I think these two are not looking deep inside themselves to see what's missing. They keep moving and looking for worldly pleasures to give them satisfaction in life. Happiness and contentment lie within yourself. I know this sounds boring and cliche but it is really true .
i have never read something so true! i moved from california to europe last year thinking i would feel better but truly i feel worse. you really need to work on yourself instead of running away in a lack of words
I dont think you realise how blessed you guys are. You have two beautiful healthy children, a beautiful home that ye guys worked hard on. Family around of you. Pause and practise gratitude.
I really don’t understand these people why are they so discontented? They have loads of money a beautiful home two healthy gorgeous children yet they are never happy. They ought to get out and do some volunteer work and give something back and maybe it would make them realise just how lucky they really are.
@@louDAY831 oh now I see why everyone is so hard on them...Ok well, don't a lot of people do that here? I mean I can disagree with someone without being a bully. We all should be able to do that. Why watch or comment if you don't like it is all I'm saying.
Please for the love of god. Dont move to CA. GET THE HOUSE IN UTAH. Put down some real roots and just enjoy. Give it some time. You can visit the beach for a long weekend and go to Hawaii for vacy. The kids are better off in the school system in utah. And its much cheaper and its not falling apart like ca. Family is more important , the kids being around all the extended family while growing up is to their benefit. You all are good at going on adventureuse trips so they arent missing out on anything. Most kids never get to do anything close to what you all do in the years to come you will look back on all the memories made in utah and not regret it.
God has blessed your young lives abundantly . If we don’t appreciate the blessings and always want more he will let you spin your wheels to your own detriment.
Frequently moving from one place to another is destructive for your kids. Just reminding you that you are parents and you're responsible for your kids wellbeing. Please be wise and put your kids first.
I agree with the others...I moved a lot as a child and loved it. I got to see much of the world at a young age that most never get a chance to do their entire lives.
I live in California. Is so beautiful. It suuuuuucks!!!! Everyone is trying to get out! I pay $4000 a year in fire insurance. We are out of power randomly throughout the summer in 110 degree heat. Homeless everywhere. I’m in a small town and there was a homeless man washing his body with the sprayer over all the produce last week. I’ve driven past so many naked people and people dedicating next to the road. We don’t use parks here. Everything is so expensive. Most people here and moving their kids into private schools or charter schools. You do what you want but my husband grew up here and he wants out. I’ve lived here 8 years and it has been incredibly challenging.
There’s a lot of mistakes in my response 🙄 that’s what I get for trying to do it while making dinner with a toddler pulling on my leg lol basically I’m sure you all are doing your research and it all depends on the area you find a house in im sure. I wish you the best of luck to your little beautiful family.
Good luck with your new place. Please don't go to California. I lived most of my life there and I love it and the people, but the traffic finally killed it for me. It takes soooo long to get anywhere in town. Took me 20 min for 2.5 miles! Love you guys!
I was born and raised in Orange County, California. Was blessed with my Mom working at Disneyland growing. It was the happiest place on Earth back then. I live on the same street I grew up on. My children went to all the schools I did. My husband surfs too. You can go snow skiing and surfing in the same day. Saying all that, I think parts of Northern California I am sure have very special places to bring up a young family still. Around Orange County it has become so expensive. Too expensive. Also our school system have changed. What they want and are teaching the kids today is messed up. But your children in a Christian school or charter school. You have great values in your family and with your friends. Keep to the smaller towns. This place is not what it used to be. We still have good people and beautiful places to visit. Do your research to the places you are looking at. Sadly the homeless problem has gotten out of hand. Do your research. You have a beautiful family. Don't change. Bless you all
Lord knows if I had to start over these days with a young family I would quit work and homeschool them. Families CAN make it on one person’s paycheck if the wife cooks the food and has fun teaching the kiddos and planting a garden together and maybe have some chickens to tend, etc. I see many young BIG families doing this nowadays. Like the good old days when the father was a biological male and was the patriarch of his family. Bring it back! Plant gardens, raise things up right, including your kiddos!
Having roots where you can raise your family and bring stability to them is more important than a man’s need to move to gain some more sense of “purpose”. You can always vacation in the places you want to live (god knows y’all have the money for it). Think of your children, not of yourself. They’re more important than the need to go surfing.
I agree. I was homeless half my childhood, either living in hotels or women’s shelters, the other half was spent living in apartments for a year or two at a time. I changed schools 9 times from kindergarten to junior year. The only home that was constant for me was my grandmothers. Especially now that my dad passed away, that house has so many memories for me and is the only HOME associated with my childhood. Everything else was just a place to survive in. My kids have grown up in one home so far and we plan on buying our first house soon. So they’ll only have to move the once. But I want a big home they can live in as long as they want. I want it big enough that everyone can come live with us if things get bad. Because I know what it’s like for things to hit a hard turn and throw you back a few paces. I can’t believe how quick some privileged people are to just jump onto the next ‘exciting’ thing. If you’re always chasing adrenaline, it will always result in temporary happiness.
What I don't understand is why did you have your house built exactly how you wanted it but now it's not "good enough" so you're going to sell it?? That makes no sense to me
It’s because they can’t rent it out during the time they spend away in Hawaii, which is a long time. It’s too expensive to just let it sit empty and they’re not willing to stop traveling or lobbing bilaterally, so it would make more sense to have a home that gives them more options and flexibility.
Born and raised in Southern California.....50+ years. I BEG you, for the sake of your kids' stay out of California . Short-term visits if you must, but it's not the place to raise your kids.
Grew up in So Cal. Lived there for over 40 yrs. I moved yrs ago and don't look back. It's a nice place to visit, but I wouldn't want to live there. Glad you are safe from the 4th. I had the worst one of my life, because next door neighbor's illegally shot them off, across the street at a City Parking Lot. It was like a war zone. Jack is super coordinated! Sunny's smile is so very cute! 💙💚💙💛
Lived in LA 20 yrs. We couldn't afford it anymore. Plus, the crime is SO high, and schools are terrible. We finally moved to SC., to be near a beach. Miss LA., CA., BUT would not go back.
@@prsldy Naturally I would expect a comment like this from a random stranger, who doesn't know me from Adam!😉 Your first mistake was assuming you knew anything about my life situation. Your second mistake was assuming I could afford to live here. I have Stage 4 kidney failure, and am now disabled. I barely survived on a SSI fixed income of $ 1'143 dollars a month. I co-lease a home with my 70 year old mother, who still works full time, in order to keep her, myself, and my 3 sons from being homeless. Our rent is 2'995.00 a month, making my half $1'497.50. I can't even pay that, so she covers my lack. We are barely making it. So when I said I can't afford to leave, I meant it! I share this in hopes that the next time you decide to assume you know about someone or something, you think twice before commenting. Be wise, do better! Have a great day!😉
I’m not a negative person but I cannot understand why these people are so dissatisfied with everything they have! What a charmed life they lead yet still they want more, bigger, better. Be satisfied with your lot!
@@louDAY831 I think that’s a bit of a reach. Children’s hair color can lighten or darken as they grow. She was born with darker hair, but considering both of her parents are naturally blond, it makes sense that her hair is getting lighter. Saying she dyed her under two year old daughter’s hair, (for the sake of being vain??) is pretty mean spirited. If you don’t like her, that’s your opinion, but you don’t have to go out of your way to be mean about it.
@@DavidMartin-rj1tv She’s always been a natural blond. She only died it back to blond recently, because she had to strip the red that she colored it. But she is a natural blond…whether she still lightens or highlights her blond, I don’t know, but she is blond.
What about your spiritual life and growth?trust me...if u don't put that first...you will NEVER BE SATISFIED no matter where you live.You will always be looking for something new to fill you up and they are ALWAYS TEMPORARY.how do i know that? I lived that too.😢😢😢😢
Their entire family is Mormon. The families are and have always been very close-knit and loving. When they lived in Hawaii they visited their parents, taking turns with each set. The boys did their required discernment period and they went on mission trips. I think everyone should understand that young families sometimes just flat out change their minds and THAT IS A-OK! I felt bad for them when they were leaving their home in Hawaii and were crying while saying goodbye to their best friends. I don’t blame them one bit for jumping at the chance to try to get that old magic back in their lives. I loved their vlogs in Hawaii. Utah, not so much. I think Sarah might have overdone it with spending so much time with Lauren and the podcast 😳, seems like they were always crying. But that ain’t my call, they are “free, white and 21” as the saying used to go. ❤🏄♀️🏄🏄♂️🤽🏼🚴🚵🏼♂️🚴♀️🚵✈️🛫⛵️🛳️🚢🛶🚁🏖️🏝️🎢⛱️☀️🌊👙🏝️🏝️m🏝️🐚🐚👧🏼👦🏼👩🏼👨🏼❤
Cali isn't the best anymore. My husband lived there and we do visit twice a year for Disneyland, but you kinda have to be on your guard more there with the homeless. I lived in Florida for a bit, you might like that better. Everything there is more relaxed and chill. But I like the one commenters idea who said that you and your brother should buy a vacation place in Hawaii together. Either way, best of luck!
