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  • čas přidán 15. 04. 2019
  • This is what happens when God takes an X Games freestyle motocross rider and a motocross model, transforms them into totally new people by His love and brings them back together eight years later to get married for His Mission. This is the story of how we met and what happens when God writes your love story!
    So if you are a Christian single, waiting on God and trusting His timing, we think you will really be inspired by this video. God is worth the wait! Or if you are dating or married, you can still be encouraged by what can happen when Jesus works in our relationships to build a godly marriage as a Christian couple
    R O N N I E & M E L // Ronnie Faisst, a freestyle motocross pioneer turned preacher. Melissa Faisst, a motocross model turned missionary! On this channel, we help YOU find God & walk with Jesus in your daily lives!
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    We post new videos every Tuesday!
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    Keep going for it & we will talk soon!
    / / Links
    To watch ' BOUNDARIES WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX", click here: • BOUNDARIES WITH THE OP...
    To watch Melissa's Personal Testimony FROM MODEL TO MISSIONARY, click here: • FROM MODEL TO MISSIONA...
    To watch Ronnie's Personal Testimony MOTO TO MINISTRY, click here: • FROM MOTO TO MINISTRY ...
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    To watch "BOUNDARIES IN DATING", click here: COMING SOON
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    / / Books we Recommend for this
    For Single Women: "Passion & Purity" by Elizabeth Elliot amzn.to/36iYMXQ
    For Men: "Disciplines of a Godly Man" by R. Kent Hughes amzn.to/2Jw9wZt
    For Dating: "The Right One" by Jimmy Evans & Frank Martin amzn.to/2Z9tFcC
    For Marriage: "Sacred Marriage" by Gary Thomas amzn.to/2X7t1Ni
    / / Additional Resources
    For your FREE "Bible for Beginners Guide", click here: www.ronnieandmel.com/bibleguide
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    Love & Blessings!
    Ronnie and Mel
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    Also, any information given in this video is just that, for informational purposes. We are not ordained pastors/licensed professionals, and are not meant to be your spiritual authority or a replacement for pastoral leadership and participation in the Church Body. We encourage everyone to be a part of the local Christian Church in your area and be under their spiritual covering. Or if you need deeper care, we encourage you to find a licensed Christian Counselor who can help you walk into freedom in Christ! In the meantime, we just hope to be a brother, sister, friends along the way and give you some tools and encouragement as you grow in God. Bless you all!
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  • @RonnieandMel
    @RonnieandMel  Před 5 lety +1891

    Thanks for watching guys! If it impacted you, make sure to give it a thumbs up and let us know below... what was your favorite part?? Thanks for being a part of the journey guys! Blessings!

    • @MLynn33
      @MLynn33 Před 5 lety +32

      Oh my God😭😭😭 the Lord literally led me to this video! There are so many details that are sooo similar to mine! 😭 this is overwhelming. The Lord showed me that our engagement would be short as well (for the purpose of ministry) and it made me a bit nervous @ first. (I was a LOT like you, Mel, as far as my focus on God and adamant about not letting a guy get in the way of my relationship with the Father. God had to prepare my heart as well). So while i had been nervous about a short engagement, but God keeps showing me testimonies like you guys' that are so encouraging & truly confirmation that He is with us😭... THANK YOU for sharing this!
      Mel, what is some advice on preparing a short engagement? How did you respond to ppl who might have had questions/concerns about why such a short engagement? I haven't had any yet,but any anticipatory advice??
      Bless you guys! Thanx!

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 5 lety +38

      @@MLynn33 Oh my gosh wow!! Come on Jesus. So glad He led you to our video so He could speak to you. And as long as you know without a doubt this is the Lord, you dont need to worry... but that doesn't mean that its all going to be easy. Our first year of marriage was SO hard. And we constantly needed the reminder that the Lord had spoke even though at the time we were both like, did we mess up? But the Lord was so faithful. So advice, dont expect that just cause the Lord led it that its all going to be perfect. You are both sinners in a big process and nothing exposes your junk like marriage haha, but be committed to the Lord and your vows. I didnt really have much pushback but let people speak in to your life no matter what. The Lord honors us seeking counsel and we constantly surrendered our relationship to Him. But keep praying, keep seeking the Lord together, keep letting Him guide you and He will. Super excited for you girl!! Keep in touch. We are glad to have you here with us!

    • @simonamichaels232
      @simonamichaels232 Před 5 lety +19

      Absolutely amazing testimony!! I am so comforted that there are STILL people who trust the Lord to conduct and direct their choices for marriage partners. Even in churches, this idea seems outdated, but it is THE way to go. I can speak from experience. So inspiring! May the Lord bless you and use you for His glory.

    • @sharonchristabel1590
      @sharonchristabel1590 Před 5 lety +11

      This is amazing, and beautiful... overwhelmed to tears how the Lord speaks and leads those who trust in Him!

    • @heliaalves9062
      @heliaalves9062 Před 4 lety +11

      My favourite part was the engagement photo, with the bright pink flowers in the middle :)

  • @melodie3432
    @melodie3432 Před 5 lety +1349

    Favorite part: her standards and her passion for her walk with God

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 5 lety +76

      Yes she has high standards for sure. Her relationship with the Lord is most important. It’s what I like most about her 🙏🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼

    • @thehaweseffect
      @thehaweseffect Před 4 lety +4

      Yes that just blew me away

    • @ashleymaldonado7684
      @ashleymaldonado7684 Před 4 lety +3

      Yesss I aspire for that ❤️😭

    • @soccergalsara
      @soccergalsara Před 4 lety +3

      Easy to have standards once youve experimented greatly...

    • @graceoyugi2910
      @graceoyugi2910 Před 3 lety

      Exactly

  • @MidnightMusings948
    @MidnightMusings948 Před 4 lety +1427

    As a 25 year old Christian woman, this is so encouraging!!! I started praying for my husband at 13, and I also prayed that God would make me a wife worthy of the man I prayed for. My life verse is Proverbs 31:30 - “Charm is deceiving, Beauty is Vain, but a woman who places her trust in God is worthy of admiration.”
    Mel you are a woman who is worthy of admiration!!!!

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 4 lety +61

      Wow and as are you dear sister! You are precious to the Lord! Bless you 🖤

    • @kokiegrace3864
      @kokiegrace3864 Před 4 lety +31

      i feel you sister.. same age. We just have to remain patient and faithful for the Lord our God will make it happen at the right time.-Isaiah 60:22

    • @RayDuP
      @RayDuP Před 4 lety +23

      Angela Michelle As a 26 yo guy I find this encouraging that there are women like you out there praying and waiting on the right guy. I too am praying the same prayers.

    • @dg-qn5mi
      @dg-qn5mi Před 4 lety +2

      ❤️❤️❤️👌🏼👌🏼

    • @angelaingram2914
      @angelaingram2914 Před 4 lety +27

      Sister, I got married a age 35 to a Godly man I never could have even imagined.... Our marriage is so incredible! Praise God he is soooooo good. Keep praying, trusting, and being we whole and complete in Jesus

  • @user-uu1zv5mc9u
    @user-uu1zv5mc9u Před 4 lety +721

    I'm 47, single, never married no kids, I'm still waiting ,praying, till meeting the right man God's time for me, never too late.

    • @virginiahpeter9406
      @virginiahpeter9406 Před 3 lety +40

      May God meet your heart desires. Keep on trusting on him

    • @MRSTYL-cc6sl
      @MRSTYL-cc6sl Před 3 lety +11

      47. Wow. I mean can’t Christains go on dating sites? There’s this Christain dating app called salt. But then again we look at appearance first with these apps

    • @dianang6401
      @dianang6401 Před 3 lety +16

      God is still working, trust in Him. 耶稣永远爱你!

    • @tronbeyondtheveil8005
      @tronbeyondtheveil8005 Před 3 lety +3

      Good luck to you.

    • @carriezhao3097
      @carriezhao3097 Před 3 lety +10

      That is too late honestly

  • @Iwish387
    @Iwish387 Před 4 lety +80

    I’m not even trying to be in a relationship nor trying to find a boyfriend. I’m just trying to get my life right for the Lord and preach His gospel. I told God, I want to be a missionary for Christ through medicine. His will not mine.
    I like it when I live for Jesus. As a 25 year old woman, I just want to live for God!

  • @kaydiemama868
    @kaydiemama868 Před 4 lety +758

    That kid that said “is that your wife?” knew! The Lord used him in that moment ☺️

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 4 lety +116

      😂😂 kid was prophetic and he didn’t even know it!

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 4 lety +35

      😂😂 kid was prophetic and he didn’t even know it!

