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  • Sadhguru talks about the most important duty of a child has towards their parents, to remind them to turn inward, and strive to access something beyond the physical.
    remind your parents that in their life it is important they’ve done whatever they knew best till now it is time that they turn inward, it is time they invested some time and energy upon their own inner well-being
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Komentáře • 558

  • @aaria4582
    @aaria4582 Před 2 lety +654

    My mother left this world in laughter, we tried our best to give her more hope in our ignorance but she was so clear, happy, so content. She left her body by her choice all smiling without any ailments at just 70 . So proud of you amma🙏

    • @TheMysticWorld
      @TheMysticWorld  Před 2 lety +25

      That’s so nice…she was aware 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @subhashini1843
      @subhashini1843 Před 2 lety +7

      So nice. Even I have the same like her.

    • @Ra-rg1vk
      @Ra-rg1vk Před 2 lety +18

      I dont agree that being in your 70s n 80s u shudnt be like an 18 yr old. Why not? Is it better to behave like an 80 yr old in India usually kicked out or ignored by your kids?

    • @vineethmp2811
      @vineethmp2811 Před 2 lety +26

      @@Ra-rg1vk When 18 a man has a long way ahead, much to explore. the society with its usual tendency drags him to material pleasures. But slowly as he reaches 50s he should think the spiritual aspect of existence and turn more inward. Turning more inward does not mean quitting parties and dance. But being aware of the reality. Being aware of this reality, being concious of your spiritual existance, you can go PARTY...nothing wrong...(but you wont feel inclined to that when you feel this reality) This is what sadguru meant. Don't take the literal meaning...

    • @natalievol5706
      @natalievol5706 Před 2 lety +5

      I am proud of you.. my moms stop eating this few days, my dad health tremendously deteriorated after the 3rd jep...

  • @rajareddy4059
    @rajareddy4059 Před 2 lety +50

    My mother is 86 and every day i take care of her like it is the last week and that has been the case for last 5 years. hope and pray we carry on for next 5 years if not for the next 10 years.

  • @connectingthedots6377
    @connectingthedots6377 Před 2 lety +186

    My mom left her physical form on my shoulders telling me that she's leaving without any disturbance Thanks to All the Gurus who guided me 🙏 Om Guru Om

    • @subhadip1756
      @subhadip1756 Před 2 lety +1

      Great Gift for you and your late respected mother🙏🥰🙌🕉️🌼
      Om Shanti 🙏🙌🕉️🌼🌼🌼

    • @drkatombe942
      @drkatombe942 Před 2 lety +6

      My mother was sick in hospital .
      I had a dream where I saw her well dressed on a long bright boulevard .
      She kept walking away without turning backwards towards me untill she disappeared while I was watching .
      I understood that her time had come .
      I visited her with a close friend she knew well .
      I offered to pray for God to give her some more time with us ...... My mom shook her head to say NO .
      The next day , I called all my siblings , told them that I felt our mother was leaving us and we must all go together to be with her .
      We called a priest who took time to arrive due to other assignments in that hospital .
      He arrived and administered the last sacrament ( my mom was catholic ) and said prayed . Once we responded Amen to his prayer , our mother crossed her arms on her chest , turned one side and breathed her last in peace .

  • @sni3407
    @sni3407 Před 2 lety +176

    It's a very tough subject. Instead of children saying to parents, parents themselves have to realise these things and advise their children and other youngsters.
    This is from my personal experience. We are very fortunate that my parents went off at the ripe age of 88 & 93 without any panic. Ohm Namah Shivaya 🙏

    • @vijayapant1644
      @vijayapant1644 Před 2 lety +7

      Very very true!
      We ourselves have to realise that we are mortal & यम राजा can visit any second!
      Even if we are young the Ultimate Truth is that Life is transient!
      *भज गोविंदम्, भज गोविंदम्, गोविंदम् भज मूढमते*! 🙏🕉️🌺

    • @Rani-rn7gu
      @Rani-rn7gu Před 2 lety +6

      So correctly said

    • @shanmugapriyanarayanaswamy8233
      @shanmugapriyanarayanaswamy8233 Před 2 lety +4

      True

    • @tanya6835
      @tanya6835 Před 2 lety +2

      Absolutely true

    • @aprilchow-chee5281
      @aprilchow-chee5281 Před 11 měsíci

      Facts

  • @pascoesvale
    @pascoesvale Před 2 lety +60

    😭 my dad is old and very ill but stable thank God… i felt the urge five years ago to bring him to pilgrim places…. I didn’t know the importance i see in this video but something inside me pushed me to do it and I feel so proud today that we went together in these places and he could have a spiritual life until he couldn’t talk anymore

  • @navnitmistry8970
    @navnitmistry8970 Před 2 lety +34

    My father turned inwards and in 20vyears he found his guru and achieved moksha.

  • @gayedawn1
    @gayedawn1 Před 2 lety +47

    My father was in hospital knowing he was dying. He was in great pain. A war veteran of 6 years, a good man loved by his family. My bother and myself as his daughter, held vigil making sure he was never alone, holding his hand and rubbed his feet. I was with him the moment he willingly died, telling him the names of all family who loved him. In Australia and other cultures many daughters also can take the honour of being with our loved ones.

