Why Do Psychopaths Exist? - Mark Freestone

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  • čas přidán 4. 06. 2024
  • Mark Freestone is Senior Lecturer at Queen Mary University of London, an author and an expert in psychopathology.
    There's a modern fascination with psychopaths. True Crime is the most popular single podcast genre and Netflix documentaries about real life serial killers capture everyone's attention. But why are we so obsessed with dangerous individuals? And what is it that makes a psychopath who they are?
    Expect to learn what the difference between a psychopath and a sociopath are, why having psychopaths in society was an advantage for a long time, why there are so few female psychopaths, what happens when a university lecturer discovers his own psychopathy in his 40's, the scariest criminals Mark has ever met and much more...
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    00:00 Intro
    00:53 Working with Psychopaths
    07:29 Different Types of Psychopaths
    12:39 Genetics Vs Environment
    19:24 Impact of Negative Childhood
    27:00 Society’s Evolving View of Psychopaths
    37:50 Sexuality in Psychopaths
    52:05 Can You Cure Psychopathy?
    56:28 Where to Find Mark
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Komentáře • 215

  • @ChrisWillx
    @ChrisWillx  Před 2 lety +20

    Hello fellow psychopaths. Here’s the timestamps:
    00:00 Intro
    00:53 Working with Psychopaths
    07:29 Different Types of Psychopaths
    12:39 Genetics Vs Environment
    19:24 Impact of Negative Childhood
    27:00 Society’s Evolving View of Psychopaths
    37:50 Sexuality in Psychopaths
    52:05 Can You Cure Psychopathy?
    56:28 Where to Find Mark

    • @neglectfulsausage7689
      @neglectfulsausage7689 Před 2 lety

      The largest problem with this is that psychopathy is not sociopathy. Hes using the definitions of no remorse, etc, of sociopathy for psychopathy. Further, people who do psychopathic things can often feel remorse. It depends on their moral views. Medicalizing the case for different morals is a dark historical path, nazis and soviets both played that. A person who thinks nothing of stealing small amounts from strangers may be very remorseful for hurting their partner or having their pet killed in the road by a car. But if you ask them for remorse about the stealing, they will feel none, so you're going to say they're a psychopath.

  • @Deliadaliadoo
    @Deliadaliadoo Před 2 lety +31

    “I’m far too neurotic to be a psychopath” - that statement made me chuckle but was also rather reassuring! 😆

    • @nunyabeezwax6758
      @nunyabeezwax6758 Před rokem +5

      Neurotics can still be, like me though, a complete *SOCIOPATH*.... oops.

    • @Muck-qy2oo
      @Muck-qy2oo Před 9 dny

      @@nunyabeezwax6758 Not being a sociopath doesn't mean to be a good person either.

    • @nunyabeezwax6758
      @nunyabeezwax6758 Před 9 dny

      Good and evil are subjective, relative and mob/gunpoint based to begin with. "sociopath" is literally a *label*.

  • @ethanoptimized
    @ethanoptimized Před 2 lety +63

    What worries me on this topic is how we encourage healthy people to develop these traits (in minor capacities but still) in society with the feedback loops of social media

    • @gingerbill128
      @gingerbill128 Před 2 lety +5

      @@JediNiyte I am certain the people i know fairly well who use social media a lot have changed because of it , they start interacting with you like they are online , even how they talk changes . It happens over time so its not blatant but if you go months without seeing them its very noticeable. And from my perspective its not a good change.

    • @eomoran
      @eomoran Před 2 lety +3

      Hmm. I’m not sure how promoted it is, I think it’s more naivety of people succumbing to the charm. There’s an intrinsic vanity with wanting to be an “influencer” but it’s possible for such a thing to exist and be more prevalent without it being promoted necessarily

    • @nackedgrils9302
      @nackedgrils9302 Před 2 lety +2

      I think you're conflating psychopathy and narcissism. The only online communities that encourage psychopathy that I can think of at the top of my head are Black Pill and Pink Pill and these do not represent most of social media.

    • @juneelle370
      @juneelle370 Před 2 lety +1

      Not true-countries that have deep turmoil have greater numbers of psychopaths/personality disorders. It’s just like the doctor in the study… he wasn’t behaving badly he just had a more cognitive empathy… his brain structure wasn’t turned into a malignant force… and he uses this knowledge to be better to his family (cognitive empathy).

  • @luisfernandoenrique
    @luisfernandoenrique Před 2 lety +32

    Having met a very intelligent and socially fluent psychopath, I can say that said person was unbelievably quick at completely figuring out almost all people he interacted with, in minutes. Coming across as memorable (ADJUSTING to each individual obviously) and spiking positive emotions in such a way, that it was like mind reading, or mind control. That person could use your emotions like ingredients to make a recipe. Are there any resources or videos on the subject?

    • @alexchaney5582
      @alexchaney5582 Před 2 lety

      Psychopaths are masters of observing, deciphering and impersonating other people. They collect this information over the course of their life and amass a collection of multiple characters for them to embody when necessary. The natural acting ability of psychopaths is not discussed near enough but I find it's a key variable that separates them from the general population.

    • @jpslayermayor9293
      @jpslayermayor9293 Před rokem +4

      Seeing my (now ex-wife) do exactly what you describe at the time I think impressed me. She seemed social adept and powerful. It never crossed my mind what she actually is psychopathic, especially given that at that time, my idea of what constitutes a psychopath came from movies and violent mass murderers.

