What to Expect with a Miscarriage | Silent/Missed Miscarriage at 9 weeks pregnancy of 6 week baby

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  • čas přidán 3. 07. 2024
  • 00:00 Introduction of the day I had my miscarriage at 9 weeks of my 6 week baby done naturally
    01:16 Introduction and my story on miscarriage
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    03:19 Miscarriage Pregnancy Line progression , how much HCG left after miscarriage. Miscarriage HCG levels
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Komentáře • 72

  • @MommyShark
    @MommyShark  Před 4 měsíci +1

    Sometimes it's hard moving on like baby never existed, I found it imperative to get closure or a keepsake of something that will always remind me of my sweet baby that passed. With this you can get a keepsake: miscarriagegifts.com/?ref=nNvQnnwfLIgs3
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  • @bmw4279
    @bmw4279 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I really appreciate you sharing your story and what to expect. I been struggling to find stories of women going through missed miscarriage naturally. Im currently stuck in the waiting period of finding out whether we got a miracle or miscarriage for our first child. At estimated 12 weeks for the first scan we found a 6 week baby with nothing wrong but no heartbeat, and since we weren’t positive on the due date everyone is praying we got the date wrong and a heartbeat will be found. I already know it most likely won’t happen but it’s possible since the month I tested with a strong positive result is when a 6 week baby would have been conceived and is the month I got absolutely horrible morning sickness. But the symptoms stopped 2 weeks before the first ultrasound and is when the baby possibly stopped developing if we did have the right due date and I was at 12 weeks. It’s been oddly comforting watching your videos since they’ve helped me know what to expect.

  • @franceass
    @franceass Před 2 lety +8

    I’ve had two miscarriages and one ectopic and my heart goes out to you as I know very well how traumatizing and heartbreaking this experience is for you and your family. You are very strong for being transparent about this and using your platform as a means of reaching out to many women who may feel alone going through this process. I hope that you will be able to give yourself grace as you go through this process and heal as it is a grieving process and takes time. I have been following your for a while because your CZcams channel has been helping me try to navigate my current pregnancy as I am now 36 weeks pregnant and still have the trauma of our previous losses in the back of my mind as we continue to hope for a successful delivery and healthy first baby, and you have been truly an inspiration. Sending you lots of love and hugs for all that you are young though, mama. We will always hold near and dear to our hearts all the babies we have lost.

    • @MommyShark
      @MommyShark  Před 2 lety

      You are the sweetest ! Thank you for your sweet comment and I appreciate your consistent support so very much ! I’m so happy you find value in my content ❤️ congrats on your sweet baby to come ! Wish you a smooth delivery

  • @corrinebowen9412
    @corrinebowen9412 Před rokem +3

    Thank you for your videos. They are very helpful. I was wondering if you ever posted what it looked like. I’m going through this now and was wondering what to look for. Thank you again and I’m sorry for your loss ❤

  • @sheikay3380
    @sheikay3380 Před 2 lety +1

    Hi Mommy Shark. So sorry for you and your family's loss. My hope and prayers are with you. This is the first time I've seen a video talk about the physiological aspects of pregnancy loss, which I'm sure is very valuable to many. Thank you for your transparency and I hope you get your rainbow baby soon. Much love from us in Canada ❤️

    • @MommyShark
      @MommyShark  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you so much for making that note ! I really appreciate your sweet comment

  • @SonjaH-xf8ev
    @SonjaH-xf8ev Před 8 měsíci

    I had to wait one month before my miscarriage started. My little one stopped to develop at 6+6 and when I did the scan in the 10th week there was no heartbeat. On the first day of miscarriage I lost so much blood that I fainted. But I have to say that it was not so painful. I m happy that I decided to wait that my body made the "job". Thank you for having posted this video, it helped me a lot. I also saw that you had a healthy baby afterwards and it gave me a lot of joy and hope. Best wishes to you and your loving family.