    • @govardhanankn8427
      @govardhanankn8427 Před 2 lety +4

      This is not about honour or something. In India there was and is (much less now) a large family set up called Hindu Undivided Family (recognised by law and shortly called HUF), where Parents live with their sons and their families together under one roof. That is why it becomes duty of a son to take parents, pilgrimage. Instead trying to deep root the dying one to this world by reminding them about worldly things, it is always better to help them get enlightened to the truth ( of course, not in a harsh way).

    • @gayedawn1
      @gayedawn1 Před 2 lety +10

      @@govardhanankn8427 that priority and your reasons I do understand but just saying that NOT All daughters and women everywhere are unable to tend to their parents in times of need in many parts of the world. This “must have a son” resulted in the end of new born girls through so many ways such as a grain of rice. All are God given.

    • @dattatraypawar675
      @dattatraypawar675 Před 10 měsíci +2

      ​@@govardhanankn8427you need not be harsh on gayedawn1. I am an Indian, and I agree with gayedawn1. Every country has its own culture. Gayedawn1 is a daughter and was just pouring her feelings out. We should learn to be compassionate towards each other. No harsh feelings, just thought of letting you know what I felt.

  • @PawanIngale
    @PawanIngale Před 2 lety +127

    My parents, especially my father is already aware enough. At the age of 50, he underwent bypass surgery and since then his withdrawal from material pleasures started. He devoted his life to bhakti, didn't care much about making a living. Somehow it was all taken care of.

    • @TheMysticWorld
      @TheMysticWorld  Před 2 lety +4

      🙏🙏🙏

    • @cristinaordon2888
      @cristinaordon2888 Před 2 lety +13

      Th same has happened to me, I’m practicing meditation for 37 years now, but since my last bypass surgery, I feel no joy in material pleasures at all, I only feel happy practicing Meditation, Bhakti , service and family, I ready to leave my body any moment now…Sadhguru is right we have to live in such a way as to be ready to go any moment.

    • @kartikvv
      @kartikvv Před 2 lety +6

      I think after a certain age we all naturally progress to Bhakti and yearn for a decent exit from this world. As others have said there is more curiosity in spirituality as compared to the material world. This I think is a sort of preparation , isnt it ?

    • @indiramukundan9040
      @indiramukundan9040 Před 2 lety

      @@cristinaordon2888 o

    • @padminit6176
      @padminit6176 Před 2 lety

      😐

  • @bijoyasengupta8843
    @bijoyasengupta8843 Před 2 lety +33

    Death is our old old friend. It has visited us so many thousand times perhaps. It's going to happen one more time.Let me be wise to embrace that old friend when it's time.Nothing to be terrified of death.

    • @kaitlinmontgomery2750
      @kaitlinmontgomery2750 Před rokem

      Death is not a friend you're delusional 💔

    • @lakshganesh4776
      @lakshganesh4776 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@kaitlinmontgomery2750you are delusional. Death is absolute and the only real thing which is certain to every human at some point of life.

  • @rajnivinaik3267
    @rajnivinaik3267 Před 2 lety +175

    My own father prepared himself for death kept aside his last cloth now i remember.....what a wise man he was 🙂🙏

    • @actualangel5133
      @actualangel5133 Před 2 lety +20

      Same with my mother in law…. She selected the saree which should be made toward her dead body before it’s taken to cremation…she also told us what to do with her personal things & the rites to be done after she died…. ( she had cancer )

    • @fiona3092
      @fiona3092 Před 2 lety +4

      @@actualangel5133 Its important if loved ones can have a say on what their wishes are at the end of this physical realm and to honour them

    • @methib3306
      @methib3306 Před 2 lety +2

      My dad too .

    • @shunbanaidu2425
      @shunbanaidu2425 Před 2 lety +2

      I think whether you are young or old we should b prepared for death an also have it written how to conduct the ritual an if u want a specific set of clothes most of us are very reluctant to speak about death

    • @balwinderkaur2061
      @balwinderkaur2061 Před 2 lety +2

      Same with my parents

  • @sujathat4913
    @sujathat4913 Před 2 lety +29

    I think in india the spiritual way sets in early.so most elders know that they will go soon even tho the children pretend to be cheerful.my mother had an operation and came home well but still she knew she was going and from a few years before she set her things right and gave away everything.i have learnt from her and working towards it.

  • @rajnivinaik3267
    @rajnivinaik3267 Před 2 lety +14

    Most of the old people wants to live beyond and very difficult to make them.understand that we all dying type of being🙂🙏

  • @virensolanki4412
    @virensolanki4412 Před rokem +11

    Exactly 1 month ago my Father passed away. He lived his life with a smile , working hard every day , providing resources and happiness to us. Till his last breathe myself, my mother & Sister and our whole family stayed with me.He met almost all the people he knew .He left this world without falling ill and without suffering any pain. He was working ,moving ,laughing spend so much time with us. I feel so lucky that at the last moment of his life I was there with him.