With Jack, when he was a baby / toddler and they lived in Hawaii, I saw a happy couple and a dad with great relation with his son, even though they went on many 'me time' vacations. With the little girl I see a girl who is attached to grandma and grandpa since they are apparently the only most constant in her life, and a mom that's now coming over very self absorbed. 'Normal' moms of little toddlers don't speak about their cool new nails and tours with their hubby to far away cities and concerts. They are concerned about what their toddler will feel when mommy is away. And she's laughing when Sunny moves to the grandparents instead of her, after she's back from probably another holiday (I didnt watch that part, don't watch much anymore). And I read there is also a nanny? Im not sure they read these comments, nor if they understand about attachment. The first 3 to 4 years are super important but you seem to be unaware.
I don’t think Sarah is happy with Derrick. I think she is running from facing the reality of what having a family and settling down really is. She’s searching for happiness but she will never be content until she loves herself first. I don’t think she realized marrying D meant being a caregiver as well. Block me if you must but the vibes are coming through of her discontentment.
I don't know where all this is coming from. This Sarah not being happy with Derik. And then they have this house specially built for them while they were still living in Hawaii ? It's a huge house. The only thing I've noticed about their relationship is she seems to require a lot of vacations. Even left him with the kids when he was healing. I didn't think that was a good idea and I thought it was very selfish. He went on about how she deserved the trip. So sad.
She seems avoidant and disconnected from him and more into all the projects, making money, and constant superficial appearances (clothes, nails, hair). Meanwhile Derrick seems anxious, sad, and people pleasing her. He needs to give himself the love and respect she's not giving him and she needs to find her appreciation in realizing how lucky she is to have him. Maybe it's time for couples counseling. Especially since if we can pick up on the discontent, the kids sure can, and that can be very damaging for kids forming a sense of what love and connection looks like.
As much as you paid for, and waited for with your current house, I just think you need to give it more time before doing anything! Also, if you keep moving and moving, it could very well affect your kids mental and emotional health! Especially in never being happy with what they have, and always thinking they always need something else to make them happy!
@@hannahmadrid3599People are starting to wake up. In a few years' time, the criticism will become a lot more mainstream, especially because of how much damage this lifestyle can have on the children.
Oh my goodness! Sunny’s hair has really turned blonde from the sun! Both of your kids are darling. Jack did really well with the tennis racket so I hope a love of sports is in his future. I am glad you are moving closer to Tanner and Lo. One piece of unsolicited advice I will give you is, please bloom where you are planted. I think it will be great to be so close to your brother and SIL and the kids will love being close to Ozzie and Stella. But there is no “perfect home”. The family inside is what makes it perfect. If you are still longing for Hawaii, why don’t you and Tanner’s family buy a small condo together so you can spend time there a few times a year. I think a few others have suggested this. And lastly, please, please, please do not move to California. I have lived here for 45 years and raised my family here. My kids were safe and we loved it at the time. However, I wouldn’t do it today. It is crazy expensive, crime is at an all time high, when my grand kids come to visit I can’t even let them walk to the end of my driveway to get the mail without watching them like a hawk. About 10 years ago, someone tried to abduct my niece and her cousin while they were walking to the grocery store in the middle of the day. Thenkfully, a kid on his bike saw the whole thing and threw a giant rock at the man’s bank window and took a pic of his license plate. And yes, we live in a nice neighborhood. I am not trying to scare you but please do your research.
BIGGER, BETTER, MORE, DIFFERENT is a ruthless code to live by. It leaves you chasing something that it can never give you. I know you love your children who learn more by your example than your words. Please pause, seek godly counsel and look deeply into your hearts.
Living close to your family is so important. I lost my dad at 58 in May to cancer. Its has been devastating to say the least. I have 3 boys and i look back on the time they had with him and feel so so grateful for it. The memories and love they shared with him will stay with them for the rest of their lives. Life is short and precious. Im so grateful we have the best of both worlds by putting our roots down close to family yet still getting the luxury to travel to the places we love so often ❤ So happy for you guys to live in a more permanent home close to Tanner and Lo!
Tennessee is divided in three sections. Middle, East and West. I live in Middle Tennessee and Californians are moving to this beautiful state all of the time. Many of them are living within an hours drive of Nashville. We have beautiful lakes, waterfalls and rivers here but no where to surf.
So…deal with it. We California’s have been dealing with it for years. You act as though people from Tennessee and other states don’t move here. Get used to it. Enjoy the “melting pot” 😂😂😂😂
@@jaime9353 I'm not upset by anyone moving here. It is beautiful here and we have the four seasons. Sometimes all in the same day. My point on my previous post was that this family loves to surf. Even though Tennessee has a lot of water ways there is nowhere to surf here.
If you are chronically dissatisfied with life, stop moving and take a look at your marriage and your long term goals. People who financially can't afford to run away have to stay and deal with problems. Try that.
I think I’m seeing and hearing a lot of love and concern for you two and the babies. Spoken in Love, Faithful are the wounds of a Friend. Sometimes hearing the truth can hurt. Be open and honest with yourselves. Take a deep breath and Pray.
They built their “dream home” and now want to move they always want more. I like them but I’m getting tired of the constant chasing more. Never content.
Absolutely Mad! Can't believe they have a Nanny too.....These women wouldn't know what to do if their Husbands Actually go out to work everyday....They wouldn't cope...like us Normal mothers did 😮
Sunny is so cute, she looks so much like Jack. Looks like her pacifier is starting to affect her teeth. Jack is super athletic. Good luck on the house 🤞♥️
I don’t understand why you have or need a nanny. You two are home full time. Making videos and podcasts is hardly a 40 hour a week gig. Sarah seems so empty and vapid. She makes a big deal about her nails all of the time. It’s so superficial. Doesn’t she realize most of the country is broke these days. They are so not aware of how they come off. I also don’t think it’s good to constantly ask your young children what they like or want. Let them be kids. They should be playing and not burdened with all of your constant peppering them with questions. It’s like you are training / prompting them on how to answer. They are not adults and should not be included in decision making. They probably don’t feel like you two are the leaders of the family. It makes kids insecure and neurotic. As parents you should matter-of-factly tell them what you are doing instead of always asking them their opinions on adult decisions. It’s really weird. Everyone knows you only do this for the videos. Please stop. Also, Jack needs his hair cut out of his eyes. You are putting how he looks over his well being. It’s mean. He has to constantly move his hair out of his face. These two are really selfish parents. Grow up.
You should buy a house together in Hawaii, so that both families can be comfortable with the number of rooms, as your vacation home and rent it when you are not in Hawaii. 🤍🤍🤍🩵🤍🤍
I think honestly you guys and Tanner and Lauren should go in together and buy something in Hawaii to either live in together full time or use as a vacation property so you can go more often. You guys do not need the size houses you have, your families are small. You could get or build a small dual family property such as a duplex.
I couldn't stop thinking about this and even looked up some stuff on Zillow. Keep in mind I know nothing about Hawaii, real estate or anyone's real money situation. Most multiple-family properties I saw were in the 7 digits. Basic no frills properties. Even if more children join the party a family of 5 or 6 can thrive in a 3br\2ba home or apartment. And your property can be small because you are outdoor people living in recreational paradise. But if you bought a duplex there's two homes connected one for each brother's family. If you bought a triplex then you each have an apartment with one for guests as needed and then use it as offices for everyone and Lauren's music space. If you got a 4plex then you are looking at all that plus a nannyshare or rental space. And I mean really if you all pooled finances why couldn't you look into a small hotel or resort property that is mostly rentals and live there and fund everything with tourists?
I'm 8th generation Californian and I'm moving out of state due to the high cost of price gouging everything in California these days.....2 to 3 dollars more for all items and utilities across the board.....it's a better life when things aren't priced like going to Mars....😅❤🌎
Love you guys so much. But please reconsider and don't move your family to California. You will be so much happier not having to deal with the politics and housing and gas prices. It'll be healthier for your children, too, not to move Here. I love NorThern California, but be careful in your considerations.
Yea because no politics or weird shit going on in Utah. If they don’t want to be there than they should go where they want to be. I do think they should do Hawaii since they clearly miss it all the time.
For those who are confused, not everyone is materalistic. Its healthy to let things go, its healthy to move to homes better situated for you, its healthy to not settle once things go south...those are signs, dont ignore them, leave places that dont bring you peace.
I can't ignore the fact that normal people don't move over and over again. So many homeless people in our country and you move when the wind blows differently. I try not to judge but it's so unrealistic, I don't want to watch anymore. You're a very sweet family. Please ground yourself a bit. The houses, moves, constant shopping and salons, let's not forget all the vacations. 😮💨
I agree with the previous comments. My parents constantly did all those things which seemed fun, but I grew up empty and lost until I found the right path to Jesus. Most people have Satan's veil cast over them and live selfish lives and don't give God credit.👑😈
Well said. I’m feeling the same way. going to take a break from everything beeston and revisit in a couple years to see if things of substance taken priority. They could be making such a difference in this world and find happiness from getting out of themselves.
