How To Find The PERFECT RELATIONSHIP | Jay Shetty & Radhi Shetty

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  • čas přidán 27. 08. 2020
  • One of the hardest things to do in life is find true love. If you struggle with this WATCH THIS to find out how to create a lasting romantic relationship.
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Komentáře • 710

  • @dailyaffirmations9496
    @dailyaffirmations9496 Před 3 lety +1438

    To anybody who’s reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better. May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and the doubt exit your mind right now. May clarity replace confusion. May peace and calmness fill your life.

  • @clarissagold1090
    @clarissagold1090 Před 3 lety +1032

    A perfect relationship is two imperfect people who are committed to making it work

  • @Nikolebichon
    @Nikolebichon Před 3 lety +499

    Bottom line: Clear your energy! Clear your sexual energy, stop it with the casual sex. It’s literally blocking your ability to have a happy, healthy long term relationship. Being alone for a bit won’t kill you. It’ll save you! Love ❤️

    • @peeledpapayas3712
      @peeledpapayas3712 Před 3 lety +6

      Absolutely!

    • @scarletwilson2562
      @scarletwilson2562 Před 3 lety +4

      EXACTLY

    • @alexcarter4518
      @alexcarter4518 Před 3 lety +2

      czcams.com/video/1zmBcTkrZrQ/video.html
      This is where it went... look at the comment section...and the liberals are still with their nonsense... forcing that on others.

    • @tess7539
      @tess7539 Před 3 lety +2

      💯✅❤️🙏🏼

    • @TheNaomikool
      @TheNaomikool Před 3 lety +1

      i needed to hear this

  • @caileepolanski1779
    @caileepolanski1779 Před 3 lety +303

    Their children will have the prettiest eyes oh my 😂😍

  • @sabarikanagaraju9196
    @sabarikanagaraju9196 Před 3 lety +108

    when one of them talks the other person goes Silent & completely listens - how important is it!!! No interruption- mutual respect and personal space is very important being a couple

  • @stefa22
    @stefa22 Před 3 lety +308

    Jay and Radhi have confirmed that you should start off as friends before dating. I always stand by this. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽

    • @linamya8692
      @linamya8692 Před 3 lety +16

      Yeah, but for people like me... once I see someone as a friend I can’t be romantically interested. I think In general you should just start with the right foundation and not rush into sex.

    • @stefa22
      @stefa22 Před 3 lety +8

      Lina Mya Yeah that’s true also. It all depends on the situation but yes you shouldn’t rush things

  • @sayx1058
    @sayx1058 Před 3 lety +441

    Being single and watching this lol...

    • @pranjulsharma6085
      @pranjulsharma6085 Před 3 lety +5

      I just broke up 2 months ago haha

    • @schoolbook2695
      @schoolbook2695 Před 3 lety +3

      Ha ha

    • @sayx1058
      @sayx1058 Před 3 lety +1

      @@pranjulsharma6085 lol

    • @amoghverma3108
      @amoghverma3108 Před 3 lety +9

      I'm no even an adult. But still watching because Jay Shetty is very inspiring 👍😁

    • @DiaN-do3jm
      @DiaN-do3jm Před 3 lety +2

      im not single but i still did learn something beautiful from this. definitely a great inspirational video.

  • @QuestionEverythingButWHY
    @QuestionEverythingButWHY Před 3 lety +169

    “Don't ever think I fell for you, or fell over you. I didn't fall in love, I rose in it.”
    ― Toni Morrison, Jazz

  • @ReynaSingh
    @ReynaSingh Před 3 lety +293

    Finding the right person isn't an easy task, but when you do, building the perfect relationship will come naturally. Thanks for sharing!

    • @khushizaheer3691
      @khushizaheer3691 Před 3 lety +5

      Right things happen instinctively 😊

    • @ibughunter
      @ibughunter Před 3 lety +4

      Whenever you will met a person like that your instincts will make you feel so that you can feel the aura of that person.

    • @ravengaiten6148
      @ravengaiten6148 Před 3 lety +3

      This is definitely not an easy task as people think it is. You can be with anybody but being with your soulmate is the key.

    • @SharonKenny
      @SharonKenny Před 3 lety +1

      Absolutely but you still need to nurioush and feed your relationship. :)

    • @aleftav12
      @aleftav12 Před 3 lety

      Yep! Well said sister! That’s the trick! Without a right foundation it’s possible but very hard! With the right match - it will flow naturally and they do! But we have to wait (& I have been waiting too) for what is right - otherwise yes it’s better to be single...

