100%:) moms should stay at home with the kids, career maybe later... fathers bringing home the bacon. Moms taking care of the family. Unfortunately, you're only lucky to have that🙄 update: let me make it clear for the "feminist" in the back, I said: Career Later! After having kids(if you want kids)💁♀️ nothing wrong with you working/having a career, calm down...
No, women are to become men and men are to die or become women then become men again. The only thing feminism doesn't allow tho is just being a woman, that's literally the worst in their eyes. Mothers??? Disgustung breeders exploiting female body's for the continuation of the species, which is really just about maintaining the patriarchy.
@@kccupido3518 She has later said that even though she is sexually attracted to both she doesn't fall in love with men or date them, so she is more lesbian leaning.
You know I can die peacefully now because Now I've finally found a woman who understands the reality, and I can say she's one my idols now, I cry tears of joy and I am grateful to you.
@@Tenchi707 Christina hoff sommers Her book who stole feminism is pretty good. She wrote it in 94. The war against boys in 2001 She has been talking and writing about feminism for ages
I have a maintenance job in a shopping center Once a saleswoman at a makeup store asked me why I earn more money than her ... 1.- I work more than 8 hours every day with a break during the week She works less than 6 hours with 2 days of rest during the week 2.- Every day I have to do work with a level of risk Any day you could get hurt or killed But that's what there is... Somebody has to clean the drain Someone has to unclog the bathrooms put your hands in shit Keep the emergency plant in good condition Check the status of power plants Verify the conditions of the structures Change old pipes Pure physical effort and dirty work But someone has to do it... The last thing I want after a hard day of work is to go online or watch a commercial on TV where I am condemned for the sin of being born a man...
yeah I remember reading an article by some feminist who was questioning the earnings gap. She compared a job as maintenance guy to cleaning lady and tried to say that the maintenance guy makes more money because of sexism lol. She's utterly clueless about the skills needed to do that job. You need a variety of skills, plumbing, electrical, hvac etc etc. lol.
REFRESHING! I (a man) was a victim of domestic violence, I was hit with a cast iron frying pan. Broke my skull. All because I was 8 minutes late. Unlike women, the first question I am always asked is "what did you do to provoke her". I seldom discuss it unless someone ask about the scar. When I left hospital, I became a single parent with two children aged 6 years and the baby of 18 months. That is what a man does. But this doesn't define my life. I still persue women 30+ years later. I forget the incident until I look in the mirror. I have more important things to focus on. There is no time to be a victim.
@@jshepard152 Sorry Shepard - I worded that badly. Victim mentality involves responsibility. The meaning of responsible has been corrupted over the last 50 years. The original meaning was "response - able". When faced with troubles, I ask "who is most able and willing to respond?" and the answer is usually "me". I can punish someone or I can fix things. I can't do both. Fixing things is one of those annoying male attributes, probably part of the patriarchal man. 😨
I always noticed this when I first entered the workforce. I would find myself in my car, on my way to my office job, and suddenly I’d be at a stoplight watching 10-15 male construction workers tearing up and rebuilding another part of the highway in 100 degree weather. Never any women. And I thought well those are the jobs men do that the feminists pretend to ignore because they don’t want to fight for the opportunity to experience pain or danger. My fiancé is a mechanic. My brother lifts lumber every day. My dad drills cable for the railroad. I work in a field where people come and talk to me about their feelings, and I keep little chocolates at my desk because I want the space to be warm and inviting. I have always thought that I was incredibly different from men, and sort of blind to the world as they see it.
Knowing they're not failed attempts at being you, puts you way ahead of the curve. Some aspects of feminism seem to be the more masculine women twisting the arm of feminine women to be like them.
"Men need to constantly define themselves", well i think this is the first time i see a woman actually understand what men go through their entire life without any right to complain (because that would be a sign of weakness, right?)
Yes, but how did that ever come to be? I had heard Warren Ferrell once state that men are human-doings and women are human-beings. Each seem to be locked into these two different roles and mind-sets.
@@debrawehrly9551 The focus on all life is to pass its genes into the next generation. It is much easier for women to do that compared to men. It is easier for women to get sex compared to men. For a women to not pass her genes on is a choice. Many men are evolutionary dead-ends. Men always have to prove that they are men. Women never have to prove that she is a women. As soon as a female hits puberty and develops she becomes a woman. In order for a man to get a women he has to prove that he is man enough.
Kim Hesketh Yes, you got it. It is also worth noting that this applies in a civilisational scale as well; Women just "are", whereas men need to maintain the state and work towards keeping the women satisfied in it, or else... This is a responsability that we men have, both individually and socially. Women are simply our judges. Nothing is expected from them.
I wish she could speak about this on every college campus in the West. I'm so glad that a woman is saying this because even though it's the absolute truth, if a man were saying this, fewer people would accept it. More women need to adopt this attitude!
I don’t see it that way at all, and I do beleive that society has let a few grandstanding individuals look as though every woman is “man hating”,or every man is a “pig”. It’s easy to beleive it all when naturally, because of the differences between men and women, these conflicts (on the smallest scale) do and will rear up. But it’s the fear mongering and not just that, the belief in such ideology that will dead set both sexes against each other. It’s rather creepy when you see the battle from a higher position....somehow an enemy wormed it’s way in, and both men and women are taking the bait, due to fear. Being together with the opposite sex takes extreme vulnerability. I usually don’t bother listening to these such speakers because they aren’t so much helping (typically) as they are instigating and trying to win favor, gain an uprising. No doubt there are things that need fixing, but there will always be nervous tension when one sex believes the other is evil. The whole sole reason why there is such animosity is because they really want peace between them. If they didn’t, absolutely no one would be letting the vitriol spew. It’s truly that simple.
It should be a normal thing to do though, especially in the world we live today where glorifying women and degrading men is what people consider equality..
@@giovannaroma9527 because basically... men try to impress ladies all time from having money to gym to anything.... and we can go through hell to impress you hence the video
@@Hon_Ngure Okay but why is it brave to speak up for men? .There seems to be a war going on against men and masculinity and that has to stop. So women have to speak up in defense of men , it was about time I would say
What a breath of fresh air ! A woman openly speaking common sense, of what us the majority have always known. Men and women are different but are made to compliment each other. Something the modern toxic feminists don't want to admit and why they are failing so much now. All power to you Camille.
I disagree. Her mouth is only a tiny moment behind her brain. She hasn't finished forming a thought and she is just throwing verbal glyphs out her mouth like a squirrel chasing a red laser beam. I'm surprised she hasn't been asked to learn public speaking.
@@eddarby469 She aint a politician, she doesn't weighs her thoughts against the listeners' before speaking and thats what i find very impressive (especially considering the fact she is a rockstar in academic field where we are taught not to offend anyone irrespective of intent). More power to her.
@@eddarby469 You disagree that her brain is a hundred light years ahead of her brain? I think that goes for everyone - it's poetic license. He's right that she has so much to say that her mouth is always chasing her brain
"The only guys getting into the Ivy League are boys who have already been ground down to the bourgeoisie norm that is palatable to upper middle class women." Daaaaamn
She shouldn't blame women for the behavior of the democrat party. Both parties became extremist. Far left or far right aligned. Women aren't running around trying to grind down men. Democrats are.
Betty Friedan was a lecturer where I went to college. This was in 1969, when, "Women's Lib," was a new thing. Ms. Friedan was intelligent, balanced and reasonable. Her description of Women's Lib was a liberating thing for everyone. But that did not last long. Women's Lib and Feminism quickly became a movement of man hating.
It's the first speech I've heard from her, and it's so refreshing. The examples are so spot on. I always thought that men have the ability to dissociate, which allows us to dissociate from ourselves, too. The example I had is of a man who would go out in the middle of the night to defend their livestock against predators. It's got to the kind of human being who can utterly callous - towards himself. Complete disregard for the consequences, to sacrifice themselves for the survival of their women and children. Now I listen to Camille and she talks about hunters freezing to death. What an utterly undeliverable capacity we have to use ourselves in this way.