I love watching yalls videos. I’m 26 & a remote loan officer assistant & got into mortgage bc my step mom and aunt are both underwriters. As long as you provide all docs as organized as possible, since y’all are self employed you’ll need tax transcripts, maybe a letter form a CPA (depends), no big purchase, no large cash deposits, try not to move around so much bc it helps avoid less docs being required. Y’all should be able to close within 2-4 weeks once under contract. Gotta consider appraisal orders, title docs, homeowners insurance, disclosures, etc. & most importantly best of luck! 🙌🤩
It seems like your popularity and the wealth you have from your online ventures is badly influencing you. You are attempting to live a jet set life. This could easily blow up your family. I would not be surprised if your inlaws are panicked and afraid for you. Most people do not remain balanced when they quickly get famous and rich. Stay near the grandparents, they will help you stay balanced and focus on your Bible beliefs. I know you are still very young so listen to those older than you that love you. Stop running. Please.
My brother married a California girl and lives in Minnesota. Now all her siblings and parents have left California for Minnesota/ND because it’s so family friendly.
@@bekind758 Grossly over taxed, liberal policies to the point of self destruction, anti cop/pro thug, etc. I know because I've lived in MN for 50 years.
I was born and raised in Huntington Beach CA, it was a great place to grow up in the 60’s - early 80’s, we left in 1993 when my son was 3 because I did not want to raise my son there, we moved to Colorado. He had a stellar education, we camped, snow boarded, water skiied. My son and daughter-in-law have 3 boys under age of 5 they refuse to raise their boys in CA and that is living with high 6 figures income. They moved to the Ozarks, it’s beautiful, lower crime rate, family oriented, affordable. They want a place their sons can grow-up and build their own life in the family business. I live on Oahu they refuse to raise boys here, I’m leaving the island as well. For the past 25 years people that lived in CA for decades have been leaving for a reason. I really like you kids but I think you need a reality check. When you have children it becomes what is the best option for my babies growing up. I feel like the places your choosing would have been good places in the 80’s, not in today's world. You need to be teaching your children foundation and gratitude. This isn’t cute or funny anymore, it’s more than what color you want your hair this week, you need to grow-up, your raising children. Think about what you are teaching your children, basically it looks like instant gratification and never being satifisfied. Is that what you want for your children?
Very well stated. I left California in 93 as well. Funny, we moved to the Ozarks. It was a huge adjustment because the people were so kind, generous, helpful, and thoughtful. I LOVED MISSOURI! Still do. I feel like it's a selfish move taking those poor babies into California. Everything you said is TRUTH! I hope they read the comments. Be safe, ya'll. ❤
@@SR71GIRL TY. That is funny…my son and daughter in-in-law have said the same thing about the people in MO, they love it as well. Love, Light and Family…
I really love you guys but how do you go from having a house custom built to moving to a house that's already built in the same state. I thought the house you had built was pretty roomy
I think these people are young and are living their journey, and it is THEIR journey. Maybe their choices would not be your own, but I think they deserve some kindness and grace as they figure out where they need to be to live their best lives with their family and friends. It has been a joy to watch these kind hearted sweet hearts fall in love and start a family and I wish them the best.
I love you guys but something is really wrong. I pray that you will understand there is no life in material things. Please consult people are older and wiser. You will only keep chasing empty things until your hearts are grounded in God.
The children aren't far off school age. Yous will need to put your own wants on hold. Do what's best for the children . Rsther than chasing the next wave. Once their in school your time is limited for travelling.
I’ll be honest. I’m worried about what you are teaching Jack about life. Honestly, asking him if he likes the Hawaii house. Asking him if he’s going to miss the house you are currently in. It’s as if you’re teaching him that a physical house brings happiness. If you’re not happy, then you just move. That’s not realistic for most people. Teach him about love, commitment, happiness comes from family, not material things. You just shouldn’t teach him that you run away if you’re not content. Learn to be a content family. Just my humble opinion.
I would never live in California again. Was born there lived there till a8 th grade left came back moved to San Diego had my two children could get back out of there quick enough. Not good for youand adults or children…. Just my story of California…..lovelovelove ❤️🙏🏻✌🏻
We were stationed in SanDiego for four years. Had our two boys there. Never lived on or around bases. We loved it there, but could not bring ourself to raise our kids there. We came back to the Midwest!
So hard to keep up with all the moving. I wish you would slow down and stop and smell the roses. Enjoy your family. Enjoy your home. Everything seems so wishy washy. Sarah is now following Lo around like a grade school friend. Sarah even seems to imitate Lo's voice and personality. Lo is very good with her kids. She also seems very in love. Sarah doesn't seem to know what she wants to be when she grows up.
@@jennbeth1 Really? Can it be that they do all this on CZcams money?? I'm not sure how it works but Sarah and Derek don't seem to work anywhere else, and yet they have so much and it's never enough?? I'm happy for them and those kids are adorable. It just is a world I don't recognize. Still, it's a fun family to follow and I hope they find their forever home.
I rarely see them as a family doing stuff together. Do they always need others around? Who among us can put up earnest money for a home and risk losing every dime of it? Sarah seems to put more effort into her podcast so their videos aren't as interesting or fun. I adore them all so I wish them the best of everything.
@@stiengobeyn1780Exactly. It's overwhelming. Both of them work at least 3-5 hours a day. A clothing haul and combing through which sponsorships they want adds to that. It's a hard life.
Fame went to their heads. The more people watch the more important they feel, the more self absorbed they become. Hard to stay authentic with both feet still firmly planted on the ground.
@@SonetLandmanIt's only natural though. I mean 10 million dollars in the bank before your 30 😳 That's got to be a big adjustment!!! I think they're good people and are just trying to acclimate accordingly.
Do what makes you happy! I've spent too many years in places that did not make me happy. I do like the idea someone else had that y'all go into a vacation home/condo together in Hawaii. And rent it out when not there.
So I just checked the other channel. And guess what? Lo and Tanner decided to move again and made a content about this 4 weeks ago already. this is how it works. It is always Lo first and then Sarah shows the same content some time later as they do literally everything together.
I know they posted that they visited Parade homes but they seemed pretty adamant about it not being in a financial position to go that extravagant. Did I miss something? I know Matt and Abby recently explicitly stated they were considering moving.
@saraolson7730 Abby and Matt prob won't be moving they just had talked there whole family into moving there. If anything they will just buy extra place
Hi, Derik and Sara. I love watching your videos. I live with my family just outside of Los Angeles. I moved here from Iowa to go to college and never left. I love the big city, nearby beaches and mountains. San Diego has better weather and is not as crowded as LA. The water is warmer in the fall and warmer as you go farther south. But nothing like the beaches in Hawaii. I suggest visiting different parts of CA to find out more about it. The state is huge and has so many variables. If you're thinking of public school for your kids, look into where to find the best school districts. If you can afford private schools, then it won't be so hard to find good ones. Best wishes always! ❤️🧡
As someone who grew up with parents whose jobs kept them relocating from places to places and so we also had to move from one house to another house in a short period of time, it was hard for me and my siblings especially during our school years. We missed a lot of academic opportunities. It was also hard for us to have close friends as we kept on transferring schools, so we only had temporary friends that we lost contact with. Piece of advise, don't let your kids suffer from the same experience me and my siblings had because there would be a lot of regrets that they would only realize as they get older. 😢
We left Southern California (born and raised there) in 2022 and would NEVER move back. In fact, my siblings are going to moving out of the state as well. It is not what it once was. Utah is a 1000's times better. The politics, school system, etc. it stinks. My kids are so much happier where we live now.
I'm sure the commenters here wouldn't want their 'freedom to choose' messed with. Each of us have to make choices in life even if it's changing the road we travel or the home/house/box/shed we live in. You do you while I enjoy ur family videos.🫶❤️🪄✨👍
Es gibt ein Sprichwort bei uns in Deutschland, je mehr hat, je mehr er will. Was momentan auf dieser Welt passiert sollte man doch zufrieden sein, sie sind Gesund haben zwei Kinder und Geld, warum so unzufrieden mit ihrem Leben 😮
Sadly these two are looking for happiness in material things -- a different house, clothes, nail appointments. I encourage them to slow down, look inward, find meaning & inner happiness. I'm concerned they are running after empty things.
How fun it will be to live close to Lo and Tanner! I think you all will love that! Jack is soooo coordinated and athletically gifted! His eye/hand coordination is remarkable for his age! The bike riding, balancing on a mini surfboard and skateboard and snowboard last year and before that, amazed me!
I live in lived all over California at the present moment in northern California don't move your family here its one of the worst state outside of Chicago here in USA to not raise your kids many healthy safe loving blessing from our heavenly father above❤
Derik, you are such a sweetheart. Sarah, be careful you aren't disrespecting him too much just bc he's got such a kind heart. You boss him around and interrupt him.
