Cleaning My Way Out Of Depression
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- čas přidán 5. 09. 2024
- Come Clean with me and we will talk about depression.
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Getting a good night sleep is the key for me. I have chronic pain syndrome, and don’t take pain medication, depression and some anxiety. I absolutely have to work in my garden several hours a week. Go to yoga classes twice a week and art journal/ meditation practice almost every day. Over the last several years I’ve decluttered a lot. Makes it easier to clean and when it’s not clean it still looks better than when I had more stuff. Have let go of a lot of collections and nick knacks. I enjoyed to your video style and just subscribed.
All such healthy things. I agree with the sleep and being outside. Both are so very essential for everyone in good health. I have never done yoga but honestly I may look into it. Thank you for your invite. Very valuable information. 😊💜💜
@@lovemrs.g yoga is one of the best things I ever ever done for myself.
My house is a disaster and I hate it!! I make a plan then I get lost in my head. Thank you, I now realize I’m not alone
You are so not alone. It's hard being the boss and not having someone create a plan for you. Self planning is not always an easy path is it? 🩷💜❤️🩷💜❤️
@@lovemrs.g definitely not easy. Thank you for making me feel that I’m not alone in the chaos
I've started ducluttering,I'm not going to lie,its so ongoing,but getting rid of the access is really lightening to work load, baby steps!we will get there, every 5 mins matter,they all add up❤❤❤
I totally understand mine too.
@@JeromeGarrett-rx2vh it’s not easy. I just try to do one small area at a time 🥰
You know a lot of us hide behind what goes on behind closed doors making everything seem perfect. We look at your chaos and judge knowing that our situations are on par with yours if not worse. The only difference is we don’t show ours. Take your time and clear your space. You know what needs to be done. A little chaos never hurt anyone. I applaud your insight and your bravery. Keep it up. You have a cheering section even if you don’t see us!
I feel you all here with me and your friendships that are forming with me and it means a lot .
I think it is far easier to judge even when we ourselves are not perfect. I have been on that side as embarrassed as I am to say it.
I need a schedule but I am a free spirit and the idea of my day being spelled out makes me feel trapped. I guess I need a happy medium.
Thank you for the comment and for being here. 🌻🪻🌻🪻
We are here for you❤you're so kindhearted! I will pray for you
Thank you so much and for being here too. 🪻🪻🪻
I've had depression all my life. I've done different things. Yes I take medication I have for years. What you are doing is great. I also tell myself you are happy you are happy. I'm 71 years old I just started my CZcams channel 2 years ago this has really help. I love it.
I have as well. For many years I managed it on my own but as I got older that stopped working. I think speaking well to oneself is very important. Congrats on your Channel I will check it out.. Thank you for being here. 😽🌸
Thank you for checking it out
What helps me get things done. Is setting up a planner and just setting up a cleaning schedule. It’s helped me so much not be overwhelmed. Every day is a different room. And I’ll always put my kitchen to bed at night. It helps a lot.
I may have to give this a try. With my channel I should be planning anyhow . Thank you for your comment. 🪻🪻🪻🪻
what a lovely expression: "put my kitchen to bed"! thanks JenniLeeann
It really is.
Since it’s summertime and I’m home more during the day I should totally put my kitchen to bed every night. I’ll be working four nights a week. I could totally put something in the crockpot and have it ready when I get home.
I'm not there yet... I decided that I'm doing the best I can every day, but I'm barely seeing the progress. What did make a huge difference was that I stopped buying anything unless I really needed to replace something. And slowly, emphasizing slowly, I'm declutterring things around the house. Having fewer things meant that I had fewer decisions to make about where those things would live. I'm still using up products and things that I already have.
