She Dropped Off Their Son and Never Came Back
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- čas přidán 15. 12. 2022
- The plaintiff says he has a troubled past of drugs and jail, but all that changed when his son was born. After a one-night stand with the defendant, she told the plaintiff she was pregnant and dropped their son off at the plaintiff’s house and never came back. Their son was born with a physical disability, and the plaintiff is suing the defendant for their son’s medical bills as well as emotional distress. The defendant claims she suffered postpartum depression after their child was born, and she believed the boy would have a better life with the plaintiff.
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She's full of excuses. That baby is Blessed to have a loving father.
Your second sentence is the main and most important point.
Facts 💯 but judge Mathis is full of 💩 if the roles were reversed he'll be cussing the man out 🤦🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️💯
Highly Blessed!
There's charity care..she doesnt want the baby due to his disability. Shes despicable she needs to keep her legs closed and stop lying.
@@peepgametv4L ya
She gave the baby to his father because of his physical disability...in my opinion!
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Exactly 💯 💯 💯 💯
Nah she did that to her first child too.
Exactly I feeling the same way she did not want to deal with the baby!!! If this was a man on the other side he be all types of bums and everything else!!
@@shebasanon4936 So true! The fact that she used not having health insurance as the excuse. There are so many free services all over, of she truly wanted help and her son she would've gotten help way before Judge Mathis!
This man has been through soooo much. His son was a blessing in disguise.
Indeed he was.
What was the disguise?
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@@decemiraj9978 i understood the OP to be pointing out that what could have been a negative situation turned into a positive life changing situation for the father. It's a very common figure of speech.
That’s right and that’s that baby. He is going to be someone great.
She is very dishonest! "I am a pharmacist" , then she proceeds to tell a story about another child not in question. Thank goodness for this sweet father. I wish him the best.
Whew she lied straight out the gate! She’s a “pharmacist “ then knowing darn well he wasn’t talking about her other child…
Yeah I was like “pharmacist.” Gorl, a tech is another realm.
Reminds me of CNAs saying they are nurses.
Yeah she is full of ish and a whole BUM! I'm glad the child has his dad
I hit rewind, because I thought I heard wrong 😅
Yeah she definitely knew she misspoke
She wants to get better to be in her child's life but not even responding to them reaching out to provide her with help. She just doesn't want to be a mother.
My sentiments exactly! She definitely doesn't want to be a mother! It's clear as day she gave the youngest to his father due to his physical disability! She may have postpartum but I doubt that's the primary factor of her deciding to give him to his dad!
She full of it bs
Or can't. Glad she was able to take her son to safety.
Some mother go though it so bad too keep baby safe she did the right thing mothers killed there kids
she did it right gave baby to the father
@@SamuelsReview ...if she can't she should quit having them. I am glad she got them to safety as well!
The plaintiff is a GENTLE SOUL, and there are not many people in the world like him
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We are here the problem is when we say hello you think we are trying to holler and you be rude!!!!!!!! I got to the point i dont speak anymore the uglyness is enough!!!! You want a Bill anyway!!!!!!!!!!!
So true
Yeah it is
Why did this lady have a whole conversation about a child that is not even the subject of this case?!?
That was so confusing!
Because she’s a narcissist, that’s why
#plainandsimple
To through JM off. She's a deadbeat
She is not a Lady
Wow
As an mother who deals with depression. Plus I’m bipolar and have anti anxiety. I have never abandoned my child. She is making excuses
She’s not. It’s her personality to be that way. He did right suing her cus she needs to help but what better place for the kid to be than with his other parent?
She did right, if a parent for any reason feels they can't properly care for a child, they should leave the child with the most suitable parent. The child always takes precedent.
She definitely making excuses. She haven't gave a dime for her child. JM had to be politically correct.
@@neisci right so many women have post partum and try to deal with with the child and end up hurting themselves and the child
Depression and post partum are different I have BPD , anxious attatchment and post partum turned into ptsd from it and if I had someone to keep my child I would . I need a break I have my moments of breaking down too and I get my breaks when needed
Respect to this father, working 2 jobs. Man I salute you
She makes it really hard to be compassionate with her. If she has money for weed then she can support her child!
I don't feel an ounce of compassion. She had a plan to drop both of those kids off and never intended to look back. Triflin...I hope the children are living full wonderful lives in spite of their disabilities.
This young lady is making excuses!!!!!
Word.
I wish I had compassion for her but I don’t. She has two kids and don’t care of them. She needs to get on birth control
That is why people need therapists and other compassionate people. Because as is being expressed in this thread, the world in general is BRUTAL.
