Questioning my Son
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- čas přidán 5. 04. 2024
- Kobe behaves differently when he is alone with me compared to when mom is around. Dad tries to find out why.
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Mom is the "safe" emotional place to land. Perfectly normal.
That's the dynamic of mom's nurturing presence 😊
Half of him wants to stay a baby ❤
Mom brings out the soft side..the emotional emotions that balance him out❤
Yes! Boys need moms nurturing and dads strength. Makes for a well-rounded, healthy kid!
Emotional emotions, hey?
Kobe has this worked out, he's getting the best of both worlds, on his own terms - very clever
Agreed! Very very smart!😊
Spot on! 🎯 🎯 🎯 🎯
Kobe is appealing to mom's softer, gently side❤😂. He knows which emotions and actions to express with whom
Kobe “mans up” with Dad, Dad is the Alpha Male & Leader. Mom is soft spoken. Love this family.
All children do it , it's being around Mom you can be her baby no matter the age , it's normal 😂❤😂
My mom picked me up & held me in her arms until I was too big for her to hold. I was around 21 or 22 yo when that happened. (Mom was a very strong woman)
That's sweet but even though she can't pick you up any longer you are still her baby , like I said no matter the age , you will be much older down the road and you will still be her BABY👶
When he need the mother nurturing. Kobe is bonding with mom😊 Beautiful 🌞
You know it’s serious when @DaddyMopa goes “Aaahhh! Aaahhh!”. 😆😅😅
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Exactly. I see it as him trying to adjust to what he just witnessed. But Kobe knows 'it's coming'. What? Correction.
Because mum takes baby's feelings seriously rather than laugh or call it crying and whining so he's being his vulnerable self. All ages can be sensitive and complex and be different with different people
Perfectly worded❤
Well said.
Kobe is very smart. He knows how to get his parents' attention. It's normal. I love how you called him out on it. Lol
Yes, the call-out in adult language/tone is why he’s so smart for his age. They never use baby language with Kobe.
"Don`t talk to me"....the boss gave an order, daddy best listen.
KOBE SO ADORABLE 🥰 AND CUTE 🥰 ❤❤❤❤❤❤
This Mom's translation/answer: Kobe to Mommy: I've been dealing with Mopani ALL DAY MOMMY 😭😭😂
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Different personalities for mom and dad. Kobe knows how to work them both. He is a genius.
Awww, Daddy, he still has some baby in him and that's a good thing you don't want him growing up too fast. So let him be a big boy around you and let him still exercise his right to be a baby around mommy. Just pretend you dont' see it.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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@@DaddyMopa don't make him feel guilty for being a 3 year old. It might turn into resentment
Let him receive nurturing
Exactly. It's confusing to him. That's why he said " don't talk to me" . Let him have all the mommy love he can get
Mom is more nurturing and is the love of his life
Jambo 🙌🏿 Daddy Mopani ! There is no straight answer to your question. Kobe is just a "normal" boy with a different relationship with his mama from that which he has with you and there is nothing out of the ordinary with that. It will involve as he grows 🇰🇪
Our Kobe knows the distinct personalities of his parents. I can come through the screen and hug the little handsome boy. No matter what you say Dad, Mom is his priority now. So, get over it! Is what Kobe is saying in action. Luv this family.❤❤❤
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Sandy, please ask the Pani to stop harassing our internet nephew. Kobi is complex and sensitive. If this line of questioning continues, someone may have to take away his blanket privileges on the sofa.
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😂😂😂 @ blanket privileges. Yes supported. Lol
Or restrict his alcohol consumption.
@@sharonlarose1586 🤣
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Love this family😂
He's not an adult, Daddy. He's only 3 years in this world.
Haha fair
@DaddyMopa a 3 year old is a baby. Maybe being around mommy allows him to express his inner child, which is so important. Sometimes let him be thst way around you too Daddy
Thank you. And he doesn’t need to be called names.
