Jacqueline Ades Case | Text Message Stalking

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  • @barfymann362
    @barfymann362 Před 3 lety +358

    Every time I'm sad that I'm single, I come to Dr. Grande's channel to reassure myself that it's better to be alive. Thank you, Dr. Grande.

  • @shanesullivan460
    @shanesullivan460 Před 3 lety +807

    I usually block someone after the first 30,000 texts.

  • @thetraumamom3355
    @thetraumamom3355 Před 3 lety +861

    “Being wasteful is where she draws the line!” Love your sense of humor!

    • @prestonik
      @prestonik Před 3 lety +9

      I was just about to say that. Dear Lord, we are in a dark place.

    • @tottenhamhotspurish
      @tottenhamhotspurish Před 3 lety +22

      I analyse Dr Grande has the sense of humour of a Brit.
      Us Brits love a dry sense of humour.

    • @thetraumamom3355
      @thetraumamom3355 Před 3 lety +9

      @@prestonik Yes we are.

    • @thetraumamom3355
      @thetraumamom3355 Před 3 lety +8

      @@tottenhamhotspurish That must be why I found it funny! I love British humor!

    • @prestonik
      @prestonik Před 3 lety +3

      @@thetraumamom3355 I feel safe now. Thank you

  • @JediBunny
    @JediBunny Před 3 lety +319

    I grew up in the same town as Jackie. I never got to know her super well but we shared some classes, had a couple play dates and she attended one of my birthday parties. She was kind, composed and keenly intelligent for our age. I never witnessed her exhibit any abnormal behavior - certainly nothing resembling what we see here.
    This case was so saddening to hear as it’s clear she didn’t receive or keep up with adequate treatment. Another reason mental health awareness is so vitally important.
    Hoping Jackie gets the help she needs and that as intense as her case is, that the discussion surrounding it creates further space for mindful and meaningful mental health discourse.

    • @jimpatterson1111
      @jimpatterson1111 Před 3 lety +19

      Nicely put

    • @mjwbulich
      @mjwbulich Před 3 lety +48

      Very often schizophrenia doesn't manifest until someone is in their late teens or early twenties. My friend Jennifer was a typical teenager. Then around age twenty she started displaying very erratic behavior. One time disappearing for almost a week before being discovered half naked and close to death in the mountains. Luckily she came from a loving home and her parents got her the help she needed. Medication allows her to have a somewhat normal life. Let's just hope Jackie gets the same sort of help.

    • @minacerra
      @minacerra Před 3 lety +46

      Apparently her friend came out with a CZcams audio stating this man was known to the family and had been grooming and engaging with Jacqueline since she was 16.

    • @JediBunny
      @JediBunny Před 3 lety +21

      @@minacerra oh goodness... Do you happen to have a link to that being addressed? Jackie moved away before we turned 16 so I never knew about any of that. So sad if that’s true.

    • @patriciah2287
      @patriciah2287 Před 3 lety +7

      @@minacerra could you please share the link?

  • @andreaturnquist4855
    @andreaturnquist4855 Před 3 lety +319

    Came for my daily dose of dry humor, psychology, and the comments. Thanks, Dr. Grande.

  • @viktormedina4631
    @viktormedina4631 Před 3 lety +161

    “It’s almost like a stalker who appreciates recycling. It’s one thing to stalk, but being wasteful is where she draws the line.” LMAO! How you can say things like that without laughing and still offer a serious and thoughtful analysis at the same time is beyond me. You are one of a kind.
    Thanks again for cheering up my day, Dr. Grande!

    • @spanglelime
      @spanglelime Před 3 lety +5

      I replayed that 3 times and just collapsed laughing every single time. I need a Dr. Grande in my real life, bc this man is a comedy gold!

    • @cantbesure0714
      @cantbesure0714 Před 3 lety +2

      He must have to edit like crazy.

    • @viktormedina4631
      @viktormedina4631 Před 3 lety

      @@spanglelime Same here> I do not know how many times I've spit my coffee laughing at his jokes. Well, lesson learned. NO eating or drinking when watching his videos. LOL

    • @deedrathelibra
      @deedrathelibra Před 2 lety

      😂😂

  • @BunnySlippers82
    @BunnySlippers82 Před 3 lety +330

    I don't know about anyone else, but I would've changed my phone number long before someone got to send me 159k texts.

    • @andreaturnquist4855
      @andreaturnquist4855 Před 3 lety +6

      Right?!

    • @chidimmaj.730
      @chidimmaj.730 Před 3 lety +43

      True, but I wonder if he allowed them as proof for eventually building a case against her? Or to gage when she may show up at his residence? I wish I knew more details.

    • @andreaturnquist4855
      @andreaturnquist4855 Před 3 lety +8

      @@chidimmaj.730 Valid point

    • @GoGreen1977
      @GoGreen1977 Před 3 lety +20

      @@chidimmaj.730 Do you need 159,000 text messages to make your case?? I probably would've blocked her after the first 50.

    • @unbreakable4650
      @unbreakable4650 Před 3 lety +4

      Its necessary for the case.
      I've been going through similar since 8/2019 but it involves spyware and daily almost hourly SMS and spoofed phone calls
      No idea the total number of texts nor calls
      What helps is having a completely different phone for important stuff as well as friends and family as it can become isolating when you are traumatized by your phone.
      Praying for the guys continued healing from the abuse

  • @nickparkin8527
    @nickparkin8527 Před 3 lety +254

    I love the way Todd calmly, and professionally roasts people.

    • @MugenTJ
      @MugenTJ Před 3 lety +9

      Lack of empathy I’d say. lol

    • @Crayola.n
      @Crayola.n Před 3 lety +7

      Wouldn’t you love to see him break character and loose it with laughter.