Never too late to be a good person. It's good to see a young brother doing what he has to do for his kids.
Exact I know dudes who hustle all the drugs in the world , and won't take care of their children. They'll pay the dope man for a pack,before they pay their child support. Yeah my brother is a man @nd a man will work wherever to care of his seed. Or seeds
He seems such a good caring dad. She made the right decision.
Been doing it. Not surprising
@@neisciright decision would’ve been leave him alone and let someone who deserve him get him. If he start barking don’t ask why
@@MoneybagJimmy the same way he should have left her alone. She already had one son being taking care of by his father, what made him think it would be any different with him? Regardless of her reasons.
sounds like she doesn't want any of the children she has, if that's the case, i don't understand why she doesn't control her fertility rather than continuing to have children she doesn't want and wont be there for🤔
Exactly!
She cant control fertility !! No insurance !! Maybe a cheap Chastity Belt..
Major respect to this father. He’s a good man. May God bless him
Not at all surprised that she didn't accept the help. You could tell she's the kind of person who just wants to fall back on the excuses so she never has to take responsibility for her actions. Kudos to this brother for working hard and taking care of his child.
That’s exactly what I thought! This sounds exactly like my sister as well. She’ll come to you crying with a problem but as soon as you give her a solution that’ll take away her pity party suddenly she doesn’t want to talk about her problems anymore. It’s quite frustrating and I’ve had to distance myself from her because of it.
She was definitely being deceptive when referring to her other child knowing good and well judge was talking about their shared child.
Lmaooo I was like huhhhhh how did you mix that up girl
And I’m surprised he didn’t caught on to the fact that she said she goes to see that child every two weeks and give money
She just don’t wanna take care of that child declining phone calls smh nasty
She told the same story for both her 12 & 3 yr old - ‘I saw the dad was stable financially so I made the decision for him to live with the him because I wasn’t stable’
At least she didn't put them in foster care and Fathers are parents too.
Deadbeat mom🤔 that's jm first words when it come to the men...
@@TheSolitary1 Exactly and why is it treated as a more normal thing for a mother to raise a child alone than a father when his equally the child's parent?
@@TheSolitary1 that doesn’t negate the fact that if she thought she wasn’t stable for the first child ** & still was not 6 years later **then why allow another man the opportunity to impregnate you. She doesn’t get a pass because on actually being a parent bcs ‘dads are parents too’ - she gave enough excuses throughout this case plz don’t give her another
@@TheSolitary1 no no. She doesn’t get a pass. If this was him JM would be calling him a deadbeat. She is dodging child support while hiding behind mental illness to do so.
Sis is a whole deadbeat.
Another prime example of be careful of who you lay down with
Exactly
Thank you
So true
She says she has other issues she deals with and one of them is lying. She likes to omit information. She knows doggone well a pharmacy tech isn’t a pharmacist. Big difference! 👊🏽👊🏽
Right. She’s clinically incapable of telling the truth. 😂
She pop them 💊 at work
Yeah, like to be a, pharmacist like 6 years plus school, Fk now people with PhD will call themselves Doctors
@@geo745don a PhD is a Doctor of Philosophy, and a hard degree to earn 🤦♀️
@@geo745don they are doctors
I knew she was full of it when she dropped him off and didn't come back!!💔
Yes she is. Agreed. Abandoned 2 kids! And being deceptive lying about child support
She admitted it so boldly.
She probably just didn’t want the kid
Definitely
She didn’t because he’s disabled
Exactly what I said!!
Exactly
Facts
She doesn’t want to be a mother just say it
Exactly!!!!
But don't lay down unprotected
She's full of crap. She's abandoning babies and it has nothing to do with postpartum. She gave him that baby due to his disability and other selfish reasons.
I thought I was going to be the only one that saw through her front & lies but I'm happy people are seeing this girl for who she is! She is a Deadbeat and most definitely Full of Crap!! Abandoning that innocent child like that, then using Post Partum as her cover story for pity and to avoid accountability. Uuhhhhh.
Regardless of her reasons, she left the child with the parent that could properly care for him.
@Neisci Massingue she probably could if she wasn't busy making babies, drinking alcohol and getting high.
@@urluvizmyluv1999 whatever her reasons are, she still was sain enough to leave the child with the fit parent. Look how good he's taking care of that baby, she wouldn't do that. She did the right thing. She needs to be financially responsible for the child though. There's no excuse for that.
@@neisci 👍🏾
She just doesn't want to be a mother.
Like majority of you mfs
Not a responsible person 😮
Oftentimes abstinence is the best thing one can do to possibly avoid a situation like this.