    • @namename2297
      @namename2297 Před rokem +3

      A book called"48 Laws of Power" is a good insight into the mind of a psychopath.
      Personally I really liked this book and got much to learn from it and apply to real life, not sure if it makes me psychopath or not 😁

    • @martinledermann1862
      @martinledermann1862 Před rokem +6

      @@namename2297 You need to be born a psychopath, you can't just become one. At best, you can become a sociopath but it's unlikely a sociopath can ever reach the same level of proficiency at manipulating other people that a true psychopath has due to the biological differences in the brain structure. A sociopath can train himself to become less empathetic and less prone to stress but it's still in there.

  • @kenjohnston2531
    @kenjohnston2531 Před 2 lety +21

    Shakespeare's genius was centuries ahead of the psychoanalysts. Shakespeare's Iago in Othello is pure psychopathy. Shakespeare understood psychopathic manipulation and their ability to charm.
    "When devils will the blackest sins put on
    They do at first suggest with heavenly shows"
    (Othello, Act 2, Scene 2, 325-326)

    • @artstocker60
      @artstocker60 Před 2 lety +5

      Iago is nasty but he looks like a boy scout compared to Aaron the Moor in "Titus Andronicus." Now THAT is a villain.

    • @kenjohnston2531
      @kenjohnston2531 Před 2 lety +1

      @@artstocker60 Thank you Art, I'm not familiar with that play, I'll have a delve. 👍

  • @sabr8399
    @sabr8399 Před rokem +7

    Love this! Dr Freestone was my lecturer in 2019 at Queen Mary! Amazingggg!

  • @shelchicago8997
    @shelchicago8997 Před rokem +8

    Please do a few interviews on borderline personality disorder!!! More people have this disorder than we realize. They account for a high percentage of patients in the psychiatric ward.

  • @Falconlibrary
    @Falconlibrary Před 2 lety +11

    Psychopaths are very useful in dangerous situations. They do brilliantly in wars.
    James Bond (as conceived in the Ian Fleming novels) was a cunning psychopath, a man who could kill and feel nothing negative afterwards (now he's a tortured PTSD-addled wounded warrior, but that's not who James Bond is).

  • @storiesforsuccess3102
    @storiesforsuccess3102 Před 2 lety +33

    I’ve always wondered, what percentage of psychopaths are actually aware that they are psychopaths? If you’ve never felt true empathy, would you ever notice that you lack empathy? I imagine not.

    • @kenjohnston2531
      @kenjohnston2531 Před 2 lety +16

      None. They don't acknowledge the condition as negative, they feel far too superior to even think there may be anything wrong with themselves. To a psychopath, everyone else is wrong, inferior, and defective.

    • @storiesforsuccess3102
      @storiesforsuccess3102 Před 2 lety +5

      @@kenjohnston2531 there are different levels of psychopathy I think. Don’t you think someone could have a few psychopathic tendencies without being a full psychopath. I imagine that most people that we deem “psychopaths” feel at least small amounts of empathy and fear at times (considering an alleged 3% of the population is a psychopath.) I find it hard to believe that 1 in 33 people doesn’t have the ability to feel any empathy in any scenario. Also, you speak of them as though they are “bad.” But is a psychopath who kills someone any worse than a bear that kills someone? I mean they don’t choose to be psychopaths. Empathy and love is the best part of life and they don’t get to feel any of that. Some would argue that that’s worse than getting cancer. Obviously you’d want to steer clear whenever possible, but bears don’t choose to be bears.

    • @trock7542
      @trock7542 Před 2 lety +6

      @@storiesforsuccess3102 psychopaths still have agency. They are still human. Empathy doesn’t define humanity. The bear has no agency. I think the disconnect in modern society and morality is that it doesn’t matter how we are born. If an individual is born with same sex attraction, psychopathy, aggression, etc, it doesn’t matter. If something is immoral we don’t do the act.
      Free will is the unique human ability to base our actions on an abstract standard. This is proven/displayed in debate or argument. Humans only debate other human beings not the weather, not our computer or our pets.

    • @storiesforsuccess3102
      @storiesforsuccess3102 Před 2 lety +3

      @@trock7542 Have you heard Sam Harris’s “The Illusion of Free Will” speech? Based on your comment, I think you would at the very least find that interesting. Basically, his claim is free will is just an illusion. We don’t choose things the way we think we do. There was a study where 2 people spoke and they asked those involved if they liked the other person. They gave them drinks before hand. Whether the drink was hot or cold… That was what determined whether the other person was liked or not. We don’t choose our conditioning or genetics. Even when you are clearly making a conscious decision, a bunch of things that were out of control lead up to you making the decision you made. We are one of the only species assumed to have consciousness, but free will is still very debatable. We like to feel like we have made better choices and decisions than others , because we like to feel superior as human beings (this stems from insecurities.) We need to feel like we are much better than the psychopath or the drug addict because we feel inferior to the guy that gets the hot girls. It’s part of being a human. Unless you put the years and years of work to get that completely under control. And I have not.

    • @trock7542
      @trock7542 Před 2 lety +3

      @@storiesforsuccess3102 yes i have heard Sam many times. I disagree especially because he doesn’t live what he speaks. If free will is an illusion then speaking or changing people’s mind is pointless. The very act of debate undermines the denial of free will. This is also why i defined it the way i did. If free will is defined as the exception to causality i don’t know that i believe that. I believe there could be a myriad of causes for the adoption of the standards we endorse and equally as many inputs in whether or not we do choose our standards over our impulses or one standard over another. But i think it devalues relationship to feel that i don’t wake up every morning next to my spouse by choice. That i don’t choose to love and care for my offspring. That i don’t choose to love and value my mother’s sacrifices. Having values and living with purpose is what makes us human. My dog has a consciousness but he does not have the capacity for abstractions and the ability to base his actions upon those abstractions.
      Sam believes in the idea that there is no free will. So he engages in debates, speeches and written word to have other people adopt this abstract standard. My assumption is that he and others would want people to then base their actions on this new standard. That is free will.
      I don’t think he or anyone actually does live as if they have no agency which is then just an argument against morality/ethics and individual responsibility and i don’t want to live in such a world. People must be held accountable for their actions.