Awww he’s still a baby bear. 😊 I believe all children naturally respond this way to the nurturing energy of their mother. It’s called “code-switching”. 😂 And Kobe doesn’t understand why he’s being challenged about what comes naturally.
Exactly!!!!!
Exactly! Well said. 😊
😂😂 it’s ok for boys to cry but I get it. He loves his mommy in a different way and he loves you in a different way.. both of you have two different personalities and love languages ❤
Well kids knows how to switch character 😂😅😊
Normal. But you do have a point. He knows it's no nonsense with you, and mom's are more nurturing and easier.
You're both good parents! And Kobe's a great little boy. ❤
Perfectly normal 😂❤. Both my kids did it. And poor me ( mum) thought they had real issues that I should help to resolve, and sometimes even got mad at my hub for not digging in! 😊
(Quite accidentally i caught my daughter doing the switch when I went to pick her up from school. She was happily playing with her friends but immediately put on the whiney face when she saw me, and the gate assistant laughingly put a stop to that once and for all..)❤ u Kobe Family 😊😊.
Unfortunately this is normal 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Yes quite normal for that age .. 😊
Eish
This little guy😂😂😂😂
DaddyMopa, Kobe is doing his soft side with Mommy, and his hard side with you! It's the way of nature vs nurture, Kobe is not sure why, himself 😂😅but he is so cute answering you, his way! ❤🎉
Nothing Like a Mother's Love!
He will always Remember that 💓 ❤ Mommy will always give that special tender love he knows that !! Daddy somehow gets on his nerves at times so he will lean to Mommie!! Kobe is so clever! 😊❤
He’s getting what he needs. Sharing Mom and Dad is going to be a tough one
😊😊😊 OMG KOBE'S ACTIONS ARE PERFECTLY NORMAL.HE LOVES BOTH OF YOU. KOBE BONDED WITH SANDY FOR 9 MONTHS...HE HEARD HER VOICE, THE SCENT OF HER BODY ECT. KOBE'S TRYING TO DO THE SAME WITH YOU😊😊😊 GIVE HIM A LITTLE MORE TIME 😊😊 KOBE'S STILL EXPERIENCING SOME BABY WAYS. 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊🎉🎉🎉
Its the same with my 7 year old daughter. With me she is perfectly normal and fine. But soon as she sees her dad, she is whining about everything.
Glad I'm not alone.
Look how Kobe is growing he's a big boy😊...Dad the answer is he's mommy's boy❤
LOL Looks like Kobe's answer is *NOOO*
Lmao. He's so funny
Moms are (supposed to be) comforting 🤷🏾♀️
Love you guys😂💌
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All kids do that 😂
I love the way Mopani says “ah ah”😂😂😂😂😂
Kobe acts that way because Mummy males him have a baby feel of himself, while Daddy Mopa doesn't give room for such, children are natural psychologist because study parents behaviour and know what each parent takes from them..
Mom has lost some weight and looking really smooth! She's even more talkative lately. Time for you to go to sleep Kobe because daddy and mommy has some business to attend to....
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Kobi knows how to play the game already 😂😂😂😂
Stop exposing him! 😂😂😂
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That’s children for you, they knows how roll to play
1:16 SO ADORABLE ❤❤❤😊
Little boys will always act like a baby when mommy is around. ALWAYS!! 😂❤ I THINK ITS NATURAL but I understand your questioning it.
He's growing up so fast lol
He knows how to read the room, smart boy.
Moms and sons have a very unique relationship.
Don't all kids do this?? 🤣😆🤣😆
Easy, dad, easy. This is how boys roll.
Don’t lecture him.
You’re a great father and just accept that he’ll be somewhat different in different settings.
Such a handsome little fella, mom as a Nurse Iam begging you please don't let that little one around the stove when you are cooking, and Das Mom is his safe zone the one who cuddles him.
We love Daddy Mopa Sense of humor😂😂😂😂
Reason why children need both masculine and feminine sides to be able to stay balance
It’s really cute and adorable baby boy ,God bless your nice family 😊
Awe!!!! 😊❤
Boys infinity love to their mums. ❤
Wow! He has grown so much!