    • @keatonmask1918
      @keatonmask1918 Před 3 lety +1

      Not really professional at all but definitely calm!

    • @majorccunliffe4662
      @majorccunliffe4662 Před 2 lety +2

      He does go in hard..all the while dead pan...awesome comedy

    • @jessickalush3305
      @jessickalush3305 Před 2 lety

      @@Crayola.n no. I'd destroy my house, thumbs down, and unsubscribe

  • @tottenhamhotspurish
    @tottenhamhotspurish Před 3 lety +416

    “It’s one thing to stalk, but being wasteful draws the line”🤣🤣
    You should be a script writer for a dark comedy.

    • @natalie9884
      @natalie9884 Před 3 lety +4

      Love his humour!

    • @billie6814
      @billie6814 Před 3 lety +7

      Oh my lawdt. Yussssss. I'd watch the shit out of a dark comedy with Grande behind it.

    • @therealbs2000
      @therealbs2000 Před 3 lety

      I basically come for the humor...the psychology is a nice bonus

    • @oxcart4172
      @oxcart4172 Před 3 lety

      He is!

  • @piratepiffvideo
    @piratepiffvideo Před 3 lety +100

    Reminds me of the movie "He Loves Me He Loves Me Not" (2002) where the first half of the movie is from the perspective of a woman madly in love. The second half of the movie retells the entire story from his perspective, and he doesn't even know she exists. They had briefly met, and she'd become increasingly insane with the delusion that they were a couple, stalking and threatening him.

    • @Girl-101
      @Girl-101 Před 2 lety +16

      This film you mention sounds great! I will watch it, thanks for the info! 😀

    • @twinkleflipup
      @twinkleflipup Před 2 lety +1

      0

    • @blinkypushbuttons
      @blinkypushbuttons Před 9 měsíci

      That’s like every relationship almost.

  • @oliverquach9614
    @oliverquach9614 Před 3 lety +668

    Not totally relevant, but it’s kind of impressive how drastically she can alter her look. I swear some of those photos aren’t of the same person.

    • @danikadahl2824
      @danikadahl2824 Před 3 lety +50

      Yeah, lots of drastically different looks. Even expressions, smiles,, poses drastically different.

    • @GravyGoodbread
      @GravyGoodbread Před 3 lety +112

      An Asian, Hispanic, Pacific Islander or white woman of varying weight and hair. A chameleon.

    • @christinecortese9973
      @christinecortese9973 Před 3 lety +31

      It almost makes me suspect DID. Some multiples are wildly different to the core personality

    • @kenmore01
      @kenmore01 Před 3 lety +44

      I have noticed many women like that, especially makeup / no makeup. Not bizarre at all.

    • @feleciaclemons5074
      @feleciaclemons5074 Před 3 lety +2

      Can't be, right??🤔

  • @babygloriagetsomesleep3826
    @babygloriagetsomesleep3826 Před 3 lety +130

    This woman isn’t well. She shouldn’t have been allowed to sit that media interview.

    • @nighttrain1236
      @nighttrain1236 Před 3 lety +31

      I used to think that people like her were just mad and bad, but as I get older I realise that they are actually in agony inside and that we should treat them with kindness alongside strong boundaries.

    • @rayrayqbaby
      @rayrayqbaby Před 3 lety +5

      My sentiments exactly!

    • @twincherry4958
      @twincherry4958 Před 3 lety +2

      Emotion overload

    • @gabrielamartiniuc6322
      @gabrielamartiniuc6322 Před 2 lety

      Right

    • @jjn6914
      @jjn6914 Před 2 lety

      Another documentary on YT stated she requested to have an interview with media.

  • @johnc7385
    @johnc7385 Před 3 lety +261

    That's 523 messages a day.
    If she's awake 16 hours a day that's 32 messages every hour... Or one every two minutes.
    Bonkers.

    • @sato7320
      @sato7320 Před 3 lety +17

      I don't see how you could do that without some serious OCD...

    • @MusicLeeSarah
      @MusicLeeSarah Před 3 lety +24

      Thank you for the breakdown!

    • @heresthethingyouguys
      @heresthethingyouguys Před 3 lety +2

      That's impossible, the 151,000 texts has to be an overstatement

    • @tiaralcu
      @tiaralcu Před 3 lety +4

      i'm not assuming all of those to be actual messages. seems like a whole lot of spam and copy paste like you can easily send 100 messages in a few minutes

    • @Itsunclegabby
      @Itsunclegabby Před 3 lety +7

      @designerwaterbottle I work with individuals that have cognitive disabilities, some of them experience psychosis, mania, and depression. In some cases they do stop grooming, changing clothes, and showering altogether.

  • @pumibel1720
    @pumibel1720 Před 3 lety +70

    When I saw her interview, I felt extremely sad for her. I have been stalked before and understand how terrifying it can be, so I feel bad for the guy. But she is clearly ill, and the press exploited her terribly. I hope that she gets the care she needs and that the victim is able to reclaim his life.

    • @danielasante8245
      @danielasante8245 Před 2 lety +4

      It appears the enjoyed the attention, think about it. I would like to read any of his replies to those texts. I think Dr Grande should analyse him.

    • @lindseyowen5968
      @lindseyowen5968 Před 2 lety +2

      Absolutely, couldn’t agree more. I wish Jackie all the best

    • @motorcitymetal5299
      @motorcitymetal5299 Před 2 lety +4

      @@danielasante8245 Never fails someone always trying to blame a man like he was really the villain that was exploiting her. So what if he enjoyed the attention when he first thought she was normal? Anyone would like to receive attention and feel attractive.

    • @HolyRollerTV
      @HolyRollerTV Před 7 měsíci

      @@motorcitymetal5299 yup.. its the same bs , problem is that men won't call these idiotic women out on their bs...i will , youtube strike or no strike...

