REACTING TO YOUR MAKOTI EXPERIENCES
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 4. 07. 2024
- Hi Bantase đ
Welcome to my channel. Thank you so much for the support so far.
In this video, we are reacting to your Makoti experiences. Please do not take this as gospel as not all families are the same, Kumnandi mendwen.
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Hi Bantase.. apologies for the sound.. we are still trying to get used to the mic .. slowly but surely â€ïžâ€ïž
I love you so much guys
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molweni bethuna siyaniva wethu
@@nombulelopriscilla114đ€Łđ€Łđ«Ł
@@Jane_R_CH danko Janeâ€
Content yakho sisâUyazi and uSbari is very educational and unique. You donât just follow the flow, thereâs a uniqueness on your content. Flyyyy ke Tyesiâs we are learning đâ€ïžđžđ, may God keep fuelling your journeyâŠ.
Thanks mntaseâ€â€
Ukrelekrele kodwa usbari wethu bethuna, I really appreciate your wisdom...most of the time it's not about being right yazi. May the Lord bless you both â€đ
kunjalo cc, ohh sbari wethu wisdom elapha yhoooo
Siyabulelaâ€â€â€
1. Both of you were raised well, your parents did an excellent job & made beautiful kids inside & outside.
2. Yesterday I was with my in laws, went to church with my mom in love, ran some errands with her afterwards and she made us lunch when we got home, nothing fancy just a simple meal with tea.
3. Moral of the story, I think mother's who do this exceptionally well make are rare but they exist and I do not see how as a makoti you can navigate a new home if your mom in love is not loving. Not saying it's their responsibility only, but it just so much easier when it comes from themđ
Wooow that was so beautiful⊠thanks for sharing this .. we need stories like this as wellâ€â€
We never sit at all bhut yhooo... tht time u r on leave, u work the whole yr... breakfast time, then its time to clean the house, wash the dishes by the time you finish...its time to cook for lunch then the dishes AGAIN, then you have to cook supper yhooo.. ulala ulwimi lungaphandle sbali.. Akonwabe omnye kowabo wehla enyuka
"This is me, this is Siba" Sana that line is dearly missedđđ
Siba your glow honey â€â€â€â€â€
Big up to Sbari very wise man đđ»đđ»
42:28 During the day we have Christmas lunch kulohubby then later one once everything is done we drive and visit ekhaya siyokonwaba khona since we are in the same village/town. His idea was that our child/ren need to spend such moments with both their families, angaphoswa kukhula nabatshana bam ekhaya nakowabo. Also he understands the culture of a Christmas celebration yasekhaya kumnandi kakhulu. He tries to give me that balance or ndiyophumla ekhaya xa kudinekile.
I think this is a good idea âŠ
This series has been very eye opening,thank you for sharing your experiences and letting us drink from your well of wisdom guys. @Siba I feel like you should continue with this series and maybe invite other couples as well even from different culturesđâ€ïž
Siba you are soo beautiful sisi
Thanks mntaseâ€â€
Usbari is so reasonable and understanding of women struggles. Also like he's suggestions to avoid being burnt out
I hope more men will have similar solutions and care for their wives
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Siba the way that you are approaching this Makoti life, you are going far! I am 22 years in Marriage, got married at 24, I am still learning my inlaws behaviours till now vhaa. Do not be uMastermind ngamandla xa upha, I learnt the hard way sana fike uthenjiwe ibe energy ingekho, The mamazala part oweza eKapa yhoo I like it, nowam ndamenza njalo..that time asikabi namoto siphangela sabuya kunetha simanzi, wafika kuqala unyanakhe..wamenzela itea wa warm..xa ndifika mna yangubhuti myeni owenzela mna, ndithi wayekhubekeee ecinga ub aizoba funny xa engandenzelanga...ndithi No worries mama siphila kanjje...Hee angazange ayilibale ngumyeni ozi ayinelayo! Jonga andikuthandi uayina, and ndamxelela klk khumbula mama ndafunda eST James, so iuniform yam yayilala phantsi komqamelo..so mina ne ironing akuhlangani..and ubhutiza iyhooo uyacoselelaaa.sovana uba dude iron your clothes...not unless ke ungxamileee...And kulanto ibithethwa nguSbali, mazi umntu ayithandayo..owam mamazala loved money like umnike eyibambe ngesandla sanaa.. bt strange enough xa nihamba uhlala ngapha kwegate alinde imoto iphume ame ecangweni, ziyapopa iiR200...R100 Abazukulwana for indlela..nam lo, athi ndiyayazi eKapa kutyiwa imali, wena potato, thanga ntoni upakishile..mikhono yegusha kuye lee..So yonke lanto yenziwa kuba kubonwa izenzo zakho
Ncooh siba and sbari are adorable..uthethe kamnandi usiba at the end..may God continue to bless this marriage.