You’re doing a great job . Being a good Mother is the hardest job on earth and you’re doing that and struggling with everything else. God bless you 🙏🏻❤️
Thank you so much. Yes it is hard and doing it as a grandparent throws in all new challenges. But I would not change it for the world. 👩🦰👧
Crafting is good for the soul.😊
It really, Really is. 🌻🪻
I think you did a great job tackling everything! Sometimes we all feel that way, and we have to do what we can, little by little 💜 It also helps me to get outside in the fresh air for even 10 minutes, then go back to what I was trying to get done. Your animals are adorable 😍 keep making your videos and being you🌷
Thank you! Little by little is still moving forward right 🥰 I love being outside and yes it really does help a lot. 🌿
I love your puppies! My animals comfort me. I love them very much!
They are sweet . My boys are 17 this year! They comfort me too. Thank you for the comment and I am glad that you are here. 💖🥰
Thank you for this! I live with a long term autoimmune diseases...I have for 30 yrs. But it's getting harder and harder...I'm learning not to be so hard on myself a d tackle one thing at a time. I've noticed just accomplishing one thing encourages me to not quite.
Your channel is inspiring. ❤❤❤thank you
You have my prayers Kathy. Living with illness and disability is no joke. Be kind to yourself and give yourself grace.We all need to do that more don't we? Thank you for spending time with me today. 🌞💐
From the title of your video i was expecting a dirty home. Mam, you have a sparkling clean home! I understand the depression though. I love my home to be dust free and in order also. I have been grieving my Mother's death and trying to declutter while having some health issues myself. I also craft and sew. My house is not up to standard. Thank you for the videos. It helps me to keep completing the goals and seeing the light at the end.
I am so very sorry for the loss of your mother. My heart and prayers go out to you.
Thank you for being here.
I think a dishwasher is such a huge help to keeping on top of having clean dishes daily. I have lived with and without a dishwasher and it saves so much time. Washing by hand is fine if you do it after every meal but it can pile up so fast. Keeping on top of kitchen, clothes washed and keeping the toilet and bathroom wiped down daily is so helpful for your house to stay manageable and the house functioning.
I love my dishwasher. It does help so much even with its small size.
When I can afford a kitchen renovation I will add a full size dishwasher because I will be adding more counters and such.
For now though this works great.
Dishes are just never ending. 😊💕
Hang in there! ❤
I’m 36 and have chronic pain everyday, it’s so hard some days to even walk. Plan your days on how much energy you have, don’t be too hard on yourself. ❤❤
Unfortunately I live with chronic pain. It is hard having an issue others can not really see. You are right. I very much do try to plan around my energy. That is a great tip for anyone with chronic pain. Thank you for being here. 🤗🥰
You are awesome! I feel your message of encouragement very strongly! Thank you very much for this recording! 👍🤗👋
I am so glad. Have a wonderful day. 🧡💛💗🧡💛💗
Absolutely beautiful video Jenn!! I love the commentary! Never ever think you failed!! You ROCK my friend. You are hangin tough even thru the hard stuff. Its not wrong to give yourself a break. The whole pork loins are what we buy and we grind them for burger. I pick them up when they are under 2.00 a pound. I always use vinegar instead of fabric softener. It helps the guts of the washer stay clean. I also leave the washer open to dry. Between the 2, I dont have a stinky drum. Front loaders are notorious for getting stinky. I always smile when you mention me in a video. I feel like I am famous by association. 😂💜👍💜
I love these long comments.💕 Thank you. I am so glad you enjoyed the video. Like I stated up front I feel like I failed because no one is harder on me than I am and I know some pretty tough souls 😂. My guest moved on. That was a huge weight lifted.
The break was needed. Though looking back some of the crafting could have been filmed even if they were not popular videos.
I need to get the grinding attachment for my KitchenAid.
I still love all my laundry potions but the vinegar does do a nice job. It leaves the towels so much softer.
I do leave my washer door open here and there. But because of my constant laundry I have never had any issues with smell.
I also run it through a clean cycle as it asks for it. That helps too.
Beth if I ever get famous I'll be sure to include you my friend haha.
Much love to you friend. 😘
I enjoy your videos so much, you are so real and down to earth. I also suffer with depression and crafting also takes away a lot of anxiety for me. I also find just walking outside for a little bit helps clear my mind.
