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Episode 26 | Mlungisi on being Gang Raped,Contracting HIV, Prison, Murder, Robbery, Life to 10 years
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- čas přidán 23. 12. 2023
- 🎙️Welcome to 'Against the Wall Podcast - Danyane Diaries'!
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MEET THE TEAM
🙎🏽♂️ Host : @skeemgp
🙎🏿♂️Guest : Mlungisi
🎥 Captured By: @maligant_group.za
🔊 Sound: @maligant_group.z
This guy is still broken, I pray he gets complete healing, there is pain behind his jokes
I don't think so, he must have been in pain but he saying with his mouth that God pulled him through
I think so as well but speaking about his life it is part of healing
""most people are prisoners in the outside because they cant forgive , and you are holding the key which is forgiveness""Mlungisi may God continue to bless you.
This is so painful,I hope he is really over it. I can see he is making jokes but I can also see the pain in his eyes,notice that he laughes whenever he speaks about his pain.😢body language speaks volumes.
Don't be dramatic
Indeed too much dramatically, this guy has been telling stories probably a year ago...
No is not anymore because Christ in him makes him strong hence he has confidence
I can see what you talking about.
True , he is in pain 😢
He is trying to hide it by laughing
Finally!, a guy who speaks more than skeem 😂😂... mare otherwise touching story, God is good . Amen
😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lmao😂😂😂
I was about to say that too... This guy is more hyper active than skeem in this episode
yho uyathetha
I love how he praises God's power😭🙏May he find healing ❤️🥺🥺
Mluh is still in pain 😢😢😢please organise a psychiatrist for him... With gods grace i hope abe sharp. The way ahleke ngakhona ai its not make sure
This bro just said he's never been intimate with a chick. Damn. This rape really messed him up😢
So much wisdom in this guy. This journey was and is still his. Praise to God. Well done my guy
Ngithanda ukuthi kukhokonke ulokhu uphakamisa igama lika Nkulunkulu 🙌🙌🙌🙌 yes eyyy ngampela asiyilutho ngaphandle kuka Nkulunkulu 😢😢😢😢😢😢 phephisa my brother uNkulunkulu ukuqinisile usazokuqinisa futhi usuku nosuku ❤❤
😢😢😢 uzohlezi ukhala ngephilo manje mothola abantu abanjengo Mluh uvele ubone awunazo izinkinga.
The pain in his eyes. God sustain this man
Eish I saw that 😔😔😥😥😥
Please find someone who made time for crime he didn’t commit I really want to hear their experience of jail and how they heal from that!
Bra Mlungisi has such a beautiful spirit, what a sad outcome for his life, but life is for living and so I believe he will continue to live a very fulfilling life💫💫🌟🌟
Eish he wanted to cry but he hold himself 😢😢😢😢 he's heartbroken
😢😢😢😢 still in pain, you can hear through his voice
Mlungisi uyi star 🌟 when I come to Mamelodi, I will make sure that I meet you. Trust me, you are my motivator
A person is telling their story, their truth and wena uthi ijele limshaye ama fuse. This is in your platform that you claim iletha i awareness. Do better
Im battling with forgetting what my son did to me and his siblings ; he made our lives a living hell and was arrested early this year I havent visited him since his arrest but the mother in me is slowly trying to help him ngokudla etc...but ukuya ndiyombona 🤔umoya wam awukavumi . I need someone who can help me to deal with the situation .
Try therapy
Mama be there for your bby,
By you going to prison visiting him, he will repent and see how much you love him and he hurts you.
You also make mistakes but God forgives you as well.
Just try to visit him and see what happens😢
I would like to thank everyone who have shown support ;I really was not okay since 3rd January this year . I know there are other mothers who are going through the same . I truly love him and azange wakewaswela anything uthando etc ...Im a single mom and trying my best to make sure that all my kids are happy . Enkosi 🙏guys and Happy Holidays to you all.
I like the whole work of Skeem GP but i would like him to respect the decision of people to remain single and being celibate and do not make a joke or ask nasty questions out of it. Please ngiyakucela bhuti😊.
