How To Navigate A Changing World (in 2024)
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- Today we tackle some tough topics under the heading of "I'm unsure about..." which all started with my new high top sneakers, and a deep uncertainty about how to wear them inline with the latest trends. If you're not interested in fashion, use the time stamps below to skip ahead!
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15:11 I'm unsure about... a question that deserves mercy
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Dawn looks great in that pink, much more her tone than the black
Yesssss! Black looks ok but I find it depressing to look at when Dawn is so uplifting.
I’m saying this with kindness, because I’m 45: the problem is when middle-aged mothers make choices based on what’s “on trend”. That’s not our game, that’s a teenager and early 20’s game. There is so much freedom in being out of that age group and wearing what looks good on us, regardless of what’s “trendy” to the kids.
Exactly what I posted😂
I am baffled by people who manage to follow fashion in their 30's 40's 50's......I wear what I like wearing. Yes I want my hair to look nice but I dont need or have interest in what Im supposed to be wearing.
@@lifewithboys8023 Same - I wear what I want, regardless of “trends”. Because I’ve never followed trends, I have never looked trendy or off-trend. I just look... non-descript in my clothing. AKA “classic”, since what I wear today is what people could have worn 50 years ago or will wear 50 years from now. I love Diana ❤ but in this realm, I’m 110% Dawn!
You can wear whatever you want & no one's opinions matter but what you like.
Sweetie, I am an older woman who doesn't have a clue how to wear sneakers, but one thing I know for sure, the Holy Spirit uses you girls to shine His light. I was so blessed by what you just shared, Diana. Take it from me, you both are beautiful in all ways. Don't worry too much about what you wear.
You dress how you feel beautiful and you stop caring what other people think. Confidence is what is attractive.
Homeschool or don’t homeschool, retire or don’t retire, life ruined or not ruined- He cares more about what’s IN YOUR HEART. Having the right heart attitude is essential❤
I’ve said to my husband several times that I just don’t understand fashion anymore 😂 And I also now understand why when I was a teenager and saw moms who were stuck in the 80’s hairstyle/fashion… if you find a style you understand and feel good in you stick with it for better or worse! 😆 I get it now! ❤
I heard in an interview that phrase, I dont want to ruin Gods plan and their response was, You aren't that powerful!!! Wow! Praying that can encourage and set some people free!!!! I have been in a long season of being single and I still dont know what the Lord's plan for me in this is, at age 50? But im so thankful that I am finally free from living in the mindset, I'll be happy when... I am doing today and using the gifts and talents God has given me! With peace and contentment!!! Thanks Diana and Dawn for always being the voice of truth in my life!!!! I've started offering a few people free babysitting so they can enjoy a date night . It is life giving to see and hear the gratitude in them!!! Love you both so much!!!!!
This is so beautiful… Thank you for sharing and for your kind encouragement! 💛
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All glory to God for the joy He has given you! 🙌🏼
@@nancypanasyuk8860 Amen!!!! Amen!!!! Amen!!!! 🥰
Dawn is so pretty in pink! 😊
❤ She is so cute
Diana, I am almost 55...I like to be trendy but not too fashionable. I wear "tennis shoes" with jeans and even wind pants or workout pants. I don't wear them to church but hey, they are cute and comfy. Wear what you like. Y'all are adorable.
What are wind trousers/pants?
Deciding on whether to retire should include more than financial readiness. Health is huge. While finances are important, the optimal time to retire is when you are able to enjoy your life physically, socially and emotionally.
For the retirement question, if you are going to be ok with finances and have goals and activities that you want to do but can't until retirement, Yes, retire early! I did and I am so happy! I took watercolor painting classes, I volunteer at a private school for homeless children, I help with our Homeless community by serving meals sometimes, I travel with my husband.....I love retirement!!
I retired early, too! No regrets😊. More time for those I love, Bible study, service, and hobbies, and lots less stress. Pray on it, He will guide you, dear one!
I retired too. I love to garden. play music, work on my art, write songs and be in nature on my recumbent trike. I do not have children or animals but I volunteer and am going to start monthly sleep overs with rescue dogs. I am also volunteering to help homeless and creative co-op for elderly. It’s amazing how much joy this brings.
