Divorce Court - Brucha vs Christopher - Wandering Eye - Season 14, Episode 158

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  • After a 13 year relationship Brucha and Chris are ready to call it quits. Brucha says she is tired of Chris's inconsiderate ways. She claims Chris wasn't there for her when her mom passed away and all he said to her is "what do you want me to do about it."
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Komentáře • 201

  • @kimberlynmcdonald8821
    @kimberlynmcdonald8821 Před rokem +165

    She needs to love herself and not depend on this man to make her feel secure

  • @creedom5676
    @creedom5676 Před rokem +151

    Even before I heard the update, I said “you don’t ask an abuser to change…you tell the victim to leave.”

  • @ArtisticDreams2U
    @ArtisticDreams2U Před rokem +59

    IMO...The wife is simply gorgeous😍😍God bless you

  • @fiesha2937
    @fiesha2937 Před rokem +35

    Ladies...ladies...ladies...we must have our OWN. Own job (a good one), own car (a reliable one) money for a rainy day, own place to live. I be darn if I ever let any man think I'm stuck because I rely on him 💯 %.
    I just can't see myself being dependent like that!!

  • @autumnskai6383
    @autumnskai6383 Před rokem +86

    This is why it's best to have your own... Independence is everything!!!
    Rather be independent, than for a man to be able to call me broke and feel resentful for being a provider.

    • @youngodyssey16
      @youngodyssey16 Před rokem +6

      It’s hard to be independent when she is spending her money horribly

  • @beejackson2713
    @beejackson2713 Před rokem +163

    He was cheating all the time, not just after court. He showed her she does not matter and thanks to God she got out.😒😢. She throwing up her food. He trying to destroy her, he is done!

    • @shirleyrussell7089
      @shirleyrussell7089 Před rokem +1

      He sounds like he is a Narcissist he says she broke he's a My my my and I, I, I person like she doesn't contribute, see how much money he has after they divorce. He is DISRESPECTFUL TOO. She is KILLING herself trying to please him her health is at risk with vomiting up her food HE'S BALD maybe she should LEAVE HIM. He is doing those things trying to make her feel insecure he should tell her she looks good because she does look good. He didn't care about her hadn't married her after all those years and then even cheated on her I hope she never returns to him she's better off without him I know she will be healthier and can eat what she wants

    • @beejackson2713
      @beejackson2713 Před rokem +2

      @@shirleyrussell7089 NOW YOU ARE RIGHT‼️‼️‼️ After reading yours, I got angry.

    • @williampeace1379
      @williampeace1379 Před rokem

      @@beejackson2713 5249

  • @maxdminimalist715
    @maxdminimalist715 Před rokem +75

    See, this is why you don't bend yourself into a pretzel for some unappreciative man. This is the kind of woman they say they want and then when they see you trying too hard to please them, they despise you for it.

  • @anquentinwilliams5835
    @anquentinwilliams5835 Před rokem +52

    Some men do not realize what they have until its gone. He feeds her insecurities and is disrespectful towards her.

    • @YourExcellency
      @YourExcellency Před rokem +5

      She allowed it. If you allow it, you deserve it, period. She could have packed her bags and left 13 years ago. I don’t feel sorry for a choice she made over and over and over again. Plus, I didn’t see tears when she was “crying”. Most men ain’t ***t. Since we know this, we must protect our hearts from being trampled by people like him.

    • @tajanaeallison
      @tajanaeallison Před rokem

      @@YourExcellency your really under people’s posts saying she “deserves it”. Like go to hell!!