  • @sergrum1082
    @sergrum1082 Před 2 lety +31

    This guy was great! Very articulate

    • @big_red_machine3547
      @big_red_machine3547 Před 9 měsíci

      Yes and his story about how inmates charm female staff members into sexual relationships happens far more frequently than anyone knows. I’ve seen it happen first hand dozens of times during my career in a prison setting. I’ve always been a strong advocate against women working in male prisons- but got crucified for my logic. This is why others are reluctant to speak out when they see women under the spell of inmates

  • @lnc-to4ku
    @lnc-to4ku Před rokem +2

    What a fascinating and very likable guest!!

  • @martynparish2294
    @martynparish2294 Před 2 lety +7

    When he said "Group of successful psycopaths" I thought he was going to say the WEF

  • @martyspandex
    @martyspandex Před 2 lety +1

    I read the blurb for this video and now I'm sold.

  • @simonallen9251
    @simonallen9251 Před 2 lety

    Awesome interview man.Thanks👊

  • @MrGhulamK
    @MrGhulamK Před rokem +1

    Thank you for an interesting interview 👍

  • @BraedenTheG
    @BraedenTheG Před 2 lety +33

    “When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.” - Paulo Coelho

    • @captainmaim
      @captainmaim Před 2 lety +1

      clean up your room, bucko!

    • @saintlybeginnings
      @saintlybeginnings Před 2 lety +2

      The issue is, those who do evil nearly always believe they are doing good/ striving to become better. I’d wager nearly every Marxist activist- AntiFa/ Nazi/ climate radical/ Critical Identity activist/ etc- genuinely believe they are doing good, and view their radical political activism as striving to be better.
      We need a return to studying the philosophical greats on morality/ nature/ ethics

    • @captainmaim
      @captainmaim Před 2 lety +1

      @@saintlybeginnings Your plan will make more-clever devils, not make devils into angels.

    • @saintlybeginnings
      @saintlybeginnings Před 2 lety +1

      @@captainmaim - or help non-psychopaths realize that change is more subtle and the world is far more complex than even the most wise of people to control

    • @artstocker60
      @artstocker60 Před 2 lety

      Hillary Clinton is a psychopath.

  • @tinyknott
    @tinyknott Před 2 lety +24

    Personally, I think the term psychopath is so poorly defined that we really should make a new term. The one I've come up with it "Severe empathy deficiency disorder" or "SEDD". This is because we really should separate the inability of empathy from antisocial behaviour. They're correlated, sure, but you can have zero empathy and still not be antisocial.

    • @soggy___389
      @soggy___389 Před 2 lety +4

      Psychological terminology almost overall has been an absolute mess. So much made unnecessarily unintuitive and hollywood/pop culture films hasnt helped. I rub my temples every time someone regards another as insane when in reality they simply lack empathy/sympathy.

    • @towhee7472
      @towhee7472 Před 2 lety +3

      You know nothing about the topic, which you just brilliantly showed to the world. The term psychopathy is well defined, you just don't know how to understand what you read. Psychopathy is, in part, defined by antisocial behavior, but not exclusively. Antisocial behavior is part of a lot of mental disorders. Nobody ever said that, if you display antisocial behavior, you're automatically a psychopath.

    • @Illlium
      @Illlium Před 2 lety

      I think the term psychopathy is not descriptive enough even as it is used, in my opinion it should be psychopatitis as in a heritable disease.
      I completely agree with mere correlation of psychopathy and antisocial behavior, a "true" psychopath would just be asocial - if you don't have empathy there's little to no reason to engage in social situations, it's like expecting a blind person to frequent an art gallery.

    • @AK-47-yall
      @AK-47-yall Před 2 lety +3

      @@Illlium adding "itis" to the end of something indicates inflammation in medical terms. Example: pancreatitis just means "inflamed pancreas."

    • @Illlium
      @Illlium Před 2 lety +1

      @@AK-47-yall Thanks, good point. After checking the etymology I guess psychopathy is good, adding anything relating to the passing down of the condition to the name would be kind of redundant since that's basically every mental disorder.
      Turns out I also don't know what 'heritable' means, so thanks for that too.

  • @markwhite2207
    @markwhite2207 Před rokem +1

    I love the image of a bunch of psychopaths playing Leonard Cohen songs!

  • @Ryan-Horgan
    @Ryan-Horgan Před 2 lety +20

    Wrong question
    Why do psychopaths become politicians?!

    • @nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115
      @nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115 Před 2 lety +2

      And psychos recognize each other, so they "support" themselves, because they know if we ever grow a pair, psychos are done.

    • @xxxyyy1880
      @xxxyyy1880 Před 2 lety +1

      In order to get things like money, power and recognition the one way is through polictics. You can control large group of people if you get on the top. And psychopaths can be good using other people, lying when needed etc. In what you need to get on the top.

    • @robertbarnum7541
      @robertbarnum7541 Před 2 lety

      All overly large organizations create positions of over-concentrations of power. And all over-concentrations of power disproportionately attract psychopaths. Always a big problem.

    • @nackedgrils9302
      @nackedgrils9302 Před 2 lety

      @James Bond Hahahah yes. He probably meant ''How do psychopaths become politicians?'' but the answer is also as deceptively simple: Charm.

