SEA RAY RESTORATION: Fixing up my Dad's Boat Before He Dies: START TO FINISH

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  • čas přidán 3. 08. 2024
  • In this video, my dad is dying, and I am trying to restore one of his boats before he passes, a 1988 Sea Ray Sorrento S23. This was the hardest video I've ever made, and I hope you enjoy it. Huge thank you to everyone who reached out, called, messaged me, or stopped by during this time. It was the hardest thing I've experienced in life.
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    00:00 Intro
    01:15 The Beginning
    06:03 Get Dirty
    09:09 Got Wood
    11:10 Interior
    18:27 Stern Drive
    28:24 Backup Plan
    29:04 Fuel Issues
    35:00 Maiden Voyage
    36:12 The End
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Komentáře • 830

  • @jamesplihcik4574
    @jamesplihcik4574 Před 28 dny +131

    Rob, I understand as I am writing this in tears. Your mission was not in vain. It will be 19 years on the 13th that I lost my dad. I, like you, had the privilege of taking care of him during the last 30 days of his journey on this earth. You have honored your father in a wonderful way. May the good Lord take care of you and your family during this difficult time. Time heals all pain and suffering...that I know for sure.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 28 dny +19

      Thank you for your comment, I appreciate it. It was really hard but I was really lucky to have the time to do so, and I am not exaggerating; without Sarah's medical care he would have been dead within 3 days, and instead we got to spend 7 weeks with him. We looked at lot of photos, talked about a lot of things, and I shared the progress of this boat with him every night before bed. It was a lot. Time to go float, cheers!

    • @johnathanknight8906
      @johnathanknight8906 Před 18 dny +1

      ​@@ADDvanced hey Sir I want to say thank you for sharing and also I'm deeply sorry you didn't get to take him for that ride on that boat! But amazing Job on everything you did and also giving him that final ride at the end!! I'm actually in the process of redoing our childhood boat so yes sir I know the hard work you went through also seems like that boat is running better than ever you was hauling A$$!! 😁 Wish I could meet you in person Good Sir but keep making memories! Incredible

    • @adrianlivingstone8520
      @adrianlivingstone8520 Před 12 dny +2

      I first lost my wife then my dad, both to cancer, my wife passed 19/10/2017, then my dad 4 years later. My wife was my soulmate, that's a pain that has never left me, the grief is almost all consuming. I envy those whose wait thru time has allowed them to heal, I doubt that I ever will.

    • @onthegowithgreggsavage
      @onthegowithgreggsavage Před 17 hodinami

      First, let me say that your dad could not have asked for a better son !! I was drawn to this video because I had the same make it model, and then I read the title and I was glued to every minute because I lost my dad a year ago and I wish I could have gotten him on the water one more time, but he was paralyzed with dementia 3yrs The worst hell I ever seen a man go through
      And it still haunts me. I was lucky enough to give him one of the most beautiful funerals ever because he was a police officer, end the army and both came out with their honor guard and did a fantastic job.. I jokingly say that if he was alive, he would have loved it.. As I saw your dad's face, it reminded me of my father. They looked very similar and I'm good at reading faces and I could tell your father was very proud even if he wasn't feeling good on that day on the pontoon boat, he would have rather been there than any place else in the world.
      because he wanted to be there for you. You are a very good man, I'm sure i'm not alone in saying this ! Your father's in heaven, having an awesome time, No pain no sickness, no death. And you will see him again. And he will look like the man you remember from when you were a child. I'm sure you'll never sell that boat. And when your out on the water with it, and you feel something nice , It's cause he's sitting in the seat next to you. I'm from connecticut, but I wish I was in your neighborhood at the time you were working on that boat, because I would have gladly helped you. I'm saying a prayer right now for your dad.

  • @vernonjjf
    @vernonjjf Před 28 dny +77

    Dad's all over the world would feel the warmth of this video. Strongs mate.

  • @scottcreesy6084
    @scottcreesy6084 Před 27 dny +34

    I just lost my dad a few months ago. Even at 55 years old, I would always call him and keep him updated on my latest project... I still find myself going to pick up the phone and fill him in.
    Great video, sorry for your loss. Remember all the great times!

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 27 dny +5

      That hits hard. I just finished hanging new lighting in his garage, it looks so much better, and when I turned them on I wanted to show him so bad. Appreciate the comment, Scott. Stay tuned, I'm pretty far along on the yellow boat already. Cheers

  • @tomwebb766
    @tomwebb766 Před 25 dny +22

    First time on your channel. Found myself in tears by the end. You did your Daddy proud. Remember he taught you how to be a Father. And a lot of other stuff. Condolences to you and your family.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 24 dny

      Thanks for the comment, I appreciate it. If you liked this one, be sure to check out the SST project. Or the $500 CeeBee.

  • @lawnworksllc9533
    @lawnworksllc9533 Před 15 dny +11

    Dude,I understand completely,I just found out my dad has cancer in the liver and lungs incurable has less than 4 months.I have decided to take off work and I am taking him to my cabin in mountains,so me and him can have one last adventure together before he gets to bad.God bless you and your Family

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 14 dny +4

      Please contact a hospice network in your area, the people are there to help and provide you with the medical equipment you need to make them more comfortable in the final stages. It's not pretty, and it's really really hard. But it's worth it. We all die eventually; I just don't want to be in a friggin hospital under fluorescent lighting

  • @Scratchingforcash
    @Scratchingforcash Před 14 dny +11

    To all that lost your parents or parent, I did too and I miss mine so very much. I’m sure your parents are all proud of you. Well done bud. You did your daddy proud.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 12 dny +1

      Thanks man, appreciate it. I wish you could still call them.

    • @Scratchingforcash
      @Scratchingforcash Před 12 dny

      @@ADDvanced me too, I gotta tell ya. This video is pretty awesome, from your knowledge of boat repair to the love you have for your dad driving you is extremely inspiring to me and probably a lot of others. Keep up the good work, your family is proud of you.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 7 dny

      @@Scratchingforcash Thanks! We build a lot of random things, and my dad was the one who taught me a lot of skills required to do so.

  • @MrSlipstreem
    @MrSlipstreem Před 12 dny +6

    I wasn't expecting to watch a journey of love today. I wasn't expecting to cry either. Thank you so much for sharing this, and deepest sympathy to everyone who's lost a parent or two. It happens to most of us eventually, and it's a hard path to travel. Stay strong and hold on to those precious memories for the rest of your days. Love and peace from a stranger who knows what you're going through. 🥲✌

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 11 dny

      Thanks, Slipstream. You're welcome, I'm glad other people are finding this video valuable; it was tough to capture everything, communicate what I was feeling, and edit all this, but I think it helped me deal with things somehow. Cheers and get on the water

  • @markhayward3017
    @markhayward3017 Před 28 dny +24

    Dear Rob. So sorry to hear about your dad. Mine passed away 16.5 this year, he was 82. It was his funeral 5 days ago (things are pretty backed up and f****d up here in the UK). He was the greatest man I ever knew. Sat with tears in my eyes both watching and writing this. You did the greatest thing and were lucky enough to say goodbye. It would be great if you could restore 'Prime Time'. A beautiful boat. Look after yourself and keep up the fantastic vlogs.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 28 dny +4

      Hey Mark, I'm sorry for your loss as well. It's pretty hard when someone has been your best friend your whole life isn't there anymore. Prime Time is on the list, I'm half way through the yellow boat now, so stay tuned for that one. Cheers!

