Russian Mail Order Bride Scams - The Truth Revealed!
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- čas přidán 16. 12. 2023
- A lot is made about so called Russian women who want to emigrate to western countries. They are supposedly gold diggers who want to live in the US and will marry a rich American man for the green card and then divorce him and take half his wealth. Today I will share with you what the media and the foreign men, wont tell you!
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0:28 I have a comment about the Russian women scam about needing money to move to America
@@garywilson5921 hi mate, what is your comment?
@@SamsRussianAdventures I’ve watched you and Milena and enjoyed the videos. When you mentioned scams I thought about a Russian girl who scammed me. She lives in Tambov and wanted to live in America with me but all she did was steal my money. Is this common in Russia?
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@@garywilson5921 where did you meet her?
There was a joke in Bulgaria that the average girl's beauty in the EU increased significantly after Britain left the EU. 🙂
Hahahaha that is so funny!!!
i don't get it
@@TonyDracon You have a british nose....
It's funny to read how foreigners think that in Russia girls are associated with traditional values. Those few beautiful girls you see know their worth, they are more mercantile than you can imagine
All corruptness comes from the West. No wonder the western depravity affected our girls.
I am one of the Russian girls from Vladimir who met a foreigner and fell in love (he did not come to Russia to look for a wife:). We got married in Vladimir 2,5 years later and lived another 3 years in Russia before moving to the States. My husband hired a language tutor, learned the bus system, found friends and tried to be as independent as possible. The experience of living in Russa, learning the language and the culture was invaluable for him personally and for our marriage. We celebrated our 20th anniversary this year:)
On a separate note, thank you Sam for your content. I love seeing Vladimir streets and people through your lens. I miss Russia!
Hi, thanks for sharing your story! I received a comment from another person from Vladimir who also had a similar experience. I’m guessing there is quite a large community of ex-Vladimir women in the US! When was the last time you visited Vladimir? I wonder if me and your husband ever crossed paths while he was here?
@@SamsRussianAdventures We visited before the pandemic. I hope to be able to visit again soon.
I doubt you met my husband, we left in 2006, right about the time you came to Russia.
What is the 'bus system?'
@@michaelmckelvey5122 routes and numbers of buses and trolleybuses. My husband had to learn how to get places using public transportation. Unlike Sam we did not own a car while we lived in Vladimir.
@@daveerho7538 Боже мой, теперь я понимаю, 'the bus system' означает как ездить по городе а не как учиться. Я очень глупый!
I’m amazed that anyone wants to come to meet a Russian woman when they cannot speak the language, nor understand the culture! It baffles me!
Sad reality everyone is obsessed with marrying a Russian girl just because they are good looking and gorgeous
@@user-mn6sq3is4t It's not true. You only see what is shown to you. Modern beauty standards are tied to money, and in Russia the population is poor, it's difficult for people to take care of themselves
Well the state of women in the USA is a debacle. Actually, that may be an over-generalization; I shouldn't let the 85% of bad ones ruin it for the rest.
@@user-mn6sq3is4t Some people don't want a feminazi.
@@danielfortesque6396 Natural beauty isn't popular anymore ? 😮
Made that mistake a dozen times.. Thought that the russian girl was into me, but in reality she was just being super friendly. Extremely common mistake. My policy is that both persons must get to know each other for a year or better, two years before actually marrying. You simply CANNOT know how the person will behave in everyday life after 2 weeks of seeing each other.
Many foreign men are so shocked because the first time ever, a girl who is stunning is interested in them!!! So they lock it down asap
Loved this video Sam.
Your take in this subject is very accurate.
I am married to a Russian woman who I dated for several years before we decided to marry. Now 18 years later we run our own business in New Zealand.
We also have met many people like you described, and don't understand what their relationship is about.
Once again, very good content.
Obesity is a big problem in UK/USA. Its not such a problem in Russia.
Yes! I agree.
Official data: Among Russian residents, 19% of men and 27.6% of women are obese; in general, 47.6% of men and 35.6% of women are overweight.
@@SamsRussianAdventures❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Big fan from India
Okey, so i living also in the West and I have the completely opposite problem. I with my 28 years I weight 45 kg.
Obesity isn’t a problem where I live compared with America. Also Russia is experiencing an aids epidemic so can we stop pretending that Russia is some perfect place to live. It’s got no immigrants which is a good thing and it’s good at preserving traditions, although it tried to wipe Christianity out in the 20th century. And the government is trying to eradicate the male population by sending them to die. It’s an awesome country with a great culture but it’s not perfect.
Great video Sam! In Italy we have a saying: "If they are roses they will bloom". Beauty is important but I think that men also appreciate other qualities in a woman! Anyway Russian girs are undoubtedely nice, and this is a great business card, but I also think that for a woman it is sad to be courted only because she is beautiful! I hope also for other things!! Love this kind of content Thank you very much❤🌲⭐️
I'm English and married to a Russian woman.
Good family values.
Sam, I agree with your observations about the scarcity mindset. And I would like to add, it's not only the physical beauty of the Russian woman the foreigners become enamoured, it's also the Russian woman lacks the insanity inculcated by feminism. You touched on it when you said the Russian woman is a traditional woman. A traditional woman is a woman who has not been brainwashed with feminism which is actually a thinly veiled anti-male mindset. A Western man coming into Russia having come from the emotional wasteland of his homeland where the women there have measurable contempt for men and think nothing of humiliating them in public and disrespecting them at home. Thus when the Western man is confronted with a Russian woman who instinctually knows how to supply the emotional support the man craves. It's like a man who's been stranded on the desert his whole life who suddenly comes upon an oasis. It is no wonder why the Western man jumps at the opportunity to lock in this fabulous thing he's found.
I completely agree with you but I just find it funny that most men who married a Russian women will have married the first Russian women that they met. Then a few years later they probably won’t even have a Russian male friend unless it’s someone that was introduced to them by their wife!
You are behind the times. Young girls in Russia have long been not "traditional" and are not going to serve a man. Feminism is increasingly popular among the younger generation of women.
you know nothing of modern Russian and Russian woman. Pathetic that you think a young Russian woman wants to slave over a man baby 🤦♀️ naive
My first Russian wife hated to help me around in Russia. She expected me to be the man and fix everything. When I took her to Sweden I could do that. It was exactly the same as you describe for her. I took care of everything.
My second Russian wife was more like you describe. She and her family started fighting with each other when I disappeared by my self fishing in the woods all night in Karelia. And they blamed her for it. Same thing in Sweden though, I took care of everything. Now I will never again take any woman to Sweden and take care of everything again. And it's not possible any more in Sweden anyway to get permanent residency for non EU citizens. I would love to move to Russia in some small village or town where the fishing is good. But it's to complicated with all the bureaucracy and sanctions.
