When I was in the 6th and 7th grade, my teacher assistant would throw out my lunch, and would regularly deny me lunch if I "didn't eat correctly". I am special needs, and that was unacceptable. My mom asked me why I would scarf down my dinner, and I told her why. Teacher was fired the next day.
+Wendy Domino Nah that teacher isn't mean.. That kid is in 5th grade and it is his own decision to not get lunch if all he has to do is do his work. People pay tax money for kids to go to school and learn so they can get an education and keep society moving forward, not to sit around most likely playing in class and then cry when they don't get food. I'd rather my kid learn his lesson from not doing his work by not eating 1 meal out of his day than to get held back and go through that year again. You guys act like that 1 meal is going to kill him....
Layla LaDouceur No, I don't. The kid was told if he did the work he could eat. At that point, it is his decision on whether or not he eats. He can do the work and eat, or not do it and not eat. At that point, it is the kid that is holding himself back, not the teacher. If the kid did the work and the teacher didn't let him eat, then it is the teachers fault.
To the female teacher in this video: Even if students are missing an assignment, you should NEVER deny them the necessary nutrition they need in order to function throughout the day. What you did was wrong and illegal.
Also to the teacher: your a lowlife, your deplorable, and your so disgusting in your attitude. Imagine how you would feel if that you as a child. I'd suggest you think of your own child, but something tells me your too self centered to think of anyone else but yourself.
This is a perfect example of a teacher who has the education but not the common sense or heart to teach children. A hungry child cannot concentrate and learn. Denying him food was inappropriate and humiliating for the child.
@@Lae-zel_enthusiast Ironic how you are calling me a "dumb ass" He doesn't turn his assignments in, so if he turned in 5/9 assignments and this 6th assignment is unfinished. He would fail as you did. 6/10 is a D. 5/10 is an F.
There have been times in my preschool where a child's parents would accidentally forget to pack them lunch. I have seen our staff go out to buy food for them. How dare somebody deny a child food. If a child is hungry, even though we don't usually provide breakfast or dinner, we will do whatever it takes to get them fed.
Accidentally? Did yall ever talk to the parents about remembering to do it? Seems like ones of this things that they "forgot" because they know yall are kind hearted to make up for them
@@hidan407 You...suggesting that this family was scamming the system. WTH is wrong with you? Are you scamming the system? Because that would be the very first thought of someone who is a scammer themselves.
@@danni1993 or someone who seen stuff like that all the time growing up( In the hood) and know that whenever there is kindhearted people ( the lunch ladies), there will always be people that tries to exploit it. No im not scamming any system even though I dont have kids, I have integrity even when people say Im stupid for being too honest all the time.
that's sad. what about if his parents didn't have enough money to buy food that day or something. there are kids out there that the only food they get it's from school. smh on this teacher
moonrice555 Some people have kids and then bad things like losing a job or house happens. They don't plan for it to happen it just does. If you never went through it you can't expect to understand it.
Judith Gray Again, I get that. But I work at schools where 90 percent of the kids are on free lunch. 90 PERCENT. Are you going to tell me that 90 percent of those parents just had some bad luck? Really??
Plus you did say "if things are bad at home..." That's what my comment was aimed at. Some people have kids and then life gets tough. Obviously this was aimed at the kids who have tough home lives and can't eat meals other than school lunches.
Tax money should be going for meals for free, students in high/middle/and elementary school. If they want extra food than the standard healthy free meal, than that would be a little extra. Rather have my tax money go for that than senseless pointless wars.
I 100% agree with this man. I guaruntee you, that teacher was "personally offended" by the boy being "overweight" and decided he could stand to miss a few meals. Maybe his blood sugar was spiking without breakfast, how does she know? I used to teach elementary school. I started seeing the schools hiring these new teachers with smug judgemental attitudes towards their students for things like being overweight, poorly dressed kids, and began taking authority over kids they deemed to be needing punishment by denial of food, recess, bathroom breaks. I had students who had to go to the bathroom often because of health issues, and/or prescriptions they were taking to treat health issues like diabetics, undiagnosed diabetics! But, this teacher denied that man's son food for breakfast - food that is there at school for the children to eat. It gets tossed out - if uneaten or unused. This teacher's attitude sucks. If I was that student's parent, I would sue the school district. That's what we the people need to do, sue these smug people with elitist attitudes, like our out of control federal government spending trillions without the permission of we the tax payers, giving billions away to other countries!! Any company that mistreats or singles-out certain individuals to punish or to treat worse than others, should be sued.
As an army brat I used to get transferred to several elementary schools. Most teachers were really good about making sure we ate. The last elementary school I went to, I had one really mean teacher who absolutely hated students from poor families or military families. Missing my lunch was the least of my punishments for any slight or difficulty in doing homework. Every base school is different and no two teachers are the same.
@@miko8832 my kids get fed every morning, get a home made lunch, a dinner, and an evening tea meal if they want too themselves My kids never go hungry because we put them first, my kids are not fat lazy fucks like alot of people let their kids become
Miko Denying a child food is neglect & abuse if someone would to report a person for doing that to their child would be taken from them Call me annoying because you’re damn right I don’t have kids I’m 19 but if you think that’s OK but then again you said ignoring instead of annoying so you must just be a stupid kid
you can't deny a child a meal especially if the family is possibly poor or something...we don't know the circumstances but food leads to brain development and nutrition. maybe that's why he couldn't finish his homework
Marie Lotus I thought it was "Second Chance" breakfast....as in giving people a second chance...but then again I was sleepy (past midnight) when I wrote that... so if I misread oh well.
Muser4Life it's a second chance meal but it's not mandated meaning the teachers aren't required to give them that meal THEREFORE the law wasn't broken. Perhaps the father should be a better parent and feed the kid before school.
Clinton K I'm not talking about breaking the law., I was more focussed on morality which isn't always the same as legal perspective. Legally, maybe she can do that but morally, you can't deny someone a meal. Like, maybe they are super poor. Biologically speaking, some of the high in fat conent foods are cheap and expensive foods are typically the healthier food options. So maybe the dad is a big guy because he always buys unhealthy as a result of finances. I was speaking from a place of - don't eff up a child's development perspective as opposed to a legal one.
I remember back in the day when I was in elementary if you owed money they’d hunt you down over $2.50 and say you owed money and brought money for lunch that that day, they’d take your money and let you starve Bottom line is, it’s wrong and it’s not the kids fault they deserve to eat!
Once I left my Lunch at my house and my parents could not afford school lunch. I so she pulled me outside during class after lunch and told me to meet her after school so I did and she bought me subway she is always buying students lunch even if they have lunch. I miss school sooooo much😥
@cgaskill13 I had a teacher that would do that to the poor kids in my class. So then I started giving part of my lunch to buddies that didn't have food some days as well.
@ғuňţċѧsє ţuċҡғѧяԀ First things you learn as a teacher is that a child should never be denied the ability to go to the toilet, get water or eat food. That's a human requirement.
When I was 9 years old, We were all going to lunch and this lady I've never seen before pulled me aside and told me not to get food until she came back. I never knew if she was a teacher, counselor, etc. but for almost the entire lunch break I obeyed and I sat watching all my friends eating while my stomach was starving. Around the last 10 minutes they all convinced me to get something to eat so I went with about 6 minutes left on the clock to eat. The lady appeared at that time and yelled at me in front of everybody. Obviously as a nine year old who never got in trouble before, I was scared and cried of humiliation/embarrassment for being yelled in front of the entire cafeteria. I never saw that lady again, I never knew who she was or why she told me to do that. The school denied it ever happened. Then again, this was years ago.
Imagine feeling in ANY WAY justified at keeping FOOD from a young child! As a teacher I can't imagine! There are mistakes, but then there's just being mean!
I can understand being like "You can't have this candy until you do xyz" but denying a child a meal they actually need is completely unjustifiable. I don't see why you would ever take away something a child needs as a punishment. If a parent did that, the school would probably be like "oh that's abuse". Teachers are not parents to these kids, but that doesn't mean they can get away with doing things a parent cannot.
@@theredscum4202 why didn’t the fucking school feed him if they have SECOND BREAKFASTS for a REASON? it’s for kids who missed breakfast if for whatever reason they’re late. not only that, it’s not a matter of “why didn’t the parents give him food?” it’s the fact that they EXPECTED him to go to school and to get breakfast there. but no, he was denied a meal because of the fact he missed an assignment. NO CHILD should go hungry as a punishment. it’s just unnecessary and doesn’t teach them ANYTHING.
@@theredscum4202 they offer breakfast like that for kids who's parents don't have time in the morning to feed them. Which is the situation for a shit ton of parents. I know your comment is 5 months old but damn, you are straight up dumb.
At my middle school we had a physical Ed teacher, who would buy all sorts of snacks and make sure we had them in case we didn’t have a big enough lunch. She said that it was a good idea for us to have a snack especially if we were running around doing physical activities.
When I was in 4th grade I had a classmate who’s lunch box was just a bunch of snacks. No sandwich, no container with food, just snacks. My teacher didn’t like that and made her get a real nutritious meal. Meanwhile this teacher doesn’t even want her student to eat!