Sence of humor girl.. If u have hanged out namajita ud know.. Majita agwarana man
@@dorcramps6779drubbish
Say it louder
Skeem l personaly feel like Mlungisi is disturbed a bit 😢😢😢
😢something is not right 😢😢😢😢he’s trying to be strong but it’s almost impossible
The first thing is for him to accept that he is not okay he needs more healing
This man has been through a lot, 😢😢😢 i really hope he finds healing and strength to live. God be with him.
This has been a heartbreaking eye opener and the way the story is narrated by the guy is even more heartbreaking. Yes there is acceptance and moving on after trauma but there. There is this thing that is also called total healing; this guy is far from healing totally because his body language conveys what he is not saying with his mouth.💔 he is covering a lot that he hasn’t dealt with emotionally and suppresses it with the laughter and throwing in scriptures. He has a long way to go and I wish @SkeemSami can look for a therapist that can assist him to deal with what he is hurrying inside him. May God bless him and give him total healing and closer.
Yes u can see this guy inside he wanted to cry
I agree
May God restore him... this is just so painful, jokes aside there’s a lot of brokenness to deal with here😢... but we serve a miracle working God🙏
Not everyone will get married,or have kids.Even in the bible Paul was not married. We have to respect people's decisions and not make fun of them.
Thank you .
My brother I like you show keep it up for encouraging the former inmates to talk freely. Shortly can you please invite the correctional services officers in order to build the better future for the inmates. I'm an former correctional services officer I have played a big role for protecting and changed the life of inmates in JHB prison. My name is Sipho Mbhele unfortunately I'm living in United Kingdom please chat with me good man
Sompisi, I have not seen you in a long time.
I miss our Virgin Active with Mlambo & Tshabalala
@@Hloksthegreat2 Yeah bafowethu kuhle ukuzwa kuwe ngabe ubani lona
Hloksa.
Le ya ndoda yama muscle..LOL
I am worried about this guy, I think there's something wrong with him now.
It’s probably the trauma of the things he went through
Trauma 😢
I thought maybe the experience turned him into a different gender. But then he mentioned he's not gay but seeing this part 36:07 I noticed it's either he is gay or maybe he's traumatized...
I've watched his interview I think it was on sabc 3, he seemed okeyish.
Here inoba une nerves, I pray that he heals completely but other than that I applaud him for speaking freely about his experiences and how people can be stuck on the past❤, such an eye opening session.
May he be protected by God's grace and heal completely ❤❤
He is still hurting.. And mentally ulimele😢
Ey...kakhulu 😢
Interviewer this man was clearly raped. Asking about his sexual life for some can come across as insensitive. I saw he was uncomfortable when you asked. For some rape victims they become celibate for life because of the trauma.
This guy doesn't have boundaries
This Guy only trauma
Narcissistic tendencies.
I don't like the way you exposed u Mlu coz I don't see anything wrong with him abstaining from sex. These days it's not good just to dig into any whole you find. He's single by choice and so we must respect that!!!
This guy is annoying hey
Thank you for this episode... Mlungisi is such a gem. So honest and very informative. ❤ Please dont restrict him by insisting that he speaks English. Please do subtitles rather. I dont think we couldve gotten so many gems if he strictly spoke in english. Thank you for another great episode. Im binge watching all of them while im on leave.
This guy is a little bit disturbed
I've noticed that 😢
Thank you Heather I am really trying but I have forgiven him because ayikho iDustbin yokulahla abantwana . I pray that he really has changed. Ayikho into bekangaytholi from buying him a Bmw to flat but drugs took over his life.
Who iss Heather?
This was a great episode, wise man indeed, May the Almighty grant this awesome guy a long a healthy life...
Am I the only one cringing while watching this😬😩
It’s tough 😢
Thanks for the episode, we really need to talk about prisoners safety... how do we prevent these crimes in jail?
Umluh akekho normal yaz😢😢😢😢
😢😢😢 our brother is broken,,,, this is a sad path to go through his laugh says it all nonetheless may God bless him in everything he does !!!
I think he need more therapy, and healing. You can be okay and moving in with trauma but mfw2 let's cleanse emfuleni. Mindest is the key.
