Emotional Intelligence: How Good Leaders Become Great -- UC Davis Executive Leadership Program

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  • čas přidán 6. 06. 2024
  • The UC Davis Executive Leadership Program is a transformative, interactive seminar series that will expand your ability to confidently guide and direct your organization. Gain practical techniques, effective strategies and essential personal insight to become a passionate, inspiring leader. In this video, instructor Mitchel Adler, Psy.D., CGP, discusses emotional intelligence and how good leaders use it to their advantage.
    For more information about the 2016 UC Davis Executive Leadership Program, visit extension.ucdavis.edu/execprog

Komentáře • 258

  • @claragary
    @claragary Před 7 lety +13

    Thanks. This gave me more ideas on my dissertation which is basically based on emotional and social intelligence in various types of school principles. Five stars!!!

  • @mmm4638
    @mmm4638 Před 9 lety +14

    Great talk, pure about the mechanism of perception process. Ultimately my perception has `filters` that convert certain life events into emotions I understand as negative feelings or anxiety. My mission statement is `love people for what they're not, its your self reflection in some ways, to love self is to love others and to love others is to love self (love as an unconditional acceptance regardless sex, race, age and standings...) p.s how could possibly someone dislike this, its academic (its not some peoples cup of tea) but its genuine and its very good.

  • @sharishahale8307
    @sharishahale8307 Před 6 lety +2

    Instructor Mitchel Adler discussed emotional intelligence really well. I learned a lot things about emotional intelligence

  • @totonerdepr
    @totonerdepr Před 5 lety +10

    Everyone is so interested in what hes talking about!! I can see it in theyr faces, good job.

  • @G.Toro333
    @G.Toro333 Před rokem +8

    Thank you for sharing Dr. Adler! I love how the description says "so leaders can use emotional intelligence to their advantage".
    Its precise, but also indirecly contradictive because of the mirror effect. A leader that uses EQ with his surrounding collegues makes everyone else comfortable to give room for vulnerability and individuality growth. It advantages the team, in turn makes it that much of a healthier, hard working enviorenement for the resulting, seeking leader.
    It's an eternal turning circle. We are in this all together.

    • @kemalistdevrimturkaydnlanm168
      @kemalistdevrimturkaydnlanm168 Před 3 měsíci

      True, when I was working for a brutal management I was performing to my best and I was top of the performance leagues in the region, he respected me and awarded me, when I was working for a totally relaxed, respectful, understanding manager I performed way less productive, he respected me and rewarded me. Sad but it’s true for me being honest. The manager for compliance was strict as a military officer so for 22 years I worked with him I never made any mistakes when it came to compliance, conduct and paperwork performance. I knew if I made a mistake he was not going to be soft , he had zero tolerances for lousy behaviour so be always supported me and respected me in return.

  • @carolinelatham-parker7313

    Thank you so much 4 years on this is truly relevant and inspiring

  • @aqeelaallawati4269
    @aqeelaallawati4269 Před 4 lety +5

    Very beneficial absolutely true I’ve been through all these emotions and learned how to control it. Thank you so much that was helpful

  • @Yunona1984
    @Yunona1984 Před 5 lety +2

    THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! I wish I'd have money to come for listening the entire course. So useful.

  • @viviaz7942
    @viviaz7942 Před 5 lety +5

    Feeling glad that world has leaders like him!

  • @wilmotmagopeni7742
    @wilmotmagopeni7742 Před 8 lety +20

    Great talk by UC Davis. There is so much we can achieve in changing ourselves for the better by just making time of self introspection and being more reflective on our thoughts and behaviors. How do I feel about this right now ? Why do I feel as such ? Could I feel differently about the same thing or experience ? If not why not ? That's my take away from this talk

  • @adedimejiadeyinka4746
    @adedimejiadeyinka4746 Před 2 lety +3

    I believe we are all leaders in our own sphere and this topic can't be overemphasized more so that self-awareness is the core of EI. Our lives can be better collectively and we also can give more to our world when we are masters first of ourselves and then others.

  • @nataaliyakhan4837
    @nataaliyakhan4837 Před 3 lety +32

    Well articulated, informative and presented in the best possible way. Surely gonna watch over and over again.

    • @Bat_Boy
      @Bat_Boy Před 9 měsíci +1

      I agree. I have watched many CZcams videos on emotional intelligence, authenticity, active listening, etc. And this video is a stand out. No “bumper sticker”, disposable pop-psychology on this one. An awesome breakdown, with useable points.