Maybe I've forgotten, but I don't remember any of my teachers ever knowing whether or. not I had eaten. I sure would not have told them.That was my business.
@Ten Pounds Using your very same logic, if a teacher saves a kid from a school fire then they should be fired for saving a kid from a school fire instead of teaching. I wont even bother arguing with you. Try getting some braincells first then come back when you’re either smarter older. Clearly you are not mature enough to have an argument in the first place. And by the way children needs food. Without it they wont focus in class. In fact it would be irresponsible for schools not to provide food to children who didn’t bring lunch from home. And besides school lunch isn’t free. Your high level of stupidity honestly amuses and entertains me 😂 And its called a “Cafeteria” not a “restaurant”. There is a new vocabulary word for you
I’m 16 now, but I remember in elementary i didn’t have money for lunch 3 times, and for those 3 time’s my teacher bought my lunch for me until I could money because I’m being honest I just forgot to ask my parents for lunch money. Still she was a nice teacher, god bless her.
@@youtubestudiosucks978 No, I never really thought of it, and besides I looked through my old schools website and she isn’t there, so my assumption is she either left a long time ago or retired. If I could, I would considering the type of person she helped me be.
@@YoungFollower678 it's fine, you're grateful and that's what counts, you can always pay it forward with other people! So don't feel bad you weren't able to pay her back! I'm sure her heart is happy she was able to help you!
But jeez... as a mom of young kids... I don't think it was your responsibility to remember to ask your parents for lunch money. I think it was your parents responsibility to make sure you had lunch money or lunch every day for school. Elementary is young. :/ sorry I don't want to offend. It's just my thought when I read your comment.
I am a parent and yes I would be upset if a teacher did this to my child. However, I think there's more to this story. The father said this is the 2nd time you've done this. My question is... does the child have a history of being late that he has to eat at 2nd chance breakfast? Is this a late issue?
It's called second chance cause breakfast is served twice, before school starts and after 1st period. I always ate the second chance breakfast cause I wasn't hungry before that.
IF SHE DOES THIS TO THIS KID AS A PUNISHMENT, IMAGINE HOW SHE CORRECTS HER CHILDREN IF THEY DON'T DO GOOD IN SCHOOL..SOMETHING IS REALLY WRONG WITH HER.
Correct food is not a form of punishment. But to an extent. Let me explain. The teachers don't have authority. But in my household my mom I refuse to eat the food and she says well don't eat anything go hungry the food will be there when you get there you're not getting anything you want. The point is they are not supposed to be disciplinarians as what we have our parents and the teacher was wrong
@@quabledistocficklepo3597 No she just had extra food for the students. She had permission from the parents and all the children’s allergies. Most parents brought food but sometimes they would forget. We never really had child abuse cases in the school.
@@Leanne-jm5gc My aunt taught school for over 30 years. She NEVER let her kids go hungry either. She was a Community Outreach Specialist through her Sorority and she always had connections to get school supplies, toiletries, snacks, etc. She also had a Parent/Teacher Co-Op where people would donate items and they were distributed throughout the cluster of schools in the area. You have no idea how many kids were helped and Auntie Pam never made mention of it. She truly believed in It Takes A Village to raise a Child. She's dearly missed. We had SO many if her former students at her funeral, my cousins were overwhelmed by the outpouring of support and live they all shared for the same sweetheart of a lady. Miss you, Auntie Pam😪🙏🏾🙏🏾
i remember my 2nd grade teacher giving me quarters out of her purse when i didn’t have enough money for lunch or ice cream. ice cream obviously wasn’t a necessity which is why i wasn’t given money for it since we were tight on cash, and sometimes didn’t have money for lunch. she noticed when everyone would go down without me, and would sneak over to give me some change. i didn’t realize how sweet that was until years later when i understood.
I remember when I was in 4th grade there was a some lunch thing going on where if you didn’t pay for your lunch you didn’t get the food and in front of all the kids you would get your tray taken away for just a sandwich.. and I seen my best friend go through it every day and he got so tired of it he was always hungry he got sick.. so I hate when anyone gets denied food I think it’s cruel and children should be able to have the time to eat and not suffer till they get off school.. that’s y kids get sick too you know.
I know she's in the wrong but it's still her right not to be filmed. He could voice record her or something else. But it's still her right not to be filmed. And yes I know she violated the child's right but we don't go by an eye for an eye.
Darth, you wouldn't actually deny him food if you were his teacher and he was in front of you. You're most probably a nice person IRL, who just comes here to fume and be against the general opinion.
Darth Skater But what does that have to do with being "liberal"? Parents pull that kind of shit everywhere from all walks of life. Actually, there have been many 'conservative' parents who wanted teachers fired for discussing evolution in class. People always assume that the 'old day' were better, but we're actually becoming much better in terms of BS and actual harm.
My mother was a teacher for years and I helped her in her classroom. We always had extra snacks for kids just in case, snacks SHE bought. Now the government is helping by having free lunch and breakfast. The sheer ignorance of this woman is staggering. Never EVER did we not give a snack to a child during meal time, regardless of financial status, homework, behavior, etc. YOU are the teacher, YOU are supposed to be CARING for the students. How is not letting him eat as punishment CARING for a child?? Can you imagine punishing your own child at home by saying "Sorry lil Jimmy you didn't make your bed so you don't get any breakfast today" ???
@@javiermiranda1751 The sad thing is that she shouldn't be called a hero at all, she shouldn't HAVE to make sure kids aren't going hungry in America, the ass backwards country that loves hyping up how great it is. And no teacher should think it's normal to punish kids by having them not eat. The teacher in this video has zero compassion or empathy.
In Swedish schools students can have as much food as they want. When one of my favorites was on the menu I had seconds. I was so full that I had trouble walking. I miss the school food. It was good.
in 2nd grade my teacher used to have snack time and i always appreciated it. they were very simple snacks but it was my favorite time of day. it was such a bonding experience. food is more than nourishment , its bonding
Teacher had the nerve to say "I wish you'd ask permission before recording me." I'm sure the dad would've appreciated her asking him before starving his son.
"I didn't know I broke the law" If you're caught speeding and say I didn't know speeding was against the law you're not just gonna get a free pass dude
Omg, he wants her career ruined over this. So many people feel entitled to ruin someone's life over a bad decision. But I'm sure this father is perfect and has never made a bad decision in his life, if he ever does I hope someone demands his life be ruined too. Smh!
As a person who deals with low blood sugar. This is a nightmare to me. This woman is lucky this kid did not have this problem or she would have had something real bad on her hands. Also thank goodness this kid was ok. Hope he got to have some food that day.
Well if your child has low blood sugar im sure you would let the teachers and school nurse know. If there’s a health reason she would have let him go to second breakfast. I think the father should have fed his child or dropped him early for first breakfast. Or explained to the school that it’s crucial his son eats while at school. Because he may not afford food. Communication with adults is important because children do lie to get out of things. And many kids throw the food away because they weren’t really hungry
@@CG-pj4dh finally a comment thats not soley blaming it all on the school and pointing out logical things. Kids do lie just to get out of things and count on people feeling sorry for them to get away with it. I remember when I was a kid, people lied about not eating just be get out of class or just being a fatass to look cool.
I had a friend in middle school who was diabetic and the school took away the entire lunch she brought from home. All because there was a candy bar, in case her blood sugar dropped. The school didn't even allow her to have her insulin on school grounds, not even in the nurses office. They considered anything, other than Tylenol, a illegal substance or an healthy lunch. (Despite only selling fried, greasy foods and ice cream) We had a class together after lunch, so I snuck my fun-size candy in my pocket. When she asked to go to the nurse, I was asked to follow so "she doesn't leave the school". She collapsed and I just barely caught her. I snuck the candy in her mouth, whispered, "eat this and hold on" and booked it as fast as one piggybacking a fellow teen could. An ambulance was called and her blood sugar was so low, she could've died. I was told that bit of sugar I gave her was the only thing that kept her. The school demanded she tell them who gave her the "drugs" and she refused. Their excuse to them nearly killing her was, "she got her fix somehow". Many lawsuits came on them for other reasons, but she didn't even tell her parents until we graduated that I was the one who gave her the candy. They thanked me for saving her and all I said was, "it was just a feeling I had that she'd need it." I didn't understand diabetes and still kinda don't. All I knew was her blood sugar was going to be low and I knew that I would be called to "walk" her to the nurse. If she didn't eat something, something bad would happen. I didn't think she could die, but that was a very sobering experience, knowing you may have saved someone by doing something as tiny as giving them some candy.
