I Can't Get Women! | Jess Fix My Mess
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First caller I’ll never understand why people treat dating relationships like a marriage.
Second caller, dating single mothers isn’t for you.
Dude he's been dating her for a year and moved in. Obviously he's ok with it
@@maskedman5657I thought the second caller was a woman?
@@dee27206 Didn't even notice
@@maskedman5657It’s not for him because he cannot navigate the complexity of dating a single mom including the development of a relationship with a kid that is not his own. Listen to this moron, “I’m paying these bills and I just moved in and he don’t talk to me”. Bruh he don’t know you and you’re not his dad.
Agree, dude needs to go, of course the male "child" is protective of his mother and he is not a "problem". Old girl needs to finish the job of raising the son "she" had above herself, moving dudes in is very risky. Jess in similar situation.
Jess didn’t ask the 2nd caller the PRONOUNS. 😂😂😂😂
Right I thought it was a female
@@user-px1kz6fw3k 🤣
I was thinking the same but I think they got their pronouns before hand. Name is Jackson. So probably trans? Don't know why women named Jackson.
Sounds like..she and she and they😂😂😂
Which could be why the kid is not adjusting well to the "new" situation.
The son isn’t the problem. The man has to engage with the son first in order for the son to accept the relationship.
Was that a man?
@@msmith985 sounds like a boy-man looking for a mother rather than a girlfriend.
@@msmith985No a female. The son got his reasons.
I just said the same thing (with far too many words, lol).😊
SECOND CALLER....DEFINITELY A FEMALE...TRUST IS EARNED... IF THIS IS A SAME SEX RELATIONSHIP THE SHYTT IS WEIRD FOR HIM!!!! THE SON IS NOTTTTTTTTT THE PROBLEM!!!!!!!.... HE'S DOING WHAT HE IS SUPPOSED TO DO....HE DON'T KNOW DIS MUTHAFUCA
Stop traumatizing the boy. You haven't built a relationship with the child, yet you're all up in his house and personal space. Live apart and build a relationship with your girlfriend and her son FIRST.
Exactly!
So the second caller isn’t a woman? That was a female voice
RIGHT!!!! HE NEEDS TIME... THIS IS A MAJOR LIFE CHANGE FOR HIM!!!!
Absolutely !!!
It doesn’t sound like trauma. Just a life change that he needs to adjust to. My advice to him would be to build a closer relationship with her son, so he could feel comfortable. The only problem sounds like the mother is an enabler and further down the relationship even if he has a close relationship with her son, the enabling could still be a problem from the mother’s behalf. I don’t think that is healthy for any child to be enabled.
2nd caller -- Boys are protective over their mother (if she's a good Mom)... he doesn't trust you and there's a reason why.
The 2nd guy? He wasn't making any sense!! It could just be that the kid is nervous around you. You only been living wit her for 4 months!!!!!!! He don't know you, man!!!!! SmMFh
Pretty sure that was a lady😅
I think that was a woman not a man
@ cjgameon264 That part! I was thinking the same exact thing brotha. Boys are naturally protective of their mothers. He probably dosent like or trust he/she. Couldn’t tell what the persons gender was. “I pay the bills” as a grown person living here and fuc@“ my moms, you supposed to be paying bills!😂😂
@@brandonbrown6918lol i was thinking the same thing!
How tiny is envy! 5 7 180 is meaty?? First of all pause! Dude could be a muscular 180.
The second caller actually sounded like a female, which could explain why the son is extra curious about the relationship, this type relationship may be foreign to him ( I could be wrong, but that's my hunch)..... and also, living with someone, and building a relationship are two different things. Instead of thinking the kid is weird, how about actively building a relationship with him to help the transition be more smooth. You moved in his space, took up time he would usually have with his mother, 4 months is not enough in my opinion.
My sentiments as well. The relationship is non traditional... Will this individual become my step dad or mom? This individual moved into my space? Will my life change? I need to protect my mom? This individual is trying to take my mom away from me? It's too much for a kid. Also we don't know much about the child... who could be on the spectrum; and dude think his behavior is weird and/or discounts his feelings or take interest. Just seeking control & respect because the individual paid 4 months worth of bills.
Im rooting for Kenneth! 💯🙏🏽
Kenny gonna be all good
It's not weird!! You need to build a relationship with him! He's a mommy boy & he had no father!!
Yup! He’s had her to himself and now bam ! It’s moving too fast
That part
I thought the second caller was a woman?