  • @DionDifelice
    @DionDifelice Před 6 lety +20

    Concise, informative, and well communicated!! This is a great intro to Emotional Intelligence with some great takeaways! Thank you

  • @dkozz1
    @dkozz1 Před 7 lety +2

    Very helpful and informative. Our emotions happens faster than cognitively we are aware of it. Great work.

  • @AbelPetClinicElkGrove
    @AbelPetClinicElkGrove Před 10 lety

    So nice to see many of the wonderful people I met in this class. Dr Adler's presentations were among the highest rated by students in the program.

  • @maryadeolaonyewadume357
    @maryadeolaonyewadume357 Před 3 lety +3

    Your posture, presentation skills indicate you are emotionally intelligent.

  • @muthukr27
    @muthukr27 Před 9 lety +13

    Very interesting session on Emotional Intelligence, thanks for sharing in youtube

  • @teppalbalu4260
    @teppalbalu4260 Před 4 lety +1

    GOOD my dear yeshwanth it is wonderful , you have done and your style of speech and your body language really is very impressive.
    Nice too.
    TNBALU

  • @MC-ij9xc
    @MC-ij9xc Před 4 lety +8

    My quote
    "We Can Only Give What We Have"
    Good speech
    Thank you

  • @ICONIQPsychology
    @ICONIQPsychology Před 6 lety +8

    Cool video! :) Emotional intelligence is so important for everyone, not just managers and leaders.

  • @docj8417
    @docj8417 Před 6 lety +1

    Enjoyed this, thank you, Dr. Adler.

  • @Teeroye215
    @Teeroye215 Před 10 lety +15

    I simply learned a lot about the video of how it didn't give specific instructions of how to be a leader , instead it gave the attributes and techniques of what makes a good leader. Very good, this video deserves a lot of publicity

    • @gomentr3460
      @gomentr3460 Před 10 lety +2

      To be a great leader comes with attributes and experiences. It also takes the indivula to be empathetic for others in order to know how to lead.

  • @viktorkrokhmalov2277
    @viktorkrokhmalov2277 Před rokem

    Bravo, thank you very much for your professionalism and the way you deliver it. You woke me up!

  • @TheDavidlloydjones
    @TheDavidlloydjones Před 9 lety +48

    Congratulations to the producers who put this talk up: no intro, no yards of persiflage. It just starts with the talk. well done.
    -dlj.

    • @russ4u4love
      @russ4u4love Před 9 lety +1

      Y!

    • @garymacmillan1
      @garymacmillan1 Před 8 lety +1

      David Lloyd-Jones yes you stated the apparent but sadly you will not be able to build a following because you are taking life and replying to it bye explianing like a lot of interneters in gobiltigook that does not respond or enlighten the causes you want to enritchen?

    • @eduardovargas1139
      @eduardovargas1139 Před 4 lety

      Gary Macmillan this is such a God mode response
      Well done

    • @eduardovargas1139
      @eduardovargas1139 Před 4 lety

      Gary Macmillan now the very comment you made stands foolish in the face of the very comment you made
      not very God like

    • @TheDavidlloydjones
      @TheDavidlloydjones Před 4 lety

      @@garymacmillan1 Hunh?

  • @jorgdoku2280
    @jorgdoku2280 Před 7 lety +1

    Great lecture! Thank you Mitchel!

  • @zannamsoro5180
    @zannamsoro5180 Před 8 lety +5

    so great.I really enjoyed it

  • @catherineto
    @catherineto Před 5 lety +12

    Secrets of emotional intelligence:
    “Recognize” that I am angry right now.
    “Why” am I angry ?
    “How” to cope with my anger ?
    This is exactly what Dalai Lama suggested too in the book of “How to live a happy life”.

  • @yulijiron8719
    @yulijiron8719 Před 7 lety +3

    UAAAUUU!!! I feel great! Thanks very much!

  • @255Samyak
    @255Samyak Před 7 lety

    Insightful seminar! Much appreciated.

  • @riavarnom8210
    @riavarnom8210 Před 4 lety +1

    Love your explanations, thank you for being you.

