The Better-Sex Doctor: The Link Between Masturbating & Prostate Cancer! Dr Rena Malik

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  • čas přidán 14. 05. 2024
  • Dr Rena Malik is a Urologist & Pelvic Surgeon, her CZcams channel has over 1.8 million subscribers, where she releases weekly episodes on everything to do with sexual health education.
    0:00 Intro
    02:40 What is it you're seeking to do?
    03:30 How do you define sexual health?
    03:46 Do we understand our bodies?
    05:10 Where does your training come from?
    06:37 What's your training with the pelvic floor?
    09:07 Why should our doctors be asking about our sexual health?
    11:15 Is a weak pelvic floor in men linked to erectile dysfunction, and does sitting cause it too?
    12:58 How much sex should couples be having?
    14:42 Should we be experiencing pain during sex?
    16:57 The vagina's expanding process
    19:23 How do we communicate with our partners about sex?
    22:21 What's the first step in re-building a good sex life?
    26:22 Men vs women’s sexual desire as we age
    29:11 Anticipation around sex causing more harm than good
    30:11 Is a low libido a hormone problem?
    32:29 Ways to increase testosterone
    35:25 A decline in testosterone levels and sperm counts
    36:37 Chemicals in everyday objects impacting sperm counts
    38:30 How have sperm counts been decreasing over the years?
    42:06 How do we increase our semen volume
    43:56 Does masturbating improve my pelvic floor?
    44:55 The impact our technology is having on our genitals
    47:48 Does masturbation decrease testosterone levels?
    49:17 Does too much masturbation have a bad effect on us?
    51:10 Will masturbating make people blind?
    51:29 What do you think of no nut November
    53:05 Masturbating giving you more clarity of mind
    56:23 Post nut clarity
    01:01:48 Porn, is it bad?
    01:05:47 VR headsets and porn
    01:10:14 Trauma and how it relates to our sex lives
    01:12:50 Can you have sex when pregnant?
    01:13:33 Orgasms and the clitoris
    01:19:36 What is an orgasm
    01:23:16 Scheduling time for sex?
    01:24:47 Is there a disparity on how long sex should actually take compared to how long it takes
    01:28:25 Vagina myths
    01:30:30 Pelvic floor exercises, how to do them
    01:32:48 How do we know if we have pelvic floor issues
    01:35:52 PENIS SIZE, is it possible to increase the size?
    01:38:39 How big is a penis on average vs how big people think they should be?
    01:41:50 Will my penis get smaller as we age?
    01:43:08 Does body parts size indicate a bigger penis?
    01:45:45 Labiaplasty
    01:47:21 Squirting
    01:50:16 Last guest question
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    Study mentioned:
    www.health.harvard.edu/mens-h....
    This episode of The Diary Of A CEO was filmed at Gold Tree Studios, located in the heart of the Sunset Strip, West Hollywood, California

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  • @TheDiaryOfACEO
    @TheDiaryOfACEO  Před měsícem +810

    Can I ask you all a favour? If you enjoy this episode, could you please hit the like button 👍🏾 it helps us massively. Appreciate you all! 🙏🏽

    • @mellonhead9568
      @mellonhead9568 Před měsícem +20

      haram

    • @denisegaur
      @denisegaur Před měsícem +13

      Need not ask! She's one of my favorites and had to open it right away upon your notification. I won't ever be a 🐸 in a 🍳😂

    • @lisettegarcia
      @lisettegarcia Před měsícem +31

      Hey, smoother intro. But this is not a Casey Niestadt video so your new editors need to go a little easier on cutting out every silence. This is a data rich conversation and just like you took breaths in order to continue speaking, the listener needs tiny pauses in order to mentally digest the information. Plus, it just sounds more natural and less choppy.

    • @ingridlanghoff9417
      @ingridlanghoff9417 Před měsícem +6

      I would have like it much more if she wouldn’t have been so stressed. Is she breathing?

    • @imconfused1237
      @imconfused1237 Před měsícem +8

      @@lisettegarciaOh right. You’ve got 45 subscribers. He’s got 5.6 million.
      Stay in your lane.

  • @RenaMalikMD
    @RenaMalikMD Před měsícem +2857

    Thanks so much for having me on! Hope your audience enjoys the conversation as much as I did!

    • @MichaelKarma1
      @MichaelKarma1 Před měsícem +40

      Damn my mrs she is gonna give me cancer - thanks for this

    • @russkiy6ot
      @russkiy6ot Před měsícem +45

      Currently accepting applications for prostate cancer prevention services.

    • @SamSamSamJ
      @SamSamSamJ Před měsícem +31

      She's always looking good.

    • @cthoadmin7458
      @cthoadmin7458 Před měsícem +23

      You know "having me on" in British english means joking, tricking someone... Given the date this was released, 1 April 2024.. I gotta ask... Only joking, thanks for a most informative video dr. Malik!