  • @louisefoster6143
    @louisefoster6143 Před 2 lety

    Thankyou for your video and I am so sorry for your loss x

  • @teshagarcia8916
    @teshagarcia8916 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you for this video and all your other videos. It really keeps my mind at ease with what I’ll be going thru. This is my first baby, I had my first ultrasound yesterday, measuring 8 wks and baby stopped growing. I was devastated but I’m now more scared of passing the baby. I’m very sorry for your loss! 💜

    • @MommyShark
      @MommyShark  Před 2 lety

      I’m sorry Tesha, just seeing this comment . I’m sooo sorry for your loss, I had the same fears and everyone everywhere seemed to have had a horrible experience. I was so lucky in having normal period cramps when baby passed , making a horrible situation a little more tolerable . Wish you all the best

  • @mikellschone989
    @mikellschone989 Před 2 lety +4

    I’m sorry you’ve had to experience this type of loss especially around the holidays. I’ve had two miscarriages. My first pregnancy baby stopped growing at 8 weeks. I took the pills and I bleed for like two weeks. It’s a painful thing to have a baby pass through you that you loved. My second miscarriage was a lot harder on me. I saw the heartbeat 3 times and seemed like he was growing very well. Went in at 11 weeks and he stopped growing at 9.5 weeks. I tired the pills again but didn’t work and ended up having to have a dnc to where I actually lost a lot of blood and was two weeks before my wedding. He actually came out whole and that’s usually rare in a dnc so I’m grateful to have a picture of him. I agree that miscarriage isn’t talked about as it needs and should be. It’s a lot of pain and sadness. I hate when everyone just says you can try again. Like those were my babies. Thank you for being so open and letting other women know they don’t have to suffer in silence. I’m sorry for your loss.

    • @MommyShark
      @MommyShark  Před 2 lety

      Mikell, I’m so sorry for your loss as well. Your babies will be with you forever ! They were your babies and they are so very loved . I appreciate you sharing your story with us and wish you all the happiness in the world .

  • @amandaasimov
    @amandaasimov Před 10 měsíci +2

    This was very helpful thank you. My doctor was pushing the D and C after just 5 days of my spontaneous miscarriage. She even said there was nothing left from the pregnancy in my uterus. Just some thick uterine lining. Now I'm seeing it's fairly common for it to take time even when your body is making progress. Just another example of doctors being impatient with women's bodies I guess. It's very frustrating how I have to advocate for myself even while mourning.

  • @USMC_BABE38
    @USMC_BABE38 Před rokem +1

    I'm sorry for the loss of your baby hugs

  • @bimgham9859
    @bimgham9859 Před 7 měsíci

    Thankyou for sharing wish you all the best for future pregnancys ❤

  • @nusratjahanananna4653
    @nusratjahanananna4653 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much....for sharing your journey .

  • @xxnataaxd
    @xxnataaxd Před 2 lety +1

    You are so strong and so brave for sharing your story with us kind of felt like we were holding hands and we were taking this journey with you I lost my son two years ago in 2020 to preterm labor at 21 weeks so losing and grieving is something I can relate to with you it doesn’t matter what stage it was it doesn’t matter how big or small you were and still are a mother so many plans so many ideas so many what if‘s it’s heartbreaking and it doesn’t get easier but you are strong and you are an inspiration to a lot of people that go unheard and feel that they are not entitled to grieve because of where in the pregnancy they were I will save you from the it was meant to be I will save you from the god does everything for a reason because those words I did not want to hear when I brought my sons ashes home what I will say is don’t give up and you now have another eternal Angel baby 👼 after two years of infertility I got my BFP February 28th we went for our first scan almost 3 weeks ago because I had light bleeding but nothing serious we saw a gestational sac a yolk sac but nothing more I guess I want to say I was devastated but
    At that point I thought I was seven weeks but I was only five weeks and one day the stage where you don’t see much but you can imagine how I felt not seeing something there already it’s been 10 agonizing days and two more to go until I am eight weeks my ultrasound is on Wednesday and every day I am scared that I’m going to go and see nothing or hear no heartbeat but the fact that you had hope and kept going even when your body knew and your heart knew gives me so much hope to just remain positive and strong no matter what I swear this video saved me a lot of heartache prepared me for the best and prepared me for the worst but I know I’m not alone so thank you so much mama ❤️ showering you with baby dust and hoping for that BFP very soon for you again god bless

    • @MommyShark
      @MommyShark  Před 2 lety

      Thank you so much for sharing your story , I’m so sorry about your baby boy ! I wish you the very best and I soooo appreciate your support !