    • @theresac9099
      @theresac9099 Před 4 lety +13

      Yes!!! That part gave me goosebumps!

    • @annecaulder9495
      @annecaulder9495 Před 4 lety +8

      He saw the way Ronnie was looking at her! #NoPokerFace

    • @Jasmin32it
      @Jasmin32it Před 4 lety

      I would’ve been gotten the hint 😅

  • @faisstlife
    @faisstlife Před 5 lety +1032

    Thanks so much for watching guys. I overcame and won the women! Never let the friend zone discourage you brothers

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 5 lety +37

      😂😂😂😂

    • @hvlchk
      @hvlchk Před 5 lety +16

      Currently. But the Lord has spoken to me! Thank you for sharing 🙏🏼 can’t wait for more

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 5 lety +28

      Keep praying! Obedience and surrender is key!

    • @heliaalves9062
      @heliaalves9062 Před 4 lety +8

      Ronnie, I'm sure you have an amazing personality, or else you couldn't have gotten such a beautiful partner! Wishing you guys all the very best

    • @runski802
      @runski802 Před 4 lety +9

      Dude, no one ever gets out of the friend zone!!!

  • @jesusislord7919
    @jesusislord7919 Před 3 lety +120

    As I listen to you, I feel the presence of the Lord. For all the singles trusting God, remember God is never early or late, God is always on time. Don't chase feelings, let the Spirit lead you ... Kenya🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

    • @alishanoel6358
      @alishanoel6358 Před 3 lety

      I am thankful sister in Christ the LORD JESUS HAS ME SENDING THIS VIDEO TO THE ONES LIKE YOU SPECIFICALLY who are A BOLD STRONG COURAGEOUS WOMAN OF CHIRST !!🎀🎀
      AMEN SISTER!!!!! Amen!!!!
      TO CONFIRM AND TO EDIFY IN THE LORD JESUS PLEASE SEE AND PRAY THE GLORY OF THR LORD SHINES ON YOUR FACE FOR HIS GLORY
      HE SAYS I KNOW THR STRUGGLE HE IS HERE WITH YOU
      THE CHALLENGING TEXT WORD BROUGHT RELIEFR Isaiah 10:20-35
      czcams.com/video/EWWrts_7x3Q/video.html

  • @tildag.9809
    @tildag.9809 Před 3 lety +105

    “Lord, You write the story, and I will tell it”
    Amen 🙏🏾

    • @alishanoel6358
      @alishanoel6358 Před 3 lety +1

      I am thankful sister in Christ the LORD JESUS HAS ME SENDING THIS VIDEO TO THE ONES LIKE YOU SPECIFICALLY who are A BOLD STRONG COURAGEOUS WOMAN OF CHIRST !!🎀🎀
      AMEN SISTER!!!!! Amen!!!!
      TO CONFIRM AND TO EDIFY IN THE LORD JESUS PLEASE SEE AND PRAY THE GLORY OF THR LORD SHINES ON YOUR FACE FOR HIS GLORY
      HE SAYS I KNOW THR STRUGGLE HE IS HERE WITH YOU
      THE CHALLENGING TEXT WORD BROUGHT RELIEFR Isaiah 10:20-35
      czcams.com/video/EWWrts_7x3Q/video.html

  • @c.juneau410
    @c.juneau410 Před 4 lety +271

    My wife is 10 years older than me. She was in an emotional abusive marriage that was a hardcore drug addict. After 14 yrs and 2 kids; 7 & 9. We met in church; I, 24yrs old, her, 34yrs old. She always says I saved her, but I know that she saved me... I am 42yrs old NOW! We love each other more and more each day! God is so good to us! LIFE IS GREAT!

    • @carmenhughes6262
      @carmenhughes6262 Před 3 lety +2

      Wow that is truly amazing, sounds very much like my story, I am trusting God to lead us into marriage, we have a very good relationship.

    • @c.juneau410
      @c.juneau410 Před 3 lety +2

      @@carmenhughes6262 Trust and ask God and he will give you everything...

    • @sryburn641
      @sryburn641 Před 3 lety +1

      That’s awesome. Love her well and keep God in the center.

    • @bhargavichilekampalli6304
      @bhargavichilekampalli6304 Před 3 lety +2

      Brother I have a doubt is it good or is it biblical to marry an older woman

    • @c.juneau410
      @c.juneau410 Před 3 lety +7

      @@bhargavichilekampalli6304 ???? Not sure what you mean; but I love my wife with all my heart and the feeling is mutual. If you are worried about intimacy, my friend,its twice a week on avg...

  • @arielambrose2225
    @arielambrose2225 Před 4 lety +431

    "I need you to keep me covered so I don't mess this up" lol why is that so cute? This is a sweet story.

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 4 lety +5

      🤦🏼‍♂️🤦🏼‍♂️🤦🏼‍♂️😂🙌🏼🙏🏼

    • @symphoniix
      @symphoniix Před 4 lety +2

      Yea it’s like can’t mess this.

    • @Ruffles729
      @Ruffles729 Před 4 lety

      Lol I thought that was adorable too!

    • @denisebay5800
      @denisebay5800 Před 4 lety

      Amen

  • @joannamarie0110
    @joannamarie0110 Před 4 lety +145

    For many failed relationships, I started to see that God is really protecting me. He worked in a way to protect my heart to men who He knows are not for me. Being 29 year old single and Christian, I will trust the process that God put me into 💕 Thank you for your love story.

    • @alishanoel6358
      @alishanoel6358 Před 3 lety +1

      I am thankful sister in Christ the LORD JESUS HAS ME SENDING THIS VIDEO TO THE ONES LIKE YOU SPECIFICALLY who are A BOLD STRONG COURAGEOUS WOMAN OF CHIRST !!🎀🎀
      AMEN SISTER!!!!! Amen!!!!
      TO CONFIRM AND TO EDIFY IN THE LORD JESUS PLEASE SEE AND PRAY THE GLORY OF THR LORD SHINES ON YOUR FACE FOR HIS GLORY
      HE SAYS I KNOW THR STRUGGLE HE IS HERE WITH YOU
      THE CHALLENGING TEXT WORD BROUGHT RELIEFR Isaiah 10:20-35
      czcams.com/video/EWWrts_7x3Q/video.html

    • @dg-qn5mi
      @dg-qn5mi Před 3 lety

      Same here 😊

  • @ashleymackenzieroy4721
    @ashleymackenzieroy4721 Před 3 lety +25

    Found my husband in 2018 at the age of 36. We’re now married and expecting our first child! I’m so glad I gave myself to the Lord and trusted the path he had set out for me. For those who are still waiting, NEVER GIVE UP

  • @patriciaowens3479
    @patriciaowens3479 Před 4 lety +575

    Wow.. so nice to hear such a story...I'm widowed. now for 7 years and in my seventies, and I just dedicate the rest of my life to serving the lord. 🌹🕊️👑🙏🌅

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 4 lety +34

      Wow!!! That is incredible! Come on! There is an internship at a church we work with called Simeon Company for people over 50 and their slogan is “why retire when you can refire” and it’s all about that! Blessings to you Patricia! You are needed in this generation

    • @katgedeon
      @katgedeon Před 4 lety +2

      God bless you!!

    • @jemmastone11
      @jemmastone11 Před 3 lety

      Curious if the lord brought you a companion since 😊

    • @patriciaowens3479
      @patriciaowens3479 Před 3 lety

      @@RonnieandMel cute!!😘

    • @patriciaowens3479
      @patriciaowens3479 Před 3 lety

      @JwahAmore41 thanks dear💖

  • @Chloe-kq6en
    @Chloe-kq6en Před 4 lety +66

    When they talked about the earthquake I think it means “YOU ARE GONNA SHAKE THIS WORLD WITH YOUR RELATIONSHIP” and I believe that!!!!! And that’s on Amen

  • @NB-ky5ol
    @NB-ky5ol Před 3 lety +28

    I just want to encourage all you single people out there hoping for a partner. Getting married isn’t the end goal and it isn’t the start of your happiness. Find happiness in singlehood through God and when the day comes you will find that you don’t settle just for anyone. You will find a mate who adds to your life. Do not think getting married is the only way to be happy because your mate is not always going to make you happy.

    • @nakomochi3117
      @nakomochi3117 Před 3 lety

      yes! I'm 20 right now but I am open to finding my partner until after college. Right now I need to keep growing spiritually and grow my faith in God. I also need to work on myself because I'm still immature in a lot of adult things and I'm still very shy with social anxiety. That's why I currently have no friends, not even from my church. Also, I'm not responsible enough to do many things on my own yet so it doesn't make sense that I will be able to date someone right now. I still live with my parents, I have never had a job, and I receive financial aid for college. That's why I pray to God that he will work on me and make me into a mature adult who isn't shy anymore.
      There are also many things I want to do while I'm single like make new friends, traveling to other countries with friends, try new things, etc. I don't need to worry about finding someone right now. My focus is only on God and the people who care about me. God will send me the right person but I know it won't be soon so I put all of that in his hands and he will take care of that.

