How Do You Make Friends?! | Recess Therapy

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  • čas přidán 10. 02. 2022
  • This week I go to "friend Boot Camp" and learn how to make friends and be a better friend. Because apparently I suck at it!!
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Komentáře • 318

  • @johnmoore4903
    @johnmoore4903 Před 2 lety +2077

    Tom Hardy's kid makes real good analogies. First the friend ship, then the weight lifting. Also, he's rocking that jacket

    • @naurrrre
      @naurrrre Před 2 lety +92

      it’s Tom Hardy’s kid now

    • @heartfulbreeze6801
      @heartfulbreeze6801 Před 2 lety +96

      i was balancing the light switches at that age

    • @Matheus-ly6eu
      @Matheus-ly6eu Před 2 lety +167

      He's a goddamn poetic genius. He said that a superficial friendSHIP is more like a BOAT. Did you guys hear that?!

    • @chelseawestfall1920
      @chelseawestfall1920 Před rokem +27

      @@heartfulbreeze6801 I was flicking that little springy thing on the back of the door that goes *doiiinng.* Didn’t even know what analogies were until maybe high school. This kid is a legend.

    • @raquellima7400
      @raquellima7400 Před rokem +49

      @@Matheus-ly6eu not only a boat, but a boat made of sticks! GENIUS

  • @lillytalesandwonders780
    @lillytalesandwonders780 Před 2 lety +1264

    I want to be able to say "yesterday I sued someone" as relaxed as that lil guy

  • @leix7
    @leix7 Před 2 lety +839

    How to befriend an animal:
    Step 1: Get to know them
    Step 2: Kneel down and let them sniff you
    Step 3: Deadlift

    • @gillian6918
      @gillian6918 Před 2 lety +38

      i just laughed so loudly at this comment

    • @trra7785
      @trra7785 Před 6 měsíci +1

      laughing

    • @Cassxowary
      @Cassxowary Před 2 měsíci +1

      you must mean a nonhuman one though that might work for some human ones too like furries

  • @clwt4075
    @clwt4075 Před 2 lety +1153

    I like how the last boy is so comfortable with you that he's sitting so close to you it's so cute 🤣🤣🤣

  • @bethanyray6421
    @bethanyray6421 Před 2 lety +340

    the little girl in the pink coat was so sweet and cute aww

  • @theloveablescrunko
    @theloveablescrunko Před 2 lety +288

    The kid with the blazer seems like he's got his boundaries set straight. Respect.

  • @sharpieRulestheWorld
    @sharpieRulestheWorld Před 2 lety +1174

    This poor mans keeps getting roasted by kids. Don’t worry Julian, you seem cool

    • @heckinggi6034
      @heckinggi6034 Před rokem +42

      Not cool enough to have friends though.

    • @kayplays7494
      @kayplays7494 Před rokem +1

      Yeahhhhh

    • @Mario_1611
      @Mario_1611 Před rokem +15

      Yeah why do they keep going after my boy like that 😭😂

    • @letontete7817
      @letontete7817 Před rokem +1

      Ok

    • @carmenishere
      @carmenishere Před rokem +3

      Exactly. Adorable little critics but the guy seems cool and normal🤣

  • @ribbit444
    @ribbit444 Před 2 lety +537

    Nooo, little Tom Hardy dude, we're so sorry!! you're the most brilliant and emotionally intelligent child ever!

  • @kymolia
    @kymolia Před 2 lety +445

    as always, these little big interviews have made life worth living. can we talk about the friendSHIP metaphor? mind blown! 🤯 never force relationships guys! I just wish i knew as much about life as these kids.

    • @raee1265
      @raee1265 Před rokem +2

      I was impressed with that too!

  • @violetwhitmore1654
    @violetwhitmore1654 Před 2 lety +288

    that kid who talked about bullies is so important. future child aspiration

  • @frogwitch5265
    @frogwitch5265 Před rokem +50

    Julian smiling like Pennywise and the little boy looking at the camera and choosing to say "Yeah" to not hurt him had me dying 😂😂😂

  • @hollylaughlin7274
    @hollylaughlin7274 Před rokem +126

    The one little girl has me dying laughing, they had a conversation about food, and he asked if she ate any, she says “everyone eats food” and then he asked if they were friends and she says “no!” 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @gordyaenbenyamin8445
    @gordyaenbenyamin8445 Před 2 lety +273

    I would love to hire that kid with green jacket as my life advisor. He’s so wise🤩

    • @twatts1523
      @twatts1523 Před 11 měsíci +4

      I love all of his analogies. I bet his parents explain things to him the same way.

  • @lenagadeadoncel5458
    @lenagadeadoncel5458 Před 2 lety +159

    Tom Hardy's kid is everything I want to be in life.