  • @user-mz7eb4kd5u
    @user-mz7eb4kd5u Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for sharing I am sorry for you lost . I am currently in the waiting stages of waiting for my body to naturally pass. I am currently 12 weeks 4days pregnant i had a small amount of bleed show on the 7th and I found out on the 8th that my baby has no heart beat 😔 my baby was only measuring at 8weeks 😢. I have my first doctor appointment on the 11th since finding out I have lost my baby.

  • @san8431
    @san8431 Před rokem +1

    Finding this video has been God sent in a way. This is my 1st pregnancy and I went to my gynaecologist 5 days ago. I was told I should be 11 weeks but baby measured 8 weeks with no heartbeat. I was told that "I could wait a week if I want to check again" this left me with hope but so much anguish I have no idea what to do. I have my appointment in 2 days and the anxiety is killing me. She said that it's a missed miscarriage, I'm heart broken and the fear of passing the baby is scaring me so much.

    • @MommyShark
      @MommyShark  Před rokem

      I'm so sorry that you're going through this, I know most women make it seem like it's the worst pain ever physically speaking to pass baby, but in my experience, I felt nothing other than some minor cramping that I confused with standing too long. While I do hope you hear good news, please know that either way you're going to do amazing and you're going to get through this.

    • @san8431
      @san8431 Před rokem +1

      @@MommyShark I really appreciate your reply I didn't really expect one but it honestly gave me alittle sense of relief knowing I'm not completely alone. I haven't told anybody about this pregnancy so I endured the joy and now the pain alone. Thank you for being a help others

    • @san8431
      @san8431 Před rokem

      Just a small little update. I've had my 2nd ultrasound done today and unfortunately I've lost the baby. There still is no heartbeat. My medication process begins tonight

    • @MommyShark
      @MommyShark  Před rokem

      I’m so very sorry for your loss :(

  • @sammendez8334
    @sammendez8334 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you for posting... Im currently 7 weeks and 1 day but i am no longer feeling like i did in week 6. I truly feel like i will have a miscarriage like i did last year at 8 weeks. I hope i can get to my next ultrasound in about a week and have some positive news but as of now im not so confident i will see anything but the GS and YS again.

    • @rosietaylor4366
      @rosietaylor4366 Před 3 měsíci

      Hope everything is ok, do you have an update?

    • @sammendez8334
      @sammendez8334 Před 3 měsíci

      Yes, thank you for asking. I am currently 11 weeks from my LMP, Baby is a week behind but Dr. said I might have ovulated later than normal. I go on my next app. next Tuesday. I am still not fully confident but I keep my hopes and faith high@@rosietaylor4366

    • @sammendez8334
      @sammendez8334 Před 3 měsíci

      Yes, thank you for asking. I am currently 11 weeks today and found out my baby is a week behind Dr said it could be due to me ovulating later than normal. I go to my next appointment next Tuesday. I hope to hear the heartbeat since I've already seen it. @@rosietaylor4366

  • @rebeccaowen287
    @rebeccaowen287 Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much for this video. I’m going through an exact time line as this. Had my scan this morning at 8 weeks and was told no heartbeat. The said baby stopped growing at 6.5 weeks. I’m now waiting to start bleeding.

    • @MommyShark
      @MommyShark  Před rokem

      You are very welcome ! I’m so very sorry for your loss

    • @peem9642
      @peem9642 Před rokem

      What happened

    • @priscillasarfo-asante4073
      @priscillasarfo-asante4073 Před 5 měsíci

      I’m going Through the same thing right now. I am 10 weeks and the baby stopped growing at 6 weeks. No heartbeat whatsoever. I started spotting two days ago and still haven’t had any period like bleeding. It’s just few drops and sometimes I only see it when I wipe. It’s not also yet red blood. Looks like brown and pink. I don’t know what to do or what to expect

  • @syrykh
    @syrykh Před 8 měsíci +2

    Thanks for the video 😢 Lost my baby yesterday, 10 weeks 2 days, but measured 8,5 weeks... Thanks for your story and bravery 💔

    • @Keepinitreal55
      @Keepinitreal55 Před 6 měsíci

      Any reason given why? So sorry

    • @syrykh
      @syrykh Před 6 měsíci

      @@Keepinitreal55 no, unluckily, no reason given. Probably a genetic abnormality...