  • @johndandrea8034
    @johndandrea8034 Před dnem +2

    There is no doubt that your dad was with you on the water when you took the boat out...Your a good man for what you did and I am sure what you will do in the future. Sounds like you had a great teacher.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 4 hodinami +1

      Thanks John, appreciate the comment. He taught me a lot about things, miss him a lot. Cheers!

  • @glennsjobom4370
    @glennsjobom4370 Před 27 dny +9

    So very sorry for your lost, you took care of him the last time and honored him with getting the boat fixed again. Hats off for you and your wife ❤️

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 26 dny +3

      Thank you Glenn, I appreciate it. I was lucky to have time to spend with him in his last few months. He told me a lot of dirty jokes :)

  • @aguywiththreefirstnames1850

    the pain in your voice through out this video shows how much this project ment to you... sorry to hear your dad wont be able to ride his boat one last time... but he'll be there watching over you, making memories like he made with you all those years ago

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 23 dny +2

      Yeah, it was rough. Appreciate the comment, life is short.

  • @chrisbasilebuilds
    @chrisbasilebuilds Před 28 dny +11

    This hits close to home. Me and my dad used to love boating together. He got me into it. When he passed we had to sell his pride and joy boat. But I was able to keep his old cobalt ski boat. It’s been 11 years. And I love to take it out and just remember to the good times. Love your videos man. Best wishes through this terrible time.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 28 dny +3

      I grew up on this river, mainly on that gigantic SunRunner I showed in the beginning of the video, but we traveled all over the country going to boat races in the 80s and 90s. So many of his friends that visited brought their boats, idk, it's hard to separate them at this point. Glad you still have the Cobalt; take as many people out on it as you can. Cheers!

    • @DavidSmith-tu1nd
      @DavidSmith-tu1nd Před 3 dny +1

      @@chrisbasilebuilds The cobalts are great boats. Oldie but goodie. Your Dad is with you I bet when you're out on the water. Take the boat out this weekend. Fall is around the corner.

  • @bobw8290
    @bobw8290 Před 28 dny +9

    Very sorry for the loss of your father / father in law Rob and Sarah. I'm sure he is very proud of the work you both did to get his old boat running. Whether he got physically in the boat or not for the last ride, I'm sure he was with you. I lost my dad 20 yrs ago next January and I still think about him often. Prayers lifted for you and your family and work through this difficult time.

  • @leonperkins6555
    @leonperkins6555 Před 27 dny +9

    This one hit me hard.. 😢 My dad last boat was a Sea Ray just like this one, and I was fortunate to take him on his last ride before he passed. Sorry for your loss, Rob. Enjoy the memories ❤

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 27 dny

      Thanks Leon, it was so frustrating to have the weather take a turn when the boat was ready to go. I am excited and intimidated to tackle the big one I showed in the beginning; both from a mechanical and memory perspective.

    • @sharonbraselton3135
      @sharonbraselton3135 Před 22 dny

      Master cgef dad had kits of searay best boat ever had searay sundcer kugauna 17 searay jet boat

    • @sharonbraselton3135
      @sharonbraselton3135 Před 22 dny

      And searay 16 fot bowrinder.

  • @steveo7767
    @steveo7767 Před 28 dny +6

    Damn man I was just wondering why no videos in such a long time now I know. Worn the same shoes you have with my Mom passing unexpectedly totally caught off guard. Life’s crappy time to experience that loss when things are going so right. Pet or human loss…it just sucks. Live long live happy! Keep at it!!!! Love the videos. Sorry for your loss!

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 27 dny +2

      Yeah. To be honest life has been throwing me a lot of Ls lately. I have a lot of videos already done and uploaded and ready to post, but I wanted to put this one out first to help explain. More videos soon, thanks for the comment, Steve!

    • @steveo7767
      @steveo7767 Před 26 dny +1

      @@ADDvanced 👍🏻✌🏻🥃, btw on a different note my wife said Sarah had an engagement ring or wedding ring on in this video, I didn’t catch it. 👊🏻🤙🏻💪🏻things will get better!

  • @user-vr2tx4tt6b
    @user-vr2tx4tt6b Před 5 dny +2

    Sorry to hear he didn't get his last ride.
    But you are an awesome son... no question he was proud of you.
    All the best, enjoy that boat in memory of him.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 3 dny +1

      Thanks man, appreciate the comment.

  • @farmdog93
    @farmdog93 Před 28 dny +7

    My mom passed March 3rd 2023, little over a year ago. Love what your doing, and have liked the channel for a while, awesome work haus and stay strong

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 28 dny

      I'm sorry for your loss, and I appreciate your comment. Thank you and get on the water for me.

  • @RedEyedJack
    @RedEyedJack Před 28 dny +6

    My dad is in late stage alzheimer's, the long goodbye.....we spent as much time together as possible before he no longer could. He is still with us but no longer able to walk. Sorry to hear about your dad. 🙏

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 28 dny +1

      Man... I am so sorry. I went through that with my grandma, and it was the absolute worst thing I could imagine, and my greatest fear in life (getting it). I hope you get moments of clarity where you still recognize him. Good vibes, cheers!

  • @ahwayzcool4630
    @ahwayzcool4630 Před 3 dny +1

    This brought tears to my eyes. My dad passed away from cancer Dec. 22, 2002. Watching this video made me think of my younger years as a kid in the 80's when my dad had a boat and took me and my brother out on Lake Michigan for boat rides and fishing. God bless you and your family my friend.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 3 dny +1

      Thanks for the comment, man. Boating in the 80s was glorious, when the working class could actually afford cool boats. Now it's all pontoons and boring slow things that cost 60k+. Cheers and get out on the water!

    • @ahwayzcool4630
      @ahwayzcool4630 Před 3 dny

      @ADDvanced You ain't lying brotha! I want a boat myself but damn are they expensive. And I don't really care for slow boring pontoons.

  • @garrettlamb9916
    @garrettlamb9916 Před dnem +1

    I hope you keep this boat forever and every time you climb aboard, you remember why the boat is alive today! Dad has moved on to a much nicer boat!

  • @gsSGgwbUtb
    @gsSGgwbUtb Před 25 dny +5

    Rob, typically not one to comment on a CZcams video but I felt the need to say something after following along on your adventures for a few years and now seeing this. The zeal with which you approach life is a testament to the lessons your father taught you. Thinking of you.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 24 dny

      Thanks. Zeal feels a bit less lately. Need to get my groove back.