  • @alialabbas1982
    @alialabbas1982 Před 3 lety +184

    "We the jury find the defendant not guilty but we find the defendant guilty of being in true love" 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Patty..F
      @Patty..F Před 3 lety +2

      Dr Grande, love your dry sense of humor. It sounds like she followed the Jodi Arias story. He lucked out.

    • @shanesullivan460
      @shanesullivan460 Před 3 lety +1

      Like O.J. Simpson, her only crime was loving too much.

    • @davilathegreat
      @davilathegreat Před 3 lety +3

      And you reached this decision unanimously?
      We do, your honor.
      Then I sentence you both to life. You may now kiss the bride.

    • @alialabbas1982
      @alialabbas1982 Před 3 lety

      @@davilathegreat 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @YTStoleMyUsername
      @YTStoleMyUsername Před 2 lety

      "You may now kiss the bride." 👰‍♀️🤔

  • @ladollyvita333
    @ladollyvita333 Před 3 lety +10

    I met her, a few years ago when she was staying at a mutual friends house in nyc.
    She had these two amazing doggies, whom she’d taught all these entertaining tricks.
    I thought she was alittle kooky, but she wasn’t ill. I found her to be funny, polite (obviously a good house guest), and warm. She helped with dinner and I enjoyed her company.
    The brain is a complicated thing, especially when it gets sick. That interview outraged me - it was like the media was capitalizing off a human being who was clearly having a crisis and a break with reality.
    Underneath the “madness” (I don’t know what other word to use), there’s a gentle soul. I doubt I’ll meet her again, but this update makes me sad.

    • @harlowjademermaid1882
      @harlowjademermaid1882 Před 2 lety +1

      did you hear that this guy she was stalking supposedly groomed her since she was a kid? He knew her family going back years?? I saw a friend of hers has a channel explaining everything. i wonder if its all true. if so, thats even more messed up. i felt soo bad for her the entire interview.

    • @denny414
      @denny414 Před rokem

      ​@@harlowjademermaid1882no

    • @HolyRollerTV
      @HolyRollerTV Před 7 měsíci

      i guess her gentle soul likes bone collecting ...

    • @Faizasmith-pj4dz
      @Faizasmith-pj4dz Před 6 měsíci

      ​@@harlowjademermaid1882 her dad has come out and said she met the guys family. It was also more than one or 3 dates. She's now dead.

  • @erichavnen3727
    @erichavnen3727 Před 3 lety +313

    This PROVES the true dangers of one night stands... YIKES!!!

  • @Antzlives
    @Antzlives Před rokem +11

    Jackie passed away July 2021. She was completely normal, fun and kind until around 2017. She struggled since then. I'll always remember her for the good she did. She will be missed. Love you Jackie x

    • @nonloso575
      @nonloso575 Před 10 měsíci

      How did she die? 😢

    • @Doidao-xx5vf
      @Doidao-xx5vf Před 10 měsíci

      @@nonloso575I’m surprised the guy allowed her to send him that many texts lol. I would’ve told her to fuck off.

    • @blinkypushbuttons
      @blinkypushbuttons Před 9 měsíci

      BS

    • @Faizasmith-pj4dz
      @Faizasmith-pj4dz Před 6 měsíci

      ​@@blinkypushbuttonsit's true. Sadly she died in 2021. Look up Jacqueline Claire Ades. 1986-2021. She was only 8 months older than me.

  • @kenmore01
    @kenmore01 Před 3 lety +56

    Stealing a TV, but stops to say to the clerk "just to be clear, I'm not bringing this back" ROFL!!! 😂

  • @sadyoshhours2769
    @sadyoshhours2769 Před 3 lety +45

    So she's a writer and doesn't know it, wastes it on a man and goes to prison. Smh! Could've written a bestselling psycho romance thriller in that time!

  • @SkyofDread
    @SkyofDread Před 3 lety +54

    Hi Dr. Grande and viewers. Really appreciating the unbiased analysis and emphasis on the facts. In this day in age, it is incredibly refreshing. Thank you

  • @missmodern
    @missmodern Před 3 lety +246

    Sounds like she went to the Jodi Arias School of Dating.

  • @JennRighter
    @JennRighter Před 3 lety +151

    I get guilt tripped for not texting my friends and family enough. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I should send them this.

    • @djcastano1180
      @djcastano1180 Před 3 lety +17

      You should send them 159,000 messages. See how they feel

    • @JennRighter
      @JennRighter Před 3 lety +6

      @@djcastano1180 I really should!

    • @chrisgould101
      @chrisgould101 Před 3 lety +1

      Just tell them to get wrecked

    • @Itsunclegabby
      @Itsunclegabby Před 3 lety +3

      I find it so strange when I'm having a conflict with someone and they'll want to sit there and text but let the phone ring. I just know that person has no spine.

    • @francesbernard2445
      @francesbernard2445 Před 3 lety +3

      I have the opposite problem only because I am a woman of many words. People including all of my family members often have to remind me to limit my words in text messages and my number of written communications done without using that automatic voice to text app on my computer because at least when only writing I will not go on and on as much. Maybe I should write more poems, short stories and look into writing my first novel and my first screen play too instead of writing too much according to all of my relatives and all of my friends. But first I have to finish recovering from a roll over car accident I was passenger in on May 3, 2019.

  • @bra24hnt52
    @bra24hnt52 Před 3 lety +77

    On every picture she looks like a different person

    • @FrankBenlin
      @FrankBenlin Před 3 lety +4

      The oceans of lotions and potions.