    • @zalamael
      @zalamael Před 2 lety +1

      @@nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115 "And psychos recognize each other, so they "support" themselves, because they know if we ever grow a pair, psychos are done."
      That is sort of true, but it is missing something. Psychos are more or less self sufficient, they don't rely on other people to protect them (because they are arrogant and have a capacity for violence that is beyond what most people are capable of). Psychos thrive on that, because they know that even if you are a in a group, individually the group is nothing more than a collection of individual cowards who are only brave when they feel safe hiding within a group (like a group of hyenas trying to fight a lion etc).
      A psycho can psychologically isolate and manipulate them, and make them feel alone and unsafe, even with their friends around them. The reality is, even when outnumbered, the psycho still has all the advantages, because all he has to do is maim the first one gets within range, and the rest will shit themselves and run away. An object lesson.
      This is why our social hierarchy is dominated by psychopaths, because the people they rule over (the submissive willing slaves) haven't got the courage to fight back against them. Your assertion that "because they know if we ever grow a pair, psychos are done" is very accurate, but the reality is, they will never grow a pair, because they lack the courage, arrogance and violent capacity that is natural to psychopaths. The strong will always dominate the weak, and the weak will always let them.

  • @primetimedurkheim2717
    @primetimedurkheim2717 Před 2 lety +11

    It's as if the majority of the commenters didn't watch the video.

    • @jrbizzl3
      @jrbizzl3 Před 2 lety +1

      They have to be bots... or something. 😅

    • @gingerbill128
      @gingerbill128 Před 2 lety +2

      lol , i thought the exact same thing . I think some people are so keen to let you know how clever they are, they cant resist running to the comments to post something.

  • @--th
    @--th Před 2 lety +7

    I'm psycopath in almost all clinic aspects. I noted it. I was clinically told it. And it's not the end of my world.
    Being honest, it was liberating. It helped me to understand better the differences I have, and how to see it socially, in special with my family. We can see we aren't demential, but there is something wrong.
    I have facility to see (and deal with) bad intentions on people action and arguments.. beyond any narrative. People say that I even speak to their soul, due to the deepness and empathyless.
    No fear; no sad feelings (I laugh even with burn animals and I don't cry for death); no anxiety; no shame; no depression; no mercy; addicted to adrenalin and risky situations; "feline look" (charming); narrow focus and cold mind on situations of danger or pressure; no hesitation.
    ... and thare are other not so positive traits (alter ego is real.. I uses to burn, play and speak with dead animals when I was a kid... I almost died several times... I definetly don't value words, pain and emotions as society expect).
    I also feel satisfied when I dream burning people alive. I've already watched a man burn (in a car accident that I was involved). The only 'regret' I feel is that I didn't kill him before his ending (he died). He was innocent.. me too. But he died in very disturbing ciscumstances.
    It helped me when I found some bad guys too.. speacially dangerous psychos, death threats etc.
    It's not easy to assume my nature.. I'll never deny how far it lead me through this continuous empty mental storm.

    • @Illlium
      @Illlium Před 2 lety +3

      It's not like psychopathy is a death sentence. A lot of traits are just behavioral habits of pushing away certain reactions. It's something that can be worked through once you're self-aware of potential improvements. Sure, it won't result in a full "normal" set of responses, but some stuff is just a matter of self-training. You're already past the first step of knowing, now most of the work is wanting a change.

    • @--th
      @--th Před 2 lety +4

      @@Illlium , it's very hard to keep the 'changed mode', let's say.
      I don't use drugs, I don't drink alcohol neither coffee, I can't even have a damm pet, I try not to shot, I gave up my gun.. I decided also to not drive for almost 3 years because I was addicted to adrenalin in a criminal way (a lot of intentional accidents in streets, high velocity). I would like to do all of what I listed, but to disturbing objectives.
      As I said, I don't dream good things.. only killing, burning & torturing (animals, people), sex, lying, high speed, free fall.
      It's so hard to pretend that I can't even smile to a pic (only if I see that the photografer is fearing me).
      I discovered since ypunger that I can 'help' woman with 'extreme empathy', suicidal tendencies, anxiety, drug abuse, prostitution, family frustration. That's the high profile.
      I know that I manipulate them to deal with their demons (I even sex with them as primary goal, but just one time), but that's the way I found to deal with mines (or me?).
      Most recently, I decided to stop all 'intentional accidents' I provoke, even if it means (for me) a life with more restricted pleasure yet.
      As you said.. the first and continuous step is to know our own nature. I live with it in mind nowadays... if not, I may die due to my impulsive conduct.

    • @Illlium
      @Illlium Před 2 lety +1

      @@--th First of all I'd divorce being an adrenaline junkie from other issues - like you've noticed yourself it's just an addiction.
      Second of all I agree that it's not easy to steer your motivations towards something less destructive, but once you become mindful of where your mind takes you, it becomes easier and easier to grow to enjoy calmer waters.
      Finally I'd say it helps a lot to realize where and why things started collapsing. It doesn't improve the situation, but it helps to derail the cycle of identification reflex of "it's bad and it's who I am, therefore I'm bad". Feeling a need to lash out at something is often deeply rooted in guilt.

    • @--th
      @--th Před 2 lety +3

      @@Illlium , thanks, I agree with you. I read your advices earlier. And I had to think for some hours to calm and answer once and properly (even to myself).
      It's weird because at same time I thank you, there's a part of me angry.. with you.
      And you're right: I have to keep method to deal and not generalize specific traits; to steer motivation; and to identify when I can collapse.
      I hadn't successe with the regressive exercise. It made me remember a job interview when I was asked for my contributions and projects to community. All my coleagues had some (church, sport club, homeless, charity, street animals). And I had no answer. I only could think: "- Why should I?"
      Since I was a kid I had this aspects, I guess.