Absolutely because she's making a bunch of damn excuses. Unbelievable. Just say you like having sex but don't wanna be a damn Mother.
That is exactly why I choose to live a celibate lifestyle.
Me it's just for disease you can't trust people
She’s sad asf. I’m suffering from anxiety , post p depression & I’ve never thought of leaving my baby. She is using it as a crutch and excuse when there’s women out here that do their best everyday while suffering!
Same with some other personal things and I have thought about it but would I do it hell no I got my baby and do it alone love seeing her face everyday she just didn't want to be a parent is all she wanted the fun of making the children not the responsibility of taking care of them db mom award goes to her
She tried to be slick saying she was a Pharmacist at first…
JM was so nice to her. If the roles were reversed he would be calling him a deadbeat and bum. The lady is literally dodging getting served by child support court.
JM was easy on her due to her postpartum depression claim. He said he doesn’t know enough about it to know if it’s legitimate or not.
Oh stfu..males are always crying about something
Pleasw, you guys are just saying whatever. Context mattersss!
@@YAHsaves777don’t matter what the man is going thru mentally…he would’ve cut into him. He should’ve let her trifling ass have it
As soon as he said he worked at burger King, I knew this man was about his business. Rose up to asst. Manager too. Best of luck to him and his son. He has a good spirit. Hopefully he gets therapy and rest for everything he has on his plate.
He’s an extremely commendable man!!
A rare breed
Yes, he is!
I wonder if that's really his son. He's a good guy.
Probably look just like him......
I thought the same thing, I do not trust this lady she appears to be a liar.
I was just about to comment this…. Smh I truly believe that is not his child!!! She had just recently had a baby what a year prior… could be the first child’s baby. She is using this man but I am extremely grateful that child has a loving responsible father.
And this gentleman is what you call a FATHER.
This guy is what gives people who are struggling in the same situation hope. All due respect to him.
He lived a tough life. I can relate. It's a cruel world but you have to keep moving forward.
💜💜💜💜💜much love and healing to you!
She saying she don’t have money yet she can buy drugs and alcohol. She knew that before she got pregnant the second time
100
She uses child support for child #1 for her drug money
Their child is blessed to have the father taking care of him. Much respect to the father.
The lady in the purple behind the defendant is NOT going for her bullshit😭😭🤣
I knew she was capping about getting help smh
She's full of ISH
Manipulative af
Alcohol makes depress worse Ma’am.
After a 1 night stand he needs to get a DNA test, it might not even be his kid
Good point!!! I was thinking they were going to do that. I definitely would have if I were him.
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Even so, the man stepped up. Because he was in Foster and knows how it feels to be abandoned and wouldn't do that to anyone else.
@@summershipula5613 ya but he didn’t abandon the child and if it’s not his child it still wouldn’t be his responsibility but I understand your point
He may not want to do that because then the child won't have a mother or father.
The dad though YOU A REAL MAN BUD KEEP IT UP YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER MY DUDE
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She just didn't want the baby.
She’s just making excuses. I suffered from post partum, and anxiety. I took my meds, and prayed my way through my dark moments. None of that matters, when you have an innocent life depending on you!!!
I'm glad you pulled through, but how are you praying for deliverance from the same God who gave you the depression?
You need meds anyways you're off you're rocker
Exactly! Same!
Same! Without meds! It took almost exactly one year for me to get right again. I personally don’t believe the ppd story either but I’m not in the medical field…🤷♀️
Yes same here with lots of prayers. There’s levels. I know I was lower on the spectrum and many go through psychosis which I didn’t thankfully. Regardless we did what we needed to do, with babies in tow and came through strong.
Notice he said “our” son and she said “my” son.
Yep! I caught that too!
So she just pops out the baby and checks out the house of the father and says "that house looks nice. My kid would be better off here. Gotta go!". She still just wants to have fun. Nothing wrong with men being more involved in the support and care of their kid. She definitely chose the right men. With this kid here, these are deadbeat traits. Avoiding child support too. Smh. Best to the father here. Hopefully he keeps moving up corporate ladder.
She doesn't seem to be having too much fun in her life.
Not a pharmacist 🤣
She doesn’t need to have any more kids.
She intends on having post-partum depression for exactly 18 years. Soon as the child turns 18, she will be magically healed.
Deadbeat Mom 💔
She doesn’t want to be a mother to her kids, ignoring assistance and not even visiting for a year…
Yeah she doesn’t want to deal with the kid
Why did she start talking about the 12-year-old when it is not his child, and he has nothing to do with it. Plus, she tried to use the example of her family disowning her because she got pregnant and it was one of the reasons for her depression, but that was the first child not this second child. I know insurance is expensive, but so is alcohol and weed. I know post- partum depression is real, but she needs to grow-up. You are having one night stand and not protecting yourself. Creating babies and then not taking care of them.