  • @Omni-Blast
    @Omni-Blast Před 3 lety +44

    I'm thankful I found your channel a few days ago and now I've binged an unhealthy amount in a short period of time. 😂

    • @ren17x50
      @ren17x50 Před 3 lety +4

      Sounds like quote from Cheech and Chong a up in smoke...." She's been through a lot in a short period of time"

    • @dominicboiles6795
      @dominicboiles6795 Před 3 lety

      Same

    • @beky13131
      @beky13131 Před 3 lety +1

      I met Ades several times while she was apparently involved in this incident. She was a customer of the place I worked. I was absolutely stunned to see her on the news and to hear what she was being accused of. She stood out to my coworkers and I because she was very polite, sweet, friendly, and a great tipper! She did tell some interesting stories though. It is shocking and heartbreaking that this is what happened. I sincerely hope she has gotten the medical care she needed afterward.

  • @theprodigalprophet
    @theprodigalprophet Před 3 lety +71

    So a CEO millionaire doesn't know how to block a number on his phone?!

    • @imperialtutor8687
      @imperialtutor8687 Před 3 lety +8

      I am sure after she entered his house unannounced he was advised by his legal counsel to keep the conversation somewhat going also at the beginning I am sure he tried to reason with her and I can imagine they still had a casual thing going..

    • @BGfootballfan
      @BGfootballfan Před 3 lety +8

      I think he probably got another phone and kept that one for evidence.

    • @kcgunesq
      @kcgunesq Před 3 lety +6

      Why wouldn't he have a burner phone for such encounters and why would he ever let her (or anyone like her) know where he lives after a single date?

    • @DrumWild
      @DrumWild Před 3 lety +5

      I once worked for a millionaire in commercial real estate, who needed me to open his emails every morning and constant hand holding with all tech.
      Money does not equate to intelligence or ability.

  • @zuriii
    @zuriii Před 3 lety +147

    “Maybe she was concerned that he would think she was going to borrow those parts and was going to give them back later” 😭😂

  • @meggallucci5300
    @meggallucci5300 Před 3 lety +85

    She looks different in every photograph as though a different person. Just another thought on her peculiarities.

  • @DEPARTMENTOFREDUNDANCYDEPT
    @DEPARTMENTOFREDUNDANCYDEPT Před 3 lety +26

    Starting the new year off right with another fascinating Dr. Grande video!

  • @dirtysanchez941
    @dirtysanchez941 Před 3 lety +42

    LMAO Dr. Grande has the driest sense of humor! Just the best. 😂

  • @cantbesure0714
    @cantbesure0714 Před 3 lety +165

    I want a t-shirt that says “Diagnosed by Dr Grande”

  • @mlovmo
    @mlovmo Před 3 lety +119

    Big takeaway: Don't have sex with people "who have unusual beliefs."

    • @francesbernard2445
      @francesbernard2445 Před 3 lety +2

      Like being able to assume way too much of everything based only on the superficial that is false most of the time.

    • @piratepiffvideo
      @piratepiffvideo Před 3 lety +9

      I thought that was odd, and definitely a poor choice - if the guy was already creeped out enough by her to not want to bring her back to his place, he shouldn't have gone to her place for sex. He should've ended the date there.

    • @francesbernard2445
      @francesbernard2445 Před 3 lety +1

      @@piratepiffvideo For sure the double minded along with those who like to jump to fast conclusions based only on the superficial most of all when their own eye sight is getting worse all the time sure like refusing to ever wear their prescription glasses and are sure unpredictable eh?

    • @PuddilyOops
      @PuddilyOops Před 3 lety +12

      Or don’t have sex with people you just met because they might be a psycho 🤷‍♂️

    • @chatnoir9038
      @chatnoir9038 Před 3 lety +1

      @@TheRealCaptainFreedom Ok, creep 😂

  • @karenmare3720
    @karenmare3720 Před 3 lety +4

    Psychiatrist here - longtime admirer of both your analyses and dry wit Dr Grande ;). While it is not good practice to diagnose people we have not interviewed, this does seem like a textbook case of Erotomania - a specific type of delusional disorder. People believe the individual is in love with them but for some reason will not admit to it publicly. They misinterpret innocuous events as "evidence" that the love object sending them covert signals of their love. (Cf the excellent novel by Ian McEwan - "Enduring Love"). This also explains why she thought the jury would likely tell the man to "stop playing games" and marry her.

  • @tiaralcu
    @tiaralcu Před 3 lety +70

    "just so you know...i'm not bringin' this back"😭😭😭😂

  • @tottenhamhotspurish
    @tottenhamhotspurish Před 3 lety +76

    I’m not a DR of the mind or the body or anything else for that matter, but I can conclude she probably suffers with a repetitive strain injury through sending 159,000 text messages within ten months.
    She could be an android of the Bot kind 😫

    • @francesbernard2445
      @francesbernard2445 Před 3 lety +1

      How can you conclude that too from a distance? Do you have some sort of 'super duper hero powers like 'the Lizard people' [I'm being facetious here] or what?

    • @germansnowman
      @germansnowman Před 3 lety

      It’s actually not outside the realm of possibility if you do the math: This is a bit more than one text per minute for eight hours every day. If you type a lot on your computer, I think you could be on the same order of magnitude when counting characters.

  • @froonamission1013
    @froonamission1013 Před 3 lety +28

    "A stalker who appreciates recycling "... Dr. Grande's jokes and deadpan delivery give me life, analyzed and roasted!

  • @monkeywkeys3916
    @monkeywkeys3916 Před 3 lety +90

    So... is she Available or not?

    • @Swnsasy
      @Swnsasy Před 3 lety +9

      ROFLOL Omgosh I can't breathe 🤣🤣

    • @sadyoshhours2769
      @sadyoshhours2769 Před 3 lety +5

      It's one thing to spam. It's another to support Hitler

    • @henkbarnard1553
      @henkbarnard1553 Před 3 lety +6

      So you like sticking it in crazy?