@@Lilliz91 maybe if you learn his language he can explain it to you better. Read his name, that's a Hispanic name, probably from a foreign country. Instead of funny you sound like an asshole. He just made an observation; and a good one that denotes her intelligence.
Thanks for opening my eyes to this @danny. I admit I actually found it immensely irritating to hear her speaking. But your comment has helped me to look past my initial irritation, empathise with her, and focus on what she is actually saying. So thank you!
I don’t know about you but the fact that she is appreciating men makes me feel infinitely more attracted to her. I feel genuine appreciation toward this person.
HELL yah we are rebeling!!!! I went 4 years to college and all i learned was to hate myself as a man. NO MORE!!!! I dropped out and learned a trade and now i can support myself and be a good provider for my wife!
Interesting. I learned about functional analysis and how to apply reinforcement learning. Perhaps hating myself will be part of the master's programme.
"Women should regard men with a mix of gratitude and rational fear" - Yes. And both Women and Men have to figure out which Men or Women to trust or fear. As it's always been.
Camille Paglia is one of the greatest thinkers of our time. Her view on art and beauty as a reflection of human nature is so spot on and well documented. LOVE her.
she is, although I do not agree with some statements that she has made in the past. Like Jordan Peterson, there are many things that I agree with him on but some things that I do not.
@@debrawehrly6900 Although Jordan is a good teacher and knowledgeable, his connections to the technological community make me extremely suspicious. There is to me nothing good about the advancement into AI. We may as well sign humanity over to whatever force is behind it. Even I have better sense than that.
Men and women NEED each other; where one is weak, the other is strong and vice versa. We complement each other. Why is this so hard a concept for some feminists to grasp? Just because we are different doesn't make one better than the other, it just makes us that - different.
I used to think I needed women, but as I've gotten firmer in my sense of self, they seem quite irrelevant. There's just too many stupid ones to wade through, with their crystals and aromatherapy and angels, and of course they are the divine feminine goddesses! I wonder if it's an age thing, but I don't think so. It's come about quite suddenly in the past few months. Watching The Red Pill, and diving into MGTOW has helped a lot. I just feel better. As for the previous need, I would say that was due to the socializing we receive, which sells us on the amazing life we could have with the love of our lives. Problem: not too many women seem capable of love.
Caveman, YOU ARE AN OUTLIER. You are abnormal. Just because some girl hurt your delicate unmanly feelings you HATE all WOMEN FOREVER AND EVER. You don't speak for all men. You are a coward who ran away because you got hurt one time. BOO FUCKING HOO. Normal men not only want women they need them as the balance in their lives.
Vanessa STARS with reproductive technology coming up in the next 20 to 30 year's men will have both civilization and reproduction in both hands. Women are the ones who need men when nature breaks it's own laws with men as it is now you will see men act in ways you have never seen any male of any species act if women become obselete they only did it too themselves
Her understanding of men is refreshing. I have always celebrated men. They impress me with their courage. Courage that is sometimes reckless in my mind; but impressive nonetheless.
I'll never forget being shoved into a shower stall at about ten years old with my best friend and his two older sisters because a tornado was tearing through the neighborhood. The two girls were screaming and wailing, letting everyone know they didn't want to die. My friend and I didn't see the big deal. We wanted to get out and see what was going on. We were excited but our fear level was near zero.
I love the differences between men and women. They should be celebrated, not demonized. We could not live without each other. It's a beautiful symbiotic relationship. We compliment each other perfectly.
I'm go for an "all-in" inclusivity - lets men and women work together, be it in doing beautiful art, raising children discovering science and drilling oil in a sea platform! LETS LIVE WITH PASSION AND THE HUNGER FOR LIFE!
She clarifies the emasculation of the middle class and the upper classes. A very smart academic who is drops the truth on her audience that alas gasp women need men.
@@lamentate07 Honestly, I appreciate the comment. i am 60 years old and have never seen a woman apologize once. Donna Adelson slaughtered her son in law because she felt entitled. As long as she was discreet it was okay to put two bullets in her son in laws face. Same with Wendi. Woman never apologize for bad behavior. I have never seen it. If they do, it is too little too late. Lets be honest, the laws are designed to protect woman. Look at the female school teachers who routinely *ape students and receive probation when male counterparts go to prison for 5 years. The laws on the books are designed to restrain men not woman.
I have personally witnessed the kind of vigilante justice she mentions at ( 13:47 ) no questions asked. The men weren't even a gang or anything, it was just in an area of the country where calling 911 isn't an option. I don't think they even discussed it beforehand, because at that point we all just knew what had to be done; this individual could _not_ be allowed to come and go as they please any longer. So, they were walking calmly but with purpose, had a grim look in their eyes that I would describe as _"taking out the trash."_ The most anyone said about it after the fact was _"You just can't treat a woman that way."_ It wasn't really a proud moment, either. I think that's how you can tell the difference. They didn't high-five each other after the fact, announcing how useful they and oh boy, it sure is a good thing there's men in the world, isn't it! None of that. They just... took out the trash.
@@wayfarinstranger9962 Many parts of the world where it’s fallen - or never even got to anything resembling your conception of civilization. Try looking for civility or “rights” on the outskirts of Dakar. Your life there is worth less than the single USD bill in your pocket, not even exaggerating. Yeah, Hells Angels needed.
Your mentioning of men defining themselves through art reminds me of the quote by picasso, “if i were a soldier, i would become a general, if i were a monk, id become the pope, but i chose to be a painter, and instead I became picasso”
I love Camille ... I’m tired of feeling I’m a man born in the wrong time just because I’m industrious and self driven. Yes I love women and I’m a father of an amazing little lady. But I’ve seen people confused with my masculinity. While my house is full of flowers and love. Go figure.
She forgot to mention that men not only maintain civilization but through their intellect and ability to visualize abstract concepts, created everything that exists.
What do you do for a living? Many women have won Nobel prizes in chemistry,physics, medicine. What kind of creative genius are you ? Do you deserve credit for Max Plank's accomplishments because you're both men?
ya i think that needs to be rephrased. Opting out of life itself is basically not working and not doing anything so eventually you will become homeless, suffer and die. No, men are not opting out of life they are just opting out of expected societal goals and norms and beginning to live free and choose their own route to happiness whatever that may be.
guitarman0365 brilliant, you know I thought there was more and you just got it down hear. I don't think its men and women that are the issues but the expectations
Then again, women are(or were) the singular agent capable of cultivating and refining men after their upbringing & adolescence, and this is sadly something completely overlooked today. It is observable, that more and more females are dismissing rather developable and "on par" companion candidates for their more or less obvious flaws in an opportunistic chase of that unrealistically "complete" ideal partner, whereas it could be interpreted that those certain flaws in men exist, through responsibility, as failings of women also, who metaphorically and literally do make men out of boys. Women make Men! So I see it in an archetypal-abstract way, that Woman has lost her natural power (which is the subliminal guidance of the direction of Man through the voluntary mandate given by His love and desire for Her, that in turn establishes transcendent value for His existence) for reasons unknown to me; by cultural manipulation perhaps. Thus Man, being left more or less unrestrained and susceptible to His feral ancestral nature, is slowly succumbing into a state of chaos and understandably seems like an obvious culprit for Her distress of loss of her natural sense of power and strength. For sake of whole Humanity, Woman as an arch-awareness has to find out why She lost contact with Her gracious power (which grants Her a sense of control, peace and meaning in life). She can lend the power of Man in Her pursuit and surely it will aid Her greatly, but She can't expect for Him to assist while being ridiculed and vilified. He would actually LOVE to help and be with Her, but is no pushover to be abused. You see, nothing in temporal worldly existence is ultimately free. For the priviledge of birth you have to decay and die. For beauty of the morning light, night has to fall. For Her love He has to act and provide. So far it is obvious common core. But what is Her desire and Her sacrifice for it? And is She willing to LIVE it all the way, voluntarily, or is She compulsively expecting Nature to break it's inherent law of "give and take" and make Her an exception of "just take"?