  • @NS-uv4co
    @NS-uv4co Před 3 lety +117

    She does not need make up, she is a beautiful woman. You guys are very cute.

  • @karlasubade7946
    @karlasubade7946 Před 3 lety +114

    I just so love how Radhi talks about her mom suggest to change her clothes when Jay visits her in their house.. which makes really sense " if he can't love me for what i'm wearing right now, then maybe it's not meant to be".. this is so true 💯. I love how you met and the way you know each other. How i wish one day i meet my partner in a perfect time and place. The person that will accept me for who i am.

  • @QuestionEverythingButWHY
    @QuestionEverythingButWHY Před 3 lety +117

    “Where there is love there is life.”
    ― Mahatma Gandhi

  • @KiritsujuEmiya
    @KiritsujuEmiya Před 3 lety +82

    I gaved up searching Love and relationship, Now I am focusing on my relationship with my own creator, and yeah I am satisfy with it. 😊

  • @khushizaheer3691
    @khushizaheer3691 Před 3 lety +57

    Gosh!! I really really like this girl RADHI, don't really know her personally, but she releases good,bubbly cheerful vibes, she seems fun loving person, full of life, and yes she is beautiful indeed❤

  • @MrJoon360
    @MrJoon360 Před 3 lety +41

    The chemistry between Jay and Radhi is so palpable, it's beautiful.

  • @farhanazm
    @farhanazm Před 3 lety +20

    Her mother is a smart lady. She recognized the real good human in you and realized that her daughter would be truly happy with a real person like you. That’s why she wanted you guys to be together. Every mother wants their daughter to be happy in their married life. So you should keep that mother in law around as long as possible because she’s SMART! 😁

  • @ZakariyeMaxamed1
    @ZakariyeMaxamed1 Před 3 lety +50

    Hope you everyone to find the right person.

  • @jadordiorre2
    @jadordiorre2 Před 3 lety +47

    This is what is missing; older generations wisdom and support in building relationships. Families need to help protect and support their children to form good partnerships.

  • @himal_pillay
    @himal_pillay Před 3 lety +86

    Remember: it's our imperfections that really make us perfect. Find the beauty in the uniqueness.

  • @IsaacOnyait
    @IsaacOnyait Před 3 lety +53

    JAY SHETTY INSPIRED ME TO START UP MY OWN CZcams CHANNEL. And I also love his relationship advices. Thank you JAY🔥

  • @tripityourself
    @tripityourself Před 3 lety +101

    You two look sooo good together. Looking at the both of you makes me believe in love again 💖💕
    Wishing you both many years of happiness together

  • @kingslayer9316
    @kingslayer9316 Před 3 lety +253

    I don't believe a real relationship exists in my generation.. "People aren't even themselves how can they be someone else's? "

    • @jancko995
      @jancko995 Před 3 lety +16

      Wrong group of people. Find new people.
      Or try to poin out this things out, in front of their faces

    • @kingslayer9316
      @kingslayer9316 Před 3 lety +3

      @@jancko995 I think I've looked for too many

    • @nadaleenbrady8183
      @nadaleenbrady8183 Před 3 lety +5

      There is someone out there for you as my mom told me it's not the time right now but you will meet that one and you will know it will be a certainty that you wont question. I met mine and we've been married over 28 yrs with 2 kids 21, and 19. It will happen give it time!

    • @escobarkanishk4638
      @escobarkanishk4638 Před 3 lety +2

      I feel you dude.

    • @kingslayer9316
      @kingslayer9316 Před 3 lety +2

      @@nadaleenbrady8183 I don't think I wanna be in a relationship anymore haha, I would lose myself over the course of it. But I'm happy for you

  • @ceevishus4130
    @ceevishus4130 Před 3 lety +16

    Hopefully in my next life I will meet my queen.. I'm 42 and I'm accepting to the fact that it is not happening in this life.. but this inspired me and warms my heart..

  • @hasnaeboudchar6611
    @hasnaeboudchar6611 Před 3 lety +14

    You guys so lucky to have parent... I dont know that feeling of having parent, encouriging family... So you're so blessed

    • @chrre09
      @chrre09 Před 3 lety +5

      You have God !😇

  • @Talkinglife
    @Talkinglife Před 3 lety +226

    basic rules to find love
    The 'You'll find love when you're not looking' approach may be wrong. ...
    Go where people like the same things you like. ...
    Look up from your phone. ...
    Don't seek romance, seek partnership. ...
    Happy people attract people. ...
    Take time to be by yourself. ...
    Instant sexual attraction often fades.