    • @YourExcellency
      @YourExcellency Před rokem +1

      @@tajanaeallison I understand how saying someone deserves it is triggering. If for 13 years you allow someone to treat you like trash, day in day out, then you are okay with it. The first time you totally disrespect/disregard me, put me down, I am done. Out the door faster than the speed of light. The breakdown of respect in any kind of relationship (family, friend, lover) is the beginning of the end. Example, i make a friend. I let that friend move in,p. They steal from me. I kick them out, but continue being their friend. I let them move back in, they steal from me a 2nd time. I kick them out. Still be their friend. I made a choice to let them continue hurting me.I allowed it to happen over and over again, therefore I deserve the foolishness that comes with the choice I made. She made a choice to stay with someone mistreated her. I am not gonna feel sorry for a choice you made consciously and willingly. We know these men ain’t ***t. Therefore we must guard our hearts and protect ourselves. Choices have consequences. Her choices were to accept being disrespected. You make a choice to rob someone. Im supposed to feel sorry for you? Are you kidding me? You must have lost your mind

    • @roslynhawkins1475
      @roslynhawkins1475 Před rokem

      @@YourExcellency THANK YOU! If more people took responsibility for themselves and what they choose to allow, these situations would wind down to 0. Trying to change someone is ridiculous because it doesn't ever work.

    • @PoliticalWonderland
      @PoliticalWonderland Před rokem

      @@YourExcellency ur a broken record & a damned fool.

  • @Moore_cookies51
    @Moore_cookies51 Před rokem +7

    THIRTEEN yrs. No proposal? HE'S NOT INTO YOU. SAD TO SAY ITS not a good match.

  • @KB-rb3vl
    @KB-rb3vl Před rokem +45

    She has serious issues 😐 and the husband is over her and he's also a jerk. I hope these ppl hv healed since this aired.

  • @livinmylife5025
    @livinmylife5025 Před rokem +12

    It’s sad of how ugly he is and has the nerve to abuse her this way. She needs to move on.

  • @RacieRain
    @RacieRain Před rokem +27

    The older I get the more I focus and strive for financial stability. I have become more frugal. Immediate turn off for me is reckless spending

  • @ambzcloud
    @ambzcloud Před rokem +16

    If you are making yourself sick--or just constantly feeling sick--because of someone else, you have to cut that person from your life asap. I hope this poor woman got therapy and never too this man back. This man did not care about her. So many women are making themselves sick to pretend they're good on the outside while they're dying on the inside. No relationship is worth that.

  • @juanyelwhite4027
    @juanyelwhite4027 Před rokem +76

    Now this is what it looks like when a man has gotten into a woman’s head and has broken her spirit down

    • @YourExcellency
      @YourExcellency Před rokem +2

      She allowed it. If you allow it, you deserve it, period. She could have packed her bags and left 13 years ago. I don’t feel sorry for a choice she made over and over and over again. Plus, I didn’t see tears when she was “crying”. Most men ain’t ***t. Since we know this, we must protect our hearts from being ravaged by people like him.

    • @yvettewilliams5967
      @yvettewilliams5967 Před rokem +1

      @@YourExcellency you said it All. He is the KING of the house??? Yes, she allowed it!!!!!!!

    • @yvettewilliams5967
      @yvettewilliams5967 Před rokem

      She better get herself a 9-5, 5 days a week. He is so non charlatan! A wasted 13 years! She is immature and has her priorities upside down. She has poor self esteem.

    • @YourExcellency
      @YourExcellency Před rokem

      @@yvettewilliams5967 I do get that people try to make it work with someone they care for. However, if someone degrades you for over a decade and you stay, then you condoned it. I don’t get how people be complaining about their partner but allowed their partners behavior.

    • @yvettewilliams5967
      @yvettewilliams5967 Před rokem

      He too, what parents do these two have had in their lives?????She looks like she has ‘taken something’, look at her eyes and face! Those poor children that they have! He needs a vasectomy and she should ‘tie her tubes’. They need to go their separate ways!

  • @sagthenaturalsiren5997
    @sagthenaturalsiren5997 Před rokem +17

    She has completely lost herself in him

  • @kcmctreats2811
    @kcmctreats2811 Před rokem +20

    Judge Lynn was 1 of my favorites 😁🥰😁 Love seeing the older episodes 🤞🏾🤞🏾

    • @xXLilSmurthXx
      @xXLilSmurthXx Před rokem

      Especially when you don't remember the episodes lol.

  • @laurenhall878
    @laurenhall878 Před rokem +6

    I just want to hug her!

  • @sweetsweet81
    @sweetsweet81 Před rokem +37

    Oooh weee....this is deep. She definitely needs therapy.
    Okay, he did all that the judge said....EXCEPT get her help.