When I was in tk my teacher got me in trouble from saying stupid because some girl thought I said it and it wasn't even me who said it it was some other kid so I missed reces and I was 6
Also that same year I had a mickey mouse toy and it made one noise and she took it away and never gave it back till the week was over and it was my favorite toy and it was on Monday
I remember in 4th grade, my teacher had gotten sick of kids constantly asking to go to the bathroom, when they were just doing it to get out of class, and she made mandated bathroom breaks and if we didn’t use the bathroom at those breaks, and had to go at another time, we weren’t allowed to go. I can remember going into the lunch room after being denied a bathroom break and I sat at lunch unable to eat and I cried and sobbed because my stomach and bladder hurt so badly from not being allowed to use the bathroom. My teacher finally saw that and realized that I really did have to use the restroom, and she finally let me go. That day I just happened to need to use the bathroom at a different time then the “designated breaks”, it was horrible. Teachers should not restrict bathroom breaks and food. I know from experience that some kids abuse those privileges, but then those rules and punishments, punish those kids who aren’t doing any wrong.
The teachers face told me all I needed to know about the situation. I went to school when you could get paddled with a wooden board but even when my worthless mother failed to do the application so I could get free lunch someone at the school still made sure I was taken care of. In 9th grade I had an english teacher give me a roll of lunch tickets so i would never have to miss a meal.
@@grettapaisley2422 My mother let live in boyfriends abuse me and my half brother. She lost custody of him but since I didnt even know who my father was I was left to suffer abuse until I turned 18 and joined the army. SHAME ON YOU ... You dont know me or what I have endured. My half brother by the way turned out to be a drug addict a felon and an alcoholic. My worthless mother married a total of 6 times. She is a vile, despicable, evil and manipulative person. She took money from high school boys and let them molest her very young sister. My aunt is still a very broken person... Got any more smart comments genius?
@@grettapaisley2422 Sorry Greta, but many mothers are absolutely Worthless. Giving birth to someone doesn't make you worthy of respect, there are many "parents" who damage their children beyond comprehension and make life much more difficult for their kids rather than help them in life. You might have identified with the label mentioned, hence you feel insulted. Not all "mothers" are equal, some are worthy of respect, many are criminals who should be in jail for the type of negligence and abuse that they do to their kids.
@@mrs.chandler9384 wth, so what? that's for his parents to deal with, if he's overweight or not. and you literally can't even see him in the video. and still, that doesn't make what she did not wrong.
It’s actually healthier for one whom has more fat on their bodies to fast because that means that their body will start consuming the fat and that will in turn lessen the weight of the child and lower and risks of diseases or sicknesses related to obesity. Also I highly doubt that kid even knows what being hungry feels like.
moonrice555 I don't need to work at a school to have A "important" opinion, what that teacher did was wrong & I stand by that also I'm not old enough to work at a school yet just going to one tells me what teachers go through & it's still simply wrong to refuse to give someone food
TGC Productions.Orbit Plus, getting to school on time had nothing to do with it. She denied him the meal because of the assignment, not because of the time he got there.
This is like cutting off your nose to spite your face. The whole reason this meal is provided is because a child's ability to learn and perform in school is significantly worse when they're hungry and have missed a meal.
We use to have a paragraph in defense Bills that said we wouldn't give weapons to the Azov battalion. Now that paragraph is gone and we supporting neo nazi's in Ukraine. That seems worse right ? Or the child not having a meal lol
I feel like even denying a small kid to use the bathroom is a form of abuse. I remember when I was in kindergarten and I really had to go to the bathroom after lunch, I asked the teacher if I could go and she told me to wait. I waited for about 30 minutes and then was finally tired of waiting because I couldn’t even hold it in any longer, so I went to the bathroom without asking again. As soon as I came out I got written up for “not listening” and yelled at. Like what would she want me to do pee myself or on the floor? 😂
A lot of people are arguing the fact that his dad should have provided him with breakfast, but we don't have the facts why that didn't happen. It's Called, "Second Chance Breakfast" for a reason, and that's where the argument sits.
msotrfan1 You don't know that child's home life. Even if he's fine, what if this happened to a kid who qualified for free breakfasts and lunches? Those could be the only meals a child gets.
chiillmo Reread my original comment above. You reiterated what I originally said. "Second Chance Breakfast." Yes, I agree. It should always be given if provided. This teacher needs to be informed what ramifications will be brought up on her if she does not comply with state standards.
My kids prefer to eat breakfast at school, plus I know many parents who drop their kids off at latchkey services because they work before class starts, so some kids are at the school as early as 6am. Then on the other hand, for some kids, school meals are it for them. I completely agree with you!
Why are they comparing it to recess? You stress that breakfast is the most important meal of the day but deny him a chance to eat it. I don't get it, I really don't. Like yeah he's missing one assignment but c'mon.
Joey Flores But did you listen to the description? Second Chance Breakfast for them is so kids who didn't get to eat breakfast at home or can't eat breakfast at home get something to eat.
Second Chance Breakfast means you missed two breakfast opportunities already: 1) The one that could have been eaten at home 2) The one that is offered before school begins.
one time in kindergarten we had cards with our lunch numbers on it AND WHEN I COULDN'T FIND MINE MY TEACHER LEFT ANYWAY AND DIDN'T LET ME GO TO LUNCH WITH THE CLASS LIKE ??
Jasmine Lynn one time when my sister's in 1st grade she always came home from school with her lunchbox untouched because she didn't know how to use spoon and forks yet.. idek how was she not passing out because she was doing it for weeks
Jasmine Lynn she had primary complex when she was 9 which means she's only going to eat whenever she takes her medicine which is almost every 5-6 hours which made her lose a lot of weight and now she's 17 and she's doing great and she's still underweight but she eats a lot, it's just hard for her to gain weigt
I am so glad I can afford to send my child to school with lunch. Science has proven time and time again that hungry children are cranky and distracted. Who is benefiting from these kids going hungry? I know food isn't free but if you mandate school for kids you damn well better feed them!
This would literally happen all the time at my school. Kind hearted classmates would often give me some of their food because I couldn't afford it. Yet we give robbers murdered and rapists free food in prison paid by taxpayers. As for this being a private matter, bullshit. The school district wont do crap, they all have eachothers back just like corrupt police departments or abusive bosses
mymak2015 ok I didn't say it was there fault but I found it hard to concentrate throughout the rest of the day I wasn't even hungry I just felt unwell after and had a headache. I dont understand what the point of your comment was. Waa you trying to say it wasnt really a big deal ? Because it wasn't
You can’t deny any child food. It won’t benefit them: 1. They will be starving and won’t focus on anything but their hunger 2. They probably will fall asleep because of lack of energy
@@EdmundiumHitting I actually have been able to fall asleep despite being hungry. It was because I was worried i was gaining too much weight. But then the moment i got up from my naps, i ate 🤣
Just like to point out,,,,,there have been some exceptionally great teachers that I have met while I was at school and also when my kids were at school. When my daughter was old enough to help out and be it the teacher's aide, the teacher started bringing breakfast for her and my daughter while she worked. She bonded with this teacher and after many years she still has contact with this teacher. Those are the teachers that should be recognized especially when the student in their adult life remember the teachers that made a difference. Those are the teachers that I deeply respect.
If you have intelligence, please dismiss all the comments below mentioning LUNCH. The topic is not LUNCH. Nor did the video mention at anytime. LUNCH. People missed the point by far. The parents missed breakfast. That’s on them failing their duty. 2nd chance breakfast, again, is not mandatory, nor did we have that in my school district. The fact the parents missed breakfast for their children, means, according to comments, that the teacher are “starving”, yes, starving their child. The teacher simply used a resource wrong for a disciplinary action. Which in return, the parent retaliated. Should she be fired from this? No. Should she and every other teacher get additional training? Yes. The parent could calm the fuck down and understand what it means to have “2nd chance breakfast” which, should actually be, in my humble opinion, removed or have it as a paid service for parents to their children for missing breakfast at home and breakfast before the start of school in the school.
@K Maxx Bruh have you ever heard of a lunch period? If they don’t get to eat their lunch, they’re gonna have a hard time concentrating on their work. Teacher, lunch lady, or not nobody has the right to deny a child’s meal.
Let me get this straight. Did the man not give his child breakfast at home? No? Why not? Also is the service of any meal contingent on finishing schoolwork? For everybody? Or just this child? This man will not be satisfied with no answers.
Schools have breakfast programs for kids who do not get breakfast to eat (some eat there because of family income and he doesnt need to disclose that). I don't think denying children access to food is acceptable punishment. Take away recess time or something, not food.
Some parents have to go to work early. Not having the time to feed their children breakfast. Because they have to leave home before they are able to do so. Be it both parents are a single parent. This very well could have easily been the case for this father. He may very well be a single parent , nothing was said about that. So we don't know the situation there. It's a fact of life now days of some parents having to leave for work before their able to feed their children breakfast. I know this takes place due to some class mates of my own daughters when she was in school this was taken place then. Nor were their parents poor. They just both had to be at work earlier which prevented them from doing so and wasn't able to do what most parents do , fix breakfast for their children. With some parents this is a fact both parents having to work and having to leave before they could feed their children breakfast. Some have no choice in the matter if they want to support their families. This is a fact of what's taking place and has been for awhile now. I know because my daughter is now 28 years old with children of her own . Were she was in grade school when this took place. I've seen it first hand. So please don't judge this father without having all the information into the situation. This breakfast isn't just for poor children either it's actually a program for all of kids . Due to some parents having to be at work early. It's part of a program put in place because kids were doing without breakfast not just the poor. Yes it was started saying it was for the poor. Because no one wanted it known that even parents who could afford food for their children their children was going to school without breakfast. So it was placed on the poor people to keep it from being know even parents better off , children was dealing with the same thing. If you don think so , will I've to spoken with parents first hand. Who were not poor dealing with this same thing. They were embarrassed about the matter. So once again things like this program was said to be designed for the poor .To protect the better off family's from such embarrassment as not having time to make this own children breakfast in the morning sending their children to school without breakfast due to their work hours. It's a government game that's being played. So again you don't know all the facts please don't judge this father. You don't know his situation.