  • @jorgeperezdeprado8941
    @jorgeperezdeprado8941 Před 28 dny +7

    So sorry for your loss my brother from another mother. He's OK now, watersking and having a blast. He will always have seat waiting for ya.😢😢😢😢❤❤😇😇

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 27 dny +1

      Oh man, you should see his obituary photo, it's him waterskiing in front of the capital with a cigarette and no life jacket, I think he was 77 years old? haha

    • @jorgeperezdeprado8941
      @jorgeperezdeprado8941 Před 18 dny +1

      Tough old bird, he raised a great son and man ,his job was complete . OK dude he's not gone ,just out of sight.

  • @jordanlevitt6639
    @jordanlevitt6639 Před 28 dny +4

    Wow. What a wonderful tribute to your Dad! You know, you will have that boat as a special reminder of him. The Special Olympics athletes oath goes, " Let me win. But if I cannot win, let me be brave in the attempt" . You certainly did that! My bet is that your Dad loved and appreciated what you were doing. Take care!

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 27 dny +1

      Thanks for the support, I appreciate it. I shared updates with him every night before he went to bed, and we troubleshooted... troubleshot? a lot of things together during this build. Cheers!

  • @greyone40
    @greyone40 Před 28 dny +6

    This is a sad story, but also a very happy one. It reminds me a lot of my Dad and our life on the water. Thank you. May your Dad rest in peace.

  • @jkreach7188
    @jkreach7188 Před 10 dny +2

    Holy shit the algorithm was strong with this one. Lost my father to cancer almost 2 years ago. He was an avid recreational boater and like you, I grew up on boats. When I think about what he loved most it was family and boating. I remember him falling in the night trying to walk to the bathroom. It was brutal that last month. Absolutely horrible disease, but I am grateful we could say our goodbyes, or hopefully our see ya laters. Thanks for a good cry. I think about him everyday, but your video brought on some buried emotions. If you’re ever around the Chain O Lakes in IL, his boat is on the water and a drink is never far away. I’m lucky I get to continue to share his love of the water with my family.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 8 dny

      Thanks J, appreciate you leaving a comment and sharing your story. Cancer is bullshit, Sarah is a survivor/patient and I hate that disease. Yeah, we tried blocking the door with chairs because when he got up in the middle of the night it was sort of like he was on auto pilot, but it didn't work, he'd just tip them over and keep going. At one point he went out to get the paper and fell at the end of the driveway really early in the morning, before anyone was awake. I am not sure how long he was out there but a neighbor helped him get back to the house. Pretty shitty. I don't make it down to IL too often but I really want to go to Blarney Island for the drag races!!! Are you near that?

  • @TheCrash1987
    @TheCrash1987 Před 11 dny +2

    I’m really sorry to hear about your dad, I lost mine 8 years ago and he was my best friend. Even at 37 I want to cry daily because I miss him so much, but I still have his boat that I grew up on. The good news is it’s a solid hull and engine I plan on restoring. I never really got to say goodbye or see him before he passed because I was in the Navy, so I say it every time I’m on the water. He gave me a life and an addiction to water and boats I’ll never forget.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 9 dny

      Must have been a cool guy. Now pitter patter! Check out the rest of my channel for boat repair stuff. And car stuff. And snowmobiles. And some off grid land. idfk

  • @monoskier2112
    @monoskier2112 Před 28 dny +4

    Sorry about your dad buddy, my deepest condolences to you and your family. It’s great to have you back, we missed you up here in Canada. Take care 😎🇨🇦

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 23 dny

      Thanks for the comment, I appreciate it. Pitter Patter!

  • @johnswansey2066
    @johnswansey2066 Před 5 dny +3

    Rob - my sincere condolences. I'm a subscriber and lifelong boat fixer, and I remember well the last ride I took my Dad on. He's been gone over 40 years now. I think of him every day, and I still have the boat, restored it during the pandemic, and took my sons out for a ride. In the final analysis, the boats don't matter. It's the people we love and the time we spend with them that does. Godspeed, brother.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 3 dny

      Hey John, thanks for the comment. My mom told me once that I need to stop worrying about 'stuff' so much, but she doesn't understand that 'things' like boats and snowmobiles create such rich, vivid memories that last an entire lifetime. I miss him a lot. Cheers

  • @christopherlemons8414
    @christopherlemons8414 Před 17 dny +2

    This hit so close to home for me. I have an 87 sorrento and two winters ago my dad,grandpa, and I completely rebuilt from hull up. Super long journey but the memories of it are worth the world to me and I will hold onto them forever. Still have the boat and she runs like an absolute dream. I will never let it go because of the sentiment it holds for me. Boating is life for guys like us 👌🙏

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 16 dny

      Thank you Christopher, I appreciate your comments man. I haven't really been an open bow, family boat owner before, but the Sorrento is growing on me. It's larger than a lot of other open bows, rides nice, and is great for kids, dogs, and more people. It feels so solid in rough water, too! Nothing beats that first ride after a build.

  • @derick-smith
    @derick-smith Před 12 dny +1

    This definitely brought some full grown man tears! What a beautiful tribute to your pops, the boat and the video.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 11 dny

      Thanks Derick, life is short, pitter patter. Cheers!

  • @crstfr14
    @crstfr14 Před 4 dny +1

    This video made it's way to me somehow through the CZcams algorithm. What a great gesture to get the boat going so your Dad could see one final happy accomplishment before he passed. The final scenes and text were beautiful. RIP to your Dad.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 3 dny

      Thanks Christopher! I had the video mostly done except for the end, for almost a month. I wasn't sure how to end it, because there's a million emotions and a million things to say, so I'm glad you appreciated it! Cheers

  • @alanw.4511
    @alanw.4511 Před 11 dny +1

    I have no idea why CZcams pushed me here but I am glad it did. Great job on the boat and video. Rest in peace Dad.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 11 dny +1

      Probably the algo; looked at your vids and we are both cyclists and into snow sports, so maybe that? We are building an off grid ski chalet in the rockies; here is the 'cabin'
      czcams.com/video/K7nJFMf6xZw/video.html

  • @michaelbarrett1914
    @michaelbarrett1914 Před 4 dny +1

    I am watching your video full of emotions. Like you, water & boating was my life. It fell to the wayside 21 yrs ago when we lost our 15yr old son. My wife, daughter & I spent the last 3.5 yrs also caring for my FIL that was bedridden. He needed 24/7 care. I can't imagine restoring a boat (they are so different than cars) while trying to care for a parent in their final days. I have a 19'9" VIP fish and ski with a 5.0L Ford V8 that is probably going to need much of the same work you did on the motor and outdrive. I'm not looking forward to it at all. I do however want to get it up and running again and on the water. My soul needs this. I was happy to see you take the boat out for a ride with family and friends and send your dad's ashes into the water where he invested so much of his life to bring his family along. Your video was very touching and worth every minute of viewing time. Sarah's involvement along with providing your dad with so much care was astounding. You married a rock star too. Keep her happy for all your days, she is worth it. May you both be granted decades of joy, happiness, and blessings.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 3 dny

      Hey Micheal, appreciate you taking the time to leave such an awesome comment. I'm so sorry for your loss, I can't even imagine. I grew up on the water, and my dad and I traveled to boat races around the country throughout my childhood, so many awesome memories. Caring for someone for 3.5 years must have been exhausting, I was spent and it was about 2 months. Outdrives aren't so bad if you have a helper, and it sounds like you have a very supportive family. Cheers man!