Yes! I love to be outside too!
Thank you for being real x I find that if music is on I manage to get things done x I do however make lists but never seem to finish them x Take Care Lovely Lady see you in the next one. Love from England 🏴❤️🤗🙏
Like I said from the start. Real is what I want to be. I want to be like the friend that lives next door. Music often does help too . I would love to visit England one day. Thank you for stopping by. 🤗🪻
Just came across your Channel tonight. Thank you for sharing your life and struggles I struggle with depression as well and every day very difficult to get out of bed. If it wasn't for my cats I would most likely be leading a very different life. Probably wouldn't have a job homeless. They give me reason for getting up every day but still a struggle. I have to say what helps me a little bit is having a daily to-do list. Getting an item or to getting crossed off gives me motivation to keep going. I can get some stuff done and then I don't get back to it for a day a week or more and then it goes back to what it was and very hard to start over with everything. I want to say thank you for showing your little dishwasher you have on the countertop. I have a very small kitchen and was considering getting one of those but seeing how little you can actually get in there it's just quicker to do them by hand. So thank you for that. I can save my money for something else. Have a good weekend thanks again for sharing.
I am so sorry you struggle with depression. I love your cats. I love that they help you. I think I am going to start a daily to do list even if it is just a few things.
Though I do love my dishwasher I will agree that for the price and how little it honestly holds it is not a value by any means. I do love mine and have no regrets but you are right it takes a fair amount of room and does not hold a lot.
You also have a wonderful weekend and give your 😻😻 love from me. 🐾🐾
At 28:02, yay for training children to bring their plates to the sink!🙌🏻👌👏👍
It was a struggle for a bit but we are there now. Thank you. 🤗🪻
I just found you. Nice to find another someone like me.
Hello and welcome to the community. So happy to have met you. 👋💕💜💕
If I feel overwhelmed I start somewhere else (for example: if I normally start in the kitchen, I'll start in the bedroom) in front of my husband, which in turn gets him up and doing things too. And before you know it we've gotten some off the wall stuff done besides the normal day to day.
That is really a great idea. I miss when my husband cleaned along with me. It made it a bit more fun. He is disabled now and is very limited in what he can do. It frustrates him.
Yep! Crafting (paper crafting) has kept me sane, especially after my husband died from Covid. You have to take breaks from grieving, and crafting gave me that outlet.
I am so very sorry for your loss. Yes breaks are so very needed. 💖🙏🪻💗 I'm glad you are here.
🤩😘 I clean my way out of a slump, too. Bless You and Your Family, Jen
It really does help. I made sure the kitchen was clean tonight so I can wake up with a fresh slate. Blessings to you as well. 🙏💕🪻
Yes getting some doors would be a good idea so it makes it seem like two different rooms.
Yes, it would be so much better and feel way less cluttered in the kitchen
I hope anyone being a house guest in anyones home, will do their part to help out. I find i have to get myself up.. go dancing where there is great music and dance. Thorough blood tests can reveal whats going on, i lay on floor with a 1.5 L water bottle under my neck, stretches and puts neck curve back in proper place. Watch amount of soda consumption that sugar will depress you! Collecting just adds to the piles and clutter so no more collecting anything for me as you get more need more space then too much of anything depresses me. Great video! I started to watch a couple diff other channels but stopped them, yours i just found and can watch & relate. Getting outside first thing of morning helps: soak up that first morning sun, get out walk. Sitting inside all day sitting to craft does you no good, take craft outside if you can weather temp permitting too. 😊❤
Her did help. Our car needed body work and he did that for us. I am very grateful for that.
I agree collecting causes clutter and makes cleaning that much harder. My office is proof of that 😂
Thank you for being here. Have a great day. 🩷💜🩷💜
I used to try to clean my house in one day. With 3 boys I was always exhausted.
Today, I plan a few chores everyday. I'm not so overwhelmed.