Thank you mntaseâ€
Sbari is so intelligent sanađwe love you guysâ€
I guess from the start dont be someone you not. Learn how things are done in ths new home of yours. Be respectful as you would be at your home and always remember ulapha for few days. Don't overstay your welcome. I don't think you need to spend all Christmas days with your in-laws because the whole point yomtshato is to have at some point itraditions zenu. Thanks Fam for the video, it's informative â€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïžđ.
Mntase I had to pause Netflix cos you make more sense â„ïžâšđ„°
Same
đđ I am honoured â€
Yoo the husband is very much matured. Ayi mna ndiyanithanda sheim. Watching from Durban. Madam you are lucky
Yabona ipoint kaSbari is exactly what we avoided thinaâŠwe left before kubekho any issues. Otherwise that seems to be the only working solution to that point. Move when you find a way.
I really enjoyed that long positive comment, that's such a beautiful perspective.
Team Sbari all the way.Ukuyo Mr Tyesi.Good Sbari.Makotis are manipulative sometimes
Guys I'm not married but I like they way you respect each other #a man is a man in this house and a man you can see he reprimand his wife with love in some comments
I'm telling you mtshakazi you will stay there until Jesus come because the environment is conducive
May God protect you guys and bless your marriage so that more couples to come can learn from you â€
â€â€â€ thanks mntaseâ€
Watching this video and hearing peopleâs stories I can see that Iâd NEVER last in makotihood shemđ€ŁIâve got answers for everything and I donât let people take me for a ride ndithule, even my family knows. Kunganyiwa shem washing mamazalaâs underwear and slaving around while sister-in-law is doing nothing đȘđȘ đ€đœđ€đœ
Jha ne leye Underwears hayi kodwa
I enjoyed every momentđ đâ€thank you so much for these series. Ndifunde lukhulu kuni, I've taken some tips from uSbhari. Mind you, I'm still single, and I'm looking forward to being umakoti more than ever. Hopefully, it's in God's plan for my lifeđ
Hoping with you Mntase ..đđ
@@SibabaloNoludwe Ndiyabulela ccđ
Anisebahle. Siba your hairline is so healthyâ€
Siyabulela†and enkosi mntase
The endđđđđđ Sbariâs facial expressions kill me
You are not alone and andimazi izithathapi
You look very pretty Sis Uyaziđ„°iglow madam is on another levelâš
Thank you so much đ€â€ïž
âAm here to stayâ I like it
Thank youâ€â€
Yhoooo i literally have no words the level of teaching that we get from you most specifically ku sbari as a male side educating young female and i wish this can be a series were it will continue and siba also sharing her kind of love she got kwelakhe icalaâ€â€thanks guys
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Awumhle Sisi Uyazi đđđ
Enkosi mntaseâ€â€
If ndingatshata sana there is no way I would stay kulo hubby the whole leave , ndingaya only half of my leave I need rest also sana before going back to work
I watched someone win at this makoti thing. After first visit at home, observed all expectations, when she would be helped and when not. Next December, she brought all kinds of things to make her work easier. Eg brought Bucket of scones from cpt , for tea things , or tools that make house work easier and after. That way even with little assistance at least the work wouldnât be too tiring
The scones was a way to avoid having to make them from scratch each morning at home as was the norm at the husbandâs. Bringing those buckets with heating elements for bathing water for the family etc
A Jojo tank to buy water in bulk versus going to fetch water everyday.