Agree, no tucking…..no ripped jeans ever. Lol
I'm 62, retired and living my best life ever. I'm single and I wear what I want, when I want and don't worry what anybody thinks and I'm 5' 2" also. It's God and I against the world and enjoying it. I often think, especially myself, that we think it's prideful for us to pray for something for ourselves. I struggle so much with this.
I agree people spend too much time on clothing! I completely agree ripped jeans are just unacceptable at anytime any where at any price 😂😂😂
Dawn. LOVE the pink top. Looks great on you.
RETIREMENT. if you have plans to fill your time, retire. I was forced to retire to be a care taker to dad. After almost two years he passed. Now I’m struggling to fill my days.
I just thought while listening to you.., I had to figure out who/what I am after having an empty nest a few years ago and now I’m going to retire soon (I hope) so I’ve been hoping I don’t go through all the emotions again. So my thought… I can be ‘Available’. I can see where God needs me and be available.
I like your shoes Diana! 40s doesn't prohibit you from any outfit choices in my opinion.
Yes!! Thank you! 💛👏
#replay - with being involved with adult children’s lives … I have found good relationship with my daughter to first think about how my parent inserted herself into my life and how that made me feel. Then make yourself available but don’t advise unless asked. Definitely don’t criticize any of their choices. Be sure to compliment good choices or parenting skills without adding the “but” that destroys any good thing you started to say. Ask, without prying, to be interested in their interests and activities. Be positive in all!
I have a very wise older friend who once told me that putting “but” in a sentence effectively cancels out whatever you said before! I try to remember that and will often use “and” instead if I am commenting on something. 😊
Im 4'10", 38 yes old, and I definitely struggle with dressing! I've just recently decided that I'm done with pants. I've switched to cute cotton dresses and I feel so cute and so much more comfortable :)
I love the sneakers! Wear them everywhere everyday in every way!
I’m so glad you said subscribe because I thought I already was but when you said that I looked and I wasn’t! I really love worshipping with you and Dawn too when she joins you ❤. Thank you 🙏🏻
Okay, now I can comment! Ladies you are adorable; love those sneakers. Are you wearing socks? I understand they are back in style. Now about second degrees … I got a second degree, a BSN, Nursing, passed the licensing exam first time and commenced an 11 year acute care nursing career. (After a bachelor’s in English, post high school, and SAHM once children arrived.). I started my hospital job, nights, at 59 and worked until 70. An entire privilege. Do it!
Thank you for those of you, who have commented on retirement- I think that was my comment. Thank you to Dawn and Dayna, I’ve asked God for some guidance. I know that if I retire early I will have less money but there is so much else going on in my life which is pulling in different directions. I need to make a decision on what I can and can’t do. However, currently I’m struggling because doing that means letting someone down.
There is a third option to consider: retire from your current job and take a part-time job to supplement your finances a bit. I think when I retire I will try to get a part time job at a resort or summer camp or maybe board dogs or something like that just to keep some money coming in without the responsibilities of full time work
i’ll take my turn at doling out the advice. You mentioned there are activities and interests that just pour back into you, they re-energize you. That is a clear sign that you are serving, using one of your spiritual gifts.
Ladies, you're bringing me to tears. Thank you for your kind words and wisdom.Sending you hugs and love.Thank you so much ❤❤
What hit me the most was I'm unsure about whether I ruined God's plan for my life by making poor choices in my past. That really hit home with me because I have made really bad choices, especially in my 20s, mostly when it came to guys. I have always wondered oh did God have someone else better for me than what I chose.
A Year ago I committed to write a Bible study on how to pray the Bible for a summer ladies study. And then yikes! I was faced with the deadline and having to come up with content! So each day I came to the Lord offering my little loaves and fishes, my little sack lunch. And I asked God to multiply what I was offering. And he did! Many ladies were blessed by the result! And I was amazed at what God did! He is able to do above and beyond all we can imagine!
I think it was me that said that trainers/sneakers aren’t shoes. It could be just a British thing.
Thank you for mentioning my comment about being single & childless, as it’s so hard to fit in when other people my age are married or in relationships & also have children & grandchildren. I never know what to talk to them about.
I find it’s been best to search for single, childless new friends - much more in common. My friends with kids don’t have time for me anyway and some friendships are for a season and it’s okay to let them go if they don’t serve you.