    • @Illlium
      @Illlium Před 2 lety +3

      @@--th Glad I could help. There's nothing unusual about being selfish either, thing is, you can help selfishly. Not only because it might cause others to look at you better, but also for yourself - even if you don't feel anything when you're helping, just knowing that whatever you're doing makes a difference can make you feel better about doing anything.

  • @gingerbill128
    @gingerbill128 Před 2 lety +4

    This was one of my favourite podcasts , very interesting.

  • @jmac3327
    @jmac3327 Před 2 lety

    Finally, now I understand.

  • @logangrubbs5707
    @logangrubbs5707 Před 2 lety +10

    Nice.
    Very nice. Can we see Paul Allen’s podcast ?

  • @otobotrecords
    @otobotrecords Před 2 lety +4

    What does one become if he/she often breaks some of the staggeringly increasing anti-social laws? Someone suffering from anti-anti-social disorder == a social person?

  • @laracrespo5786
    @laracrespo5786 Před 5 měsíci

    This conversation is insane.

  • @elvansavkl7972
    @elvansavkl7972 Před 2 lety +1

    Guatemala is wonderful. I am in Antigua now.

  • @olderbadboy
    @olderbadboy Před 2 lety

    A lot of interactions with IRL daily normal humans where i find nothing in common or worthy to occupy my finite time stole a lot of my so called " empathy " .These people require and expect a lot of emotional support ,validation and a lot of lying sometimes putting me in a lose/lose scenario with no way to recover my lost resources ( money ,time ,mental health , etc ) . People think i am depressed ,cold like a psychopath or angry when i avoid , don't respond to the same degree of interest or literally say what i think ...I tested on randoms, friends and close family members some ways to explain how "I AM " and i feel like there is no way to get where i desire . I am tied with these feelings , made without my connsent as all children are in a way to their parents or connections where you are invested and scared to let go . I know what is best for " ME " but i can't trully act on it because of guilt or the AOE damage done in the process> hitting myself in ways i can't predict . I am not a good person because of fear of supernatural , the only thing i care about is my own welbeing and by extension other life that could interfere with my own welbeing . To maximize my good experience means to be able to synergies with the people around me and it is overwhelmingly depresive when i can't control my life as i see fit . I wish i could have a button to turn on/ff and go full pshycopath mode so my emotions would not get in the way .

    • @Yuuki_12
      @Yuuki_12 Před rokem

      You do not want that button friend. Any survivors who witness the other self will increase the difficulty of your life. You will have to predict, counter predict and stack masks on top of mask just to be allowed near the social circle but you will never be let inside again. You will have to move, change jobs, cut off connection from your family etc. I don't know how to reach a, for lack of a better description, "pure" existence, I don't know where the road leads to but I do know that the button will forever alter your life by opening a door that cannot be closed. That button will force you to choose and give you an aura that people who have never met you before can see and feel when in your presence. It will trigger the fight or flight in strangers even when you've "come back" and are simply trying to exist and the only way to get what you want will be to continue to press that button over and over again.
      Again I don't know where the road ends or what happens next but I do know that the button you're referring to will force you down a path you don't want to be on. Maybe look into stoicism, specifically Epictetus for a way to cope. Good luck and stay strong.

  • @-the_Truth_is_Out_There
    @-the_Truth_is_Out_There Před měsícem

    I’ve always viewed myself as a weapon waiting to be deployed

  • @sharri5412
    @sharri5412 Před rokem

    Worked in Forensic medium secure for years... I aways say if you can function around these people it's because you have the potential to be one of them.

  • @-the_Truth_is_Out_There
    @-the_Truth_is_Out_There Před měsícem

    I’ve always viewed myself as a weapon!

  • @Leo-mr1qz
    @Leo-mr1qz Před 2 lety

    I find it interesting that the r@pist are on the bottom of the hierarchy in the prison system, and they need to be protected. I personally hope that protection fails 99.9% of the time. I'd think that the murders would be above the robbers. Although as he explained it, it makes apt of sense. Interesting talk. Thank you. ✌

    • @dakotakennedy2933
      @dakotakennedy2933 Před rokem

      It's very odd to me that you think their is a hierarchy. It's mostly just chomos on the bottom and everyone else.

  • @bilbobaggins4403
    @bilbobaggins4403 Před rokem +1

    Way deep down we all have a monster.

  • @noahmccormick525
    @noahmccormick525 Před 2 lety +2

    psychopath is not a clearly descriptive term. on one hand it means a person who has a certain low range of emotional experience , on the other it is used to describe a sort of demented homicidal person

    • @captainmaim
      @captainmaim Před 2 lety +2

      yeah, it's American shorthand for "scary mean person" in literature. A friend of mine has a brilliant older brother who's a successful psychopath. He's a computer guy who gets off on hurting/cheating people, he has a business partner who cleans up all of his messes. Last I heard, he was doing excellent work for the Department of Defense in exchange for nonsensical contract provisions like forcing the CEO of his customer-contractor to personally bring him a bagel with cream cheese and smoked salmon every morning.

  • @SN-jh3bb
    @SN-jh3bb Před rokem

    the mere consideration to behave antisocially is emotionally mediated. More of this century's level of psychopathic knowledge needed

  • @-the_Truth_is_Out_There
    @-the_Truth_is_Out_There Před měsícem

    I’ve always viewed myself as a weapon

  • @Danofstockport
    @Danofstockport Před 2 lety +3

    Nice to hear Kerry Daynes get a mention, she's great, got 2 of her books. She's worked with people of pure evil at times

  • @heidi22209
    @heidi22209 Před rokem +2

    I only wish I could be... I envy the ability of the psyco to sleep at night. It's amazing.