I fully agree with this.. like finding ways to make it work for you
Jonga ngeke uhambe wrong nge scones. Mna ngosuku lokuqala ndenza sho ukuba ndifika late sekumnyama and sekuphekiwe.and anditsho ukuba ndizakufika nini.
Sis uyazi you looking so beautiful with your natural hair, skin flawlessđŻâ„ïžâ„ïžlove you mtasee
Thank you so much đ€ â€ïžâ€ïž
Ngiyamuzwa u Sbali uma Athi.. Go emakhaya with a plan, set your mind already that you going to work, I mean it's couple of days then you Wil be back to your house.
I feel like most of the time in laws zikha kunyana wabo how to treat youâŠ.. Mamazala wakho wanting to be helpful while unomlenze Siba is surely the same she will be when unomntana, God gave you guys each other and your families are lucky to have each of you as their new relativeâ€ïž
I love this contentđ€đŸâ€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïž
Thank you so muchâ€â€
Love this channel so much bethuna yhuâ€ïžâ€ïž
Emzini akufuneki uze ngengqondo yona uzobabonisa. Linda into use kuwe directly then attend it. But Akho formula Shem coz uyakwaz makoti ucatshukelwa ngenzanga nixâŠ
Akusemhle sisUyazi unenkazimuloâ€â€â€â€
Thanks mntaseâ€â€â€
@Sethu Yamile asikwazi ukungabathandi tuuu,they are my fave too
I decided to search for your videos because someone said i speak like youđâ€....but sana i just fell in love with your content and I'm here to stay. Nditshatile nam its been 9 years and I don't wanna dwell too much kule topic.
Oh you are welcome mntaseâ€ïžâ€ïž
Ndiyaqala uyiva đđđđ ohh sbary wethu, hello guys, please continue guys to do ezi sit downs both of you ndiyazithanda shame â€â€â€
Semhle sis Uyaziđđ
Allow her to shine đ that is me shym would chill
Yhoo guys andifuni kungatsho ndiyayithanda indlela enihloniphana ngayo,,,"plan ke sisi imisebenzi yakho so that u r overworked ",,,,,,"â€â€I am here to stay ". Le ipoint melted me ke Uyazi ibonisa uba uzele ukwakha kwaTyesi,,,,BigUpâ€â€â€â€â€â€
Siba is beautiful yhu đ
đ€đ€đ€ enkosi Hlaliâ€â€
â€â€đ„° enjoyed it
The Christmas question for me,spending Xmas with my in-laws is fine but it canât be forever we need to start our own Xmas tradition as this new family even worse xasele kukho nomntana sihlale December kwelo goli or kapa have Xmas in our own home nathi âŠsbari very few abafana abasebenza ngehlobo uchaza ngalo kowenu abanye benziwa ikings sanađ especially if breadwinner ugcwala ilali abesiskhulu selali abuye ngozolala endlini phof oko mntanabantu emile mini yonke naye ufuna uhoywa ngapha
Guys enjoy going home in December for ukuzula namajita angamcingeli wife uba yena ziyomkhalela phaa kulamziđ
Very true on the xmas tradition
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14 min in and sana ku hot. Kule yobanendawo in the kitchen kuphela I relate. I knew my inlaws before getting married, ndlela ebabendithanda ngayo sana. Mhla ndaba ngumakoti wabo ndabona umlilo wodwa. It didn't matter if we were home or apha ekapa, lamama ruled sana. There were family meetings held and I would know only when my husband would come back. I remember the one time I walked into my house ndafika kugcwele sana abanye belele kwi sleeping couch, abanye in my bed, suitcases all over sana abantu ngathi bakwi vacation, ubhuti myeni waxolela uyolala kwa sister inlaw omncinci ngob akafun uthetha and yena akaboni nto ewrongđ© akazange wandithethelela nakanye mntase. Wandikhulula xa ethi aadluli emyhethweni wakokwabo, nam ke ndathwal iimithwalo yam ndabuyela kowasekhaya umthethođ
Thank you sisâ Uyazi, niyafundisa sanaâ„ïžâ„ïž
I ran here when I saw the notification. I'm enjoying this makoti series.