Diana, wear are the hightops or whatever you want. We know that Dawn is very sweet but she also cares less about fashion than you do. I am older than you and I wear high tops and whatever I feel like. Not that I dress crazy but I don’t let age slow me down with my clothes. Besides what is “too young” for people is changing all the time. I think you’re very pretty and fashionable and I find you inspiring.
Love the story of the good thief. One of my favorite that teaches us there is always a way to Jesus.
I loved Dawn’s story of God speaking wisdom to her in various forms in one week to answer a specific question. I’ve had similar experiences, and I loved that you affirmed this can happen to anyone:)
Diana, the jeans you showed with the high tops on yourself were GrEaT!!! The fold at the bottom of the jeans with the high tops works SO well…love it. Wear it please 😊 Love you both
Trainers in the UK. 🙂 all these different names lol. Natalie Bennett recently shared on her CZcams channel that she finally gave herself permission to buy a style of shoe she had always been told weren't "right" for her. Why not? Love you ladies 😊
Diana.. watch back this when you talk about preparin the Bible study.. your face became radient ! that IS when you come alive. Both of your are very encouraging. You remind me of my mom and aunt (twins). Thank you.
And he was in such horrible pain while he is making that request ! Thanks for this video.
😂I fell off the fashion train once I hit my fifties! The “I don’t care what others think” attitude definitely amps up. I wear what’s 1. Comfortable and 2. Clothing to cover up body weak points. (Have you seen the SNL on clothing?? “Pants, for the legs…” 😂😂
I was never on the trend train.
I absolutely love videos with both of you in it!! Always makes me smile! ❤😊
We called the tenny runners too!
My mother in law is 4'11 in Height. She shops for her jeans for the year every Summer when Capri pants hit the stores. They are the perfect length for her as jeans, not to long or to short! She does buy petite from time to time but the capri's length hit her at the perfect length that she doesn't have to get hemming done.
I wore my first and last pair of torn jeans about 30 years ago. We were living in a rural area and I had walked the dogs on the trails. When I came in I sat down to take off my boots, and a bee had managed to get into the hole in my jeans and sting me just above my knee. Never again.
I am 5' 4", and I definitely don't tuck my shirt in. Never have pre-kids and definitely not after kids.
All I could think about as you were showing your shoes is, “Did Dawn get a new faucet?!” lol
Same! LOL I was thinking "I think I missed a video!"
A practical shoe -great for big days, kids days, relaxing days at the park. More useful than whatever it’s called. Being short too I watch my colour contrast, like not a white shoe with a dark leg. Proportion and fit. Not great at it but what I look for. You have the choices, just busy and it’s at the back atm.
This is beautiful! Thank you Diana. I really liked the discussion on the thieves being crucified. That really shows that it is never too late to repent and have a change of heart. I also really related to what Dawn said about prayer. We can all find answers - no matter who we are. This video was such a nice way to end my day. I love that you both are so down to earth. You both are always encouraging and I just really needed this message tonight as I seek answers to my own prayers. Thank you.
You look adorable. Maybe a tee with a very lightweight cardigan with your jeans and high tops?
Maybe a half tuck on the shirts?
If you’re comfortable in your clothes, that’s what matters. You wear tennis shoes or other shoes on your feet. You have them on your feet. You are successful.
In the Southeast, we say 'shoes' and not 'sneakers.' I'm too short for hightops. I think it would be fun if you and Dawn switched clothes for a video. :) You have your own style and she has hers. But I think it would be neat to see you two switch.
My mom said tenni-runners” too!!!
I just watched “the little poet” and she was so interesting talking about all these decisions…..awesome!!! As we get older and how we feel about the aging process. Thank you for sharing this. Glad to know even at 70 we feel like this.
My fashion requirements...I like it, it makes me feel good / happy,, it's comfortable then I wear it. Makes my life easier. 🙂 PS - Nobody really cares or remembers what other people wear,
True!
When my 3children were school-age in 2004
I volunteered for the local credit union.
Volunteering that I could do during school time , see them into school then go 2 days a week for a few hours
…be home in time for them.
I loved it🎉.
Growing up in the south, we called sneakers tennis shoes, and once my husband and I married he grew up in the north, and they all called shoes sneakers. So hopefully that helps. And I’m almost 40 and struggle with putting outfits together… so you’re not alone. :)
Just wear what you feel comfortable in Diana. You do look cute in all your outfits!
God gave me the wisdom that I needed when I needed it!