Dirty Governor If you are confident you are less prone to listen to what others who might have less skill experience and talent than you have to say and if you do you care about saying no and turning off their sugestions if they are complete bullshit
Dirty Governor you're still thinking "provider" in terms of "debit card to a grocery store" if you strike out in the bush. Mother nature can smell it when we don't believe in ourselves.
I get called sexist a lot but it's usually by girls who lose interest after I explain to them I actually have standards and expectations that I intend to uphold.
Ain't that the truth, any sign of rejection even when it isn't, resorts in female brains going into, say the worst shit you can to fuck him up, that's been my experience and I am 55,
When I was a college student, I told my professor I wanted to be equal to a man. She said, why do you want to be equal to men, they have theIr own problems? So I took her advice and improved society for women and men.
That’s called respect. I asked my father if he was scared of mountain lions attacking him and he said “no it does you no good to be scared but what you should do is respect it because when you respect it you know not to challenge or provoke it and you know not to underestimate it.” Respect will get you farther than fear. Fear is paralyzing. Respect is understanding. If you don’t respect beings more powerful than you or you challenge then that’s just stupid, disrespectful, and arrogant.
As a guy who spent years in the university studying social sciences I can honestly say that the environment is unbelievably hostile to straight normal guys. I could fell the looks the moment I entered the place.
I don't agree with much of what Ms. Paglia believes, but I can't express my gratification enough for her words here. It is refreshing to hear and makes me want to become better, thinking that perhaps there are some woman out there who don't desire a sterilized man but a good one.
Middleclass man here, 37yrs: so damn true! I myself always sought out to be as gentleman to women as possible, to let them feel that I see them equally and I want to protect them. But these days, thats what you get stoned for by women. So to stay healty, I got to a point saying: no thanks, if you don't want me as a man, then sorry, I stay that way, then I certainly don't want you because you are not the right women. Hence the severe problems women have "with" men.
"Men are dropping out and rebelling. WHen civilization falls / ends (as it will inevitably), we will be glad that they are there to provide safety and structure". (I'm paraphrasing - but true and scary words from Camille).
They'll adapt. Maybe pure hell for feminists and SJWs but not for women. When invaders came through a village or town way way back, and their brothers, fathers, sons etc were put to the sword in battle - within a year the women were having kids from the invaders. It's female nature to rationalize and go with the strongest. Did anyone think that they formed a female resistance and refused to have anything to do with the men that had conquered them? No. They went on to pass on their DNA with the best (strongest) available candidates - the victors. How else could the human species have survived?
+Friedrich Marx ~ _"Because of movements currently inplace have shown with enough certainty that women will be the cause of the collapse and the men will not let it happen again"_ Some have theorized that it's happened before. One theory is that the rise of a sort of proto-feminism (among other SJW-style social movements) led to the fall of Rome 2000 years ago, and perhaps even to the fall of Babylon 2000 years before that. heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/12/27/feminism-responsible-for-the-fall-of-rome/
g mak but why would men want to provide safety and structure for women when reproductive technology is within reach( artificial wombs) in 20 to 30 year's
+thuthuka ~ You're missing the point of the hypothetical, which is "when society collapses". Good luck running ANY digital technology in that case, let alone something as delicate as reproductive technology. We may not be thrown back to the stone age, but we'll _at least_ be thrown back to the mechanical age.
g mak what makes you think other civilizations where feminism doesn't exist won't embrace this technology because they will and all men around the world will have it just because Western Civilization is doomed doesn't mean the rest of the world is
I am an old school guy,and I get grief from my family for it,but I make no apologies for being a real man. I am not violent,but I will defend myself and others when needed. I had fights in school,but nobody died,and I earned the respect of the bullies who tried to push me around. Men these days are so weak but it is not their fault.( For the most part)
Point: We need each other! Men need women, and women need men! Why would men need to be "womanized", or women "menanized"? (just made up a word!) The beauty is in our differences, the strength is in our differences. She has said before that she identifies as a man, this may be why she speaks so outwardly for men. Whatever it is, she is right.
But you see nothing wrong with the fact that we are fearing men? And other humans? What have happened to all the great predators In the world? The lion and the tigers ? They are dead.
@Greg Spolar women are also the image. So....? I don't see your point. Beside it was the image in the ability to create things out of nothing. You know like how the earth and humans were created out of nothing. In this way we are created in the image of because no other creation can do that. Do you beautifully understand? That is why the fall is so regretful. But we could instancely create every food and clothes and drinks and toys we wanted. Do you understand. You are selling humans low when it's on our abilities to create that we are great in. Need I remain you that a machine can do four times as much work and protection as any man and that the are robots which can be built to be bodyguards if the need be. So like please don't sell yourself short as just muscle when you are more then that. You are a mental and emotional and physical being not just physical. So yeah...
I agree that we hunt and peruse women, but not like hunting deer, its like hunting lions because of the risk involved. we dont want to hurt women, we want to win them over and not be embarrassingly rejected.
Not true all the time. Most men today, once they win over the girl and the moment they know they "got" her, the boy leaves and off to the next girl to "win" over...endless cycle until they're finally 30 something and then realise "oh crap wait, I don't want to live like this? Oh no what did I do? My girlfriend of 4 years ago, she was perfect! Why did I leave her! I messed up! But it's too late now. Okay, this time for real I'll commit..."🙄🙄 if men are "simple" , it sure takes them a lonnnnngggg time to mature and figure there shit out!🤣
@@SunnySummer777 Sounds like you are projecting. That's how women tend to think, not men. In reality, the sexes treat each other as disposable now if they are in a position of power to do so. Women have more power in the dating/mating market than men, thus they are more likely to act in an egotistical way that hurts their long term interests. They also take a long time to 'mature'. The problem is that by the time they are 'mature' enough for the kind of man they rejected when they were younger, we have moved on, often to younger women.
@@lamentate07 well....no. I'm not one of those woman. Also, I could say as well that if I do (and have before) date a guy lower than my "level" or someone who isn't even my type, didn't work out.... there are No guarantees....ever. and even if I do get married someday(I do have a boyfriend btw not that matters though), doesnt mean someday he'll screw me over by committing adultry with another woman. No guarantees in life whatsoever. Marriage is dead now to.
@@SunnySummer777 It probably didn't work with men who 'weren't your type' because you didn't screen them properly by personality, or you simply weren't ready to move on from looks and therefore experienced dissonance (from a lack of desire). That is very common. It's a tricky thing. Personally I tend to steer clear of women who tell me that they like me even though I'm not really their physical type. It's too much of a gamble. You are essentially betting on the odds that their previous appetites/desires/preferences won't return to ruin the relationship at a future date. In cultures that encourage sexual restraint that can work, but in the west it's a recipe for disaster that often costs men money. All the best though. It's always difficult regardless of age or sex.
What a brilliant woman. We need to hear her thoughts more. She presented the man/woman dynamic in a way I havent hear before. She makes so much sense. More please! I am going to read her books.
countess bathory, that aileen wuornos or whatever the fuck is her name.. etc etc.. i'm sure there are plenty of women who were bat shit crazy psycho killers but there is no female mozart. you see?? no talent among women.. but sure a lot of fucking anger and bitterness
mrteclcy mythrl How about this. An adult woman can have sex with an underage teenager, get pregnant, get a slap on the wrist from the courts, sue that boy who's now a man for child support, and win. Oh, and if he fails to hand over his money to her he will then be arrested and jailed for not paying child support to the woman who raped him. BTW that wasn't a hypothetical. That actually happened.
They damn well should be. They created it. We were all born to a world we did not create, however. Feminism is insane, is it not? Using aberration to define men. THAT is an aberration.. Feminism is cancer.
With regard to Ms Paglia's characterization of men at the extremes of the IQ distribution curve, I don't think psychotic is the obverse of genius. Blessed is the genius not suffering a psychosis.
@Saad Bin Masud "2nd thing your pseudo intellectual critique ass would never be able to get to the level of an veteran professional to the respective fields." - pseudo intellectual Ok, then, what is this course? Where are the studies, and most importantly show me the metrics. Because I would like to see this massive difference that you so clearly infer.