The East coast (Atlantic) or the Gulf of Mexico, near Surfside, Texas is the best place to surf. But it doesn’t compare to Hawaii. Raise them babies somewhere you know you love! Mainland shouldn’t matter, as long as you have a trustworthy support system for the kids, when needed, that’s all that really matters ❤
I moved a lot growing up. I’m in my 60’s now. Thru out my life I have moved a lot also. Stay in your home you built. Make grand memories with you kids. You don’t want them to move a lot, they will remember all move and all the stress the family went through with each move. Plant roots and grow your family from there. Good Luck!
@@CaseyMarie11-11I know in a previous video they were upset about the rental rules of their HOA. They can’t rent their house out while traveling to Hawaii even if they’ll be gone for half the year. Never buy a house with an HOA. I don’t know a single person who doesn’t hate theirs
I can see the happiness just beaming from Derik now that he's physically mobile again! Such a relief! And Sarah, your hair is stunning! Natural beauty can't be beat! 🫶🏻
Wow, bored already? How many times are you going to pick up and move anytime you get the urge to run away? No place is perfect. But, packing up and moving isn't going to change things. Time ro grow up and piant roots. Your kids deserve to have a permanent place to call home.
What are you running from. Stop running. You're looking for prevention in life it doesn't exist. You're so scared that you made a mistake. You keep making them. We love you dearly but your fans see from the outside angel. You're looking from the inside only. We got the bigger view ❤😮
There will always be a void in your life. It can only be filled by Jesus our Savior. Ask him to come in to your lives and you will find indescribable joy and contentment.🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@@dennisfeldman7799 Dennis it is not a belief as much as it is a fact. I would never give someone false hope. Why don’t you try it a see? God bless you 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙌
@@dennisfeldman7799 How about you give me your email and I’ll send you some facts. Then if you still won’t consider the possibility that it’s a fact I will simply pray for you. God will show himself to you if you want.🙏🏼
They don’t work. That could be why they are never happy where they live. I used to follow them but they are actually boring and predictable. They whine a lot and have no idea how life really works. Influencers? For what?
Beauty fame and wealth don’t last. I predict this is not going to end well. 10-20-30 years from now, the kids will hate you for eliminating their privacy and will have emotional problems, no one will watch this crap anymore, money will dry up and you have no marketable skills, beauty will be gone. Pretty sad. Family vlogging is vile.
It seems that you are struggling with finding a place to plant your roots. You just had this home built to your specifications and now you want to move. I don't think the house is the issue.
OM gosh I remember the days when Derik would steal Jack and his skateboard and run outside so Sarah couldn't put him down for naps.. lol.. those were cute videos. love you guys.🥰
Don’t go to CA guys. It sounds nice in theory, I’ve lived in Northern CA since childhood and Southern CA most of adulthood and it sucks. So expensive, traffic is insaaaane, schools are not good, people are not friendly like they used to be..I’m looking to move now because I just can’t deal with it anymore.
@daniellegardner1658 I agree with you about Cali. But the sad part is that's happening in Hawaii, too. Like Cali, more crime, angry people who are unfriendly towards whites, jealous thieves, drug addicts and homeless people. Both Hawaii and California are insanely expensive to live there now. To own a decent home is super expensive in Cali and Hawaii because of really high property taxes. I pray the Beestons will stay close together, near family, to provide more safety, security, and stability for their children. I hope they will save some of their money for whatever lies ahead. They could look into opening a Beeston Family Trust Fund and also, find ways to insure everything they own and life insurance on both parents in case anything happens to one or the other. Car Shield, Home Shield, Lifelock, and Titlelock are also good investments to protect your family.
The capital gains tax is 50% if you sale your house in less than 2 years of ownership. Material things will never satisfy you. Work on your marriage just my opinion but these 2 have seem to have grown apart. Sarah seems as if she isnt really in to him, she seems to have matured which happens after having children and he seems sort of boyish.
The last time our city had people gather in the park for fireworks for the fair days, fireworks were exploding only feet from the ground, very close to the crowd. My son was 6 and I was shielding him to keep him from getting hit. Several people around us, including a little girl sitting right behind us, were hit. They ended the show early when a dumpster near the staging area caught fire. It was a literal dumpster fire. The emts were treating people at the ambulance as we walked back to our car. Now, they set the fireworks off in a central location that can be seen from most homes and several parks with a wide clearance to prevent injuries. That was 2019 and I only went back to a fireworks show last year. And even then it was a last minute decision on the 4th. It was scary. This was also in Utah.
Love when the comments tell me everything I need to see in the video 😂 thanks y’all.
I think these two are not looking deep inside themselves to see what's missing. They keep moving and looking for worldly pleasures to give them satisfaction in life. Happiness and contentment lie within yourself. I know this sounds boring and cliche but it is really true .
They gotta do something to come up with content
@@christiinohio681at what price?
I agree. I think they jumped the gun leaving Hawaii. U could tell they we're questioning their decisions when they moved
@@gingerlancaster3033 At the time, they were ready because of all the crime happening to them there.
Go somewhere else with your negative comments.
Wherever you move, you'll always take your emptiness with you.
I think a more gracious way of saying it is “ you take yourself wherever you go “
That's definitely true, especially if you don't have the spirit of our father God living within you.
i have never read something so true! i moved from california to europe last year thinking i would feel better but truly i feel worse. you really need to work on yourself instead of running away in a lack of words
😂 so vapid
What is wrong w you lol
I dont think you realise how blessed you guys are. You have two beautiful healthy children, a beautiful home that ye guys worked hard on. Family around of you. Pause and practise gratitude.
Yes, I totally agree!
What in this video tells you that they don't feel blessed to spend time in both Utah and Hawaii with family?
I really don’t understand these people why are they so discontented? They have loads of money a beautiful home two healthy gorgeous children yet they are never happy. They ought to get out and do some volunteer work and give something back and maybe it would make them realise just how lucky they really are.
They’re looking for contentment in all the wrong places.
These people are being bullied online to the point that I'm not sure why they are still posting anymore except for to prove haters have no power.
@@Pancakes037 They do it for the money.
@@louDAY831 oh now I see why everyone is so hard on them...Ok well, don't a lot of people do that here? I mean I can disagree with someone without being a bully. We all should be able to do that. Why watch or comment if you don't like it is all I'm saying.
@@sharonowen sarahs always happy when ever shes on Lo and Tanners videos.
Please for the love of god. Dont move to CA. GET THE HOUSE IN UTAH. Put down some real roots and just enjoy. Give it some time. You can visit the beach for a long weekend and go to Hawaii for vacy. The kids are better off in the school system in utah. And its much cheaper and its not falling apart like ca. Family is more important , the kids being around all the extended family while growing up is to their benefit. You all are good at going on adventureuse trips so they arent missing out on anything. Most kids never get to do anything close to what you all do in the years to come you will look back on all the memories made in utah and not regret it.
Ummmmm there in Utah lol. That's where they live
If we’re all still here things are getting real bad pay attention
@@janapaslay4008 what
@@moderator7169 I think the moderator means get the second house they're looking at in Utah.
@@louDAY831 maybe
Born, raised in southern cacafornia. Left never looked back never regret don't go there please dont go !!
Cacafornia😂😂😂😂 as a born and raised San Diegan who is contempting leaving, this is hilarious lol
Why 😂
God has blessed your young lives abundantly . If we don’t appreciate the blessings and always want more he will let you spin your wheels to your own detriment.
Frequently moving from one place to another is destructive for your kids. Just reminding you that you are parents and you're responsible for your kids wellbeing. Please be wise and put your kids first.
Untrue. I liked moving to a new house. It was fun.
That’s completely untrue. I have cousins. I moved all over the country entire childhood and they love it and wish they could do it with their kids.
Absolutely not true! There are many families that travel & move a lot. Look at military families! Smh
If they're moving to be "closer to family", how could that be a negative thing?
I agree with the others...I moved a lot as a child and loved it. I got to see much of the world at a young age that most never get a chance to do their entire lives.
I live in California. Is so beautiful. It suuuuuucks!!!! Everyone is trying to get out! I pay $4000 a year in fire insurance. We are out of power randomly throughout the summer in 110 degree heat. Homeless everywhere. I’m in a small town and there was a homeless man washing his body with the sprayer over all the produce last week. I’ve driven past so many naked people and people dedicating next to the road. We don’t use parks here. Everything is so expensive. Most people here and moving their kids into private schools or charter schools. You do what you want but my husband grew up here and he wants out. I’ve lived here 8 years and it has been incredibly challenging.
There’s a lot of mistakes in my response 🙄 that’s what I get for trying to do it while making dinner with a toddler pulling on my leg lol basically I’m sure you all are doing your research and it all depends on the area you find a house in im sure. I wish you the best of luck to your little beautiful family.
@@lizpapa4503 not everyone.
@@lizpapa4503
Bloom where you’re planted ❤️🌳
And that is the LEAST of it! Nusome has RUINED C.A. w/ his Progressive policies! It IS Literally turning into a Sh*thole!!!
Come together and vote different. Don't run from your home, change it.
Good luck with your new place. Please don't go to California. I lived most of my life there and I love it and the people, but the traffic finally killed it for me. It takes soooo long to get anywhere in town. Took me 20 min for 2.5 miles!
Love you guys!