I thank you my son for your story, God has revealed himself through you, may you continue spreading the word of God Son, psalm 121, that is where us as Christians look up too, all the best in your journey. God will cover you under the shadow of His wings
AMEN...Mlungisi mntanam...you are teaching and giving me hope. Ndimbona kuwe uYesu...Phila bhutiza Phila. Uyathandeka.
Akasavezi mntakabawo😂.
Thank you for the interview. Hope he heals, there is still alot of pain, but God has brought Him so far
I really love your YT channel but I feel like sometimes when asking questions ubuza ngendlela ehlambalazayo like “bafuna ind*nu abafana” while laughing and it just becomes uncomfortable to watch coz you say it uhleka. I might be wrong but iv been observing this ever since I discovered this channel.
He’s terrible when it comes to sexual situations in jail
Implying he must get a girl otherwise things may go south again. The host is clueless but let's hope he learns he still new he has potential.
Eish this is heartbreaking but he seems to be handling what happened to him and I applaud him for being able to go back and forgive those guys.
I think Mlu hasn't healed. He is a broken man. I also think he is not really fully normal upstairs...
the gentleman is still not okay eish
I don’t think so either , such a strong message that he has but the way he packaged it . I think some men who have been hurt will not be moved with the way he is joking … praying for him though he is a light
True team worked hard to put interesting stories together.
Mlungisi is deeply hurt but, mentally his in another world that does not exist... I feel sorry for him and I pray that God gives him strength to live in that new world of his😢
Wow wow what a motive🙏 God will turn our scars into stars💛💛💛✨✨✨✨
When he visited the people who raped him , what was their response when he confront them?
A great lesson about HIV 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽, and the dialogues from this podcast cannot be heard from any school.
The way Mlungisi highlights ARVs and the word "marinate", he confused me. Also, the way he laughs is disturbing
I think he tries by all means to MASK what happened to him as he was explaining "what happened to him". I think he's still hurting whenever he speaks about it, hence this behaviour. He would have cried a several times in this very episode had he not laughed...I guess
I have met Mlungisi, he is one person that you feel he is breath of fresh air coming from prison. Very positive individual
I have learned a lot from him
Underestimated his impact. I have a different perspective after this interview
He knocked on my door, was a bit swamped. But realized after this interview that GOD places people in your life for a reason
Rape does a number on ex-convicts, most of them seem to struggle to connect with women after being raped, like with the Pastor that was interviewed on this platform.
I just ask that the interviewer not asked them about it. They all tense up when the question gets asked. Perhaps, some may be battling with their sexuality post the rape.
I personally believe he hasn't healed. But such is life.
What is your point exactly? Did he say he's healed? If he hasn't according to you, he's on his way to, at least he's doing positive things about his situation and the list we should do is to support and be happy for him.
@@komanneheng803 what you are saying is true, but I was sharing my views in passing.
Skeem you must be the way this guy explain its not motivational but it shade your and look like its encouraging people to go to prison in order to make miracles lomfana umqondo still confuse and betrayed by the jail inkinga wabishwa esemncane impilo akaze ayibone uyaludinga usizo lomfana and I'm because you did notice such a thing actually his mindset need to be transformed into normal as human being outside the jail
Ngiyabonga ngixolise ngokuba mude 🙏🙏
He needs to be transformed
This interview was sooo cringe to watch 😫😫😫😫😫😖
Shem😢...it was uncomfortable yet infomative to watch
I was waiting for him to talk about ukubuyela emuva eya face labantu abamdlwengulayo I'm so angry awusayithethanga
just watched this now and i just really realized appreciate what u got man, the life, the food, the roof over your head, every little thing bro. i mean even blankets we sleep with in this weather, not everybody has that. on god
UMlu olimele straight😢
Mlu you are one focused person i have ever seen, bamba kanjalo mfowethu.
I'm happy for Maligant to work with skeem. What a wonderful human being.
I hope from next year you will consider putting subtitles,please note ever since you came back from Podcast and Chill you have an regional audience.🇧🇼
Healed but he talk as if he enjoyed being raped
The way he paint his story including his body language makes you wonder if he is ok Psychological
Is not a first time watching him, I so wish he could not make a joke out of his rape, our youth might end up thinking having this experience is cool !!!