  • @daviddickinson6346
    @daviddickinson6346 Před 7 dny +1

    Touching video, i lost my dad 3 years ago this coming August, i miss him so much. Keep the memories alive and Dad will always be there. 👍

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 7 dny

      Yeah, definitely a void. Thanks David!

  • @peterewski
    @peterewski Před 10 dny +2

    Rob you did your father proud. I lost my father 21 years ago to lung cancer and had the privilege of taking care of him the last 13 months. You seem very talented and a wonderful son and a sweet wife helping you. Good job to you both. You also did a great job on the video 🙏❤️

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 8 dny

      Thank you Peter; taking care of him was really hard but we were lucky to have freetime to do so. Appreciate the kind words, it means a lot.

  • @yunak9665
    @yunak9665 Před 26 dny +2

    So very sorry for your loss. Your father was a great man as evidenced by your love for him. May his words of wisdom guide us all.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 26 dny +1

      Thanks for the comment, I appreciates you

  • @publicdefender77
    @publicdefender77 Před 21 dnem +2

    1988 was such a memorable year for boating for me. Both Sea Ray and Four Winns going head to head, Brunswick going against OMC. So many little companies in the mix: Sunbird, Sea Sprite, Chapparal, VIP and the list goes on. I miss those days filled with 2 stroke smell on the lakes... As a kid that grew up on lake Mendota this really hit home. As a kid I had every boat memorized at every house. I passed this boat hundreds of times on my way to the Musky lounge and Christie's. This actually brought tears to my eyes as I'm in a very similar situation with my father. I'm waiting for the water levels to drop so hopefully I can get his boat on the lift. He is unable to get in it but once the water drops maybe I can find a way to get him in the boat so we can have potentially one last ride. Thanks for sharing Rob. Hugs to you and your family!

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 19 dny +1

      Which boat, Prime Time? And yeah, when the boating actually cared about the middle class, it was awesome. Same experience, I memorized where all the cool boats were, and the channel was just a constant boat show, so many Bajas, Checkmates, Hydrostreams, Chapparels, all sorts of stuff used to be fun, fast, and affordable. I've spent the last 8 years at Mercury and I felt like I was screaming into the void when I talked about performance boating becoming more attainable. Very frustrating.The yellow and black Bat Boat is still around btw! Saw him a few days ago lol. Cheers, and be sure to check out some of my sled content if you haven't, I think you'll dig it. Thanks for the comment!
      czcams.com/video/2ngOA7msP-M/video.html

    • @publicdefender77
      @publicdefender77 Před 19 dny +2

      @ADDvanced Yea, Prime Time. Awesome to hear the bat boat is still going! It's sad all the new boats are slow expensive, wake machines. Nothing like the 80s and 90s. I'm really missing the Yahara lakes. Few years ago, I moved over to the Mississippi side of the state. Great boating besides this year. I actually almost bought your yellow boat, the cee bee 😆. Glad I didn't after seeing all the overheat issues. Been a big fan of your content, including all of your sledding stuff too. Keep up the good content brother!

  • @ndpitch
    @ndpitch Před 9 dny +1

    Sorry for your loss. I’m happy you got to do this in your dad’s memory, and that he knew the boat was restored before he passed on. I’m sure that made him happy and proud.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 8 dny

      He was stoked to see the updates I shared with him every night, and helped me trouble shoot the fuel system. I should have just ordered the carb kit right away. Cheers!

  • @stephenwebber3076
    @stephenwebber3076 Před 26 dny +3

    You and your family are good people. I restored a 64 Impala as a tribute to my dad after he passed, 30 years later I still think of him when ever I drive it

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 25 dny

      That's awesome. Use it or lose it. Life is short!

  • @alanshaw4655
    @alanshaw4655 Před 27 dny +3

    watched the whole video, sorry for your loss. my dad passed away in may of 1999, we grew up on the water fishing, sooo..i know how you feel. great work on the boat, enjoy it, because that boat will always be with you and your dad.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 27 dny +1

      To be honest, I'm not even sure if I'm keeping this one. I have 7 boats. End of the day, any boat reminds me of my dad, except nasty ass pontoons, which we both despise :P

    • @alanshaw4655
      @alanshaw4655 Před 27 dny

      @@ADDvanced that big one you and your wife walked into at your yard ?, that was very nice !!. whatever you do ?..do not get rid of all of them, you will regret it for the rest of your life. your dad is gone, but the memories should always stay with you, and the boat is what keeps you and your dad close.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 19 dny +1

      Yeah, I want to get Prime Time on the water this season

  • @jimkeys7580
    @jimkeys7580 Před 27 dny +3

    Rob, thanks for sharing your Dad's story. Things don't always work out the way you plan, but all you can do is your best. My wife and I were out on the boat this afternoon. A song came on the radio "rock the boat" and I was immediately transported back in time, sitting with my Dad (passed 15yrs ago) fishing on his 14' wooden boat. Nice memories are the ones that last... Be well.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 27 dny

      You're welcome, I am glad you enjoyed it. It was pretty rough. I have definitely been playing some music my dad played on Prime Time recently. Good vibes.

  • @jimbarr4936
    @jimbarr4936 Před dnem +1

    Great video. It is amazing how boats make dads turn into kids in front of their own kids. The memories of my dad enjoying life on summer vacations and forgetting about the stress of work & family are priceless. I have based my entire life off of boating and sharing the experience with my kids. We do sports, academics, motor cycle riding, but boating & swimming in the lake is like a reset button for everyone. My 1st boat with my wife was a 16 foot sea ray with a 115 merc outboard - look like your boat but was blue. You are very handy with the tools to rebuild an outdrive.

  • @francis105G
    @francis105G Před dnem +1

    What an Amazing Labor of Love! My deepest Condolences to you and your family as your Father went on his last ride. Very moving story with some great life lessons. My Mother recently passed away and I always told her I was going to buy a boat but I never did. I finally just bought a nice Bowrider and I know she is with me on the sea.

  • @samhorn387
    @samhorn387 Před 25 dny +2

    What a beautiful tribute to your father, he would be proud of the new life given to the sea ray. Lost my father to cancer 2/28/2015, and felt this video in so many ways. Thanks for sharing your journey with us, I know it was not easy to relive some of those moments.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 24 dny +1

      Oddly, editing this helped me distill some of my feelings into something more tangible, but I still feel lost. Cheers.

