Trying to push through... | Coffee, Abby's nursery tour, skincare... | The Abbika Series
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- čas přidán 30. 09. 2023
- Hey guys!
It's difficult managing SO many things but I feel like I found my rhythm. I have hard days and I have great days, it's all about finding the light through it all.
I love you
Xx
Abby's Nursery
@littlebirdindia Crib, Nursing chair footstool, and diaper station
@mamandpeaches Wallpaper
@Ikea Floor Lamp & Wardrobe
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It’s anxiety darlin. It’s a trauma response from massive life changes. When that happens, take deep breaths for a minute or so and that’ll bring u instant calmness. If it doesn’t help, seek help to manage the anxiety. It gets better. There’s so much you’re doing and so much has happened. Life as you knew it or had imagined it has changed so it takes time to adjust. When people go, let them coz they’re not a part of your evolution ❤️🧿 and be kind to yourself always
It's true. The breathing helps.
It's definitely the beginning of anxiety, been suffering the same from 8 months. Anxiety is very debilitating 😢.
It is really good to hear that veronica stands by always. The friendship is gem and let it stays forever in this not so sure world❤
Its unbelievable how much you're going through/have gone through. I hope it will get super easy for you soon.
I feel it sometimes that she is depressed these are the signs of mild depression .it all started after her divorce news from akhil then abby happened she is under continuous depression
Also, I've learnt from Malvika Ma'am how to speak about your problems in actual detail, how one should share even the tad bit to the another person that helps to just let it out from you. MAMMA TAUGHT ME 💅🏻✨
I don't know who feels this but trust me you are more like our girl now than anytime before I mean the way u bring out your true emotions feels like your so real and I always have very honest love towards you and your baby she is the cutest I feel like. Some dialogues of urs just stay in my mind like forever like "my priority is my body cz I feel good when I look better" . this is what everyone feels and no one accepts. The way u address ur self love and your baby is next level I must say.I hope you heel completely MALS😘
The way you caressing ur arms in starting of the video , shows the strength in you❤
Hey malvika .. pls pls pls show Abby more often in videos ... she is way too cute ❤
Hey
I’m here in this similar kind of situation, being a new mom I can’t feel myself anymore.
It’s seems like never ending process,hugs!!
Take care
Feels like keep listening n watching u❤ u have grown as a whole complete new person who is so so admirable
You’ve been through a lot girl.. be easy on yourself ok 🤍 our mind likes to mess with us. You’re doing so well and we’re all rooting for you!
It's been so many years and honestly I literally come here to listen her complain and rant. I LOVE WHATEVER THUS WOMAN DOES. 🫀🤍
More power to you mama. You are an inspiration.
Hats off to you for trying to be brave and giving best. Also, your mom + Veronica are the best as they are sticking around you in your tough time ❤
Hi Malvika, just wanted to drop in this note to comfort a bit. I have a 5 month old, pretty close to Abby and man postpartum is difficult! I am going through exactly the same. Literally questioning everything, its as if there's criss cross happening in my mind 😀. Its just everywhere and i get stressed about why it has to happen now when i have a beautiful little daughter. But after listening to you, guess its hormones since its happening to us at the same time. I do also feel i have limited people i can talk to about this or atleast very few who understand. Lots of love and best wishes.. this too shall pass.
Mals we love you sooo so much! You'll get thru it.. you are a happy person.. its just a phase.. just know your fans are proud of you and stay positive..
I don't know why but i just love your vlogs so much. Keep shining, have fun, lots of love and happiness.
You are so real..thats what I love abt yr vlogs. You are extremely lucky to gave yr mum and Veronica..they are a gosend Please invlude Abby more..she is super cute ❤❤❤
Really relate to the first 1/4th the video! Weirdly I don't feel alone listening to that bit. I guess we are all going through really hard things ❤️
You have been such brave woman through everything. Sometimes we get tired of being very strong all the time. Its best to feel everything and listen to your body. Its ok to be sad sometimes and life is always high low. I didnt feel like myself for good 6 months after having baby. I was so unhappy with how i looked physically how tired i was all the time. You are doing the best you can and you are human at the end of the day! Very proud of you 👏🥰
Keep growing Malss! ❤️🧿 Also I am very excited to see Goa Vlog 😍❤️
I can definitely relate you right now this is bcs of the anxiety trauma we got in our life bcs of some people 💪but I know we the women’s are really really strong and praying more strength for you girl ❤️
It happened to me too. I can say it’s being a mother thing, if that makes sense. We happen to think a lot, see a lot, want to do things a lot at limited time & that makes my brain not to function on any of my goals for the day.
Omg Abby Baby is so cute ♥️😘 God bless her loadz of love to her and you Malz ❤
That’s one precious precious child. What an angel ❤
Post partum depression is very common...just keep working out.....u r on the right track...❤hugs...