  • @JesseGeeTorres
    @JesseGeeTorres Před 4 lety +1084

    Didin't kiss till the marriage day . . .
    That part got me,
    Man, those are goals right there 🙌💯

    • @HTSS8
      @HTSS8 Před 4 lety +18

      They did plenty "ungodly" before in 08. She said so. They conveniently left out (actually probably never did it) that they confessed their previous "ungodly" engagements in 08. He called the 08 just "a little thing" and she first said "a thing" then moved to "ungodly thing".
      His dumbing it down to only "a little thing" shows he's not broken for his pursuing and allowing "ungodly" (highly likely they were highly sexually active in the "thing") of her, doesn't respect her, doesn't protect her image or morality as far as he is involved, and no humilty.
      She's naive and infant in faith at best.
      Both of them are Sensationalist (which is Not of Christ) as they keep referring to "prophesying over..." which is the Heresy of Pentecostalism Charasmatics.
      Just get Ronnie to tell who his "pastor" was that he asked to pray for him about her, and that man's church will tell the tale of what kind of "faith" Ronnie is of.

    • @deepthoughts8393
      @deepthoughts8393 Před 4 lety +8

      Salsa Blend Lol!!!!! You believe that crap!?! Ya I’m sure by looking at them they fucked many times before marriage.... just like everyone else

    • @bombonzrocks
      @bombonzrocks Před 4 lety +53

      Deepthoughts Herenow You’re so sad and guilt of your sins that deep down you have to laugh and make fun of the sins of others. Hope you can find happiness one day.

    • @deepthoughts8393
      @deepthoughts8393 Před 4 lety +9

      Karín Nobody is a goodie goodie.lets be real now. Just because you are married doesn’t guarantee happiness. look at the stats. You save yourself for your husband then he ends up leaving you anyways ..plus steals the best years of your life. Nah I’m not sad but I find it comical that even kissing before marriage is seen as sinful. You evangelists are quite funny that’s all. Everything is a sin and u need to be saved but never look into saving yourself. The whole saving tactic is just an excuse to continue doing whatever you want and thinking u have a free pass into heaven- not facing yourself- looking within to save yourself and deal with your own defilements. Sounds like hypocrisy to me. The way you view God is bizarre: he loves you and saves you but if you don’t get saved u go to hell. Sounds psychotic

    • @JesseGeeTorres
      @JesseGeeTorres Před 4 lety +45

      @@HTSS8 HTSS8 I'm gonna keep it real with ya dude,
      Everything you're telling me is not really my buisness.
      Also, when you give your life to Christ and you repent and are born again, it's Him who wipes away all your sins, you are a new creation and with that He also wipes away all your guilt, condemnation, and all those 'icky' things.
      You are a new creation, your past is cleansed abd if you're faithful & burning for the Lord he will make a New path, it's how you treat this New path.
      If you don't respect it, then you didin't change, but if you do, well . . . . .
      You can show a lot of Love & honor for the Lord if you respect the path He laid out for you.
      You don't have to walk around all 'beat-up' and hung over all the mistakes you made B.C(before christ.)
      He died for that, for you to come to repentance and accept His son, sooooo of course you don't need to ve 'wary' or anything.
      My advice would be, if it truly rials you up, i would pray for them.
      The word says "pray & love your enemies"
      Thats what a non-lukewarm person of God would do.

  • @devonpeters8205
    @devonpeters8205 Před 4 lety +739

    As a 33 year old single guy, with most of my friends married with kids, this is so encouraging - thanks for sharing His story!

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 4 lety +12

      So awesome brother! Never lose heart! Bless you!

    • @devonpeters8205
      @devonpeters8205 Před 4 lety +8

      Ronnie and Mel thanks - you too!

    • @csc1641
      @csc1641 Před 4 lety +2

      Devon: You are too cute. Your special one will find you.

    • @Jenny-hk6eg
      @Jenny-hk6eg Před 4 lety +8

      Devon Peters same here. Especially these days when most men ain’t adhering to Gods rules on waiting before marriage.

    • @daniellamoreno3616
      @daniellamoreno3616 Před 4 lety +5

      God will bring the right one.

  • @Xaforn
    @Xaforn Před 3 lety +8

    After an abusive marriage, a child and a lifelong issue with epilepsy I met a gem of a man. One might say it was purely accidental, no it wasn’t. I met this man who not only had the training to help with my ptsd/emotional/mental/spiritual abuse, but he was from an area I dreamed of living in (my grandmother was from there), he was a Christian and had the biggest kindest heart. It was unbelievable how well we not only complemented each other but built each other up. He had given up, I had no intention of being hurt again. What God brings together is so amazing, only God can write such stories of souls and life!!

  • @immaa.7675
    @immaa.7675 Před 3 lety +64

    Her voice is so soothing. I could listen to her all day.

    • @alishanoel6358
      @alishanoel6358 Před 3 lety +1

      I am thankful sister in Christ the LORD JESUS HAS ME SENDING THIS VIDEO TO THE ONES LIKE YOU SPECIFICALLY who are A BOLD STRONG COURAGEOUS WOMAN OF CHIRST !!🎀🎀
      AMEN SISTER!!!!! Amen!!!!
      TO CONFIRM AND TO EDIFY IN THE LORD JESUS PLEASE SEE AND PRAY THE GLORY OF THR LORD SHINES ON YOUR FACE FOR HIS GLORY
      HE SAYS I KNOW THR STRUGGLE HE IS HERE WITH YOU
      THE CHALLENGING TEXT WORD BROUGHT RELIEFR Isaiah 10:20-35
      czcams.com/video/EWWrts_7x3Q/video.html

  • @haigshaigains5694
    @haigshaigains5694 Před 4 lety +374

    That earthquake on the day of your wedding was a sign of God saying “You’re going to shake the Nations together through me.”

    • @haigshaigains5694
      @haigshaigains5694 Před 4 lety +12

      I immediately felt that when you two were talking about that. I can’t wait to see what else God will do with the two of you. Beautiful story!

    • @609castro
      @609castro Před 4 lety +1

      Wow. This is beautiful

    • @mogoaful
      @mogoaful Před 4 lety

      Got chills reading this wth??!?!??!!

    • @kimberlyunknown7830
      @kimberlyunknown7830 Před 4 lety

      @@mogoaful same omg all over my body too

    • @stella6272
      @stella6272 Před 4 lety

      Wooow

  • @briannacollie2742
    @briannacollie2742 Před 4 lety +673

    Your video popped up in my feed, and this union has God's blessings all over it. Im praying that God will continue to bless your marriage. Thank you for sharing!

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 4 lety +5

      Aww thanks sis! So glad you found us 😊 bless you!

    • @TerryAnnStyle
      @TerryAnnStyle Před 4 lety

      Elegant Anne same it pop up for me tooooooo wow

  • @Ta_Ali
    @Ta_Ali Před 3 lety +83

    I married my now husband last year (2019) when I’m 32. Just celebrating our 0ne year together. Glory and honour belongs to Yah 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @lil5191
    @lil5191 Před 3 lety +215

    Left earphone: Mel
    Right earphone: Ronnie

  • @cherrypepper14
    @cherrypepper14 Před 5 lety +297

    "that's not coincidence that's called Jesus is involved in your life!" Yesssss

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 5 lety +8

      Haha!! For real right! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 5 lety +9

      Amen! 🔥 ain’t no coincidences! It’s HIM!

    • @lexie02jones25
      @lexie02jones25 Před 4 lety

      Yes! For real!!

    • @maunder01
      @maunder01 Před 4 lety +3

      Yes God spoke to me in 2011 and said "there is no coincidences with me" 💗🙏🥰

  • @nataliestitak4915
    @nataliestitak4915 Před 4 lety +476

    "I can't let some guy get inbetween me and my calling from the Lord" Yes!!! So, true and needed for a single college girl! Haha! ❤❤❤❤

    • @itsfrickinmik957
      @itsfrickinmik957 Před 4 lety +5

      natalie stitak girl same!!!! She’s such an inspiration it’s insane God blessed my feed with this video

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 4 lety +2

      Hello! You can now download our list of Boundaries here: ronnieandmel.com/singlesguide/ And we also have a whole relationship/singles series you can watch here (czcams.com/play/PLvZQ9qO-puzWVN1PLJJFTDCyuTuXW3q8O.html) that goes in more detail! Bless you!