You did great!! I also know about depression. Keep up the good work!!
I just can't do the all in one day thing like I did when I was younger. I think you have the right idea! 🤗🪻
I suffer with depression and anxiety and what I do is to take it easy and I tackle my task in a small way. I read a lot and meditate. Just take it one day at a time. 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️
I think breaking things down is a great way to handle things. I love reading too. 🥰🌞
I appreciate you so much!!!! You are such an inspiration to me as I identify with everything in this video. I used to do crafting as well though I need to take the time to invest in it again. My ex husband killed that spirit but it used to fill my bucket! I am going to use your videos as inspiration and use it to help encourage me to do so. Right now I am sitting in the hospital with complications from surgery last Friday. I am just going to work on getting the office together so I can get back to what I enjoy
Go back to the crafting, let no one take things away that are inherently yours and only yours. What kind of crafting do you do? I would love to hear about them.
So sorry to hear about the complications that you are having. Praying for you to get well soon and start filling your bucket again. Much love friend. 🤗💖
Love the video! You got yourself a new subscriber. Thank you for sharing some of your day with us. You're a sweet lady!
Thanks for subbing! I am glad that you are here. 🥰💗🪻🪻
We have missed you❤ big big hugs... I too have the same struggles as you when it comes to depression and anxiety ❤ Nothing helps me except time passing, sleeping, take my meds too, I do enjoy crafting but my space is soooo messy I can't craft which is the exact opposite of what I need to do, church and bible studies help too.
Isn't it true, we are the meanest, and say the ugliest things about ourselves to our selves. Yet the Lord, says No My Precious Daughter! You are so important to me, that if it was only you... I still would die for you!!!! The Lord is near the broken hearted ❤😢 love you friend
We appreciate you and your heart and your vulnerability. Thank you, I KNOW IT IS NOT EASY!!!❤🎉
I am thankful the lord loves me imperfections and all. My craft room is messy. I am still in the process of taking the space back. Thank you for the hugs friend. Right back at you. Much love being sent your way.
Thank you hun.
Just stumbled upon your channel and I am very happy I found you. U have a beautiful home and love your personality.❤your new fan 🇿🇦
Welcome!! Thank you so much. I'm glad that you are here. 🌷🌼🌹🌸
I'll second that xx
I Can totally relate. Some days I just get up and tell myself to just put one foot in front of the other. Progress, not perfection. I love your videos . Thanks for sharing.
Same, and some days I get up and simply go back to bed for a while. Good days and bad days we all have them. Thank you for being here. 💗🥰
Your not failing your taking one step at a time and that's fine .x
From this side of depression I can see that much clearer. Thank you for the comment. 🤗
Your video as a first time watching you, has been tremendously appreciated ❤️
I am so glad to hear that. Welcome and I hope you have a wonderful day.💐🪻💐🪻💐🪻
@@lovemrs.g thank you 😊
You are most welcome.
Hello there, new subscriber here. I just want to first start off and tell you that you have a wonderful speaking voice. You have a gift and I’m sure you have many others. But you speak so eloquently and you gave such a good message. I’ve been struggling with depression for a long time too, it’s crazy how it affects different people in different ways but it’s all classified as depression. Whether our whole house is messed up or we have one corner or a closet, that’s totally hoarding, it is what it is. Thank you for the message and with every day there is new hope♥️
Your comment is shocking to me. I have always hated my voice that is deep and comes with a lisp. It was part of the reason I fought with myself on wanting to start this CZcams Journey.
Depression runs in my family on my mothers side. I am far better at hiding it than most unless I admit to it or you know me super well. It does show up differently in people. My mother became very codependent on me as a child. I was always her voice of reason. Her mother worked many hours and when she was home she was nasty towards her children and husband. No one realized it was depression that was simply swept under the rug.
When I am depressed it is inward. I'll be smiling but inside...not so much. My meds help me so very much and these times are less and less unless life becomes turmoil that I can not instantly fix...I'm a fixer LOL
You are very right though with every new day there is reborn hope, faith and joy to be found.