Interesting! Thanks for the feedback! I completely understand and moving to Russia right now! Seems that you have some amazing experiences!
My wife and I have sorted out all the things you mentioned Sam. I have been to Russia several times and haven't had any real problems when I have been on my own. It is nice that I will have my wife to help. I can speak some Russian but will learn more once I am there. The old saying you need to be in a place to learn properly.
I am in a similar situation as you. I think you said it perfectly.
Yes, if we decide to go, I will certainly hire a tutor and practice.
100% agree mate! Your Russian will improve drastically when you are here!
I do most of the admin for my wife in the UK, and she does most in RUS. Its worked fine for the last 28 years 🙂
Have you met any foreign guys like the ones I talk about in my video? There are so many of them.
I have been based outside Russia for the last 25 years but did spend 2 months in 2023 in Moscow. I can recognise the mindset but the key for me was that I learned how to speak Russian very early on. Everyone in the company I worked at was told not to speak to me in English.
I am from Serbia, my wife is Russian, but boy the process was long. I had to pass babushka exam...
Sam - Men have become second to women in the U.S. in terms of workplace and social hierarchy. Many of the married men I know are miserable because they are under appreciated. Their wives boss them around and demand such luxurious lifestyles. Masculinity is fading. Too many are becoming pleasers instead of Do'ers.
Some of the points you mentioned about Russian women wanting to care for the man is how it should be. Traditional marriage. Men are providers and caretakers for the family. Women stay home and raise the kids while men put bread on the table. However, I wouldn't want to jump on the bandwagon to marry a Russian/Slavic woman without having some idea of what I'm getting into. If I were to live in Russia, I would want to have all of the knowledge and information prior to arriving about culture, linguistics, connections, housing, etc. I would feel terrible asking a Russian woman / wife, girlfriend to assist me in my everyday tasks. That's now how I operate. A marriage is suppose to bring two people together to form a strong bond. The foundation of marriage has been replaced with fulfilling needs and desires without putting in the work.
I think Slavic women are more traditional and cultured. That's what I would look for in finding a potential wife. Though as you stated, it should not be the first woman you meet. Take time for yourself and get to learn all that you can before making life changing decisions.
and that is why they try becoming women 😂
I joke but really what a horrible state of affairs over there
Hi Sam, fantastic in sight on Russian brides by passing the paperwork!! I think it would be a good idea for foreign men of a certain age to be mandatorily enlisted for military service to learn the language and have fellow comrades (mates) before even being allowed to marry, and get permanent residency… Shocking to hear some foreign guys are just bone lazy. Learning the language and culture is crucial in living in a foreign country. Best wishes 🙏🏻
Sam, great intresting (a little controversial) video..... I am married to a Russian woman, and the Russian city is in (for me) the middle of nowhere. will be intresting to read the feedback. Some of what your saying is correct ;-) ..... Two reasons for marrying russian women.......... The attitude of english women has changed towards men and the UK has changed has changed a lot... We dated for two years before getting married...... This video should get lots of views ))))))
Hi mate, I wondered why you hadn’t mentioned the video until now! I thought that you hadn’t perhaps seen it. It won’t get views though because the channel is doomed.
doomed you say ....... Its crazy this algorithm I just one of your videos from the summer ???? I don't why I am seeing this now @@SamsRussianAdventures
I dated 2 Russian girls, i had alot of friends, one common thing i experienced was Russian girls are highly manipulative and gold diggers , most of them have some serious issues with their brains because of childhood trauma , and Russian guys says the same thing about them. I dated a religious girl too she was from church and had a church membership, i always ignored the red flags since the beginning, we dated for more than 1 year and when we got engaged i figured out she cheated on me when she was a church member. It shook my life and everything. Also i saw lack of accountability and her family saying things like God will forgive her so i left. I probably saw the dark side of Russian girls. They are quite good at hiding those things. Remember guys those girls are same as every other girls on this planet. It's better not to get married with them. Till you finds a good one.
I’m sorry that you had such problems with the girls you met. I can assure you that there are good and bad people everywhere. I’ve started to learn about Stoicism, seems to be a great asset to have.
@@SamsRussianAdventures i agree, i really like the content you make sir , i hope you'll make a particular video on high divorce rate there , as you talked a bit about it in this video.
@@_stoicism I guess in Russia the woman doesn’t get %50 of your assets?
@@abbeystump assets that are bought after marriage . Gets split, like if you have a house which you bought before marriage, your wife won't get anything of it , but if you bought a house after your marriage, no matter if you payed the whole price , she'll get 50% of it . Usually after divorces if you and Russian wife had a kid, she'll get around 300-400k plus some amount every month till the kid turns 18. And if you haven't bought anything after marriage. Government will provide an apartment for her and the kid . Marriages are more likely a business deal in Russia. And most Russian women never sees marriages as something parmanent, it's just for 2,3 years for them. Or till they gets bored or till they finds a better partner, because they have been taught this since childhood . I personally believe time is more valuable than any of our assets. So before marrying them ask yourself, will it be worth wasting your precious time and energy on something which you know gonna end up sad , or will it good if it never happens?
@@abbeystump And if you think Russian women are very loyal that's completely wrong . They easily gets bored with one man, and because they don't like to look bad , they hide their cheating and disloyal behaviour from the society, families and their husbands or boyfriends. Most of the girls i saw were married and they mostly had a extra marital affair with someone from their workplace or mutual friends group. They were so good at hiding those things. Some of them were religious, their families, friends and husbands never had any idea about it. Worst part such women are in very large numbers and not many people knows about it. So what we call traditional wives, those women doesn't exist anymore, it's not 1990s .
First. Loved your yesterday's video with the Hunt for Red Babushka! Great efforts.
Thanks! I’ll try to find her again tomorrow!! I’m sure I can find her!
Well, the blue book is already something. Like some teachers at uni used to say, "if you know the lecturer's name and what colour the book is, you may get a C".
Very cool video again, well done Sam. As for the beauty of Russian women, don't forget that they are Slavs. Beauty is not something unusual for them, it is rather a given.
My mate married a Russian women who turned out to be crazy. Her name was Olga Ripabollockov
🤣🤣🤣
Что это за фамилия? Риббентропова--Бааллокова?😂
(Greetings from Russia. Sorry, I’m using online translation) Sorry, but judging by the last name you wrote, the girl could be FROM Russia, BUT not necessarily Russian))
Maybe Ukrianian... 🤔
Rip a ball ?
excellent video Sam, im curious how to they navigate the internet? lol
Great topic and insightful. I love the stories 😂. Thank you.
Glad you enjoyed! Thanks 🙏
Milena definitely plays to her audience, who seem to be a bunch of simps. If they had a way to easily send money to her, she would gladly accept it. It’s only the sanctions that limit her ability to exploit the simps who follow her. The guys who fawn over her have no real chance. They’re deluding themselves if they think otherwise.