    • @karimecolettadominguez
      @karimecolettadominguez Před 4 lety +1

      natalie stitak ME too

    • @SDsc0rch
      @SDsc0rch Před 4 lety

      pfft! lol

    • @kennethcanosa6735
      @kennethcanosa6735 Před 4 lety

      can we do it together what the Lord calling for us😁

  • @paigejude3260
    @paigejude3260 Před 3 lety +62

    “I’m gonna send you this list of boundaries” HAHAHA Ronnie our Lord can do anything including save you from the friend zone!!!

    • @alishanoel6358
      @alishanoel6358 Před 3 lety

      I am thankful sister in Christ the LORD JESUS HAS ME SENDING THIS VIDEO TO THE ONES LIKE YOU SPECIFICALLY who are A BOLD STRONG COURAGEOUS WOMAN OF CHIRST !!🎀🎀
      AMEN SISTER!!!!! Amen!!!!
      TO CONFIRM AND TO EDIFY IN THE LORD JESUS PLEASE SEE AND PRAY THE GLORY OF THR LORD SHINES ON YOUR FACE FOR HIS GLORY
      HE SAYS I KNOW THR STRUGGLE HE IS HERE WITH YOU
      THE CHALLENGING TEXT WORD BROUGHT RELIEFR Isaiah 10:20-35
      czcams.com/video/EWWrts_7x3Q/video.html

    • @celesteessel4500
      @celesteessel4500 Před 2 lety

      I need to see this list tho lol!

    • @seealterego88
      @seealterego88 Před 2 lety

      Hahahaha i love this!! True tho!

  • @ordinarythings9864
    @ordinarythings9864 Před 4 lety +68

    I'm watching this in 2020. Wow... This makes me want to get even closer to the Lord. My path is just beginning, and I'm sure yours is too.

    • @bebot6778
      @bebot6778 Před 3 lety +1

      Surely will...Godbless

    • @alishanoel6358
      @alishanoel6358 Před 3 lety

      I am thankful sister in Christ the LORD JESUS HAS ME SENDING THIS VIDEO TO THE ONES LIKE YOU SPECIFICALLY who are A BOLD STRONG COURAGEOUS WOMAN OF CHIRST !!🎀🎀
      AMEN SISTER!!!!! Amen!!!!
      TO CONFIRM AND TO EDIFY IN THE LORD JESUS PLEASE SEE AND PRAY THE GLORY OF THR LORD SHINES ON YOUR FACE FOR HIS GLORY
      HE SAYS I KNOW THR STRUGGLE HE IS HERE WITH YOU
      THE CHALLENGING TEXT WORD BROUGHT RELIEFR Isaiah 10:20-35
      czcams.com/video/EWWrts_7x3Q/video.html

  • @maslinJmas
    @maslinJmas Před 4 lety +245

    I just got off from a toxic relationship and waiting for the Lord to lead me through in everywhere

    • @liubaciupac1236
      @liubaciupac1236 Před 4 lety

      Maslin J praise God🙏🙏🙏 He is our portion

    • @OVP422-_
      @OVP422-_ Před 4 lety +2

      Glad you knew it was toxic because divorce is not for believers

  • @lexie02jones25
    @lexie02jones25 Před 4 lety +158

    I love how God brings two people together. God is great and mighty.

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 4 lety +2

      Amen! Thanks for watching sis! Bless you 🖤

  • @stephensmith777
    @stephensmith777 Před 3 lety +33

    Waiting, expecting, hoping in the Lord brings such blessing. He is so good to us. Sometimes it feels impossible that God will answer our prayers, but just praise him and trust His will. No matter what, if we praise him, thank him, and trust His will for us (not demanding what we want but seeking what He wants), we’ll have joy and He will accomplish His purpose in us.

    • @kayihurafaith1823
      @kayihurafaith1823 Před 3 lety

      Exactely!

    • @alishanoel6358
      @alishanoel6358 Před 3 lety

      I am thankful sister in Christ the LORD JESUS HAS ME SENDING THIS VIDEO TO THE ONES LIKE YOU SPECIFICALLY who are A BOLD STRONG COURAGEOUS WOMAN OF CHIRST !!🎀🎀
      AMEN SISTER!!!!! Amen!!!!
      TO CONFIRM AND TO EDIFY IN THE LORD JESUS PLEASE SEE AND PRAY THE GLORY OF THR LORD SHINES ON YOUR FACE FOR HIS GLORY
      HE SAYS I KNOW THR STRUGGLE HE IS HERE WITH YOU
      THE CHALLENGING TEXT WORD BROUGHT RELIEFR Isaiah 10:20-35
      czcams.com/video/EWWrts_7x3Q/video.html

  • @lovelyjandi6257
    @lovelyjandi6257 Před 4 lety +20

    Im 19 year old girl. And never been to any relationship. Still waiting. I would like to die by being single but im not gonna give my life to wrong person. I hope Lord Jesus is also writing my story. If not then Lord Jesus is my soulmate. Im happy with that.

    • @aalyyy.
      @aalyyy. Před 3 lety +1

      amen your heart is in the right place , he's gonna honor that & bless you with the perfect partner 💖 god bless you 💕💕

  • @Lil08103
    @Lil08103 Před 4 lety +428

    i love her gentle spirit. she's strong yet i sense a grace over her.

  • @JRich71
    @JRich71 Před 4 lety +306

    I am not sure how this popped up on my feed, but I am glad I watched. May God continue to have His hand on your union and it edify others and glorify Him.

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 4 lety +4

      We are glad you watched too brother! Bless you!

    • @AsukaDoinHerThang
      @AsukaDoinHerThang Před 4 lety +5

      This literally just popped on my feed randomly an hour ago and I never seen there channel before 🤣 only God!! 🙌

    • @b.allison8761
      @b.allison8761 Před 4 lety +2

      jdr1171 good evening same here wow!!!!!! I don't know either?? 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ I also just met a Christian man in the park the other day. I husband walked out on our marriage 2years ago n I been using all this time to get close to God. 2 years I didn't talk to any man. I didn't want the separation which also turned to an unwanted divorce. I was hurt n broken felt rejected n abandoned. we will see what God has in store. strange how this popped up on my feed as well at such a time as this!!! I told to me that I'm happy the way I am n not in a rush just in case he is trying to take it higher lol. I will keep seeking God first

    • @JRich71
      @JRich71 Před 4 lety +2

      @@b.allison8761 be encouraged and allow yourself to go through all the range of emotions, etc. I have been divorced for almost 11 years. Take this time to understand who you are in God and where He is trying to take you.

    • @b.allison8761
      @b.allison8761 Před 4 lety

      jdr1171 exactly YES yes thank u!!

  • @jevanicegracie771
    @jevanicegracie771 Před 4 lety +18

    I too started praying for my future husband when I was 21 and am now 22
    But I told God to bring my right person at that age that I asked him too... So I still believe he will coz with God all things are possible.. 🙏💜😊🙌

  • @farooh20
    @farooh20 Před 4 lety +16

    I'm 41 yr old female. Born again Christian. I was born Muslim. But jesus entered my life 2014. I have a beautiful 10 year old non verbal autistic son. Who lives far away from me in another country now due to losing a custody battle. Despite all this I belive that jesus is doing always something great in my life and my sons. And will bring me a great man who loves jesus and makes me love jesus . And living the rest of our lives with angels and lord jesus

    • @danielasantos2295
      @danielasantos2295 Před 3 lety +2

      What a privilege to an ex-Muslim to have Jesus knocking in your door and you opened it!!! He's going to brink your baby back, in his time. just trust Him!

  • @brandyfoster3093
    @brandyfoster3093 Před 4 lety +77

    ❤️ your story. I was single for 8 years after my divorce. I knew god had a plan. I enjoyed my single life as a flight attendant traveling the world. And I knew I needed a man that enjoyed travels and simple life as I did. Then god sent me my wonderful husband!

  • @bexyevans777
    @bexyevans777 Před 4 lety +224

    As a 25-year-old, I thought I'd be married with kids by now. I'm STILL waiting...but there's a REASON for that. God STILL needs to do a DEEP work in my soul to get me to WHERE I need to be. All I can do is TRUST IN HIM.

    • @markiekot
      @markiekot Před 4 lety +13

      Girl, you're complaining as if you were 40+ years and unmarried, chill, take your time, most people in their 20s aren't fit to be coupled yet anyways, so gather this time to better understand yourself and set some boundaries for your future husband

    • @CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom
      @CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom Před 4 lety +10

      Bexy, I think you are so pretty. I can tell, by looking at you, you are a lovely person. I am going to pray God brings you a wonderful man!!!