Even though im retired i cant function without my planner. Just small tasks each day. It helps me stay focused & my house stays presentable
Maybe that is what I need a planner but one that is not super filled and ridged in schedule. My focus is terrible at times.
@@lovemrs.g nope not ridged. If I don't get it done today maybe tmrw. I never give myself more than 2-3 things to accomplish for one day so if I have to tack it to the next day no big deal. Big projects-only one for the day. It's the only thing I do
Nice plan. That is super helpful.
I dont understand how people that live in the same household as the mother feel that she is the only one who can prepare meals, laundry, housework, grocery shop, take care of family budget, and any one that is ill or just dosent feel good, and keep everyone elses schuedle straight ,can just set on there butts and still live with themselves. Its that way at my house too!!
I do not understand it either. Because I see it a lot. Yes, sometimes even in my own home. Then there are times that I am simply not helping myself. 💗😊
I can say this.
My adult son who does live here does all my yard work. Goes to the store any time it is needed. Helps with cooking. Helps with pets. Helps with any thing I need and 99% of the time without me asking. Like in the video of my kitchen makeover he could not wait to jump in and help even though it meant he would be filmed. I hate the kitchen lights I put in and he has told me when I find some I like he will replace them again. He is a complete sweetheart.
Bella, does help with her Pop Pop who is disabled. Going to the store with him because he requires assistance. Running to get him things in the house and so forth. She also love to help cook. Now cleaning her room....That just a normal kid/parent struggle. She helps me with the garden, and cleaning around the house. She loves to be on video but I limit this as I do not want her constantly on screen.
My husband used to work long hours. He enabled me to be a stay at home mother for many, many years.
He makes calls for me for appointments that need to be set up. He handles bills, and will go with one of the kids to pick up my Walmart food pick up any time I need him to. I have to say I was a little saddened because in a video I did it showed me cleaning my office (It was late and I needed to get a video done) It also showed Greg sitting on the couch and someone referred to use as "two lazy people" . Criticize me and that's what ever but my disabled husband that is terribly sad. He only wishes he could help.
I will say when I am depressed it is hard for me to see the help I do get , plus adding 2 more people into my household (They are gone now) Is stressful to me and messes with the eb and flow I have created. It just throws me off and into a weird spiral. Constant company can do that too but that does it to everyone here.
I also want to add that everyone sees a very tiny fraction of my days. This video happened after a build up of extended house guests. Months.... I realize that for me it is something I can no longer do.
We are far from a perfect family. We are bit bit country, a bit rough around the edges and we all as humans have a ton to learn. 😊
Thank you so much for your comment. I appreciate it so much. Thank you for being here. 💗😊🌹🥰🌸💮💫☺️
@@agragtime amen
Hello hi just want to say you are doing awesome small steps one day at a time in my prayers love your videos and honesty 😊
Thank you so much! I appreciate you! 🤗🌸
This is the one video that really hit home for me I know what you’re talking about I recently like seven months ago had my son my oldest son he’s 4140 to move back in with us because he’s going through a divorce. It’s been rough my husband goes to work I’m cleaning with one extra person and a dog in the house and 99 or 10 years ago I had a really bad stroke so I have to do things in my own time I totally get where you’re coming from I feel depressed a lot of times I can’t motivate myself I needed this video today for sure. Thank you❤
It's really hard hard and after a stroke I cannot even imagine. My son and my granddaughter who is four were here for almost 3 months. People don't get how much more work that is. I was baby sitting, doing chores for a home with six people in it. I am my husband's caretaker. I have three dogs and three cats. A 9 year old that is homeschooled and needs my attention as well. It's hard.Thank you for your comment. It means a lot to know I am not alone.
New subbie! You showed me I am not alone ❤️
Thanks for subbing! I am glad that you are here. 🥰
Your the nicest lady ❤
Aww thank you. I try 🌻🌻🌻
I have to make deals with myself. Like: Next time I get up, I’ll take my hands full of whatever and put it away (or in the kitchen, trash, laundry). Then often I’ll end up doing more, like running a load of wash or doing the dishes.