    • @user-li6fy2gl1d
      @user-li6fy2gl1d Před měsícem +8

      thank you

  • @samsonmitiku2532
    @samsonmitiku2532 Před měsícem +3570

    people think i do it for pleasure. but i do it to fight cancer

    • @funkycowie
      @funkycowie Před měsícem +133

      😂😂😂

    • @speeder757
      @speeder757 Před měsícem +32

      👊

    • @user-ff1op3fm7y
      @user-ff1op3fm7y Před měsícem +17

      😢😢

    • @nickandrews2255
      @nickandrews2255 Před měsícem +21

      Hahaha if it’s a addiction it hurts us it really does nothing will beat healthy diet or exercise Cheers I hear cheers

    • @erinl1730
      @erinl1730 Před měsícem +37

      It doesn’t prevent prostate cancer

  • @o0GaSMaN0o
    @o0GaSMaN0o Před měsícem +627

    Fighting cancer while watching this interview.
    Thanks for the inspiration to be healthier!

  • @user-jk7qk7rx6f
    @user-jk7qk7rx6f Před 2 dny +4

    I am 64 years old never in my wildest.Dreams that I'd ever hear a conversation like this.I think it's fantastic.Keep up the good work

  • @brendagamba7826
    @brendagamba7826 Před měsícem +877

    My husband died 3/October, 2023.
    Dr please, I'm happy that you are speaking about male sexualities.
    My husband had a hernia the size of a cucumber,
    A prostate issue
    A bladder problem. Struggling to pee
    He went through hell n back
    I beg that young men be educated around their body and how vital it is for having yearly checks .
    Female s at a tender agee struggle with menstrual pain, pregnancy discomfort, birthing pain but we as females talk about it.
    Men don't, much to their demise.
    I think its necessary that men push their pride aside and listen to the message their bodies sends them.
    From a 74 yr old granny in Cape Town.

    • @michaelfox301
      @michaelfox301 Před měsícem +118

      As Men, we don't value our lives. Because no one except our moms gives the tinniest fuck about us. If we die, who cares? That's why. Sorry, Grandma.

    • @danny9154
      @danny9154 Před měsícem +11

      Sorry for your loss. Yeah that's good advice

    • @PrairieDawnC
      @PrairieDawnC Před měsícem +10

      ​@michaelfox301 partners, children, siblings, friends, and others care, too. I live my life so I'll have a big funeral when I'm gone.

    • @LindaQueLeenda
      @LindaQueLeenda Před měsícem +10

      true. yet its crazy bc most studies on illnesses are done on men for men.

    • @ucukaoma4551
      @ucukaoma4551 Před měsícem +19

      ⁠@michaelfox301, elaborate funerals are overrated and one of the largest breeders of poverty, especially in developing countries and among poor people.
      So...
      Appreciation is best expressed in life and not in eulogy!

  • @mjg086
    @mjg086 Před měsícem +622

    Brings a whole new meaning to “beating” cancer

  • @irinadiamandi5320
    @irinadiamandi5320 Před měsícem +13

    Thank you, Steven and Dr Rena Malik for this very informative, genuine conversation! I learnt so much from it! ❤

  • @not.cp6
    @not.cp6 Před měsícem +6

    I have to say as a young man there’s a lot of people on the internet that derives your knowledge and vision on certain topics and if you do not look to a professional for these types of information, you will be going through life knowing the wrong things and doing the wrong things. This podcast really helped and i’d advise everyone to listen and take in the information.

  • @MomoBeci
    @MomoBeci Před měsícem +966

    first 4 seconds is all i needed to hear, thank you doctor.

  • @DivineLogos
    @DivineLogos Před měsícem +975

    The reason ejaculation lowers risk of prostate cancer is because we live unhealthy lives to begin with.
    Thus the prostate then benefits from a regular flush by ejaculation.
    There was a study done on the christian monks of mount Athos.
    These monks never ejaculate. And yet they were 5 times less likely to get prostate cancer than the general population.
    Its because these monks eat healthy, do physical work, sleep well and experience a strong sense of community.

    • @MineCraft-nz9pg
      @MineCraft-nz9pg Před měsícem +24

      So its a W for most men who live said unhealthy life.

    • @DivineLogos
      @DivineLogos Před měsícem +62

      @@MineCraft-nz9pg Rather a crutch.

    • @ggmm167
      @ggmm167 Před měsícem +36

      That's because we get constant stimulation wherever we look at. In contrary to monks.

    • @mosubekore78
      @mosubekore78 Před měsícem +15

      Yeah, it's just correlation

    • @Skimmiksify
      @Skimmiksify Před měsícem

      They say they don't ejaculate but clearly they have hobbies on the side.

  • @derickjones9579
    @derickjones9579 Před 25 dny +22

    I’m also subscribed to Dr. Malik and she’s the absolute truth. I sent over to my wife to check out. It’s education we all need, especially those out there that are too afraid to talk about Sexual Health. Thank you for this👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾

    • @A7teXan
      @A7teXan Před 16 dny

      Hey wife see it's beautiful to Jack it lol

    • @johnguerra2172
      @johnguerra2172 Před 9 dny

      I'm subscribed to her also lol. Ironic I found her before this channel 😅

  • @yinkz
    @yinkz Před měsícem +3

    Great conversation! Learnt a lot from this episode. Thank you Dr Rena Malik!