    • @christamac5456
      @christamac5456 Před 4 lety +3

      Way better to start late than make a mistake. I was married at 30

    • @Varaidzo1
      @Varaidzo1 Před 4 lety +3

      I'm 31 and still waiting for God to bring me the right life partner, you are really young!

    • @tinicoleofficial
      @tinicoleofficial Před 4 lety +1

      Bexy Evans you’re young lol.

  • @raya2473
    @raya2473 Před 3 lety +17

    I’m only 19 but i’ve gone thru a lot in my life and so has my family, i’ve struggled with anxiety, depression, my whole identity and just suicidal thoughts recently. I just came across ur video and it gives me some peace in finding my husband in the future💓it gives me hope

    • @EMichaelBall
      @EMichaelBall Před 2 lety

      Please look into magnesium and vitamin D + K2 supplements, because they both can manage mood. For all but the most severe cases, this is cheaper and better than the known prescriptions, and boosts your immune system. Docs just don’t make money recommending the natural solutions.
      10,000 IU of vitamin D + K2 per day, in the morning, is my recommendation. For best absorption, bite the softgels and drain the fluid so your tongue absorbs the liquid. Vitamin K2 also preserves your skin, reducing visible aging.
      The magnesium can be swallowed like a normal vitamin; slowly take more throughout the day until your poop gets too soft for your liking, then dial it back a tad.

  • @kiki-rg5im
    @kiki-rg5im Před 3 lety +8

    The way she reacted at his first proposal (sending flowers) manifests how strong her faith and at the same time, how genuine her service to the Lord, it is a lesson for us single Christian women and men as well, that we should not hasten ourselves in finding a partner in life, because God will eventually lead us to it if we seek first His kingdom. There is always beauty in waiting

  • @ujue9568
    @ujue9568 Před 4 lety +154

    “we wanted God to be at the center of everything single thing that we were doing, and if He wasn’t at the center, we didn’t want to do it” Wowww!!! That made me tear up 😢

  • @NandyMartinBall
    @NandyMartinBall Před 4 lety +158

    This may sound a bit crazy, but I truly feel like God called me to watch this video. Earlier today, I had a moment in the car where I felt so defeated about my love life. It’s been something I’ve had a hard time letting go of the control over. Just now, this video was under suggestions and as I began to watch and listen to y’alls story, everything clicked. I know God has a plan for my life, and I believe my husband is out there, and I know God will bring us together at his perfect timing. ❤️🙏🏼

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 4 lety +10

      The Lord cares about you and knows what you need sister! Bless you 🖤

    • @collinschroeder7355
      @collinschroeder7355 Před 4 lety +3

      Nandy Martin hang in there, we be worth waiting for a man that loves the lord and cherishes you!

    • @alishanoel6358
      @alishanoel6358 Před 3 lety

      I am thankful sister in Christ the LORD JESUS HAS ME SENDING THIS VIDEO TO THE ONES LIKE YOU SPECIFICALLY who are A BOLD STRONG COURAGEOUS WOMAN OF CHIRST !!🎀🎀
      AMEN SISTER!!!!! Amen!!!!
      TO CONFIRM AND TO EDIFY IN THE LORD JESUS PLEASE SEE AND PRAY THE GLORY OF THR LORD SHINES ON YOUR FACE FOR HIS GLORY
      HE SAYS I KNOW THR STRUGGLE HE IS HERE WITH YOU
      THE CHALLENGING TEXT WORD BROUGHT RELIEFR Isaiah 10:20-35
      czcams.com/video/EWWrts_7x3Q/video.html

  • @tayrealrude
    @tayrealrude Před 4 lety +25

    3 months of preparation 3 months of dating, 3 months of knowing you’ll be married. 3- the trinity. WOW!

  • @100Denario
    @100Denario Před 3 lety +4

    “Lord, you write the story”
    As a male at this time, its so hard to trust in relationships through financial issues and lame impediment syndromes (chronic disease, depression, etc). I’m learning that I can be loved, that I am innocent, and that I can actually have relationship. It is all written and I need to turn it all over to god to write the rest of the story. Thank you all.

  • @Chiqsan
    @Chiqsan Před 4 lety +252

    I love how unconventional Ronnie is. Pretty refreshing.

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 4 lety +25

      Haha probably why God wants us to talk to people about Him 😂 Not what they expect! Sneak attack mode. Thanks for watching sis 🖤

    • @Love_britbrit
      @Love_britbrit Před 4 lety +2

      Yes! It shows how the Lord uses who he want to use!! Love it!

    • @trentsc4929
      @trentsc4929 Před 4 lety

      You are doing good work, Ronnie. ✔

  • @chriani20
    @chriani20 Před 4 lety +191

    I am 49 and single your story gave me hope when I felt like wavering. It's hard to be patient. Thank you for sharing.

    • @iamanovercomer3253
      @iamanovercomer3253 Před 4 lety +9

      🙂 I'm 60 & picked the wrong woman all the time. Now I will wait because I know what God has in store for me.... and my wife needs to be God picked.
      Rest in Him - He has the right one for you

    • @chriani20
      @chriani20 Před 4 lety +1

      @@iamanovercomer3253 thank you so much 😃

    • @iamanovercomer3253
      @iamanovercomer3253 Před 4 lety

      @@chriani20 👍

    • @claribelcenteno5358
      @claribelcenteno5358 Před 4 lety

      fabulously plus it sure is

    • @gabriellavictory3080
      @gabriellavictory3080 Před 4 lety +7

      I am concerned about this generation of the largest population in Western History to be single, never married and without children, from mid to late thirties into their 50's. I am sure there are multiple factors, but come on people. Do you want your child to be graduating when you are 60 and 65 years of age, IF you are still fertile enough to conceive a child. (BTW peak fertility for a female is age 24). Or do you want to be living a lifestyle of sexual immorality, "hooking up," or porn addiction, because you are at your peak of sexual vigor but do not have a spouse to enjoy sex with in covenant? Is that God's will? Maybe if you are still single at this age you need to examine yourself instead of just "waiting on God." You cannot just sit back and say, "God bring me the perfect mate." You have to prepare yourself, spiritually, physically, emotionally, financially. And you have to make your self available, use your brain to evaluate carefully the prospects, be guided by logic with a long-term orientation, not guided by lust and desperation, and go out and DO practical things to meet people. It is just like any other area of faith that we are believing God for. We must ask, SEEK and KNOCK. If you want to own a home or secure the best job of your career, you prepare for it and take logical, practical action steps. And God blesses that! Here's another hypothesis, For thousands of years parents have been helping facilitate and oversee their children finding spouses. In modern times with rampant promiscuity, divorce ridden families, and the media's promulgation of sexual immorality, the match makers are no longer a priority. I'm proposing that this is where the church leadership steps in and helps young people find their spouses, while they are STILL young. I'm not implying any control based system. Just a church leadership who can help oversee possible connections with a heart for the single young adults. The alternative is online dating sites.

  • @lizziesjournal6194
    @lizziesjournal6194 Před 4 lety +17

    Im crying really, because all relationship i had all failed..im 34 and getting too tired of opening my heart again. But its my dream to have a beautiful and complete family one day..Decided to trust all of those dreams to our Almighty Father..I surrender and Let Him the writer of my next successful love story..🙏🙏🙏

    • @robyn905
      @robyn905 Před 3 lety

      Your beautiful! Bless you i hope God gives you your dreams :)

    • @lizziesjournal6194
      @lizziesjournal6194 Před 3 lety

      @@robyn905 Thank you, GodBless you too🙏🙏🙏

    • @armandoohio3719
      @armandoohio3719 Před 3 lety

      Hi lizzie's how are you.are you ready for meet me

    • @alishanoel6358
      @alishanoel6358 Před 3 lety

      I am thankful sister in Christ the LORD JESUS HAS ME SENDING THIS VIDEO TO THE ONES LIKE YOU SPECIFICALLY who are A BOLD STRONG COURAGEOUS WOMAN OF CHIRST !!🎀🎀
      AMEN SISTER!!!!! Amen!!!!
      TO CONFIRM AND TO EDIFY IN THE LORD JESUS PLEASE SEE AND PRAY THE GLORY OF THR LORD SHINES ON YOUR FACE FOR HIS GLORY
      HE SAYS I KNOW THR STRUGGLE HE IS HERE WITH YOU
      THE CHALLENGING TEXT WORD BROUGHT RELIEFR Isaiah 10:20-35
      czcams.com/video/EWWrts_7x3Q/video.html

    • @armandoohio3719
      @armandoohio3719 Před 3 lety

      Lizzles hola ne gustaria conocerte

  • @semrida8397
    @semrida8397 Před 4 lety +24

    I’m 24 years old. I always pray for my future husband who fears of the Lord . ( not yet found but I’m still keep praying )

  • @ivanaenoh
    @ivanaenoh Před 4 lety +157

    What I also learned: You can get married to a person that you have dated even less than one year, when you receive God's confirmation 😍❤

  • @MsBdoll87
    @MsBdoll87 Před 4 lety +139

    My favorite part was the boundaries she had in place. When she met you, she did not have to prepare, she was already prepared. That is a big deal. I will pray & ask God for wisdom concerning the boundaries I need. Thank you both for sharing your story. ❤️

    • @musicmaker1311
      @musicmaker1311 Před 4 lety +9

      MsBdoll87 yes!!!! Poor boundaries coupled with being insecure is the reason I got into toxic relationships, rejected, and left heart broken. Now I have very strict boundaries bcz I love myself. Never will I put anyone or anything before God or allow ANYONE to distract me from Him.

