Part 1 of 2| Asking my Wife Uncomfortable Questions **She usually avoids**
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- čas přidán 25. 08. 2024
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Thank you Sbari for considering us by speaking English.pretoria gang
For heaven's sake. There are so many English speaking CZcamsrs. I don't understand everything but I enjoy the authenticity. Let them be. ❤
I’ll never wait for their approval, they better love him or unfriend me😂😂
We want approval from our friends because iichomi zethu they know what we want and bona ba sober minded as opposed to the girl o inlove 😅😅 so if siyayibhuda they will say nah nah chomi not he's not for you lona with tangible reasons ke 😂😂😂😂, it could be wena ubungayibonanga a certain trait u you blinded nje yi love.... ichomi ke comes in as an eye opener 😂😂😂😂😂 so does family. Kodwa ke idecision lies with wena girl, nabo they iifriends could be wrong 😅
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The pause before “ baby this is personal “ statement 😂😂😂
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Makoti you are glowing, you are soo beautiful !!!!!😭😭😭😭🥰🥰🥰
On the friends question.....friends/fam can also see things that you do not see wena because you are in love, so they are like that "blind spot" and see red flags that we you do not see...But, the decision still rests with the one in the relationship. If the person is likeable, it makes relations smoother, akubi awkward as it is when s/he is not😍 Azi ninzi sana ii-questions, "grill room" for u Uyazi🤭
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I think uVambane uyazi enjoyer eziSit-ins ngoku kancinci kancinci uyavela😂😂😂i like his change❤❤❤
Yeeyyy hayi uyavela uhleli elincoko
The way i love you guys i can't even explain it
Siyabulela mntase❤️❤️
I think we sometimes go back to past arguments because that argument wasn’t really resolved, maybe I left it for peace sake.
"If I'm born again, I've changed" 😅😭
So iPast ayithethi🤣
We really enjoyed the video, heey usbari came prepared 😂😂😂.
Thanks guyz, siyanithanda kweli khaya❤❤
" you would reject him because he once approached your friend" yes, how would u trust that person? What if it is his way of getting to ur friend through you?🤷♀️
Sis siba you answered so well. The girl answers were girling😂😂
Thanks mntase❤❤
Liked there is no because in this is like this
"My memory is good" 😂😂😂
Love how comfortable uSbari is becoming. Totally loved the intro. Now let me watch
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I am that silent supporter ndiyaqala ucomment kule video
Same 😂😂
We see you❤❤❤
me neither
Is this about yesterday? 🤣🤣
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Funny how I was a silent supporter ekuqaleni🤭😂😂😂love how you answered la part yeMali sis Uyazi becouse why bezoyifuna back Imali yabo😂
Tyhini bayifunelani😂😂
Q1: Your friends approving your person gives us so much assurance maan. Not that I didn’t assess the person but once friend yam ivume ndibane confidence yale relationship 😂
😂😂😂 injalo kanyee
The quality is amazing 👌👌♥️
Thank you Sis Uyazi, you represented us very well as women😂👏🏽👏🏽❤️
You welcome🤭🤭
Definitely enjoying these videos❤
Q3: iChomi zika boyfriend azinanyani always want to please ichomi yabo and they over do it sometimes fike besithi “siyaqala ubona umjita wethu e- inlove like this”.
😂😂😂😂bephosisa mamenemene funi nobaqonda abo😂😂😂😂 noba bandazanga
😅😅 classic
Deep mamenemene lawo 😂😂😂
Ow sana Akhonto ndiyi enjoy.a njengobukela nina❤️❤️😍
Anisebahle amawele. Love you Tyesi family ❤
❤❤❤ thanks mntase
Ni ya fanela ❤❤
Siba cant wait till you get hair and skin partnerships, your glow is undeniable 👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿
Oh mntase I receive❤️❤️
I'm enjoying these sit downs🎉🎉❤
Siba is so beautiful, wow!❤🥰
I enjoyed the it atlist as merried person ndifundile qhubekani guys nisenza kanjeh sizofunda🎉more love kuni Guys ❤
I am loving these conversations 🎉❤
Answer number five you nailed it Siba 😂 our memory is very good especially in Bank card
Lol we memorised it because sithanda imali😂😂😂😂
Bendingafuni kutsho😂😂😂
Firstly I like how you guys are matching😍😍
I like how u answered sis Uyazi😊well done sis u represented us well mntase
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I just loveeee the money part😂❤️ofcourse we will always want our money back .. that’s Girl Maths sana 👍😂😂😂
And keep tabs ke sana
Anibahle sana vha❤☺🤭
Niwenza mhle umtshato yazi😂🤦♀️Nisenza nathi siwunqwenele shame..Andifuni ngatsho👍
Beautiful young couple ke bethuna..