  • @trixdropd
    @trixdropd Před 13 dny +1

    I'm already crying at the begining. I just lost my Mom in february. I know exactly what this means to you. Sorry for your eventual loss.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 11 dny

      Thanks, it sucked, but I am glad I got to be here.

  • @douglasvannuys
    @douglasvannuys Před 27 dny +2

    What an absolutely warm, heartfelt and proper tribute. So will done. Thank you for sharing it with us. I am so sorry for your loss, but I know your Dad is smiling down on you and the man you are. Cheers Mate!

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 27 dny +1

      Thank you for the kind words. It was an experience that was really hard, but I am glad I had. Miss him a lot. I know I'll think about him often as I keep building shitbox boats.

  • @TheBuckeye
    @TheBuckeye Před 24 dny +2

    You were a good son and he was a great Dad. I'm so sorry for your loss. I loved watching the video but it did bring me to tears.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 23 dny

      Appreciate the comment, thank you. I'm already almost done with the yellow boat.

  • @bornpompey2
    @bornpompey2 Před 8 dny +1

    First time on your Chanel, I watched with baited breath as a marine engineer form the Uk, literally willing you to get this done, so close, your Dad must be so proud to have raised such a great Son and family. Big up to you bro and your wife x

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 7 dny +1

      Thanks man, appreciate it. What segment of the marine market? I've been working as an industrial designer at Mercury Marine for the past 8 years, but currently looking for work. Check out my website www.gruvdesign.com it is still in early stages but please let me know if you know of companies that need design work. Cheers!

  • @brian_atc
    @brian_atc Před 14 dny +1

    Your wife is sweet as can be, wonderful family and your dad seemed to be quite a character. Like many others this is hard for me to watch without tears from my memories of dad. But thank you for reminding me what's important.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 12 dny

      Thanks man, everything is temporary, so make it awesome and be excellent to each other. Cheers

  • @jgott1745
    @jgott1745 Před 22 dny +1

    I’m sorry you lost your dad, but that mad dash to get his boat fixed extended your time together as I’m sure he fought to see it come back to life. And you got to have that part of him in the boat live on. Good work man, enjoy it!

  • @robertpoore7604
    @robertpoore7604 Před 8 dny +1

    Rob you are good man and son. Im sure your dad is so proud. You brought tears to my eyes. God bless you and your wife.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 7 dny

      Thank you Robert, appreciate the comment and the kind words. Updates on the yellow sea ray soon

  • @patrickmontgomery6353
    @patrickmontgomery6353 Před 21 dnem +1

    Thank you Rob and Sarah for sharing this with us. Sorry for your loss and wishing you strength during this time. Your father would have been proud of your work on that beautiful boat.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 19 dny

      Thanks for the comment, Patrick, I appreciates you. I miss him a lot.

  • @retro_grade
    @retro_grade Před 26 dny +2

    I was excited when I saw ADDVanced getting a new video up - and also sad to see that it's under these circumstances. Definitely set this one aside until this evening when I had time to watch it all the way through. What a great video while at the same time being hard to watch, as it was a real tear jerker.
    While things didn't go exactly as planned with the boat, I'm sure your dad was proud/happy to see it shined up and all the hard work you poured into it. And to me at least, it seemed like you went all out, non stop around the clock on this Sea Ray. My back, feet, knees, eyes, etc. just hurt watching you work on it day and night. Anyone watching this one can see the drive you had to get it finished. Not to mention you still took the time to film and document as much as you did while being under pressure to get the boat put back together before your dad passed - I can appreciate how much extra frustration and time that adds when you just want to keep working.
    The wood plug tip was a good one - I recently removed a transom where the PO plugged the screw heads and spent much more time digging them out with drills, chisels, and screwdrivers and cussing. (According to Andrew who is currently editing the footage, about 45 minutes of it).
    Hope to see more videos on the three boats of your dad's in the future. The SunRunner needs some work as you pointed out, but still has alot of potential and is definitely worth fixing up from all the memories you have on it.
    Sorry again for the loss of your dad Rob, and I'm glad to see this video is getting the love that it deserves (10k views and 140 comments in 1 day) 👍
    -Brock

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 26 dny +1

      Hey Brock, thanks for the comment. It's been a tough time, been taking a lot of Ls lately. I shared my progress with him pretty much every night before bed, and he helped me trouble shoot the fuel system. I really wish I had known that the carb was bad before I started. Appreciate the support, should have a video out on the yellow boat maybe this weekend, definitely the one after. Fun story, I found the original family that owned it, and they want it back. :)

  • @rocko81679
    @rocko81679 Před 28 dny +2

    Sorry for your loss. Awesome video and a great memorial to your dad.

  • @wml4928790
    @wml4928790 Před 7 dny +1

    This was the first video of yours I have seen. I'm so happy that CZcams suggested I watch it. As a 40 year old man, also from the midwest who still has his father, this video not only had me in tear at the end but also reminded me how little time we have in this world and to cherish every moment with our loved ones. I am deeply sorry for the loss of your father and I admire the time and dedication you spent on the boat in hopes of it being your father's last boat ride. Although things didn't work out as we all planned, that boat will always be special to you and your family. Cheers, my friend. I look forward going back and binge watching your other videos.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 7 dny

      Thanks Willie! Time is limited, make it memorable. Also if you're new, we do more than just boats, check out our off grid stuff too; we are putting a skoolie on some land in CO as a ski cabin, and trying to survive winters there has been challenging and gorgeous.

  • @Corinthoswarehouse
    @Corinthoswarehouse Před 26 dny +2

    Thank you so so much for this video. It brought back so many memories of my dad. And the times we spent together!!! Sorry for your lost. You were truely bless to have him in your life. Hang in there. I know your dad will be missed. Take care

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 26 dny

      Appreciate the comment. It's been tough. I learned so much, it was hard to put into a video.

  • @kashjewell3775
    @kashjewell3775 Před 28 dny +3

    Your video made me cry. Sorry for your loss dude.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 28 dny

      I'm sorry, I think? Thank you for the words. Everything is temporary.

  • @usmcdrifter8759
    @usmcdrifter8759 Před 27 dny +1

    Sorry for your loss. Thank you for taking us fans along on the trip and sharing memories. Please keep up the content!

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 26 dny +1

      You're welcome, and I appreciate the support. I'll try!

  • @DavidSmith-tu1nd
    @DavidSmith-tu1nd Před 6 dny +1

    Dang this was a tough one for me to watch. I lost my Dad in 98. He had a heart attack while we were playing golf. I did cpr on him.
    We use to go fishing in his 18' San Juan Dorsett. Lake McConaughey, lake Powell, Seeing you with your son smiling riding in your boat brings everything full circle. You're a good man, son, your Pops is smiling from above.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 3 dny +1

      Hey David, sorry for your loss; that sounds traumatic AF. My dad went peacefully and I'm still struggling with it. He was my best friend. That was my sister's kid, but he's a good one, and he cackled like a madman whenever I let him drive the boat lol

  • @martinmcquaide4807
    @martinmcquaide4807 Před 25 dny +3

    God speed pops, Sarah you are a woman among women, helping out with this. Bravo!