  • @titbits2304
    @titbits2304 Před 2 lety +108

    People in Bharat are so lucky to naturally have this kind of spiritual knowledge about old age and death . Living in a western society , what I see is that even after 70 -80 years of age , they get engaged in dating , illicit physical relationships and then fighting . It is because their own children have no spiritual values either . Everything is based on materialism here that is very sickening.

    • @billi16
      @billi16 Před 2 lety +9

      But in India too its bad these days.
      Very few families are spiritual.
      They are into fights, dowry material gain, old women spend time watching tv serials which are full of mother in law vs daughter in law fights.
      Have you ever been to India?
      Its so noisy! 24 hours a day film songs are blaring.
      The whole society worships movie stars and kids dance to movie songs too.
      Rapes and corruption is so high.
      So east or west both are corrupt.
      This is Kali Yuga.

    • @narmadaskinclinic6750
      @narmadaskinclinic6750 Před 2 lety +4

      Absolutely correct,at least hindu families in India are spiritual

    • @narmadaskinclinic6750
      @narmadaskinclinic6750 Před 2 lety +3

      @@billi16 u r unfortunate,or u belong to reservation category or christian

    • @rathnasundararajan210
      @rathnasundararajan210 Před 2 lety +1

      @@narmadaskinclinic6750 but what he says is correct

    • @billi16
      @billi16 Před 2 lety +5

      @@narmadaskinclinic6750
      I hope you succeed in life and uplift yourself and improve your community.
      Best of luck for your skin clinic.
      These days many dermatologist just focus on asthetics and not like in older days where it was for Skin diseases and STD.
      Now its all about fake looks, cosmetic surgery and fillers etc.
      I do hope you are a Dharmic doctor.
      Jai Shree Ram.

  • @bhaswatidas7976
    @bhaswatidas7976 Před 2 lety +14

    Inward looking life journey starts long ago before we get old!

  • @vijayhandoo6126
    @vijayhandoo6126 Před 2 lety +29

    Sadguru , we Kashmiri pandits recite Brahmini Vidya to parents reminding them of our sojourn in this loka & the everlasting Ataman that we actually are.🙏

  • @nepalimana
    @nepalimana Před 2 lety +22

    People are scared of death but it is the reality. My grandmother even prepared the things for her death a way longer time like yellow clothing ( pitambar) so that the children will not have any difficulty in gathering things for funeral.

  • @oyandakona5994
    @oyandakona5994 Před 2 lety +2

    My mama always say to me my child im not complaining you treat me so well while im still alive when i die one day dont be sad just know im happy
    She is all Iam left with and I try to do my best as her only child i just try

  • @sabrinagouch409
    @sabrinagouch409 Před rokem +4

    This may be true in your culture but in my culture I gladly accepted my responsibility to take care of my parents for 8 years. They both passed peacefully and in their own home. I treasure this responsibility and the opportunity to help them pass peacefully into the other world.

  • @ranganathanpv8513
    @ranganathanpv8513 Před 2 lety +78

    Today several of the old has no company of children or grandchildren. So it is for us to understand and accept the reality. Fortunately there are Sadgurus who give us the sage advice. When in youth one does not get the lessons, oldage may not help as one is accustomed of the sound and activities encompassing his life.🙏🙏🙏

    • @TheMysticWorld
      @TheMysticWorld  Před 2 lety

      🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @rajalakshmidr542
      @rajalakshmidr542 Před 2 lety

      00000

    • @Viddrohh
      @Viddrohh Před 2 lety +10

      This may seem bit overwhelming but it is due to poverty why people follow westernization, Christianity and atheism to abandon their parents. Once poverty is gone, a human is more like Hindu, meditative, family and community provider etc

  • @rajshekhar1147
    @rajshekhar1147 Před 2 lety +7

    I will not be able to tell my parents. But I will follow myself, turn inwards gradually and will leave guidelines for my treatment if I fall siik so that I don't remain latched to life unnecessarily.

  • @shreyakaranjkar3374
    @shreyakaranjkar3374 Před 2 lety +44

    This is so heart wrenching to hear.. About our parents.. I know it's truth but i always feel that moment should never come 🥺🥺 terrible truth of life

    • @sonoflamech777
      @sonoflamech777 Před 2 lety +2

      Just wanted to send love..totally feel you. I cry every night at lifes Misery and beauty . Wouldn't change it though...I just love them so much,the kids,everyone we know and the fact that the ones we don't know (like you and me) are exactly the same....how csn we hate each other ! Pure Love and strength to you ❤

    • @shashirekhakamle4655
      @shashirekhakamle4655 Před 2 lety +1

      Same here. On top of it I am in a bad marriage. U will truly miss them.