  • @Bookthoughts92
    @Bookthoughts92 Před 2 lety +2

    Yep just call every woman who doesn’t call you back a psychopath 😂

  • @princemishkin1601
    @princemishkin1601 Před 2 lety +12

    I don' find this guy that compelling - when he's talking about the vikings he misses what to me is a crucial ingredient of humans - namely 'in-group/out-group' conflict. People who have normal empathy can "become" pyschopaths in the context of an outgroup. Just look at any war - soldiers who love men on their own side, and who will die for their group to protect it, will simultaneously kill the other side without remorse. To me this academic doesn't make nuanced distinctions between the kind of in-group-out-group "switch" that exists in empaths and bog standard pyschopathy. The irony is psychopaths don't kill during war time because they simply don't have anything they see as worth saving or fighting for, so they simply go into "damage limitation" mode.

    • @fooorrestgump
      @fooorrestgump Před 2 lety +5

      I think to compartmentalize why you are doing something wrong as in soldier at war is done by someone that feels something they are doing is wrong but needs to rationalize why they are doing it and I psychopath would not have that thought.

    • @GainFitnessSystems
      @GainFitnessSystems Před 2 lety

      He’s too nice

  • @excelself
    @excelself Před 2 lety

    Cos there is always the possibility for both good and evil.

  • @neilokeeffe3248
    @neilokeeffe3248 Před 2 lety

    I find my empathy is core to the P. It is extremely low. Even if a relative dies i barely react.

    • @juneelle370
      @juneelle370 Před 2 lety +1

      I think these personality disorders should really be called pattern/thought & felt perception disorders…. Mostly arranged as defensive mechanisms in youth or permitted by society (example sexism is sociopathy as well as not caring about the animals from factory farms, racism is a selective sociopathy as well)… Humans get these patterns from defense mechanisms from abuse OR from “privilege”… upper “class” people are taught to have selective sociopathy towards the “lower” classes. So essentially you haven’t practiced having emotions for others… there’s a higher degree of sociopaths/psychopaths in countries that are in turmoil/trauma-so maladaptive patterns from trauma and for some maladaptive patterns from privilege. You can literally practice loving meditations to grow empathy within… also, you can live a moral life with a strong cognitive empathy… although I think it’s very important for people in your situation to develop FELT empathy as well simply because that is a motivating factor in the cognitive process of empathy. I’d also suggest finding a shamen / group (vet very well) to experience the plant medicine San Pedro. I think in the past, these mental issues were helped a lot with plant medicine. 💖 When we connect w Creator and ourselves without defense and in pure love, that is the the root of connection with others~even though w others sometimes we do need defenses… defense/protection doesn’t mean disconnection from love though

  • @jpslayermayor9293
    @jpslayermayor9293 Před rokem

    Even more than propensity for being callous, psychopaths also may enjoy causing other people physical or emotional pain.

    • @xcept7355
      @xcept7355 Před rokem +2

      They dont care or enjoy doing that . Few do like us .

  • @paulmitchell5349
    @paulmitchell5349 Před 2 lety +2

    Put someone in an army and tell them it's ok to pull triggers, and suddenly everyone is a psycho. So it's largely a matter of social permission.

    • @juneelle370
      @juneelle370 Před 2 lety +1

      It’s true… example sexism is sociopathy/psychopathy. Literally red pill channels teach men how to instrumentalize/objectify women-to manipulate them/lie/deceive without conscience. Same w lack of empathy toward animals--everyone knows the horrors done in factory farms but they just don’t wanna know bc they want to chew on the dead meat! They are taught that it’s ok not to care about their suffering! Same w Nazis in Germany! Officers could murder and torture and then go home and cuddle their wives and babies-because they’d been taught to dehumanize them-feel no empathy for them. Selective sociopathy! Racism & sexism & ageism, speciesism is selective sociopathy/psychopathy! Permission given by family, religion, culture or society to feel no empathy towards certain groups of sentient beings!

    • @xcept7355
      @xcept7355 Před rokem

      Yep most people are just pussies who think that they are good

  • @Cuntsville
    @Cuntsville Před 2 lety +2

    I like your Vikings analogy, but I would add that the psychopath (which is to a significant level determined by genetics) will be the one who passes on his genes because he is a provider and more likely to survive, so rather than have a few psychopaths, it becomes the dominant trait in the population, and places like Northern Europe where empathy and such higher and “good” characteristics would have meant that you are less likely to survive because of the harsh environment and lack of food sources especially at the end of the last ice age, will show higher prevalence of this genetically influenced behaviour. This theory may overlap with your findings and research into the dating market!

    • @Stierenkloot
      @Stierenkloot Před rokem +2

      Nobody said that a psychopath will necessarily have psychopathic children. It’s just an average overall in society.

  • @Punicia
    @Punicia Před 5 měsíci

    So long as there are wars and exploitation, psychopaths will always exist. Because it’s possibly an epigenetic adaptation. People who go to war and witness gruesome events actually pass on that genetic trauma to their offspring. The cycle continues that way.

  • @sharri5412
    @sharri5412 Před rokem

    I remember my first experience withe them, I can feel then sucking energy from me. I am polite and jovial. I make sure I never break my boundaries. When I worked in Adolescents I could see where it starts

  • @wade2bosh
    @wade2bosh Před 2 lety

    born that way.

  • @stoner4378
    @stoner4378 Před rokem +1

    Chris such an angry looking dude😂

  • @wikithatshizy
    @wikithatshizy Před 2 lety

    When are you dropping Hormozi?

  • @particleconfig.8935
    @particleconfig.8935 Před 7 měsíci

    I do have a theory, that geos like: imagine someone having mch higher than standard needs (sexually for example) and can't meet those needs... he'll start problem solving for that and turns into ''being a psychopath''?