    • @lmarteen2778
      @lmarteen2778 Před 3 lety +4

      She says he was her soul mate, no his money was her soul mate!

    • @piperentp7
      @piperentp7 Před 3 lety +3

      Tbh I’d give her a chance

  • @beky13131
    @beky13131 Před 3 lety +3

    She was a customer where I worked during this time. She was very sweet, polite, friendly, and a generous tipper. She was a guest several times that year and was liked by the whole staff. I was stunned to see her on the news afterward! It is so sad...the whole thing. She was unique for sure, but didn't seem mentally ill at all. She never said anything offputting. She did have some interesting stories and we knew she had been traveling around the U.S. for a while. I saw her on her phone alot...I'm wondering if she was texting the victim right then and there! I sincerely hope she has received the medical care she needed.

  • @janeE011
    @janeE011 Před 2 lety +16

    Dr Grande, it's quite clear when watching her " interview" with the news that this woman was terribly ill. How you, as a professional, can joke about her case and condition is beyond me and it disappoints many of us who hold you in high regard. This poor woman is non-restorable. She's basically fkd for life. It's a very sad story.

    • @travelamazon
      @travelamazon Před 2 lety +4

      If a man was this crazy, would you show the same sympathy?

    • @limasierra6639
      @limasierra6639 Před 11 měsíci +1

      I was also taken aback at Dr. Grande's "jokes" in this case. Not at all cute or funny.

    • @nonloso575
      @nonloso575 Před 10 měsíci

      She died in 2021, sadly 😢

    • @chrissyp9003
      @chrissyp9003 Před 10 měsíci

      Hes always a c*nt about everyone. He isn’t a nice man.

  • @dustydo8048
    @dustydo8048 Před 3 lety +61

    “I will make sushi out of your kidneys” that’s a red flag, right Dr Grande?! 🚩🚩🚩

    • @Dimiama
      @Dimiama Před 3 lety +4

      no, it is what a loving person does, she loves him to his kidneys.

    • @lnc-to4ku
      @lnc-to4ku Před 3 lety +4

      Lol!! There isn't a red flag big enough to wave for that one.

    • @dustydo8048
      @dustydo8048 Před 3 lety +4

      My friends tell my I’m legally blind because I can’t see red flags... just wanted to check! 😂

    • @thatsalt1560
      @thatsalt1560 Před 3 lety +2

      Lol!

    • @martinaplaschka8616
      @martinaplaschka8616 Před 3 lety +2

      That she doesn't know how sushi works, that is.

  • @kylaren6337
    @kylaren6337 Před 3 lety +4

    Dr. Grande as soon as I saw the video title I knew I would be in stitches 😂🤣. You didn’t disappoint.

  • @haroldmcbroom7807
    @haroldmcbroom7807 Před 3 lety +20

    So the CEO was married, but cheated on his wife, and thought he could throw her away the same as he threw his own wife away. They were only objects for a quick fix. I'd call that justice. Not the fact that it ended like that, but the fact that this one particular girl turned out to be something he never expected, by now, I'm sure his wife is well aware that he cheated on her.

    • @Mdeaccosta
      @Mdeaccosta Před 3 lety +1

      That's pretty woke, harold. I'm inclined to put you on the "do not consume" list

    • @Mdeaccosta
      @Mdeaccosta Před 3 lety +4

      @@haroldmcbroom7807 oh, harold, it was a compliment. I agree with you completely. I'm just saying your bones will never be chopsticks if I have any say.

    • @haroldmcbroom7807
      @haroldmcbroom7807 Před 3 lety +3

      @@Mdeaccosta Sorry for the misunderstanding, I've never heard those phrases before.

    • @Mdeaccosta
      @Mdeaccosta Před 3 lety

      @@haroldmcbroom7807 ✌🙂

    • @harlowjademermaid1882
      @harlowjademermaid1882 Před 2 lety

      @@Mdeaccosta are you "the" Jacqueline?
      My Mum almost named me Jacqueline, same spelling, as well.

  • @katarinazelenova4748
    @katarinazelenova4748 Před 3 lety +143

    I need to stop listening to these videos while applying lipstick. The dry humor and unexpected zingers ensure that I draw all over my face and teeth. Yuck. 😅❤

    • @andreaturnquist4855
      @andreaturnquist4855 Před 3 lety +3

      Right lol

    • @poppydearlove8676
      @poppydearlove8676 Před 3 lety

      F9

    • @andreaturnquist4855
      @andreaturnquist4855 Před 3 lety +8

      @@spiritmatter1553 That's actually an interesting point. I could buy stock in Chapstick. That said, I rarely wear lipstick.

    • @kirsten1144
      @kirsten1144 Před 3 lety +3

      @@spiritmatter1553
      i believe that even though you can’t see the mouth region lots of people who usually wear makeup still wear makeup but maybe no lipstick. or maybe they were make-up at home, who knows

    • @andreaturnquist4855
      @andreaturnquist4855 Před 3 lety +1

      @@kirsten1144 I rarely wear makeup unless I leave my house. Due to the pandemic, I'm rarely leaving my home.

  • @babycakes8434
    @babycakes8434 Před 3 lety +51

    Interesting how she was able to send so many text messages. It wasn't possible to block her? But maybe she was changing phones... She had nothing better to do but chase they guy that didn't want her, and make his and hers life miserable. Thank you Dr. Grande. You look well rested. Happy New year 2021!

    • @hamida185
      @hamida185 Před 3 lety +2

      If he kept blocking her she would not have been able to buy a 100+ new number every day.