    • @MCBC_5
      @MCBC_5 Před rokem +1

      Maybe you should read the Bagwat Geeta instead of following Sadguru that is the true Wisdom from God Almighty Krishna. It will also make you face lifes issues more steadily

    • @Winmatters
      @Winmatters Před rokem

      Lol why

    • @vsklatha2851
      @vsklatha2851 Před 8 měsíci

      True😭

  • @tanyadev1782
    @tanyadev1782 Před 2 lety +35

    I am sorry to say but nowadays the parent generation (60, 70,80yrs) is very very stubborn. Very very few are spiritually inclined. They want to go on enjoying life. Many of their attitude is that they will continue to live forever. There, if the son or daughter will go to remind them that their time has come and they should prepare -- God help that son or daughter in law!! I am not talking about all, but a lot are like this. They go on clinging to material abundance. Very little vairagya.

    • @aartiaggarwal2603
      @aartiaggarwal2603 Před 2 lety

      Absolutely correct 💯

    • @sanhitakelkar3691
      @sanhitakelkar3691 Před 2 lety +2

      Yes very true, many r adamant and in our lndian culture,as parents are considered as God figures they just don't take any advice from their children. The truth is lndian people r more attached to things as well as people and relationships. We r unaware of vairagya.

    • @ohmygodloveux4319
      @ohmygodloveux4319 Před 2 lety

      This is so true...parents or children, we are all human with flaws, but the Indian culture puts parents and all other older relationships like some god and if you tell them something like what Sadhguru says, they think how dare you...and they will put you down, rather then have a healthy discussion. Like somebody said in the feed they are very stubborn and treat the female child worse as they think they don't belong to them.

    • @janmejaypandey2424
      @janmejaypandey2424 Před 2 lety

      I have somehow made them do inner engineering though with resistance. In the end we have the strongest connect with them so gradually they give in(Just keep trying 😉)

    • @expectopatronum7116
      @expectopatronum7116 Před 2 lety +1

      True

  • @mahsarastgar2663
    @mahsarastgar2663 Před 2 lety +9

    I have followed Sadhguru for almost three years. I have learned many things from him, actually he has caused that I open my eyes to the truths of life even some of them are scary. Although for a few months I stoped to watch his videos but again I started. This advice made me to break in tears because I have not seen my parents for more than ten years. Here with my broken heart but hope I asking of you that please send me your prayers, blessings and positive energy in order to Divine ( in any form or name you believe on) direct my steps to the right way that me and my parents happily see each other and I can hug them. Light and Peace

  • @06musicfan
    @06musicfan Před 2 lety +34

    One doesn't have to tell a dying person that "You are going to die".
    The dying person already knows, better than the others.
    One can turn inwards and pray and meditate, without going to pilgrim places.

    • @lakshmirs8374
      @lakshmirs8374 Před 2 lety +3

      Read puranas. They explain why pilgrimage is important

    • @hannahkris6929
      @hannahkris6929 Před 2 lety +6

      Absolutely! Nowadays the pilgrimage places have become so commercialised, so crowded, dirty that I feel I get more peace by being in a quiet place of worship even at home !!

    • @phoenixj1299
      @phoenixj1299 Před 2 lety

      It's practically impossible in such dire scenarios.

    • @helzz73cottrill32
      @helzz73cottrill32 Před 2 lety

      Unless the person has dementia

  • @mayflowerlily5326
    @mayflowerlily5326 Před 2 lety +9

    Thanks Sadhguru for reminding us of our traditions and culture with the necessary explanation of why it is done this way.

  • @a.bhaskara3833
    @a.bhaskara3833 Před 2 lety +33

    Totally agree that elders are trying to live a young person’s ideal life. To accept one’s advancing age and seek its particular lessons and fulfilment is very satisfying. Then one can very gradually detach from grasping the world, recognise what’s permanent and finally leave without painful regrets. Death is difficult to accept and spiritual practices are the only path that provides some relief.

    • @mytinyketolife6797
      @mytinyketolife6797 Před 2 lety +1

      Like an infant I learn so much from watching.

    • @jayalakshmis9751
      @jayalakshmis9751 Před 2 lety +2

      Many a times parents are tied down with so much responsibilities and money constraints, only after retirement they get the opportunity to do what they like. I think it's absolutely ok as long there's a sense of detachment from wordly pleasures. Which I am sure they know. It's better to fulfill your wishes atleast you feel content and satisfied. My mother was fun loving but she left us in grace during her last days.

    • @Agape122
      @Agape122 Před 2 lety +7

      I do understand the point Sadhguru is trying to make.
      However, I am 25 and I have always thought about death since I am a kid. I always have been thinking about the other side and wanted to know what is the meaning of this life.
      I moved live in India and try to develop my soul every day. I have never been afraid of death, on the contrari I think its a beautiful experience.
      However, being aware of my own death, doesn't mean I can't dance, or be joyfull in life.
      There was a point in my life where I tried to deattach so much from life that I lost all interest about being in this world.
      I don't think that is healthy either.
      And I don't see why age has to determen that.
      I can die.too at any moment.
      The point of my life is to grow spiritualy.
      But at the same time I can laugh and I can share my life with people and be in this world.
      Otherwise why did I come to.this world? To just think about death? No.
      My grandma prays for two hours a.day and she goes to monasteries often to do spiritual retreats there.
      At thr same time.she also dances around the house or goes to the cina with my grandpa..
      I would not like to see my.grandparents closed at home, just waiting for death.
      You can develop your soul and at the same time be active and joyfull. I don't see why that is seen as oposite.