I care for my wife after her eight strokes and one day there was no disabled toilet available. So I took her into the female's toilets and helped her. I had to stand and deal with 3 women, very angry women while the wife is crying trying to do her business. I stood and stayed calm and held my ground, but I was so glad that one of them didn't follow through with their slap. I don't know how my life would've ended up if she slapped me.
My boyfriend and I were talking about these things recently, and we both agree "toxic masculinity" as they call it... is what keeps us all alive.... and went even further to think that this is rather the survival/warrior instinct.... which sometimes even some women have, it all boils down to survival of the fittest and willingness to embrace aggressiveness and risk when it's necessary, this world was built on blood and bones not lollipops and rainbows.
Ok I dunno what you mean Ok she was filling us with excellent information Ok so maybe her thoughts were a bit fast Ok I understand that Ok but let's look passed all that and listen Ok.
Men and women were not created to compete against one another, they were create to complement one another.
And how's that working out?
100%:) moms should stay at home with the kids, career maybe later... fathers bringing home the bacon. Moms taking care of the family. Unfortunately, you're only lucky to have that🙄
update: let me make it clear for the "feminist" in the back, I said: Career Later! After having kids(if you want kids)💁♀️ nothing wrong with you working/having a career, calm down...
@@SunnySummer777 OK, let's go back to the 50s then... 🙄
It worked back then now it's a mess
No, women are to become men and men are to die or become women then become men again. The only thing feminism doesn't allow tho is just being a woman, that's literally the worst in their eyes. Mothers??? Disgustung breeders exploiting female body's for the continuation of the species, which is really just about maintaining the patriarchy.
She appreciates men more than most women, and she's a lesbian.
What?? She’s a lesbian? Damn
She's bisexual, or at least that's what she said in the 90s.
She’s actually transgender. I heard her say it in a different conversation with JP
@@kccupido3518 She has later said that even though she is sexually attracted to both she doesn't fall in love with men or date them, so she is more lesbian leaning.
@chris buckingham Well about half of the people on earth are men so she might have met a man or two. She might even have a father
"I am sick of parasitism". Oh my god, finally someone said it like it is. Amen. Thank you.
i agree. fetuses are parasites and women have a right to decide if they dont want to house a parasite.
She’s taking about feminism
@@binghamguevara6814 WE KNEW
I have not heard that philosophical term.
Parasitism plus sensationalism work hand in hand it seems.
You know I can die peacefully now because Now I've finally found a woman who understands the reality, and I can say she's one my idols now, I cry tears of joy and I am grateful to you.
There's NUMEROUS older women like this and some sisters. But they're few and far between.
@@OffGridInvestor you gotta tell me so I can bless my mind and soul through their words!
@@Tenchi707 Christina hoff sommers
Her book who stole feminism is pretty good.
She wrote it in 94.
The war against boys in 2001
She has been talking and writing about feminism for ages
"she understands REALITY"... I love it... Her reality includes BARBARIANS...
Chill out man
I have a maintenance job in a shopping center
Once a saleswoman at a makeup store asked me why I earn more money than her ...
1.- I work more than 8 hours every day with a break during the week
She works less than 6 hours with 2 days of rest during the week
2.- Every day I have to do work with a level of risk
Any day you could get hurt or killed But that's what there is...
Somebody has to clean the drain Someone has to unclog the bathrooms put your hands in shit
Keep the emergency plant in good condition
Check the status of power plants
Verify the conditions of the structures Change old pipes
Pure physical effort and dirty work But someone has to do it...
The last thing I want after a hard day of work is to go online or watch a commercial on TV where I am condemned for the sin of being born a man...
And she probably thought those six hours were too long and wants more days off and more pay.
...or after work go to the arena called home to do combat with a feminist indoctrinated girlfriend or wife ffs.
yeah I remember reading an article by some feminist who was questioning the earnings gap. She compared a job as maintenance guy to cleaning lady and tried to say that the maintenance guy makes more money because of sexism lol. She's utterly clueless about the skills needed to do that job. You need a variety of skills, plumbing, electrical, hvac etc etc. lol.
Ernesto Perez: Amen brother
I know an 18 year old girl who works one hour per week and bitches about how hard it is.
REFRESHING!
I (a man) was a victim of domestic violence, I was hit with a cast iron frying pan. Broke my skull. All because I was 8 minutes late. Unlike women, the first question I am always asked is "what did you do to provoke her". I seldom discuss it unless someone ask about the scar. When I left hospital, I became a single parent with two children aged 6 years and the baby of 18 months. That is what a man does.
But this doesn't define my life. I still persue women 30+ years later. I forget the incident until I look in the mirror. I have more important things to focus on. There is no time to be a victim.
There's time when you're a woman.
@@jshepard152 Sorry Shepard - I worded that badly. Victim mentality involves responsibility.
The meaning of responsible has been corrupted over the last 50 years. The original meaning was "response - able". When faced with troubles, I ask "who is most able and willing to respond?" and the answer is usually "me".
I can punish someone or I can fix things. I can't do both. Fixing things is one of those annoying male attributes, probably part of the patriarchal man. 😨
@@johnbondza
I get it. Good post. Good man.
Same
John Bond: I’m sorry about that John. That’s sad, nobody should ever be struck by the ones they love! That’s disgusting. Keep wary of women yeah?
she's hitting quicksave every 10 sec xD
I'm pretty sure she can't recall the file name
Lamo I was scrolling the comments looking for someone else who noticed it too
Every time she says "okay"
"Okay"
It’s very distracting, which is a shame because what she has to say needs to be heard.
I always noticed this when I first entered the workforce. I would find myself in my car, on my way to my office job, and suddenly I’d be at a stoplight watching 10-15 male construction workers tearing up and rebuilding another part of the highway in 100 degree weather. Never any women. And I thought well those are the jobs men do that the feminists pretend to ignore because they don’t want to fight for the opportunity to experience pain or danger. My fiancé is a mechanic. My brother lifts lumber every day. My dad drills cable for the railroad. I work in a field where people come and talk to me about their feelings, and I keep little chocolates at my desk because I want the space to be warm and inviting. I have always thought that I was incredibly different from men, and sort of blind to the world as they see it.
I understand the world more from a typical man’s view rather than a woman’s. It’s confusing and I think about it a lot
Men tend to think about objects. Women tend to think about people.
Society needs both. Ying & Yang.
Knowing they're not failed attempts at being you, puts you way ahead of the curve.
Some aspects of feminism seem to be the more masculine women twisting the arm of feminine women to be like them.
They got women now, they are always the one holding the sign
Men do real work. Women do children's work.
Camille Paglia & Jordan Peterson meet:
CP: OK
JP: Ya know
CP: OK
JP: Ya know
CP: OK
JP: Ya know
CP: OK
JP: Ya know
CP: OK
JP: Ya know
JP: the archetypes, roughly speaking, bucko
Clean your room, eh?
this has literally happened, except spaced out over several hours of an interview
This is mind boggling
The talk between her and Peterson was phenomenal. It's lengthy but worth the time
"Men need to constantly define themselves", well i think this is the first time i see a woman actually understand what men go through their entire life without any right to complain (because that would be a sign of weakness, right?)
Yes, but how did that ever come to be? I had heard Warren Ferrell once state that men are human-doings and women are human-beings. Each seem to be locked into these two different roles and mind-sets.
Debra Wehrly That’s a brilliant quote.
@@debrawehrly9551 I don't understand it
@@debrawehrly9551 The focus on all life is to pass its genes into the next generation. It is much easier for women to do that compared to men. It is easier for women to get sex compared to men. For a women to not pass her genes on is a choice. Many men are evolutionary dead-ends. Men always have to prove that they are men. Women never have to prove that she is a women. As soon as a female hits puberty and develops she becomes a woman. In order for a man to get a women he has to prove that he is man enough.
Kim Hesketh Yes, you got it. It is also worth noting that this applies in a civilisational scale as well; Women just "are", whereas men need to maintain the state and work towards keeping the women satisfied in it, or else...