Sweetheart i understand what you're going through. But what mental toughness you have. Incredible!!! Even after not being and feeling 'Okay', you're taking time for yourself. And i'm so proud of you.
Give yourself some more time dear, everything will fall in the right place. I know it's cliche thing to say. But observing your personality for so long, i know you'll bounce back and shine even more than you were.
Your community is here for you baby.
Love love love you ❤❤❤
baby, i can't possibly know what you're feeling. but from whatever I could gather from how you're feeling, what came to my mind was prayer, journalling, and some good old self care:) hope you bounce back like a toy! lots of love, you are so amazing. i just wrote on my wall, coz i was feeling distracted, anxious, overwhelmed, [feelings/life/moods go up and down(with that pulse graph), and karm(which we can keep relatively constant)]. and i was journalling rn, and also distracting myself with yt, coz it feels easier than facing your feeling, ain't it 🙂. but i am gonna go back to journalling again now. losssso love. also, dil dhadakne do ke songs are really nice.
I can feel you. I go through the same stuff.
I really like you honestly the way you talk about life depression anxiety and the love of your life having a man in your life
Congratulations for 800k!! Way to go ❤
Got a notification and without even looking at it, I knew it would be from you 🙈❤️
The first half of the video is so relatable Malvika ❤ we r all in this together !!! Btw hats off to ur great post workout mama body ❤ such goals❤
all of that anxiety thingy also happens with coffee intake, mals maybe just w that!
Common your friend flew from the US for your birth don’t forget that. I know you’re having you’re moments but never forget those in your hard times.
Ur so sweet..... brave.... Fighting spirit
❤❤❤❤waiting for it
❤❤❤❤. Love you Malvi😊❤❤. Lots of love for you and your cute little girl😊❤ from Goa❤❤
Hi Malvika.. The rushing thing is very common in life after entering parenthood. I have been feeling that I have to go somewhere , have so many things to do ,etc since my delivery. Its just because we are working mothers.
The glasses on you are my favourite 🤩
She DELETED my comment when I posted This:
Tum sch mei patience test kr rhi ho. But ab aur nahi hota, pareshaan ho gyi hun. Itni negativity, drama. Unsubscribed!!
Tumhare in-laws thhe tumhare sath abby k birth k time pr, tumne kbhi nhi btaya ki wo hn tumhara dhyan rkhne k liye. Akele kr rhi hu, akele kr rhi hu. Arre tum khud kabhi Gayi apni friends Ke baby hone ke time pr help krane. You only know how to Demand but are never ready to Be a HELPING Hand to someone. You treat your Concerned audience like trash. Whenever they suggest you something which you had asked for in your insta Stories, you come back to the stories bashing those people's ideologies.
Pathetic
If something didn’t happen to you, it doesn’t exist for you. She is a new mother so many mothers can relate with her. It’s okay to talk about how you feel it’s not complaining.
@@Traveling191 Mam, I agree The role and the sacrifice of a mother is INCOMPARABLE But how is this possible that every single entity in her life is at fault and she is the only sati savitri
Feeling same i have suffered mentally for a long time finally i was ok and i was getting it all together but now i am physically ill always in pain hoping to get well soon
Loving your vlogs mals ❤
love you mals.!!
Babe omg m having those same jittery feelings, I've been blaming it on the weather tbh but I don't know m just fed up of the Drs & stuff n I won't go anywhere near them. Just cut down caffeine & start taking multi vitamins & one thing that's helped me is oil foot sole massage before going to bed.
Hayy malzzz....you are looking cool in the cap❤
Love you malzz❤
Malsss diii , i am the first viewer . I was waiting for this vloggg from the morning cuz what’s Sunday without mals vlog ❤
Abby is getting cuter day by day malz 🥰😘
You are my inspiration mals ❤❤❤love yaaaaa ❤🥺🥺🥺🌼
I'm in very confusing stage of my life right now..i feel the same....abigail 🧿❤
"sometimes you get up with the shittiest mood"------cant relate more on this broooo
I wish I could hug her!
Got the notification and now i am here❤
Baby nursery is so cute and she is so cute 😊
Like how bad I wanna say you really look cute.. when you were questioning about the cap 🤷♀️❤
You dancing with Abi in front of the mirror is the cutest visual ❤
I just want to know from where you brought disposable diaper changing dry sheets
19:58 - You should try the sports bras from Triumph. They're really good. 😊
I love you vlogs Malvika, the rawness and authenticity you bring, that’s kind of very rare !
She is such a bad example for kids and moom. She just took away her daughter father from her… i just don’t like malkiva . She just love herself.