  • @whatacnut
    @whatacnut Před měsícem +291

    I knew I wasn‘t wasting my time.
    Thank you Dr. Rena.

  • @sharonwaters2994
    @sharonwaters2994 Před měsícem +6

    Thank you for mentioning the pelvic prolapse very little is spoken of this and I think.it affects far more women than we know. I didn't even know what one was until my pelvic floor prolapsed and it took a long time before I was comfortable getting help. Great doctor thanks for this podcast.

  • @under_ground_
    @under_ground_ Před 13 dny +1

    seriously best interviewer on youtube.
    on all of your videos, the most direct and concise questions. you really get the most out your guests. ty.

  • @shay-doran
    @shay-doran Před měsícem +14

    Awesome to see @RenaMalikMD joining you on DOAC!
    Both of you inspire me to keep supporting men to overcome performance Anxiety & erection challenges.
    So this video & seeing you linking up brought a great start to Monday!

  • @rajakghosh6602
    @rajakghosh6602 Před měsícem +597

    So if you're not coming, you're definitely going.

  • @gerryblodgett871
    @gerryblodgett871 Před 29 dny +3

    Dear Dr Malik: This was the most articulate, and entertaining, discussion of the subject that I have ever encountered. Bravo.

  • @ordoabchao1257
    @ordoabchao1257 Před měsícem +9

    I absolutely loved this conversation and how is was had by both parties, totally earned my subscription! I love Dr. Malik and her way of traversing these very complex conversations.

  • @krispysox
    @krispysox Před měsícem +205

    Thank god it _reduces_ the chances of prostate cancer, I was in a panic for a moment there ;)

  • @Jslaughter90
    @Jslaughter90 Před měsícem +19

    Excellent commentary from Rena - very authentic and human rather than over educationalized and theoretical.

  • @andrewkimani3236
    @andrewkimani3236 Před měsícem +7

    I think this interview is such an eye opener for many people. Imagine having a medical doctor willing to provide us with such empirical truth. Stay blessed y'all!!

  • @yrotsih179
    @yrotsih179 Před 26 dny +10

    This woman is amazing. So much knowledge. There’s no thinking, she just instantly responds

    • @shannonnunnes5558
      @shannonnunnes5558 Před 7 dny

      Just bc someone is quick with an answer does not mean their information is correct. Just saying as I feel like it’s a huge misconception.

  • @joanaggil
    @joanaggil Před měsícem +16

    This was such an amazing episode! These issues are so important and not talked about at all in healthcare unless the person has an issue! Amazing! Thank you for this!

  • @jupiter27999
    @jupiter27999 Před měsícem +12

    These podcasts are so informative and helpful love the variety of guests! Helping me be successful in my relationship and business. Knowledge is power 🌟

  • @andremostert2534
    @andremostert2534 Před 27 dny +2

    The absolute best informative talk about this topic that I have EVER heard.

  • @user-dv7oi8mz6x
    @user-dv7oi8mz6x Před 24 dny +4

    Absolutely the most interesting conversation ever. RenaMalik is truly brilliant.

  • @daveswensen9627
    @daveswensen9627 Před měsícem +35

    There are only so many hours in a day and just so much time for programs but The Diary of a CEO is one I don't like to miss. This particular one is quite outstanding too. Dr. Rena is amazing, I wish we could have had access to this kind of info when I was a much younger guy. :) Thanks to everyone!

  • @eveh4837
    @eveh4837 Před měsícem +91

    I want to say I absolutely love the questions Steven asks. These conversations are always so good. Thank you for sharing this important information with the world

    • @nowwhat33
      @nowwhat33 Před měsícem +6

      This is what I love if it comes to this podcast in general: Steven really asks good questions. He is one hell of a good interviewer.

    • @johnimpagliazzo5951
      @johnimpagliazzo5951 Před měsícem

      TSHIRT MEME "I BEAT MY OWN PROSTATE CANCER" LOL

  • @cydbass1
    @cydbass1 Před měsícem +2

    Very infomative episode, no one teaches these things at any level and to get to learn about all this for free is just amazing thank you very much!

  • @giftphala7502
    @giftphala7502 Před měsícem +16

    Just love how authentic you are Steven! It’s the reason why I keep coming here. 👊🏾

    • @sanj33v
      @sanj33v Před měsícem +1

      Never watched his videos, and this was recommended. So going to subscribe and watch other uploads. Thanks for this comment.