This is so me. Or I only have to do ten dishes and I can go watch TV. Most often they all get done LOL. If not I am ten ahead. 😉💖💖
New subscriber from the UK, looking forward to seeing more videos from you, sending love to you. Life's tough at times to everybody. ❤
Thanks for subbing! So glad to have you join our little growing community. Yes, life can be hard at times for us all. 💖🤗
A garbage disposal and a dishwasher eases some of the hardest issues. I got clear bins that really help me in the pantry and around the house.. I think they were 12 for $30.. My husband is great too. I am grateful. You do an awesome job.
My hubby used to help a lot. I miss just having the company while I clean . Where did you find those bins that's a great 👍 deal!!! 😁
Oh Jenn, I am going through a lot myself. I've had my depression medicine doubled about a month ago and it just takes the edge off like you were saying. The music you chose was beautiful, I really enjoyed those two songs. I'm gonna be real, I've been in this funk for most of my life, but the past couple of years in just increased and increased until I felt like I was falling into a million pieces. That's when I finally went to my Dr. and she doubled my meds. The first thing she asked if was I a danger to myself or others! Do you think that is a normal question to ask? It scared me though, I'll tell you that. I think you walking with the dog is good, it gets you out of the house and your in your own thoughts instead of everyone needing something from you. You have your plate full with just your husband and then taking care of Bella. Extended family stays are not good for anyone and can definitely trigger your depression more, especially if your not getting any help, just adding more work on yourself. Try to be outside as much as you can, that helps. Here in Texas though that's getting shorter and shorter because its heating up fast. We've already had several days of 90 degree weather. I have no friends and now one to talk to. The closet place to go to shop or anything is 45 minutes and I don't like the drive. There is nothing between except ranches and farms and I'm terrified of that drive. All to say I'm glad your back and please don't give up. You Tube seems to help you. I could never do what you do, I'm to shy and my anxiety wouldn't allow me to put myself out there.❤❤🦋🦋❤❤🦋🦋❤❤🦋🦋❤❤🦋🦋❤❤🦋🦋
That question is pretty normal yes. Hard to hear, but an important one.
I am glad you spoke up and asked for help. I did that a couple years ago. I asked that mine would be doubled. I don't think my dosage is currently wrong, I think a lot of stuff just quickly went in a crappy direction for me and it was a bit to much for any one person. When I am depressed the house suffers. first and it creates a snowball effect in my mood.
Walking Lulu has become a night and morning ritual. She is a barker, and if I give her a nice walk, she settles down well. She needs the walking as do I.
I can not do any more extended family stays. It is too much on me. I have to accept that as will they.
I have my kids some that live close (One son lives across the street behind me with his wife and baby) another down around the corner with his wife and two other sons live about 8 miles away in either direction.
I don't have any friends that I have met. Online friends now that is something else haha.
I am not much for giving up. I know I started this for many reasons one of the biggest being to touch other people's lives.
You have a friend. We are all a big community here, and you are certainly a big part of it. 🤗💗 I'm your friend. I always look forward to what you have to say.
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@@lovemrs.g Thank you Jenn, I need a friend! I'm glad your doing better!❤❤🦋🦋🦋🦋❤❤❤❤🦋🦋❤❤🦋🦋🦋🦋
So sad to hear you're depressed😢 hope you feel better soon ❤🤗
I am feel back to my normal self. Cleaning and you guys have helped tremendously. Thank you. 💖💖💝💖💖
@@lovemrs.g so happy you feel better love,life can be so hard,keep up the great work! We support you! 🤗💓
@@lovemrs.g i also have a cleaning channel and i feel so thankfull to,the support is huge❤
@@chananjavandewaetere2213 Thank you so much. 🤗🤗💖💖
We all go through a slump time in our lives. Back in January and February I hit a slump because something fell through. Since it’s only me I would only get one or two things done. I was doing good if I’d get my shower on my only day of which is my reset day.