  • @kgbrown5563
    @kgbrown5563 Před rokem +6

    Perfect example of why women need their own sustainable sources of income.

  • @braddissandridge5712
    @braddissandridge5712 Před rokem +12

    Let him leave sis it’s not worth it this hurt my heart seeing how abused she has been and that she is allowing it. Letting go is hard but holding on will only cause more damage. Pick your hard sis

  • @mariapasos7482
    @mariapasos7482 Před rokem +7

    When you put a man on a pedestal They will definitely fall off!!

  • @reginaharrigan7454
    @reginaharrigan7454 Před rokem +7

    Sis you can't stop a man from cheating

  • @jessegullatt3501
    @jessegullatt3501 Před rokem +10

    He is disrespectful

  • @petersingleton1141
    @petersingleton1141 Před rokem +7

    The husband disrespectful

  • @porshajohnson3836
    @porshajohnson3836 Před rokem +47

    He isn’t going to do anything to help his “wife.” He helped get her to this point and now he’s comfortable. In his mind she just need to STFU and take the bs. Dust!!!

  • @AKY2011
    @AKY2011 Před rokem +5

    This is a mess. Hopefully she left him

  • @janellepilgrim3046
    @janellepilgrim3046 Před rokem +13

    The judge dropped the ball on this case! This lady has serious problems and the judge best advice was for him to fix her??!!! Unbelievable!!!!! She needs professional help!

    • @margaretleslie1072
      @margaretleslie1072 Před rokem +5

      The judge did say he should get her professional help. More than once

  • @samuelsingleton512
    @samuelsingleton512 Před rokem +5

    I have seen idiocy in men, however, he puts the “I” in idiocy. He’s not a man. He’s a guy. Pure and simple. He’s a guy.

  • @broomrider2697
    @broomrider2697 Před rokem +8

    This woman has lost herself in this man. Hope she finds the love she needs & so desperately wants- inside herself. That she can be whole again. Love & light to you sister ❤️‍🩹

  • @thebarbieinvestor5428
    @thebarbieinvestor5428 Před rokem +5

    Embarrassing! Af!!!! He said he got low self esteem 😂😂😂

  • @Renrens-LionessofJudah
    @Renrens-LionessofJudah Před rokem +9

    She has lost herself in this relationship. That is what happens when you with an insecure man.

  • @BlackPanther-qu2lh
    @BlackPanther-qu2lh Před rokem +9

    Women love yourself b4 you love any man ,a strong woman is a woman who holds her head up and say I'm a queen not your doormat.....again Women don't ever let a man or woman destroy your health or your Self esteem

  • @nilkaelisrose7267
    @nilkaelisrose7267 Před rokem +3

    This is why you can’t Need anybody. You need to do for yourself. Being with someone should be a Choice not a Need. She needs to get herself together and get out of this abusive relationship.

  • @petersingleton1141
    @petersingleton1141 Před rokem +5

    Husband is selfish

  • @purrplebuttacup
    @purrplebuttacup Před rokem +6

    Dang she did all that for that very unappealing 'man'! Just so he can be the prick that he is and show her off as his airheaded arm candy...ha! No.

  • @piggnorfleet3521
    @piggnorfleet3521 Před rokem +6

    She's so beautiful yet so traumatized and self worth is none that is deep rooted And I hope she went and got help ... And he should have left her alone KNOWING damn well he wasn't strong enough to build them up yet be faithful and be a good person

  • @nikkif9873
    @nikkif9873 Před rokem +4

    🙏🏾 I hope she has found herself

  • @I2AmUS
    @I2AmUS Před rokem +12

    This PoS "man" is the worse kind of abuser. His wife is weak, seems to need his approval for all that she is.
    Leave him, seek the kelp that you need to understand your worth. You are already beautiful on the outside but the inside is sooo unhealthy.
    Judge Lynn should offer this woman help. This woman is sacrificing her health for his attention. This is really a sad case

  • @tpoppy9303
    @tpoppy9303 Před rokem +10

    The sad thing is most times when the man is paying all the bills and the woman isnt working, he is going to hold that above you.