  • @SonyaMayaPsychology
    @SonyaMayaPsychology Před měsícem +6

    This is amazing! I love discussing similar topics with clients and followers. Gonna share this with my clients as necessary, thanks for the knowledge! Loving this episode ❤

  • @annier6171
    @annier6171 Před měsícem +9

    i really wanted to comment that Dr Rena is one of the most informative guests you've had to date. In having said that though it is important to note that you aren't scared or hesitant in anyway to ask the questions. I wish this podcast had been around about the time my son was 14 or 15 (or earlier). Even though we were always really frank about sex it was about girls, not so much about sexual health or the differences in the way men and women approach sex, how important a good sex life is for your health, work, wellbeing, and mental health. Great podcast, thank you.

  • @frankbreuer8849
    @frankbreuer8849 Před měsícem +5

    Fantastic conversation. Sex therapy is commutation therapy by and large. Thanks for inviting Rena to the podcast.

  • @ljwaugh1
    @ljwaugh1 Před 29 dny

    Great interview - open, honest, frank, probing and dealing with a subject not raised or considered enough.

  • @RoryWalker92
    @RoryWalker92 Před měsícem +34

    I’ve learned more about sex and sexual health in the 2 hours I watched this podcast than I have in my 32 years of being on this planet. Amazing and informative and really professionally articulated by both of you.

  • @agnesslovehealz
    @agnesslovehealz Před měsícem +14

    So happy congrats and excited to see what amazing new talks you have coming. Great epiaode watching w hubby great episode

  • @sheenahaywood1143
    @sheenahaywood1143 Před měsícem +8

    Brilliant… clear, precise, deep, caring … such a wonderful interview. Thank you so very much.

  • @jean-marcpetit977
    @jean-marcpetit977 Před měsícem +7

    That was a great interview. She’s a wealth of information, and very articulate. I thoroughly enjoyed the conversation. Thank you both.

  • @gregg4600
    @gregg4600 Před měsícem +4

    Fascinating and so very compassionate real-life discussion!

  • @dalex4124
    @dalex4124 Před měsícem +3

    Since a few weeks I noticed that you started to ask questions based on what your others guests spoke about which is great. In this episode specifically you asked about porn and masturbation and their negative effects to a guest who is actually for those things. Thank you for really asking the questions we want to ask as viewers especially following what other experts, you have invited to the show, have spoke about. It still doesn't shed light on the actual absolute truth and I'm realizing that the goal at this point is to hear what the opposite argument is and ultimately it is about choosing what we want to believe for ourselves.
    Though I find that unfortunate because it opens the door for misinformation and confusion, all these talks proves to me that science is imperfect as experts keeps denying other experts on the same subject, but asking those questions the way you do, by being respectful, funny and friendly like when you commented to that guest: '' you don't look (or sound) convinced'' have made your interviews more interesting as it challenges with gentleness (I find) your guests.
    The only thing that keeps being repeatedly done at times is that sometimes some of your guests speak about something and then contradicts themselves and I find that it would be great to just bring that out quickly and ask why is it contradicting. For example in this episode your guests spoke about how true it is that the testosterone levels in males is decreasing every year and yet towards the end of the episode the penis length of younger generation is longer than the previous because they are exposed to testosterone earlier? What? isn't that contradicting? Being exposed to testosterone earlier means what? to be exposed to more testosterone? However the issue is that it is decreasing... I find that there is something to shed light upon here. It would have been great to ask your guest about how does these two studies can correlate or make sense or even perhaps which one is lying?
    The last thing I want to mention is that she is ok with pornography and masturbation and yet there are admitted concerns from her part about people being addicted to it, to be misinformed about our bodies and sexual knowledge because of it, as well as habituating the body and the brain about what turns on an individual (essentially young people and more realistically young males), and lastly she showed a clear concern about the actual fact that literally kids are exposed to that type of content very early in their lives which can then triggers the problems I just enumerated. It would have been interesting then to ask her about how can she still say that pornography is ok if the content can potentially bring so much problems and concern as everyone is different and nobody knows how they will react (she even herself admitted that everyone is different multiple times in the episode). It's like saying that it's ok to take a certain medication that can cause death to certain people when the reality is that not knowing how you personally will react to that certain medication, your best bet is not to take it especially if the alternative is health. Going back to pornography, the alternative to all the potential problems sounds to me, from the episode and other speakers in social media, are; healthy relationships, and healthy sexual responses and arousals. Though I understand why you need to have your discussions by being and sounding neutral with curiosity, it is when you challenges you guests that makes the questions interesting in my opinion and makes the show valuable in it's content because there is a search for truth.
    Anyways, very interesting episode. Kind of a bit odd to see a woman talking so well and in actual relatable details about how men's reproductive organ works. For someone who doesn't have the equipment, she really do know the literature about it.

  • @bykatesemeniuk
    @bykatesemeniuk Před měsícem +1

    I love her 😀 She expresses her ideas so clearly and quickly! Note that Steven even rarely asks her clarifying questions, which is unusual :)

  • @idreamofjeanielynn
    @idreamofjeanielynn Před měsícem +8

    This is my new TED Talk. I love this show.