So he can walk around the house looking like Jason stalking his mom lol. That's crazy as hell. That's what's wrong with these men today..SMH no respect or boundaries or accountability
@@dee27206still could be🤷🏾♀️
Envy set that last caller up telling him to pretend he’s at a bar and try to holla at Jess. Those pickup lines. 💀😂😂
Second caller is the problem she’s trying to make a boy who love his mother as some type of criminal.
definitely the problem…she was exhausting
On top of that the boy probably thinks it's weird that his mom is with another woman and not a man
Caller #2…. Deff a STUD. No wonder that young man lookin at you like SUS.
Hollon gatta listen again 😂
They were calling her “Sir.” Lol
@@kartifever9043If you couldn’t tell off rip I feel sorry for you. Good luck in life
That's what I thought
@@dee27206 type shit
“Well I got a good hairstyle goin on!” 😂😂😂
Lmao
🤣
Bless his heart.
lol!!
13:35 Yooooo Charla is the oppz😂😂 This man said "Envy back at it"😭 Sir please rest your brain
They did the last caller dirtttyyyy😂😂😂 I went to his IG page and my friend said “I see why he having problems.”
I just looked him up and I admit he looks different than I pictured him to.
Y'all are hell 😂😂😂 I went to look him too and 🙊🤣
Y’all petty as hell on that last caller 😂after pulling up his IG I see why DJ and Jess was clowning 🤣🤣
My advice for the last dude, is not take advice from people who are low key violating you, no hold.😂😊
First caller, that's a weird arrangement. Why not split expenses equally so both of you can build savings simultaneously
Dude a fool for going for this arrangement in the first place.
I think she should honor her agreement. He DID. If they weren’t married why should she live rent free for a year. He should benefit from the arrangement as well, as agreed upon.
She’s just trying to come up with a reason that she shouldn’t honor the agreement by mentioning that she’s locked out…I wish she asked more questions on this.
Jess! Love you but u should have told her to honor agreement AND I bet that’s why he kicked her out cause she did not want to start paying bills. No way he would break it off if he could now save. They should have never made this agreement
@@mkwychean absolute fool. He deserves to get got 😅
@@shannoncrenshaw3494now you see why guys demand a prenup or nothing nowadays
1st caller- No..just no.Took your house key away? girl NO.
2nd caller- isn’t that normal behavior for a territorial teenage boy? He doesn’t know you sir! Like the mom said, give him some time. Give the relationship a chance to actually become something. A year ain’t sh*t!
Exactly
BIG FACTS!! I completely agree wit both of your comments, especially your 2nd comment. Y'all been together for a year but y'all been "living together" for only 4 months??? THE KID DOESN'T KNOW YOU!!! THAT'S WHY HE'S ACTING LIKE HE'S ACTING!!!
@@cjgameon264yea I agree with you too but the weird part is the mom saying the guy is intimidated by the son? Like huh? It does seem to be some enabling going on with manipulative behavior. Like the mom should correct that. I understand being nervous around a new father figure but being a manipulative little turd is a behavior that should be nipped in the bud. Bc that could become a bigger issue and mothers (especially to boys) tend to see no wrongdoing when it comes to their children. Maybe teach him to communicate his feelings regarding her dating a new man instead of acting like a potential serial killer lol
And the man also needs to use his common sense and understand where the kid is coming from and extend an olive branch to him. You’re not just dating the mom. You’re also a new father figure so you need to start acting like it. Take the kid out. Spend some quality time so he grows to like you and isn’t only attached to mommy and feeling jealous.
I thought the second caller was a woman? Maybe the boy isn’t used to his mom being in a lesbian relationship?
@@dee27206 I was thinking that tooo but I didn’t want to say it lol plus he didn’t correct Jess or Charlemagne when they kept saying “he” but maybe he/she didn’t care if he was actually a female. but either way they both (child and partner) need to communicate better. And the mom needs to facilitate that. Just because he’s 13 doesn’t mean he can’t use his words. They teach you that at 2 years old. Use your words I can’t always understand nonverbal actions like crying (toddlers). If you have a child and are dating you are as much responsible for bridging the gap between new partner and child as is the new mate.
Yall been dating for a year and in that same year, y’all decided to live together? I’m not sure why this person can’t see that this is fresh for that child. Also, are you even trying to make an effort to build a relationship with that child? that child does not know you and probably doesn’t like you at the moment
Dude gots to be crazy … he’s not a mature adult himself …
@@bosse1092🎯 Alot of weird shit he said in my opinion. One of which he said, "I'm paying a roof over his head" as if that's the deal he made with the child & not the woman. Shows he understands nothing about how relationship building works.