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 24 dny

      Thanks, she makes a lot of things possible. She changed the waterpump impeller on the yellow boat today.

  • @williamkemm673
    @williamkemm673 Před 9 dny +1

    First of all Sarah is a unbelievable trooper and you are so lucky to have a participant in life as you do!!!!
    I knew what the ending was going to be, the young man you persevered on a mission I wish you could have fulfilled!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 7 dny

      She's a beast! I miss him a lot. There have been so many times where I wanted to share something with him, since he moved on. Stay tuned for updates; I'll be releasing a vid on the yellow sea ray shortly.

  • @privateer0561
    @privateer0561 Před 18 dny +2

    Glad you got it done - it would otherwise be rotting away. Now it's beautiful and running once again; you should be proud. I lost my father suddenly 37 years ago when I was in college; we had a 1958 runabout with a 1959 Johnson 35 Super Sea Horse that we used for camping in the Adirondacks since 1968. After he died, I left it in the back yard neglected and filled with water for 5 years. I felt shitty about that, knowing Dad would not be happy. So I emptied it out, tore it down to the bare hull, repainted it with high quality urethane (Imron) on the outside and a special spatter paint on the inside, had the upholstery all redone, rewired the lights and dashboard, redid the motor with all new electrics and lower unit stuff. Also repainted he trailer (1966 Mastercraft) and installed a heavy-duty axle and hubs, redid the wiring. Brought it up to the lake that year and she ran flawlessly. Good memories. Brought my daughter camping at the same lake; Dad would have loved that. Still have it. Cheers to you.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 15 dny

      Thanks, it definitely went from a $500 heap to a $4-6000 boat in pretty short order. The key being it was solid to start with. I'm sorry for your loss as well, sounds like you were younger when it happened, can't imagine. Awesome recovery story about the runabout, what kind? I hope you're still using it as much as possible, cheers!

  • @loudonbands6296
    @loudonbands6296 Před 8 dny +1

    Rob you did an outstanding job on the SeaRay, and your Dad was SO proud of you! It took me back to a job I did about 10 years ago... same steps. Remember, he was not just proud about the boat. YOU were his greatest work, his masterpiece. I know I'd be beaming with joy over your skill set he helped form in you. Now YOU get to pass it along. ;)

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 7 dny +1

      That comment meant a lot man. We were very close. I miss him terribly. But yeah, sharing knowledge and having fun is what this channel is all about; the only goal I had when starting it was to show people that even seemingly impossible tasks are easy if you break them down into small enough steps; progress every day for many days and you can get almost anything done. I wish more people would think like this, and spend less on new depreciating things that aren't as good as old ones. Especially boats.

  • @davecooke914
    @davecooke914 Před dnem +1

    So sorry for your loss your dad was proud see boat on water am sure he will look down on you using the boat best of luck in future from England 👍

  • @BellavistaPEI
    @BellavistaPEI Před 3 dny +1

    I don't recall a CZcams video ever choking me up before! This was a wonderful video!
    I've had the same feelings of loss with both my parents and my most sincere sympathies go out to you and your family. You did a wonderful thing by reviving that boat and needless to say, it was fantastic therapy for you as you were on your race against time. From what I witnessed in your video, in my opinion, possibly unknowingly, you revived that boat for the very purpose it was meant to serve....to bring your Dad's ashes where they were supposed to go. He may not have been with you in body, but I guarantee, he was and always will be with you in spirit.
    May he Rest In Peace.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 3 dny +1

      Thank you for the comment, Bella. It's been really hard, he was one of my best friends and we talked very often, about everything. Time is short, do something awesome today. Cheers

  • @charliesydnor8889
    @charliesydnor8889 Před 19 dny +1

    That was a very touching video. I felt your sincere heartfelt love for your dad. I am 76 years old so I feel how blessed your dad felt those final days that you put your heart and soul into getting the boat restored back for him that last time. But in the end he had his last ride. God Bless Your Dad and your family. Brought tears to my eyes. I am new subscriber after watching this video.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 16 dny

      Thanks Charlie, appreciate you leaving a comment for me. It was equally both good and bad, and I am glad we were here to take care of him. Everything is temporary, have fun while you can. If you're new around here, we have a lot of boat builds in progress, but also a lot of cars, snowmobiles, and some off grid land where we turn a school bus into a ski lodge. Cheers man!

  • @scottisbell7635
    @scottisbell7635 Před 8 dny +1

    I drug my kids to the lake all the time...when they loved it when they were little, and when they got older, and didn't appreciate it as much...still have the boat, I hope someday they feel this way, this video made me tear up for sure, sorry for your loss, your Dad was loved, and that meant all the world to him for sure

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 7 dny

      I don't know if it's legal to drug your kids while they're at a lake :P Do they waterski? Man every kid I knew that grew up waterskiing loves boats. Have a good one, Scott, and thank you for the kind words

  • @user-hk9mz1ys1m
    @user-hk9mz1ys1m Před 3 dny +1

    Hey Rob, tip of the hat to you Sir. I too have been through this. It's crazy I discovered your video because I am in the process of restoring my Dad's old pontoon boat. He passed away in 2016. He was an awesome man and he loved the outdoors. Thank you for sharing.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 4 hodinami

      Thanks! It was rough but I was lucky to have been there for him. Good luck in the restore; if it gets too bad remember that pontoons are a dime a dozen. I'm not above scrapping boats if they're too far gone; this one just happened to work out. Your dad would rather have you on the water vs throwing money into a hole being stressed out. Cheers!

  • @20truck
    @20truck Před 8 dny +1

    I've had the start this comment at least five times because I start crying so hard that I can't talk and I don't type I use voice recognition. Your dad may not have got to ride in that boat but he was there, just seeing that boat done he imagined it on the water again I truly wish he would have got to ride in it but you did a wonderful job. My brother passed away in January and the strange thing is he had a Sea Ray just like this boat identical to this boat (Red and White) and then the after that boat he bought a Chaparral Villain lll and I happen to be watching an episode of the sopranos and Tony soprano was using a Chaparral Villain lll with the same color scheme as my brother's boat, this happened in the same day, I saw your video and then the video with the Chaparral Villain. You did wonderful thing I hope you enjoy that Sea Ray for a long time.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 7 dny

      Thanks man, I'm glad the video meant something to me. Funny about the boat coincidences; one of the strangest coincidences in my life involves my dad. My dad was an electrical engineer/designer at a company started called Nicolet Instruments that produced the world's first digital oscilliscope, back in 1960s. Here's the crazy part: ~50 years later, I had moved to a different city to go to college for industrial design (design of anything mass produced, tools, medical stuff, boats, cars, etc), and was in the shop building stuff, waiting for a thermoformer to heat up to make some prototypes, and I was bored, so I started looking through old cabinets. A lot of the tools we had in the shop were old AF, donated from other companies that upgraded to newer machines, and sometimes they were bolted onto random cabinets filled with random garbage. So I decided to dig through one of them, and I find... a 8.5x11, full color, beautiful studio shot of a Nicolet oscilloscope, mounted to hardboard. This wasn't a snapshot, this was a professional photo that must have been made for marketing reasons; it had a red 'fill light' illuminating the side dramatically, with a spot on the upper part showing off all the machined metal. I called my dad and and told him what model it was.... "Yup, I designed that".
      What are the odds.... that going to school for design, I would find a beautiful studio shot example of what my dad designed, mounted on hardboard, in a random cabinet 50 years after he designed it? It's one of the weirdest things that has ever happened to me.