Where do you live now and how much better is it beside the traffic?
I was born and raised in Orange County, California. Was blessed with my Mom working at Disneyland growing. It was the happiest place on Earth back then. I live on the same street I grew up on. My children went to all the schools I did. My husband surfs too. You can go snow skiing and surfing in the same day. Saying all that, I think parts of Northern California I am sure have very special places to bring up a young family still. Around Orange County it has become so expensive. Too expensive. Also our school system have changed. What they want and are teaching the kids today is messed up. But your children in a Christian school or charter school. You have great values in your family and with your friends. Keep to the smaller towns. This place is not what it used to be. We still have good people and beautiful places to visit. Do your research to the places you are looking at. Sadly the homeless problem has gotten out of hand. Do your research. You have a beautiful family. Don't change. Bless you all
I was raised in Orange County and I would never move back to CA.
Lord knows if I had to start over these days with a young family I would quit work and homeschool them. Families CAN make it on one person’s paycheck if the wife cooks the food and has fun teaching the kiddos and planting a garden together and maybe have some chickens to tend, etc. I see many young BIG families doing this nowadays. Like the good old days when the father was a biological male and was the patriarch of his family. Bring it back! Plant gardens, raise things up right, including your kiddos!
Discontentment fuels anxiety and robs us from peace and serenity
Having roots where you can raise your family and bring stability to them is more important than a man’s need to move to gain some more sense of “purpose”. You can always vacation in the places you want to live (god knows y’all have the money for it).
Think of your children, not of yourself. They’re more important than the need to go surfing.
I agree. I was homeless half my childhood, either living in hotels or women’s shelters, the other half was spent living in apartments for a year or two at a time. I changed schools 9 times from kindergarten to junior year. The only home that was constant for me was my grandmothers. Especially now that my dad passed away, that house has so many memories for me and is the only HOME associated with my childhood. Everything else was just a place to survive in. My kids have grown up in one home so far and we plan on buying our first house soon. So they’ll only have to move the once. But I want a big home they can live in as long as they want. I want it big enough that everyone can come live with us if things get bad. Because I know what it’s like for things to hit a hard turn and throw you back a few paces.
I can’t believe how quick some privileged people are to just jump onto the next ‘exciting’ thing. If you’re always chasing adrenaline, it will always result in temporary happiness.
What I don't understand is why did you have your house built exactly how you wanted it but now it's not "good enough" so you're going to sell it?? That makes no sense to me
SO AGREE!
They mentioned something about a crappy HOA situation. I will NEVER live in an HOA, so I get it.
It’s because they can’t rent it out during the time they spend away in Hawaii, which is a long time. It’s too expensive to just let it sit empty and they’re not willing to stop traveling or lobbing bilaterally, so it would make more sense to have a home that gives them more options and flexibility.
HOA . No onecwants to have thier home under other people's instructions.
And next year they’ll be announcing that they are moving once again….
Sunny is looking more and more like Jack's twin 💙🩷✨. So Sweet Both Kids!!!
Yes, they are adorable.❤
Yes they do
Born and raised in Southern California.....50+ years. I BEG you, for the sake of your kids' stay out of California . Short-term visits if you must, but it's not the place to raise your kids.
Agree. Raised mine in norcal. Wish we had stayed east coast
Ditto...
LoL, jealous much?😂
1000%
New York either!!!!! The Democrats have ruined both states!!!
Wherever you go, there you are..
Grew up in So Cal. Lived there for over 40 yrs. I moved yrs ago and don't look back. It's a nice place to visit, but I wouldn't want to live there. Glad you are safe from the 4th. I had the worst one of my life, because next door neighbor's illegally shot them off, across the street at a City Parking Lot. It was like a war zone. Jack is super coordinated! Sunny's smile is so very cute! 💙💚💙💛
Lived in LA 20 yrs. We couldn't afford it anymore. Plus, the crime is SO high, and schools are terrible. We finally moved to SC., to be near a beach. Miss LA., CA., BUT would not go back.
As a 50 year old California resident born and raised, please do not move here. If I could afford to leave, I would!😉
@@prsldy😂 but for real!!!!!!!!!
Why???
Born and raised in California. Wouldn't go back
@@gingerlancaster3033 exactly!!!!!
@@prsldy Naturally I would expect a comment like this from a random stranger, who doesn't know me from Adam!😉 Your first mistake was assuming you knew anything about my life situation. Your second mistake was assuming I could afford to live here. I have Stage 4 kidney failure, and am now disabled. I barely survived on a SSI fixed income of $ 1'143 dollars a month. I co-lease a home with my 70 year old mother, who still works full time, in order to keep her, myself, and my 3 sons from being homeless. Our rent is 2'995.00 a month, making my half $1'497.50. I can't even pay that, so she covers my lack. We are barely making it. So when I said I can't afford to leave, I meant it! I share this in hopes that the next time you decide to assume you know about someone or something, you think twice before commenting. Be wise, do better! Have a great day!😉
I’m not a negative person but I cannot understand why these people are so dissatisfied with everything they have! What a charmed life they lead yet still they want more, bigger, better. Be satisfied with your lot!
Sunny’s hair is so blond all of a sudden! She and Jack are just precious! Hope your family finds the right living situation for all of you.
I love you guys!! Hope everyone is doing well. Don't leave Utah. You guys stay safe and have a nice evening!!
Sarah probably dyed it.
@@louDAY831 I think that’s a bit of a reach. Children’s hair color can lighten or darken as they grow. She was born with darker hair, but considering both of her parents are naturally blond, it makes sense that her hair is getting lighter. Saying she dyed her under two year old daughter’s hair, (for the sake of being vain??) is pretty mean spirited. If you don’t like her, that’s your opinion, but you don’t have to go out of your way to be mean about it.
Mom dyes bleaches hair, so not a natural blonde
@@DavidMartin-rj1tv She’s always been a natural blond. She only died it back to blond recently, because she had to strip the red that she colored it. But she is a natural blond…whether she still lightens or highlights her blond, I don’t know, but she is blond.
What about your spiritual life and growth?trust me...if u don't put that first...you will NEVER BE SATISFIED no matter where you live.You will always be looking for something new to fill you up and they are ALWAYS TEMPORARY.how do i know that? I lived that too.😢😢😢😢
It's true they need look from inside
Their entire family is Mormon. The families are and have always been very close-knit and loving. When they lived in Hawaii they visited their parents, taking turns with each set. The boys did their required discernment period and they went on mission trips. I think everyone should understand that young families sometimes just flat out change their minds and THAT IS A-OK! I felt bad for them when they were leaving their home in Hawaii and were crying while saying goodbye to their best friends. I don’t blame them one bit for jumping at the chance to try to get that old magic back in their lives. I loved their vlogs in Hawaii. Utah, not so much. I think Sarah might have overdone it with spending so much time with Lauren and the podcast 😳, seems like they were always crying. But that ain’t my call, they are “free, white and 21” as the saying used to go. ❤🏄♀️🏄🏄♂️🤽🏼🚴🚵🏼♂️🚴♀️🚵✈️🛫⛵️🛳️🚢🛶🚁🏖️🏝️🎢⛱️☀️🌊👙🏝️🏝️m🏝️🐚🐚👧🏼👦🏼👩🏼👨🏼❤
Beginning to wonder if they appreciate things.. Always never satisfied. Hope they find some happiness .
No California. Its so not safe anymore. Neither is Hawaii for that matter. Utah seems pretty wholesome for kids to grow up.
Utah is backwards not wholesome.
Why would you want to move to CA! I hope you seriously reconsider.
Cali isn't the best anymore. My husband lived there and we do visit twice a year for Disneyland, but you kinda have to be on your guard more there with the homeless. I lived in Florida for a bit, you might like that better. Everything there is more relaxed and chill. But I like the one commenters idea who said that you and your brother should buy a vacation place in Hawaii together. Either way, best of luck!
Flori-duh is horrible now...insane insurance costs, property taxes and very trashy. We moved to Mexico.
@@cmt635Dang that was a huge leap.
@@cmt635swapping countries 😂 Mexico is running empty filling America up.
I just don’t completely trust “Lo-Lo”. Just my gut instinct from watching them when they had their own show in Hawaii.
People,its time to grow up🙄you have children who need stability😐
Agree
And stop exploiting children in net! They need privacy. Adults do wrong earning money by children.
Nnnnooooo don't move. Your families are the most important.
@connieshroyer3833 they said that if one of the families moves to Hawaii, the other family moves too.
With Jack, when he was a baby / toddler and they lived in Hawaii, I saw a happy couple and a dad with great relation with his son, even though they went on many 'me time' vacations. With the little girl I see a girl who is attached to grandma and grandpa since they are apparently the only most constant in her life, and a mom that's now coming over very self absorbed. 'Normal' moms of little toddlers don't speak about their cool new nails and tours with their hubby to far away cities and concerts.
They are concerned about what their toddler will feel when mommy is away. And she's laughing when Sunny moves to the grandparents instead of her, after she's back from probably another holiday (I didnt watch that part, don't watch much anymore).
And I read there is also a nanny?
