why you got called out. It’s fine from the front but absolutely not from the back.

  • @EHFAR87
    @EHFAR87 Před 2 lety +19

    I say that’s a bit too much on the bottoms… I’m with the lifeguard.

  • @shelbiy3440
    @shelbiy3440 Před 3 lety +6

    Hey Sunkissed Mama I love your channel and your family.

  • @loisshockey9439
    @loisshockey9439 Před 3 lety +41

    It's 2021 not 1950's. Your suit is so cute. Some people.😳✌✌✌✌

  • @1jaballs
    @1jaballs Před rokem

    I think the boy life guard probably came from a very very conservative family/background

  • @nadinekba8989
    @nadinekba8989 Před 3 lety +5

    I must say, your skin is looking amazing!

    • @SunkissedMama
      @SunkissedMama  Před 3 lety +2

      Thank you!! Ive really been trying to keep up with a skin routine heheh

  • @imjustanewmomma8966
    @imjustanewmomma8966 Před 3 lety +1

    Y’all lil family is the cutest much love!!❤️

  • @julieheth2475
    @julieheth2475 Před 2 lety +7

    Sorry but your bikini was a little cheeky

  • @Noheaikamalanai
    @Noheaikamalanai Před 2 lety

    LOL the bathroom scene!!!!😂

  • @Jenny.K.83
    @Jenny.K.83 Před 3 lety +3

    I love your new intro and your videos. I'm living vicariously thru you. I've always wanted to go to and live in Hawaii.

    • @SunkissedMama
      @SunkissedMama  Před 3 lety +1

      Ah thank you love!!! Our new intro is my favorite!!

  • @stationaryloveclub9625
    @stationaryloveclub9625 Před 2 lety +1

    OMG!! that should never have happened to you or anyone!! I'm going to Krocs center tomorrow with my friends and I hope that doesn't happen to me or anyone! great vlog!!

  • @darrenwanamaker3326
    @darrenwanamaker3326 Před 3 lety +3

    I love the new intro

  • @ABlendedLife
    @ABlendedLife Před 3 lety +25

    Yup out here in Cali at smaller aquatic pools samething that’s considered a Brazilian bathing suit or a cheeky you cannot wear those along with a thong or g-string it has to be a full bottom bathing suit but ya out here they will ask you to leave the park

    • @sheilapetrovic2435
      @sheilapetrovic2435 Před 3 lety +21

      The front was fine but that back was a bit cheeky I guess for there.

    • @shebacat565
      @shebacat565 Před 3 lety +33

      The back of the suit revealed your cheeks. Yes, it's the fashion and therefore seems normal to you, but in all fairness, cheeks are out. Also probably didn't want La'a going down on his stomach for safety issues, not because of other kids around or not. Sorry you felt bad but you were breaking the center's rules and the guards were just enforcing them. Guard you are going to report is probably a teen just following the rules of his employer.

    • @SunkissedMama
      @SunkissedMama  Před 3 lety +13

      Its very personal when other woman have just as much booty out, but me and my friends are pointed out. It is personal when mom can't swim with her children at a pool because a woman doesn't agree with your swim choice. I also called a manager and they were in the wrong and not allowed to do what they did. It was a younger life guard, female, telling a man to scold my friends and I.

    • @ABlendedLife
      @ABlendedLife Před 3 lety +1

      @@SunkissedMama oh 100% in your situation it Was NOT about the bathing suit it was about the other woman being in control and probably just wanted to hate on y’all hot mom summer vibe!!

    • @sheilapetrovic2435
      @sheilapetrovic2435 Před 3 lety +2

      @@SunkissedMama that's just wrong if others were wearing the same type and not spoken too. Then you do have a reason to question.

  • @lifewithjulia7391
    @lifewithjulia7391 Před 3 lety

    I love your videos.
    You are such an amazing mom

  • @amberweir1143
    @amberweir1143 Před 3 lety

    I love ur family and videos!!!!! Love you guys

  • @serakatkowski2004
    @serakatkowski2004 Před 3 lety

    Hi sunkissed mama I love your channel and I love your daughter and Sons:) I love the POOL:)

  • @WackyFamVlogs
    @WackyFamVlogs Před 3 lety +3

    🤦🏼‍♀️girl I am 60seconds in and I'm irritated for you!! Good job sissy, for waving them down..😏

    • @SunkissedMama
      @SunkissedMama  Před 3 lety +1

      Ah I was soo annoyed!!! I wish I would of did more in that second and not wait till I got home to complain tho! NEXT TIME!!