  • @shrivathsagopalakrishnan811

    I lost my father in December 2020 my father was fully support to my life know I lost it by believing others I can't come out from the loss..

  • @NirmohiHindu
    @NirmohiHindu Před 2 lety +49

    His thoughts are a perfect combination of age old traditions in Hindu society and the new age reality. It is a great service he is doing to society and humankind by sharing his view on so many such topics which explain the reality of life and the way to look at it. God bless him and wish him all the best for spreading the light of this knowledge to the world. Though a practising Hindu, his thoughts are above any race or religion.

    • @jenaaseeva5307
      @jenaaseeva5307 Před 2 lety +3

      True.. most upper class Hindus now are especially the younger generation are so greedy nd boasting abt their vedad nd scriptures. They never excercise anything spiritual. At least Sadguru is so biased that he attracts everyone alike.. anyone shall follow him. He is a wonderful present guru.

    • @earthlifeanddivine2909
      @earthlifeanddivine2909 Před 2 lety

      That is because He is a Jeevan Mukhta rishi. A realised being cannot be put confined in a defined territory of religion. He is free n secular by nature.

  • @stevengray8663
    @stevengray8663 Před 2 lety +9

    True for all of us not just our parents!

  • @gjdud56
    @gjdud56 Před 2 lety +24

    Being a son
    if u are getting married u must be at least be able to take ur parents to a pilgrim temple ...
    Be a man who can hold the houses and make it work and tell ur parents to now b in comforts and spend in innerself

  • @HighrSelf
    @HighrSelf Před 2 lety +12

    This is so true! And is another reason on the importance of awakening spiritually in one's lifetime! Thank you.

  • @briansmithenergy248
    @briansmithenergy248 Před 2 lety +11

    Unconditional love respect and gratitude.

  • @prajktab1646
    @prajktab1646 Před 2 lety +24

    Thank you Sadhguru with your guidance I am feeling blessed that I am doing right thing.

  • @mytinyketolife6797
    @mytinyketolife6797 Před 2 lety +3

    Sadguru always confirms my inner experience and the path I’m following is illuminated by all he has learned and spoken. Sadguru is my flashlight in this world both inner and outer

  • @jamesgibson8249
    @jamesgibson8249 Před 2 lety +4

    Beautiful
    My grandfather passed in peace with calm words.
    A great example and gift.
    Like he did in so many of his ways

  • @paprighosh3505
    @paprighosh3505 Před 2 lety +38

    Very true be it life or death lets embrace it consciously and in a calm way🙏

  • @benhume2874
    @benhume2874 Před rokem +1

    Both parents terminal and both 95. Dog 15 slowly winding down. Everything is a living gratitude 🙏 and appreciation. And as the only son who can visit ... its goid to have the chance to visit and be palliative care volunteer. Keeping everything okay. No fear. Even if afraid to last minute saying I do not want to die! Its just be here now. Calming them for now. It always helps. And its exhausting but essential to be there for each sentient beings.

  • @edithlorenzo9352
    @edithlorenzo9352 Před rokem +1

    Sadhguro speaks with sense and truth... I realize many things as he explains.. He is blessed and full of wisdom..

  • @shobhapai4252
    @shobhapai4252 Před 2 lety +52

    Guruji we Indian parents, at least most of us are in the evolved mode. Lighting lamps, praying to god to give us a painless end and well being of our children and grand children, this is all our daily activities. It is ingrained in our being from childhood. we really don’t need our children to create that atmosphere. On the other hand our children create that atmosphere in their own way talking about will, nomination for the property, bank deposits etc now then , reminding us of our impending end. Please let us live our last days in some happiness ,doing things that we want to do, traveling, painting, getting together with friends etc without all the time thinking about death
    After all nothing is in our hands. So there is no particular age when we can say ok, from tomorrow I’m going to prepare for my death..

    • @zarinedasgupta4538
      @zarinedasgupta4538 Před 2 lety +1

      Well said!

    • @worldisone8282
      @worldisone8282 Před 2 lety +1

      You must prepare for death right from birth, Sadhguru was answering a question which was asked for older parents

    • @cheryl9461
      @cheryl9461 Před 2 lety +11

      I agree with you. We are all equal in the eyes of death. Nothing to say that one’s older parents won’t outlive one. But a talk like this would be specifically geared towards older people who might get confused or terrified of the idea of death and to mentally prepare them for it. There are many folk who want to remain immortal. This may sound absurd but such people do exist . My mother is an incredible example of this. Continues making plans expecting to outlive every one else. Constantly creates cycles of dependency so that people and life only revolve around her. Is deeply focused on material attachments and existence. She does no turning inward whatsoever. Tried to introduce ideas around spirituality , yoga etc but she dismisses them as brainwashing nonsense . I guess some people are content being attached to their material existence till death. Who knows maybe this sort of material existence will bring her no fear of dying till the end. Or hopefully it will be a quick exit with no time to think or be scared. The inward journey is not necessarily for everyone. Best to leave people to figure out for themselves where and what they want to for the end. If your own soul is not speaking to you and there is no receptivity and one does not understand that there is a higher self and dimensions beyond death, it makes no sense to introduce or impose these ideas

    • @sangeeta963
      @sangeeta963 Před 2 lety +8

      Living each day excellently n knowing it could be the last..that's my way of dying with no regret.