Siyanithanda ke vha❤
❤❤❤ siyabulela❤
Sbari getting really good on you tibe😆❤️ Thank you for the video guys
Loving these series ❤😂
Knowing history is very important, fneka uzazi xa udibene nomntu onabantwana abathathu komama abohlukileyo😂 fneka ungene uyazi uba should u fall pregnant uzokushiya apho nawe😂 or xa relationships aphume kuzo soloko inguye ojolileyo then u must know he easily gets bored, u will know uba character yakho will bore him or ungene uyazi uba u don't care wethu
I like your 1st question sbari
Yes kudala we tend to seek friends approval xa sidater.
And yes even now kuba we live in a small world abantu bayazazi si scandal's nabanye so some times your friends doesn't want you to get hurt by this guy .
2 . It's very important to know your partner.ngathi kanti u dater umntu isekhe wabulala😅
Love you guys, your authenticity tops it❤❤
Question 4
I actually find that it's guys who bring up previous things in an argument especially if he does not want to admit he's wrong and take accountability. At times, I find that men do this because their point of departure in emotional arguments is to be very defensive. I agree with Siba, sometimes bringing things up from the past is to merely point to a pattern. We don't bring it up njeee, we do so to make a point that this has become a reoccurring thing.
And that it needs to stop so that I do not bring it up again❤️❤️
I am enjoying these questions and answers ❤❤😂😂😂
Nibahle fam, niyathandwa♥️😍
Thanks mntase❤️❤️
You answered very well worse xa uphendula ngeMali yhuu,ngase ndithi louder.😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 usphendulele kakhle sis Uyazi ❤❤❤❤zonke futhi
good answer cc Uyazi pha Q:5 We wanna understand the relationship between bona yabo so that zokwa urelax around abo bantu base msebenzini wakhe
Yes Siba our memory is very good 😂😂😂
Too good🤣🤣
The reason we started argument at night is because we know you are not going anywhere. You are forced to listen to us😂
Question 2
Your partner's past is important because, often times, abafana don't talk about their feelings, they don't like doing that. So, sharing a thing or two about their past experiences helps us understand where they are coming from. For example, if your partner does not want you to use his phone, it could be because his ex-partner used to do evil things with his phone and that led to unresolved trust issues and conflicts.
Nicely said.. sifuna nje ukwazi and understand
Quesiton 1
We vet our friends' partners to suss out the red flags because usisiza yena ukucloud 9, so angangazihoyi ezo red flags. Also, we vet them because we want to see if he has good intentions. Most importantly, we do it to see if they actually like each other. Not only umfana, but usisiza naye.
And our friends want the best for us.. abazusikhohlisa
Thoroughly enjoyed the video loved the fact that you answered all the uncomfortable questions with honesty and humour. Singo mama obviously we gonna check up uba baphi babuya nini not kuba sifunuba bossy but because we care ❤😊
Question 5
It's simple really. Women are detail-oriented whereas men don't care much for these things. It's the same thing with names. Men forget people's names, important dates, events, etc.
Sbali klk idaliwe indoda must provide. If I use my money you must pay me back. Mali yam yeyam. Mali yakho yeyethu
And idaliwe eyam yeyam sana
let me save usisi siba u want to know i past yomntu ngoba awufuni xa ihaters zifika zichaza ihistory ube shocked vele uthi ndiyayaz umvale umlomo
Yeke uyibeke kahle😂😂 awufuni suprises
I'm new here , but already I love it here🥰🥰🥰New Subbie🤩🤩
Thanks for Subbing.. and you are welcome
You guys are entertaining I love watching you, Siba umhle sana you glowing doll❤
Thank you Siba and sibari
I like the way sibari is coming out of his shell more . Very nice video
Can't wait for part 2😂😂
Zomfaka soon
Ewe sis Uyazi 😂😂😂 by birth as women we have sharp memory. Nam loo I know my hubby's ID number yeka akazi eyam. I know his PIN and for that matter I use his card more often yena he has to memorize my ACCOUNT NUMBER😂😂😂😂😅😅😅 and mna I memorize his PIN!!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣 as for account number🤣🤣
The way I love iman I don’t even care for any friends approval 😂🙈 I will definitely through break up ndodwa shame!
