Godly Relationship and Friendship Q&A - finding a godly spouse, dealing with drama & toxic friends

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  • čas přidán 26. 07. 2024
  • hi guys !! today I am joined by ‪@ashleyhetherington_‬ and we are answering YOUR questions about friendships and relationships. We pray this impacts you and helps you navigate the different relationships in your life!
    I hope y’all absolutely love this video! this channel is for the purpose of documenting my life, travel and spreading the love of Jesus !! so glad to have y’all as apart of the fam !! don’t forget to subscribe :)
    #christian #advice #christiangirl #bible #relationships #dating #friends #friendships
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    @juliaapoee
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    for questions about collabs or events email
    juliapoebusiness@gmail.com
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Komentáře • 71

  • @horvathjazmin9698
    @horvathjazmin9698 Před 10 měsíci +65

    yeees we want Ashley🤩🥰

  • @amyloubser7586
    @amyloubser7586 Před 10 měsíci +42

    Ahhh, I love both of you so much !
    And I follow both of you individually… it’s so cool that you guys did this 💗

  • @sbentsen2714
    @sbentsen2714 Před 10 měsíci +13

    Back in 2018 I got engaged to my fiance, and the following month we ended the engagement, I postponed our wedding date that we had already set because we weren't on the same page regarding premarital counseling. She returned the ring, very hard process but I'm so so glad I listened to the advice of my pastor who coached me in how to set that boundary, and I realize now I think that it would have been a terrible mistake to get married to each other, at that time. I guess I can say it doesn't matter what people think, even if you have to call something off and people get offended or are upset, listen to the Lord and obey.
    Fast forward to now I'm honestly still kinda sour on relationships and would rather just do things by myself or with some friends. Romantic steps just aren't in the picture right now and that's ok. God is good and I'm trying to trust His timing, though at this point idk when I'll be ready emotionally to even want to get married. 🤷🏻‍♂️ we'll see, Thank you for letting me share 🙏🏼🙂

    • @juliaapoee
      @juliaapoee  Před 10 měsíci +7

      Hey proud of you and your obedience to God. He is the best healer and you will be so thankful one day looking back and seeing where God has brought you from there!

    • @LaurenBellamy-dj1hg
      @LaurenBellamy-dj1hg Před 4 měsíci +1

      Wow such a inspirational story thankyou for sharing😊

  • @oliviab4412
    @oliviab4412 Před 10 měsíci +17

    I follow you both individually and LOVED this collab!!🤍

  • @jacobpetersen
    @jacobpetersen Před 10 měsíci +8

    So good!

  • @abbybollmeyer9137
    @abbybollmeyer9137 Před 10 měsíci +20

    Wow, I wish someone would of told me all of this. I did everything wrong in a relationship that you can 😔

    • @juliaapoee
      @juliaapoee  Před 10 měsíci +10

      God has such an amazing plan for your life and you have such an amazing testimony of how God can redeem and restore. Keep going girl, you've got this!

    • @abbybollmeyer9137
      @abbybollmeyer9137 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Thank you Julia 😔

  • @miaramirez602
    @miaramirez602 Před 10 měsíci +11

    Julia should start a podcast !! I’d definitely listen ! 💕🙌

    • @juliaapoee
      @juliaapoee  Před 10 měsíci +14

      SOO sweet! What do yall think? Should I?!

    • @cwillsfn3717
      @cwillsfn3717 Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@juliaapoeeAbsolutely!!!!

    • @Ash5833
      @Ash5833 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@juliaapoeeyeeessss

    • @KN_builds
      @KN_builds Před 3 měsíci

      @@juliaapoee100%

  • @emilyk1044
    @emilyk1044 Před 10 měsíci +10

    Love this! We need more videos of you two!

  • @saml.b.8048
    @saml.b.8048 Před 10 měsíci +3

    I watch both Ashley and Julia all the time then I see them both collab...... ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @user-pw2ez8rp9u
    @user-pw2ez8rp9u Před 10 měsíci +4

    Been waiting for this collab for forever!❤❤

  • @Evlampia...
    @Evlampia... Před 10 měsíci +5

    Loved this!!! You're a great duo! God bless you 💜

  • @autumnbreeze5364
    @autumnbreeze5364 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Yes, bring on Ashley! I enjoy both of y'all's channels so it's awesome to see a collab.