    • @natashe4103
      @natashe4103 Před 3 lety

      🙌🙌🙌

  • @francisterlep4647
    @francisterlep4647 Před 2 lety

    You folks look good Kekoa love you grandpa Take care really nice to see my great grandkids love you folks

  • @hollyjollychristmas4521

    Hi

  • @nancyec3794
    @nancyec3794 Před 3 lety +36

    Sounds like she was insecure so she wanted to project her insecurities on you and others. You were fine in your bathing suit. You do you!!

  • @38xavierable2
    @38xavierable2 Před 2 lety

    All the other people commenting saying a bathing suit such as yours is inappropriate shouldn’t be in a pool or beach. Just stay in your homes, for your own conservative thoughts.

  • @our3geckos
    @our3geckos Před 3 lety

    Sorry this happened to you 💔. It personally sounds like this one lady has self esteem/confidence issues. And if she isn't happy, then she will then take it out on others💔. That is NO WAY TO LIVE. JUST CONTINUE TO BE YOU👍🥰❣️ 💞 ALOHA FROM HAWAI'I 💞🌹 LYSSA 🌹

  • @KimHeartsMakeup1
    @KimHeartsMakeup1 Před 2 lety

    It’s definitely not a thing to a getting, I I think there is nothing wrong with your bikini. Do people not understand how hard it is to find something that’s not super cheeky these days?

  • @cecef4990
    @cecef4990 Před 3 lety +2

    Your sister is the best !!! 🥰

  • @monsieurrat1552
    @monsieurrat1552 Před 2 lety

    The kids are so cute ❤️❤️❤️

  • @janicehall1611
    @janicehall1611 Před 3 lety

    Well that lifeguard was just so wrong I don't know maybe that woman was just jealous of you girls you're such a good mommy you need an apology from that guy hope you girls have a good evening

  • @sarahsusan3753
    @sarahsusan3753 Před 2 lety

    The bathing suit is full coverage in the front and "cheeky" in the back, the overall suit was not revealing...and that's insane he had the audacity to say something.

  • @peppermintpatty3800
    @peppermintpatty3800 Před 3 lety +7

    Sometimes I wonder people think because it's a swimsuit it's not revealing so just ask yourself if you would put that on as an outfit to wear all day. Would you drop your kids off at school in it, walk around the mall, etc? I don't think it was terrible and they could've just said hey nothing personal but we don't allow those swimsuits so next time could you please wear one that covers you up more. Either way you and your sister are beautiful and remind me of me and my sister and I love it.

    • @maddiemaki8988
      @maddiemaki8988 Před 2 lety

      The pool policy is no thongs or g strings. She wasn’t wearing a thong or g string she was wearing a normal bathing suit so they had no right to say anything. Especially since other people are wearing the same thing and didn’t get busted but she did so.🙄🙄🙄🤔🤔

  • @chelsealynn2605
    @chelsealynn2605 Před 3 lety +5

    Not to be on there side but it is pretty much out but on the other hand it’s a swim suit for a woman it’s not on a little kid or teen

  • @wendellmonster6179
    @wendellmonster6179 Před 3 lety +7

    That was so rude and they violated your rights. You always dress appropriate and you’re always very respectful and classy to everyone
    It’s a bathing suit it’s summertime what do they want you in a snowsuit lol

    • @SunkissedMama
      @SunkissedMama  Před 3 lety +1

      I couldn't agree more!! Some people just have real personal problems lol!

    • @wendellmonster6179
      @wendellmonster6179 Před 3 lety

      @@SunkissedMama I love you & your family
      my name is Sue
      OMG ! Thank you for your reply 💕
      you are a beautiful Person
      And. I love your CZcams channel God Bless 🙏 ps thank God you were all safe in Nashville it’s a scary world

  • @Treesah0416
    @Treesah0416 Před 3 lety +4

    I hope you do say something! I think if my 17 year old daughter was tapped like that how ashamed she would have been. F that dude!

    • @SunkissedMama
      @SunkissedMama  Před 3 lety +2

      I definitely called a manager and he said that should have never happened and he will be getting down to the bottom of why this happened. & Exactly!! I am now grateful it happened so I can be the voice so this doesn't bring down another soul. It's embarrassing, especially when you think you did something wrong by wearing A BIKINI!! like we're at the pool, where do you even buy a swim suit so covered? Swim shorts?!