    • @hannahkris6929
      @hannahkris6929 Před 2 lety +1

      Well said!

  • @manishapandey7662
    @manishapandey7662 Před 2 lety +4

    At young age people have no surety of life . Should we stop living ..... "NO"
    At elderly, we cannot stop living as well and keep thinking now i am near death. Enjoy life knowing the fact that one day when there is a call from God we will embrace it gracefully as we did our duty, what was assigned to us by almighty !

  • @rajeshtanwar2445
    @rajeshtanwar2445 Před 2 lety +7

    Sadguru Jee Pranam,
    Thanks for sharing this insightful and significant message for parents S well as their kids.

  • @ruwinigoonewardena7354
    @ruwinigoonewardena7354 Před 2 lety +7

    Wow! What an amazing & insightful video.

  • @muruhavel1234
    @muruhavel1234 Před 2 lety +1

    Super super thanks SADGURU 🤘

  • @lavankmuralidharan3663
    @lavankmuralidharan3663 Před 2 lety +3

    I learnt many things for you. Now I feel this is a necessity..

  • @prathamsingh6789
    @prathamsingh6789 Před 2 lety +14

    My father is 70.He has done everything, what he could do for us. One year ago I noticed him stalking a young girl from neighborhood.i ignored it initially.the girl comes at her rooftop for laundry everyday. She is easily visible from my rooftop. Now my father spends whole day at rooftop looking at her rooftop.whenever she passes by my house, he comes down to the street and wait till she returns.i tried to give him indication that I know about this, but it seems he doesn't care. I didn't wanna tell this to my maa but I realize that he is not going to give up.so I told my maa about this. Guess what.. She didn't believe me and now had stop talking to me.

    • @cheryl9461
      @cheryl9461 Před 2 lety +2

      😂 I hope this is not a real story but it does sounds funny to me

    • @bernadetteraikar8822
      @bernadetteraikar8822 Před 2 lety +3

      He doesn't want to believe that he's growing old. It's his insecurity which is making him behave in such a manner.

    • @prathamsingh6789
      @prathamsingh6789 Před 2 lety

      @@bernadetteraikar8822 what should I do? We live in a remote village.people will not understand this like you did. They'll pitty him.he will loose all the respect, what he has earned throughout his life.

    • @rohandmsiitd
      @rohandmsiitd Před 2 lety +2

      Men will be men!

    • @reiyalol
      @reiyalol Před 2 lety

      Most old man are like that where i live

  • @aparnabenpatel9597
    @aparnabenpatel9597 Před 2 lety +3

    Really great MSG from sadguru ji👋👌👌👌

  • @CTS-USA
    @CTS-USA Před 2 lety +23

    My dad left this world with a cigarette in one hand and a glass of whiskey in the other.
    He lived a happy 47 years old.. R.I.P. 🙏

  • @boingbryan8123
    @boingbryan8123 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you sadhguru...

  • @jeremytibbitts8587
    @jeremytibbitts8587 Před 2 lety

    You are very WISE.

  • @sundaramgowthaman7121
    @sundaramgowthaman7121 Před rokem +1

    sadhguru we are so thankful for your videos. very practical and needed advise for the present generation. this son referred bhaja govindam, thirukural and thevaram to my mother when she was leaving. mother accepted and died gracefully after blessing all, consciously chanting vishnu sahasranamam

  • @vcb2553
    @vcb2553 Před 2 lety +10

    I was waiting in a bank while watching this, my mom was directly in front of me, i almost cried

  • @anjanayadav5320
    @anjanayadav5320 Před 2 lety +4

    Sadhguru the more I listen the more I get enlighten 🙏🏼

  • @clarkent7574
    @clarkent7574 Před 2 lety +3

    Wise words

  • @vishnujgd
    @vishnujgd Před 2 lety +2

    Go inward in all ages

  • @chadwickpainter8212
    @chadwickpainter8212 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you. This is the best thing I have seen in some time.

  • @sudhabhatt7300
    @sudhabhatt7300 Před 2 lety

    True picture sadguru showed us how to manage old age thankyou guruji

  • @Sheidraam
    @Sheidraam Před rokem +1

    Very inspiring, thank you!

  • @AKHIL13111984
    @AKHIL13111984 Před 2 lety +1

    Bauht sahi kaha guruji ne clearly

  • @vvrajesh
    @vvrajesh Před 2 lety +2

    Self Contentment and no greed & jealousies will keep you happy

  • @kalpanagaryali2354
    @kalpanagaryali2354 Před 2 lety +6

    Excellent and most important facet of human birth

  • @jeet1819
    @jeet1819 Před 2 lety +6

    Reminder is required :
    But
    Responsibly.