This is a responsability that we men have, both individually and socially. Women are simply our judges. Nothing is expected from them.
I wish she could speak about this on every college campus in the West. I'm so glad that a woman is saying this because even though it's the absolute truth, if a man were saying this, fewer people would accept it. More women need to adopt this attitude!
So Camille Paglia, Jordan Peterson, and Patrice O’Neal walk into a bar...
OK
Imagine that ...
Rest in peace Pimp
Labib Saud ok
I'm glad people are recognizing the greatness of Patrice Oneal. Rest In Peace Pimp.
What she says is so reasonable and obvious and yet it's so unpopular. That scares me
Because contemporary society has gone off the deep end.
@Todd Foster That's by design. It's a part of the divide and control strategy of the psychopaths running society.
If it doesn't help the leftist cause, then it's suppressed so that it cannot influence a large audience like liberal ideologies can.
I don’t see it that way at all, and I do beleive that society has let a few grandstanding individuals look as though every woman is “man hating”,or every man is a “pig”. It’s easy to beleive it all when naturally, because of the differences between men and women, these conflicts (on the smallest scale) do and will rear up. But it’s the fear mongering and not just that, the belief in such ideology that will dead set both sexes against each other. It’s rather creepy when you see the battle from a higher position....somehow an enemy wormed it’s way in, and both men and women are taking the bait, due to fear. Being together with the opposite sex takes extreme vulnerability.
I usually don’t bother listening to these such speakers because they aren’t so much helping (typically) as they are instigating and trying to win favor, gain an uprising. No doubt there are things that need fixing, but there will always be nervous tension when one sex believes the other is evil. The whole sole reason why there is such animosity is because they really want peace between them. If they didn’t, absolutely no one would be letting the vitriol spew. It’s truly that simple.
Son Of Hibbs I think I agree with you. You mean the anxiety is misplaced?
Should I even mention that it's so goddmn brave of her to speak up for men as a woman???
It should be a normal thing to do though, especially in the world we live today where glorifying women and degrading men is what people consider equality..
damn right
@@giovannaroma9527 because basically... men try to impress ladies all time from having money to gym to anything.... and we can go through hell to impress you hence the video
@@Hon_Ngure Okay but why is it brave to speak up for men? .There seems to be a war going on against men and masculinity and that has to stop. So women have to speak up in defense of men , it was about time I would say
@@giovannaroma9527 thats what exactly she is doing.... join our defense
What a breath of fresh air ! A woman openly speaking common sense, of what us the majority have always known. Men and women are different but are made to compliment each other. Something the modern toxic feminists don't want to admit and why they are failing so much now. All power to you Camille.
She appreciates men more than men appreciate themselves.
Im a lesbian. I am not a man-eater.
I applaud this woman and i hope at some point there will be more like her.
Respectfully, I think this woman is a crackpot
Watching Camille Paglia x1.75 speed
I like to live on the edge.
Jesus there's no edge left the edge is gone lmao she's in space at this point.
I One upped you lol 2x
@@Jackraiden500 One day I get there too. I hope.
To quote Spaceballs: LUDICROUS SPEED!!!
Mozart died at the age of 35. He literally pushed himself to his limits.
have you ever watched olympic athletes train? This includes both the males and te females. To say that women are not driven is false.
Her brain is 100 years ahead of her mouth.
I disagree. Her mouth is only a tiny moment behind her brain. She hasn't finished forming a thought and she is just throwing verbal glyphs out her mouth like a squirrel chasing a red laser beam. I'm surprised she hasn't been asked to learn public speaking.
@@eddarby469 She aint a politician, she doesn't weighs her thoughts against the listeners' before speaking and thats what i find very impressive (especially considering the fact she is a rockstar in academic field where we are taught not to offend anyone irrespective of intent). More power to her.
@@kitsukeita OK
@@eddarby469 You disagree that her brain is a hundred light years ahead of her brain? I think that goes for everyone - it's poetic license. He's right that she has so much to say that her mouth is always chasing her brain
"The only guys getting into the Ivy League are boys who have already been ground down to the bourgeoisie norm that is palatable to upper middle class women." Daaaaamn
Justin Trudeau in a nutshell!
This from a self proclaimed lesbian feminist (70s) who apparently thinks this shit is too much... That tells ya 1st world men are screwed
My reaction exactly. Dayum. 🧠🔥
She's giving you an excuse for failure.
She shouldn't blame women for the behavior of the democrat party. Both parties became extremist. Far left or far right aligned. Women aren't running around trying to grind down men. Democrats are.
im gonna cry. we just want to be good guys and be appreciated. thank you maam
Please cry let it go.
You are stunning and brave ha ha ha.
Not all of you want to unfortunately. However, I do appreciate ppl like you. God bless sir.🌹
This is a feminism I can respect. More of this is wonderful.
I personally thank the speaker for being so aware.
and for bashing the woke bullshit hard.
Betty Friedan was a lecturer where I went to college. This was in 1969, when, "Women's Lib," was a new thing. Ms. Friedan was intelligent, balanced and reasonable. Her description of Women's Lib was a liberating thing for everyone. But that did not last long. Women's Lib and Feminism quickly became a movement of man hating.
It's the first speech I've heard from her, and it's so refreshing. The examples are so spot on. I always thought that men have the ability to dissociate, which allows us to dissociate from ourselves, too.
The example I had is of a man who would go out in the middle of the night to defend their livestock against predators. It's got to the kind of human being who can utterly callous - towards himself. Complete disregard for the consequences, to sacrifice themselves for the survival of their women and children.
Now I listen to Camille and she talks about hunters freezing to death.
What an utterly undeliverable capacity we have to use ourselves in this way.
Her brain thanks faster than she can talk and needs to "ok" to reorient herself
Danny De La Cruz well this is awkward. You need to do the same.
yes, it's very distracting haha even though I really am fascinated by what's she's saying
@@Lilliz91 maybe if you learn his language he can explain it to you better. Read his name, that's a Hispanic name, probably from a foreign country. Instead of funny you sound like an asshole. He just made an observation; and a good one that denotes her intelligence.
Didn’t even notice it till I read this 😅
Thanks for opening my eyes to this @danny. I admit I actually found it immensely irritating to hear her speaking. But your comment has helped me to look past my initial irritation, empathise with her, and focus on what she is actually saying. So thank you!
_"There are no female Mozart's for the same reason there are no female Jack The Rippers"_
Brilliantly put.
...but untrue
She said there's an IQ spectrum that goes from genius to psychotic ... That makes no rational sense whatsoever. Maybe she misspoke.
@@StuartCullen it does, IQ has more than one dimension.
@@StuartCullen shut the fuck up stuart
@@MThomasson88 IQ is scalar value = one dimension.
I don’t know about you but the fact that she is appreciating men makes me feel infinitely more attracted to her. I feel genuine appreciation toward this person.
HELL yah we are rebeling!!!! I went 4 years to college and all i learned was to hate myself as a man. NO MORE!!!! I dropped out and learned a trade and now i can support myself and be a good provider for my wife!
@Biggus Dickus it is. A lot of men are still adolescents.
A great irony, your comment.
@Biggus Dickus it's bad parenting, loss of values in general, sad to say.
Interesting. I learned about functional analysis and how to apply reinforcement learning. Perhaps hating myself will be part of the master's programme.
@agapp11able
With the bourgeoisie you mean chads?
"Women should regard men with a mix of gratitude and rational fear" - Yes. And both Women and Men have to figure out which Men or Women to trust or fear. As it's always been.
Women may have slightly more to fear from men that the reverse, but men have very little to be grateful to women for.
Camille Paglia is one of the greatest thinkers of our time. Her view on art and beauty as a reflection of human nature is so spot on and well documented. LOVE her.
Yes! All it is, is human nature! No bias just....well human nature!
She’s all the braver for being able to articulate an unpopular view when most of the media and academia are saturated in feminism.