  • @homersimpson3127
    @homersimpson3127 Před 2 lety

    There was that Chris guy in the States who killed his wife and daughters to be with another woman, he also has a weird relationship with his mum. His dad was timid though

  • @johndutchman
    @johndutchman Před 2 lety

    If we have to tell you . . .

  • @xxxyyy1880
    @xxxyyy1880 Před 2 lety +3

    I think there is at least as much psychopaths in women than in men if not even more. Men are more violent by the nature so these kind of violent psychopaths are usually men and those that are women dont get that much attention. Women psychopaths have more subtle way of doing their things but they have all the same mental traits as men psychopaths: lack of empahty, emotional coldness and using other people.

  • @chingunanderson8229
    @chingunanderson8229 Před 2 lety +1

    Heritable or hereditary characteristics?

    • @chingunanderson8229
      @chingunanderson8229 Před 2 lety

      Doesn't heritability mean that the differences in psychopathy among humans is partly due to genes while hereditary mean that psychopathy is passed on from parents to kids via genes? It seems that Mark Freestone is referring to the hereditary definition at the beginning of the video.

  • @andreww.8262
    @andreww.8262 Před 2 lety +1

    Is business culture psychopathic?

  • @elvansavkl7972
    @elvansavkl7972 Před 2 lety

    They love getting into your head You could see it I I their eyes and body language .Actually you feel like they are actually insole of your mind with their looks.

  • @sammarchant2703
    @sammarchant2703 Před 4 měsíci

    All that you have to ask is does psychopathy negatively affect somebody’s ability to breed, and unfortunately, psychopaths seem to have a certain amount of success in that field.

  • @hanswoast7
    @hanswoast7 Před rokem

    Spam emails are also written to catch naive and stupid people. So you sort most of people out, because they recognize the con. But those few who do not get it and answer are your perfect victim. It's evil, but genius.

  • @5tw3b45tcf
    @5tw3b45tcf Před 2 lety +1

    I think the term psychopath has too ambiguous of a definition.

  • @c_r_o_w19
    @c_r_o_w19 Před 24 dny

    I'm curious. When did psychopaths became so heavily stigmatized ? Was it because of Ted Bundy and the likes?

  • @kool_aid_kidccc5630
    @kool_aid_kidccc5630 Před rokem

    so if you have lack of emotion or remorse towards violence you have a chance of being a psychopath like seeing someone get shot in the head

  • @TheHollandHS
    @TheHollandHS Před 4 měsíci

    If psycopathy was real , peoples sense of irony and humor would be dead.

  • @bilbobaggins4403
    @bilbobaggins4403 Před rokem

    Chris.....It's ok that you're a psycopath. I like you.

  • @soggy___389
    @soggy___389 Před 2 lety

    Holy hell this field and it's interpretation to the public has and still till this day been an absurd disaster.

  • @vincentrabbit8497
    @vincentrabbit8497 Před 10 měsíci

    THE WORLD MAKE THE SCHIZOPHRENIC PSYCHOPATH AND NOW YOU HAVE A PERFECT BEAST IN YOUR OWN PERSONAL EXPERIENCE

  • @CuShorts
    @CuShorts Před 2 lety +1

    Purge them all.

  • @trock7542
    @trock7542 Před 2 lety +1

    Only a psychopath goes to Guatemala in 2022…

  • @sw.7519
    @sw.7519 Před rokem

    If you breed dogs for hunting you know traits are inherited.

    • @redrustyhill2
      @redrustyhill2 Před rokem

      Indind it odd that all working animals are selectively bred for good and desirable traits yet humans are allowed to breed indiscriminately based on feelings. The stupidest of the stupid breed like rabbits and the highly intelligent seldom breed. And people wonder whats wrong with the world.

  • @sononi4798
    @sononi4798 Před 2 lety

    BLINK TWICE IF YOU'RE BEING HELD HOSTAGE 🧐

  • @jamesmcmasters9392
    @jamesmcmasters9392 Před rokem

    Vote for your favorite psychopath this election season Sorry I'm mean politicians or Map's support team

  • @starkid9736
    @starkid9736 Před rokem +1

    psycopath, you mean non weak people🤔

  • @realistic_delinquent
    @realistic_delinquent Před 2 lety +13

    Chris, thinking humanity is breeding out psychopaths is the most laughably ridiculous take I have heard on this channel, bar none.
    It’s as if you didn’t notice that charm, self confidence, and lack of empathy are currently the meta when it comes to sexual access, let alone wealth that comes with the risk-taking and self interested narcissistic behaviour.
    Psychopathy has never be more rapidly bred into the population than it is now.

    • @alberts4541
      @alberts4541 Před 2 lety +8

      You seem to be talking about narcissism instead of psychopathy.
      There is a common misconception of psychopathy going around which describes narcissistic traits and calls narcissistic people psychopaths.

    • @nackedgrils9302
      @nackedgrils9302 Před 2 lety +1

      Ok, first thing that you're both getting wrong is that psychopathy is more closely linked to environment than heredity, so it isn't being ''bred'' in or out of our society.
      Second, you seem to be insinuating that women are after a lack of empathy in their partner, which is downright preposterous. On average, women want some degree of disagreeableness in their partner which is very different from a lack of empathy. If you truly believe that, you've been blackpilled, brother.

    • @StaalBurgher0
      @StaalBurgher0 Před rokem

      I don't believe there is enough evidence that psychopaths are breeding at a higher rate. Having many sexual partners in modern times does not equate to many children. Given that many end in prison etc I would say it is being selected against.

    • @ze_kangz932
      @ze_kangz932 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@nackedgrils9302 Though that is true, but women instinctively want a secure man, and only intelligent women can tell the difference. Young female adults and dumb women tend to go for the ones who lack empathy and show "strength"(impulsivity really) because it instinctively shows he can protect her. Girls need to be educated on this about thier psyche. And with the rise of single mother homes, that wont change any time soon.
      Secondly, concerning psychopaths, they are born. You can't become one.