It is hard when things don't work out as we hope they would. 🤗
Great job,you'll get there!❤😊
Thank you so much!! 🥰
Great video. I really enjoyed listening and watching. ❤
Thank you for being here. 💜💖
When I’m down, I do something in my yard, or I clean 🧽 😆 I also read the bible and meditate, and that calms me down. Ty for all the motivation giving me:) 🧼🧹🧽🧺🏡
I love yard work and being outside. The fresh air and sunshine are always a mood booster for sure. Thank you for the comment and for being here. 🪻💗🌻
New subscriber, really like your channel. I think at some point we can all relate to so much of what you said. You’re an inspiration, keep up the great work❤
Thanks for subbing! I am so glad you are here. Yes, I think many of us can relate on some kind of level. 💖🌸😊
Expect everyone living there to participate in the care of the home if they are able bodied. It's never the burden of just one person.
I agree and they do. 💕
always here for you even thoe we all our not with you , we care . ❤❤❤❤
You are the best. You all are. 😊 🪻💗🪻
Good job honey hope you have a great day today from northeast England ❤
Thank you! You too! 🥰🌻🤗
I enjoyed this video it motivation thank you i know how you feel 😊
Thank you for being here and I hope you are having a good day. 🌸🐦
Hi Luv I'm on my husband's phone.But I have anxiety and manic depression. I take meds it just take the edge off of me also.I don't like gathering stuff of that nature. I coupon to help me.I love couponing.You might want to try that.I pray you get better with time.From North Carolina. After I looked at your video I did a task around my house.
Thank you 🌸😊🌸
I’ve never felt the need to do everything for the household. I believe in delegating chores. It is responsible to keep everyone in the house accountable for their items and their mess. My husband and I share the cooking duties. I do most of the cleaning. My only child left at home does her own laundry since the age of 8 and cleans her bedroom and bathroom. She’s 12 now and doesn’t need help with any chores. We downsized and are now minimalists and enjoy roadtrips and travel. Have fun life is short materialistic items won’t make you happy so let them go and ask for help.
My husband use to help a ton plus work. He no longer can because of his disability.
My son does all the yard work and helps with tons of other things.
Bella does her room and helps with other tasks as well.
They are doing thing but they are not the focus of the channel. 🤗
One thing I wanted to be sure of is they could do for them selves.
I have a collection of dolls also. I want to sell them because I no longer want them. Only keeping my vinyl babies.
I have two now and I know for me it is enough this round.
The first time I wanted more children so badly. There were plans made in my life for me I didn't know was coming.
I let them all go and sure enough life changed. Has a funny way of doing that .
I adore the two I have now. Just differently.
I have seen much, much worse on youtube...you are doing great
It was all so much easier when I was younger that's for sure 😂. Thank you.
I can totally relate. Btw I love your dishes they are so pretty.
Thank you so much! I am sad that anyone can relate but it is comforting to know I am not alone. 🥰🌻
I crochet or knit when I feel lost
I can crochet a wobbly dish cloth and that is about it. Haha. It is relaxing though.
A good night sleep. 7 to 8 hours.
For sure. I often do not get that.
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I need to get a counter top dishwasher. Can you tell me the brand of yours? Thank you. New subscriber and I LOVE what I am seeing!!
Sure I just added it to the description box at the very bottom under my affiliate links. The one listed is the exact one I have. Thank you for watching 💗💗
@@lovemrs.g Thank you so much!!
You should dial it in water and salt. That’s how I defrost my meat. I can’t stand putting it in microwave
What does the salt do? 🤔 That is interesting to me. Does it speed it up? 💖💕💖💕
I burnt my dinner last night.