For some reason, I see her as who Hillary Clinton was meant to be before Satan (or the negative) got hold of her.
she is, although I do not agree with some statements that she has made in the past. Like Jordan Peterson, there are many things that I agree with him on but some things that I do not.
@@debrawehrly6900 Although Jordan is a good teacher and knowledgeable, his connections to the technological community make me extremely suspicious. There is to me nothing good about the advancement into AI. We may as well sign humanity over to whatever force is behind it. Even I have better sense than that.
This lady has seen the smoke signals and is issuing a warning. This passion comes from a place of profound insight and observation.
I respect this woman for speaking TRUTH!
Men and women NEED each other; where one is weak, the other is strong and vice versa. We complement each other. Why is this so hard a concept for some feminists to grasp? Just because we are different doesn't make one better than the other, it just makes us that - different.
I used to think I needed women, but as I've gotten firmer in my sense of self, they seem quite irrelevant. There's just too many stupid ones to wade through, with their crystals and aromatherapy and angels, and of course they are the divine feminine goddesses! I wonder if it's an age thing, but I don't think so. It's come about quite suddenly in the past few months. Watching The Red Pill, and diving into MGTOW has helped a lot. I just feel better.
As for the previous need, I would say that was due to the socializing we receive, which sells us on the amazing life we could have with the love of our lives. Problem: not too many women seem capable of love.
Brian Dwiggins How about a Pop Tart, instead? I used the sandwich bread to hold together my fancy, bubble-wrap dress. ;)
Men don't need women, they just want women.
Women _really_ need men though.
Caveman, YOU ARE AN OUTLIER. You are abnormal. Just because some girl hurt your delicate unmanly feelings you HATE all WOMEN FOREVER AND EVER. You don't speak for all men. You are a coward who ran away because you got hurt one time. BOO FUCKING HOO. Normal men not only want women they need them as the balance in their lives.
Vanessa STARS with reproductive technology coming up in the next 20 to 30 year's men will have both civilization and reproduction in both hands. Women are the ones who need men when nature breaks it's own laws with men as it is now you will see men act in ways you have never seen any male of any species act if women become obselete they only did it too themselves
Her understanding of men is refreshing. I have always celebrated men. They impress me with their courage. Courage that is sometimes reckless in my mind; but impressive nonetheless.
I'll never forget being shoved into a shower stall at about ten years old with my best friend and his two older sisters because a tornado was tearing through the neighborhood. The two girls were screaming and wailing, letting everyone know they didn't want to die. My friend and I didn't see the big deal. We wanted to get out and see what was going on. We were excited but our fear level was near zero.
@@jshepard152 You're hard
The screaming is a danger alert signal, men are programmed to respond to this and defend / protect
in your women mind. Women would not be around without male courage anymore.
There's a reason women are attracted to bad boys 😏
I love the differences between men and women. They should be celebrated, not demonized. We could not live without each other. It's a beautiful symbiotic relationship. We compliment each other perfectly.
I'm go for an "all-in" inclusivity - lets men and women work together, be it in doing beautiful art, raising children discovering science and drilling oil in a sea platform!
LETS LIVE WITH PASSION AND THE HUNGER FOR LIFE!
She clarifies the emasculation of the middle class and the upper classes. A very smart academic who is drops the truth on her audience that alas gasp women need men.
You are right. In the upper class men are supposed to behaves as sophisticates. Totally emasculated.
I think the divide is more between the university class and the non university class now.
The "upper" class should be called the decadent class.
@@markminister2599 And the women can behave however they want.
@@lamentate07 Honestly, I appreciate the comment. i am 60 years old and have never seen a woman apologize once. Donna Adelson slaughtered her son in law because she felt entitled. As long as she was discreet it was okay to put two bullets in her son in laws face. Same with Wendi. Woman never apologize for bad behavior. I have never seen it. If they do, it is too little too late. Lets be honest, the laws are designed to protect woman. Look at the female school teachers who routinely *ape students and receive probation when male counterparts go to prison for 5 years. The laws on the books are designed to restrain men not woman.
"When civilization falls (as it will, inevitably), the only people who'll protect us and keep everything together are the Hell's Angels!" Amazing
I have personally witnessed the kind of vigilante justice she mentions at ( 13:47 ) no questions asked. The men weren't even a gang or anything, it was just in an area of the country where calling 911 isn't an option. I don't think they even discussed it beforehand, because at that point we all just knew what had to be done; this individual could _not_ be allowed to come and go as they please any longer. So, they were walking calmly but with purpose, had a grim look in their eyes that I would describe as _"taking out the trash."_ The most anyone said about it after the fact was _"You just can't treat a woman that way."_
It wasn't really a proud moment, either. I think that's how you can tell the difference. They didn't high-five each other after the fact, announcing how useful they and oh boy, it sure is a good thing there's men in the world, isn't it! None of that.
They just... took out the trash.
Pure gold.
Sure is taking a long time to fall
@@wayfarinstranger9962 Many parts of the world where it’s fallen - or never even got to anything resembling your conception of civilization. Try looking for civility or “rights” on the outskirts of Dakar. Your life there is worth less than the single USD bill in your pocket, not even exaggerating. Yeah, Hells Angels needed.
Finally a woman undersanding the difference between men and women.
Michelle Nash Yes, and the small irony of the whole thing is she’s a lesbian.
@@gohantanaka That is only irony if you believe in the leftist ideology and their obsession with labels and toxic individualism.
it's funny. cause shes more masculine. which is why she can think
Your mentioning of men defining themselves through art reminds me of the quote by picasso, “if i were a soldier, i would become a general, if i were a monk, id become the pope, but i chose to be a painter, and instead I became picasso”
That there is straight up gangsta. Dayuum.
What a breath of fresh air. This is a rare voice of unfettered conviction rising above the crowd, with a realistic take on the cult of "male bashing".
I love Camille ... I’m tired of feeling I’m a man born in the wrong time just because I’m industrious and self driven. Yes I love women and I’m a father of an amazing little lady. But I’ve seen people confused with my masculinity. While my house is full of flowers and love. Go figure.
Just look at what happened to Andrew Tate.
@@gwho that's not a good male model. But he has some good points
why do you assume that they are competing with ne another? Do you view your fellow coworker a rival or a teammate?
@@debrawehrly6900 they are both lol
Worst example @@gwho
So wonderful to experience this “reemergence” of Camille Paglia!
oh look another man
Am i the only one who cant focus on what shes sayin because of her constant "okay.... okay..... okay...."
Matthew Furlani
It's easy. Just ignore it.
Wow this woman blew me away...I have always thought like her but never heard anyone say it out loud! Bravo!
She forgot to mention that men not only maintain civilization but through their intellect and ability to visualize abstract concepts, created everything that exists.
Read her book Sexual Personae. She covers it.
What do you do for a living? Many women have won Nobel prizes in chemistry,physics, medicine. What kind of creative genius are you ? Do you deserve credit for Max Plank's accomplishments because you're both men?
Destroyed the world pls
@@chrislastnam6822 mariecurie
She is correct as to why men are dropping out of college and life.
we are not opting out of life, we are starting to live our lifes!
and damn it feels good.
ya i think that needs to be rephrased. Opting out of life itself is basically not working and not doing anything so eventually you will become homeless, suffer and die. No, men are not opting out of life they are just opting out of expected societal goals and norms and beginning to live free and choose their own route to happiness whatever that may be.
What men? Asian men are HARDLY dropping out. lmao
guitarman0365 brilliant, you know I thought there was more and you just got it down hear. I don't think its men and women that are the issues but the expectations
21 savage no. It's because no Asian school dropout has ever survived the wrath of an enraged tiger mom.
men "evolved" to be the providers.. this is why women dislike men who lack confidence..
Then again, women are(or were) the singular agent capable of cultivating and refining men after their upbringing & adolescence, and this is sadly something completely overlooked today.
It is observable, that more and more females are dismissing rather developable and "on par" companion candidates for their more or less obvious flaws in an opportunistic chase of that unrealistically "complete" ideal partner, whereas it could be interpreted that those certain flaws in men exist, through responsibility, as failings of women also, who metaphorically and literally do make men out of boys. Women make Men!