  • @rashmigama2417
    @rashmigama2417 Před 2 lety

    Happy to know. 🙏Did my duty long back. 🙏

  • @chithrakrishnan7762
    @chithrakrishnan7762 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you sadhguru. My namaskaram to you.

  • @lilbahadurchetri4361
    @lilbahadurchetri4361 Před 2 lety +1

    This is one of the important topic of life thank you guru ji

  • @sushmachoudhary9453
    @sushmachoudhary9453 Před 2 lety +2

    I lost my father on 4th Nov.. exactly one month after I shifted bag baggage from Kolkata, and my bed ridden mother on 20th dec 21. Since then I hv started feeling tat nothing is predictable....why are people fighting for properties, money....when you hv to leave everything behind..that too.just any moment

  • @kunalkadam1052
    @kunalkadam1052 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you, sir.

  • @parulkaragwal643
    @parulkaragwal643 Před 2 lety +18

    Thank you Sadhguru Ji for reminding me my dharam as a son, I will definitely going to do so by whatever little means i hv.

  • @natalievol5706
    @natalievol5706 Před 2 lety +3

    My family still practise those taboo, timid. Taboo to talk about death, even lie to our parents when he or her is gonna ok when they sick... I am sad... It is better let our parents mentally prepare and face for their passing in peace... we all have to face it.. one final day,we also have to face it...

  • @swattikkarma7217
    @swattikkarma7217 Před 2 lety

    Awareness is very important thing in life that's why we need awareness or need someone to aware them. Help them.
    Pranam sadguru.

  • @sujitsharma4346
    @sujitsharma4346 Před 2 lety +33

    My parents have always been materialistic and selfish all through till their current age of 75. It's how they are and it's too late to explain spirituality to them.

    • @deepap2404
      @deepap2404 Před 2 lety +13

      So true!! They will never understand...infact they think that something is wrong with us...

    • @luxsri123
      @luxsri123 Před 2 lety +8

      Agree. I see this in both my parents in law

    • @mac-ju5ot
      @mac-ju5ot Před 2 lety +2

      Sad because I devoted my life to my father .I had no children because he acted like a child do this or do that. He thought it was about money that's not why we do thing we do it be ause of god ten fays before he died he told his best friend I was a whore a loser and a disappointment. I'll not care for anyone else
      .my ec has cancer I told him hood luck on his journey with cancer all he gas been doing ut butching
      I'm.going to due alone oneday I waz just speaking to a neig hor about this. My.moms uncle hung himself over busi ess and the war

    • @captainalex157
      @captainalex157 Před 2 lety +1

      its never too late, show them this video and ask them to take it seriously.

    • @mbabu9576
      @mbabu9576 Před 2 lety +2

      In today times, most parents like this only

  • @DreamsofStardust75
    @DreamsofStardust75 Před 2 lety +5

    We need to be conscious all our life.

  • @stevengray8663
    @stevengray8663 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for this

  • @belladamma2345
    @belladamma2345 Před rokem +4

    Though I agree to prepare the mind and heart for the inevitable, I do believe that one should still live to enjoy themselves whether it’s enjoying a meal or the cinema because it’s an experience we get once while in this lifetime. My dad passed recently and we really thought he’d come home since it was a procedure the doctors promised would cure him and that didn’t happen. I hope he didn’t pass in terror but I do know he didn’t want to go nor was he or us prepared for the outcome. 💔

  • @pragnayadav
    @pragnayadav Před 2 lety +24

    My father is bed ridden since 3 months, he has brain hemorrhage, he is struggling so much. I wanted to tell him all these before he got ill. But I missed the opportunity, I'm very sad for my father 😭😭

    • @TheMysticWorld
      @TheMysticWorld  Před 2 lety +9

      So sorry to hear that, hope he gets well soon 🙏🏼

    • @val2090
      @val2090 Před 2 lety +2

      🙏🏽❤️ praying for your father friend

    • @guitarguyjoefry
      @guitarguyjoefry Před 2 lety +1

      prayers for your father

    • @venceremosallende422
      @venceremosallende422 Před 2 lety +3

      Prags Prajs Don’t worry, he will feel the love you have for him.
      Sadhguru said it is possible to communicate this message without clearly speaking it out.
      Your loving, calm and caring presence will be enough.
      You are great, let your father feel that it is ok to let go of the physical.
      Prayers for you🙏

    • @michaelmcdonald3275
      @michaelmcdonald3275 Před 2 lety +2

      But maybe he can still feel love - can you give him the hug?

  • @scottnelson007nelson8
    @scottnelson007nelson8 Před rokem +1

    Thank you

  • @michaelmcdonald3275
    @michaelmcdonald3275 Před 2 lety +10

    Be gentle with them .. let them be born into next life having been feeling appreciated and loved.

    • @filipmitrovic4103
      @filipmitrovic4103 Před 2 lety

      How will feel millions of people who died suffering in wars and ,form hunger ,accidents and in terror in next life ? That doesnt make any sense.

    • @captainalex157
      @captainalex157 Před 2 lety +1

      @@filipmitrovic4103 truth is most of us have no idea, so speculation is useless. Really i want to know whats after death, doesnt mean i want to die, but im not afraid either.