    • @omginvalid
      @omginvalid Před 3 lety +3

      If he's a rich businessman, he's got several phones. Business, personal, escort,

    • @napatora
      @napatora Před 3 lety +7

      texting apps. you don't have to buy a whole new number to harass someone but they have to change their number to avoid being harassed.

    • @omginvalid
      @omginvalid Před 3 lety +2

      @@napatora What i'm saying is, is he doesn't even need to do that. He's not even looking at that phone. It's sitting in a desk probably for days before he even checks it. I've dealt with rich businessmen before, they have SEVERAL phones they use for various reasons.

    • @womaninthewave
      @womaninthewave Před 2 lety

      Text free app

  • @ivyyoung521
    @ivyyoung521 Před 3 lety +14

    I'm so glad you did this one. I was wondering what was wrong with her. Thanks Dr. Grande.

  • @Miss_Wonderful1
    @Miss_Wonderful1 Před 3 lety +16

    "It's almost like a stalker who appreciates recycling."😂 Ed Gein was the pioneer of this trend.

  • @brendaverwey7157
    @brendaverwey7157 Před 3 lety +12

    I find anything you analyze to be interesting. Love your sense of humour.

  • @jigglehugs
    @jigglehugs Před 3 lety +11

    Thank you for mentioning the jailhouse interview! I was appalled that was allowed to happen! She was being exploited for entertainment purposes and its gross

  • @ApprenticeOfAll
    @ApprenticeOfAll Před 3 lety +11

    Dr. Grande starts the new year off with another great video. Raising awareness about mental health and giving us invaluable, humorous comments , “it’s almost like a stalker who appreciates recycling.” Wishing you & your viewers a happy and healthy New Year!

  • @yourstruly256
    @yourstruly256 Před 3 lety +3

    "Being wasteful is where she draws the line" 😂😂 you do slay me Dr. Grande!!
    I also wanted to tell you how much you've inspired me. I have always had an interest in Psychology and studied it when I was younger at college. But after having my children I decided to put it on the back burner and enter another field.
    After years of watching your videos, my love for the subject has truly been restored and last month I applied to do my masters in Psychology!! 🥰😇. So thank you soooo much for all that you do!

  • @jimmygervaisnet
    @jimmygervaisnet Před 3 lety +14

    I feel like saving this video and sharing it on Valentine's day ...

  • @CL-lo4wd
    @CL-lo4wd Před 3 lety +4

    “It’s one thing to stalk, but being wasteful is where she draws the line” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you are the best Dr. G!

  • @SuperSara924
    @SuperSara924 Před 3 lety +58

    “She thought Hitler was a genius” well that right there says all I need to know

    • @andreaturnquist4855
      @andreaturnquist4855 Před 3 lety +4

      It's not looking good for her at that juncture. Hitler was mentally ill too.

    • @Harry351ify
      @Harry351ify Před 3 lety +18

      well he was a genius. Doesn't mean he was a good person. There are lots of people out there who are highly intelligent but very bad.

    • @andreaturnquist4855
      @andreaturnquist4855 Před 3 lety +2

      @@Harry351ify Fair statement.

    • @sherunswithscissors
      @sherunswithscissors Před 3 lety

      @@Harry351ify - under what definition?

    • @martineldritch
      @martineldritch Před 3 lety +1

      Hitler the "genius" was the Allies' best general; vanished an entire German army on the eastern front.

  • @TheLamq
    @TheLamq Před 3 lety +4

    Bravo Dr. Grande! I've never heard before someone so objectively speaking about human condition and the complexity of relationships at any level beyond any judgemental or sensationalist bias in cases so unusual and even weird like this particular one. Thanks!

  • @tottenhamhotspurish
    @tottenhamhotspurish Před 3 lety +34

    I analyse that Dr Grande has the sense of humour of a Brit.
    Brits love a dry sense of humour.

    • @Kari.F.
      @Kari.F. Před 3 lety +2

      The thought has crossed my mind many times. The straight faced sarcasms are hilarious, and very British!

    • @xocreme
      @xocreme Před 3 lety +2

      He’s American. Sorry.

    • @gmax639
      @gmax639 Před 3 lety +2

      Dr Grande much better than any Brit

    • @davilathegreat
      @davilathegreat Před 3 lety

      He's the next generation Bob Newhart.

  • @nicoolpeg7821
    @nicoolpeg7821 Před 3 lety +8

    “Just to be clear, I’m not bringing this back 📺” 😂
    I appreciate your humour and sensitivity in this case. It really is very sad. 🇨🇦

  • @NikkiDocherty74
    @NikkiDocherty74 Před 3 lety +48

    She is a stalker, does serial killer threats and mental instability.

  • @richie6377
    @richie6377 Před 3 lety +5

    Cue the onslaught of “makeup is deceptive” comments. Thanks doc lol.
    Sincerely, a makeup artist.

  • @qsprimalaccuracy9709
    @qsprimalaccuracy9709 Před 3 lety +41

    " I was only playing with my imagination"
    (carries a butcher knife on the trunk of the car)

  • @erikparent8176
    @erikparent8176 Před 3 lety +7

    " Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart
    Who looks inside
    Awakens"
    Carl jung

  • @lostinpa-dadenduro7555
    @lostinpa-dadenduro7555 Před 3 lety +54

    She look like Jennifer Tilly, but even more crazier.

    • @feleciaclemons5074
      @feleciaclemons5074 Před 3 lety +4

      Did you just slick call Jennifer Tilly crazy??🤔🤔🤔🤣🤣🤣

    • @lostinpa-dadenduro7555
      @lostinpa-dadenduro7555 Před 3 lety +1

      @@feleciaclemons5074 A little bit. 😀

    • @feleciaclemons5074
      @feleciaclemons5074 Před 3 lety +1

      @@lostinpa-dadenduro7555 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @lisacurtis8162
      @lisacurtis8162 Před 3 lety +8

      Jennifer Tilly is beautiful ❤️. I love her. She's not crazy and she'll beat the pants off you at the poker table.