I so hate when that happens. 🍳🥘
Do you find that the countertop dishwasher is worth the space that it takes up? It doesn’t seem to hold much ,although I would load it with silverware,I HATE WASHING SILVERWARE!😖😵💫
I love it. There are days I stay on top of things and just fill it after a meal (fam of 4) and run it on a 40 minute cycle. I just have to hand wash pans on those days. It does an awesome job. for me it is worth the space it sits on. But there are days I am lazy and do not stay on top of things and I have to hand wash.
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TIP Limpieza y Organizacion en medio del caos este sistema tiene muchos anos lo hemos adoptado todas las mujeres del Mundo
Videos youtube o el Libro
FLY LADY. Espero y te sirva si es que no lo conoces. Amiga si funciona intenta para queno te coma la casa
Un fuerte abrazo a la distancia. Texas❤
Sí, he oído hablar de ella. Gracias por la sugerencia. Investigaré cómo hace las cosas. Que tengas un gran día y gracias por estar aquí. 🤗🐦🌸
i crocheted a lot and now my wrists are bad
Ouch, is it carpal tunnel syndrome?
@@lovemrs.g maybe but I have rheumatic arthritis that attacks the tendons in my joints so probably that too and osteo too
Ouch 😔
Im going to find out where I can donate them. They’re porcelain so maybe I can’t
Goodwill should. Or perhaps a nursing home for residents who might like them?
HI I am an older single person who has been there so I know. My question is does your partner just watch as the mess and depression gets to you? I mean not to diss but I guess so wth? I mean I need to watch your video to hear the full story. Like I've said been there so I understand but if I had a partner and saw this I would def pitch in pull my weight and carry their weight for awhile. I mean if you can't ask your partner for help what's the point? Sorry just an opinion, when I went through this I was wanting a partner to help me. I got it done by myself. It was hard but I did it room by room lists helped me seeing things checked off that list made me feel like I was making progress. I hope you are feeling better.
Thank you for your comment and I totally get where you are coming from.
My husband has a disability. He has bone on bone arthritis in his hip. He can no longer walk much of a distance because of it and when he does he is in excruciating pain. He cannot get a new hip due to his weight.
When he was well he always did things around the house.
He still does what he can to help but he is very limited.
My son does home repairs and yard work.
Bella also does chores.
However the channel highlights my life as a homemaker, caregiver and grandparent raising a grandchild.
Listen my lovely, those who judge are in ignorance, how can they relate to depression if they have never experienced the “ depths of depression “.....I pray that you don’t keep beating yourself up over it, that’s one thing God never wants you to do, it’s the enemy inside your head, he’s the one who feeds you with lies...he wants you to feel bad about yourself....get them positive thoughts running through your head, kick all the negative and destructive thoughts to the kerb, In Jesus Name!...Amen!....
Thank you so much for your beautiful comment. I hope many people read this. Depression is one of those invisible illnesses with so much stigma attached to it. So many live in silence to avoid judgment. Thankfully I have a good support system. Thank you for being here and commenting. Your words are so very important for all who suffer with depression and for those who do not understand. God bless you.🙏🪻
Be very careful judging this Lovely lady you readers, as Gods word says.
Matthew 7:1-3
King James Version
7 Judge not, that ye be not judged.
2 For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
3 And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?
Thank you. Beautiful verses. It is so easy to judge what you don't understand. Have a joy filled day. ❤️😘
Amen well said
Unless people suffer from depression, they confuse it for laziness or being sad and that’s not the case
Your comment was on point 🥰
Thank you. Yes it is often confused and just makes the person feel worse.
Why throw things around
I never do that
I am glad you don't it is a bad habit. 🌸
Someone....really likes pioneer woman things....🙂
Love, love, love her stuff. It brings spring inside year round for me. 😊🪻🪻
Hi Mrs G I learn this from Better Life with Kat do my morning routine ( she calls it rituals now ) She just explained it the best My Faith do my daily devotional also follower Flylady everyday you have plan to do she has helped me with just doing things for 1 min 5 min 10 min 15 min cycle I like watching Dana K White decluttering and Cass Clutterbug podcast and also like watching you Mrs G
Thank you ❤️💕