P.S. My daughter also went to a private school. A private school cost money. Yet they had this same program there as well . Were these parents could afford breakfast for their children same as I could. So no this program isn't just for the poor it's for all the kids . For it was taken place also in private schools as well. .
My child was getting on a bus at 6 am to get to school by 8am. He's Special Needs so he didn't always immediately have an appetite. Stop trying to find fault with the parent. Those breakfasts are paid with TAXPAYER MONEY, and if Dad works, he's paid fir his kid to have breakfast at school if he chooses.
@@tboman4128 I wasn't rude to you. Get out of your mom's basement and make your own money. I have a hob and a family that I provide for. You have a bad day or what? Your the ass, an impulsive one at that.
@@jasonpiwarski5016 Just don't like people that think suing is the answer to everything. I'm a retired I.T. professional with over 38 years in. So no mom's basement. You're an ass for posting SUE. Maybe the dad should feed the kids in the morning. But to be fair, there was not enough information in the video to come to any conclusion with out assuming a lot. Get over it.
To this day, no matter how poor I have been, what would be more outrageous to me would be if I didn't provide all meals for my own kids (which I did). It's weird how much entitlement we are in now, people are outraged that someone else isn't poneying up the money to take care of their kids.
Teachers should not deprive meals for disciplinary reason. Wrong. But parents is ultimately responsible for feeding kid. Most parents can but don't because they're lazy & want entitlements.
@@valeriekehrt7566 I agree, it's not a matter of me "hoping kids are denied food" for sure. I would wish someone would step up and feed the kid. I have covered food for people in need MANY times, and I have donated to charity extensively in my life, feeling I owe it to society since I made my success within that society. But I just feel a parent who won't do what it takes to support their kid, is a pathetic thing (setting aside some live in places where it's nearly impossible, I will never judge people who live in amazingly hard places to live).
I can see your point but if you saw some of these parents it would really make you wonder what these kids have to go through in their lives. To punish a child because their parents are incapable of providing for their child is just cruel. Do you know how many druggies have kids? You can't learn if you are hungry.
@@tundrellaCat68 agree. The only thing that bothers me is that this kid did not look deprived in anyway. Neither at any one point, did the father address if his child did miss his homework or no? And was it something the child did all the time. And was the kid trying to skive off while the teacher asked about his homework?
When I was in the 6th and 7th grade, my teacher assistant would throw out my lunch, and would regularly deny me lunch if I "didn't eat correctly". I am special needs, and that was unacceptable. My mom asked me why I would scarf down my dinner, and I told her why. Teacher was fired the next day.
@Rama Nrusimhadevara Yep.
@@kitsunefaye1661 I would have threw hands if my teacher assistant did that
@@ShadowGladiatorX And I wound up doing so. Fucked her up real bad too. Pulled out chunks of hair.
Kitsune Faye good for u!! Omg prayers!
Well congrats, at least he or she isn’t there anymore
If the kid is hungry he won't be able to focus properly on schoolwork so there's no reason he shouldn't have been able to have it.
Yea that teacher is mean
+Wendy Domino Nah that teacher isn't mean.. That kid is in 5th grade and it is his own decision to not get lunch if all he has to do is do his work. People pay tax money for kids to go to school and learn so they can get an education and keep society moving forward, not to sit around most likely playing in class and then cry when they don't get food.
I'd rather my kid learn his lesson from not doing his work by not eating 1 meal out of his day than to get held back and go through that year again. You guys act like that 1 meal is going to kill him....
+Elite Winner you have a heart as cold as stone.
Layla LaDouceur No, I don't. The kid was told if he did the work he could eat. At that point, it is his decision on whether or not he eats. He can do the work and eat, or not do it and not eat.
At that point, it is the kid that is holding himself back, not the teacher. If the kid did the work and the teacher didn't let him eat, then it is the teachers fault.
+Elite Winner The teacher broke the law so Ya it does matter
To the female teacher in this video: Even if students are missing an assignment, you should NEVER deny them the necessary nutrition they need in order to function throughout the day. What you did was wrong and illegal.
Why are children getting breakfast at school. Parents do better
Also to the teacher: your a lowlife, your deplorable, and your so disgusting in your attitude. Imagine how you would feel if that you as a child. I'd suggest you think of your own child, but something tells me your too self centered to think of anyone else but yourself.
I was going to say borderline criminal, but I can't. It's just criminal.
This is a perfect example of a teacher who has the education but not the common sense or heart to teach children. A hungry child cannot concentrate and learn. Denying him food was inappropriate and humiliating for the child.
@@user-wq7hw2ow9l he doesn’t look hungry to me
When you discipline, you take away the child's "wants" like recess not their "needs" like bathroom breaks and food.
Well said
She’s has no authority to deny food to a child. Teacher or not.
@@MARKTH3COBRA whY
@@MARKTH3COBRA you know kids need breakfast because they're growing up , dont you ? the teacher is nobody to have the right to decide over that.
@@angel-nv7jk you clearly don't get the joke. He said that because American children are fat asf
Mark excuse me what does that supposed to mean
@@MARKTH3COBRA shut up karen
If he doesn't turn in his assignment then let him do it at recess time, You should let a child eat.
He won't do it just fail him
Joel Davis hes a kid, and one assignment doesn’t result in failure dumb ass
@@Lae-zel_enthusiast Ironic how you are calling me a "dumb ass" He doesn't turn his assignments in, so if he turned in 5/9 assignments and this 6th assignment is unfinished. He would fail as you did. 6/10 is a D. 5/10 is an F.
@@BuhBungus you mark it as a 0%
@@BuhBungus yea just feed then fail the kid
There have been times in my preschool where a child's parents would accidentally forget to pack them lunch. I have seen our staff go out to buy food for them. How dare somebody deny a child food. If a child is hungry, even though we don't usually provide breakfast or dinner, we will do whatever it takes to get them fed.
Accidentally? Did yall ever talk to the parents about remembering to do it? Seems like ones of this things that they "forgot" because they know yall are kind hearted to make up for them
@@hidan407
There's ALWAYS one of YOU...sad.
@@danni1993 whats wrong
@@hidan407
You...suggesting that this family was scamming the system. WTH is wrong with you?
Are you scamming the system? Because that would be the very first thought of someone who is a scammer themselves.
@@danni1993 or someone who seen stuff like that all the time growing up( In the hood) and know that whenever there is kindhearted people ( the lunch ladies), there will always be people that tries to exploit it.
No im not scamming any system even though I dont have kids, I have integrity even when people say Im stupid for being too honest all the time.
She could've just punish the child like cleaning the room and stuff. Denying a meal is inhumane. Imagine being in the class hungry
@SolomonV well you're right it's america
When he said "terminate her" I thought he said "terminator"
I heard the same thing lol😂😂
Yeah, I was like wait...what?
Me too
Thats what the captions said too! but i knew what he meant 😂😂😂😂
Thought he'd set the Terminator after her.
that's sad. what about if his parents didn't have enough money to buy food that day or something. there are kids out there that the only food they get it's from school. smh on this teacher
moonrice555 Some people have kids and then bad things like losing a job or house happens. They don't plan for it to happen it just does. If you never went through it you can't expect to understand it.
Judith Gray Again, I get that. But I work at schools where 90 percent of the kids are on free lunch. 90 PERCENT. Are you going to tell me that 90 percent of those parents just had some bad luck? Really??
moonrice555 Kids who get free lunch usually have to pay beforehand right? I don't know how that works, but I did say some not all.
Plus you did say "if things are bad at home..." That's what my comment was aimed at. Some people have kids and then life gets tough. Obviously this was aimed at the kids who have tough home lives and can't eat meals other than school lunches.
Tax money should be going for meals for free, students in high/middle/and elementary school.
If they want extra food than the standard healthy free meal, than that would be a little extra.
Rather have my tax money go for that than senseless pointless wars.
I 100% agree with this man. I guaruntee you, that teacher was "personally offended" by the boy being "overweight" and decided he could stand to miss a few meals. Maybe his blood sugar was spiking without breakfast, how does she know? I used to teach elementary school. I started seeing the schools hiring these new teachers with smug judgemental attitudes towards their students for things like being overweight, poorly dressed kids, and began taking authority over kids they deemed to be needing punishment by denial of food, recess, bathroom breaks.