You and me bothâ€
i enjoyed this video. i love your content guys .
It feels like the husband's family gains a daughter but unfortunately, the wife's family rarely gains a son. I thought it was more about getting to know both sides of the family.
Omamazala bavalwaimilomo sweets.đđđSbari for president
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Sisi Uyazi awusemhle hayboâ€â€
Enkosi mntaseâ€â€
8:14 some sister-inlaws babona ichance yegroove once ubekhonaâŠso awukwazi ubacela to assist if baphuma ngomnyango xa ukhona upheka because bayazi yonke into is taken care of.
Yichance yabo yophumla sana..
Love how usbariiii love n respect isintuuu as young as he s ....ezinye zinto r meant to stay ngalendlela bezihleli ngayo Siba.
#nice conversations mawethu#
Love your glow mntase â€
I really enjoy these sit-downs, they are eye-opening.â€
Thank you Mrs tyesi... topics ezinje zisivula ngqondo sana, I love botho of you how you interact kule Topic â€â€â€â€â€ thank you so much sisi Sbari kwezondawo maarnđđ
I agree with uSbali oomakoti mabangathembiselani namadodakazi especially when it comes to cooking, at least with cleaning and washing dishes they can assist.
I'm enjoying this bandla đ
But most of the time omakoti abafike bedelele yilaba abangamkelwa kahle ngefirst day eseyintombi ubone nje la ukuthi uyaprethendelwa so mawubuyela sewuza ngokuthi ayiyela iyakhona ngobavele abangithandi
To us the notification gagđâ€â€
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I love you comment Makoti by saying
Im here to stay
That one of never showing up as a super star is very true. My mother always my life used to say that. She would say people will fold their hands and even give you false praise so that you work đ . So work at the same pace with others đ
Its the false praise for me⊠and you think jhaaa you are the itđđđ
Awusemhle cc u uyazi glowing makoti.â€â€
Ndiyayithanda impendulo ka Sbali pha kula question xa ugqibo kubelekaâ„ïž sana ngase kubuzwe kulomntu usandobeleka nyan
12:57 Maan! Sbari is good at reading body language & I think its because nawe you did a good job at embodying the feelings of that text/question đ. It felt like they were yours (the feelings)
Siba pretty girlđđđ
I have been disagreeing with uSbali shame throughout all of this series of makoti edition. I just feel like umfazi umbona njengesixashala sakhe! This can lead to wives not even wanting to go visit kulo myeni ngoba kaloku umntu uya use.wa for amandla akhe! đą The sister in-laws are supposed to continue with whatever they used to do before the bride came and the bride should be just assisting from what is already being done. Noko sifundile bethuna asingomaqaba! Laphela ixesha lokucinezela oomakoti! Umfazi akayo-nanny yefamily yomyeni!
No guys niyawumosha umtshato umfaz akathembiselani namadodakazi.
@@MatabataMasimbonge I didnât mean it as ukuthembiselana but for the sister in-laws to know that they are daughters ekhayeni and have duties to fulfill. Sister in-laws should not think ukuba kufike inanny ekhayeni labo xa kukho umakoti baphele besonga iizandla. That is not on!
@@MatabataMasimbonge Marriage doesnât mean slavery. đ
Makoti iss soo pretty đđđđđ„șđ„șđ„șâ€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïž
Thanks mntase â€â€
I love you guys mna yazđ„°đ„°đ„°
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Sibari on point. Go there with a plan đđđ
What if my plans as a makoti are totally different for the plans of the in laws.
I usually say to my husband let's get home (Ngqeleni) from Kimberley ebusuku, so that sifike sele betyile balala. Then I start work next day sele ndi fresh đ«Łđ«Łđ«Ł
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I enjoyed this vlong
Thanks Mr and Mrs Tyesi cos wow aniyazi inzulu kangakanani le topic and i love that nihleli kuyo a couple of videos †I'm learning a lot as a young makoti
You are welcome mntase. We are learning together
Emzini xa usiya you need to go wearing a blindfold ufike ufumane iâTada â . Once uye unguNdiyazi you will see those things ubuzazi
My mom says that she always pretended to be sick to avoid workload after her wedding đ. Honestly she was a bad Makoti. She'd always leave for about 6 months whenever she was fed up. I agree with the fact that a Makoti and her husband should live alone.