  • @lm4936
    @lm4936 Před měsícem +4

    Another thoroughly enjoyable episode! You consistently have great guests on. Even though I have heard much of this content before, I had not heard from this doctor in particular. She was very knowledgeable and articulate. I think we have to continually update ourselves on sex (no matter how old we are), rather than thinking we know it all -- as new knowledge on the topic is always coming to the fore.

  • @LXZMusic
    @LXZMusic Před měsícem +1

    A very informative, educational and eye opening session. Thank you Dr Rena Malik 🙏🏼✨

  • @gnero718
    @gnero718 Před 26 dny

    Best most informative interview I've seen... Dr. M is absolutely amazing... usually don't comment... she deserves it... she's absolutely amazing!

  • @EtherealEcho-jl6jv
    @EtherealEcho-jl6jv Před měsícem +93

    Thank you! “Sexual Health is Health.” Just like “Mental Health is Health”.

    • @simonscott5104
      @simonscott5104 Před měsícem +5

      and health is wealth

    • @OrthoLou
      @OrthoLou Před měsícem

      Yep, and the mental health industry is almost entirely a scam that leads people to their own destruction!

  • @Rokka340
    @Rokka340 Před měsícem +32

    Dr Rena Malik is one of my favourite doctors to listen to. I literally finished this interview in its entirety. Very informative and useful as always.

  • @stephen1Oace
    @stephen1Oace Před 4 dny

    *I've been following Dr Rena Malik for months now. Great choice!!!*

  • @albertpeugh9367
    @albertpeugh9367 Před měsícem

    I’ve been seeing a Urologist since I was 18 due to a motorbike accident. As he was aging at that time he constantly dilated my urethra instead of installing a stint (which is now condemned) or by actually fixing the issue of scar tissue growing and closing the urethra.
    I went through catheter dilation for 18 years before getting a new Dr that installed the stint. Now the stint is taboo and the only Drs that will touch me are at OHSU in Portland, OR. It’s only a 6 hour drive so it’s not too bad, but no locals will even look at me.
    This was all said in order to say thank you for speaking up on any and or all of these issues. Most Urologist’s I’ve found only talk about things if there’s a serious medical issue. I’ve learned more from you than I have the local Drs in 38 years. Thanks again!!

  • @deltaflux2381
    @deltaflux2381 Před měsícem +172

    Masturbating by yourself also comes with its disadvantages and I think that those disadvantages definitely outweigh the benefit of reduced prostate cancer risk. Masturbating by yourself 21 times a month kills your drive to seek an actual partner and could possibly affect performance once you finally have a sexual interaction with an actual person in person. Masturbation is kind of like a surrogate for sexual interaction with an actual partner and it also messes up dopamine regulation in your body.

    • @maryamrahman8344
      @maryamrahman8344 Před měsícem

      Sure....as a woman, I would feel alarmed if my guy was masturbating that much like aren't I enough?!?!?! Plus, I would feel like he wouldn't give me a good time in bed just because he had it already. I feel like masturbating wasn't really a thing before and now it is especially because of porn being so available now (online). I wouldn't want my guy to consume porn ever first of all because usually violent sex is portrayed which has a ripple effect of macho culture. Plus I think it actually decreases a man's pleasure of actual sex with a partner. I'd want to be the only woman he sees and sleeps with. 😇

    • @th-rd2xh
      @th-rd2xh Před měsícem +20

      Agree

    • @Accfunny
      @Accfunny Před měsícem

      Bro they didn’t say masturbating reduces cancer risk, ORGASM does, just fuck 21 times a momth

    • @amusedBYfools
      @amusedBYfools Před měsícem +11

      Better something than nothing.

    • @amusedBYfools
      @amusedBYfools Před měsícem +2

      I also agree.

  • @curleycale8274
    @curleycale8274 Před měsícem +16

    What a great speaker Dr Rena Malik was today. Thank you for the hosting this conversation.

  • @rebecca4958
    @rebecca4958 Před měsícem

    Absolutely a wonderful interview from both of you, thank you so much. So informative, respectful and of immense value, thank you 🤗✨☺️❤️

  • @JackKinross
    @JackKinross Před měsícem

    What a thorough professional Rena is. Great podcast.

  • @franciscoramos8780
    @franciscoramos8780 Před měsícem +21

    This podcast series has literally changed my life.

    • @amusedBYfools
      @amusedBYfools Před měsícem +2

      Same. And a shout out to his selection of topics. ❤

  • @samituomisalo
    @samituomisalo Před měsícem +4

    I love the teaser edits at the beginning, love and hate...and here I am watching a full episode, yet again :D Kudos to the editor!

  • @kemalhussein6106
    @kemalhussein6106 Před měsícem

    An absolutely brilliant podcast really enjoyed it. Steven, you ask your questions brilliantly as you make it almost personal and certainly always resonates with queries most of us can relate to. Dr Rena you are a joy to watch and listen too, both educational and interesting. You come over very impartial towards both sexes which makes your explanations very compelling. A superb watch !!