I had students who had to go to the bathroom often because of health issues, and/or prescriptions they were taking to treat health issues like diabetics, undiagnosed diabetics! But, this teacher denied that man's son food for breakfast - food that is there at school for the children to eat. It gets tossed out - if uneaten or unused. This teacher's attitude sucks. If I was that student's parent, I would sue the school district. That's what we the people need to do, sue these smug people with elitist attitudes, like our out of control federal government spending trillions without the permission of we the tax payers, giving billions away to other countries!! Any company that mistreats or singles-out certain individuals to punish or to treat worse than others, should be sued.
Stop taking up for fat kids
As an army brat I used to get transferred to several elementary schools. Most teachers were really good about making sure we ate. The last elementary school I went to, I had one really mean teacher who absolutely hated students from poor families or military families. Missing my lunch was the least of my punishments for any slight or difficulty in doing homework. Every base school is different and no two teachers are the same.
How was denying them food discipline that’s just neglect
Their own parents not making sure they had breakfast is the real neglect
Jo Blount Um kids do choose to eat at school WHEN THEY WAKE UP CRACK OF DAWN AND HAVE TO BE AT A BUS STOP BY 7:05am 😑🙃🙄. Bozo
You sound really ignorant you must not have kids
@@miko8832 my kids get fed every morning, get a home made lunch, a dinner, and an evening tea meal if they want too themselves
My kids never go hungry because we put them first, my kids are not fat lazy fucks like alot of people let their kids become
Miko Denying a child food is neglect & abuse if someone would to report a person for doing that to their child would be taken from them
Call me annoying because you’re damn right I don’t have kids I’m 19 but if you think that’s OK but then again you said ignoring instead of annoying so you must just be a stupid kid
you can't deny a child a meal especially if the family is possibly poor or something...we don't know the circumstances but food leads to brain development and nutrition. maybe that's why he couldn't finish his homework
Muser4Life He said SECOND breakfast. Second. He already got his meal. Cmon now. Details. Details.
Marie Lotus I thought it was "Second Chance" breakfast....as in giving people a second chance...but then again I was sleepy (past midnight) when I wrote that... so if I misread oh well.
It did say Second Chance
Muser4Life it's a second chance meal but it's not mandated meaning the teachers aren't required to give them that meal THEREFORE the law wasn't broken. Perhaps the father should be a better parent and feed the kid before school.
Clinton K I'm not talking about breaking the law., I was more focussed on morality which isn't always the same as legal perspective. Legally, maybe she can do that but morally, you can't deny someone a meal. Like, maybe they are super poor. Biologically speaking, some of the high in fat conent foods are cheap and expensive foods are typically the healthier food options. So maybe the dad is a big guy because he always buys unhealthy as a result of finances. I was speaking from a place of - don't eff up a child's development perspective as opposed to a legal one.
I see so many reasons and excuses here, when really there are none. To deny a child food for any reason or circumstance is cruel.
I remember back in the day when I was in elementary if you owed money they’d hunt you down over $2.50 and say you owed money and brought money for lunch that that day, they’d take your money and let you starve
Bottom line is, it’s wrong and it’s not the kids fault they deserve to eat!
When I was a teacher, I often gave away parts of my lunch to students who didn't have food. I can't imagine denying a child food.
Once I left my Lunch at my house and my parents could not afford school lunch. I so she pulled me outside during class after lunch and told me to meet her after school so I did and she bought me subway she is always buying students lunch even if they have lunch. I miss school sooooo much😥
@cgaskill13 I had a teacher that would do that to the poor kids in my class. So then I started giving part of my lunch to buddies that didn't have food some days as well.
Now that's communism
Soulplexis it’s kindness
That's because you're a descent human being and not a sack of crap.
I don't think she likes his son.
No shit sherlock.
Artie Knight YT r/whoosh.
Tough love
She loves his son or else she should've let him fail.
His son must be a brat.
I don’t think schools should feed students. Back to lunch boxes like the olden days.
I was denied recess once when I was in 1st grade because I had not finished an assignment. What a bummer.
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"I didn't know I broke the law" is not a valid defense. That is what we call neglect. You are required to know the law.
Considering it was her second time, she couldn't even try and use that as a defense, not that it is one anyway, just so infuriating what she did.
It isn't part of the law.
@ғuňţċѧsє ţuċҡғѧяԀ First things you learn as a teacher is that a child should never be denied the ability to go to the toilet, get water or eat food. That's a human requirement.
ғuňţċѧsє ţuċҡғѧяԀ So by your logic if I tell the judge I didn’t know speeding was illegal then I won’t be convicted?
Not knowing is not an excuse.
Joel Davis it is in California
Luckily in my channel I show kids how to sneak food into class so stuff like this never happens.
Did you do that when you were young? 😂😂😂 good deal👍
No one should ever be denied food
When I was 9 years old, We were all going to lunch and this lady I've never seen before pulled me aside and told me not to get food until she came back. I never knew if she was a teacher, counselor, etc. but for almost the entire lunch break I obeyed and I sat watching all my friends eating while my stomach was starving. Around the last 10 minutes they all convinced me to get something to eat so I went with about 6 minutes left on the clock to eat. The lady appeared at that time and yelled at me in front of everybody. Obviously as a nine year old who never got in trouble before, I was scared and cried of humiliation/embarrassment for being yelled in front of the entire cafeteria. I never saw that lady again, I never knew who she was or why she told me to do that. The school denied it ever happened. Then again, this was years ago.
She probably was watching you from a distance that's why she came back when you starting eating. Just a weird creepy woman.
Adults are crazy. Just because they are older, doesn't mean they are right. I can't wait to get out of grade school and go to college.
Bro you tripping lmao
Was she a ghost?
Lmao! 😂
Imagine feeling in ANY WAY justified at keeping FOOD from a young child! As a teacher I can't imagine! There are mistakes, but then there's just being mean!
ive had teachers do that to me and my whole class
I can understand being like "You can't have this candy until you do xyz" but denying a child a meal they actually need is completely unjustifiable. I don't see why you would ever take away something a child needs as a punishment. If a parent did that, the school would probably be like "oh that's abuse". Teachers are not parents to these kids, but that doesn't mean they can get away with doing things a parent cannot.
You realize it's not a mandatory thing and school starts at 9 am so why didn't HIS PARENTS feed him? His dad don't look like he's struggling to eat
@@theredscum4202 why didn’t the fucking school feed him if they have SECOND BREAKFASTS for a REASON? it’s for kids who missed breakfast if for whatever reason they’re late. not only that, it’s not a matter of “why didn’t the parents give him food?” it’s the fact that they EXPECTED him to go to school and to get breakfast there. but no, he was denied a meal because of the fact he missed an assignment.
NO CHILD should go hungry as a punishment. it’s just unnecessary and doesn’t teach them ANYTHING.
@@theredscum4202 they offer breakfast like that for kids who's parents don't have time in the morning to feed them. Which is the situation for a shit ton of parents. I know your comment is 5 months old but damn, you are straight up dumb.
At my middle school we had a physical Ed teacher, who would buy all sorts of snacks and make sure we had them in case we didn’t have a big enough lunch. She said that it was a good idea for us to have a snack especially if we were running around doing physical activities.
When I was in 4th grade I had a classmate who’s lunch box was just a bunch of snacks. No sandwich, no container with food, just snacks. My teacher didn’t like that and made her get a real nutritious meal. Meanwhile this teacher doesn’t even want her student to eat!
Maybe I've forgotten, but I don't remember any of my teachers ever knowing whether or. not I had eaten. I sure would not have told them.That was my business.
@@quabledistocficklepo3597 Im pretty sure you are not the person I was talking about.
@Ten Pounds She was ensuring the child was getting a nutritious lunch so no she should most certainly not be fired for that
@Ten Pounds Using your very same logic, if a teacher saves a kid from a school fire then they should be fired for saving a kid from a school fire instead of teaching. I wont even bother arguing with you. Try getting some braincells first then come back when you’re either smarter older. Clearly you are not mature enough to have an argument in the first place. And by the way children needs food. Without it they wont focus in class. In fact it would be irresponsible for schools not to provide food to children who didn’t bring lunch from home. And besides school lunch isn’t free. Your high level of stupidity honestly amuses and entertains me 😂
And its called a “Cafeteria” not a “restaurant”. There is a new vocabulary word for you
@Ten Pounds And by the way my school had a one hour lunch break. Teachers also have lunch during that time. “WhEn dO tHeY lEaRn aNyThInG?”
I’m 16 now, but I remember in elementary i didn’t have money for lunch 3 times, and for those 3 time’s my teacher bought my lunch for me until I could money because I’m being honest I just forgot to ask my parents for lunch money. Still she was a nice teacher, god bless her.
Have you payed her back now that you're older?
@@youtubestudiosucks978 No, I never really thought of it, and besides I looked through my old schools website and she isn’t there, so my assumption is she either left a long time ago or retired. If I could, I would considering the type of person she helped me be.
@@YoungFollower678 it's fine, you're grateful and that's what counts, you can always pay it forward with other people! So don't feel bad you weren't able to pay her back! I'm sure her heart is happy she was able to help you!
But jeez... as a mom of young kids... I don't think it was your responsibility to remember to ask your parents for lunch money. I think it was your parents responsibility to make sure you had lunch money or lunch every day for school. Elementary is young. :/ sorry I don't want to offend. It's just my thought when I read your comment.