  • @lilhawaiian101
    @lilhawaiian101 Před 3 lety +13

    I just found your channel through JessFam! And girl,I love you everything about you. Your parenting,your vibes,you are beautiful! I’m Marshallese so this is so comforting for me to watch…weird? But I love you Sunkissed mama!

    • @SunkissedMama
      @SunkissedMama  Před 3 lety +4

      Thank you so much!! I can feel the love!! Means so much!! Love you sweet friend!

  • @melissaahlers5615
    @melissaahlers5615 Před 3 lety

    When I was at great wolf lodge a lifeguard blow his wissle cause I was hang on the wall in the wave pool

  • @alyssawssinging4039
    @alyssawssinging4039 Před 3 lety

    Hey wow and so pretty water park tho and I see a lot worse at the lake of girls that was so messed up of him ur bathing suit is so pretty

  • @daniellemally625
    @daniellemally625 Před 2 lety

    Wow people are so rude love ur swimming suit

  • @leviwynne6147
    @leviwynne6147 Před 3 lety

    You two should do a hold my breath challenge in your next video

  • @jessicaosborne1842
    @jessicaosborne1842 Před 2 lety +2

    Ok so its taking me a while to comment but beautiful your bottoms were not family friendly but there are a lot worse .AND THERE ARE A LOT OF WORSE THINGS TO WORRY ABOUT IN THIS WORLD TODAY You do you you are beautiful if i had a but like that i would wear them also

  • @livingthedream1898
    @livingthedream1898 Před 2 lety

    Don't be a Karen just tell them like ur not

  • @marzgurl8723
    @marzgurl8723 Před 3 lety

    Terrible that guy… that’s just a normal bathing suit bottom… u guys too funny u guys went the long way to go back home lol… have a great weekend…

  • @keke8880
    @keke8880 Před 2 lety

    Girl what skin care do you use? 😻

  • @MaryettaGraves
    @MaryettaGraves Před 3 lety

    Clearly that guy was sexist because he wasn't scolding the guys I was only scolding you ladies like what

  • @marissamarissa359
    @marissamarissa359 Před 3 lety

    You are beautiful

  • @lifewithjulia7391
    @lifewithjulia7391 Před 3 lety +2

    That’s not ok what happened to you guys Women should not be told to cover up in a BATHING SUIT especially if it’s not revealing in so sorry that this happend

    • @SunkissedMama
      @SunkissedMama  Před 3 lety +1

      I couldn't agree more, I want to be loud for the next mama that walks in there. No one should have to feel shamed because of a suit? Also what did they expect me to do? Go home and find long pants? Just so lame!

  • @hannahplummer2787
    @hannahplummer2787 Před 2 lety

    What’s wrong with your bum being out anyway? 😆 it only becomes something sexual when someone puts that label on it! Some serious jealousy going on there! And if she really thinks that it’s sexual she’s in the wrong job

  • @lizdelorey6721
    @lizdelorey6721 Před 3 lety

    Love your channel and your family. Your an amazing mom. So sorry that this happened to you. That should have never happened at all. Love your swim suit.

    • @SunkissedMama
      @SunkissedMama  Před 3 lety

      Hehe thanks babe!! Im glad it happened now, so I can be the voice so it never happens again!

  • @uncommonkdm.1852
    @uncommonkdm.1852 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow that is so wrong of him! You guys looked perfectly fine!😍 Sorry this happened to you guys!😔

    • @SunkissedMama
      @SunkissedMama  Před 3 lety +1

      It was pretty lame, but hopefully the manager can make sure this never happens to another mama again!!

  • @cassandraca9744
    @cassandraca9744 Před 3 lety +1

    Love the new intro ❤️
    Also that sucks then what are you supposed to wear ?? That’s ridiculous
    I would definitely make complaint

    • @SunkissedMama
      @SunkissedMama  Před 3 lety +2

      Thank you love!! Im guessing long pants?! LOL I did call and spoke to a manager and he was very apologetic and said that should of never happened and that he was going to figure out what was going on and get back to me. Will keep you all updated (: I just wanna be the voice for the next young mama in there that feels embarrassed like I did.