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 4 lety

      Hello! You can now download our list of Boundaries here: ronnieandmel.com/singlesguide/ And we also have a whole relationship series you can watch here (czcams.com/play/PLvZQ9qO-puzWVN1PLJJFTDCyuTuXW3q8O.html) that goes in more detail! Bless you!

  • @etherealimperfection4429
    @etherealimperfection4429 Před 3 lety +6

    Beautiful story! My parents have a unique story too. My parents are six years apart, and neither one of them dated anyone before. My mom was 26 and my dad was 32, and my dad especially grew concerned that he wouldn't find the right one. However, he trusted that God will give him the right woman and that He will make it obvious when He does. My parents were introduced to each other through connections they had with family friends. When my dad met my mom for the very first time, he KNEW that the woman he was looking at was the one God had chosen for him. As he talked to her, he was overcome by the feeling that God was telling him that this was the woman that is to be his wife. They both got along, and their first meeting was all about Jesus and nothing more. My dad fell in love with my mom, and he was sure of this relationship because he was constantly praying to the Lord and He answered but my mom wasn't all that sure. She had questions, and she wanted to be sure that this was part of God's plan for her. She also continued to pray and asked Him questions she had on her mind. When she felt like the Lord wasn't directly answering her questions, she was down. However, the miraculous part was that when she met my dad again, he mentioned things that answered all of those questions, and she didn't even ask them to my dad! It was like God answered all her questions through my dad! They continued to see each other occasionally, and they felt a connection. After just three dates, my dad proposed to my mom, but she didn't accept it although she didn't reject it either. She asked my dad if he can give her just a little bit more time to think about it and to confirm one last time with the Lord because she wanted her marriage to be one that would honor the Lord. When God confirmed it with her, she finally said yes. They are married now for 23 years, and they love and trust each other so much. I love how they have been married for so long but still sometimes look at each other like people who have just started dating. My dad became a pastor just a little after I was born. My mom and dad are seriously the best and most devout Christians I know and they confront every situation with the Lord and always ask for His guidance. They have such a pure and beautiful relationship, and the glue that his holding this all together is none other than Jesus. I will continue to pray that God will bring me a wonderful and kind husband that will love the Lord and serve Him.

    • @esterf2545
      @esterf2545 Před 3 lety

      Omg beautiful! 😭😭 Hey this sounds weird for me to ask but what was your dad feeling when he saw your mom? Like what made it distinct? I just want to understand how God was saying she was the one for him.

  • @kb9847
    @kb9847 Před 3 lety +5

    I met and married my husband in less than a year. That was close to 30 yrs together. It gets sweeter every year! ♥️

  • @user-ot9bf1pw4f
    @user-ot9bf1pw4f Před 4 lety +62

    The Lord did the same for me... He took two messed up kids living worldly, some years passed, charged out hearts and brought us together! We just celebrated out 5 year wedding anniversary, praise Jesus! Jesus bless you!!!

    • @angelamarie222
      @angelamarie222 Před 4 lety +2

      Anonymous Anonymous I believe this will be my story someday also..me seeing this video isn’t by mistake neither is me seeing your comment . God bless you 🙏🏾

    • @maurynemwende
      @maurynemwende Před 4 lety

      this can only be God

  • @elizbethmercy5326
    @elizbethmercy5326 Před 4 lety +295

    I feel like God just told me to let him write the story so I can tell it.

  • @GitteRobertson
    @GitteRobertson Před 4 lety +14

    When it comes to relationships, God knows the best. Spend more time with Him, everything else comes automatically after.
    Great story❤❤ Be blessed

  • @JarisaM
    @JarisaM Před 4 lety +17

    I am OBSESSED with this story. 😭😭😭😭 y’all took the time and steps that a lot of people do not take. I’m so proud of y’all and to say that you guys’ story is an inspiration, is an understatement. This gave me so much hope 🥺 I’m only almost 22 but sometimes it does cross my mind if marriage will ever happen for me since I see it so far away... but God is faithful 🙏🏽 his will is perfect regardless. GOD BLESS YOU GUYS!

  • @parispeony23
    @parispeony23 Před 4 lety +68

    " She likes trees, green grass and pretty stuff ... Lord, where are the trees in this city ? " 💘 too cute. Thank you for sharing this xox

    • @tcsgirl6865
      @tcsgirl6865 Před 4 lety

      What is so beautiful about him sharing this is the truth that I've discovered myself that God is IN the details! The small seemingly insignificant details...He's even there. He cares! 💕

  • @marcello256256
    @marcello256256 Před 4 lety +228

    As a man, I now realize how important my relationship with God is for my love life. I understand the importance of having a Christ centered life. I understand now that as the man, I must have a vision for my life as a Christ follower. My future wife will be looking for me to have vision. And most of all, I now believe again that God is faithful for my desire to have a wife. I just have to trust him. I’ll be honest, I was angry at god because my last relationship didn’t work. I prayed and fasted for her and The lord said. “Let her be” the more I tried on my own the more my ex girlfriend pushed me away. I now understand why. after watching this testimony video it has given me hope for my future. I as a man have to do my part with seeking the lord first with all my mind heart and soul. The video has ministered to my broken heart.
    Thank you

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 4 lety +13

      I’m sorry for what you went through brother but like our story and Gods Word, if we obey Him, He will work all things for good! Bless you brother!

    • @marcello256256
      @marcello256256 Před 4 lety +17

      Ronnie and Mel Wow! something told me to come back to this CZcams video tonight.
      *So here’s an Update*
      After watching the video, I met with two young Christian men at a park and shared your testimony (shared it in my own words lol). I focused on how you both pursued, obeyed and allowed God into every aspect of your relationship (and life of course). As a male, the theme of a Christian man having a vision for his life spoke to me. So I proposed my 2 guy friends and I spend individual prayer time with a focus on repentance and removing distractions we’ve allowed to hinder the lord from moving in our lives
      Then we discussed the importance of why a Christian man needs to have a vision for his life and the importance of living a Christ centered life regardless of our circumstances. Afterwards, we each shared our visions or at least planted the seed to start developing a long term vision. we all left encouraged to seek God to allow him to help us develop our vision and discover God’s calling for each of us. I think we are headed in the right direction.
      With that said. thank you for encouraging me and helping to reinvigorate my faith through your testimony. I got lost in my hurt for a time and allowed myself to stop being used by God. I’m now getting back focused on serving the Lord and being an positive influence to the young men in my church once again. I’ll soon be helping to lead devotionals at my boxing gym as well! Thanks again!!! 🙏🏽 😃

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 4 lety +11

      Wow!! Come on Jesus! That is amazing brother and the Lord is beyond proud of you. Excited to see what He will continue to do in your life, and the life of your friends, as you guys give yourself to Him afresh! Bless you. Man, Jesus is awesome!

    • @KateDdoty
      @KateDdoty Před 4 lety +2

      God is with you always

    • @jorgecraver6202
      @jorgecraver6202 Před 4 lety +4

      I would like to tell you, there are ladies out here seeking the Lord too, to go before them, I pray for my husband though I have not met him...Am glad to see a man putting God first..

  • @jevanicegracie771
    @jevanicegracie771 Před 4 lety +17

    When you wait on the Lord with faith in prayer, He surely doesn't disappoint 💜🙌😊

  • @alyssandramichelle4061
    @alyssandramichelle4061 Před 3 lety +1

    Oh my goodness... this was a godsend. I was randomly on CZcams and your video showed up on my homepage. I believe I am currently walking a very similar love story and have been wanting the Father to encourage my heart. Some of the things you said are things that the Father has told me.
    God bless you both and continue on from glory to glory with Him!