    • @roslynhawkins1475
      @roslynhawkins1475 Před rokem +3

      That's dumb for any adult not to have their own cash or access to cash. Children are supposed to be dependent, not grown people.

  • @simoneh8464
    @simoneh8464 Před rokem +23

    This woman is beautiful and can do better. Very sad.

    • @roslynhawkins1475
      @roslynhawkins1475 Před rokem +1

      She can only do as good as she can give...hence this episode.

  • @madmemadhouseme4885
    @madmemadhouseme4885 Před rokem +3

    He's low to the bottom shallow.

  • @serenalampkin8241
    @serenalampkin8241 Před rokem +3

    She’s to beautiful to be so insecure!!! 🥴

  • @eshablair4841
    @eshablair4841 Před rokem +2

    He reminds me of TIM Norman. From Ms Robbies soul food. Just Cold.

  • @felishiadumas6905
    @felishiadumas6905 Před 3 měsíci

    Love her laugh @ 5:43 it's so contagious she just needs to LOVE herself 1st 🙏🖤

  • @petersingleton1141
    @petersingleton1141 Před rokem +3

    The husband don’t. Love. His. Wife. No. More. Amen

  • @toyunpredictablegemini
    @toyunpredictablegemini Před rokem +26

    Giiirrrllll I don't know how you stayed with him for even that long....flirting & honking at other women in front of your face 👀 uh uh no ma'am.

  • @monie2514
    @monie2514 Před rokem +6

    If you got your vomit food to keep a man let him go quickly. This is a beautiful young lady she shouldn't have to go through this nonsense for some low life who doesn't appreciate a good woman. Hurting hurting meaning her lying to her cheating on her it's wrong 👎🏼🤬🤷🏼‍♀️☃️❄️⛄❤️💚💛🎅🏽🥂🧑🏼‍🎄🍷🎄📺📽️

  • @asiablackgrl6482
    @asiablackgrl6482 Před rokem +7

    This episode is sad. She's broken and needs to take some time to find herself outside of a relationship. Already knew he wasn't gonna do a d@mn thing to change.

  • @penelopeparks5022
    @penelopeparks5022 Před rokem +2

    He's a clown, smh, has a beautiful, loyal, faithful wife and seems angry, hmmm

  • @samuelgriffin4167
    @samuelgriffin4167 Před rokem +4

    Brucha shouldn't be crying over a man who doesn't support her needs

  • @carmelitasmothers2577
    @carmelitasmothers2577 Před rokem +4

    Lord I pray for her

  • @deborahrollins7071
    @deborahrollins7071 Před rokem +6

    She’s a pretty black woman an she needs to know it

  • @tah385
    @tah385 Před rokem +1

    First statement that’s came out her mouth is how we fuck up

  • @kimiveymakeup0
    @kimiveymakeup0 Před rokem +2

    I was hoping someone would ask him how it would make him feel if she began behaving after other men the way he does other women.

  • @SG-qd8cj
    @SG-qd8cj Před rokem +3

    I know exactly how she feels, I’ve experienced the same thing 😢

  • @carmelitasmothers2577
    @carmelitasmothers2577 Před rokem +2

    Some people shouldn't be married

  • @lizziepoo1982
    @lizziepoo1982 Před rokem +5

    Love Judge Toler but she missed the mark on this one. I was hoping she would encourage this young lady to leave this guy. That she would encourage this lady to find herself and she did not need him to make her feel secure.

    • @s.rh.6927
      @s.rh.6927 Před rokem +1

      I guess the judge figured she's so codependent that she wouldn't leave.
      🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @nitahagger3091
    @nitahagger3091 Před rokem +1

    The judge didn't encourage her to leave because her whole life is him
    She would hurt herself

  • @milissawilson-smith1768
    @milissawilson-smith1768 Před rokem +5

    I love Brucha she has a nice personality. Every woman would feel the way she does.

  • @gladysbyrd7806
    @gladysbyrd7806 Před rokem +1

    First of all, COMMON Law or not there is NO way in the world I would live with anyone for 13 years and not married, and she doesn't even have an engagement ring , it sounds more like friends with benefits and some people would even say "why marry the cow when the milk is free.