Retirement, make sure you have a purpose. People that retire early, that don't have an active lifestyle, tend to isolate and die early. 😥
I recently retired and I see myself as isolated. Thank you for sharing!
Nope, retired early and don’t have an active lifestyle. I read a lot, putter around the house, enjoy visiting with close friends. I’m an introvert and totally enjoying slow living. Retirement is everything it is supposed to be except Hubby has health issues so we don’t travel as much as we expected but other than that slow living is the way to go.
You have alot of nerve with that comment- you know nothing about anything!!
@@peggypeters6676 This is a known fact and anyone in the mental health community and geriatric care will confirm this.
That’s why The Villages, FL is so popular and people are flocking here in droves. Lol. 3500 clubs and 115 Recreation Centers with pools and 800+ holes of golf. So much to do here, plus a college enrichment center where you can keep learning till you transition into your “next life!” It’s AMAZING!!
Thank you! I needed this reminder about asking for wisdom for each season of life.
Grandmoms and teens? Shopping and food. Two things granddaughters Love to do. The more time they spend with you doing what they love with you they will eventually open up and bond with you.
Wear what you like...
at any age.
I'm 65 this year I am ordering my 2nd pair of JUDY BLUES!
LOVE LOVE!!
Majorly comfy.
I don't want to fit in a mold❤
You hit the gas pedal transitioning from shoes to today’s great message. I had to pause to run to get my prayer journal to take notes and could barely see thru my tears as I wrote down those three points. Yes and amen to all three. Ill be praying and meditating on those verses shared ( gotta love James) all week. Thank you❤
Awe, this means so much… thank you for taking time to share Caroline! Love and blessings 💛
Diana, I lost my dad unexpectedly about a month ago. I prayed at his bedside for a week. The whole experience was tramatic. I feel angry and let down by God. I know I shouldn't. I feel guilty for feeling this way. I haven't wanted to go to church. Please help with some direction if you would.
I’m so sorry for your loss and pain. Of course it was traumatic for you! God doesn’t always do what we want Him to do, does He? And a lot of times we don’t know why. Grief and loss can make us angry with God, but God loves us and is ok with our anger, He can handle it. I’m not Diana, but I think it would be good to just talk to God about how you are feeling, even cry and yell if you want! Grieving can be hard work and very tiring and sad. Somehow, after a long time, things start looking a little better. We never get over our loss, but it doesn’t consume us as much. If we let ourselves feel the sadness and don’t think we “have to be strong”, it helps us move through the grieving process and not get stuck. Again, I’m so sorry for your loss. I will pray for you.
Diana, the blouse looks really nice on you.
Amen thank you for the reminder of tell the enemy to silent
I’ve NEVER called those shoes sneakers! I call them tennis shoes! And hey, if they are worn on your feet, they are shoes!😊
about advice ... "when you get older, you just dole it out" ..... sooo true!!! LOL It just falls out of my mouth!!!
Wow. From the styles dilemma to everything else, I’ve been there. I’m older and found Dawn. While she was young and a minimalist, something told me to watch and I would learn how to declutter. From Dawn to Cas and Dana and now Dianna, I have been enlightened in so many ways. I’m very much Catholic and we aren’t Bible centered so much so today was most helpful. It reminded me how to ask. I also started ages ago and found Flylady and have learned how to understand the Bible from her also. It was God leading me to all these sites. Is everything 100%, no, never will be because life interferes but what a Godsend. Thank you girls.
I love Flylady! So glad I found her system and I really enjoy listening to her too. She's a Godly woman for sure.
Diana! I'm right there with you about fashion! I just want to have fun, stay a bit up with what's in, and feel good about my body. My sister also has the ability with one comment to make me second guess everything I care about in relation to my style😂
Lying here as a 76 yr old in rehab with fractured vertebrae I wonder what He has for me in the time left. I too love to study the Word. My Bible study had to be postponed. And added layer of loss. Give me all those gifts especially joy and patience.
Yes. I pray when I go to work be with me give me wisdom. I see it and I'm so thankful for the simplistic wisdom.
My husband is the fashionable one in our relationship. I’m an easy going comfy type of homeschool mama 😂😂 he picks things out for me to try that I would not otherwise choose and it helps me a lot. 😅
Moms don’t wear them. What…I am a grandma and wear jeans almost everyday.