The thing is that most people watch videos about Russia hoping to see beautiful girls. Just like I said in this video, that’s the main reason for many men to visit Russia. Milena is just being herself though she’s just an average girl! It’s only the men who put her on a pedestal and make her out to be some sort of unattainable princess!!!
@@SamsRussianAdventures The question is whether she would accept their donations knowing that they were made as a way to potentially win her over, knowing she has no real interest. If the answer is yes, then that’s the behavior of a scammer even if it’s the guys who put her on a pedestal and willingly made the donations. It’s akin to taking money from mentally disabled people because they don’t realize someone is taking advantage of them. You may find it humorous, but such behavior is exploitive.
The guys that you describe in your video are socially, developmentally and potentially mentally disabled. You realize the lunacy of their behavior and must realize that it’s more sad than humorous. It’s one thing to make a video highlighting the disabilities of these guys, but it’s a different matter to encourage their ill-advised behavior and potentially benefit from it financially. You seem to have groomed her for thus role as part of some type of social experiment to illustrate your point.
There are far fewer western men attempting to obtain Russian residency through marriage than there are Russian women trying to scam men by pretending to care about them.
@@alfredg4044 Other clever people will still make money on simps. By creating AI girlfriends, accounts with photos and videos created by neural networks, etc. 🤔🤔
It reminds me of my time with my Polish girlfriend about 20 years ago. In the end I am happy I stayed in Belgium. My wife at least speaks the same language 😂😂😂😂
Most foreigners who come here will marry the very first girl who they meet here, which is a bit weird!
Well it's a lazy way to get a permit. But I would prefer to learn the language first, then move and set up my life. Then start thinking of getting a girlfriend.😊
@@SamsRussianAdventures Because they never had a female treat them nicely and seem normal and feminine. A starving man loves even a McDonalds hamburger even though he knows it wants to kill him. 35% of males in the US 35 or younger have never had a girlfriend and are virgins. The society has changed radically since the days prior to the 1980s when it was rare to find an adult over 24 who was NOT married, and it was with someone like themselves, probably in the same school district. People married people like themselves and did not expect the man to already be wealthy to even consider marriage. People tended to marry people for their potential and their common community norms, not like now, were every western female has a list of 100 must haves such as over 6 feet tall, over $100, 000 income, when only 14% of the male population, are over 6ft, and single men 2-3 years older than her, who make more than $100,000 a year is 0.001% for marriage and family formation has essentially stopped in societies where US social media dominates.
If normal average guy who has something interesting to say and is polite be will thinking he died and went to heaven when arriving in Russia and every girl he crosses paths with, if he is well mannered, will be friendly to him. Heck, I am a lot older but meet and strike up long time friendships with very attractive fit, and never have problems finding a date with a feminine pleasant highly cultured girl since I meet them daily, every day just taking a walk or going to a new art exhibition. Today exchanged contact info with 12 girls from 20 to 32, at an actors workshop, as the official videographer for the the film directors master class. This was was small, only 31 actors, 5 were males, registered, usually we have a 60 and 85% are females, all accomplished stage actors who attend our training on transitioning to cinema. I very frequently plan nothing, and just walk from my city center home in St Petersburg and know I will meet a very nice interesting female who is happy to hang out with me, going to a jazz club or just sit in an English style pub and talk for hours. When I return to California every 3-5 years for 1-2 week I never meet females who are at all pleasant or interesting. It was not that way 40 years ago, when males and females liked each other. In Russia it is like returning to 3 generations ago, where men and women like each other and appreciate the differences. But Russia also has a lowered birth and marriage rate. The birth rate is increasing in part because of some very helpful and generous assistance by the government to encourage raising a family.
I can certainly understand why western men are taken with Russian girls, it is the nature of the culture to be polite and respectful, and the fact that the average girl in Russia is smart, social, cultured, attractive and not fat. The guy thinks it is the girl when what they are experiencing it is the culture.
I warn western men all the time to not even consider a Russian wife if he intends to take her back to the toxic environment of the US or UK social scene because she will adapt to it and be like western women. It is the culture that determines the traits of the members of the society. If a guy falls for the Russian society, as personified by a girl falls for, he really needs to adopt her society that made her such a desirable mate, because a flexible adaptive man will be a much better person, happier, if he adopts the culture that molded his beloved woman.
I am married to a Russian woman (from Vladimir, BTW - she still has an apartment there), and we live in the USA. I try even here to learn some Russian, and if we were there, I would be busting my tail to learn Russian and establish some independence, so my wife wouldn't have to do everything...because eventually, they may resent that they have not so much a husband, but a kid.
Plus, I don't want my life controlled to that degree - I am pretty fiercely independent. Even in a good marriage, you need time apart. We dated for over 2 years online, and I went to Russia twice. Even then, you don't know as much as you would like about each other. We are working through things, and she is learning English, but it is not a "snap your fingers and voila" thing. People need to think more. It is still a marriage, subject to the same conditions and stresses as any marriage...and our communication has made issue resolution more challenging.
Living in any country for years (let alone 10) and not learning the language is borderline criminal.
And apart from the papers, Sam, you know as well as I do that many men think with their "little head" instead of the bigger one...seldom a foundation for sound decision-making.
Hi, thanks for sharing your story. I often being asked by foreign men if I can recommend a site where they can meet Russian girls but I don’t know that I can trust that the profiles are genuine. I guess you went through that initially? Can you recommend a site?
Can you remember the times you visited Russia and didn’t know much because of the language barrier? Some men continue to live in that world forever!
@@SamsRussianAdventures I used 2 sites - one was much less reliable and more scammy, and the other was Elena's Models. They seemed to vet their girls more - of course, a real girl can still be a scammy girl. I met in person 4 different women, dated 3, and married the 4th. Of course, having been with Svetlana for as long as I have now, I haven't been back to the site, so I don't know what is going on there.
I wanted to learn Russian, and I struggled, of course, when I went and was alone, but I did the best I could with the little Russian I knew. I like to say I know about 200 words in Russian (maybe a stretch) and only mispronounce almost all of them. And 40 to 50 of those words are numbers. Cases? Forget it.
But I did get help from a Moscow policeman to ensure I was getting on the Metro on the proper side of the platform, and in St. Petersburg, I actually held about a 3-minute conversation with a cleaning lady for the Airbnb I rented - understood almost nothing, but was able to figure out her brother lived in the USA, she didn't remember which city. I was amazed that with as little percentage comprehension of her words, I was able to understand what I did, and she was very gracious with my terrible "Russkie yazik."