  • @RamonBalthazar
    @RamonBalthazar Před 2 lety +100

    That lil man in the suit is wiser than I'll ever be

  • @annieanshor9968
    @annieanshor9968 Před 2 lety +260

    i seriously needed that ship analogy for my heart today!! and all that easily imparted wisdom about not forcing friendships? the delivery of these reminders is key! recess therapy works y'all, these kids are shining little gems

  • @Hannah-kj8kh
    @Hannah-kj8kh Před 2 lety +222

    I know a distinguished gentleman when I see one. Can Tom Hardy‘s kid please make a comeback? He is so wise and knows about proper deadlift technique… I wish he was my kid.

  • @bethany4986
    @bethany4986 Před rokem +33

    Purple and pink windbreaker is a lil empath
    “doing your best to make them comfortable”
    🥺😭❤️

  • @1994skelly
    @1994skelly Před rokem +47

    The first little guy has a point, alleys did go away and most of the bullying did move to online spaces.

  • @shadybuh3677
    @shadybuh3677 Před 2 lety +89

    This kids have a better social life than me 😅😂

  • @MM-te1kk
    @MM-te1kk Před rokem +88

    I'm not good with children and have always evied people who are. I'm the youngest in my family and never had younger children to care for growing up. My interactions with children always feel awkward. These videos make me realize that you can have so much fun with children if you simply take them seriously. Now I kinda feel guilty about being so surprised about that.

    • @AthenaIsabella
      @AthenaIsabella Před rokem +13

      Love that you had a change in perspective! Kids are truly amazing and I love looking at people even as adults and trying to connect with that inner child.

    • @dirys24
      @dirys24 Před 11 měsíci +6

      you know kids love when you ask questions about what thhey love so just do that to make some good friends!

    • @twatts1523
      @twatts1523 Před 11 měsíci +8

      Yes, most kids light up when you show interest in them and ask them to talk about their interests.

  • @raychelcaliber4941
    @raychelcaliber4941 Před rokem +45

    The little brunette girl in the pink/purple windbreaker is an absolute ANGEL 😇

    • @chelseascott5872
      @chelseascott5872 Před 11 měsíci +2

      I thought so too. The other kids are funny but I like how she's such an old soul 😊

    • @suhaskulkarni1280
      @suhaskulkarni1280 Před 8 měsíci

      Yes. Be kind and first ask them what they want to play 🩷

  • @jourdancanino8271
    @jourdancanino8271 Před 2 lety +72

    Sloane is such a fashionista 😂 I love when she’s featured💗

  • @ceciliaotuson7326
    @ceciliaotuson7326 Před rokem +20

    Don't force friendship it comes naturally, wow what a brilliant kid advice.

  • @PennyLane88
    @PennyLane88 Před 2 lety +78

    This is the single greatest channel on CZcams. Julian we all want to be your friend!

  • @StefanCreates
    @StefanCreates Před rokem +64

    Look how close he's sitting to Julian at the end, amazing to see that Julian can create that kind of comfort in the kids ^^

  • @821Drifter128
    @821Drifter128 Před 2 lety +60

    This is an all-star episode!!

  • @sosig9475
    @sosig9475 Před rokem +11

    'How did someone even invent bullies' Feel you dude.

  • @llucila
    @llucila Před 2 lety +112

    julian, sloane might have just roasted you to hell, but you look extremely friend-shaped to me

  • @nastjamaganja2513
    @nastjamaganja2513 Před 2 lety +58

    The Tom Hardy kid is a genius. He just is, we all know it.

  • @par3433
    @par3433 Před 2 lety +27

    UM I wasn’t prepared for these stars to come back all on one episode omg!! Deadlift boi is forever a fave

  • @melsyoutube
    @melsyoutube Před rokem +19

    all those boat and weight lifting analogies!!! he's so smart and witty

  • @amycarrigan6099
    @amycarrigan6099 Před rokem +9

    From Nina (pink jacket yummy snacks kid)
    “The show was so cool! It was so fun being on it. Making friends can be easy or hard. Just be yourself and nothing else. If you are not yourself they are not your actual friend.”

  • @julial.r.5383
    @julial.r.5383 Před rokem +16

    Man I feel like a lot of adults should watch (and learn from) this. 😌❤

  • @kikyyy9122
    @kikyyy9122 Před 2 lety +23

    the ship kid is my favorite!! he will be the future president

  • @0elifff0
    @0elifff0 Před 2 lety +47

    Julian being bullied by kids for 11 minutes straight

  • @shaliniverma7020
    @shaliniverma7020 Před rokem +6

    Deadlift kid is amazing .. so mature and comfortable with his thoughts ❤

  • @lnfreeman
    @lnfreeman Před rokem +4

    Sloane's hair is always always _snatched_ She is such a little queen!