And you still need psychologist cause awka healish but wena you think you have healed but symptoms of depression just pop out
Much love to Mlungisi ...God bless you my brother
I don't agree with the glorifying of this illness, it can't be a blessing as he narrates his story kodwa mhlambe this is his blessing njobesho..
Truth be told, guy doesn't sound okay, I think it disturbed him somehow
Wait...are the kids we saw at the beginning also watching this...haii lo Skeem wenu
Lol cha he let them go
YHO when he said, "Ngadliwa ngamadoda ayi 5!" Hope the experience has not made him homophobic. Allow me to talk straight and say its satisfying when someone who has inflicted pain on other people gets to experience a similar cruel violation. The wheel always turns.
I adore yr spirit Mlungisi. Its humbling. U r following yr name I'm proud of u Sir salute all the best 🥂
When Skeem said “ uhleli iskhathi esingakanani ejele mfethu ngathi liku limazile ijele, ne fuse” 😂😂😂😂😂😂 yhooo big ups to Mlu for speaking up though
Very patronizing and unprofessional he's trolling him live. Umuntu eshaywa itrauma kanje.
I really wish there can be more similar dialogues about life and challenges that ordinary people face in general from such people with wisdom.
He is fine, an animated speaker n nerves are present. There's power confidence in his speech he is owning the traumatic journey God is with him. Remeber Aids activism n sex educator/counselling u need 2 have humor to make yr audience feel at ease receiving the lesson/material without feeling shame. LORD PLS keep him safe hes been through a lot🙏
Mara umjita angikho Happy behavior yakhe ngath nje
Eish I am cringing watching him
Skeem why should someone have a partner when they don't want to?
Exactly, and he wants to quote the Bible about it... Paul advised that we should be single, with a single mind. Nothing wrong with being single.
This is a motivational show???
Yooooo ungaze ubuze futhi coz nami am asking myself the same question
Mlu giggles when speaking about the rapes or HIV😢😢😢😢. He hasn't healed properly. I pray that one day, he finds complete healing😢. It's uncomfortable to watch.
Good job brother, there is a lot to learn and I have learned on this podcast.
May God be with you in your journey of healing, May he restore all that is broken in you.
Gods purpose with your life and your family is greater than your painful past.
Please focus on the job God has called you to do on this earth, which is to save lives Mlungisi ⭐️
Sex before marriage is a sin, so Mlu is safe.
Presenter no you dont talk like that to someone 😢we leave different life as different people
Wooooow, Mlu is a power house. May God continue to strengthen him.
. Hayke Mr Lukhele uzoba yiBest man kumtshato wam noMlu🤓🤓🤓🤓
Dream delayed is not dreams denied
I feel like there still pain by listening to his voice 😢,but the lot of work is been doen though,i wish him well❤
But this guy ngath limlimazile ijele
46:00 to 50:00 minutes is where education really is,
"ghi funa ukuy vheza ley wena skeem" i like the guy
For the first time, skeem was speechless😂😂😂
Bhuti Themba I follow this show religiously..... I am not a social worker or psychologist and I am not being judgemental but Mlungisi needs counseling I am saying this based on my observation... Merry Christmas bhuti Themba syabonga nokubona I family.... phusha brother we are behind you
This man his still in pain
This guy is traumatized, broken and still hurting just that he accepted his fate and destiny he's a soldier
SkeeemGp we all have our stories
We might not have experienced prison life yet we are all wounded. Continue warning our young generation, inspiring and being used by my love, saviour who is our God. Mlungisi uxolo bhuti, you have communicated your pain trying so hard to hide your pain. Uxolo bhuti
He is healing well but slowly....let him heal don't drag him back
His pain is deep, 14:40 you can tell by the change of voice, jail is not a nice place 😢.
This is deeply painful.I wish you strength brother.God loves you dearly. ❤
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔 What a hard core and Heartbreaking story.
Most of all what a strong man.
Iyooo Malu... skeem mara what if vele ukhawathekile?
Mlu is a very inspirational story. He has so much information but we can't get it because he is hyper and misses the finer details that caution and create awareness over and above his experience. Great interview and experience shared.
Akakho right ubrothers shem
bra you one brave dude ...even the way you speak it shows that you have accepted your situation ...
This is painful. May God heal all his wounds💕