My wife can speak reasonably well in English, but her comprehension of spoken English is still pretty weak - because she listens to Russian all day. I can hear her making lunch in the other room, and her tablet is playing a Russian movie. I am going to bet nobody ever learned a new language by listening to their native tongue - but hey, WTF do I know?
Remember me, Sam - MVP...most valuable player! (My initials)
Good perspectives. Thank you for sharing.
@@mvp019Many Russians are bilingual Russian and English speakers. Many are multilingual. It seems that they're willing to assist in English when one gets stumped with their limited Russian and realize that an effort it being made.
It's a two-way street on the listening to a native language instead of the language of the culture one desires to learn, whether that be Russian or English. You have to immerse yourself in the culture for best results.
I enjoyed your comments.
@@brianwesley28 Yes, in the large cities (which I have only been to Moscow and SP) younger people generally know at least some English. I hope someday to get to Vladimir, so I can meet my mother-in-law.
Great and clear video, Sam. Your point about the natural beauty of Russian women is valid. Particularly noteworthy is the segment where you highlighted that women in the mentioned countries are considered out of reach, whereas the average woman in Russia and neighboring countries naturally values self-care due to their genetic predisposition. Men, however, may not fare as well, and when a Russian woman pays them attention, they often become blinded by love. Take Milena, for example-undeniably beautiful, causing many to pursue her hastily. The desperation of these men is evident. While I’d also be happy and proud to have a woman like her by my side, I believe in the pragmatic Dutch perspective that there’s more to consider than just a beautiful lady. If you’re interested in a woman from another country, I assume apart from her you’re also interested in getting to know each other better, the family, the country, culture, and language.
But on a different note, I thought your video was about these mail order bride scams. There are plenty of dating agencies specialized in Russian women that also exploit the beauty of these ladies and capitalize on the emotions of these men. This is where things go quite wrong. It's no longer about the human aspect but simply about trying to make as much money as possible, regardless of the immense pain inflicted on these men's hearts. This has to come to an end. Maybe you should make a video about that.
Hi mate, thanks for the comment. I agree with you. I have been thinking of a way to help Russian women and foreign men connect so that they can both trust the service but I’m running into a wall.
The thought behind the mail order bride scam was that the scam is that foreign men are the scammers rather than the Russian women!
@@SamsRussianAdventures@SamsRussianAdventures Maybe not so much total scammers, but lazy and unmotivated men.
Most people in cities have their own circle of friends already and it”s very common that you need to make an effort to make new friends as much as the effort to meet a partner.Many dating apps have the same sex friend option to meet new friends instead of dates.
I am in a friendly city in Australia and have heard it from most most people who move here and why same nationalities often stick together.Travellers often stick together as they have that in common and all need that support of needed to build new networks of friends.
The type of person discussed in video making no effort is just your common person who cannot be bothered but it is harder to make new friends as you get older and most are not extroverted enough to mix and make new connections.
Many people are way too lazy for that. They just do everything through their wife
Happy new year Sam ! Wishing you great 2024
Same to you! Thank you! 🙏
i definately want to speak enough to be able to communicate, i want to do everything myself im considering looking for work , but i would never do those things like you described, i need and want to be independant and be of value to a relationship to work and too myself, im gonna start learning some language soon i paid a a small course now need to alocatew some time everyday
a different view on this subject, interesting conversation, you can't learn Russian in 3 months, I think, reading and writing and looking for a job and making friends, but getting married quickly, I'm amazed by that
Sure! I didn’t really learn Russian for a couple of years but I realised I needed to start learning and I didn’t have a wife to do everything for me. By the way, I have 2nd channel that you may like too: youtube.com/@broadrussia?si=n-ivMZ07BJyiAJ8h
Hi Sam, nice long video. Nice way to look at it. What really made me stay to the end was I wanted to see Ksusha! 😹😹😹
Haha I’ll make a video with her soon!
The problem is with the mindset every nation has beautiful girls but of course Russian girls are one of the best in the world but it doesn't mean girls in Asia ,caucasian,US UK or latin America are not gorgeous
Haha thanks Sam, I was planning on coming to Russia in June - July on a working visa to see if I can get a job in Moscow and survive the Russian winter......but the marriage scam actually sounds like a quick solution to all problems!!😜
Yes, I said very much the same, and who knows, sometimes these things might actually work out. In an ideal world it would be really nice to meet a girl who falls in love with you and wants you to stay there because she does not want to leave her close family rather than she just wanting a ticket out of the place.
If I may ask how did you get a working visa? Do you mean business visa?
@@jamesprivet Yes he is entering on a business visa and think he can find a work and then get a working visa, but he will be wiser.
First failure is "on a working visa to see if I can get a job", you just can't get a working visa without a work, next failure is that searching for a work on a business visa is a legal option, then working on a business visa is illegal. Then there is the 90 days within 180 days visa rule, that exclude staying during the full Russian winter.
In the USA as a male, you have to be in the upper 4.5% percentile of attractiveness to be successful with women. In the upper 10%-13% percentile, you'll get some oppurtunity - but you will have to work hard for it. Below that, you'll only get women like 3/10 at best in attractiveness.
That is one of the reasons that American men begin a relationship with the first Russian girl that they see, they are shocked that a girl who back home wouldn’t speak to them, in Russia is interested in them!
Сэм, к сожалению проблема в том, что многие русские женщины относятся к своим мужьям как к детям.Русские женщины очень сильно опекают своих мужей, многое делают за них. Мужчины привыкают к этому. В результате женщина из жены незаметно превращается в служанку для мужа. При этом многие женщины потом удивляются, почему им мужья мало помогают и ничего не делают. Женщины не понимают, что сами виноваты в этом.
''В результате женщины из женщины незаметно превращается с служанку для мужа.'' я наверно тоже хотел бы так жить. Могу ли я перееххать в Россию?!
Даже не служанка, а мама. Мне всегда кажется, что муж не знает как правильно что то сделать. Я имею в виду дела по дому.) У меня ведь лучше это получатся :) А ещё, бабушка в детстве мне говорила : "учись вкусно готовить, убирать, шить... не научишься - муж из дома выгонит!" :) Меня это возмущало! Что за домострой!? Я советская гражданка!!! :) Но эти установки, все равно засели в сознании. :) И я стараюсь вкусно готовить и чисто убирать. Ведь я женщина! :)
I enjoyed this video Sam, thank you. You make some excellent and honest observations. It sounds much like videos I've seen of Western men going to Thailand or Vietnam or the Philippines.
Yes! 100% But the crazy thing is that they always say that they moved to Russia because of how much they love the country! I watched a CZcams video and a guy said that you should not come to Russia and expect to find a Russian girl and get married! Yet when I spoke to him he said that he met a girl in his first day here, he followed her to her Siberian town and then arranged to get married and then his best friend is her family.
@@SamsRussianAdventures That is interesting. I wonder why he tells people not to but knows, at least in his situation, it isn't the way things really are.