  • @1Butterfly404
    @1Butterfly404 Před 4 lety +127

    Forty- nine this year, never married, no kids and still waiting on the Lord, for the one He has chosen for me. 🙏🏽❤️

    • @1Butterfly404
      @1Butterfly404 Před 4 lety

      Gary Williams, I choose with the leading and promoting by God! But thank you!

    • @wp9522
      @wp9522 Před 4 lety +4

      I am same with you It's not easy to find a partner that is God fearing. Can we be friends? I like to be friends with people who can share me the words of God.

    • @stephaniej5108
      @stephaniej5108 Před 3 lety +3

      You need to fast and pray to break any strongholds!

    • @dianang6401
      @dianang6401 Před 3 lety +2

      He will send to you at the right time! Amen!!

    • @1Butterfly404
      @1Butterfly404 Před 3 lety

      Diana ng, ❤️😊

  • @rachelunkwiye9487
    @rachelunkwiye9487 Před 4 lety +162

    This is so weird that I've found this like right now 😭😭 I think this is God telling me something

    • @nicolasfarah2092
      @nicolasfarah2092 Před 4 lety

      What was He telling you?

    • @jjenkins776
      @jjenkins776 Před 3 lety +3

      I've been single for almost 6 years (no dates at all). Most people think I'm crazy, but I vowed to wait and let it be in Gods hands. Just the other day, I told my Mom that I had a feeling I would meet someone soon. Soon may be 2 more years from now, who knows...but I have that feeling that I will be meeting them soon (havent felt like that all these years at all). I know that when the time is right, it will happen. This popped up randomly and maybe it's a sign! One can hope haha. Best of luck to you :)

    • @LisaMonks444
      @LisaMonks444 Před 3 lety

      Definitely he is

    • @mikehawk2431
      @mikehawk2431 Před 3 lety

      38, single son of a pastor, just doing me

  • @dymondzonly
    @dymondzonly Před 3 lety +3

    What a testimony! I’m watching with tears streaming down my face. Praise God for his love and guidance ❤️❤️❤️ thank you so much for sharing.

  • @mayangmendoza1608
    @mayangmendoza1608 Před 4 lety +5

    It’s a same feeling here, I got nothing but a prayer. I don’t know what is God’s plan but I only trust His timing and His purpose. Thank you for sharing your story. May God continually bless you a healthy and inspiring relationship. ❤️💕🙌🙏

  • @rhoduskal-cious3243
    @rhoduskal-cious3243 Před 4 lety +346

    Nice! I can’t wait to meet my future Christian husband!

  • @sarahsmiles7016
    @sarahsmiles7016 Před 4 lety +137

    I’m 25 years old, I’ve never been in a relationship and I’ve never even kissed anyone. That’s very hard on my self esteem but I know if god wants me to be with someone it will happen

    • @Samtheman2333
      @Samtheman2333 Před 3 lety +11

      Don’t let it get you down. Don’t let it get to you. Sometimes, all it takes is a kiss for someone to lose sight of the Lord. Enjoy your time with Him, and trust His perfect plan. He’s got you and your perfect match.

    • @peace-ox9zx
      @peace-ox9zx Před 3 lety +5

      Personally..i wish I would have not rushed into things from being 'lonely' and thinking about my age as to when things should happen in comparison to the secular world. Theres so much to do in our personal lives on top of what we can do outside of our personal lives to help others. Continue working on yourself and like someone else mentioned when you least expect it you will have your own beautiful story. Pray before and after everything. God bless you

    • @loganfield8293
      @loganfield8293 Před 3 lety +3

      Sarah you haven't missed out on much to be honest with you. I recently accepted Jesus Christ into my life and heart (past 6 months) and before that my life was full of sin. Its nothing to be proud of and all the relationships I had before just seem meaningless now, because it didn't further my life in any positive manner, such as God has. Truly I say to you, the day Jesus brings two loving people together to share a common yolk between you, your spouse, and the Lord is the only day worth having an intimate relationship. Every other intimate relationship besides this will most likely just feel empty, at least it did for me. God bless.

    • @wynderodriguez5103
      @wynderodriguez5103 Před 3 lety +2

      That's what I believe too..and I'm 27..

    • @americannaaesthetic6909
      @americannaaesthetic6909 Před 3 lety +5

      Stay strong Queen. That's irrefutably worthy of admiration.

  • @bracesFTW
    @bracesFTW Před 4 lety +4

    This story is beyond touching and beautiful. I feel like I was supposed to find this video because for along time now I’ve been praying for the man Jesus has for me. It’s been hard to remain single and trust that God has someone picked out just for me but after watching this video, I want to wait until that day comes. I want to walk with Jesus and have my partner by my side doing the exact same thing. You guys are such a beautiful, inspiring couple. I really pray I get something like that one day.

  • @theempress1104
    @theempress1104 Před 3 lety +10

    Oh my gosh this made me weep. I feel God has a message for me here. And it is a miracle because it is so timely and this is what I was pondering since yesterday and then this comes up

  • @gulc04
    @gulc04 Před 4 lety +147

    God is so amazing. I honestly have no idea why your story came across my feed but I know that it is God because your story could not be more timely for the moment I am living in. Thanks for your obedience in sharing it. Know that God is using it for His glory to remind people like me that His purposes and plans are so much higher than mine and He is the ultimate Creator, writing a beautiful story with my life that I can't even imagine.

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 4 lety +5

      Amen!! So good! So glad the Lord lead you to our video so He could speak to you. He cares about you and your destiny! Bless you!

    • @theredhead1900
      @theredhead1900 Před 4 lety

      I like how you go in a few words from saying you don't now why to that the answer to that is God! Bless you

    • @lwhite474
      @lwhite474 Před 4 lety +1

      Yeah me to this video also came across my news feed very encouraging and inspiring!!

    • @karenlgoodwin7152
      @karenlgoodwin7152 Před 4 lety

      gulc04 ditto

  • @ellestinajumbe2516
    @ellestinajumbe2516 Před 4 lety +119

    I got my boys and iphone...that part😂. So beautiful listening to this. I'm so encouraged. 26 and waiting on Gods best.

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 4 lety +2

      😂😂😂 bless you sis 🖤

    • @annabelle7123
      @annabelle7123 Před 4 lety +1

      You are still young... do not get impatient and wait on God before making regrets.

    • @dg-qn5mi
      @dg-qn5mi Před 4 lety

      @@annabelle7123 absolutely 👌🏼

  • @hoodxocalum7473
    @hoodxocalum7473 Před 4 lety +8

    I'm 24 with 2 children and this story is amazing!!! I'm praying for a story like this some day💙 This is seriously awesome and I'm so happy for yall! Bless you!

  • @apgx6032
    @apgx6032 Před 4 lety +6

    Such a beautiful demonstration of the fruit from having a living relationship with the Holy Spirit.
    To many Christians think a marriage partner is what is needed to fulfil their needs.
    May all who listen to this testament be encouraged to seek first the Kingdom of God and all these things...............

  • @TheTendomag
    @TheTendomag Před 4 lety +56

    He makes everything beautiful in its time 😭😭😭😭
    This is too beautiful

  • @deborahjesusegun9705
    @deborahjesusegun9705 Před 4 lety +75

    This is really encouraging. I was so touched when Melissa said she wasn't gonna let some guy get her off track with God .
    And the fact that you didn't kiss until your wedding day is so much encouraging.

  • @ritamarak7398
    @ritamarak7398 Před 3 lety +2

    So blessed to hear your story. I'm 30 now and still in search of a Godly relationship. Am praying since the last one year persistently. But Sometimes I get dismayed.. sometimes I feel like it's so difficult to understand God's plan. Your sharing has really helped my faith in Him grow more stronger. Thank you 🙏

  • @gigibergen9818
    @gigibergen9818 Před 3 lety +2

    Please ,please,please keep telling your story to the youth.This is such a beautiful story and many preteens,teens,young adults need to hear this.

  • @nicholejordan3218
    @nicholejordan3218 Před 4 lety +75

    I have 3 teen daughters. Your story has really encouraged me to pray for their future spouses! ❤❤❤

  • @danielniffenegger7698
    @danielniffenegger7698 Před 4 lety +73

    I have high functioning Autism from before it was “cool.” As a consequence, relationships and steady, gainful employment have been impossible. It’s been a journey to trust God, yield ALL of my dreams to Him and let Him work in His way in His timing.