    • @filipmitrovic4103
      @filipmitrovic4103 Před 2 lety

      Find on youtube .Well known hypnotherapists.They are performing past life regressions with their clients and describing what is happening after we leave physical body.Interesting stuff. Dolores Cannon or Michael Newton.

  • @rohinivellala4396
    @rohinivellala4396 Před 2 lety +1

    Great going.....
    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @anubhavganguly2698
    @anubhavganguly2698 Před rokem

    I hope Your words illuminate generations to come and go, be the guiding force of spirit.

  • @narmadaskinclinic6750
    @narmadaskinclinic6750 Před 2 lety +1

    Very good episode

  • @minusai9197
    @minusai9197 Před 2 lety +1

    Vaazhga Valamudan ✨💖💯✨💝

  • @GS-um6ww
    @GS-um6ww Před 2 lety +1

    Very True . 👍

  • @abhilblush
    @abhilblush Před 2 lety +1

    Thank u for this

  • @chriskkk1
    @chriskkk1 Před 2 lety +1

    THANK YOU 🙏🏼🌿🕊♥️

  • @mathewjohn8126
    @mathewjohn8126 Před 2 lety +2

    True. My aged mother is now treated this way. Yesterday all of us celebrated my birthday in pomp only for her. Gave the first piece of the Cocoa Creamer to her , and she was top happy then

  • @krishnamayimarianni8026

    I am 67 and I have to share that it has been my saving grace to have met Her Holiness Sr Mata Amritanandamayi Devi or Amma, the hugging Saint. How blessed I feel that I can orient my life towards a spiritual goal before I die more effectively.

  • @gajendranaik9880
    @gajendranaik9880 Před 2 lety

    The ultimate mystic

  • @djnshyap3610
    @djnshyap3610 Před rokem

    I wish I could hear forever and ever🙏🏻❣️

  • @srinivasanc8165
    @srinivasanc8165 Před 2 lety

    Pranam Guruji 🙏 very meaningful thoughtful talk 🙏

  • @hari7priya
    @hari7priya Před 2 lety

    Very well-said

  • @joli_soul
    @joli_soul Před 11 měsíci +1

    My mum passed away from a heroin overdose when I was 15 years old, she had a lot of problems and I didn’t understand her at the time, I didn’t even think she liked me.
    20 years later and only the past 5 years I’ve learned about her through a diary she kept which was mainly about me. Four children she had but she was to mentally unwell to look after me when I was born and I was dropped off on my Nan’s doorstep when I was a few days old.
    My mum visits me in dreams and I often have reoccurring nightmares of her house which I can’t understand why, it’s not something I constantly think about but I’m haunted by, maybe the trauma from her leaving this world so abruptly?
    I have lovely dreams of her speaking with me and When she has visited me she has told me things that I didn’t know so I know it wasn’t my own subconscious that made it up.
    I want to speak to her so.
    I want to know her 💔
    How can I connect with her?

  • @kavithasuresh7198
    @kavithasuresh7198 Před 2 lety +11

    I have been brought up with orthodoxity and strong culture ...yet I have not been able to bring up my children in the same way
    Arrogance in them has hurt me as a single parent. They are the bosses ..and even ask me what I've been doing all day...while they sleep late and rise late..
    Is it because my husband had an untimely death..
    Today I'm lonely after educating my children and they are employed. ..I struggled to give them education.
    What has life shown me as a senior citizen ...I practice yoga and meditate...
    It they who need to grow inward... 🙏

    • @captainalex157
      @captainalex157 Před 2 lety

      no need to feel lonely the source of existance is always within you, thats pretty great company! :D

  • @0960vivek
    @0960vivek Před 2 lety +3

    Just like everything else we should be taught and make us learn about death and mortality so that when time comes we would not be afraid of death and die gracefully.

  • @mgsBicycleO9
    @mgsBicycleO9 Před 2 lety +4

    I will definitely make sure to fulfill this for my parents. But first I am working on myself....I've noticed I am more capable of helping others once I started helping myself. The more conscious I am, the more conscious I can make my surroundings 🙏🙏🙏

  • @meherkhan153
    @meherkhan153 Před 2 lety +1

    many old people came out of trauma&seriousillness after their siblings or other people’s luv & affection.I feel most imp is be connnected with elder ones,care &nurturing a plant make them flourish &alive .🌳🍀🌾🍂

  • @taksojdet
    @taksojdet Před 2 lety +1

    Guru 🙏🌿❤️

  • @aiochannel2333
    @aiochannel2333 Před 2 lety +19

    This is real way to life instead of falsifying life,thanks for this important video and Namaskaramu

  • @divyaalok5538
    @divyaalok5538 Před 2 lety +1

    Awesome

  • @niharika8288
    @niharika8288 Před 2 lety +3

    Thanks Sadhguruji ..this lighting of lamp & chanting at the time of approaching death is a common practise across India ..thanks for reminding us 🙏🏼

  • @rdbeckett590
    @rdbeckett590 Před 2 lety +1

    This is beautiful! Thank you 🙏