  • @LaMaca02
    @LaMaca02 Před rokem +8

    I literally watch these videos looking for essential life lessons and I'm never disappointed

  • @Surfergurrrllll
    @Surfergurrrllll Před 11 měsíci +6

    This is my 3rd Recess Therapy video and I’m convinced this is the best form of therapy. Thank you for your hard work 👏🏻👌🏼👍🏼

    • @twatts1523
      @twatts1523 Před 11 měsíci +2

      It definitely gets the oxytocin flowing.

  • @iluuuvutube
    @iluuuvutube Před 2 lety +17

    "everyone eats food" thats facts I really do be eating food.

  • @kristinacvetkovic5620
    @kristinacvetkovic5620 Před 2 lety +12

    Those kids are hope for better future. They are so kind and smart. ❤️

  • @RunnerEye
    @RunnerEye Před 2 lety +30

    Congrats on the New York Times article!!! It was about time

  • @catinhanu
    @catinhanu Před 2 lety +14

    Tom Hardy went blazer today, so cute

  • @gaud9112
    @gaud9112 Před 2 lety +28

    We need more of Tom Hardy!!

  • @venlatuominen8376
    @venlatuominen8376 Před 2 lety +2

    Recess Therapy is literally the best! The kids are so sweet and smart!

  • @SuperLeticiamacedo
    @SuperLeticiamacedo Před 2 lety +5

    this channel is the best thing i found last year, thank u

  • @roxyray781226
    @roxyray781226 Před 2 lety +7

    Oh my gosh all these kids are sooo cute and smart and wise! These videos are truly therapy :’)

  • @VAINILLAcinnamon
    @VAINILLAcinnamon Před 2 lety +12

    these kids are so amazing, they make my life happier 💜 and congrats on the article, I've just read it and it is so good!

  • @meep2026
    @meep2026 Před rokem +7

    the little boy in the blue hat was the most adorable kid ever😂 but he was also wrong about you having no friends!

  • @Liv-is8eo
    @Liv-is8eo Před 2 lety +15

    I don't have a calendOr. I felt that.

  • @anrijupiter
    @anrijupiter Před 2 lety +16

    I miss when making friends were that easy lol

  • @pattyskuster4589
    @pattyskuster4589 Před 2 lety +17

    Julian! You’re amazing! You babysat for my daughter in Philly some time ago. How lucky was she?

  • @AccordingToWillow
    @AccordingToWillow Před rokem +3

    i love how literal children are.
    “what makes a good friend?”
    >>”introducing yourself”

  • @mimim868
    @mimim868 Před 2 lety +10

    When I grow up I want to be a basic person with a lot of friends.

  • @annafurmanczyk5814
    @annafurmanczyk5814 Před 2 lety +2

    im so happy that i found your channel! ur doing gr8 job, thank u!

  • @kadelu1137
    @kadelu1137 Před rokem +9

    Also I love how brutally honest the girl with the braids is haha

  • @butterbean5544
    @butterbean5544 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I woke up feeling really sad and I’ve watched a few of these and I’m now ready to finish packing my house!! 😂

  • @sharpieRulestheWorld
    @sharpieRulestheWorld Před 2 lety +15

    Blazer kid dropping wisdom

  • @MrsVrba
    @MrsVrba Před rokem +2

    I absolutely adored this video… I might show it to my 4th graders in the fall!

  • @glenkuenzi4302
    @glenkuenzi4302 Před rokem +3

    The kid in the blue hat is so mature it’s crazy

  • @neurodivergent_tali
    @neurodivergent_tali Před 2 lety

    I'm in love with this. Thank you💕🧸

  • @katpage9378
    @katpage9378 Před rokem +2

    That boy with all the ANALOGIES SO SMART WOW

  • @Fay_partidge
    @Fay_partidge Před 2 lety +6

    A lot of recess celebrity kids came out from this video. I like ittt✨🌟

  • @irmarossanie5526
    @irmarossanie5526 Před 2 lety +8

    Your videos always make my day better. Thank you ❤️

  • @starshinetamy
    @starshinetamy Před 2 lety +16

    Aw the kids are so cute and smart ahah!! Making friends is a challenge oof thanks for the advice

  • @sharondrew9576
    @sharondrew9576 Před rokem +1

    that go with the flow and friendSHIP kid, i need therapy sessions with him... he knows so much more about relationships than me 😭

  • @xnaduah
    @xnaduah Před 2 lety +13

    Julian, don't worry, I would love to be your friend!

  • @pattyberryman3037
    @pattyberryman3037 Před 11 měsíci

    You just stinkin rock Buddy! Thank you for your amazing work.