    • @ruiza
      @ruiza Před 4 lety +5

      Trust the lord and he will guide and lead you to his plan

    • @LoveandSymphoni
      @LoveandSymphoni Před 4 lety +3

      Fascinating, because I also have high-functioning autism, and I’m currently engaged. We share this account ‘cause we have a channel together. Our testimony thus far is similar to Ronnie & Mel’s own, in that we did not put ourselves together. I had no romantic interest in him, and God made him wait for me during our stage of friendship. The pen was completely in God’s hand. All that is to say that this is the God who spoke, and what He spoke materialized. If God says that you are this and you will have or do that, then that reality that God has declared is inevitable. Your faults and shortcomings are no match for God’s love and creative power 🙌🏾 (~Symphoni)

    • @gordonachadi2383
      @gordonachadi2383 Před 3 lety +1

      God is just amazing!

    • @aquarius7223
      @aquarius7223 Před 3 lety +2

      My oldest son Has aspergers and is 16 now... God knows I miss him and hope we reunite one day.

  • @andreycuellar1160
    @andreycuellar1160 Před 3 lety +5

    Waiting seems to be the hardest thing. But who knows, He's always got a miracle or two up His sleeve.

  • @imyangerlaaier7367
    @imyangerlaaier7367 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow! I am in tears, what a beautiful Godly centered relationship. Many young Christian couples will be touched and moved through you guys.

  • @DMRCapitalHill
    @DMRCapitalHill Před 4 lety +382

    Getting a lot of direction about my wife, she’s coming.

  • @itsjustme7169
    @itsjustme7169 Před 4 lety +63

    This may be one of the most beautiful love stories ever.

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 4 lety +1

      +It’s Just Me God writes beautiful stories! Bless you!

  • @returntotiffany4600
    @returntotiffany4600 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for sharing your story. It has touched me more deeply than I could have ever thought possible. The Lord is absolutely incredible in every single way.

  • @destinyfuentes6222
    @destinyfuentes6222 Před 3 lety +1

    I loved how focused you both were on Jesus and not the physical. This is a huge encouragement for me and you have both revived the will to let God lead. I’ve waisted too much time with guys who I thought were amazing. I was misled each time. Finally I think God bright this guy into my life and I can’t wait to see where GOD leads us.
    Thanks for the video y’all are a huge encouragement to me as I enter the next huge chapter in my life.

  • @elizgreen237
    @elizgreen237 Před 5 lety +100

    I cried, I love hearing people’s love stories lol

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 5 lety +3

      Aww! And God writes the best ones! Thanks for watching! Bless you!

    • @Love_britbrit
      @Love_britbrit Před 4 lety

      I cried too. God is so amazing

  • @tharalalnun4364
    @tharalalnun4364 Před 4 lety +81

    Ronnie and Mel,i feel that God has directed me to see this video and i feel the need to let God write this relationship from this point onwards.

  • @elianekam2013
    @elianekam2013 Před 3 lety +2

    I'm a fifteen year old girl. My mom learned me to wait for the right man. We'll see how God will write my story. Please pray for the right guy...💟Very encouraging! Thank you so much for making this video! God bless you.

  • @wendyshore6493
    @wendyshore6493 Před 3 lety +1

    I randomly came across your video tonite and it spoke deeply to my heart and my soul. The Holy Spirit is working overtime and I am very grateful for your story. Thank you both for sharing. This brought much needed light into this dark place where we are all standing.

  • @josieelectric1330
    @josieelectric1330 Před 4 lety +8

    I’ll be 48 in May. Never married. One daughter I had at 17. Five grandkids. No boyfriend for over 20 yrs. I been questioning what the heck is wrong with me. And losing hope. Then I accidentally found this video. I cried. I don’t cry easily. Thank you for encouraging this old ( but young) Granny..

  • @mariaglover4202
    @mariaglover4202 Před 4 lety +8

    😭😭😭You've made me HUNGRY to know the Lord more!! I've been in so many bad relationships. I want God's will!! His holy, healthy, Completely submitted, Fully committed will! I want to walk with him so closely that the man God has for me has to seek him first ever even come close to the door that opens my heart! Thank you for your faithfulness!!

  • @LynnBarrington
    @LynnBarrington Před 3 lety

    Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! I am over 60 years old and I have waited all this time and stayed pure. Age does not matter in the Kingdom of God. I know God has just the right man for me I believe it with all my heart and this has really, really encouraged me. Thank you so much!

  • @JustJohnice
    @JustJohnice Před 3 lety +8

    I'm not a Christian but this is beautiful...and I am trusting in GOD! You 2 are beautiful and inspiring!....I've cried allday and this put a smile on my face and in my heart!

    • @WWJD799
      @WWJD799 Před 3 lety +3

      JESUS loves you and He is calling your name, sister. Accepting Him as your LORD and Savior will be the best decision you ever make in your life. Please trust me when I tell you this. I will be praying for you!
      GOD bless you in JESUS mighty name, Jhonni! 🙏🩸✝️🕊♥️💪🙌
      Jesus said to him, "I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me."
      ~ John 14:6

    • @dg-qn5mi
      @dg-qn5mi Před 3 lety

      @@WWJD799 amen!

  • @christnastubbs1603
    @christnastubbs1603 Před 5 lety +48

    This was so beautiful. Definitely brought tears to my eyes. I'm 25 and I always pray and ask God to send me someone who has a heart for Him the same way that I do. Your story is so inspiring. It reminded me that waiting on the Lord and keeping Him at the center is the best thing that I can do in my life. Thank you for sharing this with us. ♥️😊

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 5 lety +5

      Aww sis! Thank you so much for writing this! Seriously that alone makes it all worth doing these videos! The Lord loves you so much and your heart moves Him more than you even know! And His timing AND His will are perfect for you! Bless you dear sister!

  • @caylaanders21
    @caylaanders21 Před 4 lety +183

    I usually don’t comment on anything but I feel like I should share; because I believe I was meant to watch this video. I needed to hear this, I needed clarity and I think I just got it.
    Thank you for being so faithful to the Lord and sharing your story!! Y’all are truly making a difference!

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 4 lety +2

      Amen! The Lord timing is perfect! Thanks for watching. Bless you sister!

    • @wanjagatumu7644
      @wanjagatumu7644 Před 4 lety +1

      You and me both.. This is amazing.. 💜

    • @ibenbelgrano7875
      @ibenbelgrano7875 Před 4 lety +1

      Lord plan always the best !!! GBU

  • @ClaudyGODMinistries
    @ClaudyGODMinistries Před 4 lety

    Precious! Amazing!!! Thanks for sharing. I hope this helps a bunch of people. God is faithful when we wait on Him. Love you guys😍❤️

  • @mbahchietom2222
    @mbahchietom2222 Před 4 lety +13

    There's time for everything , wait on the Lord.

  • @sofiagonzalez5304
    @sofiagonzalez5304 Před 4 lety +48

    There is no better wingman than your pastor! What a wise man! Bless you both!

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 4 lety

      Amen!! Iron sharpens iron! 💪🏼

    • @julietharris5435
      @julietharris5435 Před 4 lety

      Amen indeed i really. enjoyed. it about. being a christain. An while praying.. god will give u godly an true love. person. May God bless u always

  • @sharonfrancis3828
    @sharonfrancis3828 Před 4 lety +33

    God just wrecked my plans and I had to break off our engagement. I am thankful because the relationship was toxic and I was feeling drained. I met him at church but God knows best. This video kept on popping up and I know I was meant to watch this.
    Thank you for sharing. God bless you both.

    • @RonnieandMel
      @RonnieandMel  Před 4 lety +3

      Wow! Amen Sharon! The Lord is proud of you for following Him. You are precious to Him! Bless you 🖤

    • @sharonfrancis3828
      @sharonfrancis3828 Před 4 lety +2

      @@RonnieandMel thank you so much. God is good and He only wants what's best for us. I'm at peace with it all and I feel blessed that God stepped in when He did. I'm just going to continue working for His kingdom and see what happens next. Many thanks again. May God continue to bless you both. You're doing an amazing work and touching so many people. You reached me in Birmingham, England. It's so awesome 😁

  • @martybova1663
    @martybova1663 Před 4 lety

    this is awesome!!! this gave me the strength to keep god in the middle of my relationships!!

  • @krisk7376
    @krisk7376 Před 4 lety +1

    Im crying happy tears while watching your love story. Just beautiful and gives me hope to trust in the lord while waiting for my faith driven man. God is using both of you and your relationship to save lost souls...glory to god. I so could relate to you when you said you didnt want anyone to hinder your walk and admire you putting god first because thats where i am at right now. Thank you for sharing and pray love, abundance, happiness over your god centered relationship. Power couple saving souls and doing gods work. Halleluah!!!!