  • @richardmoore2067
    @richardmoore2067 Před 16 dny

    Thank You Dr Malik, for your interest, dedication and continued support of men’s sexual health….we love you

  • @728sandycc
    @728sandycc Před měsícem +3

    Excellent video! Very informative, thank you 😊

  • @Bleuperrr
    @Bleuperrr Před měsícem +4

    I heard all I needed in the first 8 seconds. Thanks!

  • @blackcanary3
    @blackcanary3 Před měsícem +1

    This is one of your best episodes. Rena is awesome.

  • @lefty577
    @lefty577 Před měsícem

    Great interview. Excellent questions as well. You can that Dr. Malik is very intelligent and more importantly well-intentioned.

  • @F_K3NT_D
    @F_K3NT_D Před měsícem +3

    Awesome interview. I really enjoy watching Dr. Malik’s channel.

  • @islamrewards2860
    @islamrewards2860 Před měsícem +154

    When someone says Porn is not bad, then you have to stop listening to them. Porn is destroying society today.

    • @patrickday4206
      @patrickday4206 Před měsícem +2

      awe salami's ilake them

    • @WalterSobchak91
      @WalterSobchak91 Před měsícem +12

      I think like some addictions there's some who can feasibly have a "healthy" time using it but there's also people who need to abstain and not let it control their actions or thoughts. I'm in no way an advocate of it however. Some people can go out and have a couple drinks every weekend and others who can't even keep alcohol in their house for the rest of their lives.

    • @IxNoiRxI
      @IxNoiRxI Před měsícem +7

      @@WalterSobchak91 it's wrong to compare masturbation to alcohol, masturbation does not destroy your body, while alcohol does. In 99% of cases "porn addiction" develops only if you have an underlying psychological problem (depression, ocd, etc) and goes away as soon the main cause get treated.
      The only real problem is that men and women who often watch porn can have a bit less "drive" to search for a partner.

    • @TrutherOne-xv8nr7yj3e
      @TrutherOne-xv8nr7yj3e Před měsícem +6

      No that credit goes to Biden.

    • @palodagreat1008
      @palodagreat1008 Před měsícem

      What way is porn contributing to the destruction of the white mans world???

  • @MannyP_997.2
    @MannyP_997.2 Před měsícem

    Yet another reason why I am thrilled to be a subscriber!

  • @steelblackface
    @steelblackface Před 23 dny +1

    the reason why you have over 5 mil subs is because your topics are interesting. im not a subscriber to this channel but ive watched several of the videos and for me i can say that they were enjoyable.

  • @Jbook464
    @Jbook464 Před měsícem +18

    I like how she started a lot of responses with "there's actually a really good study" or "there's not many studies done on this". Very transparent

  • @user-mz3jy3tw9h
    @user-mz3jy3tw9h Před 25 dny +7

    Wow, this is very enlightening. Finally a real conversation instead of the eggshell kind of discussion. Rina is wonderful.

  • @nkopanenkhereanye4830
    @nkopanenkhereanye4830 Před měsícem

    What a sick intro 😫💯 I gotta watch this one instantly.

  • @PurpleLufky
    @PurpleLufky Před měsícem

    One of your best interviews. The doctor is amazing, and you asked Incredibly great questions❤❤❤

  • @r_unner_G
    @r_unner_G Před měsícem +19

    Love this woman! She's very thoughtful, knowledgeable and open-minded. We need more like her.

  • @Fleefun100
    @Fleefun100 Před měsícem +100

    really GOOD quality episode Dr Rena Malik!

    • @TheDiaryOfACEO
      @TheDiaryOfACEO  Před měsícem +3

      Really glad you enjoyed the episode! 🙏

    • @A7teXan
      @A7teXan Před 16 dny

      I read de Rena milk..she helped you milk yourself

  • @zan752000
    @zan752000 Před měsícem +1

    This was a very insightful interview, great information.

  • @adetokunboadetona489
    @adetokunboadetona489 Před měsícem +2

    Another epic episode. Thank you Steve for asking the right questions and more importantly, the questions we all wanted answers to. Excellent work. Keep winning.

  • @markaurelevangelista8622
    @markaurelevangelista8622 Před měsícem +126

    And now make a video on the serious problem with porn, the link to the breakdown of relationships and to human trafficking.
    I would recommend Matt Fradd as guest.

    • @greatcondor8678
      @greatcondor8678 Před měsícem

      Edit; porn, not morning.

    • @amusedBYfools
      @amusedBYfools Před měsícem +9

      Decriminalize prostitution.

    • @gordo3582
      @gordo3582 Před měsícem +25

      Yea I think this woman has a naive view of porn. Because of how sex impacts the brain, pornography essentially short-circuits other systems, undermining secure attachment and intimacy. Frequent porn viewing is associated with lower sexual satisfaction. Pornography use begets loneliness, and loneliness begets pornography use.