I think she meant this style of Jeans is more popular with the kids… but I’m with you! Jeans are a staple 👍💛
The thief on the cross talking to Jesus so intimately brought me to tears.
In Australia, we call them Skate Shoes!
I turn 40 this year. If I am wearing something that is comfortable and fits me well, I wear it. Fashion is what you like. Anything goes. Have you people watched lately?! Have fun in your own creativity, just like everyone else! Ps, you are both fabulous. Thanks for keeping conversations real!
I love that your and Dawn’s videos always make me feel like I’m catching up with friends ☺️
4:58 My three siblings are all married with three kids each, and here I am over here. ☹😭
Bloom where you are planted.
I'm 68 childless, and glad for it.
Count your blessings.
Fitting in is so hard in every time in life. I’m 68 and have physical limitations that keep me from joining in some of the activities with my friends. Makes me feel left out at times. I’ve been told this retirement time is supposed to be when I have the time to do what I want to but the physical won’t keep up with the activities.
You two are truth and grace- you know who you are. I love and appreciate you both.
Subscribed 5'2" the struggle is real!!
I just love how human you both are together!
Thank you Diana, so much of what you said resonated with me today. May God bless you abundantly ❤
I like the shoes WAAAY better with your current jeans than the leggings. I'm 5'3, am 66 yrs old, size 14 and a very short waist. I wear wide leg jeans and feel I look just fine in them. We are our own worst critics and you have each other to re- enforce your negative opinions. You look amazing-wear what you like.
You both bring me comfort threw Gods word. Thank you❤️
I love this! Needed the great reminder, thank you Diana!
Hey YOU! I was just watching your new library tour 😍😍😍 Ah-mazing!!!
@@DianaKokku it's a total God thing! I wish I could share all the details on the internet, but maybe I'll have to text you them! Hope all the baby snuggles are sweet and praying blessings over you!
Diana, you are just a passionate person! In a way, when you get excited about the Bible, you're "ranting" at us in the positive. Keep ranting! Just do it well ❤
Just do what makes you happy! Life is short and I think if God’s okay with it and I’m okay with it that’s all that matters ❤
For the question about retiring, only if you have your home paid off and a nice sized nest egg. Then you can enjoy your time doing and going wherever you wish. Don’t retire in the winter where it’s cold snowy weather.
If you have a commute in a snowy, icy rural area, retiring in December can be great. My sister did that and enjoyed every bad weather day that she didn’t have to drive. I’ve been retired many years now and I’m still so thankful on those miserable days where I don’t have to head out on the roads.
I love your story about meeting your husband!!! As I have been praying for years for my husband. ❤in my singleness alone times. 🙏
Thx💯! Wear what u like don't fret about trends😉.
Diana, wear whatever makes you feel good for the day. I an almost 72, 11 years older than my husband of 38 years and I dress so much younger than him but he loves it! Always have been the youngest weird child in my family. So start moving toward what makes you feel alive and you'll feel better. As for the sneakers if they were converse brand they'd be "high tops" in Michigan where I live. Don't wear them like a mom tho...don't tie all the way to top. I would say leave a couple top grommets open then tie 'em up. I have a pair of Van's that I took laces out of completely, soo comfy that way. Love you both!!
14:05 I've been praying for YEARS for healing and wisdom to know what to do to fix it because I KNOW he can heal, he just isn't and I haven't got any answers. I guess you say that's my fault then.
Diana I am loving that shirt! So pretty for spring. I too, am struggling with dressing for my age (almost 50!) but still fun and unfrumped.
Unfrumped!! Y E S 😆
Last summer in the UK, long dresses and sneakers were worn a lot. ( well I did, was it fashionable? I don’t care). All in one suits are popular but yuk! I’d look like a telly tubby. You both look beautiful anyway x
Diana and Dawn! This is so good. All of it. 👍🏼 spot on with everything. 👏🏻
Thank you for this post! I needed this today!!!!
I only watched parts of this, but especially was blessed by the mini-sermon about the thief on the cross. I need that encouragement.
I love you two. You make laugh and inspire me with the topics you discuss. ❤️
Also, really needed the message at the end of the video today--thank you.
Wow, I needed this today . Thank you !!!!
AMEN! Thanks... now off for a walk to ponder!
I’m 28 years old and with three kids and I don’t know how to dress either. Postpartum body and I trying to gain confidence in new body.