I'm a new mom too. It's so difficult... Going through c section
Love your friends and mumma :) I lost my mumma 2.5 years back and then my dog, there are days which are more difficult than others, but there are days when you are stronger
😞😞😞 oh no. Hugs!
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Malavika, please read this comment
I know you will be feeling lonely in your life because you are isolated from all the world out there but one thing I can definitely say being a part of crowd will not give you happiness until or unless you are happy from inside
It seems beautiful cheerful when you are with your friends hanging out, but it is the crowd. It is the noise that you are getting or receiving.
I am 23 years old and I haven’t even seen my family. Not gone to a family trip ever. Never felt protective from my family but still one thing I have realised ,peace comes within you.
One aspect could be excessive intake of coffee, it really messes with ur mind and makes u feel uncontrollable with the thoughts and actions, it has happened with me so I want u to pls take care of that too
True. Caffeine induces anxiety.
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Now on the hindsight, did you get some perspective on what the jittery restless “do EVERYTHING” at once feeling was?? I’ve been feeling the same lately 😵💫😭😅😵💫😵💫
Hey mals can you please do a video on the baby items of products that you have been loving. The car seater, stroller etc
You look soo good in the hat 🧢 boss women you goo ❤️❤️
One needs to be lucky to be a part of a loving Joint Family. That experience is beyond explanation.❤
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Please do a video about your bodycare favs and haircare favs too
MALVIKAAA! I don’t know if you’ll read this amongst the sea of comments!!!!
BUT please take a break! Girl you’ve worked hard that you can take a break when life gets too much at once.
I work in a corporate office, mothers get 6 months maternity leave. You dint even take half of it.
Take the second half of your maternity leave now. You’re over worked and overwhelmed.
Take a break mama! We understand..
You get a Nivea deo stick in Dubai.. it's too good! Ul forget about dove
Hey, as a kid I also had a forest themed room and the animals looking at you can scare the kids. I still remember being scared of sleeping in the room so you might want to reconsider when she grows up 😇
Omg Mals the same thing you talked about has been happening with me!!! What is that? I thought it was just me!! The same same exact same thing has been happening to me! And I got all my tests done and everything's fine ughhh ( ref : 0:23)
You really look like your mum now❤❤
I really liked ur video do more these types videos❤
First here!!!
Can you make a video of Abby’s babycare routine like her food intake, lotions & oils etc or just a video of explaining that.
She won’t make until some brand sponsors it 😄
Bruh I love you
Have Brahmi regularly it helps with such symptoms.
You should buy a house save money n b wise
Everything happens for a reason malz❤. Start listening to hanuman chalisa, Spirituality will really help you there. Think of exploring new opportunities which comes along w being single mommy. Ik it's depressing but the more you accept, the more it will show positive sides of it
I had the same feeling last year like where the fuck everybody went but trust me this phase goes down eventually. You do meet new people unexpectedly sooner or later. Just don't let others know your weakness and insecurities that kinda make them have a power over you. Do yoga do meditation work on yourself take it as a new opportunity. If you were in that same "wife life" it would have been boring. god knows you're belt for more than this so embrace it
❤❤❤❤ every woman deserves a friend like Veronica and a mom like urs ❤❤❤❤ hope u be the same for them too ❤❤ I feel anxious when I see u anxious 😂😂😂😂😂
Where are all your friends from before your divorce. Your pregnancy announcement video had more than 20 people who were so happy for you!
I think they were all Akhil’s friends.
Hey Malvika ! If you havent got your Thyroid Function Tests tested recently ! You may have them checked because postpartum thyroiditis may also lead to such symptoms !! ❤
Everybody fell out of my life too suddenly. I relate hard
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Its happen in post partum take deep breathe and have a trip divert mind
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Maalvika I hear u my dear and I completely understand what u go through at times. We all hv our moments nd that is ok. It is ok to feel the way u are and best thing is to address it. I would suggest u to select ur words v wisely. Ur little one will watch ur videos. Shitty, fuck…….. it comes to us naturally I know but refrain. Just my suggestion u may not like it and that is ok. No hard feelings.
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Love the calm vibe of the nursery ❤ She resembles you so much. ❤
😢😢😢 I'm feeling the same
gIRLLLLL color your hair RED. Idk why is it so therapeutic to do it, but it is.
Don’t think that you never had a family but think a positive way that God has made you unique made you stronger than anyone else to face this situation
Don’t build up the negative thoughts because once you think of something negative you kept on asking a question, it happens with everyone, but try to think of positive way good things in your life and see how your life is different from other and better
Yeah sometimes it happens...take a break and spend sometime with Nature it will give a better
Dude you said I Dont Know so many times… happens to everyone
Where r ur brothers … your younger bro who was so dear to u