    • @GravyGoodbread
      @GravyGoodbread Před 3 lety +2

      Yes I can see that! The 3rd Tilly sister.

  • @Jackie-md8zs
    @Jackie-md8zs Před 3 lety +16

    Holy fucking shit. This guy saying what was in those texts in his dry monotone voice had me dying.

  • @EricPetersen2922
    @EricPetersen2922 Před 3 lety +14

    If someone sent my 150,000 txt messages I’d run for cover, there’s no good ending in that scenario.
    Great analysis

    • @sadyoshhours2769
      @sadyoshhours2769 Před 3 lety +1

      Why aint he changed his number

    • @xocreme
      @xocreme Před 3 lety +2

      @@sadyoshhours2769 exactly he loved the attention

  • @kyleeconrad
    @kyleeconrad Před 3 lety +15

    "We the jury now pronounce you man and wife." 🤣🤣🤣

  • @mariee.5912
    @mariee.5912 Před 3 lety +10

    "a stalker that recycles" you're funny!🤣🤣🤣

  • @Richard-lh3te
    @Richard-lh3te Před 3 lety +3

    He may have blocked her but if someone insane is stalking you, you want to be able to see the messages they are sending in case they send threats.

  • @arawn10
    @arawn10 Před 3 lety +38

    *Club 33* is Walt Disney's private dining club, opened in 1967, within the Disneyland Park.

  • @pinklobelia2389
    @pinklobelia2389 Před 3 lety +37

    She could text from a different number if he blocks her. It’s also a hassle to have to change your number

    • @hamida185
      @hamida185 Před 3 lety +8

      Keep blocking, she wasn't going to buy a 100+ new number every day. He could set up his phone to receive only from a his own contacts list number

    • @jonathankessler7436
      @jonathankessler7436 Před 3 lety +2

      @@hamida185 You prob don't realize how easy it is to get free phone numbers you can text from online.

    • @kitten_582
      @kitten_582 Před rokem

      @@jonathankessler7436 it's not that easy he did nothing to protect himself at all

  • @heresthethingyouguys
    @heresthethingyouguys Před 3 lety +23

    "Don't f*ck crazy" ~ CRP

  • @kshaw2307
    @kshaw2307 Před 3 lety

    Getting closer and closer to 600K subs Dr. Grande, happy to see your channel continuing to grow!

  • @SarahSmith-mu1wc
    @SarahSmith-mu1wc Před 3 lety +4

    I've heard of this case. So bizarre! Poor girl is seriously delusional. Thanks for another excellent analysis Dr.
    Happy New Year! 🙂
    Edit: Shame on law enforcement for even allowing her to do that interview with the media! This is a woman who is clearly sick and as far as I'm concerned both the media and law enforcement exploited her and her illness. Very sad and completely unprofessional.

  • @lisetteeliseparis7070
    @lisetteeliseparis7070 Před 3 lety

    'It's one thing to stalk, but being wasteful...', your dry wit! Thanx Dr. Grande.

  • @lightseeker134
    @lightseeker134 Před 3 lety +5

    It's interesting that this crime progressed to the level it did given he had a number of simple solutions. As you mentioned, blocking her number is one and locking his door is another. I wonder if a restraining order would have been beneficial as there would have been consequences for her actions as she would have been held accountable if she had violated its conditions. Anyway, so unfortunate he was unable to exercise the options that were readily available to him.
    Happy New Year!

  • @eksophia
    @eksophia Před 3 lety +2

    Dr. Grande, you slay me! 😂 Of course, I find your analyses fascinating, and your compassion is always still clear. I appreciate how you can find the humor in something dark because I think we need that but then also show your respect for victims and those suffering from poor mental health.

  • @rayross997
    @rayross997 Před 3 lety +7

    "Found non-restorable", "abducted by Walt Disney", "Hitler was a genius", sounds like a fun date.

  • @billie6814
    @billie6814 Před 3 lety +1

    Hey Dr. Grande, I just got my test results back, and I've been diagnosed with Covid-19 today. Edit: alright someone had a problem with me commenting this so I wanted to say I'm not being precious, I know I'm not the only one, and I actually feel fine. I'm in my twenties and I'm not immunocompromised. I'm very lucky compared to a great many people. It's my mental health that's shit, and the isolation/ quarantining is what's personally making me struggle. My favourite CZcams channels are helping and it made me happy to write about it.
    I hope you still see this even though you uploaded this video a little while ago. I love your videos and they're really helping to keep me smiling. So thank you 😊 if anyone else out there is sick (mentally, physically, or emotionally exhausted), waiting for results, or has a sick loved one (pretty sure that's all of us), I hope you're safe, and I want you to know that you matter, you are loved, and we can all do this. 🤗💪💖

  • @abrvalg321
    @abrvalg321 Před 3 lety +5

    So many women don't understand that if a man sleeps with them it doesn't necessarily mean he wants relationship.

    • @tiaralcu
      @tiaralcu Před 3 lety +4

      men also need to learn not to sleep with women they're not interested in when they seem interested

    • @martineldritch
      @martineldritch Před 3 lety

      Or maybe he does but just finds something in her that is..chilling?

    • @Kat-tr2ig
      @Kat-tr2ig Před 3 lety

      Agreed, but men shouldn't promise a relationship with a woman just to get her to sleep with him. Be clear about your intentions, and move on if the other person doesn't want the same.

    • @abrvalg321
      @abrvalg321 Před 3 lety

      @@tiaralcu also women need to learn not to lead men on.