She said she ran into him at a party a year later after abandonment of their child .. no pushback no telling her off about being a deadbeat horrible mom just oh alright.. boy reverse this he would've went on a 20min tangent about how he grew up in Detroit and men left women... He should've maxed out the emotional distress
I think it's because Judge Mathis doesn't understand postpartum. I wish he would have called a recess, and read up on it. This girl is lying
Real talk
9:05 he shut the judge and her down
She ain't want no help. FOH.
Are you serious right now??
She's so selfish!
He went through more than she did and he's still responsible, calm, and accountable. She needs to take a page out of his book. She never returned to the house, support court, or judge Mathis assistance because she lacks accountability and is actually a straight up liar.
No No No. Im sorry but I'm not playing into that victim narrative with this girl.
So she begins her case talking about her Other child that the case has nothing to do with,
Two, she stated she sees the other child consistently,
But when it comes to This child, she drops him off, never to return and doesn't see him nor supports him in anyway.
Yall fall for That Post Partum excuse if yall want but I see through it.
She doesn't want that child because he's disabled and would require more responsibility.
That's why she set the father up to drop the baby off then abandoned him.
If it were vice versa and she was bringing him to court for being a deadbeat, his depression, felon history, family history, mental history etc etc would not stop people from crucifying him for being a deadbeat.
She's a deadbeat and she wrong to do that innocent child like that.
And that Update at the end only confirms it even more.
She didn't reach back out to the show for help because she doesn't need any nor want any. Smh.
Use protection or stop having sex! You can smoke trees and drink, but you need to stop having kids!! Salute to the father!!🤜🏽🤛🏽 My prayers for the Lil guy🙏🏽🙏🏽💙
A lady in my neighborhood went through this. She told them she wasn't stable to care for her baby at the time. Her mother had custody of her other 3 children. Cps took her baby once and she had to go to classes. She told them she wasn't able to care for her baby and she ended up hurting the baby and the baby died. She was dealing with mental illness. Their baby is where he needs to be. Safe in his daddy's arms. But she does need to pay.
I'm not surprised she hasn't returned the phone calls. When he said "HIS" child was disabled, tht told me everything I needed to know. Also JM realized it too. It's best she just stay out the way. I pray tht he did a DNA test because whew!! People like her u can't trust😎 Koodos to the father💪🏼👏🏻💙
I had my baby and PPD hit me hard i felt like i would never connect with my baby but i did my absolute best and worked my hardest but i never gave up on my baby. He’s almost 2 and i love my baby more than anything in the world and beyond that. She’s just a deadbeat with too many excuses to not be better. She couldn’t MATCHED his effort
JM let her off to easy..he should have went to judge judy.
God bless this man. She has a bunch of excuses. She dumped this kid on him and he needs a paternity test.
🤬I’m so pissed off after watching this episode. I can’t even write what I really want to say about her
I know ppl have their problems, but I can’t see myself just leaving my children and not being apart of their lives. In my opinion she’s making excuses.
There's nothing wrong with her she just wants to run the street and not be responsible for her children
With the 12 yr old child, she suffered from post- partum; currently, she's suffering from post-partum after birthing the 3 yr old child... seems like she lacks accountability and is incredibly self centered. Prayers for her children, they don't deserve this and I commend the plaintiff for his dedication to his son.
Sounds a lot like she trying hard to play the victim
@@marquishoward3529 right!!
Instead of dragging this woman for the deadbeat she is let’s be glad she’s not in her kids life. She gave him away because she know she ain’t worth a dime.
Yeah but no child wants to be motherless. Hope she finds the help she needs fr, never too late.
good point.
I wish the plaintiff all the success and blessings that can be given for him as father and pray that his son can improve on his disability and that it won't continue to be a hindrance from him progressing in life. Its sad and very appalling that the defendant did not accept the help from the Judge Mathis staff' that wanted to direct her to mental health resources that could help her be more involved in the child's life. As the plaintiff mentioned in the episode he stepped up and took ownership of his parental responsibilities as a father so what's stopping her as the mother of the child from doing the same. Obviously, she thinks the drugs are more important than the child. ⚖
That’s what you call a father
This is one of the worst self entitled selfish excuses for an egg donor i’ve ever seen!! Kudos to this young man and I pray that he is blessed with a better job and assistance. I hope Judge Mathis can help him with SSI and medical benefits for his son; he’s entitled
Bless his heart. And his precious son. Protect them please Lord.