  • @athomas6288
    @athomas6288 Před rokem +1

    They are professional daytime show people ive seen them on 2 other shows with the same name brusha with him and other family members!!!!!!!!!

  • @petersingleton1141
    @petersingleton1141 Před rokem +2

    The husbands he. Not. The. Rock. No. More. Amen

  • @petersingleton1141
    @petersingleton1141 Před rokem +3

    The husband got it made

  • @thunderbrown55
    @thunderbrown55 Před rokem

    I can't watch until the end, I hope she leaves him. Get your strength, you are beautiful. #keepitinmotion

  • @roslynhawkins1475
    @roslynhawkins1475 Před rokem +5

    I absolutely do not understand why women go to strip clubs with their men and then act surprised and hurt when they look at other women. Dumbest thing I ever heard.

    • @mamak_jowo
      @mamak_jowo Před rokem

      There is some type of women that is better to witness it than to hear it from someone and imagine a lot more worse.

  • @justtracy7175
    @justtracy7175 Před rokem +4

    Word of advice, Lord Jesus should ALWAYS be the king of your house.

  • @rodcliffneal1849
    @rodcliffneal1849 Před rokem +8

    Everything can not be his fault she need some serious help this was not the judge best work

  • @vincentwilliams5271
    @vincentwilliams5271 Před rokem +6

    She needs help. On a side note she has a unusual name.

    • @d820m
      @d820m Před rokem

      parents must have been smoking some real bad weed to willfully decide to saddle their kid with that name

    • @NotYourTypicalNegro
      @NotYourTypicalNegro Před rokem +3

      Her name in the Hebrew language means "blessing". Look it up.

    • @d820m
      @d820m Před rokem

      @@NotYourTypicalNegro too bad she is anything BUT a blessing🤣🤣🤣

    • @Alisha_Mariiee
      @Alisha_Mariiee Před rokem

      😂😂😂

    • @NotYourTypicalNegro
      @NotYourTypicalNegro Před rokem

      @@d820m She is definitely a mess!

  • @secemoiraharrell1035
    @secemoiraharrell1035 Před 5 měsíci

    If you have to go through the legnths of throwing up your food to keep an image for a man, he's not the one, no matter how much you love him. She needs to put herself first

  • @moniemone2240
    @moniemone2240 Před rokem +4

    Leave him!!!!

  • @janisrobinson3465
    @janisrobinson3465 Před rokem +2

    Hell look at him he’s heavy and crazy looking she’s beautiful leave the jerk

  • @sharonjackson268
    @sharonjackson268 Před rokem +1

    Seriously... if my man told me if I got fat and he would roll...well... bye boo!
    Because 2 things, I love ME, and I love FOOD! NOW I'd lose weight if my health is in jeopardy and my doctor cosign off on it!
    Now that's my take on my body and my food!!!!!

  • @madmemadhouseme4885
    @madmemadhouseme4885 Před rokem

    She's not your buddy, she's not your homeboy.

  • @lindalabrador9712
    @lindalabrador9712 Před rokem +10

    Us Women don’t have to plead a Man for love!! A Man always ask his partner to be the way he wants in a Woman,NOO!!! Us Women are supposed to ask for the type of Man that we are looking for!!! It’s US FIRST!!

  • @s.v.2796
    @s.v.2796 Před rokem +1

    He didn't respect our love her enough to marry her. He always kept his options open. I agree with a lot of the comments. He was cheating. No man texts for a while without trying to get into a relationship. He is immature. Now she's on her own with three children.