  • @haveaday1812
    @haveaday1812 Před 2 lety +9

    Psychopaths exists for the same reason cold exists. You can’t understand warmth without juxtaposition. Nothing in this universe exists without some sort of opposite force. That’s just an objective truth.

    • @haroldfarquad6886
      @haroldfarquad6886 Před 2 lety

      But we build fires. heating units, and make warm clothes to deal with cold. With psychopaths, we grant them power and privilege to make public policy and live by a different standard than the rest of us are held to. These people need to be removed from society, not voted into office or granted executive positions.

    • @realistic_delinquent
      @realistic_delinquent Před 2 lety +3

      Cold is the absence of energy, whereas warmth is the presence of energy in an amount which our chemistry is effective. Psychopathy is a psychological anomaly that occurs in 1/170-200 people. Neither are a dichotomy, and certainly don’t exist for the benefit of our understanding of the other. Keep your woowoo to yourself.

    • @gingerbill128
      @gingerbill128 Před 2 lety +3

      this is just nonsense , sorry to be rude "psychopaths exist for the same reason cold exists ", complete gibberish

    • @haveaday1812
      @haveaday1812 Před 2 lety +1

      @@realistic_delinquent I wasn’t insinuating some sort of Anthropocentric explanation, oh wise one. I’m merely pointing out a fact. Just as you described cold being the lack of energy. You use reductionist approach, I spoke holistically. There’s no disagreement here. There’s no woo woo..just two subjective interpretations of the same phenomenon.

    • @haveaday1812
      @haveaday1812 Před 2 lety

      @@gingerbill128 Who hurt you?

  • @kenjohnston2531
    @kenjohnston2531 Před 2 lety +1

    Psychopaths exist like wasps, they contribute nothing except unnecessary pain.

    • @storiesforsuccess3102
      @storiesforsuccess3102 Před 2 lety +4

      Being resentful towards them is like being resentful towards a wasp. Love and empathy are the best part of life and if someone isn’t capable of feeling those things, shouldn’t we be empathetic to that illness? There were no choices made by them to get bad genetics and in many cases a bad family. What you’re doing (and what we all do) is trying to feel superior to others to make yourself feel better. Even very successful and happy people do this to some extent. We all want to feel superior. We know we’d be horrible people if we tried to feel superior to another race, so we use politics, religion, and in this case mental illnesses.

    • @kenjohnston2531
      @kenjohnston2531 Před 2 lety

      @@storiesforsuccess3102 Have you ever been on the receiving end of psychopathic abuse and manipulation?

    • @storiesforsuccess3102
      @storiesforsuccess3102 Před 2 lety +4

      @@kenjohnston2531 When I was in high school I was pretty desperate for approval. I was, however, very good at making friends. (This wasn’t always a great combination.) My best friend was this alpha male type. The guy was fearless. Literally. It was a while before I knew he was a psychopath. He slept with my first real girlfriend. He would lie about it and even when he was caught there was no real remorse. I had known he was wired differently and as hurt as I was, I wasn’t really mad at him. Because even in high school I knew, he didn’t feel empathy. He was arrogant, and it wasn’t an act. He truly believed nobody had the value like he did. I understood he cared about me as much as he knew how to. Later in life, I found another friendship with a more violent psychopath. (I was a drunk with no self esteem.) That’s another story, but I have been very close to a psychopath on 2 different occasions. The first guy had a good life, but was 100% a psychopath and I’m not convinced has the ability to truly be happy. The second person was the most miserable and unstable person I’ve ever met and I would not want to bump into him again. I feel empathy for them both. They are bears being bears. I learned how to spot them from a mile away. I think we all have a spiritual disease that we attempt to numb or improve in different ways (alcoholics use drinking, sex addicts use sex…) We all have something. But with alcoholics there’s 12 steps and meetings, for someone else there’s stoicism and other ways to fix that spiritual hole or disease. Psychopaths will never fix their problem. They’ll keep hurting people because of their lack of empathy and fear of consequences. They often try to cover it up with status. (Never successfully). That feeling you get when you help someone else is what makes life worth living. If you take that away there’s no point. That’s the only thing that gives you purpose in the world. Psychopaths don’t get fulfilled by any purpose because there’s no good feeling from helping. I’d much rather be screwed by the psychopath then be a psychopath. It’s one of the worse illnesses there is. Especially a full psychopath.

    • @Embassy_of_Jupiter
      @Embassy_of_Jupiter Před 2 lety

      Well someone's gotta keep the police employed, else they'd be entirely useless

    • @Searchforfulltruth911
      @Searchforfulltruth911 Před rokem

      I don not agree with you statment that psychopath dont contribute intact they contribute a lot s doctor,banker,military they are in most high earning jobs and early days if someone invades you land they retaliate and kill everyone on other aide so they don't invade you often.

  • @endernator
    @endernator Před 2 lety

    chris your forehead is gigantic, can you bring some distance to the cam?

  • @cedricpod
    @cedricpod Před 2 lety

    Whenever I listen to these experts on mental health…… I often find myself thinking that some of these people are superior to ordinary people…… On a case by case basis they may function better than your average human being who believes in fairly crazy things…… Like the existence of God

    • @TheRiipTide
      @TheRiipTide Před 2 lety +2

      lol wat

    • @danfontaine8179
      @danfontaine8179 Před 2 lety

      Well psychopaths are parasitic - there are lots of examples of effective parasites in nature.

  • @-the_Truth_is_Out_There
    @-the_Truth_is_Out_There Před měsícem

    I’ve always viewed myself as a weapon