@@Jaysnipes nothing … that’s gonna be a mess
Some people are guessing the second caller was a stud. If not, this tends to happen a lot with single mothers and new men, they kinda instinctually disregard the child that isn't his. It has to be a compassionate man to make the connection
@@Link_Skywalker007 I thought the same. The voice sounds feminine. Either way this is a 13 year old child who is watching different people come into his mother’s life interrupting what’s normal to him. Clearly there are a lot of details missing but just based on this conversation, like you said, this person is disregarding the child, which is a red flag when you are in a relationship with a single mother
It’s a kid thing. My wife(girlfriend back then) had a 10 year old son who would do little things to make us argue and knock on the door while we busy in the bedroom. After a year or two he grew to respect me and love me. Kid has had my back more than once against his mother. It takes time but just be your true version and they will come around
u couldnt find a woman with no kids? simp.
😂😂😂😂😂not knock on the door whilst you busy
Anybody can get a woman. Getting the woman you want is another story
Are you sure about that?
@@geminiseason6901 im positive
Right and vice versa .
Facts
@@geminiseason6901😂 he's probably right though
3rd caller - Yee would’ve provided better advice. Sorry not sorry. Love Jess but…this man needed something more than “..you should audition for Love is Blind” 😂
I mean that's an option too. He'll land there when he's exhausted all other options.
I've never been a fan of Yees advice but I do agree that I don't think Jess's advice is good here. You practically haven't given him anything to go off on. Recommending him to a dating show is all wrong
Women wont give him good advice because they wont say the quiet part out loud
He was on the Kendra G show twice so I mean I don’t think that’s bad advice. Maybe they knew that.
@@maskedman5657 He was on the Kendra G show twice so I mean I don’t think that’s bad advice. Maybe they knew that.
Caller #2 is exhibiting immature male behavior (not grown man).
That young man’s life has changed from it being just he and his mom for likely most of his life, to all three of y’all. That’s a huge adjustment that he didn’t ask for, or expect. His mom is not the root of the problem, the new man is.
If you want things to change, adjust expectations and change behavior. Build a relationship with that young man and establish trust throughout the household.
We need to cancel this segment! Jess isn’t equipped to advise on situations like this, and as a mom moving into a new relationship with a son, this advice is trash!
I'm glad u said that cuz I was waiting for a comment like this. That advice she gave was terrible.
100% trash advice actually 1000% trash advice. She told him to leave and tell the woman the problem is her kid wtf. This bird brain ass. Disgusting.
If you’re gonna step in as a stepparent you better have the mental and emotional capacity to stand in the paint especially when the role you are stepping into is absent.
Yesss, I was shocked that Jess having a son herself and being a single mom at one point wouldn't understand that the young boy is trying to adjust to having a man around the house,it's new for him.And if I'm with someone that doesn't accept my child its not going to workout.That man should build a relationship with the young boy if he wants to be with the mom long term.The boy ain't going no where,that's a package deal.Either he accepts it or kick rocks.Bad advise from Jess.
@@modlinebonheur7721 I know CTG wanted to interrupt badly, but didn’t want to contradict her on air.
That was a stud, man
Charlemagne is so jealous about Envy supporting Kenneth 😂😂😂
Second caller was that even a man?maybe that’s why the son weirded out lol
Exactly! That’s what I was thinking.
I think it was a stud f.s. sounded just like my cousin.
🎯Exactly....major component. Especially if its a trans man and not just a stud.
Second caller does lowkey sound like he’s intimidated by the son and the son seems jealous and like he straight up don’t like/respect him. The mom knows what’s up, cares for both of them and is trying her best to navigate the tension.
Second caller is a *SHE* I’m sure the son is creeped out by that!
Maybe the son does not like seeing his mother acting like a ho, dude's not a husband, just passing through.
2nd ,caller is a dude
Dats a chick
That sounded like a woman
😂😂😂😂😂 his pick up line to Jess is cracking me up
2nd caller uh I’m a mom of 2 boys. By the age of 12-13 I didn’t have that problem. My boys are very overprotective of me and jealous of anyone by me but they know respect/boundaries. It’s going to take the mother to talk with him and let him know no one can take his place in heart
😂 “she ain’t making no noise” lmao
Jess keep it real fr. Yee would’ve told him to stay. It’s refreshing hearing real talk on the radio.