The kindest thing to think, I guess, is that he doesn't want Russian women to be "taken advantage of".
I watch those videos and I notice that lots of western men goes to the Philippines to get in with underaged girls. I am not saying all western men is going that but I notice some are.
Marriage should be about what you can do for your partner not what your partner can do for you. I will not get married again, unless they abolish divorce and family courts.
Yes! I bet divorce is a nightmare! Breaking up with a girl is a nightmare! People are great but when the love goes, the person can become a nightmare
Merry Christmas, Sam!
Same to you! Have a great new year!
Thanks Sam for the great video
Beauty comes from the inside for both women and men. It seems Russian ladies are mostly happy, in harmony and takes life as it comes naturally. I also belive that people treat each other with respect in Russia and that is so important. I countries like US, UK women are focused to much on the outside and equality so I don't think they are "in love" with themselves. And there is a huge difference in manly and womenly "roles". In Russia it seems men are men and women are women. In US and many other countries there are no such roles anymore and actually that doesn't create any beauty amongst humanity.
I belive it is natural that a person living in the country helps the one that comes from another country. But of course learning language and some bureaucracy is something all immigrants should do. Have you seen 90 Days Fiance? People get married just to be able to stay in the new country, that's nothing new. Even if they do not know each other and have a ton of differences they get married anyway. I don't know how is works in Russia,you get married get recidency then you divorce, are you still eligible for recidency?
Сэм , вас накрыл циклон "Ваня " . Нас в Н Новгороде он тоже накрыл . Снег валит стеной
Ага! Количество снега сумасшедшая!!
It's very sad people just get married to another person for citizenship or money how can someone use another human being as mean to better lifestyle without any love or emotions attached
No doubt.
Looking at the complexity of abtaining Russian citizenship, I think I would do the same! Mabe sometimes there is a certain amount of love and/or emotions attached-it is difficult to say what somebody really feels. Class also plays a great part in the process as people in the U.K. do their A levels and go on to university very often fining their partners for life. Universities are also marriage bureaus where people of the same age and similar class background meet with similar partners with the same economic type long term aims. Do you know of a doctor, dentist, vet or crown court judge married to a dustman?
@@michaelmckelvey5122 It's a poor reason to get married.
This does happen a lot in the UK...... but now they let anyone leave there, so they dont need to get married anymore ))))
The key BEFORE GETTING MARRIED is live together for minimum 1 year.
Most people who get married quickly are not willing to risk that! She will understand that he’s an idiot within the year!!!
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It's weird to pretend to love a country and want to move there without learning the language, the culture ect.
Why would someone move there in the first place if they don't even want to make an effort. I found it a little disrespectful for the people of that country.
Because they want a wife and understand that the Russian wife will look after them. Back in their own country everyone sees the real person for who he is.
Go to Spain, there are tens of thousands of monolingual Brits tucking into their burger and chips! At the end of the day, it is all about numbers. As for me, I spent three years studying A level Russian and then four years at university but I know no Russians at all, have no close Russian friends and have never even had a relationship with a Russian woman. Sometimes I wonder if it was all worth while, I suppose that I am an example of the other end of the spectrum. Sam writes: 'back in their own country everyone sees the real person for who he is''-obviously in my case, English women and Russian women are equally perceptive!
Thanks for touching a quite interesting topic. Being honest whilst living in the UK I was quite frequently asked by a part of my local acquaintances for introducing them to any Russian girl. Meanwhile as I lately heard from a British blogger, The UK government is going to decrease a quantity of marriage to the non-british spouse who is going to move on the UK for settling by doubling a requested annual income of British one for a fiancee visa to more then 38G next Spring.....Allegedly that one is a part of decreasing a level of immigration to UK both legal and illegal. What do you think whether that come into force? Just interesting.🙂
What about all the Indian and Pakistani men who bring their arranged wives to the U.K.?
Hi, thanks for sharing. I don’t know about the UK. Most of these men I talk about live in Russia, if they lived together in the UK then the Russian girl would soon understand that the man is lazy!
Russian women would have to get used to me asking their birthdays so I can conduct an interplanetary aspect synergy analysis. I'm not marrying anybody who I don't have excellent mutual synergy with. I'm not one to jump into a relationship on a whim.
I can sure comprehend the aspect of men marrying for redidency or citizenship status, but a lot of people in the U.S. just jump into a relationship with somebody else a week after their previous one ends. It's crazy.
This is crazy to hear,i hope guys are not that desperate. It's not enough to simply marry someone because it feels convenient at a time. It's important to speak the language, understand the culture, learn to find your own way around. Get to know some people. You can't as a man live like that, that's strange and crazy to me. That's mind boggling to say the least.
Unfortunately many live like this! I received messages from foreign men who are married to a Russian women and they agree with me.
Been a bit Sam. Hope you're doing well.
Everything you said makes sense. Maybe it should be called the American husbands scam over there in Russia.
I won't but if I ever moved to Russia I'd first learn the language. Yeah, having my girlfriend or wife call me a cab might be the easy way but just seems wrong. I'd much rather learn to do that myself.
Excellent video mate! Not offended, I think there are more hot women in Russia than in the US. But, I also think there are more beautiful ladies in Japan than anywhere in the world.
Looking forward to the Russian spring when you can go exploring Soviet stuff again!
I'm married to a beautiful Russian lady and have been for 20 years next year. I am moving to Russia to be with her next year.
Hey man, it's great, we are always happy to good people from anywhere
Hi mate, where did you say she lives again?
Great observations there Sam. It's true that Russian girls are generally beautiful and I'm sure that's the first thing that attracts foreign men. Personally, I would never have contemplated moving to any other country (I'm much too old now) unless I could speak the language sufficiently to get by and had fully tried and understood the culture as I would feel far too vulnerable otherwise.
I must say that I saw some very pretty girls in Moscow a couple of years ago but mainly those who look European. Some obviously have far eastern, Caucasian looks with high cheek bones and I did not find them so attractive. Anyway, as the old saying goes: 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder.'
Алло Сам. Я Ян и жити в Швейцария. Я старт люблю когда 1-2 год (Моя маму скал у меня, это факт) российский культура, музыку... я это ещё большая страна. Pls dont generalized ever foreigner.
My daughter, who is American born said that Russian girls steriotypicaly consider to be "needy" and "accessible" which is not a good thing.
That's exactly what Sam, who is English-born, is addressing as a stereotype that has a complex relationship with reality.
Foreign men who come to Russia are extremely needy. They get married with the first girl who shows interest in them!
Great video Sam! So many truths there. The naivety of most people is astounding.
Hi Sam,
It is not just beauty when it comes to Russian women.
There is another thing.
Here in the Netherlands and I know in other countries as well, feminism is a big thing.