Im not sure they read these comments, nor if they understand about attachment. The first 3 to 4 years are super important but you seem to be unaware.
Well said!
I don’t think Sarah is happy with Derrick. I think she is running from facing the reality of what having a family and settling down really is. She’s searching for happiness but she will never be content until she loves herself first. I don’t think she realized marrying D meant being a caregiver as well. Block me if you must but the vibes are coming through of her discontentment.
I agree
100%! I’ve been saying something’s seriously off for a while. She’s more into Tanner than Derik.
I don't know where all this is coming from. This Sarah not being happy with Derik. And then they have this house specially built for them while they were still living in Hawaii ? It's a huge house. The only thing I've noticed about their relationship is she seems to require a lot of vacations. Even left him with the kids when he was healing. I didn't think that was a good idea and I thought it was very selfish. He went on about how she deserved the trip. So sad.
She seems avoidant and disconnected from him and more into all the projects, making money, and constant superficial appearances (clothes, nails, hair). Meanwhile Derrick seems anxious, sad, and people pleasing her. He needs to give himself the love and respect she's not giving him and she needs to find her appreciation in realizing how lucky she is to have him. Maybe it's time for couples counseling. Especially since if we can pick up on the discontent, the kids sure can, and that can be very damaging for kids forming a sense of what love and connection looks like.
I didn't think they were a good match from the git-go.
As much as you paid for, and waited for with your current house, I just think you need to give it more time before doing anything! Also, if you keep moving and moving, it could very well affect your kids mental and emotional health! Especially in never being happy with what they have, and always thinking they always need something else to make them happy!
Yup, they have 0 stability. Their parents are constantly gone and they're constantly on the move. Horrible for children's development.
@Nicole0816 yup. I always wonder why so many people support these family vloggers. They aren't the greatest people, and it's all a facade
@@hannahmadrid3599People are starting to wake up. In a few years' time, the criticism will become a lot more mainstream, especially because of how much damage this lifestyle can have on the children.
@@hannahmadrid3599People are starting to wake up. In a few years' time, the criticism will become a lot more mainstream.
@@hannahmadrid3599by watching and commenting you are supporting them as well.
Oh my goodness! Sunny’s hair has really turned blonde from the sun! Both of your kids are darling. Jack did really well with the tennis racket so I hope a love of sports is in his future.
I am glad you are moving closer to Tanner and Lo. One piece of unsolicited advice I will give you is, please bloom where you are planted. I think it will be great to be so close to your brother and SIL and the kids will love being close to Ozzie and Stella. But there is no “perfect home”. The family inside is what makes it perfect.
If you are still longing for Hawaii, why don’t you and Tanner’s family buy a small condo together so you can spend time there a few times a year. I think a few others have suggested this.
And lastly, please, please, please do not move to California. I have lived here for 45 years and raised my family here. My kids were safe and we loved it at the time. However, I wouldn’t do it today. It is crazy expensive, crime is at an all time high, when my grand kids come to visit I can’t even let them walk to the end of my driveway to get the mail without watching them like a hawk.
About 10 years ago, someone tried to abduct my niece and her cousin while they were walking to the grocery store in the middle of the day. Thenkfully, a kid on his bike saw the whole thing and threw a giant rock at the man’s bank window and took a pic of his license plate. And yes, we live in a nice neighborhood.
I am not trying to scare you but please do your research.
😮😮 shocking and scary.
BIGGER, BETTER, MORE, DIFFERENT is a ruthless code to live by. It leaves you chasing something that it can never give you. I know you love your children who learn more by your example than your words. Please pause, seek godly counsel and look deeply into your hearts.
What does this have to do with religion.
California isn’t like it once was..don’t move there 🙏
Oh dear God NO! That's NOT a good place to be, especially raising children!!!
@@CherylBerryl it's actually very safe and the best schools. Great place for kids.
@@katerinahernandez4778I've seen probably a hundred comments saying otherwise 😬
I was born and raised in Southern California and still live here, I turned out okay. 🥰
California succccccks!!!!!!!!
Living close to your family is so important. I lost my dad at 58 in May to cancer. Its has been devastating to say the least. I have 3 boys and i look back on the time they had with him and feel so so grateful for it. The memories and love they shared with him will stay with them for the rest of their lives. Life is short and precious. Im so grateful we have the best of both worlds by putting our roots down close to family yet still getting the luxury to travel to the places we love so often ❤ So happy for you guys to live in a more permanent home close to Tanner and Lo!
Tennessee is divided in three sections. Middle, East and West.
I live in Middle Tennessee and Californians are moving to this beautiful state all of the time.
Many of them are living within an hours drive of Nashville.
We have beautiful lakes, waterfalls and rivers here but no where to surf.
That's great. So they can bring their shitty voting practices to TN.
So…deal with it. We California’s have been dealing with it for years. You act as though people from Tennessee and other states don’t move here. Get used to it. Enjoy the “melting pot” 😂😂😂😂
I live in middle Tennessee. I moved here from Louisiana 11 years ago and I love it here.
@jaime9353 what are you telling them to deal with? They didn't complain about people moving here. They were stating facts.
@@jaime9353
I'm not upset by anyone moving here.
It is beautiful here and we have the four seasons.
Sometimes all in the same day.
My point on my previous post was that this family loves to surf.
Even though Tennessee has a lot of water ways there is nowhere to surf here.
If you are chronically dissatisfied with life, stop moving and take a look at your marriage and your long term goals. People who financially can't afford to run away have to stay and deal with problems. Try that.
I think I’m seeing and hearing a lot of love and concern for you two and the babies. Spoken in Love, Faithful are the wounds of a Friend. Sometimes hearing the truth can hurt. Be open and honest with yourselves. Take a deep breath and Pray.
They built their “dream home” and now want to move they always want more. I like them but I’m getting tired of the constant chasing more. Never content.
Yes!!!! They won’t ever be happy
The 'dream home' was badly designed, the baby had to live in the basement!
Absolutely Mad! Can't believe they have a Nanny too.....These women wouldn't know what to do if their Husbands Actually go out to work everyday....They wouldn't cope...like us Normal mothers did 😮
@@PaganPunk
So how do they afford it?
I don’t think I’ve ever learned what type of work either one does to make all this cash to travel and build fancy homes. Anyone know?
Sunny is so cute, she looks so much like Jack. Looks like her pacifier is starting to affect her teeth. Jack is super athletic. Good luck on the house 🤞♥️
They wont last a yr in California! It will be detrimental to their kids. God bless them fr! Everyone is moving out of California no one is moving in.
I don’t understand why you have or need a nanny. You two are home full time. Making videos and podcasts is hardly a 40 hour a week gig. Sarah seems so empty and vapid. She makes a big deal about her nails all of the time. It’s so superficial. Doesn’t she realize most of the country is broke these days. They are so not aware of how they come off. I also don’t think it’s good to constantly ask your young children what they like or want. Let them be kids. They should be playing and not burdened with all of your constant peppering them with questions. It’s like you are training / prompting them on how to answer. They are not adults and should not be included in decision making. They probably don’t feel like you two are the leaders of the family. It makes kids insecure and neurotic. As parents you should matter-of-factly tell them what you are doing instead of always asking them their opinions on adult decisions. It’s really weird. Everyone knows you only do this for the videos. Please stop. Also, Jack needs his hair cut out of his eyes. You are putting how he looks over his well being. It’s mean. He has to constantly move his hair out of his face. These two are really selfish parents. Grow up.
You should buy a house together in Hawaii, so that both families can be comfortable with the number of rooms, as your vacation home and rent it when you are not in Hawaii.
🤍🤍🤍🩵🤍🤍
That’s a good idea! They should do it ❤
Leave Hawaiians alone already
@@1221sabmur 🤣🤣🤣
Well, with their endless supply of money, yes, they could probably afford owning two houses.
I think honestly you guys and Tanner and Lauren should go in together and buy something in Hawaii to either live in together full time or use as a vacation property so you can go more often. You guys do not need the size houses you have, your families are small. You could get or build a small dual family property such as a duplex.
Ya or even a timeshare?
This would be a good common sense approach…
I couldn't stop thinking about this and even looked up some stuff on Zillow. Keep in mind I know nothing about Hawaii, real estate or anyone's real money situation. Most multiple-family properties I saw were in the 7 digits. Basic no frills properties. Even if more children join the party a family of 5 or 6 can thrive in a 3br\2ba home or apartment. And your property can be small because you are outdoor people living in recreational paradise.
But if you bought a duplex there's two homes connected one for each brother's family. If you bought a triplex then you each have an apartment with one for guests as needed and then use it as offices for everyone and Lauren's music space. If you got a 4plex then you are looking at all that plus a nannyshare or rental space. And I mean really if you all pooled finances why couldn't you look into a small hotel or resort property that is mostly rentals and live there and fund everything with tourists?
Agreed
Where does Sarah work?