    • @Keepinitreal55
      @Keepinitreal55 Před 6 měsíci

      @@syrykh so sorry! That’s awful! Most genetic abnormalities end between 6-8, but I guess a bit later can happen too. So horrible to go through all the symptoms of nausea just to lose it anyway. Did any of your symptoms go away to give you a clue?

    • @syrykh
      @syrykh Před 6 měsíci

      @@Keepinitreal55 I had mild symptoms of nausea, and sometimes even did not feel anything. Also I had spotting during several weeks... The doctor could not advise me anything, only wait. So yeah... it ended unluckily. I am TTC again

  • @brendagalvan9479
    @brendagalvan9479 Před rokem +1

    I was told my baby didn't have a heartbeat on June 7 and it's been 17 days and haven't had any bleeding but also no baby is inside me its just the gestational sac

  • @russelalbalos2787
    @russelalbalos2787 Před rokem

    Hi Mommy Shark! i am currently experincing the same situation. I had my scan last friday on my 9th week of pregnancy but the sonographer said that my baby's size is equivalent to 6 weeks and 5 day with no heartbeat. 😢😢😢 i am also in keto diet when I founs out that i am pregnant. bu my ob advised to eat more carbs. right now i am under medication because my OB wanted to be sure that the baby is has really no heartbeat.

    • @MariaNavarro1
      @MariaNavarro1 Před rokem

      Hi! I’m actually on the same situation. 😢😢😢 Monday will b the day I find out if baby is ok. My husband thinks the worst but I have hope he or she will survive.

  • @javh9174
    @javh9174 Před 9 měsíci

    I had a miscarriage 2.5 weeks ago and my countitative hcg is in the same level. I feeling stressing because my Dr say she is gona see me in next 4 to 6 weeks after the post partim

  • @alexandraanomaly9991
    @alexandraanomaly9991 Před 4 měsíci

    Ive had a miscarriage 7 months ago... and now I am 8 weeks pregnant. From the time i took the test with my miscarriage i was spotting...😢
    I miscarried.
    I am niw 8 weeks pregnant of course we did the sneak peak test and got girl.
    I am getting my first ultrasound in about 2 weeks.... 😢 im so worried this happened or will happen 😞 😔
    My best friend is 34 weeks and is traumatized by over 6 miscarriages at different weeks. She is terrified the baby is going to die before she has it in a month... 😢 its so horrifying to see her this way. She doesnt even have anything for the baby yet... 😢

  • @3asgirl374
    @3asgirl374 Před rokem +2

    I'm actually experiencing it right now mommy shark in my computation it's 9weeks but in my ultrasound it is 6weeks and 5days no heartbeat at all😭😭😭😭 it was my second miscarriage 😭😭😭 everytime I'm expecting a baby boy this is always happen and it really breaks my heart a lot😭😭😭😭 i cried in silent so no one will notice it's really really hard to accept it 😭😭😭 I'm angry to myself because i didn't take care of myself because i have three girls in the house and i can't really going on bed rest because of all the chores in our house 😢😢

    • @Rachel-pp6mn
      @Rachel-pp6mn Před 10 měsíci

      Same thing with me 😢 and it’s my second miscarriage as well. I’m on my 8 weeks and started bleeding yesterday. I went to the Er and they said i got miscarriage. Cant do bed rest as well coz i have 2 boys to take care of. I actually, expecting mine to be a baby girl. Praying for you that God will grant you with a healthy baby boy.🙏🙏

    • @priscillasarfo-asante4073
      @priscillasarfo-asante4073 Před 5 měsíci

      Experiencing same. I am 10 weeks but ultrasound is measuring 6 weeks with no heartbeat. I have started spotting. No red blood yet

  • @spaceballsthechannel4153
    @spaceballsthechannel4153 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Im 9 weeks pregnant, yesterday the ultrasound showed no heartbeat, no movement. Currently waiting 4 days to repeat the ultrasound just to make sure but in my heart I know my baby is gone... But I will probably decide on a surgery because I cannot imagine carrying my dead baby for any longer

    • @victoriasharpensteen6622
      @victoriasharpensteen6622 Před 10 měsíci

      I am going through this now just had my second confirmation ultrasound now it’s the sit and wait game.

    • @USALifeDiaries
      @USALifeDiaries Před 4 měsíci

      What happened to you?