Sure enough Men and women alike have the same rights and obligations but I see in western countries this has gone so far that men have been stripped from their manlyhood.
I have had relationships here in the Netherlands but every time I felt I was in competition.
I want a woman to be female. This does not mean they are only good for doing laundry and cooking diner.
Now I choose to be alone because I do not want to be in a relationship like that and I do not believe in long-distance relationships.
I want to make it so that I have enough money to live abroad and then move. Russia is indeed on the list but I move there for the people, not for the women.
Sure I would like to meet a woman. but first I will move there. However..... At this moment it seems that life is taking me in a different direction and I first want to explore that.
Of course I understand, but when an average foreigner comes to Russia, they are in shock because a beautiful women is speaking to them! Us men are weak, we look at beauty first. And then we hope she is a nice person too! Russian women have great attributes, I agree.
@@SamsRussianAdventures i speak to beautiful women all the time, i work in tourism. The problem is, will the average russian women date us, if we speak to them for a few minutes then ask them out on a date? Will they give us the time of day and see our personality or they going to shrug us off, when we ask for a date after speaking to them?
@@kaleeysmith8801 The thing is that the average Russian woman is stunningly beautiful. This is why the westerner is in shock when they speak to him, that is the point I was making. Why wouldn't they date you?!
@@SamsRussianAdventures i don't know, western women have extremely high status mentality if they are beautiful, so most of them just ignore dudes off the street coming up to them to chat up with, unless the dude fits the profile of 6feet tall, dress like a millionaire, drives a luxury car like ferrari or porsche, then they'll let the guy chat them up. Those beautiful women i talk to all the don't take me as a date potential, i'm just a guide or a friend zone. I dated a very beautiful woman a few times before, they turn out to have ugly personality, selfish, bossy, picky and so i have decided i should marry a woman with good personality instead of good looks.
my uncle from south carolina married a russian lady a concert pianist I've never heard him complaining about it
Did she move there or live in Russia?
Great video as usual, Sam in manchester we don't have any of these problems. All the lads are married four times already, first to beer, 2 to footie, 3 to cricket 4 to fish n chips.....lasses never get a look in.......and when we do have to marry...it is always to some lass who is exactly like your mum. Who else can do your Saturday liver and onions, proper job like.?
Catch you down the British legion for snooker on Friday? We'll have a few jars and then go down to the ritz, to see a fight over some tart or other, then drop in the Duke of Wellington to check on Saturday's accumulator, then vindaloo n chips....we can be back home to mum's place by mid night and she will still be up with a jam tart and her mug of strong tay......what a great life...who needs the lasses?
Haha sounds like a perfect life!!!!
It is genetics! The European woman that have come here years ago in the like the 1800’s on has shrunk! Now it’s really hard to find a European woman in America! I can tell a block away if they are European or not! They dress differently than Americans!
They care more about their appearance
I waited a year before we got married and I should’ve waited a lot longer cause it was the biggest mistake of my life but I’m still married going on 16 years
hahaha so I guess it was a good mistake!
I married a Russian girl. She came to the US. I do everything for her like you were describing in the video. Works for us. Dating in the US was like eating crap sandwiches my whole life and Russian girls are like having caviar for the first time.
Thanks for your feedback and sharing your story! Where did you meet? Did you marry very fast?
@@SamsRussianAdventures we met on Cupid website. I got about 10 Russian and Ukrainian matches per day. Talking to that many women literally became my part time job. My wife stood out among all of them. I went to meet her in Antalya and it was the trip of my life. We FaceTimed everything day and then I met her in Istanbul about 4 months later. After that trip I knew she was the one. We got married in Dubai a total of 10 months after we met. Then we started the visa process which was extremely difficult and stressful. Because the US embassy in Russia is closed we went to Israel and were there for a month for her medical and interview we literally got out 8 days before the attack. Things have been going well for us in the US. I am helping her with her English and teaching her to drive. It is a shock to her living in rural USA after living in Moscow.
@@SamsRussianAdventures after this process I learned a lot, I don't mind giving pointers to any men that are interested.
You have to take you're time to know each other but sometimes this is easier said than done. I've been married with a Russian girls for 20 years and this was the best decision of my life. But fact is that you don't know your partner as good because of the distance. If you don't have the possibility to live with each other for a while like in my case it's a risk. I dated my wife for a year before our marriage but it was mostly a long distance relationship. I visited her 2 times and she visited me 3 times before we decided to get married. In the end it all worked out and we have a very good marriage.
Thanks for sharing your story. I guess you met online. Did she move to your country then?
i agree with that, its strange to get married to get benefits ,, its awful .. its not marriage ! its business , i strongly disapporve it !
Most people claim to be in love but if you marry the very first Russian girl that you meet then is it really love?
I was gonna marry a lovely Russian girl in the south, but she had me pay for everything while having a hefty income herself. I spent 10 000 $ in 3 months
Yes! Good you got out of that one!
Accurate. Well observed. Great video.
Glad you think so! I ruffled a few feathers
you are both a wise man and a good man, cheers for the heads up.........this is a seminal video for all your subscribers to watch, cor blimey!!!!! My imperative is at LEAST three years before marriage, getting to know a lassie...the English word "love" lacks nuance, the path of love vis-a-vis using Greek......"eros" self explanatory..........phileo, best friend love.....agape, total unconditional love. the shelf life of that hot eros is three years max.....poor sods.
Very useful advice , I hope those who are interested in Russian girls would invest their time to listen to you more and with great interest.
Those who are only interested in meeting Russian women to fulfill their ego and have a girl who does everything for them, will not listen!!!
I think you just gave me a business idea. Driving foreigners around who live in Russia for, what did you say? 10 years, but don't speak Russian. I wonder if I can get a visa based on the business idea. I've never been to Russia yet but I am convinced I can manage in Russia. After all, I managed to survive in Australia as well, not really speaking the language, not knowing anyone except my wife, not knowing how anything works down here. I'll call my business Under maybe?😆
If you come from one English speaking country to another it is not so very difficult but from one English country to a country that speaks Russian is something else altogether.
Don't know your religion but the best to you and yours this holiday season!!!
We don’t have very much snow it is +11 and south central Canada
I'm patiently waiting for spring!
Современная либерализация, за счет прагматизма может убить человеческие чувства. Конечно прагматизм нужен для семьи. Но не во всем. Если полностью "монетизировать "семейную жизнь.То это может превратить семью в Базар. Кого- то, это наверное устраивает, жить на "Базаре", в "торговой лавке". А кому- то от этого гадко. Я за любовь между супругами как первичное, а потом можно и и расчет. .А уж там потом супруги разберутся , кому лампочки вкручивать, а кому завтраки готовить.
Awesome - Great advice Sam - exactly my situation in Belarus
You are married and depend on your wife?