    • @evadebruijn
      @evadebruijn Před měsícem +4

      ​@@gordo3582 But like how people can drink responsibly or abuse alcohol, isn't it the same with porn?

    • @wambokodavid7109
      @wambokodavid7109 Před měsícem

      ​@@evadebruijnu dealing with hypocrites

  • @roxonfelmine3990
    @roxonfelmine3990 Před měsícem

    Excellent program. Thanks to Dr. Rena Malik for her professional explaination on sexual health. I could see that she is well knowledgeable on this subject.

  • @larryousman
    @larryousman Před měsícem +1

    This was well done and very informative. Thank you.

  • @MikeSmith-vz2qp
    @MikeSmith-vz2qp Před měsícem +15

    Dr Rena helped me reduce the risk of prostate cancer twice while watching this video.

    • @FC-jh6wg
      @FC-jh6wg Před měsícem +6

      Come on, mate!😂

  • @MyChainVVS
    @MyChainVVS Před měsícem +28

    10 Seconds in, I had to pause and make sure I was in the clear. Thanks for the information, doc!

    • @barmy_irooni
      @barmy_irooni Před měsícem

      Oh la la 😉

    • @OrthoLou
      @OrthoLou Před měsícem +1

      Pretty much shows people just accept what she's saying because it's what they wanna hear.

  • @miltonhenderson8051
    @miltonhenderson8051 Před měsícem

    Congrats on all the success king ✊🏾 continue the evolution you make a difference my brother

  • @GivesAMinute
    @GivesAMinute Před měsícem +1

    This was absolutely fascinating. Thank you both.

  • @elvdell5582
    @elvdell5582 Před 11 dny +3

    I just discovered this channel and I'm so amazed how I listen to these entire talks and how intriguing they are. You really do a great job interviewing people. It is no wonder you have over 5 mill subscribers. Truly amazing.

  • @villagefarang
    @villagefarang Před měsícem +68

    I am so glad I came of age before online porn. I look at that stuff and it just isn't real. I have learned something from every woman I have known and the most important thing I learned is that they are all different. I had to learn how to respond to their needs without them giving explicit instructions. Often we were both trying to figure things out and wow that was so much fun.

    • @karynstouffer3562
      @karynstouffer3562 Před měsícem +6

      As a woman, I commend you. 👏👊

    • @goych
      @goych Před měsícem

      I miss the days of waiting for the porn pic to load

    • @hanskazan7403
      @hanskazan7403 Před měsícem +4

      Thats why you watch amateur category

    • @villagefarang
      @villagefarang Před měsícem +2

      @@hanskazan7403 Yeah but I am not a fan of cellulite, stretch marks, razor burn and butt pimples. I do get your point however.

    • @mindfulmaximalism
      @mindfulmaximalism Před měsícem

      It's called amateur porn. Before it went online, there was way less available. You came of age when it was mostly produced by studios.

  • @sdwalls72
    @sdwalls72 Před 29 dny

    Great discussion. Learned more from this video than I have in all my 52 years of my life. Thank you Doctor.

  • @isabelleregisramahafaly300

    What a bunch of skills from this woman. In addition, she speaks so clearly, with a compréhensible accent.
    Bravo for all these good informations.

  • @bsenalaska
    @bsenalaska Před měsícem +3

    Love the look with the new glasses❤

  • @owenjones63
    @owenjones63 Před měsícem +4

    I've been on an infertility journey for the last 4 years and the words spoken in this podcast could not be more true, I used to drink, smoked cannabis and not look after myself - after turning it all around and having various tests over the years I have improved the concentration, motility and numbers in my sperm count exponentially!
    No or low sugar intake, a healthy lifestyle, good foods, no saunas, low caffeine intake! - natural fats and resistance training is everything I've added a huge impact is keeping your genitals COOL - I used frozen packs down there 20mins a day!! looking after your gut - I've cleared skin problems I had for years and am at the best I've ever felt - regular ejaculation also is key!

    • @Divisiononebasketball
      @Divisiononebasketball Před měsícem

      No saunas? Saunas are the best thing you can do for heart health and longevity.

    • @owenjones63
      @owenjones63 Před měsícem +1

      @@Divisiononebasketball of course yes but terrible for fertility issue's due to the heat, for optimum results testicles need to be kept cool as much as possible. I cannot wait to get back in the sauna once I've completed my next round!

    • @Divisiononebasketball
      @Divisiononebasketball Před měsícem

      @@owenjones63 Oh I’m an empty nester so I don’t worry about that. I actually used sauna regularly before I had kids. I have two kids, one a graduate of Northeastern University and the other studying engineering at Berkeley. I’m not worried about infertility.

  • @rowanlyle
    @rowanlyle Před měsícem

    I think you deserve the success of the channel, you always ask great questions and an eclectic mix of subject. it would be really good if you could use your immense audience to bring to the attention the many insidious plans, the governments around the world are implementing such a geo engineering and how long terms effects this may have on health

  • @EdgarsCunda
    @EdgarsCunda Před měsícem

    This show is really excellent! Thank's for doing it!!