"I'd appreciate if you'd ask my permission before videoing me."
I'd appreciate if you'd not starve the dang kids.
@@CryptoScammers.DoNotSendMoney ?
Kneeling Fish the little shit has started multiple arguments in the comments, good on you for not starting another one
@@favvio-6163 You're welcome, I try not to start arguments if I can help it. In fact my friends refer to me as "Peacekeeper"
Let's not reply to the first replier of this comment to keep the comment safe
@@JETS5 ohh ok
I am a parent and yes I would be upset if a teacher did this to my child. However, I think there's more to this story. The father said this is the 2nd time you've done this. My question is... does the child have a history of being late that he has to eat at 2nd chance breakfast? Is this a late issue?
It's called second chance cause breakfast is served twice, before school starts and after 1st period. I always ate the second chance breakfast cause I wasn't hungry before that.
IF SHE DOES THIS TO THIS KID AS A PUNISHMENT, IMAGINE HOW SHE CORRECTS HER CHILDREN IF THEY DON'T DO GOOD IN SCHOOL..SOMETHING IS REALLY WRONG WITH HER.
I'm studying to be a teacher and in our management class the first thing we discussed is to NOT use food as a form of punishment.
Correct food is not a form of punishment. But to an extent. Let me explain. The teachers don't have authority. But in my household my mom I refuse to eat the food and she says well don't eat anything go hungry the food will be there when you get there you're not getting anything you want. The point is they are not supposed to be disciplinarians as what we have our parents and the teacher was wrong
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That's the complete opposite to how my kindergarten through 2nd grade teachers were taught
My mom is a retired teacher and when she was teaching, she always made sure every single one of her students were fed no matter what.
How did she do that? by reporting the parents to the authorities for child neglect? That's what she should have done.
@@quabledistocficklepo3597
No she just had extra food for the students. She had permission from the parents and all the children’s allergies. Most parents brought food but sometimes they would forget. We never really had child abuse cases in the school.
@@Leanne-jm5gc My aunt taught school for over 30 years. She NEVER let her kids go hungry either.
She was a Community Outreach Specialist through her Sorority and she always had connections to get school supplies, toiletries, snacks, etc.
She also had a Parent/Teacher Co-Op where people would donate items and they were distributed throughout the cluster of schools in the area.
You have no idea how many kids were helped and Auntie Pam never made mention of it.
She truly believed in It Takes A Village to raise a Child.
She's dearly missed. We had SO many if her former students at her funeral, my cousins were overwhelmed by the outpouring of support and live they all shared for the same sweetheart of a lady.
Miss you, Auntie Pam😪🙏🏾🙏🏾
i remember my 2nd grade teacher giving me quarters out of her purse when i didn’t have enough money for lunch or ice cream. ice cream obviously wasn’t a necessity which is why i wasn’t given money for it since we were tight on cash, and sometimes didn’t have money for lunch. she noticed when everyone would go down without me, and would sneak over to give me some change. i didn’t realize how sweet that was until years later when i understood.
basically, teachers were (are) either horrible or the ones who renewed hope for the kids who didn’t have it best. bless the good ones.
It was a second breakfast, not a lunch
If I'm correct, I believe that's a voluntary meal and lunch is the requirement.
I remember when I was in 4th grade there was a some lunch thing going on where if you didn’t pay for your lunch you didn’t get the food and in front of all the kids you would get your tray taken away for just a sandwich.. and I seen my best friend go through it every day and he got so tired of it he was always hungry he got sick.. so I hate when anyone gets denied food I think it’s cruel and children should be able to have the time to eat and not suffer till they get off school.. that’s y kids get sick too you know.
Her: "I'd appreciate it if you asked my permission before you filmed."
The dad: *but you wouldve said no*
Right💀
I know she's in the wrong but it's still her right not to be filmed. He could voice record her or something else. But it's still her right not to be filmed. And yes I know she violated the child's right but we don't go by an eye for an eye.
and she is in public millions of people see her everyday so filming really isnt that much different
@@rumanakhan8388 millions?
Public servant no expectations of privacy.
wtf i wouldnt deny food to a dog
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Darth, you wouldn't actually deny him food if you were his teacher and he was in front of you. You're most probably a nice person IRL, who just comes here to fume and be against the general opinion.
Darth Skater
But what does that have to do with being "liberal"? Parents pull that kind of shit everywhere from all walks of life. Actually, there have been many 'conservative' parents who wanted teachers fired for discussing evolution in class. People always assume that the 'old day' were better, but we're actually becoming much better in terms of BS and actual harm.
Then you're a bad dog owner.
@Darth Skater who is teacher to judge who gets to eat food or not parents fckin paying fees goddamit
I would never deny a child food. She needs to be fired. She is completely heartless. I am glad her face is on the internet now.
Something tells me this family takes food very seriously
I want her gone.
ThwartUser2014 i agree
@@WesternSouthDakotaRailfan2006 Then you're very stupid
Joey Perez seriously
Do you teach?
Joey Perez Do you think you’re smarter by saying that?? Why should she stay in the school when she pulled something like this?
My mother was a teacher for years and I helped her in her classroom. We always had extra snacks for kids just in case, snacks SHE bought. Now the government is helping by having free lunch and breakfast. The sheer ignorance of this woman is staggering. Never EVER did we not give a snack to a child during meal time, regardless of financial status, homework, behavior, etc. YOU are the teacher, YOU are supposed to be CARING for the students. How is not letting him eat as punishment CARING for a child?? Can you imagine punishing your own child at home by saying "Sorry lil Jimmy you didn't make your bed so you don't get any breakfast today" ???
Sounds like your mom is a hero 👍🏼
@@javiermiranda1751 The sad thing is that she shouldn't be called a hero at all, she shouldn't HAVE to make sure kids aren't going hungry in America, the ass backwards country that loves hyping up how great it is. And no teacher should think it's normal to punish kids by having them not eat. The teacher in this video has zero compassion or empathy.
America, is the land of the fee
In Swedish schools students can have as much food as they want. When one of my favorites was on the menu I had seconds. I was so full that I had trouble walking. I miss the school food. It was good.
in 2nd grade my teacher used to have snack time and i always appreciated it. they were very simple snacks but it was my favorite time of day. it was such a bonding experience. food is more than nourishment , its bonding
Good for the Father for Confronting this MONSTER..
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Disgusting! To deny food to a child is just disgusting.
Teacher had the nerve to say "I wish you'd ask permission before recording me." I'm sure the dad would've appreciated her asking him before starving his son.
Starving? LMFAO. Missing one meal is Not starving, snow flake.
@@tboman4128 You say that but you’d hate it if someone denied your child food 🤡
@@everything4506 Maybe his parents should feed him.
@@tboman4128 Denying kid food shouldn't be a punishment for missing an assignment..
@@michelledawn7446 The teacher was within school policy. Don't like it, get the policy changed.
"I didn't know I broke the law"
If you're caught speeding and say I didn't know speeding was against the law you're not just gonna get a free pass dude
It's like saying I didn't know it was bad to kill people
@@tomurashigaraki9903 true
Only in America.
Well, maybe she might get away with it. If she, Ye know...
okay but she literally didn’t break the law 💀
Why isn’t this father feeding his kid at home?
Omg, he wants her career ruined over this. So many people feel entitled to ruin someone's life over a bad decision. But I'm sure this father is perfect and has never made a bad decision in his life, if he ever does I hope someone demands his life be ruined too. Smh!
As a person who deals with low blood sugar. This is a nightmare to me. This woman is lucky this kid did not have this problem or she would have had something real bad on her hands. Also thank goodness this kid was ok. Hope he got to have some food that day.
Well if your child has low blood sugar im sure you would let the teachers and school nurse know. If there’s a health reason she would have let him go to second breakfast. I think the father should have fed his child or dropped him early for first breakfast. Or explained to the school that it’s crucial his son eats while at school. Because he may not afford food. Communication with adults is important because children do lie to get out of things. And many kids throw the food away because they weren’t really hungry
@@CG-pj4dh finally a comment thats not soley blaming it all on the school and pointing out logical things.
Kids do lie just to get out of things and count on people feeling sorry for them to get away with it.
I remember when I was a kid, people lied about not eating just be get out of class or just being a fatass to look cool.
I had a friend in middle school who was diabetic and the school took away the entire lunch she brought from home. All because there was a candy bar, in case her blood sugar dropped. The school didn't even allow her to have her insulin on school grounds, not even in the nurses office. They considered anything, other than Tylenol, a illegal substance or an healthy lunch. (Despite only selling fried, greasy foods and ice cream)
We had a class together after lunch, so I snuck my fun-size candy in my pocket. When she asked to go to the nurse, I was asked to follow so "she doesn't leave the school". She collapsed and I just barely caught her. I snuck the candy in her mouth, whispered, "eat this and hold on" and booked it as fast as one piggybacking a fellow teen could.
An ambulance was called and her blood sugar was so low, she could've died. I was told that bit of sugar I gave her was the only thing that kept her. The school demanded she tell them who gave her the "drugs" and she refused. Their excuse to them nearly killing her was, "she got her fix somehow".