  • @georgebenichou9727
    @georgebenichou9727 Před 4 lety

    I did not often heard of EI but now that I listened what it is I must say thst it is the full consciousness of every aspects of his " being " when he or she is fully manifesting itself in all its activities (physical emotional mental psychic even spiritual ) in other word we call that " real wisdom " because it describes what spiritual people mean . by the word wisdom and it corresponds to a state of consciousness close to illumination !! in spiritual circles .the first ingredient absolutely necessary to progress in this direction is to be honest to be true with your intimate relationship with yourself and consequently with others .there is no charisma without honesty !!

  • @stevenpfeifferdc6119
    @stevenpfeifferdc6119 Před 4 lety +1

    Great video to better yourself. Much appreciated.

  • @victoriaavila0406
    @victoriaavila0406 Před 2 lety

    This was so wonderful - thank you!

  • @keitaaboubacarsidiki5627
    @keitaaboubacarsidiki5627 Před 6 lety +1

    Great presentation, many thanks for inspiring me.

  • @insidemyownlittleworld

    this was so good 🙏🏾
    wish i discovered this nine years ago.

  • @joannetimney367
    @joannetimney367 Před 10 lety +4

    Great thought provoking video!

  • @markanthonygarrett6264
    @markanthonygarrett6264 Před 7 lety +10

    Great! This video is so insightful I really enjoyed watching it. It has a lot of good ideas that we can learn. Thanks! :)

    • @jenalyntinai2805
      @jenalyntinai2805 Před 7 lety

      Hi there Mark, I am so surprised I see you here, I never thought you would also watched videos like this where you made amazing inspirational videos as well, very creative and I'd like to see more of it so I'm so excited and I have to keep updated on your site.

  • @nelumpriyapremachandra2703

    great explanation about this Topic. I understood a lot of thing.

  • @h2energynow
    @h2energynow Před 5 lety +1

    Great talk, learned a great deal. Thanks

  • @christinanjoka5071
    @christinanjoka5071 Před 9 lety +9

    This is fantastic and very informative presentation especially for me as a Trainer on Leadership in Kenya. Keep it up.

    • @JaqWasonga
      @JaqWasonga Před 8 lety

      +christina njoka
      where in kenya are you based?

  • @errolharding4409
    @errolharding4409 Před 4 lety +1

    A brilliant video. Thank you.

  • @anamae9502
    @anamae9502 Před 6 lety +1

    Great Speaker. I'd pay to watch him live..🎤

  • @alokbharti25
    @alokbharti25 Před 8 lety +4

    very good session .Thanks lot

  • @jamesmoore6203
    @jamesmoore6203 Před 4 lety

    We must gain striking structure amongst the nature of ourselves.. inwardly, we bubble to burst outwardly.. to grasp the attentive concept of honing personal attributes to enhance skills sets buried deep within to guide not only ourselves, yet those thereafter...

  • @LifeDesign09
    @LifeDesign09 Před 9 lety +6

    20:35... by now... you've completely got my attention.

  • @Idkjustyet
    @Idkjustyet Před rokem

    His daughter is very smart 😂❤ this is good 👏🏽 having this skill will allow u to spot a narcissist very quickly 💯

  • @TheRonskins
    @TheRonskins Před 2 lety +1

    Very informative...Thanks for this!

  • @CrashRebootL3
    @CrashRebootL3 Před 9 lety

    very good talk, learned something

  • @solomoniiroja6838
    @solomoniiroja6838 Před 6 lety

    Change for the better. Thank u.

  • @FrankRGreen-wq7vo
    @FrankRGreen-wq7vo Před rokem +12

    I pray whoever reads this should become successful. keep fighting for success. the rich stay rich by spending like the poor and investing why the poor
    stay poor and be spending like the rich yet notbinvesting. Roar! Invest earn and be successful.

  • @gabz481
    @gabz481 Před 5 lety +1

    Learnt a lot, clear explanations

  • @robertlee2170
    @robertlee2170 Před 3 měsíci

    "Self-awareness is the foundation of emotional intelligence. " There is your #1 tool. #2 tool, journaling is one of the best tool of achieving self- awareness. It is lots of work no doubt. You mean I have to look into myself such as my own feeling😢. It takes commitment. It takes lots work. Once you see it & expiernce ofyour own self growth that will motivate to continue to work on yourself. It still takes on going motivation , self discipline to do this. 😊

  • @megan-ms8kj
    @megan-ms8kj Před 8 lety +3

    emotional intelligence is very very useful and important

  • @leonardorocha1875
    @leonardorocha1875 Před 7 lety +9

    awesome! helps a lot! thanks :)

  • @jfb_ventures
    @jfb_ventures Před 2 lety

    Such good content! I had to apply all of it to control my irritations triggered by the poor and erratic camera work. 🙂

  • @PreetiSinhalearniitude

    Nice talk! Very informative ..