  • @pensamentosdemaluca
    @pensamentosdemaluca Před 2 lety +6

    the girl with the pink jacket that let's people comfortable just has all my heart 🥺♥️

  • @3YearsApart1613
    @3YearsApart1613 Před rokem

    I am a dad with 4 kids, so I live this experience every day...and I love it.

  • @freelucid
    @freelucid Před 2 lety

    thank you so much! brilliant episode.

  • @chrisstargazer5866
    @chrisstargazer5866 Před rokem

    "making friends is hard - trust me I KNOW" I feel that bro.

  • @christelbremer657
    @christelbremer657 Před rokem +7

    that ship boy is wiser than most adults

  • @gordyaenbenyamin8445
    @gordyaenbenyamin8445 Před 2 lety +5

    That guy Sued someone 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 my brain stopped working for a second

  • @AliUnderscore
    @AliUnderscore Před rokem +2

    Bonsoir, je viens de découvrir la "Recess Therapy". Cela me rend vraiment heureuse j'en avais besoin ! Merci à vous et à la participation des enfants, ils seront très contents de revoir ces vidéos quand ils seront plus grands !

  • @8aemi
    @8aemi Před 2 lety +23

    This made me laugh and then made me realize on how wise some of those advices are 🥰

  • @HiFiTurtle
    @HiFiTurtle Před 2 lety +25

    Sloane slayed with the gold braids! That's my president 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

  • @avamoore189
    @avamoore189 Před rokem +4

    The shadee of this little girl not thiinking Julian has friends hahaha. They genuinely Dragged him

  • @amandabarbosa9477
    @amandabarbosa9477 Před 2 lety +12

    Oh no, not Julian getting roasted by kids again
    ~ me, the elder cousin

  • @Cassxowary
    @Cassxowary Před 2 měsíci +1

    *I make my friends the same way kids do; I message people saying what we’ve got in common and they seem nice/cool and if we can talk and maybe be friends…*

  • @stinkygoose666
    @stinkygoose666 Před 11 měsíci +1

    The Sonic kid is chiiiiled tf out what a mood

  • @logicfrogmedia
    @logicfrogmedia Před 2 lety +1

    Proud to say I subbed before 10k!

  • @e33yodonnell
    @e33yodonnell Před rokem +1

    These kids are very good at talking. 👌🏼 I wish I had more intellectual kids around my area like this😂

  • @elisabethn3913
    @elisabethn3913 Před 7 měsíci

    no, but these kids make such good points though?? I love🤧

  • @TheElextrah
    @TheElextrah Před rokem +1

    “Yesh”
    Lol y’all did her dirty with that 😂

  • @bloodmaged
    @bloodmaged Před 2 lety +4

    this is underrated as hell

  • @5445tashi
    @5445tashi Před 2 lety +8

    Me when I meet someone new: "I think there's some synergy here"

  • @cherylcooper5118
    @cherylcooper5118 Před rokem

    Saw recess therapy on TV thought it was wonderful and funny... very nice and friendly with the kids.

  • @ayuzefovich
    @ayuzefovich Před 2 lety +14

    - Like the first time I've met you
    - Are we friends?
    - Yeah!
    (Friend Counter goes up)
    😂😂😂 Lol this is SO HEALING, thank you mate, your videos are so positive and always cheer me up!

  • @Juss169
    @Juss169 Před rokem +1

    The guy at 3:16! so adorable. and so comfortable with the interviewer.

  • @vanillacarnivore
    @vanillacarnivore Před rokem +2

    The ship analogy kid, wow, that was pretty deep!

  • @unadetantasjulianas
    @unadetantasjulianas Před 2 lety +1

    Me encantaron los consejos jajaja gracias 🌟

  • @phyllissnook
    @phyllissnook Před rokem

    One of my favorite videos!

  • @sola3455
    @sola3455 Před 2 lety +1

    The blue jacket child is so wholesome

  • @__gr.ce_
    @__gr.ce_ Před 11 měsíci +1

    the fact that me and my best friends are just a bunch of punching bags for eachother

  • @cherrybomb1386
    @cherrybomb1386 Před rokem

    I love the kid with the ship analogy

  • @louiss1625
    @louiss1625 Před 3 měsíci

    that little black girl's hair+outfit are ferocious. she looks incredible.

  • @TheDualismOfKoala
    @TheDualismOfKoala Před rokem +1

    " SO YOU THINK WHAT CHANGED IS THE ALLEYS WENT AWAY? " this is so cool that all the angels in heaven dropped whatever they were doing, crossed their eyes and started running around in panic thank you

  • @TheLastSecretGarden
    @TheLastSecretGarden Před 2 lety +3

    That last kid is a future podcaster for sure.