Many lawsuits came on them for other reasons, but she didn't even tell her parents until we graduated that I was the one who gave her the candy. They thanked me for saving her and all I said was, "it was just a feeling I had that she'd need it."
I didn't understand diabetes and still kinda don't. All I knew was her blood sugar was going to be low and I knew that I would be called to "walk" her to the nurse. If she didn't eat something, something bad would happen. I didn't think she could die, but that was a very sobering experience, knowing you may have saved someone by doing something as tiny as giving them some candy.
Looking back on my school years, teachers did a lot of shady things they got away with.
Give me flashback how teacher treated me badly to the point of crying
Same, from teachers throwing away kids' snacks to recess ladies stealing money. Its enough to make me homeschool my children.
@@moondancer7993 least i live in a district where students or teachers are severely punish for bullying
When I was in tk my teacher got me in trouble from saying stupid because some girl thought I said it and it wasn't even me who said it it was some other kid so I missed reces and I was 6
Also that same year I had a mickey mouse toy and it made one noise and she took it away and never gave it back till the week was over and it was my favorite toy and it was on Monday
I remember in 4th grade, my teacher had gotten sick of kids constantly asking to go to the bathroom, when they were just doing it to get out of class, and she made mandated bathroom breaks and if we didn’t use the bathroom at those breaks, and had to go at another time, we weren’t allowed to go. I can remember going into the lunch room after being denied a bathroom break and I sat at lunch unable to eat and I cried and sobbed because my stomach and bladder hurt so badly from not being allowed to use the bathroom. My teacher finally saw that and realized that I really did have to use the restroom, and she finally let me go. That day I just happened to need to use the bathroom at a different time then the “designated breaks”, it was horrible. Teachers should not restrict bathroom breaks and food. I know from experience that some kids abuse those privileges, but then those rules and punishments, punish those kids who aren’t doing any wrong.
Unbelievable! They all think they're entitled "owed" free food.
The teachers face told me all I needed to know about the situation. I went to school when you could get paddled with a wooden board but even when my worthless mother failed to do the application so I could get free lunch someone at the school still made sure I was taken care of. In 9th grade I had an english teacher give me a roll of lunch tickets so i would never have to miss a meal.
Looked quilty to me! Shame on this "teacher".
@@grettapaisley2422 My mother let live in boyfriends abuse me and my half brother. She lost custody of him but since I didnt even know who my father was I was left to suffer abuse until I turned 18 and joined the army.
SHAME ON YOU ... You dont know me or what I have endured. My half brother by the way turned out to be a drug addict a felon and an alcoholic. My worthless mother married a total of 6 times. She is a vile, despicable, evil and manipulative person. She took money from high school boys and let them molest her very young sister. My aunt is still a very broken person... Got any more smart comments genius?
@@grettapaisley2422 regarding to your comment. Just saying man you dont know the entire situation could be more then what's being said here.
@@rustyfox5261 well when you find out let me know thanks
@@grettapaisley2422 Sorry Greta, but many mothers are absolutely Worthless. Giving birth to someone doesn't make you worthy of respect, there are many "parents" who damage their children beyond comprehension and make life much more difficult for their kids rather than help them in life. You might have identified with the label mentioned, hence you feel insulted. Not all "mothers" are equal, some are worthy of respect, many are criminals who should be in jail for the type of negligence and abuse that they do to their kids.
I’m not crazy about kids but I’ll be damn if I’ll ever see one go hungry
Yeah they look so in need of help
Michael Bracken That kid doesn’t look hungry. He looks morbidly obese.
@@mrs.chandler9384 that was uncalled for
@@mrs.chandler9384 wth, so what? that's for his parents to deal with, if he's overweight or not. and you literally can't even see him in the video. and still, that doesn't make what she did not wrong.
It’s actually healthier for one whom has more fat on their bodies to fast because that means that their body will start consuming the fat and that will in turn lessen the weight of the child and lower and risks of diseases or sicknesses related to obesity. Also I highly doubt that kid even knows what being hungry feels like.
Maybe this bozo father should learn how to feed his children, GOOD GRIEF!
All my prayers and support goes to the kid and his family. Poor thing, nobody should suffer such.
i hope the teacher gets fired and sued
moonrice555 so you support starvation of children....the last guy was right f u
This was over 2 years ago. I'm sure she was already fired.
KRLS 80 "fuck you" Compelling argument. You should be a lawyer.
moonrice555 I don't need to work at a school to have A "important" opinion, what that teacher did was wrong & I stand by that also I'm not old enough to work at a school yet just going to one tells me what teachers go through & it's still simply wrong to refuse to give someone food
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Plus, getting to school on time had nothing to do with it. She denied him the meal because of the assignment, not because of the time he got there.
Even if a dog came to me asking me my food, and i didn’t give it to him, i wouldn’t be able to live in peace for several days,
FIRE the six figure Sup. and the teacher!!!!!
She's cruel and she wouldn't be my son's teacher after that..
Give the kid the meal, and then ask him about the assignment.
This is like cutting off your nose to spite your face. The whole reason this meal is provided is because a child's ability to learn and perform in school is significantly worse when they're hungry and have missed a meal.
We use to have a paragraph in defense Bills that said we wouldn't give weapons to the Azov battalion.
Now that paragraph is gone and we supporting neo nazi's in Ukraine.
That seems worse right ?
Or the child not having a meal lol
How could anyone deny a child food?This is inhumane.
Serves you right for continuing to send your kid to public schools.
I feel like even denying a small kid to use the bathroom is a form of abuse. I remember when I was in kindergarten and I really had to go to the bathroom after lunch, I asked the teacher if I could go and she told me to wait. I waited for about 30 minutes and then was finally tired of waiting because I couldn’t even hold it in any longer, so I went to the bathroom without asking again. As soon as I came out I got written up for “not listening” and yelled at. Like what would she want me to do pee myself or on the floor? 😂
A lot of people are arguing the fact that his dad should have provided him with breakfast, but we don't have the facts why that didn't happen. It's Called, "Second Chance Breakfast" for a reason, and that's where the argument sits.
msotrfan1 You don't know that child's home life. Even if he's fine, what if this happened to a kid who qualified for free breakfasts and lunches? Those could be the only meals a child gets.
chiillmo Reread my original comment above. You reiterated what I originally said. "Second Chance Breakfast." Yes, I agree. It should always be given if provided. This teacher needs to be informed what ramifications will be brought up on her if she does not comply with state standards.
My kids prefer to eat breakfast at school, plus I know many parents who drop their kids off at latchkey services because they work before class starts, so some kids are at the school as early as 6am. Then on the other hand, for some kids, school meals are it for them. I completely agree with you!
2nd chance breakfast is ridiculous.
Joey Perez how exactly?
Teacher needs to leave...her face is guilty as!! SHAMEFUL ARROGANT BEHAVIOUR !!!
How ridiculous to deny a child food just because he did not have an assignment.
Why are they comparing it to recess? You stress that breakfast is the most important meal of the day but deny him a chance to eat it. I don't get it, I really don't. Like yeah he's missing one assignment but c'mon.
"second chance breakfast"... need i say more
Joey Flores But did you listen to the description? Second Chance Breakfast for them is so kids who didn't get to eat breakfast at home or can't eat breakfast at home get something to eat.
Second Chance Breakfast means you missed two breakfast opportunities already: 1) The one that could have been eaten at home 2) The one that is offered before school begins.
Do it in recess. Take 5 Percent off
one time in kindergarten we had cards with our lunch numbers on it AND WHEN I COULDN'T FIND MINE MY TEACHER LEFT ANYWAY AND DIDN'T LET ME GO TO LUNCH WITH THE CLASS LIKE ??
Jasmine Lynn one time when my sister's in 1st grade she always came home from school with her lunchbox untouched because she didn't know how to use spoon and forks yet.. idek how was she not passing out because she was doing it for weeks
macydimaano omg thats so scary
Jasmine Lynn and then at the end of the day she'd eat a lot and would ask mum to feed her because she didn't know how to use spoon and forks
macydimaano Awe poor thing, hope she's doing well
Jasmine Lynn she had primary complex when she was 9 which means she's only going to eat whenever she takes her medicine which is almost every 5-6 hours which made her lose a lot of weight and now she's 17 and she's doing great and she's still underweight but she eats a lot, it's just hard for her to gain weigt
The So-called teacher should be Terminated,Have ALL teaching certificates revoked,And be reassigned to nothing more than a Janitor!
I am so glad I can afford to send my child to school with lunch.
Science has proven time and time again that hungry children are cranky and distracted. Who is benefiting from these kids going hungry? I know food isn't free but if you mandate school for kids you damn well better feed them!
This would literally happen all the time at my school. Kind hearted classmates would often give me some of their food because I couldn't afford it. Yet we give robbers murdered and rapists free food in prison paid by taxpayers.