  • @lorenamares1427
    @lorenamares1427 Před 6 lety

    I hope to apply this to my teaching.

  • @lifewithpurposetv4349
    @lifewithpurposetv4349 Před 6 měsíci

    Super powerful insights and masive Value in this🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤

  • @LifeDesign09
    @LifeDesign09 Před 9 lety +1

    This is a great video...

  • @lisachledergerber6790
    @lisachledergerber6790 Před 7 lety +1

    great job....

  • @zahedulhamid6332
    @zahedulhamid6332 Před 7 lety

    Great, really i followed your lecture , its g good

  • @willieward7419
    @willieward7419 Před rokem

    Great informational video that created thought.

  • @DannyPluto.
    @DannyPluto. Před 4 lety +2

    I can’t believe this is free, feelings like I’m stealing

  • @faridjafarov9175
    @faridjafarov9175 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for sharing !

  • @michaelstafford5848
    @michaelstafford5848 Před rokem

    Fantastic presentation

  • @felicidadeneto4212
    @felicidadeneto4212 Před 8 lety +5

    I'm not directly partisipated at your speach but I do really love watched your video and really appreciated that.
    Thanks a lot for great acknowladgement share.

    • @solf2000
      @solf2000 Před 6 lety

      felicidade neto: What exactly are you saying, besides the spelling errors you allowed to jump on us?

  • @ericmartinez2714
    @ericmartinez2714 Před 8 lety +1

    Thank you!

  • @abdulqadeerahmadzai164

    It was realy interesting
    Thank you

  • @kegalalelinnetikaneng5133

    Very interesting session, thanks for sharing

  • @lovedichoreo1529
    @lovedichoreo1529 Před 8 lety +2

    We should know the difference between a thought and a feeling vs action

  • @21ikram
    @21ikram Před rokem

    Thanks for a good talk.

  • @azizahaddou427
    @azizahaddou427 Před 2 lety +1

    Great job

  • @jennys6087
    @jennys6087 Před 7 lety

    thank you! I want everyone to enjoy

    • @jennys6087
      @jennys6087 Před 7 lety +1

      I have to say I've been numbed in life never angry to rage, no need to repeat history! #stopbecauseyouknowitsAcircle....#offdasugar

    • @jennys6087
      @jennys6087 Před 7 lety +1

      I've been studying behavior habits for 40years of my Life

    • @jennys6087
      @jennys6087 Před 7 lety +1

      challenged my comfort zone! #zenJen

  • @nizaradnan2897
    @nizaradnan2897 Před rokem

    very helpful. Thank You

  • @mdm...321
    @mdm...321 Před 7 lety

    Leaders don't tell what they want, unless they are position leaders. Hardly anything they get is of value.
    Leaders ask.
    If you are emotionally intelligent enough to understand the profound difference, you'll develop your leadership to build real followers round you.

  • @viklatu7806
    @viklatu7806 Před 6 lety +1

    There's 2 primary emotions, not 4, that build up all the emotions.
    Feeling good or bad. And we are all driven by pleasure and pain. This not to knock your teaching but something to think about. Good job by the way. Look up faster eft. Robert Smith has developed the art of changing your primary imprints. The art of changing your memories, in return reconstructing your life from inside out. Developing real emotional intelligence.

  • @jennifersertl3358
    @jennifersertl3358 Před 5 lety

    Your competitive advantage is the accuracy of how you scan the macro and how you make decisions. Awareness is the only sustainable competitive advantage. #a3r

  • @evelynwhite8525
    @evelynwhite8525 Před 10 lety +7

    Thanks to Ranjana Sharma, a classmate through Coursera, for pointing me to this talk. Really good.

    • @UCDavisExtension
      @UCDavisExtension  Před 10 lety +4

      I'm glad you enjoyed it, Evelyn (and thanks for sharing us, Ranjana!).

  • @MohamedFathy-uk2hh
    @MohamedFathy-uk2hh Před rokem

    Really amazing

  • @mdjamaluddin2079
    @mdjamaluddin2079 Před 3 lety

    Thank you very much

  • @sachintomar3535
    @sachintomar3535 Před 4 lety

    The best part about comments is that "how we all born from different mothers have the same thinking process".