    • @tiaralcu
      @tiaralcu Před 3 lety

      @@abrvalg321 you're going off topic, babe

  • @TheTam0613
    @TheTam0613 Před 3 lety +1

    And I thought my Mom excessively texted me... Mom has nothing on this woman!
    Thank you very much, as always, Dr. Grande. While I know you have some exceedingly wonderful dry humor (which is exactly the same type of humor that I have always had), you always manage to inject some true compassion for those cases that may have a deleterious mental health component. You are such a kind person. I do hope you enjoyed your holiday season and that this New Year brings you joy, love, and blessings. I wish you the best!
    ~Tammy

  • @xenotbbbeats7209
    @xenotbbbeats7209 Před 3 lety +4

    If someone sent me an unbelievably inordinate number of texts, some of which were threatening, I would not block them either. First, they are evidence of criminal behavior and can be used for a conviction, and secondly, it would be wise to let the perpetrator forewarn you about future possible criminal acts since the person appears to do this compulsively and cannot control themselves. Personally, I want to know when violence is coming so I can take preventative measures.

  • @cottontails9003
    @cottontails9003 Před 3 lety

    Dr Grande I have been away for a few days so sorry l missed your last couple of videos Thanks Dr Grande. I'm going back to binge watch them.

  • @crusiethmaximuss
    @crusiethmaximuss Před 3 lety +20

    I remember seeing an interview with her... She looked so crazy!

  • @simonegordon8705
    @simonegordon8705 Před 3 lety

    Dr. Grande- I just love the information you share and your delivery! Insightful, incisive, and always with a sharp wit. Simply the best!

  • @lisap1727
    @lisap1727 Před 3 lety +5

    I was wondering why he didn’t just block her texts also, weird. I enjoy listening to your analysis and timelines of these cases. Very interesting 😊

  • @cari4105
    @cari4105 Před 3 lety +1

    Yes! Been waiting for this one👍🏻

  • @pearltasunkamilahanskaicu6983

    I would enjoy a read on The Dog the bounty hunter Duane Chapman or his late wife Beth Chapman.

  • @natalie9884
    @natalie9884 Před 3 lety +7

    Sushi out of his kidneys and wear his FLESH LIKE A SUIT???! Hahaha okay what is she the new HANNIBAL???

  • @christinek6082
    @christinek6082 Před 3 lety +3

    What I truly want to know, that no one else seems to be focusing on, even in other articles online, is what was that first date like? What transpired during that time that made her so enamored of this man?! Must have been like the best date EVER!

  • @BeeBeeBell
    @BeeBeeBell Před 3 lety +1

    Your dry sense of humor is great!

  • @redbaron2455
    @redbaron2455 Před 3 lety +3

    I'm a guy and i can probably say being stalked gives a sense of "power" or feel like you are needed (without actually wanting to go out with the person). Cant speak for a Ceo of a company though.

  • @raelyneannelli6678
    @raelyneannelli6678 Před 3 lety +2

    🍀 I so enjoy your video sessions & always feel I come away feeling real objective. Thanks for your both-sided analysis. Also, You have a great way with your humor.

  • @mirzaghalib8659
    @mirzaghalib8659 Před 3 lety +7

    Doc, that subtle photo change from filtered shot to real shot while stating 'he no longer was interested in her...' or something similar was real art. 😉

  • @kimmie020
    @kimmie020 Před 3 lety +1

    OMG! Dr. Grande...for a cold cloudy day online with virtual schooling (🙁) your video made me LAUGH SO HARD! Thank you. I really needed this! 😘

  • @tammyjohnson7401
    @tammyjohnson7401 Před 3 lety +8

    Yes something occured in her life that started this spiral downward and the relationship she had with this guy pushed her over. And she left reality behind.

  • @vampyrevixxen
    @vampyrevixxen Před 3 lety +4

    I would love to hear your in depth view on Dr Drew Pinsky.

  • @rejaneoliveira5019
    @rejaneoliveira5019 Před 3 lety +8

    I can’t help remembering the movie “Fatal Attraction” and the infamous “bunny boiler.”
    Even though there was no bunny in this case, both situations had cooking components in it...😰😬
    Really fascinating. This video brings up interesting concepts on love/obsession/revenge/crime. Well done Dr. Grande! ❤️

  • @SashaMess
    @SashaMess Před 3 lety

    Lol! Your sarcasm is pure gold. 💎✨
    Thank you for your sharp mind always making me smile Dr Grande. You’re delightful. ☺️❤️

  • @katzinahat4258
    @katzinahat4258 Před 3 lety +4

    Dr Grande, excellent and entertaining analysis. One thing unmentioned was her heavy breathing. She was almost breathless the entire interview. What are your professional thoughts on that? It was distressing to watch...

  • @matthewsierra314
    @matthewsierra314 Před 3 lety +2

    It’s almost like robbing a big screen tv and telling the store clerk, I’m not bring this back...
    I fell out of my chair 🪑

  • @wh0586
    @wh0586 Před 3 lety +54

    makeup is a hell of a drug

    • @theleneferraro1208
      @theleneferraro1208 Před 3 lety +6

      I hate how much this made me laugh.

    • @SuperNuclearUnicorn
      @SuperNuclearUnicorn Před 3 lety +2

      Hey, my standards are low enough to not care

    • @JanetEsq
      @JanetEsq Před 3 lety +6

      She was a makeup artist, and apparently, she was very good at it.

    • @sadiestoltzfus9798
      @sadiestoltzfus9798 Před 3 lety

      @@JanetEsq I'll say. She seems totally absorbed with herself. Why would she need or have room for another person in her life?

  • @janelleyharris5042
    @janelleyharris5042 Před 3 lety

    Dr. Grande thank you again for adding photos to your videos! It's really great and helps illuminate the story and people involved! Makes your videos extra interesting imo🙂