Blessings ❤❤❤😊
KOBE💙 WILL ALWAYS BE MOMS BABY NO MATTER WHAT AGE A'MOTHERS FIRST LOVE.😊
Could be that Mama Sandy is pregnant or soon to be pregnant? Children can tell when there's another baby being born, he wants to stay Mama's baby, but he's might be getting a sibling. That's the reason Mopani, right Sandy? ❤🙏🏾😂
Interesting perspective, and probably true.
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@@DaddyMopa 🤣🤣Uh huh, get ready🤣🤣🤣
He is so smart
Daddy mopa, you're throwing big words at little Kobe 😊 he doesn't understand maybe
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THE BEST!
That’s so sweet
Nice 1 pop.
At least he knows he won't get away with things with you.
Kobe you're so handsome 😊❤
Handsome fella
Its natural. Boys adore mommy. She is the first woman in his life. If she is a good and loving woman, wife and mother, is what he will look for when choosing a wife when he's a man, although as a child, he's too young to recognize the connection. Same with girls. They adore daddy. He is the first man in her life, and if he is also a good and loving man, husband and father, is what she will look for when choosing a husband when she's a woman, although as a child, she's to young to recognize the connection.
Best comment on here 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
You are so funny! I love the dad questions. Mother Sonia Nicole's Twin is the Philippina Sheila Bella, who owns her own beauty salon. No one else! Smooches.
Say it's the best of both worlds 🥰
"NO!!"
#RunKobe💞
He ran like he was on Maury Povich show 😂😂😂😂
I wonder about the same when my daughter is with her Dad lol
That's how boys and even some of us big men when we r around our mothers 😂😂😂
It's a maternal thing you wouldn't understand mopani😅
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Please don't fordert how old he is. To show his feelings so differently is nature❤
Balance ❤
Spend MORE time with him.
Aww! Mommy is his comfort zone, dad. 😊
When mummy is around there's grace but when daddy is there he's gotta man up. The things he'll get away with by mummy, he won't get with by daddy......... it's better with daddy though so he'll know to man up. Boys can cry, yes, but they have a major role to play in this life. .....Man up.
Koby wanted to be a dinosaur when you were talking to him a ignoranase lol he switches like a light switch he is happy to vibe and have one on one conversation with mum happy to cook ect and then when he gets you both together I'm sure it varies from being home and days out lovely to see him growing and he has a big character and knows what he wants enjoying life ❤❤
Ignoramus*
Kobi is growing up he's getting taller. That's what kids do, moms are for emotional support!
Your argument was indeed Justified towards the end of the video @DaddyMopa 😂😂😂. It's normal for a lot of children to do this, maybe it has to do with them being drawn to the nurturing nature of mom.
Mopa in the Q&A video you said that your dad wasn’t around a lot because he was working….when your dad was at home, who did you go to for nurturing support? Mom or dad?
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He's still a baby and will always be his mamma's baby.
Maybe he's sleepy. I agree with dad.
lol. Hmm nip it in the bud. I’ve seen what becomes of them if they are left to it 🤣 cute kid though!! ❤
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Lol
Don’t antagonize him for his actions. He’s a 3 year old. If you continue to do this, he won’t open up to you when he gets older, for fear you will chastise him.
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Dad, You are being silly. You are trying to ostracized Kobe- Mom against Dad. Mommy is going to win every time because Mommy nurtures him. Frankly, Kobe has to man up around you because you are naughty - talking down to him- calling him a baby. Kobe can be his loving self with Mommy. Please watch how you speak to children. They will remember how you make them feel. Please watch how you speak to children in front of their Mkther because your wife will remember that too.
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All kids are like this I think.
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He IS a baby. Allow him to be one while he is one. There will be plenty of time to be an adult. If babies (tots) aren't allow to be or a baby when they're babies, they will be one when they're are in their 40s! We've seen this--it isn't pretty. lol