Imkile gone ayibuyi🤣🤣🤣hayi enkosi Siba❤ayibuyi imali yendoda period!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣@ the money question....maba phiwe imali oomama🤣🤣🤣🤣
Short and sweet answers ❤
Sbari we bringing past arguments bcz klk niphindaphinda into enye nina indlebe zenu azidalelwanga kumamela xerm
And abeva sana so funeka simane sibakhumbuza
No no no, Sbari andifun kuvumelana nawe kuleyo yokuba, We always bring up past disputes; both parties do that, but guys especially do so when they try to make us women feel less than human. 🙂🙂🙂🙂
Funny SisUyazi andiyikhumbuli tu ipin , like all the time ndiyabuza. Ipart yombuyiso wemali hayibo uhleli ubenefita ngoba yenza into zalapha endlini mos le mali yakho ngoba if nguwe ongabuyisi leyam wena you cant even show uba njengoba ingabuyanga wenze ngayo into esibenefita kuyo😂
🤣🤣 the pin one.. i even know card number 🤣🤣 andfuni bendibuza…
And thina senze into ezibalulekileyo
Yhoo zange ndahleka kangaka😂😂😂I love ezi Sit downs😂😂🤭
My favourite couple 😊😊 anisebahle sis❤
Yhoooo ulibophile iphepha usbari😂😂😂😂
Jooooo ndiba ndimbona ndodwa😂😂😂
It's not important it either they take it or live it ....umuntu wam owami if abamfuni abahambe ngisale naye
Molweni bantu nam, wow akumnandi sbary opening the vlog ❤❤❤❤👌 ndiyazithanda ezi sit ups🙏🙏💕
I mean sit down 😂😂😂 yhoo English 😂😂, ndithanda lento yoba usbary is free akenzeli vlog unguye nje👌, thanks Uyazi ngale channel ❤❤❤👌
Yeyy kumnandi.. thanks mntase❤️❤️
Thank you son much for the video, I enjoyed it🤣🤣🤣
Love lives here and I love it here
Authenticity
Humor
Realness
Relatable
Kumnandi apha❤❤❤
True we trust them but we want to be comfortable ❤
Always looking forward to these situp videos ❤❤❤
Hahah enjoyed this one! ❣
Have a few sentiments:
Q2: Even with job applications, your potential employers will dig into your work history and experiences. Similarly, one's past experiences and overall background can reveal a lot about them. I believe people change yes- I guess it depends ba u.comfortable kangakanani na with the person's past. So we use it as a judgement yes. And there's nothing wrong with that haha.
Q4: Kum I've found that I bring it up if zange ndixole ncam ncam. So ''resolving it'' goes beyond just verbally reaching an agreement. I define it as truly being okay with the conclusion- kum this comes when I feel heard, seen, validated and understood kulo argument. If that doesn't happen, I'll hold some resentment and pent up frustration which is likely to come out at some point.
Sbali must come here and tell us how does he feel now,he is comfortable now😂 from First video to this
Thyini women are the same!!! 😂😂😂
1. Us wanting to know more nge collegues
2. Also sazi ne past 😂😂😂😂
Hahaha siyafana mntase
About the pin we have good memory nd ke mali yenu ine extra ncasa
Hahahah good memory ne
molweni bethuna, sis uyazi no Sbali we country❤
I enjoyed the video. It looks like we women are the same 😅😅😅
Follo up questions Sbari? Follow up questions? Haiii😢❤
You guys look alike more in this video. Nibahle futhi😊😊😊
Calling out all the bad things 😅😅
Hahaha mxelele ndabazake
I love your channel ❤️ but sometimes I don't understand Xhosa but overall I'm learning alot, thank you 😊
Im also here an dont understand Xhosa. But lets learn
Well done Sisi Uyazi, these questions were tough questions and you answered them very well
Love you guys❤
Khanimeni ndingenelele apha for uSis Uyazi 😂 women are just good with numbers
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Sbari you've just mention klk female friend" what if you mingled with1 in the past?? hayi it's unsettling wethu klk ninezinto nina
And it’s unsettling nyhani shame
Hayke the refund 😮😂 hay indoda must kaloku. It's your role to ukubheja and give us 😂😂😂❤. Yindalo kaThixo nini providers never us 🙈😂😍
So if seyikum sose uyiyeka
Oh mhle uNkosikazi ka Sbali wethu!! 🥰🥹 what a beautiful lady
Oh yhini sundiblushisa
Yhuuuuu I love you guys.... I look forward to your vlogs 🎉❤
Hay sana siyabuza kuba siyanithanda sbary😅😅😅 and xa kulate uba worried uyabo, eye colleagues ke sana it's deep yhoo 😂😂😂.... ndiyazitha ezi questions shame 🤞💕💕😂
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I love you guys🤣🤣❤you remind me of umeiy dreamz and the real mxo.
Sbari is so comfortable now it’s beautiful to see 😁
SisUyazi u answered so well and I loved the girl math😂❤
Omg y’all starting to look alike now🥰🥺
😂😂you are getting grilled my sister but in you we are led..Lloyd uzityela u100 interrogation hleli eyithanda..this is worth watching❤
Uyamazi nje ngogriller🤣🤣
Yes Siba good, but subuza questions ngexesha lolala. Imali yona mabayincame yeyethu
I always try and catch up on Saturdays while busy crocheting...
But sana nam andiFeel comfortable when hubby talks a lot about a female , kufana sebulisa female ngobubele ndiyathinza ngakumbi xa ndingayazi😂🤣
I can understand shame
Thanks Sis Uyazi 😂😂😂you answered very well.....Sbari we can't sleep kukho ingxaki nango 00:00 midnight 😅😅😅😅
It's import for friends to meet or see the guy incase one of them knows them personally or knows their reputation or background or even notice something ubungayiboni wena so that ungene uyazi uba kukho into enje ngalomntu, I wouldn't say approve because xa ufuna umvuma umntu uyamvuma noba itshomi azithandi