  • @the_jesus_girl
    @the_jesus_girl Před 10 měsíci +2

    Yay! I am so excited that y’all collabed! I love both of you! ❤️

  • @GodLovesYou183
    @GodLovesYou183 Před 6 měsíci +1

    YESS! I love how Ashley is in this. I love her! God bless you girls 💗

  • @emmalynn4835
    @emmalynn4835 Před 10 měsíci +9

    This video was definitely showed to me from God. These topics are exactly what Ive been struggling with on the daily. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and advice. Praise the LORD!

  • @trawbxrrys
    @trawbxrrys Před 10 měsíci +6

    I loved this video !! Tysmm such a good collab FRFR
    God bless u ✝️💗💗

  • @kyaborger265
    @kyaborger265 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Ashley is literally soooo incredible, I love her channel so much!

  • @divadensmore6095
    @divadensmore6095 Před 10 měsíci +2

    The town I live in, doesn’t exactly have many Christian teens, and I do have one Christian and one non Christian friend. I have a wonderful Chappy at my school tho who is a Christian and she hosts Christian musics and stuff like that during lunches🙂 thank you for this video. Last, everyone make sure to talk to the Holy Spirit today❤

  • @NEPSANOVA4
    @NEPSANOVA4 Před 8 měsíci

    Okay I loved watching you guys separate but together is so amazing. Love you both!❤

  • @kittybromka5094
    @kittybromka5094 Před 10 měsíci +2

    ASHLEY AHHH YES ILY BOTH SM!!!🎉❤

  • @alacour2256
    @alacour2256 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Omg I really love both of u. Pls more Ashley x Julia videos. U gurls are amazing. God bless💗

  • @miacirignano9929
    @miacirignano9929 Před 10 měsíci

    omgosh!!! i did not expect to see Ashley on ur channel, Julia! But I love you both so so much!!! thanks for sharing your wisdom with us! 💕🤍🤍🫶🫶🤗🤩

  • @LaurenBellamy-dj1hg
    @LaurenBellamy-dj1hg Před 4 měsíci

    Such a great collab from to of my favourite youtubers!!! 😊❤ May GOD bless you both❤

  • @monica-jardim
    @monica-jardim Před 5 měsíci

    Loved this ❤️love Christian girlie advice !

  • @aurorarodriguezespinosa4447
    @aurorarodriguezespinosa4447 Před 10 měsíci +5

    Love this girls❤

  • @elyananedd
    @elyananedd Před 10 měsíci +2

    I’m following both of u!

  • @sandravictor749
    @sandravictor749 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Yes Julia , we want Ashley ❤. She is an amazing vessel of God.❤

  • @Carmel520
    @Carmel520 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Awww that's so amazing that you are friends 😊😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤ i love the both you

  • @devonlewis1568
    @devonlewis1568 Před 10 měsíci +3

    love this

  • @user-cr6tx4jj2q
    @user-cr6tx4jj2q Před 5 měsíci

    Yes more ashley ❤

  • @lorapoe2315
    @lorapoe2315 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Loved the video! Love you too💝

  • @miria9908
    @miria9908 Před 9 měsíci

    More Ashley!!! ❤️❤️

  • @_Be_You_Tiful
    @_Be_You_Tiful Před 5 měsíci

    Am screaming😲😲my favorites😊❤

  • @Stef_Sulma
    @Stef_Sulma Před měsícem

    Yesssss❤️❤️❤️we want Ashley please

  • @peggywelshsola3405
    @peggywelshsola3405 Před 4 měsíci

    I know Ashley Hetherington, I’m subscribed to her channel too. 😊She’s also AWESOME 👏🏽
    Ya’ll are both good Women’s. Hi Ashley 🙋🏽‍♀️YES, I would LOVE ❤️ to see 👀more of Ashley Hetherington? 😊❤🙏🏽

  • @osatoo.o
    @osatoo.o Před 3 měsíci

    BEST COLLAB ❤

  • @eddiemartinez7555
    @eddiemartinez7555 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Awesome video Julia 😅😊😊😊🎉🎉😂❤❤