  • @pattyorejel
    @pattyorejel Před 3 lety +21

    I thought you guys were brother and sister until I saw you kiss😘... That's when I started listening to your wisdom. You are unbelievably intelligent and filled with so much knowledge it's crazy❤️❤️

  • @temitope_esther_oluwawunmi
    @temitope_esther_oluwawunmi Před 3 lety +15

    Seriously, there is no perfect relationship....but mutual understanding, support, trust, love, care , transparency, patience, endurance and all other things that follows. .. .matters a lot, seeing two imperfect people walking towards same goals.❤️❤️💯💯🙏🙏

  • @peeledpapayas3712
    @peeledpapayas3712 Před 3 lety +17

    You can't find the perfect relationship. Work on self love... the perfect love will then find you. Relax and chill out.

  • @sannejooni6042
    @sannejooni6042 Před 3 lety +11

    It’s the honest communication and acceptance with the listening and understanding of that communication. To allow each other to be themselves and love each other for that and embrace those things about them. So beautiful hearing you two speak. Love you two!

  • @sonyaburton649
    @sonyaburton649 Před 3 lety +6

    You two are the best. I feel so blessed to hear how people met through realness. No games., no expectations. Just pure love...i love you guys.

  • @Lefika8550
    @Lefika8550 Před 3 lety +2

    Your relationship with Radhi is such an inspirational one! I literally teared up when you were speaking about how you found each other, it's so magical.

  • @Nikolebichon
    @Nikolebichon Před 3 lety +5

    You both had clear energy, provided clear intentions. Bless you for showing us a great model to follow.

  • @dalilabanuelos9560
    @dalilabanuelos9560 Před 3 lety +11

    I just love their chemistry they have for each other.

    • @ilovemydog3542
      @ilovemydog3542 Před 3 lety

      Hello, am Oliver nice meeting you can I be your friend

  • @mtshaliz2
    @mtshaliz2 Před 3 lety +6

    I am so motivated by this story, it give hopes to me.

  • @blinddatereject
    @blinddatereject Před 3 lety +3

    I'm jelly at how smooth the transition was into a relationship. That quite, mutual admiration... seems nice.

  • @deepikasandal1831
    @deepikasandal1831 Před 3 lety +7

    This conversation actually brought tears in my eyes..sooo overwhelmed..luv u both..god bless u..🙏❤️🤗😇💐

  • @ibrahimsamuelofficial4188

    Wow Perfect Combination

  • @deborah9814
    @deborah9814 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank You so much for the testimonial regarding love, attraction, patience, friendship, taking time to understand a person, respecting them, learning about each other building one another up, spending quality time not only w/each other, but with family too. All comes together bautifully so blessed, she is definitely compliments You!! Yes buying book Today!! Hopeful & promising, good vibes!

  • @ChocoParfaitFra
    @ChocoParfaitFra Před 3 lety +29

    Knowing the other person BEFORE starting the relationship is essential to me. Of course you can’t know everything about someone in a short period of time but starting a relationship out of sexual attraction won’t end well, you can’t start one only for that and then know who the other person is and consequently feel shocked, or discouraged or disappointed in who they are

  • @leiyah419
    @leiyah419 Před 3 lety +71

    Single life be like... Watching this kind of videos 😅😂

  • @RahulYadav-tj9et
    @RahulYadav-tj9et Před 3 lety +21

    Love you both ❤️ from India 👍

  • @tess7539
    @tess7539 Před 3 lety

    Two beautiful souls...........So much wisdom warmth passion & kindness ❤️❤️

  • @aliceavele6299
    @aliceavele6299 Před 3 lety +1

    ❤️ This, so real. Appreciate you both for sharing your love with all of us.

  • @slavicavukanic2780
    @slavicavukanic2780 Před 3 lety

    Beautiful story. God bless both of you. 🙏❤️

  • @ronsyp
    @ronsyp Před 3 lety +48

    Jay your wife is beautiful and seems like a genuine good hearted person, you both make a good match. I hope to meet someone with such qualities.