As for this being a private matter, bullshit. The school district wont do crap, they all have eachothers back just like corrupt police departments or abusive bosses
Some people say school is prison. If it is prison they should give free food. Not do the whatever junk this teacher did
"The teacher who is a teacher" no duh
Hmm yes the floor here seems to be made of floor
Does this really need to be a news story? It was one meal. Did he die or get injured? No move on.
If that was my son, that teacher would be in the hospital.
And you would be in jail.
this happens all the time in highschool to students needing to make up tests teachers wont do after school enstead
Ice Storm Come to school and then you don't have to make up anything.
mymak2015 my login for a website we do homework on didn't work and I had to stay and do it at lunch and I didn't even eat breakfast that day.
Reuben Adabonyan yeah tht stuff happens all the time here
Reuben Adabonyan You're the one who didn't eat breakfast. Looks like you lived.
mymak2015 ok I didn't say it was there fault but I found it hard to concentrate throughout the rest of the day I wasn't even hungry I just felt unwell after and had a headache. I dont understand what the point of your comment was. Waa you trying to say it wasnt really a big deal ? Because it wasn't
You can’t deny any child food. It won’t benefit them:
1. They will be starving and won’t focus on anything but their hunger
2. They probably will fall asleep because of lack of energy
People don’t fall asleep when there hungry. It’s quite the opposite, the body wakes us up to go search for food.
@@EdmundiumHitting Thanks for the correction. I appreciate it.
@@EdmundiumHitting I actually have been able to fall asleep despite being hungry. It was because I was worried i was gaining too much weight. But then the moment i got up from my naps, i ate 🤣
And they won't be able to focus
He will probably get diabetes one day
Just like to point out,,,,,there have been some exceptionally great teachers that I have met while I was at school and also when my kids were at school. When my daughter was old enough to help out and be it the teacher's aide, the teacher started bringing breakfast for her and my daughter while she worked. She bonded with this teacher and after many years she still has contact with this teacher. Those are the teachers that should be recognized especially when the student in their adult life remember the teachers that made a difference. Those are the teachers that I deeply respect.
If you have intelligence, please dismiss all the comments below mentioning LUNCH. The topic is not LUNCH. Nor did the video mention at anytime. LUNCH. People missed the point by far.
The parents missed breakfast. That’s on them failing their duty. 2nd chance breakfast, again, is not mandatory, nor did we have that in my school district. The fact the parents missed breakfast for their children, means, according to comments, that the teacher are “starving”, yes, starving their child.
The teacher simply used a resource wrong for a disciplinary action. Which in return, the parent retaliated. Should she be fired from this? No. Should she and every other teacher get additional training? Yes. The parent could calm the fuck down and understand what it means to have “2nd chance breakfast” which, should actually be, in my humble opinion, removed or have it as a paid service for parents to their children for missing breakfast at home and breakfast before the start of school in the school.
Feed you own damn kids!!!
Schools: Ok kids time for lunch!!
Kid: yay
Schools: yes but actually no
Literal bs
@K Maxx Bruh have you ever heard of a lunch period? If they don’t get to eat their lunch, they’re gonna have a hard time concentrating on their work. Teacher, lunch lady, or not nobody has the right to deny a child’s meal.
Let me get this straight. Did the man not give his child breakfast at home? No? Why not? Also is the service of any meal contingent on finishing schoolwork? For everybody? Or just this child? This man will not be satisfied with no answers.
Schools have breakfast programs for kids who do not get breakfast to eat (some eat there because of family income and he doesnt need to disclose that). I don't think denying children access to food is acceptable punishment. Take away recess time or something, not food.
Yet the dad looks well fed. He’s giving me Karen vibes. If your kid is piggy too, then pack him some snacks. 🤷🏻♀️
Some parents have to go to work early. Not having the time to feed their children breakfast. Because they have to leave home before they are able to do so. Be it both parents are a single parent. This very well could have easily been the case for this father. He may very well be a single parent , nothing was said about that. So we don't know the situation there. It's a fact of life now days of some parents having to leave for work before their able to feed their children breakfast. I know this takes place due to some class mates of my own daughters when she was in school this was taken place then. Nor were their parents poor. They just both had to be at work earlier which prevented them from doing so and wasn't able to do what most parents do , fix breakfast for their children. With some parents this is a fact both parents having to work and having to leave before they could feed their children breakfast. Some have no choice in the matter if they want to support their families. This is a fact of what's taking place and has been for awhile now. I know because my daughter is now 28 years old with children of her own . Were she was in grade school when this took place. I've seen it first hand. So please don't judge this father without having all the information into the situation. This breakfast isn't just for poor children either it's actually a program for all of kids . Due to some parents having to be at work early. It's part of a program put in place because kids were doing without breakfast not just the poor. Yes it was started saying it was for the poor. Because no one wanted it known that even parents who could afford food for their children their children was going to school without breakfast. So it was placed on the poor people to keep it from being know even parents better off , children was dealing with the same thing. If you don think so , will I've to spoken with parents first hand. Who were not poor dealing with this same thing. They were embarrassed about the matter. So once again things like this program was said to be designed for the poor .To protect the better off family's from such embarrassment as not having time to make this own children breakfast in the morning sending their children to school without breakfast due to their work hours. It's a government game that's being played. So again you don't know all the facts please don't judge this father. You don't know his situation.
P.S. My daughter also went to a private school. A private school cost money. Yet they had this same program there as well . Were these parents could afford breakfast for their children same as I could. So no this program isn't just for the poor it's for all the kids . For it was taken place also in private schools as well. .
My child was getting on a bus at 6 am to get to school by 8am. He's Special Needs so he didn't always immediately have an appetite.
Stop trying to find fault with the parent.
Those breakfasts are paid with TAXPAYER MONEY, and if Dad works, he's paid fir his kid to have breakfast at school if he chooses.
I'd never withhold food from a student like this. This is deplorable...
if I was there as a kid I would tell him to have some of my food and if I got in trouble idc at all
Unicorns 2696 we need people like you
Same but y'know covid
Same
1:27 I'd appreciate u if u had let him eat !!!
andrew Rodriguez ikr
Simple explanation. She didn't like this kid and she's a bully.
YES FIRE HER!! NO teacher has the authority to deny ANY child food!
Discipline power-tripping thoughless and brutal.
Dang right. You feed those children. Good job dad. I hope he's sues them beyond recognition.
Never going to happen or never did happen. What is it with all you asses that want to sue for anything. Get a job and make your own money.
@@tboman4128 I wasn't rude to you. Get out of your mom's basement and make your own money. I have a hob and a family that I provide for. You have a bad day or what? Your the ass, an impulsive one at that.
@@jasonpiwarski5016 Just don't like people that think suing is the answer to everything. I'm a retired I.T. professional with over 38 years in. So no mom's basement. You're an ass for posting SUE. Maybe the dad should feed the kids in the morning. But to be fair, there was not enough information in the video to come to any conclusion with out assuming a lot. Get over it.
@@tboman4128 so if there wasn't enough info in the video, we were both wrong then?
@@jasonpiwarski5016 Probably so. But don't jump to SUE. It hurts the school system.
Kid: "What about breakfast?"
Teacher: "You already had it."
Kid: "We had one yes, but what about second breakfast???"
Beautiful. Love to see a father confidently defend his son.
Second chance breakfast! I didnt even have one breakfast in elementary school.
that's what it is, one breakfast. don't act like it's not a good thing that kids can eat breakfast at school now.
It’s for kids that missed the first breakfast not a second time eat breakfast listen better
He was better off not eating it. School food is shit
This teacher is doing favoritism with all the kids, but it's like she doesn't like this one kid! What an abuser! 👿💔😡😡😡😳
Okay but this isn’t lunch being withheld, it’s second breakfast. Are you not feeding your kid at home?
Whether he was bad or not you do not deny an essential to live.
To this day, no matter how poor I have been, what would be more outrageous to me would be if I didn't provide all meals for my own kids (which I did). It's weird how much entitlement we are in now, people are outraged that someone else isn't poneying up the money to take care of their kids.
Teachers should not deprive meals for disciplinary reason. Wrong. But parents is ultimately responsible for feeding kid. Most parents can but don't because they're lazy & want entitlements.
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This kind of entitled thinking is deplorable.
@@valeriekehrt7566 I agree, it's not a matter of me "hoping kids are denied food" for sure. I would wish someone would step up and feed the kid. I have covered food for people in need MANY times, and I have donated to charity extensively in my life, feeling I owe it to society since I made my success within that society.
But I just feel a parent who won't do what it takes to support their kid, is a pathetic thing (setting aside some live in places where it's nearly impossible, I will never judge people who live in amazingly hard places to live).
I can see your point but if you saw some of these parents it would really make you wonder what these kids have to go through in their lives. To punish a child because their parents are incapable of providing for their child is just cruel. Do you know how many druggies have kids? You can't learn if you are hungry.
@@tundrellaCat68 agree. The only thing that bothers me is that this kid did not look deprived in anyway. Neither at any one point, did the father address if his child did miss his homework or no? And was it something the child did all the time. And was the kid trying to skive off while the teacher asked about his homework?
That’s so unkind how can a child do any kind of work if they are hungry take away play time not food.
2 things I was raise to never ever denied water an food too anyone .