So I see it in an archetypal-abstract way, that Woman has lost her natural power (which is the subliminal guidance of the direction of Man through the voluntary mandate given by His love and desire for Her, that in turn establishes transcendent value for His existence) for reasons unknown to me; by cultural manipulation perhaps. Thus Man, being left more or less unrestrained and susceptible to His feral ancestral nature, is slowly succumbing into a state of chaos and understandably seems like an obvious culprit for Her distress of loss of her natural sense of power and strength.
For sake of whole Humanity, Woman as an arch-awareness has to find out why She lost contact with Her gracious power (which grants Her a sense of control, peace and meaning in life). She can lend the power of Man in Her pursuit and surely it will aid Her greatly, but She can't expect for Him to assist while being ridiculed and vilified. He would actually LOVE to help and be with Her, but is no pushover to be abused. You see, nothing in temporal worldly existence is ultimately free. For the priviledge of birth you have to decay and die. For beauty of the morning light, night has to fall. For Her love He has to act and provide. So far it is obvious common core.
But what is Her desire and Her sacrifice for it? And is She willing to LIVE it all the way, voluntarily, or is She compulsively expecting Nature to break it's inherent law of "give and take" and make Her an exception of "just take"?
Woman dont make man man make man ;)
What does confidence have to do with being a good provider? If I am a good cook, hunter, etc. does it really fucking matter if I believe it or not?
Dirty Governor If you are confident you are less prone to listen to what others who might have less skill experience and talent than you have to say and if you do you care about saying no and turning off their sugestions if they are complete bullshit
Dirty Governor you're still thinking "provider" in terms of "debit card to a grocery store" if you strike out in the bush. Mother nature can smell it when we don't believe in ourselves.
I've been saying for decades, okay, that Camille Paglia is a gem, okay. And I hold to that, okay, to this day, okay.
Love listening to a discerning individual !!
Thankyou Camille
Have told the world you’re the go to person if reason be the order of the day !!!
I get called sexist a lot but it's usually by girls who lose interest after I explain to them I actually have standards and expectations that I intend to uphold.
Ain't that the truth, any sign of rejection even when it isn't, resorts in female brains going into, say the worst shit you can to fuck him up, that's been my experience and I am 55,
@Adam Chlebovec damn right
Wear that sexist badge with honor when the words don't bother you they lose.
Children in womens bodies who never had to grow up.
@J M what happened?
That red pill dropped with such a force, it made a dent on the floor :)
Thank you Camille. It is difficult to be proud of one's own manhood these days.
When I was a college student, I told my professor I wanted to be equal to a man. She said, why do you want to be equal to men, they have theIr own problems? So I took her advice and improved society for women and men.
That’s called respect. I asked my father if he was scared of mountain lions attacking him and he said “no it does you no good to be scared but what you should do is respect it because when you respect it you know not to challenge or provoke it and you know not to underestimate it.” Respect will get you farther than fear. Fear is paralyzing. Respect is understanding. If you don’t respect beings more powerful than you or you challenge then that’s just stupid, disrespectful, and arrogant.
Bang on.
You had a freaking awesome dad.
Reverence is a more accurate term for it.
It is a good perspective. However, I doubt if we can really respect a feral hyena or a rabid dog the same way we respect a lion.
@electric 6 you dont understand what respect it is then
As a guy who spent years in the university studying social sciences I can honestly say that the environment is unbelievably hostile to straight normal guys. I could fell the looks the moment I entered the place.
Guilherme Al help me please.
@@natebit8130 help yourself and study something useful like engineering.
same...social worker...
Dont try to date a women there...just focus on your job....otherwise it will backfire
@@gigamesh780 As a Social Worker who is male I can definitely agree.
I’m convinced they’re getting lobotomies and installing a tiny little chip to handle the minimal prefrontal cortex operations needed.
I am so glad I grew up reading her columns in my local newspaper. Have read her thoughts for decades.
First time ever coming across her video and I love it.
Camille is absolutely genius! Love her.
mkay
I love how sassy she is when she talks. I showed her videos to a feminist/lesbian friend of mine and she couldn't stand Camille.
Really cool. Even if she doesn't convince everyone, at the very least she's a voice of dissent within the ranks of feminism.
She said "okay" 127 times, I counted.
You're welcome...okay?
she's like the real life famale mr mackey
So drinking game?
Ok ... 😁
That made my day 😂 👌🏽
So what!
Such a refreshing input. I didn't think this age was able to produce something like that.
She has similar speech patterns to Tarantino-with the continuous “Ok?” after every point
Spectrum-y yet brilliant
They’re also both Italian? Okay?
YES. As soon as I read your comment it it clicked. Tarantino speaks VERY much the same... although people seem to contribute it to something else.....
what do u mean by "yet"? :P
Spectrum-y?
Name a true intellectual who isn’t on the spectrum
I don't agree with much of what Ms. Paglia believes, but I can't express my gratification enough for her words here. It is refreshing to hear and makes me want to become better, thinking that perhaps there are some woman out there who don't desire a sterilized man but a good one.
Brilliant. Thanks.
The conclusions I come to over years of thinking about this stuff, she eloquently expresses and expands.
My "okay"-meter is overloaded!
Bigboy!
Middleclass man here, 37yrs: so damn true! I myself always sought out to be as gentleman to women as possible, to let them feel that I see them equally and I want to protect them. But these days, thats what you get stoned for by women. So to stay healty, I got to a point saying: no thanks, if you don't want me as a man, then sorry, I stay that way, then I certainly don't want you because you are not the right women. Hence the severe problems women have "with" men.
5years later and every word she says got more fitting
I can't stop thinking about South Park's Mr Mackey while watching this.
Mmmkay
Men and women are meant to work together, not compete, so happy that people still realise this.
really ruined the workplace.
.75 is about the right speed
I need to power through those 'oks' though..
Haha, I watch CZcams at 1.25x speed out of habit. I had to slow the fuck down for this lady.
I often do that too. I sometimes wish we could do that in real life..
Lmao thanks fam. You guys are too funny.
Okay
do five squats every time she says "ok"
Ok
spychecker hahahaha shes driving me crazy good explanation not a good speaker
I have tree trunks now.
I can now jump into orbit.
I've been stuck on floor since I was 5 minutes in
'Okay '
Like 100 times!
Reminds me on the Cartman from the South Park 😂
"Mix of gratitude and rational fear" this is amazingly accurate
"Men are dropping out and rebelling. WHen civilization falls / ends (as it will inevitably), we will be glad that they are there to provide safety and structure". (I'm paraphrasing - but true and scary words from Camille).
They'll adapt. Maybe pure hell for feminists and SJWs but not for women. When invaders came through a village or town way way back, and their brothers, fathers, sons etc were put to the sword in battle - within a year the women were having kids from the invaders. It's female nature to rationalize and go with the strongest.
Did anyone think that they formed a female resistance and refused to have anything to do with the men that had conquered them? No. They went on to pass on their DNA with the best (strongest) available candidates - the victors. How else could the human species have survived?
+Friedrich Marx ~ _"Because of movements currently inplace have shown with enough certainty that women will be the cause of the collapse and the men will not let it happen again"_
Some have theorized that it's happened before. One theory is that the rise of a sort of proto-feminism (among other SJW-style social movements) led to the fall of Rome 2000 years ago, and perhaps even to the fall of Babylon 2000 years before that.
heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/12/27/feminism-responsible-for-the-fall-of-rome/
g mak but why would men want to provide safety and structure for women when reproductive technology is within reach( artificial wombs) in 20 to 30 year's
+thuthuka ~ You're missing the point of the hypothetical, which is "when society collapses". Good luck running ANY digital technology in that case, let alone something as delicate as reproductive technology. We may not be thrown back to the stone age, but we'll _at least_ be thrown back to the mechanical age.
g mak what makes you think other civilizations where feminism doesn't exist won't embrace this technology because they will and all men around the world will have it just because Western Civilization is doomed doesn't mean the rest of the world is
Long live the free and happy man.