  • @penelopeparks5022
    @penelopeparks5022 Před rokem

    hahaha, I love the plantiff🤗 Get like me, 96 Toyota, still, rollin, rollin, Rollin😂😂😁

  • @marylazaro7374
    @marylazaro7374 Před rokem +2

    She Need To Love Herself 1ST.&Heal Before She Get Another Man,That's Y I Love Me Some Me&Waiting For Our Father GOD-JEHOVAH To Bless Me With A Good Man,Prayers🙌🙌🙌🙌For Her,AMEN&AMEN🙌🙌🙌💪💪💪💪🥰🥰🤩🤩💖💖💖💖😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @sagthenaturalsiren5997
    @sagthenaturalsiren5997 Před rokem +4

    She is verrryy pretty, she can find many more men if she wants to

  • @tiffanymartin1197
    @tiffanymartin1197 Před 4 dny

    I get vibe that he don't....care !!

  • @rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324

    Judge Lynn already know this lady is not going to leave after 10 years and zero wedding.

  • @cxm1211
    @cxm1211 Před rokem +1

    I think the judge should have gotten on her about spending money

  • @catherinewhitman8333
    @catherinewhitman8333 Před 2 měsíci

    She's ridiculous . You need therapy...stop manipulating and just live your life...maybe you're trying too hard and driving him away!!!

  • @Godlove83
    @Godlove83 Před rokem +1

    Girrrrrl tighten up 😡 Don't cry woman up in love yourself first.

  • @jaxpax2566
    @jaxpax2566 Před rokem

    Tired.. both of them. She is addicted to the misery.

  • @tamekadingle9987
    @tamekadingle9987 Před rokem +1

    He’s a little boy!

  • @petersingleton1141
    @petersingleton1141 Před rokem +2

    Show your wife love that’s. All. She. Ask. Amen

  • @gracie4200
    @gracie4200 Před rokem +2

    He doesn't love 💔 her, She is scorn. She's too beautiful and he doesn't see that nor does he care. most men can't deal with independent women.but then they are attracted to the. I know because I am one. She needs to do her and let him be.

  • @petersingleton1141
    @petersingleton1141 Před rokem +1

    Amen judge

  • @petersingleton1141
    @petersingleton1141 Před rokem +2

    Least the wife is honest amen

  • @susannecarolinehoff7847
    @susannecarolinehoff7847 Před rokem +3

    If a woman don't feel apriciated and loved... we shop!! It's not right..maybe.. but that's a reaction. Shopping makes things good for a while..
    But, she need therapy for her selfworth and the Bulimia. He may help her but no man can help her get whole. I am so glad Jesus did it for me! (I was like her)

  • @destineetyson7756
    @destineetyson7756 Před rokem

    I LOVE YOU DIVORCE COURT LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE This show ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @carlpotter007
    @carlpotter007 Před rokem +14

    I never saw this episode. Brucha ended up on the Robert Irvine show cheating on her new boyfriend with a woman. Here is the link: czcams.com/video/yqwuuD3iHOg/video.html

    • @patbuchanan5918
      @patbuchanan5918 Před rokem +4

      Brucha has really loss her mind!

    • @d820m
      @d820m Před rokem +2

      those were some of the fakest-ass tears this side of a crocodile 🐊 🐊 farm

    • @NotYourTypicalNegro
      @NotYourTypicalNegro Před rokem +1

      Going by her social media, she's still a mess to this day.

  • @mearly7047
    @mearly7047 Před 3 měsíci

    He kept saying she is jealous of him, sorry I can't see how so

  • @peacefaith560
    @peacefaith560 Před rokem +8

    common law marriage is not God ordained ya'll was just shacking in sin....you let him be a King and he's just a jester lol

  • @kattiethomas4687
    @kattiethomas4687 Před rokem +2

    She is sooo insecure .

  • @petersingleton1141
    @petersingleton1141 Před rokem

    That. True judge.

  • @sophiebutler5684
    @sophiebutler5684 Před rokem +1

    She is beautiful inside and out you can tell she have a good personality but she has low self esteem because my sis said she let him do what he wants and he the king and she treat him like one but he degrades you sis you can do so much better.

  • @terrence2309
    @terrence2309 Před rokem +1

    Underappreciated husband smh

  • @mringram
    @mringram Před rokem +2

    Just wild

  • @mekawalker94
    @mekawalker94 Před rokem

    13min in… he deflects and try’s to say the way she feels he try’s to say that he feels the same but he’s lieing and won’t take a look inside himself. I pray I don’t fall in love with a man like him