  • @davidmason2374
    @davidmason2374 Před 6 dny +1

    Rob and Sarah,sorry for the passing,you both did a great thing, every time you do something he be watching over ya ,you take what you get you make what you want you create because you’re a creative,❤

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 4 dny

      Thanks David! I will never stop building things and getting in adventures

  • @MrPants1970
    @MrPants1970 Před 17 dny +1

    Fantastic video and brought tears to my eyes, I lost my Dad to Leukaemia in Jan 2024, he went from a super fit 78 year old to a 100 year old man in 5 weeks and we lost him, he was my best friend, we did lots of boating together and worked on them together, so this video really resonated with me! Love to you and your family my friend ❤❤+

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 16 dny +1

      Thanks Alex, I appreciate your comment, and I'm sorry for your loss as well. I am trying to stay positive, and the shortness and temporary nature of it all, and how limited our time is, has made me reconsider a lot of what I want out of life. Cheers!

  • @matt996
    @matt996 Před 28 dny +2

    Very touching tribute. Sorry for your loss. Love watching you two work on your projects.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 28 dny

      Thank you, I appreciate your comment a lot

  • @jubemarsh2202
    @jubemarsh2202 Před 17 dny +1

    Your video touched my ❤️ heart.
    I too lost my dad before he could ride in his boat with me again.
    I recently, after 6 years, took his boat fishing on his favorite lake in Canada. Unfortunately I forgot his ashes 😢
    It was also the 1st trip for my 90 bronco.
    I feel like he was with me the entire trip, and on the lake.
    He also taught me everything I know and wouldn't be able to what I can now if I hadn't been his shadow.
    Being a dad is a gift, and our dad's were the best gift ever given.
    In memory of our fathers ❤

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 16 dny +1

      Awesome story, Jubemarsh! First trip for the tow rig too is a wild, sounds epic. Forgetting the ashes is just an excuse to do another trip like that. Be sure to check out the other builds if you haven't seen them yet. Cheers man, everything is temporary.

    • @jubemarsh2202
      @jubemarsh2202 Před 16 dny +1

      @ADDvanced thank you brother, and you're right 🤙

  • @brian2359
    @brian2359 Před 10 dny

    Your dad was there watching you rebuild this boat! He knew you were building for his last ride, but he knew you were building it to bring everyone together, and once it was finished, he knew he’d be right next to you on every ride!

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 10 dny

      Thanks Brian, that is a nice way of looking at it. Cheers!

  • @MikeGierke
    @MikeGierke Před 19 dny +1

    Its a pleasure to watch you two work together...she says what she means she do!

  • @mtbpirates
    @mtbpirates Před 5 dny +1

    Great video. You did good. Your Dad will never leave your heart. Believe me...

  • @blakejacquin763
    @blakejacquin763 Před 27 dny +1

    I wanna say that I am sorry for your lost. Your videos have been very helpful and inspired me and my pops to take on a boat project together. Thank you for everything. You’re an amazing person and I know your pops is up there looking down watching over you and your future to come.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 26 dny

      That means a lot. The whole point of doing any of this is to spread knowledge. Today's marine market only makes boats for rich people, which is a real shame. I'm just trying to share that getting on the water doesn't cost that much; this boat was likely a $500 wreck when i started, and I have maybe $150 into it.

  • @upshift2690
    @upshift2690 Před 4 dny +1

    Sorry to hear about your dads passing. I am sure he was proud to the very last moment. You will make great memories in the future and will always have you past ones to hold you down and keep pushing forward. Great work and amazing video, thank you for sharing with us.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 3 dny +1

      Thanks Upshift. It was hard to capture, hard to edit, and hard to share. I'm glad you found it meaningful. Cheers!

  • @chrisgarrett1369
    @chrisgarrett1369 Před 28 dny +1

    I've been watching you for years .your videos helped me redo my old Carlson.
    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 28 dny

      Thanks for the words, I appreciate it! I hope you're enjoying the Carlson!

  • @Astro25man
    @Astro25man Před 5 dny +1

    I am truly sorry to hear of your dad passing. But seems he waited until it was finished being built. You and your family in that boat will be great memories your cherish for the rest of yalls life. Keep your head high and that boat just rollin.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 3 dny

      Thanks Astro, appreciate the sentiment. Cheers

  • @richardgabel33
    @richardgabel33 Před 15 dny +2

    One of the very best videos I have seen in years. Thank you for taking us along on this journey. Stay safe.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 14 dny

      Thank you Richard, appreciate your comment and it means a lot. It was a pretty personal journey but documenting this boat resto helped somehow; we talked about it a lot every night.

  • @ronlamaster9301
    @ronlamaster9301 Před 27 dny +1

    No words can be said to ease the pain. You are a great son, continue to honor and remember your Dad. Our prayers, thoughts and hearts go out to you, Sarah and your Mom.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 27 dny

      Thank you Ron, I think editing this helped distill some of my feelings, but it's still pretty hard. I have another video coming on the yellow 79 Sea Ray soon!

    • @ronlamaster9301
      @ronlamaster9301 Před 26 dny

      @@ADDvanced Rob, I would like to tell you that you will never feel pain like this again, but losing Dads are hard, mine has been gone for 31 years, but moms are even harder.
      They will never leave your heart or thoughts.
      I have always enjoyed your post. You and Sarah are a great duo and always bring a smile to my face. Keep moving forward Brother.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 23 dny

      @@ronlamaster9301 Something to keep in mind, for sure. Onwards!

  • @kbrown1350
    @kbrown1350 Před 11 dny +1

    Great video, thanks for sharing and I am very sorry about the loss of your dad. First thing I did after watching was called my pops who is 85 and had a great conversation. You reminded how important it is to take the time to communicate with those we love and not allow the little things in life to get in the way of that.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 11 dny

      Thank you KBrown, and I'm glad you called him up. Everything is so temporary. Make the most of it.

  • @benbirkigt493
    @benbirkigt493 Před 28 dny +2

    So sorry for your loss you have my condolences I lost my pops as well so i feel your pain. Awesome video I really enjoyed it.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 28 dny +1

      Glad you enjoyed it, tried to share a lot of knowledge and dick jokes because you have to laugh at everything. Cheers!