  • @salenikola7881
    @salenikola7881 Před 3 lety +1

    he is good !

  • @naonaonao962
    @naonaonao962 Před 2 lety +3

    About judgements: mine are formed through past experiences. I know what to expect from the people who surround me, because I learned through the pain, joy, growth, etc., that I experienced when interacting with them. I created a pattern, a point of observation so that I can spare myself from going through the same bad experiences again. Is it self-defense? Of course. We need to learn not to give the other face to the same people when we know exactly what we'll get from them. Some say I'm wrong and have no emotional intelligence. But if emotional intelligence means interacting with assholes, I prefer not to have any.

    • @FaithHope21
      @FaithHope21 Před rokem

      So you said you form your judgements about people based on the bad past experiences you've had with them...what are some bad experiences you've had with someone that made you cut them off?

    • @naonaonao962
      @naonaonao962 Před rokem

      @@FaithHope21 Private.

  • @lovedichoreo1529
    @lovedichoreo1529 Před 8 lety +11

    21:43 Emotional intelligence defined

  • @jetn8654
    @jetn8654 Před 4 lety +3

    Aaaaaaay, its the Fonz!

  • @aozoraito2135
    @aozoraito2135 Před 7 lety

    fantastic. thanks :)

  • @malkta0b
    @malkta0b Před 7 lety

    So great

  • @chinonyenwobodo744
    @chinonyenwobodo744 Před 2 lety

    Well educative

  • @mangbawi2634
    @mangbawi2634 Před 7 lety

    I really like the u sir its very good message. Thank u for uploading

  • @deaddude6084
    @deaddude6084 Před 8 lety +2

    will the email reply tell us "Good Job"?

  • @popcorn1069
    @popcorn1069 Před rokem

    Anyone recommends books about emotional intelligence or leadership?

  • @nelsonballecer4858
    @nelsonballecer4858 Před rokem

    now I know...high impact.

  • @zinten62
    @zinten62 Před 2 lety +1

    Need your Link ?

  • @dRumpfsadouchebag
    @dRumpfsadouchebag Před 4 lety +1

    Breathing technique.. abdominal breathing.. heart rate variablility(HRV) allows the parasympathetic (braking) system to kick in.. getting heartrate and mind to getting into synch.. also crossing arms and legs.. hemisych.. sdychronizing the 2 brain hemispheres. Also the half smile.. triggers dopamine release..

  • @riavarnom8210
    @riavarnom8210 Před 4 lety

    Can I share your video with some heath managers I am working with please? If so, how do you want me to reference/cite you? Many thanks, Ria

    • @mitcheladler
      @mitcheladler Před 4 lety

      Ria Varnom please do! My hope is that this gets shared with anyone who might benefit from it. You can cite it any way you’d like. It’s open to the public. My website is www.mitcheladler.com if folks want to know more about me. You can also add the link to UC Davis Extension as well if you’d like. Be well!

  • @riteshbxr
    @riteshbxr Před 6 lety

    Nice lecture! btw the three primary colors are: Red, Blue and GREEN :)

    • @mojotime180
      @mojotime180 Před 5 lety

      Green ? _give yourself another chance to make it right

    • @deborahpruyne6274
      @deborahpruyne6274 Před 4 lety +1

      Sorry, you goofed. They are Red, Yellow, and Blue. Green is made up of Yellow and Blue.

    • @sarahbradbeer7982
      @sarahbradbeer7982 Před 3 lety

      @@deborahpruyne6274 red, yellow and blue are primary colours when painting, but red green and blue are the primary colours in physics. Counterintuitively, red+green wavelengths = your eye perceives yellow.
      Take a close look at the pixels in a monitor for example. They are red, green, blue.

  • @Winnie_Ndimu
    @Winnie_Ndimu Před 5 lety +7

    Who else was waiting for him to say his email address for you to submit your assignment😁✋🏼✋🏼

  • @lanyingliu4964
    @lanyingliu4964 Před 4 lety

    Feeling good is the key. And a lot of ppl with high IQ just can't figure that out.

  • @innergenica4910
    @innergenica4910 Před 5 lety

    What people say about you says more about them emotional intelligence is a compete big words

  • @jameslewis5256
    @jameslewis5256 Před 2 lety

    When I get home from work. I go outside and just sit there for about 30 to 45 minutes, to detox from my job,so that I can be emotionally available for my family