First caller definitely a big back 😂😂😂
😂 I said definitely part two reesa
Probably not. She didn't have heavy breathing. There are plenty of slow minded in shape women.
@@outsidethebox8406now hold up 😂
@@outsidethebox8406 Not all big people breathe heavy lol..
For the 2nd caller, you're expectations are unrealistic. Her son just don't trust you. It don't matter if you put clothes on his back or food on the table. You're new to the equation. Get over yourself.
Jess actually gives good advice on these segments
Thanks, no one ever stops to explain different types of love.
They need to have a family conversation that adult and parental love are two different things. The child needs encouragement that he's going to grow up and move on with his life, that love infinite and sharing love doesn't take anything away from him. Frankly that's a conversation the mom should have had before moving in together.
I really enjoy Jess contributions to this show as a whole. ✅✅✅
"and you need it nooow" 😂😂
To the female who called obviously about the son being infatuated with his mother. Obviously that relationship is new to the child. You're a woman and now his mother is with a woman. He's wanting the attention of his mother.
That save and pay bills arrangement is crazy. But more importantly, I hope Kenneth finds love.❤
Is it just me, or is that kid giving serious Chucky vibes. 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
No…he’s probably freaked out his mom is into women 🤷🏾♀️
@dee27206 he's probably mentally unstable lol. That's weird and the mom ain't saying nothing. So why would he respect him.
Its just you.😆
Yes very creepy lol.
😂😂😂 jess hella
Funny , “u close to me , but I’m pregnant……” 😂😂😂
The First Lady is tripping and she gonna give him all the money and be homeless cuz she clearly thinks this is ok 🤦🏾♀️
Second caller they need to LIVE APART , that’s too soon ! she should live alone until she sends him off the college even … that’s about to be a whole mess and will
Get worse as he gets older.
12:38 “what do you say?” 😂😂 I loved it. He sounds nice. Ya’ll be looking for Type A personalities and he sounds nice.
God bless yall
Not me looking up the IG & almost spit out my yogurt 😂 yall get on my nerves 😂😂😂😂😂
The step mom getting that step daddy treatment 🤣🤣🤣🤣
To the second caller…does he engage with the son? It doesn’t sound like he’s trying to connect with the son at all. It sounds like he feels the boy is in the way of their relationship.
Jess sheisty.... "They would call you a nerrrrd...." smirk face.... 😢😢😅😅
14:37 my guy Kenny posted a mug shot ain’t he 😂😂😂😂
“Yeaaaa yeaaa He’s still listening guys” 😂😂😂
Envy made the most sense with the guy looking for a date.
I looked at his page...Awww..he needs someone special like him. I wish him luck!
“Dude knock on the door while we were having sex I think he was at the door listening” I’m dying 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The great show.
Send him to west palm😂😂 I'll give him a shot at a date, 34, no kids. I'm from jersey!
lol the faces are meeeee
Kenneth is a joy! 😂😂
Second caller is a problem. He sounds jealous of the son. This boy lived 13 years of his life without someone else. Is he supposed to flip and readily accept someone new like a light switch? I think the son doesn’t trust the new man and the new man isn’t making a real effort to bond with him. Bonding with a child requires patience. This man is displaying jealousy and he hasn’t seemed to explain anything where he has demonstrably tried to prove his trustworthiness to his girlfriend’s son. Jess should have told him to grow up but I think she was trying to be nice.
“Iiiiiiieeee” 😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lmao!! And then Charlemagne laughing lmao
OMG Jess and Envy whyyyyyyy 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Awwwn Kenneth 😢❤
11:57 I cannot lol
Rip to caller number 2 🙏 sounds like a scary movie waiting to happen lol... I would be creeped out too. Run as fast as you can 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️
Sometimes that bond between a mother and son can be hard to break.
It’s something that should never be broken between a mother and child, he should be attempting to join the bond
Thas facts I've seen plenty of Jodies off Baby Boy in real life. I'm one.. my stepfather turned into David Allen Grier in Tales from the hood on me.
Hopefully it’s a healthy bond. A lot of single mothers see their sons a men of the house and often are “mommy boys”. Those bonds are unhealthy.
Big backish 😂😂 11:44
they hair comment did it for me 😂
Why did I go to his page and I saw why😩🤷🏾♂️ Keep shooting your shot bro🤟🏾💪🏾 and 🗣️GO BIRDS🦅
fell for that one
That second caller should not be living with the woman and child. They are not married.