I'm 8th generation Californian and I'm moving out of state due to the high cost of price gouging everything in California these days.....2 to 3 dollars more for all items and utilities across the board.....it's a better life when things aren't priced like going to Mars....😅❤🌎
Love you guys so much. But please reconsider and don't move your family to California. You will be so much happier not having to deal with the politics and housing and gas prices. It'll be healthier for your children, too, not to move Here. I love NorThern California, but be careful in your considerations.
There's politics in Utah too.
Yea because no politics or weird shit going on in Utah. If they don’t want to be there than they should go where they want to be. I do think they should do Hawaii since they clearly miss it all the time.
@@jeanettelester9609yea awful ones .
For those who are confused, not everyone is materalistic. Its healthy to let things go, its healthy to move to homes better situated for you, its healthy to not settle once things go south...those are signs, dont ignore them, leave places that dont bring you peace.
I can't ignore the fact that normal people don't move over and over again. So many homeless people in our country and you move when the wind blows differently. I try not to judge but it's so unrealistic, I don't want to watch anymore. You're a very sweet family. Please ground yourself a bit. The houses, moves, constant shopping and salons, let's not forget all the vacations. 😮💨
Agree, it's getting to be too much.
I agree they are completely unrelatable now no matter how nice ppl they are
I agree with the previous comments. My parents constantly did all those things which seemed fun, but I grew up empty and lost until I found the right path to Jesus. Most people have Satan's veil cast over them and live selfish lives and don't give God credit.👑😈
Well said. I’m feeling the same way. going to take a break from everything beeston and revisit in a couple years to see if things of substance taken priority. They could be making such a difference in this world and find happiness from getting out of themselves.
If I could do it, I would. Good for them! Also we do help. I am happy for them! Best of luck and much love ❤
I love watching yalls videos. I’m 26 & a remote loan officer assistant & got into mortgage bc my step mom and aunt are both underwriters. As long as you provide all docs as organized as possible, since y’all are self employed you’ll need tax transcripts, maybe a letter form a CPA (depends), no big purchase, no large cash deposits, try not to move around so much bc it helps avoid less docs being required. Y’all should be able to close within 2-4 weeks once under contract. Gotta consider appraisal orders, title docs, homeowners insurance, disclosures, etc.
& most importantly best of luck! 🙌🤩
It seems like your popularity and the wealth you have from your online ventures is badly influencing you. You are attempting to live a jet set life. This could easily blow up your family. I would not be surprised if your inlaws are panicked and afraid for you. Most people do not remain balanced when they quickly get famous and rich. Stay near the grandparents, they will help you stay balanced and focus on your Bible beliefs. I know you are still very young so listen to those older than you that love you. Stop running. Please.
My brother married a California girl and lives in Minnesota. Now all her siblings and parents have left California for Minnesota/ND because it’s so family friendly.
Minnesota is California Jr.
I live in Fargo, ND/Moorhead, MN and it’s really nice here.
@@lisaerickson6533How do you think they are alike? Truly just curious.
@@bekind758 Grossly over taxed, liberal policies to the point of self destruction, anti cop/pro thug, etc. I know because I've lived in MN for 50 years.
I was born and raised in Huntington Beach CA, it was a great place to grow up in the 60’s - early 80’s, we left in 1993 when my son was 3 because I did not want to raise my son there, we moved to Colorado. He had a stellar education, we camped, snow boarded, water skiied. My son and daughter-in-law have 3 boys under age of 5 they refuse to raise their boys in CA and that is living with high 6 figures income. They moved to the Ozarks, it’s beautiful, lower crime rate, family oriented, affordable. They want a place their sons can grow-up and build their own life in the family business. I live on Oahu they refuse to raise boys here, I’m leaving the island as well. For the past 25 years people that lived in CA for decades have been leaving for a reason. I really like you kids but I think you need a reality check. When you have children it becomes what is the best option for my babies growing up. I feel like the places your choosing would have been good places in the 80’s, not in today's world. You need to be teaching your children foundation and gratitude. This isn’t cute or funny anymore, it’s more than what color you want your hair this week, you need to grow-up, your raising children. Think about what you are teaching your children, basically it looks like instant gratification and never being satifisfied. Is that what you want for your children?
Preach 🙏🏻
Very well stated. I left California in 93 as well. Funny, we moved to the Ozarks. It was a huge adjustment because the people were so kind, generous, helpful, and thoughtful. I LOVED MISSOURI! Still do.
I feel like it's a selfish move taking those poor babies into California.
Everything you said is TRUTH! I hope they read the comments. Be safe, ya'll. ❤
@@SR71GIRL TY. That is funny…my son and daughter in-in-law have said the same thing about the people in MO, they love it as well. Love, Light and Family…
Geesh. I think they are doing just fine.
Sunny looks more like Jack all the time.❤
I really love you guys but how do you go from having a house custom built to moving to a house that's already built in the same state. I thought the house you had built was pretty roomy
I think these people are young and are living their journey, and it is THEIR journey. Maybe their choices would not be your own, but I think they deserve some kindness and grace as they figure out where they need to be to live their best lives with their family and friends. It has been a joy to watch these kind hearted sweet hearts fall in love and start a family and I wish them the best.
I love you guys but something is really wrong. I pray that you will understand there is no life in material things. Please consult people are older and wiser. You will only keep chasing empty things until your hearts are grounded in God.
The children aren't far off school age. Yous will need to put your own wants on hold. Do what's best for the children . Rsther than chasing the next wave. Once their in school your time is limited for travelling.
So now is time to move before it happens. They need to go back to Hawaii.
I’ll be honest. I’m worried about what you are teaching Jack about life. Honestly, asking him if he likes the Hawaii house. Asking him if he’s going to miss the house you are currently in. It’s as if you’re teaching him that a physical house brings happiness. If you’re not happy, then you just move. That’s not realistic for most people. Teach him about love, commitment, happiness comes from family, not material things. You just shouldn’t teach him that you run away if you’re not content. Learn to be a content family. Just my humble opinion.
Maybe a little dramatic 😖..... They are "moving" .... it's the topic they're on right now.
I would never live in California again. Was born there lived there till a8 th grade left came back moved to San Diego had my two children could get back out of there quick enough. Not good for youand adults or children…. Just my story of California…..lovelovelove ❤️🙏🏻✌🏻
We were stationed in SanDiego for four years. Had our two boys there. Never lived on or around bases. We loved it there, but could not bring ourself to raise our kids there. We came back to the Midwest!
California is very expensive!
So is Hawaii.
Money doesn't seem to be an object with them.
So hard to keep up with all the moving. I wish you would slow down and stop and smell the roses. Enjoy your family. Enjoy your home. Everything seems so wishy washy. Sarah is now following Lo around like a grade school friend. Sarah even seems to imitate Lo's voice and personality. Lo is very good with her kids. She also seems very in love.
Sarah doesn't seem to know what she wants to be when she grows up.
They don't realize that this CZcams money is short-lived. They seem so naive and sheltered.
Kids will be in school soon and that'll instill a routine and focus
@@jennbeth1 Really? Can it be that they do all this on CZcams money?? I'm not sure how it works but Sarah and Derek don't seem to work anywhere else, and yet they have so much and it's never enough?? I'm happy for them and those kids are adorable. It just is a world I don't recognize. Still, it's a fun family to follow and I hope they find their forever home.
Sarah really copies Lo and it’s cringey 😬
I rarely see them as a family doing stuff together. Do they always need others around? Who among us can put up earnest money for a home and risk losing every dime of it? Sarah seems to put more effort into her podcast so their videos aren't as interesting or fun. I adore them all so I wish them the best of everything.
I didn't know u had a NANNY 😮 u both are home not working ,only (CZcams) once in a couple of weeks,,so im lost
Do you have any idea how much work a youtube channel is? +Tiktok, instagram, social media,...
@@stiengobeyn1780Exactly. It's overwhelming. Both of them work at least 3-5 hours a day. A clothing haul and combing through which sponsorships they want adds to that. It's a hard life.
Please consider your kids need stability and consistency at this young age .Get your son in a good preschool and stay put for a while .
Didn't you just buy and build a house?
Yes
Seriously
Yeah, nothing like growing roots....!
I thought you built your dream forever home ??
I think they found out after the fact that their HOA won't allow them to rent out their new home.
I used to like these guys but they are starting to come across as more superficial than before. Idk. I'm not impressed
Fame went to their heads. The more people watch the more important they feel, the more self absorbed they become. Hard to stay authentic with both feet still firmly planted on the ground.
@@SonetLandmanIt's only natural though. I mean 10 million dollars in the bank before your 30 😳 That's got to be a big adjustment!!! I think they're good people and are just trying to acclimate accordingly.
Do what makes you happy! I've spent too many years in places that did not make me happy. I do like the idea someone else had that y'all go into a vacation home/condo together in Hawaii. And rent it out when not there.
So I just checked the other channel. And guess what? Lo and Tanner decided to move again and made a content about this 4 weeks ago already. this is how it works. It is always Lo first and then Sarah shows the same content some time later as they do literally everything together.
I know they posted that they visited Parade homes but they seemed pretty adamant about it not being in a financial position to go that extravagant. Did I miss something? I know Matt and Abby recently explicitly stated they were considering moving.