Nope but lived in Minsk, Belarus for 8 months recently and was totally dependent on the girl I was dating to figure out restaurants to eat, place to party, place to relax & had no other friends or another possible dating partner as I don’t speak the Russian language & in Minsk 90% of the people don’t speak English
How to move abroad: don't learn the local language, customs, laws... become a leech.
So many men do it here! It’s pretty crazy.
@@SamsRussianAdventures the same guys who wonder why women reject them in their own countries I guess. ;)
I can't tell a difference in looks between one European from another, Russian or another European. 🤷🏼♀️
I can, I am English and am able to see the differences. Small example, English have a very soft look, soft skin, soft muscle tone, very white skin, often unattractive. Slavic, Dutch, Russian, taller and big strong bone structures, not fat and heavy.
Great video Sam 👍👍👍 thanks again.
Glad you enjoyed it!
good work
Thanks! It will have annoyed a for people and I’ll get some unsubscribes!
Agreed. I don't like those fat tabs of lard as well.
This is a real doozy? Of what these men are doing? Unbelievable Sam? WTF? They must have money or how else would that work out?
Not a lot of money, the women just don’t see their bs like someone from their own country would. For the woman it’s good to have a dependable person who can pay the bills than to be alone.
Question : What do you call a girl in Russia that is not good looking?
Answer : A tourist.
They are not all beautiful, like anywhere, there are nice and not so nice. I have seen beautiful German girls and others that look like a Russian tank!
What you will find thought is that most foreigners married the first girl they met! Even those who married women after living in Russia for a while will tell you that it was their first Russian girlfriend. This tells us that they considered the very first girl that they met to be hot!
Dobroy den--just wonder I saw a vlog yesterday where you were searching for some babushka to give her a gift (the things for the bottom of the shoes so she can walk more safe on ice/snow and not slip)---Are you done with the search or will there be another one to watch?
Hi! I just filmed part two today!!!
Suggestion- start a dating business. And film and put on CZcams all of that. You will have lots of views.
Russian women are indeed the most beautiful women in the world even tho here in Norway we got beautiful women still not match to Russian women
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I don't know about that. 39 year's married. Seems lots of men try to hard. I say dont try so hard. Then you will find the one for you when you least expect it🎉
Most foreign men come to Russia and marry the first girl who shows them attention! They are in shock that someone likes them and marry them as quick as possible
In America a woman will call the police if you will approach her on the street, in russia that will never happen
That's awful
@@user-mn6sq3is4t what's awful?
Come on! Don't be so hard on foreign men. As in America they are escaping the insanity of most women and woke behaviors. Russian women make it easy to fall in love with them. First it may be appearance. But men are overwhelmed by the hospitality and honesty of a Russian women. If I met a traditional Russian woman that came to America. There is a good chance I would marry her. Even though marriage is off the table. Just rather have a live in girlfriend. They are just better fitted for men. Than American women.
I think you are wrong about that. I know of people that got married. Maybe some are like that. But not all. As I myself have spoken to some. This is why you are wrong for the most part? Marriage is not just for love. Is about convenience too. It's about putting resources together without conflict for a better life. I don't see anything wrong with that.
I perhaps will visit Russia. But not live there. My home is the United States. Although America has many problems. For me as a patriot that served in the arm forces. It is worth fighting for some sense of stability here in the US and the corruption that is going on. I'm a countrymen fighting for the rights of the American people that is being eroded.
We have a very Unique Constitution here. That says We The People are actually the government. From the president to the local governments are there to represent We the People. We have second Amendment. That is design to have the right to protect ourselves with firearms. From robbers, killers and foreign and domestic adversaries. Even if those adversaries is our own government that became tyrannical. It's not what America is that I'm protecting. It's what it could be from the constitution created by our founding fathers.
Hi mate, im not saying there is anything wrong with it. I agree with you. If a foreign man wants to move to Russia and just get married, not take part in society and just have his wife do everything for him and if she agrees to that, then that is up yo them, im just telling it as I see it. They are both consulting adults.
@@SamsRussianAdventures When a Russian woman comes to America is the same thing. Men have to show them what to do and stuff like that. I don't see anything wrong with that. Have immediate American family show her the process and everything. It's not that the men is doing everything. It's just part of the process when you are in foreign land.
It's like a guy that I know. That has deeper pockets than I do. He met a girl in Russia. He wanted her to come to America. She didn't want to leave. Because her family is in Russia. So he decided to marry her and stay in Russia. So he took his money and invested it in Russia. So how is that making the women do everything. I don't get it. A women helping over a few speed bumps. Is doing everything. For investments to the Russian economy and living a good life is a woman doing everything. When helping initially. Constitute of a woman doing everything. That was 8 years ago. Now she is doing better and living a happy life together. He is investing in land projects in Russia. I don't see anything wrong with that. Maybe I'm misunderstanding your point of view.
Because to be honest with you. I only know three. Maybe I'm wrong. Maybe the majority does it to live in Russia. Disregarding love and attraction. For the most part I think American loves Russian culture. Don't have to be worried about calling people by the right pronouns or calling men women. In Canada they will even arrest you. If you call someone by the wrong pronouns.
@@SamsRussianAdventures One thing I don't understand is why Russians want to come to America. It's all corrupt. From finding cocaine in the White House situation room. Where people need special top secret clearance. Just recently Senate Staffers getting caught making gay porn in the Senate. Authoritarian laws that says children could be castrated without parents consent. Kicking out the homeless Americans to make room for illegals'. Homeless drug addicts walking the streets like zombies. That is just the tip of the iceberg. You have CZcams problems because US authoritarians. That is why I must stay here with groups fighting back against authoritarians. War mongers.
@@ReigniteAmerica that’s great, he sounds like he loves Russia. I’m not saying that there is anything wrong with it. I just find it strange when a man goes to another country, within a week he’s in a relationship, and then he gets married asap and never does anything himself. If he’s immersing himself into the country then that is also great. The majority of the men I meet don’t have a Russian friend unless it’s a friend that his wife found for him!
@@ReigniteAmerica the men I know do nothing for themselves and after many years in Russia they still rely on their wives to do everything for them. I’d love to interview your friend. Sounds like he has a great story to tell. I think marriage is great, when people love each other it’s brilliant.
Hiya Mr Sam!, would it would not be better for the institution of marriage in Russia to be protected and also seriously clamped down on this kind of practice.
As an outsider, I really do think the authorities are trying to help the Russian woman because they outnumbered men by like 70% and women in general will do whatever takes to get married and start a family.
Here in England I would not take the chance of having a wallet being burnt and kicked out like Topcat.
