World’s #1 Dating Expert Matthew Hussey: How to Heal Your Deepest Pain
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- čas přidán 16. 06. 2024
- #364: Heal Your Deepest Pain & Live Happily No Matter What w/ Matthew Hussey
In this episode, I'm joined by Matthew Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author, speaker, and coach specializing in confidence and relational intelligence. Matthew discusses the transformative power of authenticity and vulnerability - highlighting how personal struggles can deepen empathy and strengthen interpersonal connections. He shares insights from his own journey, including battles with chronic pain and the pursuit of happiness. Our conversation dives into themes of self-acceptance, inner peace, and reframing perspectives to lead a more fulfilling life. We also explore strategies for managing emotional and physical pain, transitioning from victimhood to proactive resilience. Join us for this empowering discussion, where we learn to find contentment, navigate emotions effectively, and cultivate self-compassion for healthier relationships and resilience in life's challenges.
Matthew Hussey’s CZcams channel is number one in the world for love life advice, with over half a billion views. He writes a weekly newsletter and is the host of the podcast Love Life With Matthew Hussey. Hussey provides monthly coaching to the members of his private community at LoveLifeClub.com. Over the past fifteen years, his proven approach has inspired millions through authentic, insightful, and practical advice that not only enables them to find love but also feel confident and in control of their own happiness. He lives in Los Angeles.
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Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Dating, Transformation, Conflict, Career, Mental Health, Purpose, Grief, personal growth, vulnerability, self-acceptance, self-compassion
0:00:00 Intro
0:01:24 Starting Out Young
0:03:52 Learning to Accept Imperfection
0:05:24 The Pressure of Giving Advice
0:08:05 Embracing Vulnerability
0:11:10 Evolution from Competence to Confidence
0:16:02 Seeking Happiness Within
0:19:40 Searching for Something More
0:25:01 Shifting Focus Inward
0:32:08 Relationship with Physical Pain
0:39:28 Letting Go of Desires
0:44:21 The Impact of Pain
0:50:25 Finding Love and Happiness
0:55:43 Achieving Happy Enough
0:58:36 The Four Levels of Importance
1:23:34 Embracing Curiosity and Growth
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Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her/him?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
It takes time to process betrayal trauma. I am still not fully recovered and it’s been 6 months. I am learning how to
1) not take the blame and makes excuses for them when they were lying and deceiving me.
2) not romanticizing our relationship because he was with the other woman too even though he swears he didn’t have sex with her 😂 their is more to a relationship than sex
3) knowing when I am healed I will be ready to be in a relationship again and the right man will show up
As someone with chronic illness, I'm thankful for this topic.
You have both been essential to supporting me through my healing after a long term breakup. Back when I thought, grief would fersure swallow me forever. Thank you for the constant comfort your words and wisdom bring. You’ve both helped me through so many moments of loneliness. I thought 5 years ago I had lost everything in my life after my breakup, but have now realized that was what I needed, to finally connect to me. I am married now! And found my person, and all the pain, healing and learning I would never erase. I am here now, with so much love and joy in my life.
Thank you again
Now the world has two new books coming out, from two of the most amazing souls. What a gift!
The background is so peaceful and beautiful. One can see, Mr Hussey put thought and heart into this set which I believe is actually his and Audrey‘s home.
Holy crap I was the "they're 35" and he was the "and they're 23". Literally my age and my ex's age. That was the hardest breakup for me. It has woken me up to figure out my horrible picker in men. Man this is big inner work for me.
I've been following you both for quite some time now and I love when worlds collide like this and I get to watch both of you at the same time 💛 Thankyou for sharing so deeply the struggle that happens behind closed doors when trying to be in your current field or break into it for the first time. On the outside we only usually get to see the finished products not necessarily the bumps in the road along the way to make it happen.. i appreciated this convo and love what you two are putting out into the world 🙏
Thank you so much! Appreciate you watching!
I love it when people reveal the dark sides of their lives! It helps me to remember no one is perfect and all human beings experience pain at some point… ✨
Two of my most favourite people to listen to, sat in the same room conversing! Perfect, thank you so much for all the insight and talking so openly.
Watching both your channels has massively influenced my relationships, and now, after many years, I have been able to choose an open, healthy and vulnerable partner.❤
Sending much love to you both x
Thanks for watching!
A profound impact, that idea of loose the ceremony. I can barely wait to read your book. Volunteer or surrender! Amazing! I can only say thank you.
What a beautiful conversation. Thank you. So useful
Can the lessons be gentler indeed! What a special, beautiful conversation. Thank you!
I am very glad to have you come into my life Mark. I will begin listening to your work.
Always so inspired by your talking skills Mark and the way you ask the exact questions needed
This is such a good episode. Perfect timing 🙌🏻
I'm glad to see this matchup!!! Now I'm going to listen.
Thank you my journey of growth will always be there. I have to take on that idea of being okay, not perfect, to go on a date.
Such a beautiful interview...so much to learn from it
Mathew, you're great ❤
i listen to then both, amazing colab
The point about balancing what you share with friends and family, and the wider audience, is what I feel about online dating.
Good conversation ❤️
this is so exciting!!!
Loved this interview!
@mathew you are amazing.😘
I Love listening both of you ❤
I have been following both you guys' IG forever! This is great!
It was a fun conversation!
So excited to have him in your channel Mark!! More power to you bro…been your follower since 3 urs in fb when you always slap me w the truth almost everyday. Hahahaha it hurts but atleast I was not sleeping with my fantasies anymore.❤❤❤
Haha. this is such a great comment! happy to hear you're transforming :)
For real? These two guys together? What planet am I? I felt surreal listening two guys developing subjects like that. Loved Marks empathy and attentiveness. I live among cave man hahahaha. Sucks.
♥♥♥ thank you for watching!!
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We're all green in the beginning of our careers.
This is for people in their 20s and 30s, not for people in their 50s and beyond.
Why so?
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