  • @theronald6817
    @theronald6817 Před 3 lety

    Thank you.... Your message really means alot

  • @macholic6992
    @macholic6992 Před 3 lety +1

    Beautiful both of you totally inspiring

  • @aaronreau8556
    @aaronreau8556 Před 3 lety

    Thank you guys God bless

  • @margaritamariyanovaivanova4806

    Pure Love 🤍 Thank you for showing me that the Love you are spreading really exists!!!! Honest... So natural... Gorgeous both of you!!! Every time I am watching you I start asking myself. .. Is it sooo real as you are describing the relationship between two people? But than when I am watching in your eyes... The eyes are telling.. It's true and it's real!!! Thank for being You and making me full of hope that one day the real Love will come soon to every person who is prepared for that!!! 🤍🙏

  • @seemranhoro1572
    @seemranhoro1572 Před 3 lety

    Thankyou for this positive energy❤❤

  • @joysongonmei8010
    @joysongonmei8010 Před 3 lety +6

    One of the most inspiring and beautiful couples I've ever come across. Your understanding with each other and the connection with each other is really beautiful. Really look up to both of you. Wishing you more happy married life to both you.

  • @tinnnn1
    @tinnnn1 Před 3 lety

    Beautiful to watch and very touching to hear...

  • @lettielotho-chiok7589
    @lettielotho-chiok7589 Před 3 lety +3

    Am really inspired by the of you...truly amazing at how the two of you gelled and blossomed into a gorgeous couple. As Jay pointed out that if you have self-awareness and clear expectation for a healthy and true relationship, and you convey them to your prospective partner, it will be beneficial. Then, when your partner-to-be fully accepts and understands it (as Radhi did earlier on), a true and meaningful partnership/relationship happens. Learned so much from your honest viewpoints. Thanks much sharing your lovely relationship tips.

  • @chandanarachaveti4514
    @chandanarachaveti4514 Před 3 lety +4

    So adorable you guys are 😍 I was in happy tears listening to the story it's so clean and you made it perfect for each other. Love you guys.

  • @kneenoseka6708
    @kneenoseka6708 Před rokem

    So much love in their interaction I could feel it❤️❤️

  • @monkmind7
    @monkmind7 Před 3 lety

    It took me so deep into the concept, really great words.

  • @wichayan2772
    @wichayan2772 Před 3 lety +1

    This gives me hope. 🙏🏼😭

  • @paolinaast26
    @paolinaast26 Před 3 lety

    I appreciate them both for their caring videos !!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @alicesmith4185
    @alicesmith4185 Před 3 lety +1

    Its good that they just like each other and just clicked in the right time, at the right way

  • @ms.suzanna2511
    @ms.suzanna2511 Před 3 lety +5

    Fall in love with a person whilst they're being true to themselves and their family, you'll see them at their truth

  • @just.jin_
    @just.jin_ Před 3 lety +23

    Lots of love from India...♥️😊

    • @ASEANnationsRVina
      @ASEANnationsRVina Před 3 lety

      Hi from Cambodia 🇰🇭 ☺ 😊💓
      I'm ready to watch this video but just wanna drop the comment first.😆
      I love people who love to share their experiences to an unexperienced young man like me. 😄

  • @peterchew846
    @peterchew846 Před 3 lety

    God bless you two..

  • @nidanathani1306
    @nidanathani1306 Před 3 lety +25

    Is it just me that when you and the person you love look alike that's when you should be assured of the fact that yall are meant for each other! Like I mean all the best couples have got something that makes them resemble

  • @musa_2349
    @musa_2349 Před 3 lety

    you guys are such intelligent and wise people, ur incredibly nice and very entertaining to watch, jay you help me understand things better and boost my confidence, thank you and much love

  • @vidhimaru8671
    @vidhimaru8671 Před 3 lety

    So truee!!,Helped me so much!!❤️❤️

  • @Loved-ByGod
    @Loved-ByGod Před rokem

    Praying for a love like this🙏🏼

  • @divyangmachhi5843
    @divyangmachhi5843 Před 3 lety +2

    whenever i saw your videos, i feel so happy. i like the way you both are talking and specially your accent.

  • @megha8952
    @megha8952 Před 3 lety

    This gave me tears, so cute you guys. God bless 💜🤗

  • @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489

    Love all your programs.

  • @mayurisaikia5722
    @mayurisaikia5722 Před 3 lety

    They r so good at listening to each other

  • @GauravSharma-dm9wh
    @GauravSharma-dm9wh Před 3 lety

    Every time i see your videos, i feel good about myself because i am also trying to follow a path that you chose, hoping will be there one fine day. Thanks to you❤️

  • @richardjohnson8383
    @richardjohnson8383 Před 3 lety

    Your videos are seamlessly the best 🎉

  • @adityakumarjena2372
    @adityakumarjena2372 Před 3 lety +31

    Although im 19 i but i think i m gonna find a great person like radhi
    Not exactly like radhi everyone is unique.