Who told you women outnumber men by 70%?? They are lying to you . But in all societies, there ARE 70% women who are 85years old than men 85 years old. But in every society there are more males born than females but boys are more likely to have dangerous jobs or activities so by age 35, the number of males and females are about the same in every society in the prime marriage ages. Naturally about 5% more boys are born than females (not counting the insanity that is crippling western societies that think there are 67 genders and it is choice instead of biology.)
I can change a light bulb 💡! I'll be right over! ❤
Hahaha 🤣
I'm not saying British girls are ugly but a tv programme like Snog Marry Avoid? could probably only be made in Britain 🤣It is tragic to see what pretty girls do to themselves in the UK
I just searched for that show!!! It’s crazy!
for those guys of whom you speak their are reasonably priced pocket portable machines that translate speech back and forth these days and though I haven't used google translate I'm guessing it's available in russia on the average cell phone or a like version of it is there not?
Way too hard for them. The girl can do it all for them.
I’ve been learning Russian for 5 years. On my own. I already speak English and Spanish and now some Russian. )
Yeah, it's terrible that when one posts soul music we like to our Russian friend who had her own confectionery business and her reply "Are you sad? Do you want some money?" and then also when mentioning a nice little dacha as seen in A Different Russia channel and their reply "We have a house and land in . You can have that if you like as we don't use it!" then it's really hard. Her playing violin recitals, reciting poetry and playing the piano didn't help. :-D
Я вот нашел сходство. Некоторые знакомые приезжие из Средней Азии. , Живут в Москве , немного похоже. Многие умудряются по несколько лет обходиться без знакомых из местных жителей. Но как правило, у них жены ,из своих народов. Может дело в нас. В Русских. Наверное мы не улыбчивые. И кажется что мы держим "дистанцию". На самом деле мы не грустные. Мы просто задумчивые. Просто мы с виду такие.
Now i know why you did'nt bother talking to me, i think you thought i was like these other guys.. personally i did not come to Russia looking for a wife, i met my wife online randomelly and thrn came to meet her after. I have been married 7 years now and live here. you are correct sadly about people doing this but not all of us are like this or that silly. some storys are genuine. i can also say that i had no plans or need to move to Russia. Everything i did for a future with my wife, i also work my self and have my own friends
Hi mate! Which site did you use to connect with your wife? Did you need to pay a lot to communicate with her and how did you know you could trust that the site was genuine? Thanks, just researchingz
@@SamsRussianAdventures that's a long story but I'll try explain by text. I made a profile on an international site just to meet people and make friends and learn about other's. Of course I never expected anything from it, just beautiful models trying to scam, that's all it was at start so I ignored it. Fast forward a year as I was bored one day and I logged on just to see who wanted to scam me 😂. And yea lots of spam message and people that didn't even bother to read my profile as I listed I am not looking yo date etc and I had a message from a beautiful Russian so I thought here we go again... ( this is normal for date sites but I believe in trying to give everyone the benefit of doubt so I read each message) and I had a normal message from a normal person who I could see read my profile and just wanted the same, also she had a picture of her and a baby and that is a no no on fate sites but it showed she was not a model trying to pull, it was honest. So we messaged the next day and continued from there. Rest is a longer story. Naturally I was always concerned as I new little about Russians apart from the fact I don't trust them etc etc you know the feeling. As I said I get what you was saying and I even agree sadly but I 100% did not date her because I wanted to move to Russia. I'm from Devon so Russia was a big downgrade. When we realised we liked eachother after many talks on Skype etc we had to decide how can we be together, do I go and live there or she come to England ( normally what happens, Russians move) but in this case after studying Russian culture we decided if we had any sort of future we would need to meet and I would probably move there as I didn't have much keeping me in England. Rest is history, 2 years later and 4 trips total, we both finally gained are goal and that was to be together and have a future. This is both of are agenda, family and future in a house in the country and a confer table life. 8 years later that is exactly where we are, still happy, baby girl age of 2 now. All genuine, no tricks as it would of been a waste of both are time and money etc and I still could not be happier. Yes it came at a price I lost a lot leaving England but I gained what I could only dream of in English. Houses are way way more expensive so it was just a dream and finding a good woman 😆 but here I gained both. So after watching this video it made me realise why you think what you do ( as I said I understand and agree) but it also made me feel like I am one of these planks or I am using my wife or something when none of it is true.. I think you pre judged me before you even bothered to talk to me and it was a bit of a stereo type attitude even tho it is true for the most part. Many people Russians and my friends back in England all love my story as its prof that 2 people from different worlds can meat and have a future etc. Also I had no money so everything I did I did from being positive and trying to build a future instead of finding excuses why I can't etc. Date sites are a joke I'm afraid but they can work as I am here lol but it is not an easy path. I was simply very lucky and found right person at right time etc. That's all I can say by text 😂😂😂 but I felt pre judged and annoyed
Regardless its going to take a number of years to grapple with the language. That's a long difficult transition..
I'm married to a Russian girl (For the last 20 years). However she came to live in the UK. I wouldn't dream of moving to Russia.
Oh! That’s really cool, thanks for sharing. How did you meet? Have you not visited Russia at all?
People do the same thing here in the United States. That's why we have Las Vegas. 24 hour marriage.
Haha yes!
i want that easy life, thanks for info. I'ma visit some russian city in anapa or sochi and getting my wife in 2 wks. IF i hear her say hello, that's it, im marrying her!
Hello is the magic word
@@SamsRussianAdventures which cities in russia has the biggest demographic of single women? do you know? if you can read russian stats in russia, if there is a censor poll.
@@kaleeysmith8801everywhere is the same, every city is full of single girls who would marry you (just probably avoid Moscow and St petersburg)
@@louiserocks1 im buying 30sq.m condo in Georgia ski resort, and then i'm gonna camper down in Anapa beach town near sochi, and look for a good girl, cause i want both golden sand beach, and skiing as retirement life, in 20yrs, buying things right now. I look like 35yrs - 40yrs old, i hope i can find 21yrs - 27yrs university, or career girl to have a family. I'm praying age gap is not a big deal, cause i want a family. I refuse to have a family in canada/usa, cause don't want to lose 50% of my life's work to a bunch of 'entitled' Karens and be a broke lame duck later.
@@louiserocks1i just wanted to know the cities with MOST amount of single girls, to give myself Good odds stacked in my favor. I don't want to date 200 girls just to find a good girl. I might use marriage agency with a bio i can read off of, an agency that has vetted the girl, her family, her friends. By time i date 100s of girls, i might be 90yrs old or something before i meet a good girl with decent personality. I read russians have high divorce rate, it kinda scares me off. It be like dating in america again, and or divorce.
To be fair, with the level of beauty in russia, i dont blame him 😂
The mailman is delivering my Russian bride today hope she stayed warm in the crate .
You did not hear the door bell so she is being returned to sender.
She was probably stolen from the front porch