  • @miramclane4509
    @miramclane4509 Před 10 měsíci +1

    This is so good

  • @sandravictor749
    @sandravictor749 Před 9 měsíci +1

    This is so useful, Praise Jesus❤

  • @avinashsingh1252
    @avinashsingh1252 Před 9 měsíci

    Dear Ash & Julia,
    Greetings in Lord Jesus Christ name.
    Thanks for addressing a very important subject for every Christian believer .
    I am really blessed by you both ❤😊.
    Most important what I like that you do not act like a religious person but a real practicing Christian.😊
    Love & prayers from India 💕

  • @rosediamond4110
    @rosediamond4110 Před 10 měsíci +1

    War Room! I really want to watch that movie! Im currently doing a Devo on the Full Armor of God, and the author was in the movie! I think she is the main girl.

  • @cmiller0429
    @cmiller0429 Před 10 měsíci +3

    So when I first got with my husband I wasn’t sure what I believed or if I even did at all and he encouraged me to find Jesus and now I am a Christian. But now I am the only one reading the Bible and praying and trying to live for Jesus and when I try asking him to read the Bible it becomes an argument. I want us to both be bettering ourselves with Jesus and he wants to do things he enjoys doing which is not seeking knowledge and being holy. How do I go about helping him? He was the one who showed me Jesus but now after five years of being together he is falling away.

    • @elyananedd
      @elyananedd Před 10 měsíci

      I would personally say pray for him and if anything try to talk to him and explain to him that he’s going to hell if he dies right now. But definitely pray for him

    • @juliaapoee
      @juliaapoee  Před 10 měsíci +4

      Prayer is so powerful, and remember that God has not forgotten about you and He never will. You are leading by example whether you realize it or not, having conversations in love, maybe more listening to what he is going through over telling him issues that you see and tips you have. When you begin to understand his thought process you can help him, and pray specifically and know which areas are causing him to fall away. Don't lose hope girl, keep fighting it will all be worth it!

    • @cmiller0429
      @cmiller0429 Před 10 měsíci

      @@juliaapoee thank you so much for the advice I definitely needed it. I don’t want to push him away by not understanding how he is feeling so again thank you for that advice.

  • @Sofia.Besada
    @Sofia.Besada Před 4 měsíci

    Yes.

  • @Wild_Flower1997
    @Wild_Flower1997 Před 3 měsíci

    I wish I had some Christian friends to help keep me accountable.

  • @REaDComicsau
    @REaDComicsau Před 10 měsíci

    Do more!

  • @TheJohnh24
    @TheJohnh24 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Your worth is that you were made IN THE IMAGE OF GOD for His glory & Christ died for you. But don't look for acceptance from others. Work on your relationship with God. The Holy Spirit will guide you how to be your best. Then you are comfortable with yourself in Christ and glorifying God and loving to others. Go to Bible study, church service, worship the Lord, read your Bible, enjoy time alone with God because that is most precious and blessed, strengthening you for your day. People need to stop wanting the world and popularity and separate yourself to spend time in the Bible AND YOU WILL BE SATISFIED and God will use you later on. You are accepted in Christ. Stay Christ centered. He is everything ❤ God's love poured out in our hearts is enough.

  • @juliealarie2434
    @juliealarie2434 Před 10 měsíci +1

    What is the movie she talked about?

  • @rissdimplessee
    @rissdimplessee Před 10 měsíci

    U SAID IT RIGHT THERE @ 8:58 or SO WAITING PERIOD!!!!! MAKES U ME WANT 2 USE UNGODLY WORDS!!!!🤬🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @arakibhosen434
    @arakibhosen434 Před 10 měsíci

    JESUS CHRIST NEVER CLAIMED TO BE GOD 🤔 HE SAYS MYSELF I CAN'T DO NOTHIN 🤔 MY FATHER IS GREATER THAN I 🤔 ONLY TRUE GOD IS THE FATHER 🤔 Jone 17. 3

  • @godsway2023LoVeJeSuS
    @godsway2023LoVeJeSuS Před 10 měsíci +1

    💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @Michskwslzk
    @Michskwslzk Před 6 měsíci

    We want this duo more 🫶🏽