  • @zacharygardner6776
    @zacharygardner6776 Před 24 dny

    Thanks for sharing. Losing your father is about the hardest thing ever. I felt all the feels you went through. Reminds us to live for the day and not let the little things bog us down. Not a day goes by that I don't think about my dad either.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 24 dny

      Yeah, everything feels real temporary now. Thanks for the comment, I appreciate it.

  • @msethhunter
    @msethhunter Před 11 dny +1

    Sara(h?) is a true rock star. What a saint. And, she isn’t afraid to get her hands dirty. You had better keep a lock on that girl. Many of us are searching for one just like her.

  • @braccali
    @braccali Před 25 dny +1

    Rob, You are a great son. I see the man you are and know a lot prob came from your father. I bet he is very proud of you. Mission accomplished. Keep up your hard work and outlook and you will be rewarded. Love you and Sarah and your content. May your dad rest in peace and may you find solace in your fond memories of your father and family.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 23 dny

      Thanks, he was supportive my entire life, and one of my best friends. I'm lucky to have had the time to spend with him near the end, and keep him out of the hospital.

  • @drdrain
    @drdrain Před 28 dny +1

    Thanks for sharing this, lost my dad about 4 years ago, he bought us a Searay 200CC to the family that me and my brother inherited, and i was always working on the boat with him before every season.
    Now my son have taken over the ownership of the boat and im the father that have the privilage to be able to assist him in the restoration that he likes to do to the boat.
    Im really glad you shared this video, it brings back alot of memories some very emotionell, but at the end its good memories.
    Thanks alot from Sweden !

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 27 dny

      That's awesome. One thing I kept talking to him about was how many boats he sold, by creating other boat owners. Many of his friends told me stories how they used to go out on his big blue boat, and wound up getting their own boats later. I've done the same thing; taken so many people boating, and now they own boats. It's wild. You think you aren't affecting the world, but it's sort of the butterfly effect. Thanks for the comment!

  • @jamesschulz5518
    @jamesschulz5518 Před 24 dny

    Some of my best memories of growing up was working with my dad on the boat I remember changing the bellows on our mercury i/o with my dad . God bless your dad his memories are very much alive by you doing this restoration. Great video !

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 16 dny

      Thank you James, I appreciates you. Bellows aren't the most fun job. Cheers!

  • @SuperRaymondh
    @SuperRaymondh Před 26 dny

    Thank you for sharing such a personal episode in your life. I held my dad as ALS took his life, and feel your pain. Your work on the boat was a wonderful way to commerate your dad, and I hope your fond memories stay fresh. Peace and love to you and your family.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 25 dny

      Thank you, it was definitely hard to distill into a video. I have so many memories growing up on the water, and around race boats. Be thankful you were there for him when he left. Cheers!

  • @DookieShorts
    @DookieShorts Před 10 dny +1

    What you did is VERY honorable, I am so sorry for your loss, I hope this boat brings you and your family as many smiles as it brought him. Minus the headaches.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 8 dny

      Thanks DookieShorts, appreciate the comment. It's been a good boat. Not crazy fast or memorable but rides nice and hauls 8 people so it's been a lot different than all my other boats.

  • @travisstewart4746
    @travisstewart4746 Před 28 dny +1

    Bro, I am so sorry to hear about your dad. I am glad that you were able to give your dad the most exciting time of his life one more time on this planet. My heart goes out to you and your little family. I lost my mom five months ago during this winter I know how it feels brother.❤

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 27 dny +1

      I'm sorry for your loss as well, Travis. Appreciate the comment. It has been tough.

  • @WalkerRanger5
    @WalkerRanger5 Před 10 dny +1

    Incredible you did great Rob and Sarah . It was a year in June that I tried the same but my dad needed a lot . I had planned on getting his 24 foot pontoon out and do the same. It had been sitting for two years . I got cleaned and he just smiled. Thanks for such a touching story .

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 8 dny

      Appreciate the comment, Walker, and good on ya for doing the same for your pa. Have a good weekend!

  • @harleyshihtzu5558
    @harleyshihtzu5558 Před 9 dny +2

    What an amazing story. My heart goes out to you and your wife. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @patrickskahill6530
    @patrickskahill6530 Před 18 dny

    What a great video and thanks for sharing this with all of us! I'm sure your dad and your family are very proud of you!

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 15 dny +1

      Thank you Patrick! It was hard to record, and edit, but I'm happy sharing it has connected so many people. Everything is temporary, life is short, be excellent to each other.

  • @stevejones924
    @stevejones924 Před 13 dny +3

    Virtual hugs from us up in Vancouver, BC, Canada eh? I didnt get to see my dad before his cancer operation took him. For my father in law, I wanted to take him to the local Flying club and see if they would let him go up with one of the pilots but by then he couldnt walk...sometimes that tide can swamp us and push us away but knowing we all will be gone one day, seize the day I say if at all possible, dont add to the drama out there, live and love. Such is life eh? Glad he got to at least see it, nice tribute on his last boat excursion~

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 11 dny

      Thank you Steve, appreciate the comment and support. Time is limited, everything is temporary, make the most of it. Pitter patter!

  • @lloydspooner
    @lloydspooner Před 26 dny

    This was an incredible labor of love you and your family did. I lost my dad 15 years ago and he was my fishing buddy. I just did a rebuild on my boat and had a picture of my dad holding his biggest Walleye printed on metal. I am mounting it in my boat so he can always be with me.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 25 dny

      Thank you Lloyd, I appreciate the support! It's weird how growing up on boats, you look back, and most of your best memories are on the water. At the end of the day, everything is just 'stuff' but boats are vessels for creating awesome memories that last your entire life.

  • @guyc66
    @guyc66 Před 6 dny +1

    That was heart-wrenching and wonderful at the same time. Thanks for sharing this story with us and enjoy your memories of your dad’s life and the special moments you were able to enjoy with him. God bless.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 4 dny

      You're welcome, Guy. Thanks for the comment.

  • @user-vx8mo8bs1d
    @user-vx8mo8bs1d Před 8 dny +1

    Good Bless you and your family man. Your pops must have been an good dude, because you and your family I can tell are good. You have good heads on your shoulders shoulders... Much respect man.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 7 dny

      Thanks man, appreciate the kind words, he was a great guy.

  • @texanranger7212
    @texanranger7212 Před 27 dny +1

    Hi from Australia. My sincere condolences to you and your family. Time does heal but only diminishes the hurt. Just remember all the good times. Cheers mate.

    • @ADDvanced
      @ADDvanced  Před 27 dny

      ˙plɹoʍ ǝɥʇ ɟo ǝpᴉs ɹǝɥʇo ǝɥʇ ɯoɹɟ ʇɹoddns ǝɥʇ ǝʇɐᴉɔǝɹddɐ I 'ʇuǝɯɯoɔ ɹnoʎ ɹoɟ sʞuɐɥʇ