    • @cassandraca9744
      @cassandraca9744 Před 3 lety

      @@SunkissedMama
      Lol imagine wearing pants to swim 🤣 💀 I’m glad you reached Out to let them know.

  • @jilllovesall4549
    @jilllovesall4549 Před 3 lety

    Ur beautiful and thr was nothing wrong with ur bikini bottoms, she was probably jus jealous cuz ur gorgeous 💙

    • @kelleighnicole3403
      @kelleighnicole3403 Před 3 lety

      it was a guy lifeguard

    • @jilllovesall4549
      @jilllovesall4549 Před 3 lety +1

      @@kelleighnicole3403 they literally said a lady told guy to tell them. Listen to wat thr saying.

  • @brookestearns3676
    @brookestearns3676 Před 3 lety +1

    I hope you called because that is uncalled for that guy to do that.

  • @elleandcam1020
    @elleandcam1020 Před 3 lety +3

    At any of the family water parks here in mn you’d have gotten scolded too. I got yelled at one for wearing jean shorts and I wasn’t even in the water nor was any part of the shorts ripped.

    • @SunkissedMama
      @SunkissedMama  Před 3 lety +1

      That's just so lame!!! Let woman live!!! Tell guys to put shirts on and cover their nipples up!!

  • @rebeccalincoln8782
    @rebeccalincoln8782 Před 3 lety

    Nothing wrong with your suit!! You look fabulous! If it was a g string you wouldn’t see it. Like come on now.

  • @julieedwards2983
    @julieedwards2983 Před 3 lety

    Girl don't let people up set you there was nothing wrong with your swim suit

  • @iheart.sabrina4662
    @iheart.sabrina4662 Před 3 lety +1

    I hate that they body shamed

    • @SunkissedMama
      @SunkissedMama  Před 3 lety

      It wasn't fair, but I just wanted to make sure it was known it wasn't okay so the next person isn't shamed.

  • @tehanireyes9956
    @tehanireyes9956 Před 3 lety

    Tash you are such a vibe, I love it! Hahahhaa nuh uhh braddah, you are not about to come break our wires again, look, and dig out AGAIN LOL

    • @SunkissedMama
      @SunkissedMama  Před 3 lety

      LMAO!!! She truly is one of a kind!! I am forever grateful for her!!

    • @natashe4103
      @natashe4103 Před 3 lety

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @kelleighnicole3403
    @kelleighnicole3403 Před 3 lety +3

    can we dead the word karen now lol

  • @amyandmydoggiebodiesbeauti5431

    🦋🦋🌻

  • @cieraorion2589
    @cieraorion2589 Před 3 lety +2

    My anty works there i will ask what is the rules. Because they look just fine to me.

    • @SunkissedMama
      @SunkissedMama  Před 3 lety +2

      The policy clearly stated no g-strings or thongs. Not a soul in sight had anything similar to that. I called a manager tho, he's going to figure out why they're doing that and get back to me. Thank you babe!

    • @cieraorion2589
      @cieraorion2589 Před 3 lety +1

      @@SunkissedMamai read the rules to. Your bottom didn't look anything like that. Yes its a church run pool. i go to church there to. But they cant be picking on women like that. Maybe the lifeguard was on a power trip or something.

    • @cieraorion2589
      @cieraorion2589 Před 3 lety

      I am really sorry you went through this.

  • @taylorhoohuli7663
    @taylorhoohuli7663 Před 3 lety +3

    Heyyy so I have membership at the Kroc and you literally can’t show cheeks at all, I see girls, teenagers, mom’s getting busted all the time… I actually agree with these rules however your bottoms seems verrryyy normal/modest, lifeguard must’ve got a radio call or something to buss you ladies. There’s the higher up people in offices watching through cameras and they’re STRICT!

    • @SunkissedMama
      @SunkissedMama  Před 3 lety

      I called and spoke to a manager and he explained it was inappropriate and should of never happened and he will be speaking to them. I understand its a family center, but its just not fair to judge one bikini over another.....

  • @brookestearns3676
    @brookestearns3676 Před 3 lety +1

    I think your swimsuit is fine and looks great. I think that girl was just jealous and wanted to cause problems.

  • @miss_lilyanne
    @miss_lilyanne Před 2 lety

    That lifeguard WAITED for you to put your camera and phone AWAY so he could say what he wanted without it being on camera. Icky Behavior!