  • @wyohtheshepherd7681
    @wyohtheshepherd7681 Před 6 měsíci

    Wow 1 year later, I just had a miscarriage on 24th, leading into Christmas day it was finalized with the sac and placenta coming out fully attached and together. Very very sad. So sorry. I am going through the emotions. I feel so silly for telling so many people.

    • @syrykh
      @syrykh Před 6 měsíci

      Sorry for your loss 💔

  • @strawberryjam5844
    @strawberryjam5844 Před rokem +1

    You seem to have a very pragmatic relationship to miscarriage. I think it is important to let people know this is normal. I had one, and it was okay ❤ I was okay. It was disappointing, but I knew my body was protecting me. I started taking vitamins and do yoga, and take iodine. Iodine is often a missed missing nutrient.

    • @MommyShark
      @MommyShark  Před rokem

      When you have many things to unplanned in life , you tend to become pragmatic about it all . Wish you all the best

  • @rokovinuoangami204
    @rokovinuoangami204 Před 3 měsíci

    I had two miscarriages with no heartbeat my fist miscarriage i automatically had bleeding and my second pregnancy doctor said no heatbeat and ur fetus is not growing so u need to drop ur baby and ur 9 weeks pregnant when i heard that i was heart broken💔 doctor gave me medicine but i dont know somewhere inside i still hope my baby is ok i wanted to go again for ultrasound iam really confuse shall i wait to automatically bleed or take medicine 😢😢

  • @kocicakocica
    @kocicakocica Před 9 měsíci

    I was bleeding for 10 days total and passed the baby after 3rd or 4th day 😢

  • @USALifeDiaries
    @USALifeDiaries Před 2 měsíci

    Can anyone please tell me how long my the bleeding lasts. I have been bleeding since a month after missed miscarriage! Spotting and bleeding goes like that! How long this will take? Anyone?

  • @XXLaLa8623
    @XXLaLa8623 Před 2 lety

    My heart breaks for you. I hope baby dust to you soon. Hugs.

  • @traceyansell3844
    @traceyansell3844 Před 9 měsíci

    How can I see the next video on what the fetid looked like please

  • @zahedah80
    @zahedah80 Před 2 lety +1

    I wish you showed the sac

    • @MommyShark
      @MommyShark  Před 2 lety +1

      It’s disturbing to some… not sure people want to see it … but I did ask in my video if people want to see to reduce stress that comes with miscarriage

    • @zahedah80
      @zahedah80 Před 2 lety +1

      @@MommyShark I personally wanted to see it so I could have some idea of what to expect myself

    • @corrinebowen9412
      @corrinebowen9412 Před rokem +1

      I feel the same way. I would like to know what to expect what to look for

    • @julienj.120
      @julienj.120 Před rokem +1

      @@MommyShark hi mommy shark, pls show me the sac what a 6 weeks baby look like, i had my misssed miscarriage exactly at 6 weeks and until now i am waiting to have a natural miscarriage since it's the advice of my OB, 😭💔

  • @wolfgod-zq9vp
    @wolfgod-zq9vp Před 10 měsíci

    I have a question do a glucose drink can cause a miscarriage

    • @Rachel-pp6mn
      @Rachel-pp6mn Před 10 měsíci

      When i was pregnant with my son. My doctor gave me Glucose drink to test for gestation diabetes. It didn’t do any harm on my baby and I tested positive for gestational diabetes.

    • @rosietaylor4366
      @rosietaylor4366 Před 3 měsíci

      No

  • @symone9301
    @symone9301 Před rokem

    Thank you for sharing your story. I just learned today my baby who was suppose to be 9W 3Days had no heartbeat. Absolutely devastating news because I saw my babies heartbeat at 7 weeks. I either had a dream/nightmare because I called the clinic to book another ultrasound but they only did so a week later. I had a miscarriage that was a few weeks earlier and it was extremely painful. I don't want to have surgery and told my doctor to give me strong drugs for the pain so she prescribed morphine. I just came across your video and praying for a mild passing. I now have two angels. 🤍🤍

    • @jadewater7691
      @jadewater7691 Před rokem

      Ι also had a missed miscarriage(end of August)at 9 weeks of pregnancy 😢 I’m still crying every day.I saw my baby girl(probably my fetus was female)in sleep.She told me that if she was born she would have epilepsy convulsions and no one would like to marry her!