  • @Angelic-tt8qt
    @Angelic-tt8qt Před 3 lety +1

    You both are those kind of human beings that this world needs so much. Honest, souls that belong together not only as a couple of love but also as blessings to the outer world. A couple I truly admire and independent beings that show the outer world the human services you both give from your hearts. You both inspire me, and show me that there is always a possibility to meet someone that we can deeply connect with in all parts of life ❤❤.

  • @jessmulligan3586
    @jessmulligan3586 Před 3 lety

    This made me smile - so uplifting ❤️

  • @magkdesilva
    @magkdesilva Před 10 měsíci

    This is awesome.. thank you both for sharing this.. this is very important lesson.. thank u again

  • @webeducation
    @webeducation Před 3 lety +1

    Very smart. Meet the parents first.

  • @chilufyazulu396
    @chilufyazulu396 Před 3 lety +1

    I can watch them all day everyday.

  • @eshagusain9718
    @eshagusain9718 Před 3 lety

    You people always inspire me ❤️❤️❤️

  • @amberd3985
    @amberd3985 Před 3 lety +2

    Jay that's such an amazing connection you have with your wife... you'll are best friends first...I agree with you love a person for who they really are...

  • @petradaraban5792
    @petradaraban5792 Před 3 lety

    Awesome, thank you ☺️

  • @raymantanona7038
    @raymantanona7038 Před 3 lety

    Balance is the key.

  • @DivyaSharma-it2mg
    @DivyaSharma-it2mg Před 3 lety +1

    i always got inspiration by seeing ur channel sir😇💕

  • @rekhaverse3622
    @rekhaverse3622 Před 3 lety

    I wish you a have great life together. I really like the way you both are connected and understand each other. GOD BLESS YOU BOTH!

  • @melhibbert2023
    @melhibbert2023 Před 3 lety

    This is very sweet, it gives me hope.

  • @ZubairAhmad-ir1ex
    @ZubairAhmad-ir1ex Před 3 lety +3

    A perfect relationship of husband and wife in whole world♥️❤️❤️ we love you both.

  • @Getwelllivehealthy
    @Getwelllivehealthy Před 3 lety

    Very inspiring video. Love your podcast and the wisdom you share. Can’t wait for your book. Already ordered it weeks ago. 🙏🏻

  • @sonniakamukama
    @sonniakamukama Před 2 lety

    You understand each other,I love that❤❤

  • @Jol0506
    @Jol0506 Před 3 lety +1

    This made me smile from the bottom from my heart ❤

  • @rohitisalwayspositiv
    @rohitisalwayspositiv Před 3 lety

    Thank you for sharing 😊

  • @jimmybeckizy4071
    @jimmybeckizy4071 Před 3 lety

    Saudacoes Jay Shetty. Muito obrigado pelos ensinamento que tem transmitido ao mundo e particularmente para mim. Muito obrigado por tudo.. De Mozambique-Africa. I hope to meet you one day. please come to Africa, i think many peoples need you... you changed me. thank you JS

  • @PANGKIMMAKHMAND
    @PANGKIMMAKHMAND Před 3 lety +2

    I think nobody can find perfect person because nobody is perfect but Love is loving and accepting the person for who she/he is , why she/he is and how she/he is... because together (both) only can be Perfectly Perfect. That's what makes Love so Strong and so Special...(Opinion and also how I believe)..
    God bless both of you

  • @annmarieb987
    @annmarieb987 Před 3 lety +1

    You both are so grounded, grateful loving beautiful people, can you share some of your wedding pics?♥️🙏

  • @violethocking8575
    @violethocking8575 Před rokem

    This is beautiful! And also confirms things I felt deep inside ❤

  • @alyonadsilva4946
    @alyonadsilva4946 Před 3 lety

    Your such an inspiration to me 💜

  • @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489

    My favourite speaker Jay genius

  • @tasnim1252
    @tasnim1252 Před 3 lety

    Can't agree more ❤️
    Awesome conversation

  • @Pavan-rz9uo
    @Pavan-rz9uo Před 2 lety

    This is simply blissful and beautiful. I always say today’s generation lacks the togetherness and only we can together make a difference. Love honesty doesn’t cost a thing and it’s beautiful to help and spread love wherever we go. God bless you always, wishing you peace, love and happiness 🙏☺️✨❤️💫

  • @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489

    My favourite speaker Jay genius l love his speech very much.

  • @aakashkhatri5027
    @aakashkhatri5027 Před 3 lety

    ❤️❤️❤️ the line (. SEE PEOPLE WHEN THEY ARE THEMSELVES ). ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️