Mgtow Values oh hey hey mgtow it is
When she said "OkAy, oKaY, OKay, aok ey" I felt that.
She. Is. Brilliant. Such an inspiration.
It's nice to hear about all the good stuff we do for a change.
I am an old school guy,and I get grief from my family for it,but I make no apologies for being a real man. I am not violent,but I will defend myself and others when needed. I had fights in school,but nobody died,and I earned the respect of the bullies who tried to push me around. Men these days are so weak but it is not their fault.( For the most part)
LOVE THIS LADY!
Agreed! This is so refreshing.
Point: We need each other! Men need women, and women need men! Why would men need to be "womanized", or women "menanized"? (just made up a word!) The beauty is in our differences, the strength is in our differences.
She has said before that she identifies as a man, this may be why she speaks so outwardly for men. Whatever it is, she is right.
May you walk a path safe and bright. Blessings, dear.
Toraperse Thank you! Blessings to you, as well:)
yea baby, celebrate and respect our differences... oh how I wish my ex felt the same way
Michael Wilson I’m sorry:(
Males and females are two sides of the same coin, each compensating for what the other lacks in the pursuit of the perpetuation of the species.
"We need men like the Hell's Angel when society collapses." 💕. "This is not the way for women to achieve sexual happiness.". She great! 😆
Hey vern i got a like he he
Pooblic library, we'll stay here for a while Vern
But you see nothing wrong with the fact that we are fearing men? And other humans? What have happened to all the great predators In the world? The lion and the tigers ? They are dead.
@Greg Spolar women are also the image. So....? I don't see your point. Beside it was the image in the ability to create things out of nothing. You know like how the earth and humans were created out of nothing. In this way we are created in the image of because no other creation can do that. Do you beautifully understand? That is why the fall is so regretful. But we could instancely create every food and clothes and drinks and toys we wanted. Do you understand. You are selling humans low when it's on our abilities to create that we are great in. Need I remain you that a machine can do four times as much work and protection as any man and that the are robots which can be built to be bodyguards if the need be. So like please don't sell yourself short as just muscle when you are more then that. You are a mental and emotional and physical being not just physical. So yeah...
i would not want to marry a hell's angel kind of man. I heard that they treat their women bad
Nice to hear sane woman with sane reasons about current realities of life.
Very intellectually honest. Great speech.
@3:39 "The failure of socialization", yeah, when boys and dads are forced (by the mom and judge)to never see each other again :'(
Well, that's a whole different story, mate.
I agree that we hunt and peruse women, but not like hunting deer, its like hunting lions because of the risk involved. we dont want to hurt women, we want to win them over and not be embarrassingly rejected.
Not true all the time. Most men today, once they win over the girl and the moment they know they "got" her, the boy leaves and off to the next girl to "win" over...endless cycle until they're finally 30 something and then realise "oh crap wait, I don't want to live like this? Oh no what did I do? My girlfriend of 4 years ago, she was perfect! Why did I leave her! I messed up! But it's too late now. Okay, this time for real I'll commit..."🙄🙄 if men are "simple" , it sure takes them a lonnnnngggg time to mature and figure there shit out!🤣
@@SunnySummer777 Sounds like you are projecting. That's how women tend to think, not men. In reality, the sexes treat each other as disposable now if they are in a position of power to do so. Women have more power in the dating/mating market than men, thus they are more likely to act in an egotistical way that hurts their long term interests. They also take a long time to 'mature'. The problem is that by the time they are 'mature' enough for the kind of man they rejected when they were younger, we have moved on, often to younger women.
@@lamentate07 well....no. I'm not one of those woman. Also, I could say as well that if I do (and have before) date a guy lower than my "level" or someone who isn't even my type, didn't work out.... there are No guarantees....ever. and even if I do get married someday(I do have a boyfriend btw not that matters though), doesnt mean someday he'll screw me over by committing adultry with another woman. No guarantees in life whatsoever. Marriage is dead now to.
The object of both hunts are to penetrate the prey with your mighty spear 😂
@@SunnySummer777 It probably didn't work with men who 'weren't your type' because you didn't screen them properly by personality, or you simply weren't ready to move on from looks and therefore experienced dissonance (from a lack of desire). That is very common. It's a tricky thing. Personally I tend to steer clear of women who tell me that they like me even though I'm not really their physical type. It's too much of a gamble. You are essentially betting on the odds that their previous appetites/desires/preferences won't return to ruin the relationship at a future date. In cultures that encourage sexual restraint that can work, but in the west it's a recipe for disaster that often costs men money.
All the best though. It's always difficult regardless of age or sex.
What a brilliant woman. We need to hear her thoughts more. She presented the man/woman dynamic in a way I havent hear before. She makes so much sense. More please! I am going to read her books.
Fascinating.
"There is no female Mozart because there is no female Jack the Ripper"
Which is bullshit, there are more female Jack the Rippers than there are male ones.
+3DMaster lolwut
3DMaster ... explain
3DMaster, please name them.
countess bathory, that aileen wuornos or whatever the fuck is her name.. etc etc.. i'm sure there are plenty of women who were bat shit crazy psycho killers
but there is no female mozart. you see?? no talent among women.. but sure a lot of fucking anger and bitterness
We are living in misandrist times in the western world. We have been for a while, im glad people are bright enough to see it.
ok?
I’m not. I’m sorry Vampe, I’m not bright enough to see it
mrteclcy mythrl
How about this. An adult woman can have sex with an underage teenager, get pregnant, get a slap on the wrist from the courts, sue that boy who's now a man for child support, and win. Oh, and if he fails to hand over his money to her he will then be arrested and jailed for not paying child support to the woman who raped him.
BTW that wasn't a hypothetical. That actually happened.
They damn well should be. They created it. We were all born to a world we did not create, however. Feminism is insane, is it not? Using aberration to define men.
THAT is an aberration.. Feminism is cancer.
systematic101
woah wtf
Good clear and courageous thinking.
It’s made me cry 😢
With regard to Ms Paglia's characterization of men at the extremes of the IQ distribution curve, I don't think psychotic is the obverse of genius. Blessed is the genius not suffering a psychosis.
Barton Smith I noticed that too and agree.
@Chris Jesus christ, man. What's wrong with you?
@Saad Bin Masud I think that you need too.
Where are you getting your averages? My guess is that it comes from some sort of insipid bias.
@Saad Bin Masud Don't deflect, little one.
Explain yourself, you super genius, you.
@Saad Bin Masud "2nd thing your pseudo intellectual critique ass would never be able to get to the level of an veteran professional to the respective fields." - pseudo intellectual
Ok, then, what is this course? Where are the studies, and most importantly show me the metrics.
Because I would like to see this massive difference that you so clearly infer.
This woman is a gift
I care for my wife after her eight strokes and one day there was no disabled toilet available. So I took her into the female's toilets and helped her. I had to stand and deal with 3 women, very angry women while the wife is crying trying to do her business. I stood and stayed calm and held my ground, but I was so glad that one of them didn't follow through with their slap. I don't know how my life would've ended up if she slapped me.
I am so sorry you and your wife had to go through that. God bless you both.
Amazing lecture!
My boyfriend and I were talking about these things recently, and we both agree "toxic masculinity" as they call it... is what keeps us all alive.... and went even further to think that this is rather the survival/warrior instinct.... which sometimes even some women have, it all boils down to survival of the fittest and willingness to embrace aggressiveness and risk when it's necessary, this world was built on blood and bones not lollipops and rainbows.
What she says is gold, but it is nerve-racking to hear her speak lol
I heard ok more than I thought was possible during a lifetime.
Love her anywY
Ok I dunno what you mean Ok she was filling us with excellent information Ok so maybe her thoughts were a bit fast Ok I understand that Ok but let's look passed all that and listen Ok.
Wracking*
@@KaninTuzi sorry, English is not my first language 😅
great lecture! very refreshing
“Toxic masculinity is a backwards way of trying to approach ethics”
Omg. Hahaha ON POINT!