Lo and Tanner aren't moving. They went out and looked and Parade Homes to find inspiration for finishing their current dream home basement.
A lot of companies are now paying for renovations on top of commissions, from a business standpoint it’s a good move on them
@saraolson7730 Abby and Matt prob won't be moving they just had talked there whole family into moving there. If anything they will just buy extra place
Couldn’t pay me to live in Cali. And you just had a home built. Your kids need stability.
Hi, Derik and Sara. I love watching your videos. I live with my family just outside of Los Angeles. I moved here from Iowa to go to college and never left. I love the big city, nearby beaches and mountains. San Diego has better weather and is not as crowded as LA. The water is warmer in the fall and warmer as you go farther south. But nothing like the beaches in Hawaii. I suggest visiting different parts of CA to find out more about it. The state is huge and has so many variables. If you're thinking of public school for your kids, look into where to find the best school districts. If you can afford private schools, then it won't be so hard to find good ones.
Best wishes always! ❤️🧡
As someone who grew up with parents whose jobs kept them relocating from places to places and so we also had to move from one house to another house in a short period of time, it was hard for me and my siblings especially during our school years. We missed a lot of academic opportunities. It was also hard for us to have close friends as we kept on transferring schools, so we only had temporary friends that we lost contact with. Piece of advise, don't let your kids suffer from the same experience me and my siblings had because there would be a lot of regrets that they would only realize as they get older. 😢
We left Southern California (born and raised there) in 2022 and would NEVER move back. In fact, my siblings are going to moving out of the state as well. It is not what it once was. Utah is a 1000's times better. The politics, school system, etc. it stinks. My kids are so much happier where we live now.
I'm sure the commenters here wouldn't want their 'freedom to choose' messed with. Each of us have to make choices in life even if it's changing the road we travel or the home/house/box/shed we live in. You do you while I enjoy ur family videos.🫶❤️🪄✨👍
Pretty crazy when the Country is so nuts
Not when you have money!
Es gibt ein Sprichwort bei uns in Deutschland, je mehr hat, je mehr er will. Was momentan auf dieser Welt passiert sollte man doch zufrieden sein, sie sind Gesund haben zwei Kinder und Geld, warum so unzufrieden mit ihrem Leben
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@@dorisjapes7423not only in Germany. 😊
Sadly these two are looking for happiness in material things -- a different house, clothes, nail appointments. I encourage them to slow down, look inward, find meaning & inner happiness. I'm concerned they are running after empty things.
Superficial. Sad. 😢
That is what money and fame does to people.
WHAT ARE THEY MOVING AGAIN
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How fun it will be to live close to Lo and Tanner! I think you all will love that! Jack is soooo coordinated and athletically gifted! His eye/hand coordination is remarkable for his age! The bike riding, balancing on a mini surfboard and skateboard and snowboard last year and before that, amazed me!
Don't they already live close to them? Or do I not know something? Because I thought the house they had built was just a couple blocks from them.
@@LaylaOlsenI thought they lived in Utah also
Wow, you guys just moved into that house you had built. I think your nuts
Stay in Utah . If you sre feeling empty you know whatd missing . The Spirit is calling you.
Such a good comment.
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I feel like Derek or Sara won’t truly be happy until they move back to Hawaii. I love watching your videos but the last few have been sad vibes.
Totally sad!
I live in lived all over California at the present moment in northern California don't move your family here its one of the worst state outside of Chicago here in USA to not raise your kids many healthy safe loving blessing from our heavenly father above❤
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Derik, you are such a sweetheart. Sarah, be careful you aren't disrespecting him too much just bc he's got such a kind heart. You boss him around and interrupt him.
The East coast (Atlantic) or the Gulf of Mexico, near Surfside, Texas
is the best place to surf. But it doesn’t compare to Hawaii. Raise them babies somewhere you know you love! Mainland shouldn’t matter, as long as you have a trustworthy support system for the kids, when needed, that’s all that really matters ❤
I moved a lot growing up. I’m in my 60’s now. Thru out my life I have moved a lot also. Stay in your home you built. Make grand memories with you kids. You don’t want them to move a lot, they will remember all move and all the stress the family went through with each move. Plant roots and grow your family from there. Good Luck!
Why did this house not work out? Was I mistaken, thinking you had it built? Question 2. Have you decided to not move back to Hawaii?
Did you watch the video?
@@leisahammonds4479 Yes. After I had already asked the questions.
@@robylove9190 I do that sometimes too.
I watched the video and I still don't understand why they're leaving the house that they just built?
@@CaseyMarie11-11I know in a previous video they were upset about the rental rules of their HOA. They can’t rent their house out while traveling to Hawaii even if they’ll be gone for half the year. Never buy a house with an HOA. I don’t know a single person who doesn’t hate theirs
I thought you built the home your in now?
I can see the happiness just beaming from Derik now that he's physically mobile again! Such a relief! And Sarah, your hair is stunning! Natural beauty can't be beat! 🫶🏻
Wow, bored already? How many times are you going to pick up and move anytime you get the urge to run away? No place is perfect. But, packing up and moving isn't going to change things. Time ro grow up and piant roots. Your kids deserve to have a permanent place to call home.
What are you running from. Stop running. You're looking for prevention in life it doesn't exist. You're so scared that you made a mistake. You keep making them. We love you dearly but your fans see from the outside angel. You're looking from the inside only. We got the bigger view
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There will always be a void in your life. It can only be filled by Jesus our Savior. Ask him to come in to your lives and you will find indescribable joy and contentment.🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Love how your beliefs will fix their lives. So righteous.
@@dennisfeldman7799 Dennis it is not a belief as much as it is a fact. I would never give someone false hope. Why don’t you try it a see? God bless you 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙌
@ldjs265 thank you, but there is no way you can say it's fact. It's your belief system, and that's fine, but don't tell me it's fact.
@@dennisfeldman7799 How about you give me your email and I’ll send you some facts. Then if you still won’t consider the possibility that it’s a fact I will simply pray for you. God will show himself to you if you want.🙏🏼
@@dennisfeldman7799It is fact,she’s right.
They don’t work. That could be why they are never happy where they live. I used to follow them but they are actually boring and predictable. They whine a lot and have no idea how life really works. Influencers? For what?
Beauty fame and wealth don’t last. I predict this is not going to end well. 10-20-30 years from now, the kids will hate you for eliminating their privacy and will have emotional problems, no one will watch this crap anymore, money will dry up and you have no marketable skills, beauty will be gone. Pretty sad. Family vlogging is vile.
It seems that you are struggling with finding a place to plant your roots. You just had this home built to your specifications and now you want to move. I don't think the house is the issue.
Ya think!
OM gosh I remember the days when Derik would steal Jack and his skateboard and run outside so Sarah couldn't put him down for naps.. lol.. those were cute videos. love you guys.🥰
Cute outfits, Sarah! Thanks for your discount code.🥳
Deriks hair looks great .
Sunny strawberry convo. 🍓 ❤
Compared to what?
@@labab1048 compared to before his haircut
Don’t go to CA guys. It sounds nice in theory, I’ve lived in Northern CA since childhood and Southern CA most of adulthood and it sucks. So expensive, traffic is insaaaane, schools are not good, people are not friendly like they used to be..I’m looking to move now because I just can’t deal with it anymore.
@daniellegardner1658 I agree with you about Cali. But the sad part is that's happening in Hawaii, too. Like Cali, more crime, angry people who are unfriendly towards whites, jealous thieves, drug addicts and homeless people. Both Hawaii and California are insanely expensive to live there now. To own a decent home is super expensive in Cali and Hawaii because of really high property taxes. I pray the Beestons will stay close together, near family, to provide more safety, security, and stability for their children. I hope they will save some of their money for whatever lies ahead. They could look into opening a Beeston Family Trust Fund and also, find ways to insure everything they own and life insurance on both parents in case anything happens to one or the other. Car Shield, Home Shield, Lifelock, and Titlelock are also good investments to protect your family.
The capital gains tax is 50% if you sale your house in less than 2 years of ownership. Material things will never satisfy you. Work on your marriage just my opinion but these 2 have seem to have grown apart. Sarah seems as if she isnt really in to him, she seems to have matured which happens after having children and he seems sort of boyish.
I agree, I don't think they look solid anymore.
I'm wondering if she just needs some space after all the care taking when he was laid up after the knee surgeries. She seemed exhausted.
When will you address the hair line surgery
What does that mean? For who?
Who you talking to and/or about?
The last time our city had people gather in the park for fireworks for the fair days, fireworks were exploding only feet from the ground, very close to the crowd. My son was 6 and I was shielding him to keep him from getting hit. Several people around us, including a little girl sitting right behind us, were hit. They ended the show early when a dumpster near the staging area caught fire. It was a literal dumpster fire. The emts were treating people at the ambulance as we walked back to our car.
Now, they set the fireworks off in a central location that can be seen from most homes and several parks with a wide clearance to prevent injuries.
That was 2019 and I only went back to a fireworks show last year. And even then it was a last minute decision on the 4th. It was scary.
This was also in Utah.