She’s a liar.
Poor dad he seems so gentle and a great dad raising his child.
The plaintiff is an Amazing man. May GOD continue to Bless him and his child. I pray the mother gets all the help she needs to become a better parent.
I just had a mental break down and the only thing that kept me going was looking at my kids. They motivated me to find out where I went wrong and how to get back. I thank God for them.
You will make it just keep going you are the best and a great parent
She trifling point blank period
That sister in the 🔙 is disgusted😢😢
The mother was wrong for abandoning her son. I would sue for child support expenses and some of that child tax credit too.
That last statement says it all.
This makes me so angry!!!! When you have a child you get it together! I was hospitalized due to depression and I pushed and took care of my kids. That baby didn’t ask to be here. I was hemorrhaging in the hospital and still making sure my kids were okay. I’ve gotten 3 blood transfusions. Being a parent isn’t an OPTION!!!
mad respect to the dad for holding the child down . I hope the mom gets the help she needs.
I give you mad respect brotha!!!
Wow, Judge Mathis must have a great team if they were able to locate her and child support wasn’t able to locate her.
Right! Maybe they can help the Friend of the Court now.
The probably told her they were gonna pay her for her appearance. That’s the only reason she came
This makes me want to cry
God knew who he needed 🥰 Salute to this Dad 💪🏾💪🏾continue to Bless your child with love 💯💯
She didn’t want the help so she was lying smh 🤦🏾♀️
Some people are okay with being broken, because it gets them attention. This deadbeat mother is one of them to both of her children 😢 God bless this father and child on his medical treatments ❤
I’m a bit confused about this woman saying she can’t get medical insurance,sorry but that’s a lie,because even welfare will provide medical insurance coverage for her and the child. She is a bum who just wants to get high and negate her responsibilities of taking care of her second child.#OBP Bluesman
She’s full of it ! If you actually wanted to help, you would’ve token the FREE help, to better yourself for you, and your children. Her behavior is extremely upsetting.
When Nicole said that she drinks and smokes "trees" to treat post-partum depression I knew the show wasn't gonna hear back from her. Nicole probably gave them the wrong number. 😆
No excuse, with the 2nd child. She doesn’t want to raise her children it’s been 13 years and still only sees the first chile once every 2 weeks
She abandoned her second child because she knew he's disabled.This is a lesson for both men and women: you need to know the medical history of a person's family before having kid or kids with that person.
She did that with the first child too. She is simply a deadbeat !
I agree with you!
And don’t do drugs while pregnant
@@thhhh5641What are odds of that happening? this is from the US CDC. Thinking about having a baby? If you have a family health history that includes a birth defect, developmental disability, newborn screening disorder, or genetic condition, you might be more likely to have a baby with this condition. Learning more about your family health history before you get pregnant can give you time to address any concerns. Remember to consider the family health history of both potential parents, not just mom. Be sure to discuss any concerns with your doctor
@@bobbarker9556 I agree 👍
The judge was wayyyyy too soft with her!!
He definitely was !
Ok let’s start over 😂
Blessings for him for not letting his life effect his dignity ❤
Not to take her condition lightly....for how many times she used the word, "depression", she will be by the end of the show. She seems more comfortable using her condition as an excuse instead of a stepping stone towards getting treatment
I say kudos to her for leaving the child with the suitable parent. With that said, she needs to support the baby.
She don’t get no kudos for pulling up outside each man house and just checking for the type of house and car they have and then leave the child and never come back
No she gets no kudos. Could you imagine if a man did this. JM would be calling them a bum and everything else.
@@jamescash887 facts
Time and time again we see unfit mothers raising children they shouldn't be raising due to shame of giving the child to the other parent, for financial gain or whatever other reason. She did the right thing, she placed her child first and gave him to person who was most suitable to care for him. Look how well he's caring for that baby, she wouldn't do that. The child is in the right hands that's the most important thing.
@@neisci good for her but that doesn’t excuse her from child support. Why should that man have to support a child they both made all by himself? She is purposefully avoiding being served by child support. Men and women are equals now so she gets no excuse. Could you imagine if a man pulled the same thing? JM would be on him like flies on sh*t. Let’s not forget she already did this with another child as well. Seems to be a pattern.
She’s FOS she likely doesn’t even have postpartum depression what doctor diagnosed her. Ms Weed & Alcohol said she saw her child a YEAR later because she ran into them at the park…. She at the park chilling instead of this “getting her life together” excuse she keeps using. It’s 6 years difference between her children yet same excuse