đđđ angade agule.. its a good point ne to avoid such
đđ€ŁHlekiswa nguSbali uthi sufika uphole fika nje uphithizele uthume abantwana, ube ubusy upakisha impahla đđandayihleka maam
đ€Łđ€Ł bekhona into oyenzayo
I am loving this makoti series †sbari's wisdom đ
Glad you enjoy it â€ïž
Mrs Tyesi you are glowing, haibo đđđ
đ€đ€ enkosi mntase
Mrs Tyesi ndkutandela ba cool cc yhu GOD BLESS UR MARRIAGE akapoxi sbariđđđ
â€â€â€ yey đ€Łđ€Ł
I enjoyed this ke sana â€â€
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Xa kukho umsebenzi I feel like oomakoti eziko and sister-in-law ekitshini for salads makuncediswane.
Xa kungekho nto inini nodwa masincedisane kodwa singa compete.
But let us remember this all depends on the relationship between inlaws and makoti.
I like I plan ka Sbari ethi yiza une plan, plus mngena ndlini and share the duties not forgetting ba imizi ayifani. Good one.
Usbari uyamela nkskz wakhe bethunani unawo namacebo oba majenze njani xa efuna resta...... Yintoni efani umkhwebyana xa eyotyela xmas ebukhweni? Niyi family morse
@@NolwandleMtumtum for mna there is nothing wrong but for indoda elobolileyo and culturally stigma (siyoyoyo) and pride.
1:03 Sbali why that face, kodwa unikwa compliment???!đđđđđ
Quality Sana ye camera is giving.â€
Uyamazi kalokđđ. Thanks mntase
I love you guys so muchâ€ïž
Thanks mntaseâ€
Ay Mara umhle uMfazi ka Sbari murnđđđđâ€ïžâ€ïžlol I'll always say this shame uxolo sis siba but Sbari is very interesting and intelligent especially when it comes to izinto zesixhosaâïžâ€ïžiLove you guys. â€ïžđ©
Ndiyambongela imfazi kaSbariđ«Ł.
Its his passion yambona
Sana akasacacisi usbarry â€đ„č
Inde kamnandi Lena I video thank you sisi and sbari â€ïžâ€ïžđđ
Mna I wish ndinganibukela I miniyonkeâ€ïžđđ€
Siyabulelaâ€â€â€
This was fun and interesting andinguye umakoti however I love these series so much â€â€ umhle Sis Uya â€đ
Thanks mntaseâ€â€
This topic actually triggers me so much. I feel I need healing in this area. Kuningi. Now I have turned hard and bitter with no intention of ever going back there. Andisayi kwa mna. Noba kukhontoni na. Struggling to move past this.
Awsemhle Sis Makotiâ€
Enkosi mntaseâ€â€
Notification gang â€đ
Hey đ akasandihlekisi uSbari. Akho schedule emzini. Akho kwakho phaya. Awuzufika sewusithi ndizothini ndithini. Uzophoxwa uthi saa ngumamazala namadodakazi. Uzosoloko uthunywa, awukwazi ukuyiphepha loo nto. With men, kukokwenu, you can plan vele and akhomntu uzokunqanda. Kunzima kwaFaziland ndikuxelele.
Ndzawukhe ndiyizame kanti.. ndikubalisile if it worked
Love you guys mnwaaaa.â€â€â€â€â€đ
â€â€ thanks mntaseâ€
I'm new to this channel im enjoying every video i have watched yhuuuu u strict u Sbari đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
Thanks mntase ⊠siyakwamkelaâ€â€
anisebahle bakwa Tyesiâ„â„
Siyabulela
Andisamthandi U Sbari Uyazi especially kulandawo yoba uzothunywa ngumntu wonke BA awuna plan..xa ugoduka yiya uyazi into ozofika uyenzeâ€â€
The Xhosa culture is so rich ....bubukhosi and we need to treat it as such
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