  • @_QA_
    @_QA_ Před měsícem +241

    21 times? achievement unlocked

    • @user-kz4px9jb3v
      @user-kz4px9jb3v Před měsícem +33

      Rookie Numbers 😪

    • @JustPete65
      @JustPete65 Před měsícem +5

      Brilliant

    • @vincentperrine7245
      @vincentperrine7245 Před měsícem

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂​@@user-kz4px9jb3v

    • @KA0SW0LF
      @KA0SW0LF Před měsícem +27

      21 times is only bronze tier achievement. You still gotta do silver, gold, platinum, and diamond tiers. Stay healthy

    • @alexcwagner
      @alexcwagner Před měsícem +25

      It's good to get all 21 times done on the first day, so you have the rest of the month free for other things.

  • @dustman96
    @dustman96 Před měsícem +12

    By far the best interview I've seen on this topic. Thank you.

    • @DrYouMrTube
      @DrYouMrTube Před 27 dny

      lol... If you take 10 minutes to double check the crap she said, almost NONE of those statements are based on science. NONE! She is a certified idiot youtube-influencer with a narcisist ego who makes up her own opinions. 10 minutes of your life will prove she is a charlatan.

  • @andraciernovici5534
    @andraciernovici5534 Před měsícem

    The best thing about the interview is the questions that you ask, man, they are what i would ask her❤😮

  • @deangibson5930
    @deangibson5930 Před 23 dny

    Excellent!!! open honest no shy questions or answers I learned a lot this doctor is AWESOME!!

  • @DagmarsOdyssey
    @DagmarsOdyssey Před měsícem +18

    The widespread belief that sex inherently benefits health, perpetuated by modern society, actually contributes to shortened lifespans, particularly among men. For men who do not practice semen retention, the repercussions are diverse and significant. They experience decreased sperm quality, leading to issues like low energy levels and testosterone. This deficiency affects sleep patterns and self-control, making it challenging to redirect energy towards more meaningful pursuits, consequently impacting confidence levels. Furthermore, their immune system suffer, as sperm contains vital minerals and vitamins acting as antioxidants to combat free radicals.

    • @veronicasung1683
      @veronicasung1683 Před měsícem +13

      Why don't he invite someone who does semen retention instead of a so called expert on excessive fornication. Semen retention is an ancient art and many masters of the past and present still do it. The Chinese would say the semen is the "Jing" or life essence. Spilling it is like what they call it in French, le petite mort

    • @IxNoiRxI
      @IxNoiRxI Před měsícem

      @@veronicasung1683 wow, you guys are actual fanatics, there are zero studies in any countries that confirm any benefit from abstinance. Your testosterone level stays the same and sperm quality recovers in a day after ejaculation.

    • @MisterNumber6
      @MisterNumber6 Před měsícem

      Thank you for being one lone voice of reason in a comment section full of chronic masturbators.

    • @owg952
      @owg952 Před měsícem

      @@veronicasung1683 He's not based.

    • @TrutherOne-xv8nr7yj3e
      @TrutherOne-xv8nr7yj3e Před měsícem +3

      Clinical studies say just the opposite. Be careful who you follow.

  • @NFTwizardz
    @NFTwizardz Před měsícem +7

    Mad respect for this lady! I stopped listening to your podcast but this is a for sure listen!
    She's is incredible love her channel!

  • @rstanokusa8826
    @rstanokusa8826 Před 29 dny

    A helpful conversation for matters affecting all of us. Good goal of helping humans enjoy health to the fullest

  • @mohameddhaouadi6285
    @mohameddhaouadi6285 Před 28 dny +1

    This doctor is a real expert in her domain

  • @Michael_RareZebra
    @Michael_RareZebra Před měsícem +3

    Dr. Malik is quite the treasure in her information sharing.

  • @Zantemakeup
    @Zantemakeup Před měsícem +21

    I was with my husband for 6 months when I got pregnant (planned). He then never touched me again. 3 years passed. He wouldn’t even talk about it. I wanted to understand the problem so we could fix it. He didn’t communicate. So I left. Communication is EVERYTHING.

    • @markbarclay02
      @markbarclay02 Před měsícem +1

      I'm sure you have a replacement. Congratulations 🙏

    • @TravellingonaBudget
      @TravellingonaBudget Před měsícem +4

      Or he just wanted to make you his babymama.. he could be homosexual

    • @imconfused1237
      @imconfused1237 Před měsícem +3

      Sounds like he got bored of you.

    • @dplj4428
      @dplj4428 Před měsícem +5

      Because he never opened up, he may have missed out on a chance to heal. There are challenges for all of us. There’s s no way I can guess why. I hope going forward you both can at least manage the necessary communication for discussing your child’s needs.

    • @7ShadowMaiden7
      @7ShadowMaiden7 Před měsícem +3

      @@markbarclay02wow what in her comment makes you think that???