Envy’s back at it 😂😂🤣
Meanwhile... jess, what baby??😂
Jess be on point. I like the look. Afro puffs..........
Wow....... they really violating the last dude😅. Love on the spectrum😂😂😂😅
😂😂😂 Kenny
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 that Ken guy was on the KendraG show salsa'ing hahahaha he's definitely on the spectrum
Ken seems like a good dude man!! I could see myself hanging out with him
I can definitely relate to the 2nd caller. Had an ex whose son would behave like that and the mom would think there was nothing wrong until I left and all of the sudden he misses me 🖕🏾🖕🏾🖕🏾🖕🏾
Same.
JESS is da real deal congratulations on the Baby
There’s a man with a missing jaw! Whole jaw missing yet he’s got a perfect front porch, perfect house, perfect wife, perfect life.
that’s how s**t we are, we’re a bunch of extraordinary people making excuses
Kenneth is shorter & has no rizz!! 😂😂 prayers up for Kenneth!!
1st Caller: Dude is entitled to 1/2 your portion of the bills for the year. Call the cops RE: house keys & items. If items missing sue, but most likely he'll countersue. Your agreement determines the outcome.
2nd Caller: The child is protective of his mom and there's a battle of control. The child isn't disrespecting the adult. He's just silent and observant. Mom shouldn't have uprooted her child for a year relationship, and the caller knew what he/she was getting into. All should have spent some quality time together prior to relocating.
3rd Caller: The possible issue -- standards too high/out of league. Reevaluate what you need in a woman than want. I don't recommend Love Is Blind, but remove the blinders and be open to all sorts of women and see what gravitates to you. Since you like dancing... I suggest Zumba classes at your local gym, ballroom/latin dancing.. any dance that requires closeness and a lot of lessons. Some sparks are bound to fly. If you like sporty girls, spin classes, rock climbing, trails. Do things out of comfort zone... sing (karaoke bars).. even if you don't know how. Just have fun in your environment and someone will join you.
let me just say the mom and son have only been moved in for A MONTH. it will def take longer than a month or 3 or 6. speaking from personal experience my mom moved in w a man (i’m a female, 16 at that time) i did the same thing. didn’t acknowledge, my now step dad. never spoke to him, for about a good year. which he was living w us and paying all the bills. it’s hard to except as a kid (he’s 13, not an adult), give the boy sometime he will come around.
Woman love IT guys!!! I should know. Gotta go Outside Kenneth!!! And PTSO!!!🧑🏾💻
Second caller definitely making the young boy feel uncomfortable in his own home . You cant force that kid to open up around you the mother needs to make him fall back .
14:32 😂
Come here is crazy 🗣
If you've been in a relationship with someone for 6 years...taking their access to their home is dirty and it will come back on you. You don't owe him nothing if that is how he will operate. You all should live in that house until you both make other arrangements like adults with sense so that no one ends up homeless or broke over a breakup...6 years is too long to flip on someone like that. Now if he could honor that, then I as a woman, would have no issue giving him half of the money I saved. Just because ya'll decide not to move forward doesn't mean you have to become enemies...like do each other right. People are so annoying. And hopefully in telling this you are not leaving out anything that would make him revoke a key. No woman or man should live with anyone without their name being on the lease or house to where they have equal access to the home.
Second caller needed to start having Sunday dinners with the mom and son so he could get to know him.. he probably already feels neglected because the father is in and out of his live so he probably feels like he’s losing his mom as well.. maybe plan a family trip as well🙌🏾 hope it works out
2nd caller should not be living in the house, if he is not married to the mom. He is a intruder, who has not included the boy or made him secure, that this is a family situation. Even if mom wanted him to move in he should have refused. The son is not the problem. How the adults are handling their business is.
Also this is why you never take advice from Breakfast Club for dating advice. They just gonna give you bad advice and Flame you.
I just love jess
So naturally beautiful
Ladies go look up the last caller and give him a shout out!!
Sounds like the second caller, not the son, has some growing up to do.
What women brings a man onto her home with her children without marriage or an established relationship between the male and children ? SMH
Homie has no game lmaooo
Kenneth need to go to Vegas!
Blind leading the blind
First call I got to be some type of crazy take that money and get your own place DUH
But I bet you she’ll give him half😂
For the 2nd caller that situation ain't gonna get better. I'm a step father and I will say that's above and beyond. This ain't a 6yr old he 13.